| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 78 | Today I saw game in real life | Fundamentals | Living_Promotion9714 | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 04:07 AM |
| 43 | Going the Zyzz route | Fundamentals | Living_Promotion9714 | /r/seduction | 08/05/25 01:23 AM |
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| 20 | Being the only loner in your friend groupI was into game for an year. Watched countless videos like from RSD, met many wings, etc. And I did both daygame and nightgame but I didn't have much success. Then obviously when you don't have success, what does this sub recommend you? Something along the lines of:- "Your game is not good. You probably come off awkward" "Just hundred approaches? Bro you gotta approach at least 2000 times" So I just left game, now I only focus on gym, improving my style and making money. No matter what people sa… | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Some guys just have itYou need to improve your looks. Don't let people gaslight you by saying your game sucks. Anyone who says looks don't matter is trying to scam you. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 10:52 PM |
| 3 | 3 greatest PUAs of all timeWomen are even more visual than men Exactly. In fact there has been a research paper about this:- https://gwern.net/doc/psychology/personality/2023-costa.pdf This paper alone proves women are more visual than men. I don't want to give the exact finding of their research because if I write it down here, people are gonna hate me for it. But for those who are interested, go to page 5 and look at the two graphs. Understand them and you will realize why most guys don't get matches on Tinder and why t… | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 01:05 PM |
| -52 | What’s the sexiest move a guy made that totally blew your mind?The sexiest move any guy can do for a girl is:- Be 6'5 or above Have a 10/10 face -> Good jawline, positive canthal tilt, etc Be son of a wealthy CEO That's it. | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 03:36 AM |
| 8 | I got my first date... I'm happy.Bro you are a simp. Even if you date her now, she knows she is in a position of power because you did so much favor for her without her even earning for it. I hope it works out for you, man. And I hope I am wrong. But good luck still. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 02:26 AM |
| 12 | Men, avoid this one mistake when going out on your own in the hopes of getting laidthat guy is not even hitting the gym Bro, he is homelander | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Going the Zyzz routeI have used many different openers. | /r/seduction | 08/05/25 01:56 AM |
| 5 | Going the Zyzz routeAt least worth trying (like with cold approach). | /r/seduction | 08/05/25 01:50 AM |
| 5 | Dealing with shock on approachYou could have said "Oh sorry, I didn't mean to scare you" with a smile while backing away from her and then see if she calms down or not. If she doesn't, yeah eject. | /r/seduction | 08/05/25 01:37 AM |
| 36 | Is approaching just for normal dudes ?I had a wing who looked like a chad. He got an instant date in his second or third approach but then he said something bad to the girl and she left him. My chad wing never used dating apps because he thinks its gay. He is high school drop-out but his father is rich asf so he has no money problem. He is white, tall, muscular. Did 5k approaches in his life and fucked a lot of girls. I asked him how many flakes he got and he said "A lot. I can't even count them". | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Why Cold Approach is a Numbers GameMaybe you are right, maybe you are not about the height part. But you are wrong about the skills are not needed part. Guys who are good with girls usually have these skills:- Very less approach anxiety Confident asf Unreactive Good verbal game Good at compliance building Persistent but not pleading Social skills to isolate the girl and/or win over her friends Good escalation Good calibration Good logistics And how can you say looks don't matter? Lol. Looks matter a lot. If you don't look good en… | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 03:14 AM |
| 3 | Why Cold Approach is a Numbers GameJulien is 5'11 and pickup is not always smooth. Many cringe approaches happen. I do not disagree the effects of looksmaxxing in cold approach. Looksmaxxing should be a priority. But skills also matter. | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 02:56 AM |
| 5 | Why Cold Approach is a Numbers GameIf you think Todd V and RSD Julien didn't have skills and only relied on looks, you are wrong. | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Across the Board, What is Biggest Hurdle to Dating/Hooking Up with Girls?Actually you right, yeah. | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Guys who do cold approach, what success have you had, what was the best experience you had as an instadate for example?Now it 400 approaches and 3 dates. | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Across the Board, What is Biggest Hurdle to Dating/Hooking Up with Girls?I have done game in some cities in Poland and clubs are 80% guys and 20% girls. Most guys approach there or just get drunk and start escalating on girls without talking (especially sex tourists). In Germany, guys usually open indirect or don't approach much but I have only been to one city in Germany. Only Eastern Europe city that I have seen is safe from sex tourists is Prague although I haven't been to many places yet. There guys don't usually approach. I dunno where you live. | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 12:09 AM |
| 13 | Across the Board, What is Biggest Hurdle to Dating/Hooking Up with Girls?Here's my list (from most to least impact):- For nightgame:- Competition with other guys Her friends/cockblockers Logistics White knights For daygame:- Logistics White knights | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 11:36 PM |
| 1 | What is the meaning of cold approaching?I remember my first approach, it felt like I might get a heart attack. Although even after my first 70 approaches, my approach anxiety never went away. It has become a lot less now, but it is still there. However, what worked for overcoming approach anxiety for me was to enhance my state by watching motivational videos before I approach. For example, I watched RSD Julian's inner game videos before I approach and it worked for me. If you want I can DM you the links. But nowadays I remember these … | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 02:35 PM |
| 4 | What is the meaning of cold approaching?Here is my personal experience:- Before cold approach 25, never held hands with a girl 0 dates on online dating apps. Binge watching romance anime and careermaxxing to let go of this loneliness One female friend I tried on, friendzoned me Used to hang out with guys/girls who had 0 social circle game like me After cold approach Got dates with two girls and many instant dates Got my first ever gf Kissed multiple girls Intimate moments with girls I thought were out of my league My social circle gam… | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Guys who do cold approach, what success have you had, what was the best experience you had as an instadate for example?Usually these two:- Sorry, but I have to go I have a boyfriend Although I don't really get that many rejections, I get numbers often. They just flake 💀 | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Guys who do cold approach, what success have you had, what was the best experience you had as an instadate for example?No idea bro. Lots of scammers online. Just try it yourself and see if it works, I believe both my SMV and game needs improvement so now I stopped counting my approaches. I still approach when I get the chance but the current objective is to improve my SMV (gym, style, etc) and my game (read more theory). Currently I don't have much expectations from approaches. I consider them as blind luck or lottery. At least I am out of the fairy world where people sell cold approach as a magic pill. If you n… | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Guys who do cold approach, what success have you had, what was the best experience you had as an instadate for example?I mean you don't have to believe me. Best way to know if something works is try it yourself. | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 03:01 PM |
| 18 | Guys who do cold approach, what success have you had, what was the best experience you had as an instadate for example?200 cold approaches. Got my first two dates with 2 different girls (probably blind luck?) in my first 10 approaches. In my next 190 approaches, I went for 3 instant dates (I didn't go for instant dates often even if the girl was interested), got some numbers but all flaked. However, I also did some self-ejections or said fucked up shit to girls who were really receptive. My game sucks. But at least this is real world data unlike those PUA scammer on youtube who get dates every 2nd or 3rd approac… | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Today I saw game in real lifeGlad you liked it. | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Today I saw game in real lifeYeah. And Julian here means Julian Blanc. Not suggesting you should follow any of those. I followed Julian because he got me few results but only once or twice (maybe blind luck?), after that I just got nothing but rejections. Alex follows Todd. I haven't watched him much. But I think I should now. | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 12:23 PM |
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