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| 16 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 66 - Baldness is Dadnessshoo 🦟 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/22 01:16 AM |
| 33 | In defense of being a “square.” My take on “corny” Russell Wilson and CiaraOh that’s awful. I didn’t know that. He certainly didn’t deserve that and she fumbled the bag! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 02:54 AM |
| 0 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?You are so right! We have had reasoned disagreements with ZERO mudslinging or insults. No other sub on Reddit has this many thoughtful, considerate, kind people. It speaks to just how outstanding the moderating team is. Thank you mods! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 04:05 PM |
| 464 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Saw this from E Jean Carroll. “Love will make you do crazy things.” Every woman who's ever been hit has heard that one. https://twitter.com/ejeancarroll/status/1508284448680431618?s=21 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 04:52 AM |
| 7 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?The FDS guidelines say that we should never stop vetting. We shouldn’t excuse or overlook these bad moments and red flags. Doesn’t matter if it’s been 50 days or 50 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 04:45 AM |
| 5 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?If what you’re saying is true, and you’re entitled to your opinion, that makes it even worse for me. To go from nervous, uncomfortable laughter to hitting someone in front of millions of people that quickly is alarming. It’s a serious escalation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 04:35 AM |
| 16 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?If all of this is true, why did Will initially laugh at the joke? His first response was to laugh and then when Jada got pissed, and understandably so, he went over the top and responded in the manner we all saw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 04:29 AM |
| 64 | I lost track of how many red flags I heard.Fresh and Fit Podcast! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 02:10 AM |
| 561 | I lost track of how many red flags I heard.This is the male brain on alpha male podcasts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 10:26 PM |
| 273 | I lost track of how many red flags I heard.Money is fungible. That $5 he is clinging to can be easily replaced. My time, my body, and my health canNOT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 10:24 PM |
| 162 | I lost track of how many red flags I heard.Bingo! I’m anti-SW, but if you want a SW, get off Hinge and go hire one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 10:23 PM |
| 732 | I lost track of how many red flags I heard.Red flag #1: This is a totally unhinged response to being asked “how are you.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 10:10 PM |
| 41 | The struggle is real.She is eminently qualified for the position. I don’t necessarily agree with all of her views, but I am disgusted by the attacks by the right on her LSAT scores. She went to Harvard for undergraduate and law school. This is a line of question that she’s receiving exclusively because she is a black woman. It’s gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 01:03 AM |
| 12 | Something positive for onceI’m so sorry for your loss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 03:25 AM |
| 91 | No comment.Can we talk about how gross the research is on it’s own? This data was from 1970. They had to solicit photos from CHILDREN in order to do this. I’m VERY suspicious of the researchers too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:02 AM |
| 39 | Husband Hates Wife: CEO Edition. He refers to his wife publicly as a "sucker", she asked HIM out, they dated for 5 years before getting married. This is his anniversary post after 12 years of marriage.Alright I’ll bite. What is a damage waiver? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 11:28 PM |
| 146 | It’s been 2 years since Brenna Taylor was killed. As an Asian woman, I cannot speak for Black women. Watching and reading comments with of Black women dealing with the challenges of misogynoir (sexism & racism) makes me really empathize and want to amplify their voices though. She deserves justice.The thought of the boyfriend using her as a shield disgusts me. The depths of LVM do not surprise me anymore. However bad you think they are, believe that they can and will be worse. Rest in Power Breonna | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 03:09 PM |
| 141 | “Whoever told y’all that sex work is empowering, lied straight to y’all fucking faces. You’ve been hoodwinked. Bamboozled. Scammed.” 190k+ likes on TikTok for this intersectional feminist queen’s wisdom, brought me hope for a better future. I hope more and more people watch and understand.One of the comments under the video on tiktok: “I saw a tiktok where this girl said she was scared to turn 18 because the only thing protecting her was her being a minor. I cried.” 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 03:05 PM |
| 19 | Practice makes perfect!Speaking from personal experience, whenever I try to use these with the LVM men in my family, it never works. These statements only work when I’m talking to men with a modicum of decency. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 03:00 PM |
| 1 | The term Pickme gaining traction? thoughts?Pick me is a common term outside the sub but I’ve most seen it use to insult women who aren’t hypersexualized by liberal feminism. It’s used to insult women who someone thinks is trying to hard or is “not like other girls.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 12:47 PM |
