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| 4 | If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life?Let’s not forget that women are much more likely to lose a significant other when they get sick or diagnosed with cancer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girlsWhy don’t you stop worrying about what other people decide to be interested in. Find the person you love and ignore the rest. Let people love who they love and if that is someone fit ending up with someone not so fat, don’t overthink it. It’s none of your business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 04:46 AM |
| 4 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...This whole the world just isn’t fair crap doesn’t help anybody. It’s why rape still gets thrown under the table. Life isn’t fair but we are smart enough and capable enough to fix it. And no a man shouldn’t just push his feelings to the side and not be a human being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 01:46 AM |
| 9 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...Actually no. When a woman has standards that are less than too high, people look at her like she’s dumb. When a girl wants a gamer, when she’s in love with someone who is disabled, anything other than someone that someone deems on her level or above, she gets treated like she’s stupid or settling. People think I’m way too cute for my boyfriend. They think that my boyfriend is a drain on me simply because he’s disabled. But he’s been my best friend for almost 20 years and I love him. And he treat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | So how many sex partners means a woman is "riding a cock carousel"?Whore is an ugly word people use when they don’t get what they want. You could be a virgin and still a man’s gonna call you a whore for not wanting him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.It’s the way you worded it when you first said it. You were the one that said in fact I find them disgusting when they wear too much make up. Why did you feel the need to put that in there? And you keep bringing it back to a sexual manner, you finding them attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.I’m glad you don’t do that. Doesn’t mean that a lot of men see a lot of women as the person to take care of the house, then expect them to also bring in a secondary income, take care of the children, do all of the outside of house chores… All while all they do is bring in part of the income. And yet they’ll call it 50-50. I didn’t assume you did anything, I asked. You answered. And I’m happy for your wife that she has a good man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.See the problem is you’re changing me saying the fact that you only find value in women you find attractive the same as you finding all women attractive. I don’t give a fuck what you’re attracted to. I don’t give a fuck what you’re not attracted to, both of those things are internal and you can’t do anything about them. What I do find disturbing though is the fact that you literally call women who wear more make up than what you find attractive disgusting. That you can’t see the time, the effort… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.It’s not about you being attracted or not being attracted. It’s a fact that you said you find them disgusting for wearing make up. That’s the part that is disturbing. But you can’t see the beauty in someone without being attracted to them therefore anyone who is not Tractive to you is disgusting. There are a lot of people that I don’t find attractive that I find beautiful. There are a lot of people that I would not get near with a 50 foot pole in a sexual banter, but I would still hype them up a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.Oh sweetheart, having a child is not a woman’s choice. It’s something her body does, and maternity leave pay is not full-time pay. And women who work stay at home jobs actually can maintain more of their pay yes, but a lot of the time they are forced to take extra time off. And it’s not a life choice if it literally does not affect men the same way it does women even though men make the same choice. If a man chooses to have children he does not have to go to the hospital and give birth to a chil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.OK so here’s another one for you, you’re saying it’s because of different expectations and different life choices… In a relationship how much of the house work do you expect to do as a man? How much of the cooking and cleaning do you expect to do as a man? How much time do you expect to spend raising your children as a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.Right because the women who are starting a movement to stop that are changing the perception of make up. As just another form of art because no one should be denied the right to do some thing that they think makes them feel beautiful. There’s an entirely different set of women who are outright refusing to wear make up, but they’re not stopping other women from wearing make up because that’s their right. The whole point of the women movement is for women to have the right to do what makes them ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.The problem is in those countries women are considered less valuable therefore they have to have different choices in employment. So no, that one is biased. And there are some countries where women and men are equal and there is no pay gap. We’re not talking about generally all over the world, we are talking about the fact that you’re saying it does not exist at all, and it does exist. And yes there are about 25% of the hours per week gap between men and women. But that’s because of yet again a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.OK so do you expect men to shave as well? You do realize that women’s razors are a lot more expensive than men’s right? And you do realize that the pay gap gets worse for women when they don’t wear make up? They’re not considered professional enough if they don’t wear make up. So even if you don’t find it sexy. Other people don’t find it professional so it’s not up to you. And make up isn’t about a low self-esteem it’s about being taken seriously, sometimes it’s just about expressing oneself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.Lol right. Like you’ve never once looked at a woman and thought, she should do something about that face. She should wear some make up, she should make herself more presentable... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.Cite your sources please, because here are mine. As of this year, the pay gap is stronger than ever and women of color are actually the ones that suffer the most. https://www.census.gov/newsroom/stories/equal-pay-day.html It has not been debunked, so no. For information I fight for a lot of men’s issues, such as men not receiving equal aid, men being the victims often not being believed, and many other men’s health issues. I don’t hate men, I love men, I am in a healthy relationship with a man. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 01:40 PM |
