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| 1 | Want to be confident? You already are.Man I wish I could fake it...shit. | /r/seduction | 20/09/13 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Want to be confident? You already are.If you never (or rarely) got positive feedback (despite massive self confidence), then how do you know your self confidence is real? Can it all just be imaginary and that's the way it should be? Do you not need any positive reinforcements to earn confidence? I'd rather be on a roller coaster that goes up once in a while than stays level all the time. | /r/seduction | 20/09/13 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Want to be confident? You already are.I appreciate your help, but my last question mentioned nothing about bragging about drawing...I realllly want to know how to translate my confidence in other things into confidence with girls. So far I've heard 'fake it', 'channel it', and 'just believe it' but none of that works (trust me, I've tried!) At some point, don't we need validation from a girl (any girl) that you're desirable? Isn't that part of the treasure? To know that you're wanted and all your confidence is verified? | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 10:53 PM |
| 0 | Want to be confident? You already are.I think that's great advice, but I'm not able to translate professional confidence to social confidence. You're saying there is no "trick" to it? | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 09:06 PM |
| 0 | Want to be confident? You already are.So having talent is not a free pass at confidence (and understandably, one can have 'confidence' that's not validated or 'earned') so my question is, I've tried 'faking' confidence with girls and it doesn't work for me, so how do you "fake" confidence? | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 05:48 PM |
| 0 | Want to be confident? You already are.Well, I'm actually an award winning architect, not just an architectural artist, but I've never been able to use any of that (massive) confidence with girls at all. When I talk about my work I feel like I'm bragging (can't help it!) and that comes off as arrogance? I do know how to have humble confidence, but only with clients. With girls I am just another dude. How can one translate talent to confidence? | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 05:45 PM |
| 0 | Want to be confident? You already are.Mindset, huh. Well I know I'm the best at drawing (won multiple state wide competitions, etc.) but I don't see women as appreciating this because they never comment about it. I was a front page newspaper feature article once and girls could care less. One time I won a competition and had my work on exhibit around the entire United States. Girls reaction: what girls reaction? Question, shouldn't this be a "free pass" at confidence, and if so, why do I feel like it's no big deal? | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Want to be confident? You already are.My drawings are architecture. Is that type of artistry desired by girls? | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Want to be confident? You already are.I'm good at drawing but feel embarrassed talking about it because I feel like it's bragging. How can being good at drawing give me confidence with girls? | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 04:36 AM |
| 7 | From the lips of Julius CaesarTraining + knowledge = confidence. | /r/seduction | 13/09/13 12:53 AM |
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