| 86 | Pickme’s thrive off of The Bachelor (referring to the bottom tweet)Oooooh this thing made me SO MAD. Clayton slept with two women, said I love you, and gaslighted the hell out of the one woman who had a problem with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 12:37 AM |
| 109 | The ad I got on a video about domestic violence. On International Women’s Day!Liberal feminism is one of the greatest psyops of all time and it’s perpetrated by the patriarchy. Women are being taught they are most empowered when they act like men and serve men. Culture is lying to us and telling us we’re most empowered when we get on our knees for men, whether it be to serve them sexually or propose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 10:30 PM |
| 19 | The ad I got on a video about domestic violence. On International Women’s Day!These proposals are so strange to me. So when she proposes, HE walks around with an engagement ring? 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 09:11 PM |
| 81 | I am not fond of any of the Kardashians or pete davidson, but even I find this disturbing and disgusting and no one should have to deal with this BSI think it’s important to be considerate of language here. I see so many tweets and posts about this that start with “I don’t like Kim Kardashian but…” “I like Kanye but…” NO. When talking about a man being unhinged and erratic towards women, we do not have to start by disclosing how much we dislike her or how much we love him. This has been a pet peeve lately and I just have to call it out. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 12:47 AM |
| 71 | The Struggle Is Real...nahhh this can’t be right. Because I put in the BARE MINIMUM of standards and got 2.2%. -not married (within 15 years of me) -any race -at least my height -not obese -at least makes as much money as me And I was 4/5 on the “delusional scale.” What does that say about the quality of men out there? That 98% can’t even match what I’m bringing to the table? I know the bar is in hell for men but I suspect that there’s something fishy going on with the numbers. This website feels like incel copium. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 11:44 PM |
| 16 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a child“Spiritually married.” Men have no shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 11:28 PM |
| 14 | No words about how disgusting this is.No point in being terrified of it. It’s safe to assume that they are. Adjust and operate accordingly. It’s been a hard switch for me to make around men I’m related to but I have no choice but to protect myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 11:49 PM |
| 4 | No words about how disgusting this is.Ukrainian women and their own sisters. Bloody disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Can an LVM turn into a HVM later in life?Just as women can level up, I think men can level up too. That being said, I’m not going to be giving the benefit of the doubt to anyone who was a cheater or abuser in a past life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 11:47 PM |
| 6 | Woman goes on Judge Steve Harvey to “sue” fiancé of 15+ years for not marrying her.Oh yeah for sure he was. I’m suspect of all of his “deployments” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 05:44 PM |
| 6 | Woman goes on Judge Steve Harvey to “sue” fiancé of 15+ years for not marrying her.Oh goodness. I missed that one. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 11:33 AM |
| 17 | Woman goes on Judge Steve Harvey to “sue” fiancé of 15+ years for not marrying her.It’s not a real court, but the situations are real. The segments usually end with Steve Harvey giving one or both people money, a job, or a vacation. In this case, he gave the woman a few grand so she could have her party. The money is paid out by production | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 11:32 AM |
| 100 | Hmmm, Am I Crazy or Are Women Wising Up?I have nothing to add other than that I’m so sorry you experienced that and I’m sending all the love and hugs your way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 03:37 AM |
| 66 | This ZV Canadian politician put his ineptitude on blast for the entire world to see.Probably a bowl of cereal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 01:13 AM |
| 89 | This ZV Canadian politician put his ineptitude on blast for the entire world to see.He exposed himself in this statement. We already knew she was doing the work at home and at the job. We wanted to know how HE helps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 01:12 AM |
| 854 | This ZV Canadian politician put his ineptitude on blast for the entire world to see.The only consolation is that the entire twitterverse is dunking on him for how pathetic and embarrassing this is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 08:17 PM |
| 3 | So.. if she’s so important to him why aren’t they married after 7years? No one in the comments brought that up. People in the comments are betting the brothers relationship won’t last as long but at least he knew he wanted to marry his bride within 2 years.In this post for added info, the man in question does in fact own a home with the forever GF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 05:49 AM |
| 55 | Just found this on tumblr. They call us ‘femcels’ for having high standards and help each other while incels hate and k*ll women.This may seem dramatic, but this is quite literally what many of the arguments on the Reddit debate subs. It’s unfathomable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 03:24 AM |
