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Generally men appeal to women due to social skills/confidence, athleticism/build, and/or wealth/purpose/career success. While apsies lose out on 1) maybe they can compensate somewhat in the other categories? Even without romantic success having a career or niche skills can provide purpose to your life.
/r/MensRights22/12/25 12:28 AM
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Cats are generally regarded as friendly, stroke-able, affectionate and nice to be around. One-eyed snakes sound nasty and dangerous by comparison. Try again.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 11:21 AM
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You win by avoiding those sorts of women. The trash throws itself out.
/r/MensRights15/10/25 12:13 AM
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The gaping hole here is how the traditional mainstream feminist media treat young men. eSafety are trying to position the online experience as a cause of the problem, when it is more of an outlet. This is an authoritarian anti-evidence attitude, framing public and private dissent as the problem while ignoring or denying the root causes. Naturally this attitude fits in with the political mainstream. It is government funded after all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/25 02:20 PM
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If you read the article he was explicitly denied funding to help gay men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/25 01:27 AM
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Presumably the issue with dog breeds is already well documented, or perhaps it's too obvious?
/r/BlackPillScience10/04/25 09:28 PM
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Broken link?
/r/BlackPillScience30/11/24 06:27 PM
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A high-trust, low ingroup-preference society will out-compete a low-trust more nepotistic or tribal society. But when placed in the same area, a more nepotistic tribe will dominate or take over the less nepotistic tribe in the country. A current example of this how Indians are taking over tech companies in the USA by displacing whites. In the long tern I think the only stable social equilibria are either (a slow turnover of) many nepotistic tribal groups in a low-productivity high-conflict count…
/r/MensRights30/11/24 06:17 PM
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Women couldn't vote, False generalizations. If only 3% of the population can vote its dishonest to claim this is "male privilege". In the UK men didn't get universal franchise (at least with age over 21) until 1918, and women got it in 1928. You are basing your "historic privilege" claim on a mere 10-year gap, and since only men were conscripted for the Great War and there were other gender-specific duties there was a plausible and factual justification for different gender treatments in that pe…
/r/MensRights23/11/24 08:55 PM
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Female privilege used to be called "chivalry" but it was still female privilege. Women have always been able to be independent economic agents, see Chaucer's Wife of Bath for an early medieval example, even while men were expected to support them and could be imprisoned if they failed. Society used to say "protect the weaker sex", now it says "positive discrimination" or "support her in the manner to which she has become accustomed". The excuse is different but the bigotry and double-standard is…
/r/MensRights23/11/24 08:13 PM
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I was a part of the "skeptic movement" decades ago. It started off as "anti-astrology, anti-bible, pro-empiricism, separation of church and state" allied to the New Athiests, even genuinely skeptical of some poor science. It slowly mutated into just another liberal group-think group, sometimes overtly Democrat-supporting with weak arguments : eg. pro-abortion policy is "supported by science", and 9-11 conspiracy theories are "disproven" because they rejected the official government position (and…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/24 05:10 PM
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Not meaningful without the numeric regression coefficients. Maybe a 1.0 S.D. change in attractiveness correlates to a 0.01 S.D. change in earnings.
/r/BlackPillScience23/11/24 03:03 PM
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And of course the rapist's face is blurred out and not named so she cant be identified, because she's female.
/r/MensRights24/09/24 10:00 PM
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If you are too eager to please you just feed her superiority complex and let her think you are low value. Get to know her and spend a moderate amount of time and effort but don't compromise your time or effort early on in dating.
/r/MensRights26/06/24 08:49 PM
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Your birth was involuntary. Should we have prevented it?
/r/MensRights20/06/24 06:47 PM
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think of babies [...] would make many women destitute There's a simple solution for that. Anyone (like you) who thinks forced fatherhood is OK should be forced to pay child maintenance to the single mothers in your country for 18 years. Do you agree? Obviously there is no justification for the victims of forced paternity to be further punished in these cases.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/05/24 11:45 PM
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If the new company is created while OP is married isn't it equally encumbered?
/r/MensRights12/03/24 06:44 PM
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On the other hand an energy and economic crisis will cause a collapse of the globalist hierarchy, the financialised economy and easy state-funded jobs, and make the economic contributions and political impact of blue-collar men important. Much of the current economic and social order is built on ever-increasing debt which will shortly collapse.
