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I guess I'd date woman #1, I would not want to date somebody who doesn't let me make decisions or doesn't even take my opinion into consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:08 PM
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The thing people have with women saying they don't care about height and dating a man 6'+, is that they know that height is a factor in attractiveness and you saying you don't care but dating a tall man confirms their bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 10:56 PM
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The dating subreddit is living proof of your last point. Every day countless threads pop up of men complaining about dating women, for the most part, they are valid complaints. They usually follow the same trend, OP creates a thread, it gets downvoted and the comments (Mostly female with the occasional "super alpha male" showing up to dunk on the poor guy) rip the OP apart for being entitled/incel/etc. and then rational people show up and save the comment section. I think it's because it goes ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:08 AM
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I assume you meant to say men will always want sex more than women? Again, this is a very old-fashioned way of thinking where women "owe" their man sex. If any gender just wants sex then the one to not develop feelings for the other holds the power. That's how it goes no matter the gender or sex of the people involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:23 PM
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If your interpretation of relationships and sex is old school where women "tolerate" or "give" sex to their men as a reward, then yes men will lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:50 PM
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I agree with you. We all know kids whose parents either didn't force them to do team sports or stuff outside of school or were too poor to afford them. Most of the time these kids grew up shy or recluses. I volunteer with some youth programs and we used to have a ban on the kids bringing Gameboys or stuff like that, but now parents are telling us Little Timmy or Tammy needs them to feel comfortable. I think financial stability is the biggest cause though, at least for marriage it is. As a man wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 08:13 AM
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I don't live in the states and like I said he got good scholarships to basically go to school for free. Plus he got into a good trade that pays well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 12:52 AM
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Depends on the area and a woman in teaching or nursing. Those jobs you need to go to college not trade school, and that is how a lot of women view "dating down".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:32 AM
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Where I am at my friend who had decent grades in high school went to trade school for free basically. The trades are already dying for workers, a lot of boomers are retiring now leaving spots open. He went and started making $80,000 a year, meanwhile, I have two degrees and a job offering $25 an hour is on the high end for me. The bubble will burst because people literally cannot afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:18 AM
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This is true. Doesn't help that from a very young age the "If you don't go to college you are a loser or will be poor" narrative is pushed from a very young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:53 PM
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Women either learn to get off their high horse or buy a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:31 PM
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Okie dokey mr alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:12 AM
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They talk about past partners, or somebody tells her. He has a reputation of being a manwhore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 04:51 AM
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Instagram is full of liars. Facetune is like the second most used app second to Instagram for the girls who use it a lot. And with angles and arching your back anybody can have the fattest ass. Meeting girls and seeing their Instagram, it's like seeing two different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:27 PM
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The standards are inflated. I can't help but think of the Jubilee videos where girls rate guys and at the end the ladies said they wouldn't even notice any of the guys if they saw them out on the street. You can also see it on dating apps, girls with shit jobs, no cards, no place of their own but want a man to have it all (Though that most likely is just women gold digging).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:24 PM
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Are women not turned off by men with a lot of sexual partners or if they were more adventurous or kinky with them? I know my one friend who has 80+ sex partners and it's always a problem in his relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:19 PM
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No dude you don't understand! Men are a mountain of stoicism and don't need women!!! They only need women for their holes!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:28 PM
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You literally said the only reason men get into relationships is to have sex with them. If you don't think that speaks volumes about your character or what you think then we will never agree on anything because you're so lost. I do know men that go on dates with women who want to see if they are a person they want to continue seeing or if they are seeking validation. I'm not sure why having sex is some magical bar of attraction since we all know dudes will just smash and leave and fuck women the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:24 PM
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Dude, it's attention and validation all the same. Not sure why sexual attention is its own special box that doesn't count as attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:15 PM
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Dude, it's attention and validation all the same. Not sure why sexual attention is its own special box that doesn't count as attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:15 PM
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Lmao family is nonsense and a dodge to the question? Sure. What if they actually, stick with me here, like the woman outside of the holes she provides?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:08 PM
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Hol' up. Do you think sex is the primary reason men get into a relationship? And Jesus Christ man stop fucking pounding her cervix.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:59 PM
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Not what's probable? Last I checked there are as many dick pics out there as titty pics. Do you think women like sexual or romantic attention from men they don't want to be involved with?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:54 PM
