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I was thinking this too. Of course it could be your (OP) intuition telling you something is off, but it could also be this. Even on a less severe level, past shitty relationships with shitty dudes can cause an increase in anxiety. I had a controlling, possessive ex who constantly accused me of cheating. Get a text from the father of the family I nannied for? Cheating. A co-worker (different job) texts me "David Smith is here for our meeting?" Cheating. My jaw hurts from my absolutely terrible TM…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 03:55 PM
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100% this. There is no valid reason for an adult to use the silent treatment, ever. More importantly, how are you not supporting him??? You had literally just brought him and his friend lunch and took his dog for a walk; that sounds pretty damn supportive to me. And this came right after he couldn't be bothered to stop his work for a few minutes to support you on the phone?? Is that the kind of partner you want? Someone who can't pause what he's doing, even for just a few minutes to acknowledge …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 10:19 PM
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I swear, the day I turned 30, all the fucks I used to give to shitty people just evaporated. 30 years of caring waaaay too much about whether or not people saw me as a "good" person (aka a "nice girl") just boop - gone. It was liberating AF to say the least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:11 PM
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That is some truly dystopian Handmaid's Tale level type horror. Let's just ratchet up the objectification of women to 11, huh?? Violent porn is bad enough, but being able to abuse and act out violent fantasies on things that look, feel, and (sort of) act like actual women? The neural pathways being formed; I can't imagine there's any coming back from that. Whenever my optimism convinces myself that the human race might be heading into a healthier, more evolved future, something like this sends m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:27 PM
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If you haven't already done so, gather as much documentation on your disability/medical issues as you can; disability determination approval letter, medical records, diagnoses (all the stuff you had to submit when applying for disability and any relevant records since). If you have any evidence of his abuse/manipulation, get that together as well (screenshots, emails, whatever you have). I'm guessing proof of your income and expenses would probably be helpful too. Print all of it and organize it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:38 PM
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Yeah, that is one of the biggest red flags of all time. Or a dude who is all, "but condoms don't feel as good, waaah." When I was younger and less empowered, I'd be like, "you wanna have sex? You're gonna put on a condom. Period." But now I'd be like, "you care more about your dick than my well-being, you can put on your pants and lose my number, BYE." ... Thank God I at least held the condom boundary when I was younger, because you know a scrote like that is probably diiiiirty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:58 AM
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Good point! Ahh the subtle cues of the patriarchy sneaking into the language we use to leave room for excuses for shitty behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:31 PM
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