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I’d say that you’ve already invested too much time and energy in someone who hasn’t returned the courtesy to you with the basics of his existence. This isn’t a touch of ‘mystery’, it’s deception. A straight up man wouldn’t have anything to hide, if he had honest interest in you. I’d suggest you block and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 11:50 AM
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I would highly recommend that you read Why Men Love Bitches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 10:12 AM
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After a certain point in the conversation, it’s demeaning to even respond. Someone making a blatant dick reference, deserves nothing more than an ‘ew’, when that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 06:32 PM
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It keeps being recommended to me as well. The few times I’ve looked in, I headed right back out pretty sharpish. That kind of toxicity is not what we need in our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 02:01 PM
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I want to gild this comment into oblivion lol. 🙋🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:32 PM
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All of this is incredibly helpful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:41 AM
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Completely on board with this. I think he’s an extremely crappy actor and his sense of style and painfully loud personality are way too OTT for me, BUT- he is and has been just so good for her. Deepika has made no secrets about being severely depressed after the collapse of her long thing with rabbit kapoor. The difference between her as she was with him and as she is now, with Ranvir, is so utterly gratifying and heartwarming. And he’s so obviously and loudly in love with her, you see her pract…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:51 PM
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Oh this is brilliant, brilliant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:29 PM
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I’d highly, highly recommend this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 10:55 AM
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I am in awe of your adjectives. Please, please write an insult section to the Handbook. I beg you on behalf of Womankind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 07:57 PM
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I told a guy recently in response to “but you have to have someone! Boyfriend, husband, children?!?”, that I have myself and that’s more than enough for me. He immediately said, “ahaha, I like you!”. I answered, ”thank you, I like me too.” and excused myself and left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 07:53 PM
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Sky daddy made me snort too. 😄 But counterpoint, so many goddesses in South Asia are actively worshipped, but that doesn’t stop it from being a cesspool where women’s hopes and dreams go to die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 01:00 PM
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This is an utter mess. I would highly recommend that you talk to his wife with guarded hopes. It’s not a bad idea to talk to her about getting a normal life back (which will have to be far, FAR away from this lunatic). But don’t expect her to jump at it, it’s entirely likely that she has some version of dick fever/love lunacy. Not to mention that that if they’re using (?) herbal drugs regularly, there might be some dragging the feet involved. Not because ‘drugs are baad’, but because rational th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 12:58 PM
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I have never understood why this show was so popular. There was never anything the slightest bit relatable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:46 PM
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Thank you. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 10:49 AM
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Thank you! :) Yes, I did. I wasn’t sure if posting your own stuff is okay in the subreddit, but honestly, my writing has been massively influenced by this subreddit in the last few weeks and the experiences I’ve made here. I figured it would be okay to share it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 10:48 AM
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Thank you. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 11:45 PM
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I did these in December and let me tell you, you are in for a TREAT. The sheer amount of weightlessness you derive from getting rid of physical and emotional junk is liberatinnnnng! :D My goals for Feb are: - Lose some of the weight this past two weeks of bad eating have piled on. - Organize my finances - Job search for a worst case scenario - Write at least one more chapter in my first draft - Update my social media more often (trying to establish a base before I go down the publishing route. E…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:50 PM
6

Can we start a subreddit for this? ExposersExposed, or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:41 PM
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Same. I honestly never got the pseudo-inspirational hype. Or her voice, even. It’s not my music at all. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 11:21 PM
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I believe this is the same girl who posted a before and after shot of the room she used to share with her ex. If it is her, man, more power to her! I hope she gets to live her best life without any dead weight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 04:13 PM
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My congratulations to the happy couple 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 10:48 PM
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This is a troll post, because: it’s been posted multiple times before. Each time with the same details. They’re not even creative about the karma whoring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 10:45 PM
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I think this has something to do with the adult breast fed baby fetish thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 10:38 PM
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Oh gawwwwwwwd this gets me right in the feels. Perfect, perfect, perfect!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:13 PM
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That annoys me endlessly. Because I don’t actually need my glasses. But they help. And that’s all the reason I need, really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:06 AM
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I’m small, and roundish, and have one of those approachable resting faces. It’s not always nice. :-/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 10:49 AM
