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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	I only attract gays and trans... Did you register as a woman? On dating apps you can put your sexual orientation so that should filter out the gay men. With regards to transexuals, I got a lot of likes from them as well too, in addition to morbidly obese women. Occasionally I will get a like from a decent looking woman who either won't respond or ends up ghosting me.	/r/seduction	22/11/24 12:26 AM
2	Men who fail at patriarchy and capitalism are eliminated from the dating pool Yes, this can all be boiled down to whether a man is attractive and constitutes the top 5% of men that get most of the matches on dating apps. The mythical "Chad". If a guy isn't overtly good-looking, he'll need to have the qualities the OP mentions. There are always exceptions to the rule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 08:33 AM
32	Why do you think so many women have the same dating issue I will admit, I wasn't expecting a levelheaded response to be the first post I read. It is usually someone from the manosphere or a feminazi gaslighting and berating the opposite gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 04:52 AM
0	Men have a biological clock as well Great points. The OP is probably an ardent feminist who wants to misconstrue male fertility for her own agenda. Yes, male sperm quality does deteriorate with age, but it doesn't fall off a cliff and becomes redundant like with menopause. This is why when a women gets pregnant at 35, it's considered a geriatric pregnancy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 12:21 AM
2	When You’re Single, Half The Women You Date Already Got A Man This, and also dating older guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 12:17 AM
6	The issues with online dating could be solved with a better app Great ideas, but I don't think it will override the human propensity to gravitate towards those who we find attractive. Regardless of what dating apps try to do, it's always the men in the upper echelon of attractiveness that get most of the likes, dates, and matches. Physical attractiveness trumps everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 12:15 AM
1	Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with men Incorrect. Too naive to realise that just because a guy will sleep with you, doesn't mean he'll date you. Even obese women on dating apps, get more likes and matches than model tier men. It is because there are a lot of thirsty men out there willing to do anything to get their pen1s' wet. Walking around hand-in-hand with an obese girl, will elicit shame and social stigma from his peers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/24 05:41 PM
1	Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with men Fair enough, I accept there are exceptions to the rule. What I will say is that there is a difference between men wanting to sleep with you, and those willing to be in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/24 10:55 PM
2	Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with men Don’t use science terms if you don’t understand them. My comprehension skills are better than yours. If you are delusional to believe all the people doing this are fakers and 'grifters', then obviously you are someone who refuses to acknowledge women are just as superficial as men and beyond help. Once again, you resort to accusations, tangents, and name calling without evidence. It is like me saying "All women claiming rape initially consented but then got upset because the guy didn't want to b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/24 01:33 AM
2	Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with men Experiments can be replicated. You are engaging in semantic wordplay, but I'll entertain you. Such experiments have been done and replicated countless times. A simple Google or Youtube search will confirm this. Men have not given money to anyone, these experiments have been conducted to show just how important looks are to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 11:04 PM
3	Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with men It gets click and attention, because women care about looks. If women didn't care about looks, such experiments would fail. You can't come up with a logical retort, so you dismiss things with no evidence. Typical women behaviour when they lose an argument. You must not be a very sharp engineer! Lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 09:51 PM
1	Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with men Wrong. Plenty of women date good-looking fit men, regardless of their personality. They call these men 'jerks' when they get dumped. You obviously have not seen the online dating experiments where women thirst over good-looking fit men who claim to be rapist and criminals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 06:26 PM
1	Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with men Fit men who maintain a healthy lifestyle, are generally not attracted to women with a BMI making them obese.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 11:00 AM
-1	Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with men Reality hits harder for men. You can be an unattractive morbidly obese girl, and once in a while a Chad or Chad-lite will be thirsty enough to have a ONS with you. Now all of a sudden, such women think they are entitled to such men and being with anyone else is 'settling.' Nothing wrong with going only for men you are attracted to, but have enough introspection to know that what you like doesn't have to like you back, because they are out of your league. The same applies to obese middle aged men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 05:46 AM
4	Men should approach less and reject more In order to reject, I need to be approached. I never get approached.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 06:05 AM