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Doesn't the Tinder strategy of just swiping right on everybody show that men are desperate for attention too? "Please oh please let some of these women find me attractive enough to swipe right on this app!" Why do so many men get into the pickup scene? Because they seek attention and validation from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:19 PM
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I'm not going to deny that having sex with somebody that you barely know because the attraction was palpable is hot, but that is not the norm. Do you really want to be boning women you barely know all the time? You find it sad that a lot of women would like to know the person who is literally going to be inside them? Who is normally smaller and physically weaker than said man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:17 PM
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A dude I worked with clearly had just read Red Pill stuff and would say he wants a young woman, not many sexual partners, be really hot, meanwhile, he's 5'4, lives at home in his late 30's with a job that has no growth, and does not keep fit. I'm below average height, but was VERY short until I was about 20 and I got told constantly I was too short for people. Even now I sometimes get told it. In general people outgrow or realize these standards are very dumb and shallow, unless they are attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:28 AM
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Your answer is correct but you have seriously fucked up the way to get there. It will be skewed towards women because women are more selective than men since they have much more at risk when having sex. Women's sex drive is lower? Most of my female friends complain that their man can't keep up. Most women are bisexual? Dude you watch too much porn. It just seems that way because it's okay in our society for women to be bisexual and it's not okay for men to be bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:21 AM
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Yeah, most of the time when guys say their woman doesn't enjoy sex or most women they've hooked up with had low sex drives. No buddy, they don't want sex with YOU! If you are willing to listen to a woman and attempt to hold off on cumming for a minute or two to make sure she does, you've just elevated yourself over like half the guys she's slept with. And then guess what? She wants to fuck you again, because she actually orgasmed. Most of the time when I hook up with a woman my body literally ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:19 PM
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I think the problem is these content creators online use hyperbole to sell men this idea of always banging a new hot woman. But you are half wrong with what women find attractive monogamy, empathy, etc. You can only find these things out by spending an extended amount of time with somebody, you aren`t going to learn these things from a date or two. People confuse the reason why women are attracted to guys who get lots of women, it's their confidence and ability to have fun in most situations. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:06 AM
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I didn't change it so it was 20-40, don't think the age range is dumb. If you want somebody making 6 figure and more you generally have to go older.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 11:25 PM
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Not sure about others but me and my friends do comment on cooking skills and give each other shit if their place is a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:15 PM
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If a woman expects a traditional relationship she better be okay with us living in an even smaller shoebox than we could afford if we had dual incomes. I live in one of the most expensive cities in my country and most women here aren't stupid and don't expect the man to pay for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:08 PM
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Is this calculator accurate? I put in my stats and for reference, I'm 5'8, fit but not jacked, make $40,000, I did put white since I am white, and it says I am 5.3% of men and that the woman is an aspiring cat lady. I feel like I am a very attainable goal on paper for most men, is it literally just because I'm not overweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:10 PM
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The less attractive the woman, the thirstier they are. Same goes for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 11:59 PM
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My favourite example of a woman being clueless about dating is one of my close friends. She had been single for a while and complained to me that she hadn't been laid in months and said she was doing everything right, "You know going to parties and bars and dressing cute, but I haven't slept with anybody!" and that is literally all she did. She would just show up and hang out with her friends, waiting for a guy to talk to her. She would tell me she found many guys cute at the bar or party but no…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 11:00 PM
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Foodie calls, drinks at the bar, rides to places, etc. I've seen it all from "nice" girls. I can respect the women who are transparent about it because they aren't lying to you. The reason they tell men to not pay for dates is that the average man is going to get used. When one of my friends started dating seriously he was dropping $100+ on first or second dates because he thought that's what you do. I have another friend who is dating somebody at the moment, but he said if he is single again he…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:22 PM
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The issue? I don't want to spend my money on a random person lol. If it's coffee or a single drink it's fine. In the end, it's your money and you can choose how to spend it, don't let people guilt you into it, and now it's also a nice way to vet for FDS women. Also, women using men for their money happens more than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:08 PM
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They can give advice like be funny, confident, and cool? You know when women say that they "just clicked" with a man or it was just so easy, normally it's not the same way from the man's point of view. He was making it happen. I'm not sure what else to say to you but there are videos online of women using a man's tinder, or setting an account up as man and being so shocked. Or Norah Vincent who lived as a man for a year and a half and thought dating would be super easy because she knew what wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:55 PM
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Most people, in general, give terrible dating advice, it's not just limited to women. The reason TRP tells its users to not listen to women for dating advice is because of how drastically different the dating experience for men and women is. Women are able to sit around and have men show their interest and then they get to pick from the lot, men have to go around and get attention from women. It's not the women are just genetically born to give bad dating advice, it's that most have not had the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:40 PM