| 5 | Ari Fletcher (5M followers) says wanted her boyfriend to pull out his handg*n to prevent her from leaving himIt actually made me feel very sad for her. I don’t want to be an armchair psychiatrist but I can’t imagine you wake up feeling that way. She’s probably had a lot of toxic relationships with men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 02:14 AM |
| 65 | Ari Fletcher (5M followers) says wanted her boyfriend to pull out his handg*n to prevent her from leaving himPICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Paying off someone else’s debt?The financial rules for dating and marriage are pretty different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 05:31 PM |
| 61 | Paying off someone else’s debt?If it’s a girlfriend, major NO. If it’s a wife, then I have less of an issue with it. Her financial future is tethered to his. They would already have lots of joint expenses and if they want to buy a home, she gets held back by his debt regardless. When you’re married, financially “his” and “hers” gets very much intertwined so I don’t mind couples paying off each other’s debt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 05:30 PM |
| 5 | From all of us at FDS, we wish you happy holidays and have a wonderful new year!I started applying FDS to not only my romantic life but my friendships. I learned to stop going over, above, and beyond for people who contribute the minimum. You all helped me learn, from your stories, how to value my time and most importantly, value myself. I still have a lot of progress to make in 2022 in my level up journey, I am investing more in physical health, my career, and finding new valuable relationships. Beyond thankful for this community of women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 05:27 PM |
| 61 | Woman in Denial About being in an Abusive, "open" Marriage.I understand some of the appeal of being a stay at home mom or wife, especially if you have your own security blanket to leave if things go haywire. I actually would like to be a stay at home mom one day and not have to go work a 9-5 and have a millionaire husband work for me 😂. But she COMPLETELY lost me when she said she has her husband picks out her outfits, sleeps with other woman, and she struggled to answer whether or not he would cook a meal for her if she is sick! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 08:30 PM |
| 9 | “Merry Christmas from me and my family, whom I hate!”How to these women accept this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 08:11 PM |
| 51 | “Merry Christmas from me and my family, whom I hate!”God willing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 06:45 PM |
| 643 | “Merry Christmas from me and my family, whom I hate!”I’m now seeing the daughters are in bondage and their sons are NOT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 04:26 PM |
| 100 | Everyone in this supposed feminist sub is telling her to propose herselfThe comments are so sad because she’s just twisting herself into knots trying to figure out how to get him to marry her and the people there are indulging her fantasy of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 04:07 AM |
| 63 | Everyone in this supposed feminist sub is telling her to propose herselfAHAAHAHAHA these are gold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 03:54 AM |
| 158 | Everyone in this supposed feminist sub is telling her to propose herselfsigh…. * puts on scuba gear for rescue mission * | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 03:08 AM |
| 17 | Any halfway decent Christmas films?Christmas with the Kranks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 05:40 AM |
| 13 | “I’m happily married and I still watch porn…”Being a good mate means not acting on it by watching porn! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 03:10 AM |
| 91 | The tea is hotBe wary of the male feminists who will gaslight you into thinking they actually respect women when they don’t. They’re honestly the worst. Typical “niceguys” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 07:46 PM |
| 39 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.I implore men who think like this to not get married and not have children. Please keep your misery to yourself instead of ruining another woman’s life! I hope they stay single and I hope no woman sleeps with them. Let them spend their days alone and with a bottle of lotion and a Kleenex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 02:14 AM |
| 52 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.“I wonder why more men don’t snap?” I beg your pardon? You wonder why more men don’t unalive their wives? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 02:11 AM |
| 97 | A case for a prenup - "I was my husband’s research analyst, caregiver, cook and housekeeper. Now he wants a divorce after 38 years."I know this isn’t the point, but he’s also a terrible investor lol. It took him 30 years to build up $700,000 as a full time trader? If you invest $1000/month for 30 years in index funds for 30 years, and get a conservative 6% rate of return, you should have $1,000,000. And that’s if you just invest it and forget about it. This guy was actively managing their investments and getting less money for it. What a dang shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 02:06 AM |
| 10 | 19-Year-Old Billie Eilish On Starting To Watch Porn At 11, And How It Damaged HerIt might have been Vice? I didn’t even bother to click. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 03:19 PM |