3	Never had a girlfriend, how to turn my life around? Hey OP, honest question, but what would most people rate you out of 10? People often skirt around the issue, but the problem might be that you are unattractive. If this is the case, acknowledge it and come up with ways that might rectify this.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 11:29 PM
1	You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in Dating Men aren't trying to argue their way into a woman's heart. They are pointing out the blatant hypocrisy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 12:11 PM
1	You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in Dating If you truly looks max tho you could def become atleast an 8 unless you have some kind of deformity. Another blatant lie. You can be short, have an undesired ethnic background, have poor facial ratios etc. You can gym your body, but there's no gym for your face. The only men I have seen become 7s or higher, are those who were once overweight and upon losing the weight, their face and jawline became more well defined, but they already had the bone structure, which not everyone does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 12:11 PM
1	You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in Dating That 10% includes stuff like money and personality. That is a lie. If you have a woman is not attracted to you, you can have all the money in the world, and the only thing money and personality will attract are gold diggers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 12:08 PM
–	Why aren't males attending singles events anymore? I can't say 100%, but I think the notion that "men aren't attending singles events anymore" is a narrative from the manosphere or MGTOW, which of course, is completely false. Heck, even the Brazilian zouk classes I attended was filled with thirsty out of shape men (my now ex-girlfriend made me go with her at the time).	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 06:53 AM
1	Defining Good "Social Skills" and 'Confidence' Oh okay, fair enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 12:58 PM
2	Defining Good "Social Skills" and 'Confidence' Looks gets you in the door and then the women starts compromising because they feel a 'spark' when they are with said good looking man. This whole 'looks doesn't get you an LTR but personality does' is a load of BS. Plenty of ugly guys with awesome personalities and kind souls who can't even get a date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 12:31 PM
12	The dating market does not suck for women They would also create ugly woman profiles (like morbidly obese women) and still get a ton of matches and thirsty messages. This for me was the most shocking thing. I remember the morbidly obese pig nose women experiment that received a ridiculous amount of interest from men. There are certain things I do not understand about this world, like why are men subscribing to Only Fans? And why are men sending DM's to morbidly obese women on dating apps, when they themselves are decent looking? What a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 12:36 AM
-2	The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinity Where does the OP say feminism is about red-pill ideologies? I think there are a lot of men out there who don't look after themselves, are couch potatoes, or just unattractive, complain about the dating market without looking in the mirror and assessing themselves objectively. I also don't think feminism has much to do with the ubiquity of male loneliness, but rather its an inadvertent by-product of our consumer culture, that just happens to cater to female hypergamy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 12:25 AM
8	People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naive Dating is unfair for most men who are not in the upper echelons of attractiveness, studies have shown this. That is why male loneliness and suicide rates are so high.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 06:56 PM
2	People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naive There are winners and losers in the dating market. The harsh truth some people will have a harder time than others in romance and finding love, is obscured. Men unfortunately suffer from a lot of gaslighting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 06:47 PM
12	People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naive You are deliberately misinterpreting things, and one of the people who gaslight men into believing in such fallacies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 06:32 PM
–	For the men who have tried the common dating advice of joing hobby groups, expanding your social circle, taking a class, join a co-ed sports league, join a book club, etc... how long did it take until it actually bore fruit? Yes, it's misogyny. The default explanation when your fallacies have been pointed out. I am surprised you didn't accuse me of "mansplaining."	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 12:12 AM
0	For the men who have tried the common dating advice of joing hobby groups, expanding your social circle, taking a class, join a co-ed sports league, join a book club, etc... how long did it take until it actually bore fruit? Think about this, you are projecting your anger, on a random guy who attended a speed dating event, that received interest from overweight/obese women. A random anomalous experience (anomalous because this was the only context in my life, I've had that much women show interest in me), does not disprove the rule. Work on your triggers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 09:02 PM
3	For the men who have tried the common dating advice of joing hobby groups, expanding your social circle, taking a class, join a co-ed sports league, join a book club, etc... how long did it take until it actually bore fruit? You are taking things out of context to serve your agenda, by refusing to see things are nuanced. One guy attends 2 speed dating events and gets interest from the majority of the obese/overweight women, does not disprove the general rule that women have a lot more options than men I nearly all contexts! This is the ONLY context in my entire life, I have had that many women show interest in me. I can go on dating apps for weeks on end and not get a match. Women can go on an app and get interest f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 08:56 PM
