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They give you shit for not wanting to go out with them? You're making them feel a bit insecure about their life choices and so they're attacking yours. Since TRP, I'm finding I actually enjoy when people give me shit. It gives me an opportunity to practice not giving a fuck. Agree and amplify is perfect. Good advice. "Yeah. I love having a good time. Having a good time is awesome. If you like having a good time, you should come lift with me some time!"
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 08:33 AM
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Fuck off with your condescension and ignorance. Framing the nature of the relationship is an incredibly useful and alpha thing to do. "This is your role. This is my role. That's the way things are". I feel like a father, explaining the world to a child, sometimes. Only the intelligent ones actually get to receive this level of teachings. Because I'm awesome, I hang out with intelligent and interesting females. I like my women to understand exactly what they are to me and what I am to them. With …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 04:18 AM
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I made it clear to her that she is attracted to me because of my alpha traits. And as such, she should expect nothing but unapologetic alpha behavior from me. "You love a strong, independent man, who does exactly what he wants. Which is good, because I'm planning to continue doing exactly what I want."
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 01:31 AM
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Thanks for the article. It reminds me of a female friend and former plate. She told me "I was on a date at this guy's house. Well, I thought I was on a date, but he never made a move. But anyway...". Dude had the girl in his bedroom, alone, and failed it. This girl is hot, but self-conscious. She is extremely good at hiding her feelings. The only way to tell if she wants to do something physical, is to physically try to make it happen and watch the results. The only reason we hooked up is becaus…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 01:06 AM
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Update: Strike-through on text in the first line to indicate I understand that it's not generally beneficial to try to force the red pill on anyone. I guess I was trying to convey that use of the "Female Animal" terminology is a clever way to get plugged-in individuals to understand some deep truths, and come into line with my/our way of thinking. I'm getting downvoted more than I expected for this post... . Completely. The "female animal" terminology is a great way to force-feed red-pill truths…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 12:48 AM
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If our natural traits are at odds with order, why not cast a favorable eye toward chaos? If society becomes too feminized for men to bear, this is exactly what will happen. We know because it happened in Black culture. Update: How Black America Has Predicted Our Future
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 12:34 AM
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The key to going cold when she goes cold is to straight-up stop paying attention to her. Continue on with whatever you were doing if she weren't stone-walling you. Eventually, she will have to resume communication or else she will have essentially broke up with you over something really stupid. And if she is willing to push it that far, it doesn't matter how hurt her feelings got, you don't want to be with someone like that.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 03:58 AM
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Haha. Holy shit. Really? Now I know you're trolling.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 02:13 AM
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Instituting dread is about causing emotional hurt and then not backtracking. If she takes offense and goes cold, this is her way of trying to win you back to her with "I'm sorry babe. I didn't mean it" etc... It's her way of inflicting some pain on you (whether she realizes it or not) in order to get a reaction she wants (your increased expression of care for her). When you make it clear to her, by your actions, that you will only give her increased expression of emotion after she does something…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 01:12 AM
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Your ugly face will not stop you from fucking beautiful chicks. Only you will. If you commit yourself to understanding and implementing Red Pill Theory and Seduction Theory, you will get more pussy than you thought you ever could. Have you read, "The Game", "Double Your Dating", "The Mystery Method", RSD forums, etc...? TL;DR - Women are addicted to feels. Make them feel lots of different exciting things and they will become addicted to you. It doesn't matter how ugly or stupid you are. Or what …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 01:02 AM
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The number one thing that girls find attractive is a man with a strong and confident frame. A man who knows his view of the world, knows what he wants, and who goes about getting it. Actually, the number one thing that girls find attractive is the feelings they get when they are around a guy. Men with confident and strong frames often intrigue them and excite them, challenge them and surprise them. Men with strong and confident frames have some idea about what makes life good and worth living, a…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 12:48 AM
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I want her to understand that she's lucky if I'm still with her when she returns She should really relish the opportunity to connect with you in any way. Women love to communicate - talk, text, whatever. Make every action witty, fun, edgy, enjoyable for her. Always be flirting. Always be making incredulous statements. Never stop surprising her with the "crazy" shit you say. Women are addicted to feels, and the more different things you can make her feel, the more she'll want to get back in touch…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 12:39 AM