/r/MensRights10/02/24 05:44 PM
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Ubiquitous sexism in the workplace: need to move something? get a man to do it double standards on dress codes number of female vs male toilets and other facilities not in line with employee numbers de-facto female-only opportunities or roles, despite "legal" equality special support or treatment for women regarding childcare and work/life balance, not for men
/r/MensRights10/02/24 05:25 PM
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I don't believe a man can identify as a women If you support efforts to prevent people from living their lives as they please Those are different things.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/24 04:24 PM
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I see your point, but arguing that what almost everyone on the Left supports is not really "Left", becomes a No True Scotsman fallacy. You have to find a new name to express your position.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/24 11:02 PM
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I grew up inhaling leftist liberalism. Feminism was the first area where I began to disagree with my upbringing and I never understood how an egalitarian self-empowerment mindset could accept an essentialist grievance/victim ideology. Early on I thought a more egalitarian "New Left" could replace Feminism, but now the previously "liberal" Left has adopted so many other heirarchial essentialist and authoritarian views justifying quotas and other group-based rules, that claiming authoritarianism o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/24 01:46 AM
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I had a neighbor I occasionally encountered, maybe once a week, and I usually stopped and chatted for a few minutes. I noticed after a while that every meeting she would mention something about her boyfriend. It took a while for me to understand she was letting me know she was not available. I suppose I was being too friendly, and that was a safe and subtle way to give the message.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 11:23 PM
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Lots of bogus/cherrypicked stats in that article which don't support the claims..
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/24 08:01 PM
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50% The very woke feminist demographic is closer to 10%
/r/MensRights04/01/24 07:08 PM
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percentage is usually greater the younger the woman Which might just mean they grow out of it.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 06:44 PM
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Feminists are just piggybacking on the traditional/chivalrous "women are weak and need protecting from dastardly men" anti-male attitude. I see little different between the traditionalist and Feminist gender prejudices. Different terminology & ideology but the same results.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 09:26 PM
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The Men's Shed or Men in Sheds community programme is one way to give support for men suffering from loneliness, depression and isolation. I think crisis support for men would be a natural adjunct to that. Have you considered liaising with them?
/r/MensRights16/12/23 04:38 PM
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In traditional society men's job was to look after and protect women and children, so women who act more helpless, afraid and child-like will tend to attract men to help them and be considered as higher priority for support by many. Modern society is not meant to be like that any more, but these cultural and biological factors still work. The more extreme the acting the greater the benefits, hence many women will go way OTT in claiming victimhood and repression. Of course this doesn't always wor…
/r/MensRights23/11/23 12:36 PM
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Ask the residents of r/datahoarders/ for help
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/23 10:45 PM
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The Left claims women need privileges because 'oppression'. The Trad Right claims women need privileges because 'chivalry' or trad gender roles. It's the same bigotry with different excuses as far as I'm concerned. Very few are concerned about the problems this causes. It's possible to advocate equality of treatment and equality of opportunity while acknowledging there are typical differences in gender preferences or abilities which lead to different outcomes and that's fine. That's compatible w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/23 11:12 PM
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"I have not come to bring peace but a sword", "If you come to me but will not leave your family, you cannot be my follower". Should you get your morals from a violent anti-social cult? No thanks, I'll pass. Christianity only became tolerable after it became a state religion and adapted to European cultural norms. In other words Western Culture civilized the cult, not the other way around.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 07:47 PM
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Not to get into theology, but the biblical god commands rape and pillage as well as other unethical acts. The fact that we recognize god's immorality here shows clearly that innate human morality is superior to, and not derived from, your preferred religious doctrine.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 06:58 PM
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Despite the longstanding supposed "equality" legislation UK employers can require men (in non-customer-facing roles) to wear long trousers and long sleeves within a restrictive clothing policy even on the hottest days while women can wear shorts and short sleeves, and any "smart casual" style at will. The same unequal treatment is also forced on schoolchildren. Gotta start the prejudice early!
/r/MensRights31/08/23 05:26 PM
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Privileged liberals want to take part in the Victimhood Olympics but they can't play the race or poverty cards, so just about the only angle they have is to attack men and "the patriarchy".
