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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.I'll be 30 in just over a week and am just now starting to stand in my power and treat people with the same ass energy they give me. People do not respect individuals who are overly kind, accommodating, empathetic etc. They just don't. So reserve your beautiful qualities for trusted people who have earned them. It's super hard to break long-standing, psychologically engrained behavioral patterns, but so worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.I am also going out my way to be less kind and friendly. I am still this way with trusted people, but less and less so with people I don't know/haven't built trust with. People really do not respect sweetness, and usually just take advantage of it. This is sad because ideally, the world needs more kindness. The real tea is that both women and men usually do not treat "nice" people well (most people in general suck). But men are obviously much, much worse and more predatory. I think the answer is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:15 AM |
| 24 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 02:55 AM |
| 73 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.Men don't actually like or value "sweet" women. They just think women like that are easier to take advantage of and walk on. That's what they "like". And this is coming from someone who is often described as "kind" and "sweet". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 09:19 PM |
| 31 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.I am one of those people who naturally has a very warm/obviously empathetic energy that people pick up on very easily. It is advantageous in some ways because I connect well with people and tend to build trust easily, but it also makes me a target for weirdos and predators. Anyone have any tips on how to deal with men while not compromising my natural "presentation"/aura? I've literally been avoiding speaking with men as much as possible because I have no idea what else to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 09:09 PM |
| 158 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.Honestly same. I'm naturally a very warm/friendly person and I don't want to deliberately act "mean" or snarky so I literally just avoid speaking with straight men as much as possible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 09:04 PM |
| 45 | Is it just me or is there a mild conspiracy to make women lower their standards of physical attractiveness?It's not a conspiracy. It's grand-scale societal brainwashing that is mandated and maintained by patriarchy. Under this system, women are primarily valued for how they look. This is why perfectly average looking men (at best) feel entitled to "only date" models with 36-24-36 proportions, flawless faces (no makeup though! They prefer nAtUrAl women), not a speck of body hair, and perfectly perky boobs, while women are gaslit into believing they are shallow hoes for wanting a guy who's taller than … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 04:27 AM |
| 48 | What are your dealbreakers?Aside from the obvious ones (abusive, racist, misogynist etc): -Low emotional intelligence. Nuff said. -Poor etiquette and tactless. This goes hand in hand with low emotional intelligence. I simply cannot stand men who cannot conduct themselves with class, respect, and dignity in social situations. Lack of manners makes me 🤮 -Selfish/inconsiderate -Grown man version of a "Class clown" type/obviously starved for attention. -Poor listener and communicator Excessive drinking and/or smoking. Having … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:42 AM |
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