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Sounds like that dude is addicted to the validation Tinder and sex give him because unless the dude fucked her brains out or is super hot she probably won't go back to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:38 PM
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I have a friend whose body count is in the '80s and it's always been a point of conflict between his girlfriends. They think he is a sex addict and is going to cheat on them at the drop of a hat. So no, both men and women care about body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:48 AM
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It's the problem with self-help or the "Manosphere" being monetized on the internet, they need to put out consistent content and there are only so many ways you can rephrase "Workout, eat healthily, and have some boundaries". But they also only get girls they meet out at a club and try to get them to drink to say stupid stuff, and they always put words in the girls' mouths. "What would you like your partner to make?" "Umm, I don't know I think $50,000/year is good." "But what about six figures?"…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:43 PM
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Because when Red Pillers talk about dread game they mean actually going and getting numbers and then telling their wives/girlfriends about it and showing it. Dread game is best when it's just in the air, AKA just being an attractive person that others want to date. It's just meant to motivate your partner to not get too comfortable because they know you can go out and get another one with ease.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:29 AM
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The stuff like, treat them like children, always run dread game, women have no agency, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:10 AM
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Yes, all the stuff that TRP wants their new members to start with is just tried and true self-help advice, they want you to start with it because it works, and then you will be more inclined to believe their crazier theories. I'm a guy by the way, but the advice works for women too. Both genders like fit and healthy people who have boundaries and know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:51 PM
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I'm not sure why people keep pushing the narrative that women aren't attracted to their boyfriends/husbands/flings. Sure, there are people that get more or less attractive the more you learn about them, but it's not the 1950's any more we all know women get horny too. And yes an 18 year old guy going on a dating app stating that he's broke and jobless is bait for sugar mamas lmao. Your stat is wrong, male sexlessness is closer to 30% now. And women going crazy with desire and lust isn't a male f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:19 PM
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It's also because women don't have to do the work with finding partners, they can just load up Tinder and pick who they want. It's much more exhausting for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:27 AM
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Buddy, you have issues. You said there isn't any moans or body language to take cues from, so why are you even talking about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 10:38 PM
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Are you saying that you can't get them into bed? You have bigger problems then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:41 PM
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Everybody wants to believe their cock is God's gift to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:48 PM
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Sure practice and experience help, but you can literally just ask them what they like lol. Take cues from their body language and moans. The other commenter is right, most men just aren't willing to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:42 PM
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Literally this! I'm a man, but I've had multiple women call me after a breakup because their boyfriends couldn't give them an orgasm. Men always complain they can't keep FWBs or girls around after sleeping with them, but I bet most of them are selfish lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:40 PM
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I've seen many dudes fall for a narc chick because they were so starved they couldn't see through her. But yes I do agree with you that not all attention is good. I just think a lot of men out there need anything right now just to help their self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:40 PM
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Okay, I can tell you are just a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:18 PM
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Gonewild is more like online dating your message has to stand out to get a conversation. Whereas with Onlyfans she has financial reasons to keep talking to you and make you feel nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:15 PM
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I'll try and find this video. It was an interview on CNBC, I think, and this woman was promoting her book about why men and women leave marriages and she found that women leave for much pettier reasons than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:14 PM
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I would say any attention is good attention, for men, since most men are severely starved of it. I know that women face other unique problems in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:10 PM
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I'd say both. For online dating men have to have a good profile, versus women who can just rock up with whatever and still get tons of matches. Or even just being on the street or out a bar. For the relationship it gets more complicated because people are complicated, but in general yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:03 PM
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On Onlyfans you get to talk to the girl, so you can kind of do the girlfriend experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:58 PM
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A lot of men are doing that but the E-version. Onlyfans and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:56 PM
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People don't like the hard work it takes and with equality being the biggest narrative now it confuses men since it's thrown out the window in the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:48 PM
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The guy working 60 hours a week is not going to have the energy to hit the gym and go out and meet women. I cannot stress this enough. While I was much younger I worked 50-70 hours a week, long grueling hours. By the time my shift ended I just wanted to sleep. I actually had a good amount of female interest but I was literally too tired to notice since my days off were catching up on sleep, doing any errands, and watching Netflix because I was still so tired. Meanwhile, the part-time guys at my …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:38 PM
