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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Why do women often prefer dad bods over six-packs? Same here. I love fit men. Shoulders, arms, back, all of it. I don’t care if there’s an actual six pack but I’m definitely not into dad bods.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 05:48 PM
5	Is porn addiction a factor in how negatively women see the average man? This is me too. It’s just very unattractive. Weak and sexually undisciplined. It’s a turn off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 02:15 AM
3	Who is your favourite example of positive masculinity? Came to say this. Aragorn son of Arathorn. So glad this was the first answer. A man of honor, mentally and physically strong. Serves others, true to his word.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/24 07:21 PM
–	Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young women Exactly. OMG the amount of older creepy men, some of them married, that came on to me in my young teens and teen years. It’s awful and so gross. Most women feel strongly about it because of that. Most of us wouldn’t want to be with a man who goes after much younger women anyway. So it’s not a loss. But we definitely remember what happened when we were that age!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 10:04 PM
1	Can we all agree that positive moral attributes such as kindness, sweetness, patience, and selflessness are not sexually attractive attributes for men? I’m actually talking about the early stages. It was those qualities that made me admire him so much and have so much respect for him the more I got to know him, and see what a stellar human he was. I could not wait to get physical with him back then. A man’s man with a certain gentleness towards me. I still feel the same way about him now 5 years later which is why I still have so much desire for him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 11:19 AM
-1	Can we all agree that positive moral attributes such as kindness, sweetness, patience, and selflessness are not sexually attractive attributes for men? Absolutely disagree. Respect and admiration for a man is what makes me highly sexually attracted to a man. A masculine man who is kind and patient and thoughtful and has integrity is as good as it gets for me and most women. It’s the key to maintaining a woman’s attraction to you in many cases. I crave a man like this ( I have one, my husband) and I never get tired of sex with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 04:55 AM
1	Do women find large semen volume attractive? Yes it’s a porn trope. It’s neutral; neither positive nor negative but definitely not “hot” or sexy. I’ve never met a woman who cares about this or is “turned on” by the volume.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/23 04:17 AM
1	Women of PPD: How do you prefer a man shows off his masculinity: Thru status and wealth, thru wisdom and knowledge or thru competence and actions? Competence absolutely. The most enticing thing about healthy masculinity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 05:38 PM
2	Stop saying such and such is "not a gendered concept" I think this a myth. I adore my partner and have so much respect for him and we have a fantastic sex life too. But I still crave variety, as in a variety of men, and I do fantasize about being with a different man. It’s purely sexual tho and not a bit emotional. I would NEVER act on it. I’m very loyal and I hate cheaters. But I just don’t like this notion that women don’t crave sexual variety too. I think it’s a cope and I think we have been conditioned to say and think that we don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 09:51 PM
2	Q4A what are your thoughts on Deepfake porn? Agree 100%. That would be a game changer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 04:46 AM
4	Q4A what are your thoughts on Deepfake porn? Agree. Guarantee if they were deepfaked into gay porn THEN they would think it’s a problem, and violating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 04:44 AM
2	Why being an amazing mother is not considered successful? I actually really love your post OP, though many people will probably be offended by it. I’m a well educated and driven woman who could have had a great career in law but I chose to stay home from the time I had my first baby until each of my 4 kids left for college. ( and it goes without saying that I had a husband who wanted me to do this, and supported us- a privilege many don’t have.) I always felt that there was no greater contribution I could make to society than to be an excellent, loving…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 09:23 PM
3	Age gap discourse will never not be interesting because it's the best topic for exposing hypocrisy from all sorts of angles I agree with everything you said here and this is my experience too. I worked at a golf course as a young women and was hit on all the time by the wealthy older men there. It was gross and super uncomfortable and I hated it. So did all the other young women there. It was actually a big reason why I quit. You are exactly right that those memories are why I react the way I do to men actually thinking women want this or take it as a compliment. I’m surprised this is even a debate. I thought it was …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 05:52 PM
2	20 year old's dont want 30 + year old's I agree. When I was your age I worked at a place (golf course) that put me around older wealthy men all day every day. They hit on me constantly and many actually asked me out. I was so completely grossed out, exactly NONE of them were attractive to me and I did not take it as a compliment. I hated it and it was one of the reasons I left that job after 2 years. All of my friends felt the same and we frequently talked about how gross and creepy it was to be sexualized by older men. Im just baffle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 05:44 PM
3	Men must be traditional while women have options because men love women as women while women only "love" men as tools This is utter bullshit. This belief itself is so toxic that it will prevent anyone who holds it from ever finding true intimacy and love. Source: I am a woman and I deeply innately love my husband and have followed him and loved him rich or poor, near or far, healthy or sick. I would die for him. He doesn’t have to DO anything, I love him as a person, his essence. Everything about him. He’s my person. It is the furthest thing from transactional or conditional. And I’m a normal woman. Men lurkers…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 06:55 PM
5	Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn? Turned way off. It’s very emasculating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 07:06 PM
1	Are older women really jealous of younger more prettier women? I’m an older woman at 51 who is in a happy and passionate marriage ( so why would I be jealous) and I can’t speak for all women, but I feel mostly very protective over younger 20s women. Because I know how naive I was, of course while thinking I knew everything lol. And I know how many predatory men there are out there who will take advantage of the naïveté. I know because it happened to me many times over as a young woman and I don’t miss that type of male attention at all. It used to really cr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 02:59 PM
