LivingtoLearn31 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Tips to become a SAHM Agreed.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/12/25 07:13 PM
2	Tips to become a SAHM Understood.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/12/25 07:07 PM
2	Tips to become a SAHM THIS !!!! I’m just trying to give food for thought so that women are counting the cost of these choices. It’s not meant to discourage or even persuade. Thank you for this take.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/12/25 07:04 PM
2	Tips to become a SAHM And THIS is the perspective I was trying to bring but perhaps not worded in the best way.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/12/25 07:01 PM
0	Tips to become a SAHM I gave OP solid advice based on real life experiences of how assumed expectations and assumed agreements can impact a marriage and how she handles her role as a SAHM. I disagree that I discouraged her from becoming such. I’m giving her the blueprint to excel at such and win. I’m giving her what others didn’t give me because none of them were married or at home. Not sure how that’s being interpreted as something negative. I don’t think you’re comprehending my sentiments on preparation and being e…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/12/25 12:51 AM
1	Tips to become a SAHM Are you a SAHM ? If so , what things from your upbringing do you feel contributed to you taking care of your home well ? What mindsets or attitudes supported your role well? I didn’t say it can’t be done, I just said what would be beneficial. A working mother does not tend to all the needs of all her children round the clock. Telling working women that these roles are similar is a sure way to set them up for failure. It is very hard to be a CONTENT SAHM. Again, you have to groom yourself for suc…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/12/25 11:53 PM
14	Tips to become a SAHM “How do I make sure we’re on the same page” This is what bothers me about us as women. We hear what a man says and choose to not hear or accept it. This man is clearly telling you what he WANTS. You are NOT on the same page. What you’re asking is how to MAKE him submit to your will. I was a SAHM and I’m now back in the work force. The role is something you can’t just say you want before marriage but you have to be equipped and groomed for the responsibilities that come with managing a home with …	/r/RedPillWomen	08/12/25 10:27 PM
21	The fastest a man has proposed to a woman My husband proposed after 7 months. We’re still married over a decade later. We’re both believers and he was 29 and I was 21 at the time. We met at church. We both had a history of relationship trauma and knew that we were ready to make radical changes in our lives. One thing I can say I know from conversation with my husband is that you can’t MAKE a man want to marry you. He just has to be READY. When he’s ready and encounters a woman that carries the characteristics of a wife he becomes locked…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/03/25 11:46 PM
8	How to not become bitter and careless after a sexual experience with someone you thought was gonna work out I’ve BEEN here. My first time experience was a mess because I didn’t see it coming and at the time it was known that I was abstinent and waiting for the right one. The resentment and bitterness turned me into someone I never expected. I acted recklessly with my body made very compromising decisions and it wasn’t too long before the backed up emotional effects and trauma I was trying to escape came crashing down on me. Here’s what changed things. My worth isn’t tied to my virginity I needed to fo…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/25 04:30 PM