/r/MensRights01/08/23 08:43 PM
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How can any authority say something is wrong if that authority does it themselves Because punishment is morally different from the crime. For example, legally fining a criminal is not morally the same as stealing money from an innocent person. Yes the punishment is painful and unpleasant, but that is the point. 'An eye for an eye' ensures the perpetrator suffers the same consequences they caused, which provides excellent learning feedback to change their behavior. It may be cruel by modern stand…
/r/MensRights21/07/23 09:36 PM
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Never meet an accuser, abuser, gaslighter or manipulator alone for "an apology", or to "explain things". Bring company you trust, meet in a public place and record the meeting. Save all related texts and emails. Warn friends and relatives against manipulative people who might lie about you. Better safe than sorry. Don't put up with harassment. Get legal advice if someone won't leave you alone or spreads rumors about you.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 06:48 PM
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There is no evidence they were telling the truth either. Notice that the accusers (who may be entirely malicious and guilty) keep their anonymity while the victim of the accusations (who may be entirely innocent) has his life ruined. Our current legal system is perfectly set-up for evil people to destroy the lives of innocents with no recourse or justice. At the very least, those accused should have their anonymity kept until a conviction is reached, and any evidence of dishonest or malicious ac…
/r/MensRights14/07/23 07:19 PM
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It's hard to know how important this is without comparison or metrics. A "significant" or "negative" effect doesn't tell us much. Can this be quantified as an estimated reduction in fertility rate, or a percentage reduction in motility or concentration? Also how does this compare to the trend of declining sperm quality over decades?
/r/Male_Studies13/07/23 12:04 PM
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The link is not working for me. Can you give the title or full reference for the study?
/r/MensRights13/07/23 10:55 AM
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This stereotype contributes to the high suicide rates among men, which the World Health Organization reported as being nearly twice as high as that of women in 2020. The linked WHO article shows suicide rates for men are more than twice those of women - More than twice as many males die due to suicide as females (12.6 per 100 000 males compared with 5.4 per 100 000 females). Was this underplaying of men's deaths deliberate? I hope not.
/r/MalePsychology10/07/23 03:10 PM
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Notice the scare quotes around " 'sexist' ", because bigotry against men or boys isn't 'real' sexism.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 11:26 AM
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Schimmack may have some good points, but his/her political jibes diminish the credibility and objectivity of the critique. If IAT provides weak but generally positive correlations, then a substantial difference in women's and men's scores suggests (but is not strong evidence for) a significant real difference in in-group bias. I expect most studies on this topic will use methods that can measure bias in both directions, and should calculate some measure of statistical power. Confirmation bias ca…
/r/MalePsychology26/06/23 02:38 PM
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Why "should" they? Why should every possible demographic, linguistic, physical or other categorization engage in every possible activity at exactly the same rate to make you happy? And if some choose not to, how do you propose to force them to do so? Should we start electro-shocking 80-year-olds who don't play cowboys-and-indians as often as 8-year-olds for example?
/r/MensRights22/06/23 02:26 PM
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Men earn the most money, but women spend the most money. Which group is actually richer?
/r/MensRights09/06/23 10:00 AM
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That link is the 2018 report (median pay gap, men vs. women: 11.6% vs. 10.1%), the latest 2021 report has 12.4% vs. 10.5%
/r/Male_Studies23/04/23 07:13 PM
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Will this be open-access?
/r/Male_Studies23/04/23 07:04 PM
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You claim feminism is for equality, and everyone here is telling you that's propaganda/No True Scotsman. Here is a very simple test. Find a well-known public feminist (not Warren Farrell) who argues against female privilege. For example wants to stop more lenient sentencing for female criminals, and saying divorced fathers should get 50% child custody. There are none. Feminists are just bigots. Prove me wrong.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/23 11:29 AM
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"sought" not "sort"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/23 02:55 PM
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I used to be 100% left. It was the left's total embrace of feminism that drove me away, long before 'woke' was a thing. I discovered the Left wasn't about equality or fairness, it was primarily about victimhood ranking.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 10:39 PM
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Because the mainstream defines what everyone means by feminism and what most feminists actually believe in and promote. Are you going to claim that "real" feminism is different from what 99% of self-described feminists believe?
/r/MensRights10/02/23 04:22 PM
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I am going to pull the "harsh reality trumps complete fantasy" card. In the last 30 years, both in the mainstream media and in person, I find feminists have always (with the possible exception of Warren Farrell) promoted more female privilege and more discrimination against men. Can you give some examples in mainstream media of self-described feminists arguing against female privilege?