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A trolled girl is a happy girl. Just keep trolling her. Keep it cocky and funny. Do everything on your own terms. Never be serious. If she manages to make you ever feel serious, just close your mouth until you can think of something light-hearted to say. Her: "You wouldn't cheat on me would you?" You: "I would never cheat on you. Unless I got really horny". Her: "Stop. This isn't funny. I'm really concerned." You: "Good. I'm glad you're concerned. What are you going to do about it? How do you pl…
/r/askTRP15/04/15 09:43 PM
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Haha. Right. Okay, the Kip Moore test. Maybe it'll become a thing.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 09:28 PM
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That's a good test, but I prefer the simple test, "is this the way I want to be treated?" If the answer's no, I start making life hard for her - busting on her - until she recognizes me as a force to be reckoned with. I never made it clear to my ex-wife that she had to be concerned with my emotions. If she did something that upset me, I might tell her about it, but I never fueled my frustration into action which made her uncomfortable. When a woman starts to treat you disrespectfully, you need t…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 09:21 PM
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Good job. Great post. Thanks for that. You stupid fucking idiot. Judgments, all of them. It's no wonder you gained these realizations through your meditations. Meditation allows us to distance ourselves from ego-identification and moralistic judgment. One trick that's suggested for dealing with compliments or criticisms from others is to hold the feedback at a metaphorical arm's length and examine it for value. Allow in what is useful. Reject what is not. Screen out the emotional component of th…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 09:10 PM
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He'll be back. They always come back. This is a fucking support group, especially in combination with /asktrp. This is a gold-mine of information and support. A place to share insights and receive them. A place to mull over the science of living life to the fullest in a male-safe space. Good luck to you dude. Going alone into the wild, trying to make it by your wits alone, with one data point of real experience as your guide. You get upset that others have so much success spinning plates that yo…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 08:50 PM
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I've read most of the side-bar, but this is a brilliant link. Re-posted in entirety, with lots of proper respect given to heartiste: Eggs are expensive, sperm is cheap. Every psychological dynamic you see playing out in mass societies liberated from artificial constraints on the sexual market flows from this premise. This means, as a systemic matter, women are coddled, men are upbraided. Women are victims, men are victimizers. Women need a leg up, men need to man up. Women have advocacy groups, …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 08:39 PM
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Right. The safe and secure society we have built, with its laws and regulations has begun to be infiltrated by women. Because they are more skilled communicators and manipulators, they will continue to successfully stack the deck against men. If we had a brotherhood of sorts, we might be able to mount some level of real resistance...
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 08:35 PM
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Language creates culture. The words we use here describe universal principles and truths and simultaneously separate us from others who react to our language. I have had success broaching red pill concepts to blue pill women through the use of modified language. "There's the guy you love because he makes you feel secure and there's the guy you love because he fucks you like an animal. Right?" They always agree. I continue, "The problem with society today is that too many women have made it a hab…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 08:23 PM
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The point is well taken. TL;DR for below: To maximize life satisfaction, we should derive pleasure from social interactions to the maximum degree possible. Emotions and the ability to empathize with others are helpful for this. While we cannot relate to everyone sexually, we can relate to everyone and anyone via their emotions, because all humans have the capacity for a shared set of emotional states. By dampening one's ability to feel emotion and empathize with emotion expressed by others, one …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 07:49 PM
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My buddies and I call this the takeaway and we use it on each other for fun. My buddy was hemming and hawing over whether he was going to be able to make it to my birthday brunch - a $40 value. I told him I'd pay his share (I drink his beer all day and night; so it's more than fair). After a week of more hemming, I told him that now I'd only offer to pay half his cost. He laughed and called me a bastard. "You're trying to do the takeaway on me! You bastard." TL;DR Dread game can be fun for all p…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 02:29 AM
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Because I guide meditations and have been meditating since I was five... There are two fundamental foundational meditation techniques. I've found that alternating the two makes for an invigorating experience that is both calming, focusing, energizing and enjoyable. I look forward to meditating not only for what it brings, but equally because the anticipation and actual practice of it are enjoyable as well. Concentration Meditation (Samatha) Mindfulness Meditation (Vipassana) 1. Concentration Med…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 05:11 AM
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Great points. Are you really willing to put the needs of some sorry beta you've never met before your own sexual satisfaction (and hers)? Maybe. If I know I'm not going to LTR this girl, and if I actually care for her well-being as a person, then I might not find the same joy in making her into my filthy dirty whore. It may be perfectly reasonable to ignore female agency. They are such emotional creatures, that they DON'T choose to do anything. Choice implies logical thought. They simply act bas…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 01:58 AM
