LivingLifeRight Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
67	The downsides of becoming a Dark Triad man		LivingLifeRight	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/14 02:56 AM
2	Stop whining and just become a better man.	Meta	LivingLifeRight	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/14 04:35 AM

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2	Stop whining and just become a better man. Interesting perspective. I guess then you could say it's really just about balance of the posts. So then I would just be arguing that too many posts are about 'blue pill examples' instead of how to become redpill.	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/14 12:51 AM
10	Super Gonorrhea Is On The Rise In The US Just gotta wear a condom every time. You should be anyway.	/r/TheRedPill	05/05/14 12:43 AM
1	The downsides of becoming a Dark Triad man All people are inherently selfish, even being altruistic is being selfish. Altruism is definitely not selfish, it is the exact opposite. Here's the wikipedia definition, Altruism or selflessness is the principle or practice of concern for the welfare of others. But I do agree that people are inherently selfish. Very few people in the world are capable of truly improving other people. Even less people actually do it. In my opinion it is the pinnacle of human nature to achieve greatness and spread…	/r/TheRedPill	03/03/14 02:04 AM
1	The downsides of becoming a Dark Triad man I don't envy being you if you genuinely believe those things. You obviously haven't experienced helping another person out before. An example from my life was a roommate I lived with who had anger and school issues. I would help him how by showing him to not let things get to you and to passionately pursue your dreams. He still thanks me for how I helped him and we are amazing friends still. He would kill for me and when people ask him about me, I get nothing but the highest compliments. This ex…	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/14 11:09 PM
1	The downsides of becoming a Dark Triad man I think your definition of acceptable is what I call good and what isn't is what I call bad. I don't agree that only my personal wants are what is acceptable though. And I actually do care about the well being of people around me. Do you care about your Mom, Dad, sister, friends, etc? Of course you do and you want to make them become better people. This will require you being selfless, honest, and empathetic.	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/14 10:49 PM
1	The downsides of becoming a Dark Triad man I think we have different perceptions of good and bad. My sense of good and bad is something I have formed over time. I don't think it is bad to call a girl out when she is shit testing you. I don't even think it is bad to have sex with a girl who has a boyfriend who is actively trying to cheat with you. I think those are just things society has created and are not rules I want to follow. Some examples of good are being a man of my word or helping someone out of a depressed time of their life. S…	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/14 10:36 PM
1	The downsides of becoming a Dark Triad man You are just using it as a self defense mechanism with girls in a sense. That is completely understandable, and I can tell that you have your own sense of good and bad. Although you may think you are acting dark or becoming dark, your awareness of what is good will keep you mentally healthy. You will genuinely feel bad when doing bad or feel good when doing good. The problem is when you get so used to being dark that your sense of good and bad disappears.	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/14 10:17 PM
2	The downsides of becoming a Dark Triad man That's completely fine, I was just presenting an alternate view of how you can live. Everyone should initially focus on bettering themselves and their knowledge of the world. My point is was to show that you can strive to be a good hearted alpha that is inline with TRP. This really applies to people to that have already reached the top. If you are on top then you should be aware of your actions and the impact they have on other people. If you are dark triad at that point, you are just deciding "…	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/14 09:46 PM
2	The downsides of becoming a Dark Triad man Your reaction reminds me of how most people react to great and positive people. It is almost a sense of disbelief. How could I possibly keep my happiness as a high priority while increasing the happiness and value of others around me? It's because I have focused so heavily on bettering myself that I have reached a state of comfort with who I am and the decisions I make. Now I am trying to transcend that and bring that feeling to others because I want to live in a world where I am surrounded by p…	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/14 07:21 PM
1	The downsides of becoming a Dark Triad man There are plenty of reasons why sociopathy hurts your happiness. Difficulty maintaining friends Your world collapsing around you multiple times in your life You never become happy for seeing others succeed, which is a fantastic feeling No one will reciprocate high levels of loyalty because you aren't loyal Getting caught up in your lies There's a lot more reasons, but those were just a few that came to mind. You can only manipulate a person for so long before they start hate the manipulator.	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/14 05:22 PM
