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| 1 | Women like me nowThe game women are playing, the way they approach relationships. I will give you credit that you probably do repel women who want to play the game because there’s nothing about you to change because you give in and submit from the start. But women wanting to change men and push your boundaries is at the core of relationships between men and women in many cases, there’s plenty of literature on this concept. It’s just progressed and evolved and taken a twisted spin and thus the game as it exist to… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/24 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Women like me nowUnfortunately it is normal behaviour once you understand how the game is played. Once you understand the game, their behaviour makes sense and is very predictable. She can’t control the loss of attraction she feels when you give in to her, you have to control the frame so you don’t give in to her. I don’t think women are doing this on purpose, it’s just in women’s nature to try to tame you, they value having the bad boy submit to them because then they feel like they’ve won. Unfortunately once t… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/24 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Women like me nowShe just said she didn’t think we would work out and weren’t compatible. I’ll admit I didn’t think that was fair because we hadn’t talked about the future or anything deep at that point so idk how she could came to that definitively, but she doesn’t owe me an explanation so that was pretty much it. I also noticed in one long term relationship that a lot of other people were kind of in my ear that I should do more for her and everybody thought she was so great and on the surface I understand that… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/02/24 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Women like me nowIn terms of me personally I can think of every relationship I’ve been in except my relationship in HS because idk what I was even thinking back then and I can’t even remember it really so I take her out of it. I have reflected on my actions in those relationships and I do acknowledge that I made a lot of mistakes in those relationships because I was naive and I didn’t understand how women are and why they do the things they do. I had to figure out why every time I listened and did what they said… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/02/24 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Women like me nowI think you hit the nail on the head asking how do you form a relationship without being vulnerable? You can’t have a relationships without being open and honest but being open and honest destroyed the romantic chemistry you build in then beginning. So it is a catch 22 and why trying to have a relationship with a modern woman is futile. In terms of me personally, obviously things have changed, I used to listen to women and I used to fail their shit tests because of this. luckily things played ou… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/02/24 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Women like me nowYa in the past relationships lasted but not in modern times because they are designed to fail. I don’t want a relationship because as a man getting into a relationship has zero benefits and a lot of risks and responsibilities with no reward. Women have dug in their heels that they aren’t going to bring anything to the table besides their bodies and that all the work and responsibility lies with the man. I don’t want to play the twisted game they are playing, I would want to have a genuine connec… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/02/24 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Women like me nowWell I don’t want a relationship at all so it doesn’t really matter. I don’t think I’ve had bad experiences with women it’s just that men aren’t prepared so when you throw yourself into the fire you get burned and you learn. I literally said I can’t say for sure because I don’t know either of you but the odds of any relationship these days lasting 8 years are very low so that’s my rationale for that, not even based on anything you’ve said to me here, just playing the odds, I’d say the same to an… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/24 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Women like me nowThat’s perfectly fair that you wouldn’t want the women I’ve been with and it goes both ways because I probably wouldn’t want the relationship you have. I don’t think I have a negative view of women, I have a fair view of both women and men. I have a lot of women in my life so long as they’re not romantic relationships it’s all gravy, I’m just fair and honest about what happens in relationships. I don’t know you or her so it’s tough to say but I’d probably say she has 2 maybe 3 years left. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/24 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Women like me nowWomen can want something and still lose attraction and think less of the man who gives it to her that’s not a contradiction. But regardless of all of that, the point is that qI trust my own judgement and discernment above what anybody else tells me. It hasn’t steered me wrong. I understand it’s difficult to take off the rose coloured glasses and separate yourself from societal ideas of love and partnership and look at women for how they actually are, I really do get it. The only thing I can say … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/24 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Women like me nowBlame it on whatever or whoever you want I just say it like it is that heterosexual women want masculine men otherwise they aren’t entirely heterosexual so yes I am generalizing that heterosexual women are attracted to masculine men the same way I generalize that heterosexual men are attracted to feminine women. So yes, I would disagree with the statement that heterosexual women want a man who is emotional and vulnerable because emotional and vulnerable is the opposite of strong dominant and sto… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Women like me nowWell when I say I’ve been with a lot of women a lot of that is just casual sex but also a good amount in relationships. I’ve had more women in my life than men, very common experience for men these days unfortunately so I just paid attention to how they behave. I’ll sum up how most relationships work with a quote Women don’t want men who buy them flowers, they want men who don’t buy them them, so they can turn them into men who buy them flowers, so they can leave them for men who don’t buy them … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/24 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Women like me nowFalse. Without a man who holds frame every relationship is doomed. The reason women ask you to open up isn’t because of some deep desire to form a connection, it’s just to shit test you and see if you are gullible and easily manipulated enough to do what she says. That’s why you maintain frame, women don’t appreciate deep conversations or emotional depth anyways so you have all these men trying to connect with women on a deeper level that doesn’t even exist for woman. Women are allowed to be emo… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/24 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Women like me nowWell if women wanted to be in a healthy functional relationship then they would do that but they don’t. They would pick better men but they don’t, they would communicate directly and openly but they don’t. They wouldn’t shit test but they do.!Actions speak louder than words and almost all of women’s actions show that they would rather play the game. Women don’t want men to be vulnerable because they are vulnerable and emotional because. Women have always entered relationships with the expectatio… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/24 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Women like me nowThe data is also clear on who leaves without a reason and it is women. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/24 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Women like me nowAt the end of the day it really doesn’t matter, you’re gonna run out of options but as a man this is one of the only advantages we have, we have options because we can date younger and don’t have to worry about her income or social status. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/24 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Women like me nowI wasn’t pointing out anything I didn’t say. I never said being single is the worst thing in the world or that she will regret it. How she feels about it is up to her. I’m just dealing in facts, I would say the exact same thing to a man who operates that way except men date across and down so this issue doesn’t exist for them, it only exists in women. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/24 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Women like me nowI’m not trying to tar anyone. You introduced an emotional them to what was previously me being factually that if you insist on only date up and across socioeconomic ladder (which women do) then your options decrease the higher you climb the ladder. Anybody can have whatever standards they want but I’m not wrong for pointing out the logical end result. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/24 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Women like me nowWhen did I say that? Seriously show me where. In fact I said the opposite to someone else here, that women don’t want to be in a normal healthy relationship with a guy they deem to be in the bottom 90%, in this girls case probably 99%, so unless she’s very attracted to you both physically and because you check every box, then I agree she doesn’t think she’s losing out on anything. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/24 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Women like me nowI’m not gonna fight your emotionalism with facts. I laid out the fact that women’s dating pool shrinks because as you climb the socioeconomic ladder there are less and less men above you and thus less men for you to partner with, you can feel however you want about that but the fact remains. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/24 09:07 PM |
| -4 | Women like me nowI’ve been with more than enough women so idk what to tell you on that one. I also never said women only date chad so again idk how to reply. I should clarify 2 things when I say women don’t want to be in a healthy functional relationship with man in the bottom 90%. One, the bottom 90% is not objective, it’s for each women to subjectively decide and that ends up making the bottom 90%, secondly just because their goal is not to have a healthy functional relationship doesn’t mean they won’t date or… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/24 08:57 PM |
| -4 | Women like me nowFalse. The idea of an equal partner is just peak social engineering. Shallow, vague, undefined and doomed to fail, people repeat that line because they are NPC’s who don’t know what they want or are to afraid to say or maybe even to afraid to ask themselves. Women are the mate selectors of our species and they get to decide which behaviour from men is punished and rewarded. Traditional masculine ideals such dominance and leadership are rewarded while men who lack those traits are punished. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/24 08:20 PM |
| 0 | Women like me nowWell I recognize that all women are different in terms of their values, personalities, interests etc but in terms of relationship dynamics I see very little deviation from the norm and by very little I mean like next to zero. The actions I’m referring to is that most women don’t want a healthy functional relationship with a man who’s in the bottom 90% of men, they just want to play the game. They want you to open up and be vulnerable, they might even get upset or beg or act like they really want… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/24 08:08 PM |
| 0 | Women like me nowNo it means you’re going to be single most likely because you will find it difficult to find someone who can satisfy your hypergamy. You’ve followed the same path that many women take, you’ve climbed so high up the socioeconomic ladder and now you are wondering where are the men above you that you can partner with except there aren’t many if any, and the ones who are have too many other options to exercise to commit to you exclusively. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/24 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Women like me nowI absolutely listen to what women say and I compare and contrast that with their actions. Like I said it’s not all women, there are some women who are very take charge and very dominant and I have nothing against those women. I’m just saying on average women are submissive not dominant and so they usually want a dominant man who will be a leader. You can say you want a vulnerable man and I can’t disprove that because I don’t know you but I do know that on average that isn’t true. Women say they … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/24 04:48 PM |
| -24 | Women like me nowMaybe you don’t see the world through hierarchies, but you do place men in a hierarchy because there are ones you want and ones you don’t. Sure you want respect but you want that respect from a man who you deem to be high value. If it comes from a male who you deem to be lower value than you then it doesn’t matter. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/24 04:37 PM |
| -5 | Women like me nowWhen did I say I was redpilled? Congrats on having friends I guess, as if that’s some extraordinary accomplishment. But women do not want soft and vulnerable men, at least they aren’t attracted to it. I don’t consider myself Redpilled but if recognizing that makes me redpill then so be it. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/24 04:26 PM |
| -39 | Women like me nowI agree that the redpill has a lot of negatives to it and men should beware but that doesn’t mean that the opposite is true that women like soft and vulnerable. Most women (not all) are submissive and expect a man to be dominant. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/24 04:15 PM |
| -49 | Women like me nowThat copium make you feel good? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/24 02:05 PM |
| – | how would you define red pillThe Redpill means having a clear understanding of the dynamics that exist in heterosexual relationships. That’s it, short and sweet. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/24 05:06 PM |
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