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RantLiving-Heat1291/r/Divorce_Men12/09/25 07:58 PM
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Living-Heat1291/r/Divorce_Men23/10/25 12:21 AM
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Yeah as others have said, her partners income doesnt matter. But it is somewhat state specific so definitely consult a lawyer. Second, Im with you. Its bullshit that the amount doesnt adjust. Im in a similar situation as my ex married a dude very well off. She actually recently asked for more CS too. I told her to kick rocks.
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/26 07:32 PM
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Ehhhh most of the Hinge likes are probably bots or scammers. Nice try though.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 03:09 PM
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Same. I’ve posted about it too. I wish there was a magic answer, but the only thing Ive found was to just always try and be the better person, and keep any and all things business only. Its very difficult to do but it works to a degree.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/25 05:36 PM
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So she cant just say, hey I need more money, we need to recalculate? And I have to entertain it? Its been maybe two years since we adjusted it. But even then it was due to good will.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/25 01:47 AM
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Noooooo. Lawyer first, gets at least some ducks in a row, review all things financial, then say something. Pause and read a bunch of the stories in this sub at least.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 10:39 PM
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Thank you bro.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/25 01:51 AM
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I feel for you bro. Its one thing I never can understand is how child support is supposed to help maintain the lids quality of life, but on my one salary its only maintainable on her side. Granted the kids are there more, but it doesnt make sense.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/25 01:51 AM
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Oh I know it. But I bet they still do as I know my kids dont see every dollar I send a month.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 05:36 AM
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Thank ya!
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 04:48 AM
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Did have to, but luckily she found a poor guy to marry her. Have to admit, that was a great feeling.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 04:46 AM
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Well now you have to say it. Sometimes simply talking (writing) about it is the best medicine
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 04:45 AM
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The more I think about it, marriage just isn’t necessary. Or, some legally binding agreements need to be put in place beforehand. For one member of the couple to commit to it and then about face and try to burn down the other person without penalty just doesn’t seem right.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 04:44 AM
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Aint that the truth.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 04:43 AM
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Ya know, these are questions Ive asked myself a million times. And all I can say is that when love is high, and attraction, its difficult to put a stop to it. I really cant explain it. My rant is mostly how the system lets her free load even though she basically violated every part of the why you get married in the first place. And I feel like Im the only one, sometimes literally, paying for it.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/25 10:56 PM
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No, not 50/50 mostly due to logistics. Im every other weekend. And I do know overnights factor in, its just the free ride in life she gets while being a horrible person.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/25 09:22 PM
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Thank you friend. Thats all I really needed. We are blessed, its just the principal of the thing. I can work as hard as possible but she can just coast. Its just not right.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/25 09:21 PM
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Ha ha yep no doubt. In this case, a highly manipulative one, but correct nonetheless.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/25 09:20 PM
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Right. On top of that, if you are the top earner, the laws make it far too enticing for the other person to divorce. The concept and laws regarding divorce need to be updated/changed whatever.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/25 05:27 PM
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Personally, speaking from experience, I dont think the concept of marriage works in our current society. It was a concept created hundreds of years ago, if not longer, (Ive not looked it up). But we have evolved beyond it and people still want to try and make it work. So its going to fail. Simple as that. Hate me if you want, just my opinion.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/25 05:20 PM
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