–	What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast? Was looking for the comment that mentioned the ubiquitousness of porn today. Most boys start watching it in the preteen years and are getting all their urges satisfied through the screen. They have way less incentive to get out there and meet women. Their brain thinks they are already sexually active with many women so there’s not the same level of motivation and risk taking. Then later habitual porn use leads to desensitized brains and bodies so even if they do venture out for real sex it is di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 05:58 PM
3	Do you want a man to do 50% of the housework if you are a stay at home mom? I WAS a SAHM to 4 kids. My ex husband was a very successful executive who made high 6 figures. I did all the kids stuff; carpool, Drs appointments, school stuff etc. plus their extra curricular activities. I did all the cooking, all the grocery shopping, all the laundry for the whole family. I did all the cleaning except once a month had the house deep cleaned by professionals. My ex took out the trash and attended to the cars about half the time, same with our 3 pets. As the SAHM parent I natur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/22 06:47 PM
14	Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men? Me too. It was life changing, scarring trauma for me. And everything the above commenter said about humiliation? Yeah I felt all that too. Utterly humiliated. I really don’t think there’s a difference. Some women have such low self esteem that they will stay with a cheater and fewer men seem to do that; although the surviving infidelity subreddit has a ton of men there too that are trying to reconcile. But the devastation is the same for both sexes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 11:41 PM
1	What makes a woman "commitment material" depends entirely on how valuable she is to him. Her value is determined by a combination of complimentary factors that make her special and irreplaceable to him. 100% agree. Healthy masculinity is a beautiful thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/21 11:25 PM
1	What makes a woman "commitment material" depends entirely on how valuable she is to him. Her value is determined by a combination of complimentary factors that make her special and irreplaceable to him. Edit- moved my comment to the right place	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/21 11:24 PM
3	What makes a woman "commitment material" depends entirely on how valuable she is to him. Her value is determined by a combination of complimentary factors that make her special and irreplaceable to him. Wow yes, you described him very well in that paragraph. He is very tough and no nonsense and can be scary if he needs to be. He gets a lot of respect and is covered in tats, etc. Men seem to naturally defer to him. He is really big on honor and integrity. He takes caretaking very seriously and is an amazing father to his kids. And we are older. He is 55 and I am 50. We met in our 40s. There’s a lot of polarity in our relationship too, I’m very naturally feminine. I’m outdoorsy and like to be in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/21 08:35 PM
4	What makes a woman "commitment material" depends entirely on how valuable she is to him. Her value is determined by a combination of complimentary factors that make her special and irreplaceable to him. I agree with you. I see elements of my own commmited relationship in your words and I think my husband would agree with your synopsis. For my part, I love being possessed by my mate and we have an extremely physical passionate relationship as well as a super intimate one. He would die for me and he lets me know that every day. He is a super masculine guy (Powerlifter whose hobby is riding his Harley lol) but was so incredibly tender and gentle with me in the beginning because I had been so hurt …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/21 08:11 PM
2	Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? Discussion This was an epic answer- touche’!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/21 05:03 PM
1	Struggling to quit pornography. I've been trying but I can't go longer than 4 days without watching it or fapping. Try the pornfree subreddit! Lots of support and resources there- they are only anti-porn not anti-fap so they are different from nofap. Don’t give up- it makes a huge difference in your sexuality.	/r/askTRP	14/07/20 03:52 PM
29	Girl, no And we’re BEST FRIENDS	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/05/20 02:51 AM
3	No more blame and 85% less sadness Loved reading this. Tell us more! I’d love to read your story.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/20 04:31 AM
21	HVM don't begrudge women for screening men. They understand why we need to do it. LOL your comment is spot on. My ex actually had a jailbait/ teen and deflowering virgin fetish...imagine that. But he’s such a nice guy and family man and devout Christian /s . He’s literally gone crazy since the divorce and is now about to marry the youngest of the many women he was cheating with- she was 24 when he started and he was 48. From work of course. He has her so snowed. Wish I could feel bad for her but I don’t, given she was sleeping with my then husband. Oh well. He was my college …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/20 12:29 AM
27	HVM don't begrudge women for screening men. They understand why we need to do it. YES absolutely! I’m engaged to a very HVM at 48 after divorcing a cheating porn addicted lvm a few years ago. I tell him all about FDS and sometimes read him the posts and he asked me to tell his daughter (22 and single) how to join so I did. He agrees with US and wants his daughter to understand these principles.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/20 11:52 PM
5	“Let’s just see where this goes” I agree; she sounds like such a pick- me in the meme it makes me cringe. Why would you ever do all that for a man and then feel like you need to be gaging his commitment level? Like he needs to be told to think about it or reminded? And the implication that you need to keep checking to see where he is in his “ level” of commitment! Honestly the desperation just pours out of this. She’s trying to sound strong but honestly it doesn’t read that way to me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/20 09:55 PM
15	“Let’s just see where this goes” Yes NEVER EVER ask. If you feel like you need to, you already have the answer.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/20 09:50 PM
26	Men act single even if they have a gf or are married Honestly this should be its own post. Most HVMs don’t really use social media and don’t like sitting around all day online. They are out doing things- outdoorsy, in the gym, hobbies etc. my fiancé has zero social media and is only online for work and it’s like a breath of fresh air compared to my ex husband who was a porn addict. Fiancé thinks SM is stupid and pointless and a waste of time. Online presence alone would screen heavily for lvm. And think about it- if a man is online for hours a day…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/20 09:21 PM
7	If you ever want to see the brigading in action just filter posts by "hot" and then click in and out of posts and watch the number go up and down as the triggered LVMs react! Second this exactly! I love coming here and cheering these ladies on. One of the best spaces on Reddit IMO.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/20 03:18 PM