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Unpopular comment here. This makes us monsters. When we push the boundaries and absolutely dominate women beyond what they thought was capable, we are effectively destroying any chance they have of giving their LTR of choice what he wants and what she would ideally like to give him. We are the ones breaking these women.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 08:51 PM
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Positive affirmations are an incredibly powerful form of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP). Thanks for these ones.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 09:27 PM
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how do I help myself feel like I belong with others, and not feel inferior to them? Imagine that all these people are nervous inside as well. Imagine that they are grateful for your presence and privileged to be in your presence, even if you're in a shitty mood. It took me a while to realize that social people are social because they are afraid to be alone, not because they're so self-confident. Then I realized that they like other people (like me) to be around just for the sake of it. I don't h…
/r/askTRP07/04/15 02:53 AM
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Thanks for this. I think you're right that it was a comfort test and that I could have passed it. Emotional commitment is much more important to women than sexual commitment Yes, and when we men make it about sexual commitments as I did ("If you want me to be sexually exclusive then you're out of luck"), we're just demonstrating that we don't "get it". These women-folk want something else. Perhaps its this "emotional commitment" that you speak of. Put in different words, she wanted a way of fram…
/r/askTRP07/04/15 01:14 AM
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The Dalai Lama is very kind, but he doesn't hardly do anything for anybody, materially. Cultivating a kind compassionate heart will make you feel connected with other people and want to be of benefit to them. Being red-pill aware will make you realize that the best way to be kind to others is to first be kind to yourself. Well ordered compassion starts at home. When we find joy and satisfaction in life, we can share that energetic vibration with others. This is the true demonstration of kindness…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 11:49 AM
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This is one of the most powerful posts I've read thus far. And it's in the sidebar... Take home point? READ THE SIDEBAR. My bad. Thank you. Moving on.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:19 PM
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I was thinking we should start a TRP dating site for women - a place where they could finally find real men.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 02:05 AM
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How can a woman teach me how to be a man? Exactly. This is like the dawn of a new brotherhood of men. All committed to the successful reeducation as to what constitutes being a man.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 01:57 AM
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This was an incredibly helpful reply. Thank you so much. Do I owe my mom an un-payable debt? No, you do not. It means a lot to hear somebody else say that. Thank you. My mom, who I love dearly, has been emotionally in pain her entire life and has not infrequently blamed that on me (non-verbally, but very clearly). I'm in my thirties now and am only home for 6 months, before moving out of the state again. We've been mostly out of touch for 10 years. I only agreed to move back in after she had rea…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 10:52 AM
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This is amazingly helpful. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 10:16 AM
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I have never seen anyone so eloquently lay it out. Thank you. Question: What do you do with parents who say "I need you to do something for me". It's like some mafia shit with my mom sometimes. It's like there's this huge debt that I supposedly owe her for the fact that she gave birth to me and raised me. Even as I type that, I wonder if it's true. Do I owe my mom an un-payable debt? APOLOGY: Sorry dudes for bringing in mom issues. But this is the one woman in my life who still is able to fuck w…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 02:17 AM
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When women talk about wanting their men to be romantic like during the time of initial courtship, what they really mean is they want to feel the tingles all over again. It's all about giving them the v-tingles.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 02:09 AM
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He can now trust that she will act in accordance with AWALT, and he can act accordingly to get her to provide him with the things that he enjoys in the relationship - sex, admiration, emotional support, cuddling, house-keeping, possibly helping with the rent, possibly raising any kids. This is the new trust. We trust that they will cheat, given the right circumstances, and so we ensure that we control the circumstances so that we get what we want.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 02:00 AM
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Ha ha. You're on the money man, and you're way ahead of the curve with your red-pill knowledge and your non-pessimism and your awesome girlfriend who massages you while you study. We have to be understanding of the pessimistic woman-haters here. So many of them, of us, have been cruelly manipulated and deceived by females. How much pick up theory have you read? If you read and understand the theory and tools described in "The Game" by Neil Stauss, "Double Your Dating" by David DeAngelo, and "The…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 01:51 AM
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Yes, I have had some success with hot blondes. Most were just sweet girls 7s or 8s who liked to have a little fun – not the crazy party girls. One exception though - my all time best (non f-close) pull was of an off-duty 19 year old blonde stripper. I physically pulled her into the bathroom for a hard make-out and grope session while her orbiter waited for her in the bar. Later on she comped me into her strip club and I made out with her and rubbed her twat through her clothes on the bar stool. …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 01:21 AM