7	For the men who have tried the common dating advice of joing hobby groups, expanding your social circle, taking a class, join a co-ed sports league, join a book club, etc... how long did it take until it actually bore fruit? The women were overweight. As a fit guy, I will not date overweight girls. Also, a guy getting 9/12 and 6/10, means I was much better looking than the girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 12:58 PM
8	For the men who have tried the common dating advice of joing hobby groups, expanding your social circle, taking a class, join a co-ed sports league, join a book club, etc... how long did it take until it actually bore fruit? The women were overweight. As a fit guy, I will not date overweight girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 12:56 PM
24	For the men who have tried the common dating advice of joing hobby groups, expanding your social circle, taking a class, join a co-ed sports league, join a book club, etc... how long did it take until it actually bore fruit? Women are hypergamous, and generally only date above their looks level. Dating within their league is referred to as "settling" by them. A few overweight men who are insightless and trying to hit on fitter, prettier girls, are the exception to the rule. Most men know where they stand in-terms of looks, the reality of it is more blatant and brutal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 04:12 AM
1	For the men who have tried the common dating advice of joing hobby groups, expanding your social circle, taking a class, join a co-ed sports league, join a book club, etc... how long did it take until it actually bore fruit? why can’t you be happy with a woman on your “looks” level? All the girls that liked me at speed dating were overweight. I workout regularly to the point where I get comments from my peers and co-workers about my body. I've dated girls who weren't into health and fitness, and our lifestyles are incompatible. Isn’t this what men are always claiming women do? I wonder why these men can’t take their own advice. I can't talk on behalf of these men, because the ones who say this, usually get no intere…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 04:06 AM
1	For the men who have tried the common dating advice of joing hobby groups, expanding your social circle, taking a class, join a co-ed sports league, join a book club, etc... how long did it take until it actually bore fruit? why can’t you be happy with a woman on your “looks” level? All the girls that liked me at speed dating were overweight. I workout regularly to the point where I get comments from my peers and co-workers about my body. I've dated girls who weren't into health and fitness, and our lifestyles are incompatible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 04:03 AM
43	For the men who have tried the common dating advice of joing hobby groups, expanding your social circle, taking a class, join a co-ed sports league, join a book club, etc... how long did it take until it actually bore fruit? Excellent post! It mirrors my experiences too, except I never joined a book club. Hobby groups: if they are posted online, they are probably sausage fests. There are mixed-gender groups of people who will go out to do hobbies, but these are more friend groups that have a hobby in common. You need to know someone to get in. I really want to harp on the above, because every hobby group I went to, was overwhelmingly men. I mean somewhere between 80-95%. The worst was a language exchange group (I kn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 01:58 AM
2	Cold approaching women is usually taken as a compliment unless the guy is fuck ugly or disrespectful No, instead you tried to be equivocal and down play the struggle men actually face with OLD.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 11:42 AM
2	Cold approaching women is usually taken as a compliment unless the guy is fuck ugly or disrespectful Yes, and I'm telling you the previous studies, severely underestimated just how bad things are for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 11:26 AM
2	What would you say or do at a run club? I'm about 15 lbs over my ideal weight. The only time you'll see me running, is if someone's chasing me with a butcher's knife.	/r/seduction	20/08/24 08:06 AM
3	Advice for cold approaching women as a single man? That's a good mind-set. Things will be more difficult due to your height, but if you are targeting Hispanic girls, you should be fine. If you are going for non-Hispanics, especially whites, it'll be harder. The best advice I can give you is keep the conversations simple, have a couple of generic openers you can use for most situations, and understand you will get approach anxiety, the best strategy is to just open as soon as it is reasonable, e.g., don't be socially inept and open her when she's…	/r/seduction	20/08/24 08:00 AM
3	Advice for cold approaching women as a single man? Before cold approaching, you need to look in the mirror and ask yourself honestly: "What would most people rate me out of 10?" If you are below average, cold approaching is going to be hard, or what some people call "nightmare mode." I know because one of my wings was a 5'5 Asian dude, who was skinny and not conventionally handsome. Some of the rejections he got was "I don't date Asians" and "I don't agree with the one child policy." Cold approaching is tough as an ugly guy, and no amount of "ga…	/r/seduction	20/08/24 07:26 AM
7	Cold approaching women is usually taken as a compliment unless the guy is fuck ugly or disrespectful Yeah, recent research suggests things are actually worst for men. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3lypVnJ0HM	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 08:31 PM
2	Cold approaching women is usually taken as a compliment unless the guy is fuck ugly or disrespectful Lol. Thank goodness I've never relied on dating apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 07:44 PM