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I thought that was Andrew Rea. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:46 AM
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This, literally. I’ve started wearing strong framed glasses so as to look less approachable (curse of the soft face). And it’s fking annoying to have to wear glasses all the damn time when I’m out and about, but it’s reduced me being approached by randos by a factor of 15.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:45 AM
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Yes! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:26 PM
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Men in India are a lost cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:46 PM
5

A houseplant would be precisely the speed of the Stepford housewife-style personality he idealizes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:30 PM
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Jesus Christ. They sound like they deserve each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:12 PM
21

This. This MAGA-style catchphrase mentality is alarming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:57 PM
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This, and it’s kinder, too. It helps people approach fds from the privacy of their dms. The comment section usually turns into a wagging dick-off very quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:39 PM
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I will and honestly only given the last few lines of his post, make a part concession for his indecision here. If this is something that he’s been building and working towards for an Year now, and if the friend is as close as he says he is, then having that twinge of regret that he can’t make it, or maybe mulling over which relationship is more significant to him, is only human. Would I skip a guy’s family funeral to go to my best friend’s (aka the most important non-romantic relationship in the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:34 PM
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Mhmm. :) I’ve recently also found this one called femislay. They post funny and on point with FDS stuff, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 02:58 PM
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Girl, don’t. This man is regarding you as a lazy and convenient option. You’re nobody’s option. You’re first choice and only goal. Anyone who doesn’t treat you with that single-minded focus doesn’t deserve your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 02:57 PM
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This. Oh goooooood this. I wish I could go back in time and teach myself this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 02:55 PM
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This, this, this. After a super painful process of removing a ‘friend’ who’d gone full groomer-niceguy on me from my life, he asked me at the end if I would want to try talking again in a few weeks. I retaliated by asking him if he’d give his sister the same advice in this situation, and if he thought I’d feel less betrayed in a few weeks. He admitted to no on both, and we ended talking permanently at the end of that talk. Yeah, no, he texted me after new year’s again. A lame opener about new ye…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 02:54 PM
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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 02:51 PM
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I follow this account. This particular quote is rather positive. They do have some questionable material now and then, though. I’d advise following them with a tiny pinch of salt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 02:46 PM
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I love your response!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 11:32 AM
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Dis sum bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 03:35 PM
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I have no idea who either of these people are, but ‘side girls in DMs’ is a waving and blazing red flag for your run of the mill fuck boi. Also, I’d personally say that a man secure in his masculinity wouldn’t give two hecks about his gf/wife being financially his equal or superior. It’s your standard LVM who gets thrown off his game by a stable woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 10:43 PM
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BEGONE, INCEL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 11:57 AM
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This one is a joke. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 11:55 AM
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You need a break from men, in my opinion. He had you in a bad place before, and he has you in a bad place again. He knows all your weak points, and how to press on them the best ways to cause you the most pain. Get this man out of your life, and don’t let another one in. Not until you’ve figured out how to love yourself enough that you appreciate someone’s attention but don’t need it. You need to be the center of your own universe. You absolutely need to build yourself up. Till you get to that s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 08:32 PM
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I genuinely read the first line as ‘pig’ instead of ‘gig’, and had a flash thought that you went for a PG Wodehousian pig fair kind of thing. I guess, in a way, you did meet a pig there, though. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 08:24 PM
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Ugh, this is so damn annoying. Something similar happened to me a few months ago. I was waiting outside the supermarket for my friend to pick me up. Since he was five minutes away, I was literally just under the awning and waiting. I have the curse of the approachable face. To the point where I’ve recently started wearing glasses when I’m outside, so that I look more stern and cold. But this man walks up to me and starts talking to me. I pull my earphones out and say,”sorry?” He repeated himself…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 08:21 PM
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I have slowly been eliminating toxic friends from my circle, and that has left me with very few. One, who had been weird every time he got drunk. Second, who had been like a little brother to me, but then asked me one day when he was already pretty hammered and uninhibited, if he could rage-fuck me to get the frustration out of his system, because he trusted me, and didn’t want to take it out on some random woman he met on tinder. Third, a friend who told me not to start drama, even though he ga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:00 PM
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‘The plate’. Why is he calling that girl that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:49 PM
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I’m stealing this like, totally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 06:16 PM