| 138 | 19-Year-Old Billie Eilish On Starting To Watch Porn At 11, And How It Damaged HerI remember seeing an article trending on Twitter arguing that people should begin making porn for minors. People are absolutely sick. I don’t even want to Google it to search for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 05:49 AM |
| 4 | What does FDS think about the rise of the “stay at home girlfriend?”Goals! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 12:40 AM |
| 258 | 19-Year-Old Billie Eilish On Starting To Watch Porn At 11, And How It Damaged HerThis message coming from a young woman who inspires and speaks to so many young girls is incredible! I hope she doesn’t walk this back. I suspect libfems are going to accuse her of slut-shaming sex workers. But I’m glad she at least got to vocalize this view. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 12:36 AM |
| 7 | What does FDS think about the rise of the “stay at home girlfriend?”Okay got it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 08:47 PM |
| 8 | What does FDS think about the rise of the “stay at home girlfriend?”Yes. Never move in with a boyfriend. But not every stay at home girlfriend I’ve seen lives with her boyfriend. Some have roommates but have a man who pays their rent and all of their bills. Are you referring to a different section? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 08:40 PM |
| 90 | Sex work just is not a good career option as a woman.Women who work in sex work bare bear all the risk with very minimal reward. For every woman who strikes it rich in porn, there are literally thousands of women who are being exploited. It’s such a scam. edit: typo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 11:46 PM |
| 14 | Leave at even the first hint of disrespectThis reminds me of that post from a few days ago about this couple, Toby and Fat. The girl literally now goes by Fat even though that isn’t her name because her no husband used to call her fat all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 08:52 AM |
| 371 | Woman sees tornado and frantically moves her kids to safety. Husband questions her sanity, slights her for “scaring the kids,” and foolishly goes outside.Alex —> Ex 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 11:40 PM |
| 480 | Woman sees tornado and frantically moves her kids to safety. Husband questions her sanity, slights her for “scaring the kids,” and foolishly goes outside.It’s impossible to trust a man like this. He clearly is incapable and unwilling to protect his family. He’s failing as a father and husband. He’s a NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 11:35 PM |
| 872 | Woman sees tornado and frantically moves her kids to safety. Husband questions her sanity, slights her for “scaring the kids,” and foolishly goes outside.My heart breaks for this woman. Here she is, witnessing a dangerous situation that could level her entire home and kill her kids and her nonchalant, lazy husband couldn’t be bothered by the entire situation and tries to gaslight her. She should leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 10:42 PM |
| 27 | Anyone heard of the Tobe & Fat struggle love story?Her: “He didn’t want a relationship” Him: “I thoroughly wanted a relationship, I just didn’t want you.” Her: “iF iT mAkeS tHaT mUcH dIfFeReNcE.” IT MAKES ALL THE DIFFERENCE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 10:26 PM |
| 8 | Anyone heard of the Tobe & Fat struggle love story?This makes me so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 10:14 PM |
| 17 | TW: sexual assault - So basically if they were the last two people on Earth, he's gonna assault her to reproduce. Most of the comments are just supporting his "point," and some are shaming the woman for not wanting to have sex with him.The comments on the video are gross but predictable. Most thing it’s funny and agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:33 PM |
| 9 | A guy once wrote me a huge paragraph on how when a man offers to pay a bill, you need to argue and insist to pay for yourself. Pls, share your funniest and dumbest interactions about first date courtesy.I’m pretty sure he’s joking. A few months ago, there was a trend on Twitter where people were arguing about whether or not it was appropriate to eat the free bread at dinner as soon as they offer it or do you have to wait. Someone said it’s tacky to do that, which I think is ridiculous. But he’s poking fun at that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:29 PM |
| 146 | This is pick me behavior straight up. Prioritizing your partner is part of the compromise and shows respect.I’m at a point in my life where I’m not asking a man to bend to my will. If you want to watch porn or spend all day playing video games, that’s fine. You just won’t be doing it with me. Truly, if I have to ask you to not do either of those things, you’re not worth my time in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:25 PM |
| 122 | Just broke up with a sweet, funny, kind and attentive guy, because he works a minimum wage jobI think you made the right choice. I have a college friend who goes to Yale Law. Bright, beautiful, very accomplished. She’s still dating her high school boyfriend who has no college degree, no serious job prospects, working a low wage entry level job. Not everything is about money, but their income and life prospects are so disjointed that I think she’s settling. He broke up with her twice before she got to Yale but now that she’s going to Yale Law, I think he’s found his cash cow and isn’t goi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 08:17 PM |