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I remember the moment I "unplugged" from the red pill was reading some dude's fanfic about his night out at a college bar, this guy was in his late 30's or early 40's. He picked some girl out of the bar to harr-hit on and her friends kept "cockblocking" him etc. I just realized I had seen this scene before with older dudes hitting on my friends, they weren't cool or "alpha" they were creepy and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:16 PM
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I always laugh when people say red pill tells you how women think. No sweer summer child, it's just the fan fiction men write in their field reports.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:31 PM
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I also discovered red pill stuff when I was 19 but I'm younger than you and I felt this was the time it started to transition from giving men useful information to AWALT, etc. I think it has to with people using red pill to make money online, and red pill can be boiled down to a few basic things. Lift weights and lose weight if you're overweight Set boundaries for yourself and make sure people don't cross them Tell women your intentions clearly Have some hobbies and things you enjoy doing, and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:19 PM
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This is why I am preferring to meet people in person. In person they can see my sense of humor and it just feels more natural. Apps are pretty much for hookups now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 10:22 AM
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Oh yeah, you're right. My wording is not clear. Yes, lots of young women know guys want to fuck, but they don't know how to tell who is out just to fuck and who is actually a decent person and wants to be her friend. Where do you think the stereotype of older guys tricking/manipulating younger/barely legal girls comes from? Working at bars I saw tons of young women learn this lesson the hard way. Or girls thinking that a guy thought she was super nice and thought she was funny etc. since his tip…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:40 PM
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What young men don't get manipulated or tricked? Are you kidding me? And yes, not all 18 year old girls are concerned that all men want to fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:01 PM
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It's about life experience. I've seen it personally happen a lot from the industry I work in. Young people, let's not pretend young men don't get manipulated too it's just not normally for sex, don't have the life experience yet to sniff out people who only want one thing from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:14 PM
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That is a conversation that a father has to have with his son, just like how the mother has the conversation with her daughter that boys will lie, cheat, and steal to get in her pants. It's also the implication that men are bigger and stronger than women so men are always under no threat to women. Just look at videos that compare men abusing women in public and women abusing men in public. The man barely has to touch the woman before people come barrelling in with the police already on the phone…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 12:08 PM
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No, the basic stuff is allowed to be talked about like working out, setting boundaries for yourself etc. TRP gets in trouble when it says "Women are children" "Women can never be held responsible"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 08:59 AM
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Eh this is kind of true, red pill starts off with tried and true stuff like "Work out! Women like fit and attractive guys!" "Set boundaries for yourself! People respect that!" And then give guys some basic pickup routines that will work. Once the guy gets laid he most likely will keep diving down the rabbit hole since most of the guys that find TRP desperately need to hear some of the basic stuff they preach and have not ever/long time since they got laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:23 AM
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Yeah I remember when I worked in bars there were always servers and cooks who were in their mid 30's and older who would hit on the fresh hires that were 18-20 years old. They actually would get dates pretty often because they knew how to play the game, but we all thought they were losers. They purposefully would avoid older women because after a while they pickup on the cheap game that gets run on barely legal girls. I remember one night I got a text from a friend that read, "Can you tell Alex …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:17 AM
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Yes, guys care about looks, but did you read what I'm said? Sometimes even top tier guys have bad nights and will fuck somebody less attractive than them. Unless you're the tippy top you are not gonna have beautiful women lining up to fuck you every night of the week, maybe you do but just at that moment, they aren't around. One of my friends who you could call a Chad kept a FWB around that was only okay looking and was bad in bed because she was his neighbor and never turned him down for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:37 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RxeQ63GDx4s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:44 PM
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...women also like sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:51 PM
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Okay, sure. I'd always rather bed an attractive woman, but sometimes you have a rough night and still want to fuck lol It's why women have created the term "The Fuckzone"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:51 PM
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I think you may be underrepresenting how it's already being felt in society, Gen X is the first generation to grow up with it but the Millennials are feeling the effects already. But I think you're right the government will be such a late step. I could see governments try to push a "Nuclear family" Esque thing again
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:19 PM
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Yeah they left Facebook to move to Instragram.....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:45 PM
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I could see in maybe 10-20 years programs coming in that focus on men or some very very attractive benefits to create a family. I could see programs to try and get men to finish a degree since the number of men graduating is dropping, and we know that a lot of women who hold a degree are not willing to date somebody without one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:40 PM
