Local-Law534 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
38	How do you provide value for an older man?	LTR/MARRIAGE	Local-Law534	/r/RedPillWomen	18/12/21 08:12 PM
32	How to surrender / let him lead when it comes to parenting?		Local-Law534	/r/RedPillWomen	26/12/21 02:25 AM
7	How to submit / let him lead when it comes to parenting?		Local-Law534	/r/RedPillWives	26/12/21 02:24 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How to surrender / let him lead when it comes to parenting? This seems like great, balanced advice. Thank you. Quite simply, the main thing is that I want to make my husband happy. My husband is happy when I am loving toward his son, and he is happy when I am warm and sweet generally. He is not happy when I'm critical, distant, or dissatisfied. I can choose to step back and not engage with my stepson as long as he is exhibiting these behaviors, but I think it is disappointing to my husband as he wants us to be one close happy family. I want to stop being…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/12/21 07:30 PM
2	How to submit / let him lead when it comes to parenting? We have sat down and discussed it many, many times. My husband doesn't see the language as abusive because he's just a kid, he's being funny, it's "play-fighting", etc. The end of the conversation every time is that I'm a sensitive girly girl who just can't handle normal boy stuff. In reality, I grew up with six brothers (six!) and I have two sons myself and none of them act the way his son does. I know he can be expected to act differently. The conversations just lead to me crying and them acti…	/r/RedPillWives	26/12/21 06:56 PM
3	How do you provide value for an older man? I agree with your assessment completely except for the part where you seem to presume about my attraction. His age may decrease his attractiveness/value on the overall dating market just as being a single mother decreases mine, but his attractiveness to me is not diminished. He's a total silver fox to me and I do not at all wish he was 10 years younger. But if other younger women are less attracted, it sure doesn't bother me, lol.... Also worth noting, these value markers are fluid. His stabilit…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/21 05:59 PM
4	How do you provide value for an older man? Is this true indefinitely or is there a point where you think it starts to become a wash? I.e., would it still be considered valuable for a 70yo man to be with a 50yo woman?	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/21 05:15 AM
14	How do you provide value for an older man? Just did :)	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/21 05:13 AM
6	How do you provide value for an older man? Yup, good point.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/21 05:10 AM
1	How do you provide value for an older man? What is it about the barista that's drawn you to her? What is it about the multi-millionaire that isn't as compelling?	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/21 05:10 AM
2	How do you provide value for an older man? Yes, agreed! Just wording it that way in terms of considering benefit for him -- obviously if he wasn't around I would still put as much attention and effort towards the kids.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/21 05:09 AM
4	How do you provide value for an older man? Wow! That sounds like a sweet deal. It does create more pressure though to maintain that value.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/21 05:08 AM
2	How do you provide value for an older man? So hard to feel sexy third trimester/postpartum ugh...I want to hide in baggy sweatpants until I'm skinny again. But I'll lean into that! And thanks!	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/21 05:05 AM
5	How do you provide value for an older man? I think you're right. One of his complaints about his extremely successful ex was that he couldn't do anything for her -- couldn't be "the man". She supported him with business and finances, etc but almost in a motherly sort of way. I'm not able to support in those ways, but he doesn't need it anyway. He's managed our household just fine, and he's clearly proud of what he's provided. I would never suggest that a woman should limit her achievement or success to let her man be "the provider", but …	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/21 05:04 AM
8	How do you provide value for an older man? Maybe I'm hormonal but this comment made me tear up. Thank you so much for the encouragement!	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/21 04:56 AM
1	How do you provide value for an older man? I'm newish around here but I thought that's awfully close to "the wall" or the point where youth is not so valuable anymore.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/12/21 10:00 PM
15	How do you provide value for an older man? Thank you! That's reassuring. I suppose dull is relative. Being a mom and a kindergarten teacher feels dull in comparison with being a CEO, Ivy League graduate, model, sex & intimacy coach, or world-traveling free-spirited yoga chick...these are the types he's been with before and most of his colleagues and friends are with. Just super interesting women. But, few of their relationships seem that great or aspirational to me. Maybe our dynamic, even if it feels unequal, could be a recipe for succe…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/12/21 09:31 PM
5	All about housework I feel like I spend way more time cooking and cleaning than other people, and I'm not sure if it's just that I'm slow / don't have efficient habits / am a perfectionist. My husband sleeps like an epileptic beached dolphin so it can take me 5-10 minutes to make the bed with all the pillows arranged. It can take an hour for me to make breakfast if I'm baking something more complex (scones, eggs/bacon, coffee) and I'll work on laundry during the downtimes there. Another 15 minutes of cleanup. Gener…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/12/21 08:42 PM