| 6 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?Machine Gun Kelly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Red pill favourite Jordan Peterson doesn’t agree with their views on women and dating…He has a daughter at least. Don’t know about any others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 05:19 PM |
| 217 | Woman posts about her LVM in 2015 . . . and then updates SIX years later about leveled up lifeslow clap for the QUEEN OF THE DAY. 👑👑👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 04:57 PM |
| 110 | Taylor Swift has managed to flip the 'nah I' m special, he will treat me different cos the last one was not good enough' pickme trope ( 🙄🤮🤮) onto men, bet they all thought they would not get a song calling them out on BS.I had to read it a few times but I got it. You know how some pickmeisha’s date LVM because they think they’re “not like other girls” and they’re better than the women he used to be with? OP is arguing that the guys Taylor dates think they’re better then the men she used to be with only to end up being just like the rest of them. Basically, none of them expect to be that ex she’s writing a song about. Correct me if I’m wrong OP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Who’s the best example of a HMV celebrity?There is mainstream coverage. I just provided one article I found. There’s smoke, but nothing is confirmed. The Royal family has privately fought the allegations by suppressing media coverage. https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/did-royals-cover-prince-william-174057126.html https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2019/04/229514/prince-william-cheated-on-kate-middleton-allegations https://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/celebs/a27101934/prince-william-kate-middleton-affair-rumors-rose-hanbury-rural-… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 04:00 AM |
| 0 | Who’s the best example of a HMV celebrity?Cheated on Kate with their neighbor. https://www.suggest.com/kate-middleton-considered-leaving-prince-william-over-continued-contact-with-alleged-affair-partner/1354/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 12:39 AM |
| 18 | Who’s the best example of a HMV celebrity?Those things are awful. Also for the sake of not being a hypocrite, I’m not going to judge him today based on who he was in 2006 and 2009, provided he wasn’t committing any crimes. A lot of us here are on our level up journeys and shudder at the thought of who we were and how we behaved 15 years ago. Harry has made serious strides since then and he is not the same man today as he was back then. He behaves, acts, and speaks totally differently. The fact that he was willing to walk away from the f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 05:23 PM |
| 9 | Never beg a man to marry you“What am I missing here?” You’re missing that he didn’t want to marry you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 03:57 PM |
| 7 | Women Achieves, society makes movie her father......This was my first, initial take and then I saw someone getting dragged up on down Twitter for saying this because apparently Venus and Serena wanted the story to be able their father. If I was them, I’d want to be the focus but they are EPs on the film and played a big role in how it was created. Wouldn’t be me but they wanted this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 03:56 PM |
| 17 | I haven't seen a disgusting serial dater like Pete DavidsonNo chance Kris let’s Kim, her prized pony, get dumped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 03:47 PM |
| 109 | I haven't seen a disgusting serial dater like Pete DavidsonThe Kardashians are also filming their new Hulu series right now so, yeah. It’s not real. Pete Davidson might make her laugh but there’s nothing there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 03:46 PM |
| 36 | Who’s the best example of a HMV celebrity?Prince Harry leaving the royal family because of how they treated his wife is an all-time HVM move. It’s in stark contrast to his father Charles and his brother, William-both notorious cheaters who routinely embarrass their wives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 03:45 PM |
| 48 | Importance of political beliefs?I’ve always felt the values behind political beliefs matter more than the belief itself. You can have similar values/ideals and have those values/ideals manifest differently politically. I read an interesting study about how when conservatives hear progressive policies framed by conservative ideals (family, tradition, the American dream) they actually are more likely to support progressive policy. There’s actually some commonality that sociologists found between conservatives and progressives wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 03:36 PM |
| 112 | She asked a guy out. Scrotes responded "good, you deserve it. Now you know what it's like to be a man." She responded with a list of the garbage women have to go through.She should’ve asked him if he also would marry a woman 20 years his senior 🤐 Answer: “No.” Edit: They’ve been married for 7 years in case you want to try to guess the math on how young she was when they first met. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 04:04 PM |
| 25 | Perfect explanation on why you should NEVER date or marry down!Okay hear me out… I think his new wife who married him might be hypogamy too. She’s a Kennedy. 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Reminder: Don't befriend male colleagues who are married!I block all my colleagues on social media when I get my new job. I keep a wall in between. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 01:38 PM |