| 1 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.I am a woman who would prefer to split the bill. I don’t want anyone holding anything over my head, there’s always that chance I’m going to end up on a date with someone who would think that they magically are owed something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 01:24 PM |
| 1 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.They say that, until they see one. Or until they date one and they call her lazy for not putting an effort into her appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.You do realize that the wage gap is part of the reason why women expect men to pay, I don’t agree with men paying for the first date either. But the leap you’re making… You do realize women put a lot more into a date generally than men right? Do you know how much makeup is? Do you know how much women’s clothing cost versus men? Do you know how much women’s hygiene products cost versus men? All of it cost a lot of money. Do you know how much time women put into their appearance for a first date v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 06:29 PM |
| 0 | How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think.If y’all have kids, which side will the kids be raised on? It’s the same as people who are non-believers and people who are Christians. An atheist does not want Christian beliefs shoved down their child’s throat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 01:57 AM |
| 0 | If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men?Because it’s not Western dating that makes it the problem it’s the way all men have been raised to treat women. It gets worse than other countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Legalizing prostitution will barely change the dating worldIt will however drop the crime rate, make victims of Violence come forward and then also make it to where it can be a regulated business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 11:26 AM |
| 1 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?So then if we approach them they’ll take anyone who is even half decent, but if they approach us then they take anyone who’s half decent that they think will say yes. Either way that doesn’t give women much incentive. Better to be alone and happy then with someone who is simply looking to play the odds then cut their losses later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 02:46 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Straight men have it harder in dating than womenI have to agree, one of the biggest ones is how many men end up assaulted, drugged, raped, murdered, or kidnapped by someone they’re trying to go on a date with? I’m pretty sure there’s a big line there. I know it happens, but in much lower numbers. Especially straight men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 06:05 AM |
| 0 | Do you think prior sexlessness is a common reason as to why some men might prefer younger women?No. Society promotes younger women staying sexless where as older women get to be cougars. And are often known to be more experienced. So someone looking to get some would probably be better off going for someone that’s a little older and less likely to be worried about societies views. It’s entirely because we have only in the last 50 to 70 years stopped the terrible society standard of if it bleeds it breeds. Which means 35 year old men marrying 10, 11, and 12 year old girls. And Society is st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 01:42 PM |
| 2 | What Standards that the Opposite Sex has do you Consider Acceptable/ Encouragable?Which is why I set Myself to change the standard around me by not only respecting people who are of authority to me regardless of how tall they are but also if I see someone disrespecting someone in authority who is not tall I jump their ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | What Standards that the Opposite Sex has do you Consider Acceptable/ Encouragable?Because he didn’t wanna date me and I respect that. He didn’t wanna mess up a friendship that he had because One of my exes was one of his middle school best friends whom he is still good friends with today. That was his decision and I’m perfectly OK with it. But he is the third or fourth Guy I would’ve given a chance that was short. I’m not finicky about height... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 06:45 PM |
| 2 | What Standards that the Opposite Sex has do you Consider Acceptable/ Encouragable?I have a Best friend who is 5’3 and he is an absolute gem of a human being. A man’s height is not his worth. Not every short guy is an incel just like not every tall guy is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it?Regardless of medical complications it is my choice. And you are grossly mistaken if you think that child abuse isn’t a rampant problem. But yet again, it’s still my decision you don’t have to understand anything. But also, my partner doesn’t have to take care of me. And he won’t have to when I’m old. I’ll have it figured out by then or I won’t, either way my future is my prerogative and it doesn’t have to be what anyone else wants. Because it is my choice. You should take this interaction as a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it?Oh you did, it’s the way you worded it. Talking about my sad life… And yes there’s way more to life than money and cruises but if I have the money later in life I’m going on the cruises that I didn’t get to go on. That’s just my personal prerogative. Also you don’t have to have kids to have companionship. Also what makes you think I can have kids. So far it’s been proven that I can’t. So I just decided after almost 20 years of not being able to have kids that between the trauma I’ve faced and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it?