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So I have some detailed advice to give. First a commentary on other advice: Step Zero: When he isn't home, remove everything from his room... Install an external latch on his bedroom door so you can lock it from the outside. This is good advice. Discuss this with your wife, this begins the moment you pick him up from school tomorrow. You both need to present a unified front. This seems like a good idea until you realize two other things: 1) Your 11 yo son is more alpha than you right now. 2) he …
/r/askTRP19/03/15 12:54 PM
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Best answer here so far. I also think there is something more primal about having sex without a condom. It demonstrates your total desire for her - that you want to be in her completely and you won't let anything get in the way. She wants to feel you dominate her. She wants to feel every inch of you, and the idea of some flimsy rubber thing between you and her just isn't sexy. If it was sexy she'd dig it. But it's not. It's utilitarian. It's like wearing a calculator-wrist-watch to bed, around y…
/r/askTRP19/03/15 10:11 AM
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Holy shit. They stone women to death in your country? Where do you live? If that's true, then no worries, she's not going to cheat on you. Still, keep an eye on her, I would say. Know where she is and who she's spending her time with and make sure you trust those people. Don't let her hang out with people you don't like or trust, I would say. That's saving her from herself. She doesn't want to cheat. She wants to be loyal to you. She wants to love you and be loyal and not be a slut. She doesn't …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 10:01 AM
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Ouch. Ha. Sometimes you just have to laugh and carry on. Not taking yourself seriously is a sign of supreme confidence. Nothing anyone says can really offend you because no one else's opinion really matters. If it were me, and I was inwardly stinging a bit, might say something to my girl later like "I don't know what that guy was talking about, This shirt is awesome!" (no matter what the shirt looks like). That'd help us both frame it as "I think I'm awesome no matter what."
/r/askTRP19/03/15 09:50 AM
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I think this is a great reply except for ...so I'm not willing to break up with her over this Putting myself in an alpha frame, in that situation, I think I'd say the following: "Hey. We need to talk. I don't want you hanging out with your friend anymore. It's not okay with me." If she rebuts and tries to argue and says "he's just a friend", or "you're making a big deal out of it for no reason", or "you don't control me, I'm going to hang out with him anyway" The follow up response would then be…
/r/askTRP19/03/15 09:36 AM
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Look for local events that girls would be interested in - art openings and shows, book signings, poetry readings, jazz festivals, fairs, concerts, museum exhibitions, college and church activities, cat or dog shows, dance performances, 5K runs, radio station events. Also seek out activities in which you actively do things with others - bike riding groups, political activities, environmental causes, pool hall competitions, community activities, various kinds of clubs and volunteer works. This is …
/r/askTRP19/03/15 09:19 AM
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You scare me. I like that. I want a cut of what you're going to make out of yourself, because I have a feeling it will be materially impressive - though I have some concern for your emotional and spiritual well-being. And I don't know why I would give advice to a psychopath, because I believe in doing things for the common good. Which is why I'm not going to be as rich as you. Which is why I want a cut. ANYWAY, I guess I care about my own ego more. I guess I want you to stroke it and say "oh wha…
/r/askTRP19/03/15 09:02 AM
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I love hot blondes. It sounds like you're intellectual, and the hot blonde party girls are not. Go be a bartender and party hard for six months, destroy some brain cells. You'll learn to have fun and let loose on a whole different level. The intellectual side of you just drops away and you're constantly in zone and present and looking for the funniest, edgiest, forward comment you can get away with, and they love it. TL;DR Party girls love a party boy.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 07:29 AM
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You're right. Not all girls will cheat on their Beta in order to sleep with an Alpha, but only because the circumstances might not allow it. This is exactly why some cultures have chosen to stone women to death for cheating...
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 07:16 AM
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I hear what you're saying. Thanks for taking the time to elaborate your point and on being respectful in your manner of disagreement. I see that I may have been a bit overzealous here.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 04:25 AM
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The power to influence how people feel, how they think, what they want to do is the power worth fighting hardest for. No amount of money can get a girl to fall in love with you. But when you have great social power, you can induce feelings in her that make her want to do whatever it is you want her to do. She'll bend over backwards, she'll bend forwards, she'll give you massages and make you dinner, and she'll be happy about it. Power is being able to put your mom in line and have her walk away …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 02:58 AM
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The good news here is that we are putting ourselves in the top 5% just by virtue of studying this shit so hard and applying it in our lives. We are going to help each other evolve into some powerful fuckers. Money isn't power. Looks aren't power. Power is power. Amiright?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 02:16 AM
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