| 19 | Red flags and alarm bells are sounding when I saw this. What in the pickmeverse is this?!There was a contestant who went on The Bachelorette with a girlfriend to further his singing career. He “won,” proposed, and then proceeded to ghost his girlfriend when he returned home. Here’s what it looked like when he got caught. https://youtu.be/PBOsbAlyHcI His excuse? He said he didn’t have a girlfriend. Mind you, this was after telling her he loves her and going on vacation with her and meeting her family. Textbook LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 08:54 AM |
| 7 | [LOW VALUE Proposal: GF of 7 years and proposed to after scrote won a free contest]. Couple Who Got Engaged During Adele Concert Special Spills On Epic ProposalI’m saying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 08:44 AM |
| 10 | "If He Wanted to He Would": Redditor builds door between rooms to give coffee to his wife while she's on work callsYou can say “I love you” in so many ways. Without a doubt, every time she sees that purple light, she must feel an “I love you” from her husband. Good for her. 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 08:41 AM |
| 55 | Why do they keep normalizing this gross behaviour????I think that must be a stock photo, right? If it is, how gross that they choose a stock photo of an elderly man and a clearly underaged girl to go with this story. There’s just no was the kid in the photo is the person he was dating. She’s too young | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 08:35 AM |
| 13 | Religion is by men, for menI separate the religious structures/institutions erected by men from the gospel. There are misogynists in the church and people who oppress women. 100%. But as a Christian woman, when I think about the gospel, I think about how Jesus protected women and empowered them. The way Jesus treated women was actually considered to be radical at the time. I know people will disagree and that’s okay, but I think about Jesus protecting the woman who was about be stoned. For those who don’t know, in John 8,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 08:26 AM |
| 3 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorI’m not a fan either but I don’t think you can really taste the coffee. The trick is lots of sugar and cream. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 02:36 PM |
| 4 | How long to wait for men to reply? (Busy career-oriented men)I wasn’t telling OP to do any of that. I was just explaining what I do in my personal life with guys I know VS what I would do on Hinge. Obviously OP doesn’t know the guy IRL otherwise, she wouldn’t be talking to him in Hinge. I clearly stated that three days to respond is plenty of time IF you’re using hinge. Then I stipulated what I would do if it wasn’t hinge and it was someone I knew IRL. I think FaceTime for men you know personally is totally in bounds and a great way to communicate verball… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 01:33 PM |
| 11 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorPumpkin spice lattes. Which are so delish 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 07:38 AM |
| 12 | Spot on, the myth of 50/50 and why it does NOT benefit womenThe real gag is that libfem women did this and pushed this lie 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 06:40 AM |
| 2 | If you want a complete stranger to stop and give you the time if day, call the phone company.It’s a joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 07:27 AM |
| 43 | This is must watch. Rashida Jones speak out against the porn industry: “It’s a perfect storm to exploit girls.”Yeah. That comment didn’t pass the vibe check. Last time I looked, plastic surgery isn’t anti FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 11:25 PM |
| 199 | This is must watch. Rashida Jones speak out against the porn industry: “It’s a perfect storm to exploit girls.”It’s so exceedingly rare to see a celebrity speak out against porn and this kind of exploitation. I can’t imagine it was easy to speak up but Rashida has actually been putting in the work to help free young women! I wonder what other FDS friendly celebs there are out there. They are so few and far between. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:24 PM |
| 26 | Knowing Your Worth: Pricing the First DateI think that the price of the date is part of the vetting process for me. For me, that’s how I screen out guys who want to go for walks, bubble tea dates, and coffee dates. I like being able to sit down at a nice dinner and have a conversation to learn about someone. This is mainly applicable for dinner dates. If there’s a cool exhibit in town that we both want to see and it’s cheaper, that’s perfect. But it’s more so about the willingness to be able to spend more to show some level of investmen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 02:26 AM |
| 14 | The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair)👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:36 PM |
| 17 | It’s so heartbreaking to see how women always have to be on high alert in public spacesIt would take the apartment supervisor what…. maybe 15 minutes to install a functioning lock on the front door? What’s the point of a front door if it isn’t going to friggin lock? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 09:59 PM |