1	The downsides of becoming a Dark Triad man I think how you live your life is entirely fair and pretty much captures the DT man. I'm fine with you living your life like that and other people doing that too, nothing I can do about it. I personally want more though, I want to bring the happiness I have brought to myself to everyone else. There are too many fucked up things going on this world and not enough highly capable people trying to stop them, that I almost feel like my goals are necessary in this world. This may seem like 'righteous …	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/14 04:51 PM
2	The downsides of becoming a Dark Triad man And often people aren't in a position to provide to others. This is when you need to focus on your value and improving yourself. You will learn valuable things on the path to making yourself a better man.	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/14 04:45 PM
2	The downsides of becoming a Dark Triad man I completely agree that you have to utilize your advantages against people sometimes. Although you should be doing everything possible to avoid those situations though. It all comes down to your intuition that you have built over the years. Learn to hone it and trust it in times of need. Over time as you prove yourself to the people around you, your intuition starts to become this ethereal power to others. People will come to you knowing you have helpful and pragmatic advice. This general openne…	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/14 04:42 PM
5	The downsides of becoming a Dark Triad man I think you just had to stop being the over the top nice guy. In a sense you just stopped putting pussy on a pedestal and that increased your perceived SMV. That doesn't mean you need to pick up dark triad traits at all. Remember that the key to this is BALANCE. you need to know how to act in different situations. For instance, no one would ever call me confrontational and I generally let things slide because most things that happen are irrelevant. That doesn't mean I'm going to let someone blat…	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/14 04:29 PM
1	The downsides of becoming a Dark Triad man I think how people react to you depends on how you present yourself. If you are able to incorporate someone into something and fully utilize their skills then they don't feel threatened by you. They are a part of what you are doing. Any startup team has the CEO who is probably the best but still has at least a few other people who are comfortable working with him. They all end up succeeding that way. And the good and bad thing strictly refers to your own moral/ethical code and effects on your li…	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/14 06:35 AM
12	The downsides of becoming a Dark Triad man I like the term benevolent alpha. I think it really captures the idea of a man who leads, positively influences everyone around him, and doesn't use his advantages against people. I am constantly trying to improve how I help others around me. There is something about a person telling you that you changed their life for the better. It is a remarkable motivator. These relationships also become lifelong alliances that greatly benefit you in unique ways.	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/14 06:27 AM
1	Why do I bother trying with these feminists I'm not trying to hate, but don't these posts seem counterproductive to what TRP is? I have seen a lot of these posts about some stupid feminist arguing, and it honestly reminds me of /r/atheist childish rebelling against religion with their 'le this' memes. We are supposed to be the men focused on bettering ourselves and ignoring the nonsense. That means when you are not in an advantageous state, you get yourself in a better one. When people are being stupid, you ignore that and remain true to …	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/14 09:51 PM
2	Has the men's rights movement been killed? I feel like the men's right movement is going in the wrong direction. Aren't we the ones who are get so frustrated at others who get complain about their disadvantaged situation. TRP is about taking what you got and making it better, not whining about how it's not fair. My challenge to all MRM guys would be use the time they put into the movement into bettering themselves via lifting, working, learning, improving game, etc.	/r/TheRedPill	21/02/14 03:15 AM
3	Are we going back to the law of the jungle? This is not good for society... Don't forget about the tech/science world where it is easy to spend a majority of your life alone in academia or doing research somewhere. I've seen it far too often in the engineering and computer world where they live overall depressing lives, but their dedication to learning ends up producing some seriously valuable results. Think Nokoli Tesla, I mean from an outside perspective he probably seemed like a beta dude but he still got some amazing done. Although I do think Edison was clearly the …	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/14 05:27 AM
1	White knight beta male falls for secretly-engaged single mom, tragedy ensues Get off your high horse, a lot of the people on this thread started as betas. It's very common for men to never change, hence why this thread was created to spread the word. Have some sympathy for a man who doesn't know any better and got fucked over. Hopefully this event will change his life for the better.	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/14 12:19 AM