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No lol, guys mostly don't care. Every guy knows sometimes you just get an ugly/fat girl. Guys with high body counts have tons of unattractive girls in there, unless they are Clooney or Leo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:22 PM
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I'm glad I come across as sincere, I am not a Red Pill or incel or whatever else people throw around on here. I'm not out here saying men are weak or not trying etc. It's a problem not unique to men and it goes beyond "Manhood" or "Being Alpha"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:53 PM
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From the time I spent on TRP I never saw anybody mention the Pareto Principle. I'm just quoting what Red Pillers are saying, and not sure why you are saying I'm purporting that nonsense since I literally said it's not true in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:59 PM
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I'm pretty sure the RedPillers are using 80/20 from that OkCupid study from years ago no? Not the Pareto principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:54 PM
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They go hand in hand no? It's hard to bond and connect to a partner if you aren't having sex with them. The researchers aren't concerned with sex as much as they are concerned about what's preventing it. Because technically we are living in one of the most sexually free times, so why is sex on the decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:52 PM
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I'm a man and have felt the effects as well, I'm just not going to lie to make points.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:49 PM
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I think it was in the first article but it's long lol I remember reading a better article but forgot to bookmark it. I'm not trying to minimize either problem, just bring some actual facts to it. I think at this point in time all millennials know at least one person of each gender who is sexless, and that's lowballing it. I'm not denying the meteoric rise of male sexlessness, but it takes two people to have sex. edit: lmao I didn't mean to type that I am denying the rise of male sexlessness
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:46 PM
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Yes, it's obvious bullshit but RedPill people are touting those numbers around. The whole 80/20 rule. Also thanks for reading the articles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:05 PM
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Okay but I've seen people this week on this sub say that. Some popular Youtubers into TRP tout that number. The whole 80/20 rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:03 PM
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In one of the articles it shows that female sexlessness has literally tripled, sure the number is smaller but you don't think that's alarming too? And these are old numbers, most data for sexlessness is from pre2016 and even in the article, they said that the data was too old and researchers feel that those numbers are too small. Sexlessness is bad for both genders, we are raising underdeveloped adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:58 PM
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Idk how you can look enormous rise is sexlessness in young men in the last decade and still tout "everyone is having less sex" Because it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:21 PM
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Redpill dudes are saying it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:39 PM
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Sure, but even Chad isn't immune to the effects of time there is are always going to be younger Chads with better looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:44 AM
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Well as a firefighter you are fit as fuck and of course the whole sexy firefighter calendar. Notice how I put high status in quotes, it's all relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:44 AM
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Chad could still sleep with women his whole life if he wanted to, but a lot pick a woman because it takes work to be constantly sleeping with women and staying at the top of your game.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:23 PM
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Yes an interesting career with low pay still can attract women, aka the whole girls love musicians thing. There's a reason guys who have "high status" jobs do well if they put it on their dating profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:20 PM
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I'm sure a lot of men have examples from their own lives, but you could also check out the Freshandfit after hours podcast, not saying I like them or not, but they sometimes have average women on demanding the world. In my own life a woman who was on the border of obesity complaining that she went a month without sex. Another one, this FWB I had who was overweight telling me about all the guys she's stringing along, jumping from one boyfriend to the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:05 PM
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This is the truth. Dating is the man chasing the woman, no matter how much women or allies want to say it's 50/50. It's man chasing woman. We supply for the women to pick from, of course, they have the upper hand. Suppliers have to have things that make them really stand out from the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:51 PM
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Warren Farrel did a study on this. Single women outearn single men, since single men tend to get to a level of "Good enough" for them and stay there. As soon as men get into a committed relationship or have kids they really start to outpace women in earnings. I forget exactly what the reasons were but I think it was men are comfortable with staying in a zone where they had everything they wanted at the time. Women seemed to always be on the hunt or grind to earn more and more. It's not that men …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:24 AM
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Average looking does not mean low maintenance. While all men want to date the 10/10 models most can be realistic and realize they aren't a 10/10 man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:02 AM
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I mean yes it happens, but that's not the general trend in dating and it's much different if you are already dating somebody and they buy you gifts and shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:37 AM
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an average guy shooting their shot with finesse is much hotter because women understand the courage it takes to approach. Yeah, no most women do not understand the courage it takes to approach because most do not approach, and normally when they do approach it is met with a good reaction or "vibes". And even when most women approach they don't actually have to take the reigns since the guys will do that too. I used to live with all women and when we would go out and I didn't go home with another…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:24 AM
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