| 19 | It’s so heartbreaking to see how women always have to be on high alert in public spacesHere’s the thing: most women are assaulted by people they know to the tune of 80 percent. Guns are not particularly helpful in situations like that because it’s so much harder to use a gun to defend yourself against someone you know (your dad, your husband, your uncle, your neighbor, your friend, your teacher, your coach) because of that personal relationship. The article doesn’t distinguish between firearm use in stranger rapes vs acquaintance/friends/family rapes. That’s no fault of the author… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 09:57 PM |
| 10 | Abusive father daughter bonding vs mother: just realised all these years my dad tried to recruit me and despised me for rejecting him ...so he hired my brothers. Pay attention how a man bonds with his kids, especially daughters.This is hitting so close to home rn. It’s very true for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 12:25 PM |
| -40 | This post will probably be removed.I don’t understand why people don’t just scroll past the content they don’t want to engage with. There are enough people who do want to see the memes and who do want to laugh, so why can’t there be space for that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 12:22 PM |
| 17 | No context even neededDidnt need to read past the 7th word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:23 AM |
| 18 | She’s still with him and is defending him in the comments 🤨🤨What happened to “do no harm?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:22 AM |
| 1034 | The sign reads “Convince my boyfriend to propose to me.” Harry: How long have you guys been together? Her: 7 Years. Harry: I can’t help you.He then went on to try to pressure him into proposing but my first instinct was the same as Harry’s. As the video goes on, the guy says he didn’t propose because they just moved in. After the concert, he apparently he said “he is working on it.” This girl needs some real girlfriends who aren’t going to let her embarrass herself like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 11:22 PM |
| 14 | Apparently it’s hard for men to *not* be freely insufferable even while doing something as mud and as taking a lift/cab 🤮You can head in his voice that he’s old enough to be her grandfather. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 11:18 PM |
| 4 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksAnd if they really thought it was him all along, how come he wasn't at the station? Instead of his home preparing his escape? Uhhh, because we have a constitution? (See Article I Section 9) You can’t just arrest someone and hold them indefinitely until you have evidence they committed a crime. You get 48 hours. You can’t arrest someone for a crime that you don’t even know took place. Her body was found this weekend. Brian has been missing since Tuesday. Cops should not be able to arrest and deta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 07:24 PM |
| 17 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksI don’t see how that’s a rational thought. A blonde haired, blue eyed woman was killed and her face is plastered on all of our television. There’s no reason to believe the FBI and the government is going to let him skate just because he’s a white guy. Police are at his home right now as we speak. If they publicly operate under the presumption of guilt, they’re giving him his defense on a silver platter: “The authorities never considered other perpetrators… The cops are holding a grudge against m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 03:02 PM |
| 43 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksI think this move is more strategic than anything else. They may fear him harming himself or other people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 12:57 PM |
| 95 | An example of HVM in real lifeMy dad and most of the men in my family on my mom and dad’s side are LVM. All cheaters, liars, or severely in debt who are married to HVW. This sub is helping me break that streak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usCan you explain the use case for this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 12:58 AM |
| 36 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.PLEASE USE ANON ACCOUNTS. DO NOT DISCLOSE YOUR PHOTOS OR IDENTITIES OR LOCATIONS ON YOUR FDS ACCOUNT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 10:10 PM |
| 5 | God help the woman married to this manDid he miss as a fan or was his dad also a hockey player? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:36 PM |
| 170 | God help the woman married to this manFor her sake, I hope they’re not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 10:18 PM |
| 84 | God help the woman married to this manThe bar is in hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 10:18 PM |
| 661 | God help the woman married to this manBackground: A Canadiens fan chose a playoff hockey game between the Canadiens and Lightning over his pregnant wife and child. The Canadiens lost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 05:31 PM |
| 21 | Girl, you need the FBI, not relationship advice 😳THIS 👏🏻 IS 👏🏻 WHY 👏🏻 WE 👏🏻 DON’T 👏🏻 DO 👏🏻 KINKS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 07:50 PM |
| 2 | The author said both positions were “totally reasonable.”Or makes her sit in the boarding area while he sits in the American Express first class lounge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 01:24 PM |
| 1 | The author said both positions were “totally reasonable.”Exactly. The whole point is to be TOGETHER. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 01:23 PM |