/r/MensRights10/02/23 02:14 PM
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Certainly criticizing the beliefs of a gender or ethnic group is probably an unwarranted generalization because biology does not determine beliefs. But criticizing feminists (which you mentioned) might be a reasonable generalization because feminism is an ideology, which asserts and entails certain beliefs and attitudes which can be validly challenged. You can argue gender roles and biology can make some ideologies appeal to women specifically, but it's always acceptable to criticize an ideology…
/r/MensRights09/02/23 11:55 AM
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It's often not appreciated how much mental issues such as anger, anxiety and depression are affected or caused by factors such as diet, sleep quality, sunlight, social interactions and (more obviously) stress. I would first look at diet and sleep - try to avoid/reduce processed foods, stimulants and alcohol. Get your omega-3 rich foods and ensure you get 7.5 hours of quality sleep time. If you live in northern altitudes spend at least 1 hour outdoors daily during the winter time, or use light th…
/r/MenSupportMen09/02/23 10:48 AM
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As another "old atheist" I saw the same changes. I particularly noticed how the "sceptics/rationality" community evolved from a genuine ruthless empiricism slaying sacred cows to the position that anything that conflicted with the mainstream/liberal viewpoint was "by definition" a conspiracy theory and thus "by definition" irrational and unscientific.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/23 05:41 PM
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He's exploiting the violence contradictions inherent in the system
/r/MensRights12/01/23 07:04 PM
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They are conflating the ability to read emotions from a face with the ability to understand other people's points of view aka "theory of mind". I don't think it's surprising women are better at navigating the web of social interaction and are better attuned to reading emotions. In many primate species females tend to form the backbone of the social hierarchy while males tend to be outsiders and leaders/challengers.
/r/MalePsychology12/01/23 03:32 PM
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Laughing at someone because they discuss the problems of socialization between gay and straight men. How mature and supportive of you. Are you 14?
/r/MensRights28/12/22 12:12 AM
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News clip from 2017. Looks like not much has changed in the last 5 years.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/12/22 09:22 PM
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I think this is over-thinking the issue. Narcissists cannot allow flaws in their Mary-Sue character because that violates their self-image, or allow non-cardboard opponents with their own moral viewpoint. This produces kindergarden-level morality tales at best. This is not specific to Feminism per se, the Hollywood wokerati provide a deep wellspring of narcissism for all liberal causes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/22 11:45 PM
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There is also a difference in communication style (although this is verging on a stereotype) in that women prefer group discussion and consensus and shaming non-conformists, while men tend to accept "doing your own thing" more and then arguing openly about group-level decisions, so women are more prone to groupthink which leads to your "tension under consensus" observation. It's wild speculation, but this might be related to the idea that the men were usually out hunting while the women ran the …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/10/22 04:06 PM
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I would take a more evolutionary perspective. Women look for a caregiver and protector. Someone/thing to protect them and feed their children. In the pre-state era this was a strong man with leadership qualities and fighting and hunting skills. She looks to the man for direction and tends to follow his lead. In the modern era it is the Welfare State that provides all. Once the state agrees to support single mothers the man's role is redundant (except as taxpayer). Policing speech and ideological…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/10/22 03:21 PM
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Edited. The unstated assumption is that meat is a common/popular source of protein, so it's more of an incomplete statement than a complete non-sequitur.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/22 01:26 PM
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Protein is needed for building muscles. Men culturally and evolutionarily tend to have more muscle, so may need to eat more sources of protein such as meat. Meat contains many vitamin and essential nutrients needed for hormone production. You can also be healthy on a vegetarian diet with eggs and cheese, but it's probably easier to maintain metabolic health with meat. Vegan propaganda about animal welfare is most effective in teenage women, who are most likely to become vegan. Grazing, herding a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/22 01:04 PM
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And how would you explain that in simple terms to a non-mathematician? IMO "usually considered unreliable" is a reasonable interpretation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/22 01:12 PM
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It's the probability (out of 1.0) that this result (level of inequality) would occur if the data was randomly generated. Usually a p value greater than 0.05 means the number is considered unreliable.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/22 05:58 PM
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Would you mind if I come over and cut your eyelids off without asking your permission? It's not mutilation, honest.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/22 02:37 PM
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It's dishonest or deluded to claim the feminism is "really" what some hypothetical pure feminist theory says. It's what people who call themselves feminist actually advocate for in the real world. I've listened to feminist rhetoric for 40 years, and apart from a few rare outliers such as Warren Farrell (who is attacked by mainstream feminism), all feminists argue for more female privilege and more discrimination against men and boys. Feminists routinely smear and attack those who argue for gende…
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:06 PM
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Most women arn't good or evil in a simple sense. They are often self-centered and transactional, but even the most compassionate will tire of uninteresting sex if their husband doesn't engender respect and attention. Women respond subconsciously to their mate's assertiveness and status. If he is feeling depressed and unsuccessful for a long period they will lose attraction and sexual interest. Of course some women are deliberately manipulative and overtly transactional even with the best men. It…
/r/MensRights30/07/22 07:24 PM
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There is no way to punish the parent without unfairly hurting the child If the custodial parent's unreasonable or selfish actions means the child suffers indirectly from the parent's punishment, that is a reason for possibly more sanctions against that parent. It is never an excuse to avoid sanctions. It is always in the child's best interest that the parent is held accountable.