🤣🤣🤣 Sweetie by then I’ll be taking all of my hard earned cash and retirement money that I was able to actually get and either helping the less fortunate while going on cruises, or sending those niece is a nephews on cruises while I help them pay for vacations. Different strokes for different folks. I am more than An incubator. I am not put on this earth solely for the purpose of giving birth and raising children. There are plenty of babies out there who didn’t have parents to raise them. Hell ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it?Not really. I’m a female, and while I enjoy my nieces and nephews and my cousins and my friends kids, I grew up in extreme poverty watching my siblings suffer. I would rather get to the point that I can make sure that my kids have what they need, or not have kids. Until I feel like I’m at that point where my kids wouldn’t suffer there’s no reason for me to have kids. Kids aren’t the end all be all and neither is a relationship. That’s a lie we’ve had pushed on us our entire life. That you’re not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 11:44 AM |
| 8 | Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it?Maybe because men are tired of being miss treated everywhere and expected to bear all of the weight without all of the benefits. Although if you pay attention it’s not just men leaving the workplace, jobs that exploit their workers are finding themselves having a harder time getting workers nowadays. And that’s because we’ve realized this life is not here for long we’d rather have a better paying job that gives us more free time. Or that if we’re going to do the extra work that we at least get t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man.A lot of men don’t bother to do much more than it takes to get themselves off. I could see some women dating the wrong guys getting the idea that it’s just like that, and it’s sad, but purity culture and lack of sexual education makes it that way. That and fragile male egos. I tried to tell a dude he wasn’t doing well, anyhow to not hurt me and was flat out told, “ My way has always worked fine, I don’t have to learn a new way.” Don’t get me wrong, I’m in a wonderful mutually attentive relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Fam, sometimes you can do everything right but a flake is a flake.There fixed it. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Fam, sometimes you can do everything right but a flake is a flake.That’s not what I said at all. I’m talking about the guys who get with chicks who think they’re a fixer-upper and turn around and try and change everything about them including their hobbies. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Fam, sometimes you can do everything right but a flake is a flake.there are varieties of nerd, gamer nerd, anime nerd, book nerd, Science nerd. Sometimes geek is used interchangeably with us. Doesn’t matter the terminology, smart people are awesome people. And people with passions or interests are also awesome. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 11:30 AM |
| 54 | Fam, sometimes you can do everything right but a flake is a flake.I am a female I can attest this is what works. If she rejects you then it’s her loss, let her go. Because someone should love you for who and how you are unless you’re abusive. Any girl who belittles something about you be at your hobbies or the way you look or dress, they are not the one. They are looking to change something about you to make you more appealing to them. You deserve better. I’m so sick of seeing Fellow women turning nerdy gamer guys into miserable man. Y’all deserve better. Ther… | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 06:51 AM |
| 4 | Female Privilege Exists?I only speak truth from experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 10:21 PM |
| 29 | Female Privilege Exists?Men that are victims of sexual assault by a woman or physical assault by a woman are usually the ones arrested or laughed out of the precinct. A woman can physically assault a man and everyone assumes he deserves it even if she’s just being an abusive person. Most entitled customers that are female assume they can act any kind of way and get away with it. Because their women. I am a woman and I have witnessed all of these things. I’ve been a victim of entitled women coming into my place of work … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Unattractive nerds should try to hit on intelligent womenHonestly, that’s the same way with girls who aren’t conventionally beautiful. They don’t think they stand a chance with anyone so they end up suffering. I blame the society were raised in now. Honestly, you never know who’s going to find you cute or attractive. Follow your heart. Just be polite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Despite men and women being roughly equal in population, attractive men are seen as scarce, why is that?No. Women are just as bad. Women are definitely picky, And men can put just as much effort in their appearance. Women just have extremely high standards even for themselves and don’t find themselves attractive therefore they don’t trust men to truly cherish them for them and not just for a piece of ass. Although a lot of men do you just wanna piece of ass. So do women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Image posting is now enabledAs someone who has a lot of siblings and doesn’t live with them and knows that those siblings pick up their particular parent’s Bad habits, I could see this becoming an issue. But I don’t see that as an excuse to not take care of your kids. But at the same time one of my siblings was walking distance from my work and would only get in contact with me when they wanted something but Only when they wanted something, I couldn’t make plans with them because they wouldn’t answer any of my messages or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 10:15 PM |
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