| 14 | What refusing to pay their share looks like in 2021.Unpopular opinion but if I marry a man who owns his own home, I’m not paying rent. 😬 We’ll have a joint account to contribute to the upkeep of the home but I’m not paying you to live with you in a paid for home. Especially if we have children? Nope! We’ll keep our individual retirement accounts and checking accounts and create a joint account for shared expenses like utilities, food, child care etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 02:51 AM |
| 6 | MLB player raped and violently beat woman he met via IGHe claims it was consensual. Why in the world would she consent to being beaten bruised and cut on the face? This whole thing is so messy. The texts here are really confusing to me. Because she’s updating him on the status of her care and thanking him for concern after he apparently beat her to a pulp? Based on someone of the messages, she did express a desire to be choked and strangled but I just can’t imagine someone wanting him to go as far as he did. Also, kink/ hitting aside, he choked her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 01:04 AM |
| 62 | This is uncomfortable on so many levelsA cashier at the grocery store yesterday asked me my name so I gave it, since I thought he was being friendly. Then he started asking invasive questions (when were you born, how old are you, who do you live with type questions). I yeeted tf outta there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 11:19 AM |
| 88 | The author said both positions were “totally reasonable.”I think we know the answer to that one 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 10:55 PM |
| 63 | The author said both positions were “totally reasonable.”My thought that you’re traveling together. It’s not like waiting for a city bus or train that comes every 5 minutes. You have to wait for the plane anyway. I would not want my husband to leave me behind just because he gets free pre-check from work. It’s not fair for him to take advantage of that free work perk when he knows I can’t. It doesn’t take a lot to stand and wait with someone especially if you love them. If he had a physical impairment, then sure. If I was starving and he wanted to get… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 10:55 PM |
| 7 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 16 - Walk Dates are For Dogs - (feat. Viral Tik Tok Star @Kokobeaute)YES YES YES OMG I LOVE HER | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Refinery29 Article: I Earn Much Less Than My Partner, But We Split Costs Evenly. How Do I Stop Resenting Him?Thanks for sharing your perspective. I think in reading these stories in the article, I struggle with the idea that a couple can have a success financial future if finances are separated that much. And to be clear, I’m only talking about marriage. Never combine finances with a boyfriend. But it’s just challenging to wrap my mind around a couple who is married and one person is drowning in “their debt” and the other is fine. Because if one person is struggling, it ultimately holds both of you bac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Refinery29 Article: I Earn Much Less Than My Partner, But We Split Costs Evenly. How Do I Stop Resenting Him?What are your thoughts on debt? I wouldn’t split finances with a boyfriend when I get married, if we had debt coming into the marriage, I would want to pay that together. Let’s say he’s debt free and I’m a doctor and I have $300,000 in student loans, I would want us to pay that together so that way we can buy a house together and save for retirement together. I think certain debts can’t be “yours” or “mine” since if one partner is struggling financially, they both are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 02:05 PM |
| 15 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-InI don’t have advice but I’m following the comment thread because I similarly have a friend like this who was groomed by a man 12+ years older than her and is still hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 12:35 PM |
| 110 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-InBig reminder to READ THE HANDBOOK. I had been struggling with not receiving any attention from men. It was affecting my confidence and it made me think I’m a LVW. Not because of anything I was doing but what they weren’t doing. I read the handbook and it helped me figure out that I am in fact a HVW, independent of how any man may look at me. Thank you all for that resource! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 11:34 AM |
| 1 | ZVM Martin Shkreli manipulates pickme, ruins her life, then ghosts her from prisonThis has to be an all time hall of shame moment. She is love with a man who is ghosting her from his prison cell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Relationship virgin... and GRATEFULThis is an old post but happy for you OP! I’m struggling to get to this point. I’m 23 and I’ve never had a boyfriend. Never been kissed. Never been pursued. And it’s frustrating because I don’t necessarily want a boyfriend now, but would LOVE for just a moment to feel desired. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:29 AM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020Posting here bc my post was flagged by the auto moderator. Here’s my question: Am I too ugly to be a HVW? I just found this sub and I’m a newbie, so bare with me if I’m doing this wrong. I’m 23 years old, I’m plus-size and I’ve never been kissed and never been asked on a date and obviously, im a virgin. Now, I myself am generally pretty confident. In fact, I’ve had girlfriends tell me my confidence is an imposition to men asking me out because I may seem likely to say no. I’ve had ONE embarrassi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:48 AM |
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