/r/MensRights25/07/22 05:39 PM
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I read a report a couple of years ago that found that for the UK, but I can't locate it now. I will add it in the comment if I find it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/22 05:01 PM
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I'm sure most of you have seen this already
/r/TheRedPill18/07/22 06:37 PM
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Re Myth 7. You don't mention that after taking into account qualifications and length of time in the job, in many occupations men are actually paid less than women of the same qualification.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/22 10:51 AM
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What other groups and what specifically have they messed up?
/r/MensRights07/07/22 12:46 PM
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You are living a fantasy or just gaslighting. Give some examples of mainstream feminists, or feminist policies that improve equality at the expense of female privilege, for example feminists that support fairer parental custody laws or reduced gender inequality in the criminal justice system. There are none, except for a few unpopular figures who who might call themselves feminist but the mainstream will say are not real feminists. As far as I can see, feminists are just bigots, and have been si…
/r/MensRights02/06/22 06:42 PM
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Completely false dichotomy.
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:12 PM
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Someone should make a list of all feminist or women's organizations, and well-known feminists and how they excused DV against Depp.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/22 04:42 PM
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Certainly the traditional/conservative belief that men need to protect women who are more vulnerable has been decried but also hijacked by feminism to elevate the female role. Women should be "treated like" men but also need "special protection" and treatment. Feminism is a mess of contradictions and, I believe, largely responsible for the Boy Crisis and modern attitudes to men. It is also a part of the increase in state encroachment on our private lives. Many people increasingly consider the st…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/02/22 11:58 AM
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It's the feminine gestalt. The state is the omnipresent Mother and takes care of you, hence you must emphasize your victimhood and vulnerability. Masculinity and self-reliance is "brutish" and "uncivilized" and should be abolished. This goes along with "the blank slate" attitude as discussed by Steven Pinker which underlies the liberal philosophy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/02/22 11:16 AM
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Thanks for that information. Can you provide this as a single document? It would be easier to share with others.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/21 11:14 PM
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You need maximum documentation. Presumably there is a bureaucratic process or form you fill in to apply for starting a club. Continue the application process until you get an explicit refusal, and record everything. Only then go the legal route.
/r/MensRights13/11/21 05:14 PM
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Raab has previously described feminism as bigotry so it's not out of character, but still rare to hear a non-misandrist comment from a UK politician.
/r/MensRights06/10/21 04:19 PM
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There's a civilisational cycle, and we're in the decadent phase at the moment. The late Roman period was culturally similar to today. There will be a return to moral order in which men and families are valued but it may require a major social collapse. There is hope in that the youngest generation seem to be less woke than their parents. Some commentators see a return to traditionalism starting. You can argue Brexit and Trump were the start of a reaction against globalism. There is a close conne…
/r/MensRights16/06/21 03:17 PM
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Jazz club https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NdWJpHt1Xws
/r/MensRights01/11/20 09:39 AM
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They will replace 'vast' with 'overwhelming'. The civil service is very feminist.
/r/MensRights31/08/20 02:50 AM
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How do you feel about removing eyelids?
/r/MensRights18/12/19 01:12 AM
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speech
/r/MensRights07/12/19 02:43 AM
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Have you tried reporting that this is racist and sexist, and that you feel intimidated and your well-being and safety is being threatened by this hate speech stereotyping? Seriously.
/r/MensRights09/09/19 05:32 PM
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But perhaps it is a good starting-point for discussing how these cucked attitudes become normalized and the best ways of countering them
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 03:54 PM
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