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Ohhh i know that channel. The thing about it is that although she seems to share some FDS views, like never paying for your meals, etc. a lot of the other things she advises are highly questionable. Shaping your personality and entire lifestyle to appeal to men, for example. I’d personally take anything except her fashion advice with a grain of salt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 06:11 PM
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Dude, you’re missing my point: women have some value and some existence separate from whichever man they’re currently with. And that’s the bulk of why I view the K lot as valueless. Bad role models, bad personalities, and just a whole lot of tacky drama. Kim’s marriage to Kris was a publicity stunt, Khloe and Kourtney stayed with serial cheaters, and Kylie... yuck anyway. Low value women can be low value because they are low value in and of themselves, not just because of how they deal with the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 07:34 PM
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Precisely. She was smart enough to understand that children + tv time = $$$$. While Kim ties her horse to the Kanye Kash Kow (which from her own konfessions is basically like raising a massive man-child), Kylie duplicated her mother’s business model on social media instead on tv: pimping out the kiddos. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 11:11 AM
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That’s just shitty. Like that’s malicious hate. I can’t stand them either, but that’s disturbing levels of hatred, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 11:08 AM
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I’m not considering the role of the men in their life at all, here. I’m talking about them and their contributions, or the opposite thereof. They did stay with shitty exes. They promote an entire lifestyle of lack of emotional or intellectual depth and shallowness. And that’s without considering the men in their life, even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 11:06 AM
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She may be rich, but I personally consider the whole lot of them extremely LVW. It’s just my opinion and certainly has no effect on their market value, but I think that the behaviors they perpetuate are responsible for the pickmeisha-ization of thousands of young and impressionable girls. I find their entire lifestyle and focus on drama utterly classless. This nonsense with Travis Scott is no different. Five sisters together, with the amount of media coverage they get, could have been absolute i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 11:17 PM
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Ohhhh Mr. Darcy has totally ruined me for other men, too. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 06:48 PM
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Most of this applies to Indian men, too. Except for the dick part. They don’t cheat as much because of the dick, but definitely do a little later in life, when their finances stabilize. Oh, and plenty more emotional and physical abuse. It’s like tying a boulder around your neck and deciding to go for a swim. Just ... don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 08:57 PM
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Exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 08:48 PM
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In his case, lobotomy has meant lobotomy at some point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 09:34 PM
17

As shitty as the entire episode was, it’s a little encouraging to see how much realization came out of it for both of them. This guy realized the extent of his assholery and she realized that she deserved much, much better than someone who wanted a playmate after six years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 03:21 PM
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No one who doesn’t at least try to deserve their place in your life, deserves to be there, OP. Do yourself a favor and do yourself justice. I won’t say break contact, but build some walls there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 03:25 PM
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He already clearly sexually idealizes her. This is sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:51 PM
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They said that they are trying to set up a fast track court for that particular case. But if you want to know the speed at which these things work there, look up the ‘nirbhaya’ case. It’s almost seven years to the day, where she was raped, tortured, and mutilated by eleven men on her way home. They forced things into her and tore her up completely, and she died eventually of the injuries. Seven years. It’s been seven years. And back then there was twice as much ‘outrage’ as there is now. I remem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 06:00 PM
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It’s a waste of energy that you could do to have in reserve for when the right one comes along. I’m really learning all this stuff from scratch too, but I think having a little enthusiasm in ‘reserve’ isn’t a bad idea. Even if you’re just looking to have fun and get your rocks off, it needs to be with the right kind of guy. This lot is just... one step away from inceldom. And we deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 09:49 PM
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Fuck that. You deserve and will find better practically anywhere else. Why settle for someone this uninvested (except for their interest of their dangly bits), when you could be actively getting HVM? 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 09:24 PM
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It’s basically men growing up forbidden to look at or talk to women in any permitted manner, and then they remain sexually frustrated for their entire lives, till they’re married to some poor, unsuspecting naive female, who gets to bear the brunt of their perversion in the name of wifely duties. It’s only one of the reason any woman, girl, child out in the open world is immediately branded fair game. I’d like to mention that yes, not all south Asian men are like this, but the percent of ‘good gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 08:51 PM
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This fucking bullshit. A ‘friend’ pulled this on me last week, after me clearly cold-shouldering him for weeks. It’s the lamest, most low-effort attempt to try to spark a new conversation. “It’s minus temperatures outside. Hope you’re home and warm in bed!” Balls to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 08:43 PM
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Oh damn. I remember this. Duuuuuuuude, his response is so pathetically transparent. I like the trying-for-smooth „when are we having dinner“. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 08:37 PM
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