10	Cold approaching women is usually taken as a compliment unless the guy is fuck ugly or disrespectful On the other hand, the male participants ranked the female members on a standard bell curve...there's just as many 5s as 1s, just as many 4s as 2s, and the bulk are considered 3s. However, the overwhelming majority of messages from men to women were concentrated on the 4.5 - 5s. That is a lie. Go on YouTube and watch experiments where men post photos pretending average looking girls, and receive hordes of matches and messages within a couple of hours. An average girl on dating apps, gets much mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 07:22 PM
11	Cold approaching women is usually taken as a compliment unless the guy is fuck ugly or disrespectful The bad thing is most of these PUAs teach men to persist, and that it's all about 'game' and your 'masculine energy.' Like millions of years of biological hardwiring can be overcomed with PUA talk. Men need to learn that if they don't pass a woman's looks threshold, it ain't going nowhere. Dating is hard for average looking guys, I understand and empathise. I see nothing wrong with cold approaching, just don't cross that barrier where it becomes harassment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 05:39 AM
13	Cold approaching women is usually taken as a compliment unless the guy is fuck ugly or disrespectful Same as men often say they wish women approach them, but freak out if it happens I hate to say this, but I actually agree. I am an average looking guy at best, and the one day I did get asked out by an older lady I was not attracted to, I was like a deer in the headlights. We exchanged numbers and everything, but promptly afterwards I blocked her. It really freaked me out. I can only imagine how women feel, having to navigate being cold approached by a guy she finds unattractive, or dare I say, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 05:38 AM
60	Why are girls attracted to intelligence? Some women value intelligence, most don't give a crap unless you pass their looks threshold.	/r/seduction	19/08/24 04:34 AM
10	Running out of options Height is one of the most important things when it comes to attraction. Hence, that's why most girls filter height requirement in men to be at least 6 ft on dating apps. At the OP's height of 5'2, he is playing romance on hard mode.	/r/seduction	17/08/24 10:42 AM
2	Men might as well cold approach women in person given how the dating app market skews so heavily against their favor. Damm, sorry to hear you went through that. Your story reminds me of what happened to one of the major bookstores in Sydney, when pick up artists were going there specifically to cold approach and harass their female customers. They had absolutely no care in the world about how their behaviour affected their business, or how they made the women feel uncomfortable. A bunch of socially inept a--holes. https://www.abc.net.au/news/2020-01-25/sydney-bookshop-tells-pick-up-artists-to-stay-away/11899582	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 08:55 PM
9	Cold Approaching Women, exchanging Instas with then,then they unfollow me the same day. What is going on Yes, this is the best answer IMO. To add to this, just like there are girls you find unattractive and wouldn't approach, there are guys some women are just not interested in. Whenever I ask for a number and get offered social media instead, I know it's over and eject politely.	/r/seduction	16/08/24 05:56 AM
-1	Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest? As a man who is the furthest thing from a feminist, I couldn't agree more. If you were unattractive and overweight in your 20s, your 30s isn't going to be any better. In fact, you'd more likely than not be even more overweight and unattractive. These men are seriously deluded if they think the dating market suddenly shifts, and women in their 30s still don't have options. Unattractive bitter people, will always try to backwards rationalise things. Yes, women hit the wall, but so do men!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 12:49 PM
14	What are your experiences with speed dating events? Well, I've been to 2. The first one, out of the 12 girls there, all but one of them was decent looking. Most of the girls I talked with, mentioned they tried speed dating because they had bad experiences with online dating. Nearly all of them had been to multiple speed dating events. The second one, was the same, except there were no girls I found attractive, and the only reason I went, was because I got an email from the organiser offering me to go there for free. With that being said, I got po…	/r/seduction	14/08/24 12:17 AM
1	Is cold approaching genuinely controversial or taboo? Tell me you can't come up with a proper retort, without telling you can't come up with a retort. Once again, a man can have good social reading cues, but be ugly, and never get any attention from women. Talk about an idiot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 09:12 PM
–	Is cold approaching genuinely controversial or taboo? Okay, fair enough. I understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 12:38 PM
-1	Is cold approaching genuinely controversial or taboo? Yes, rejection is inevitable, most men get over it. It is part and parcel of cold-approaching. Just like in sales, what is your point? How do you know good looking men mainly face rejections? When you obviously haven't cold approached before. Quite the contrary, good looking men are more likely to succeed and be womanisers. Yes, sometimes women get the 'ick', just like how sometimes people get annoyed/angered by sales people cold calling. A socially calibrated man will she the girl is annoyed, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 12:31 PM
0	Is cold approaching genuinely controversial or taboo? Not true, being good at reading social cues and having a girlfriend are not two sides of the same coin, they are mutually exclusive. Just like how a man can be average looking or ugly, but with good social cues, and have to cold-approach because that's his only way to meet someone romantically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 11:40 AM
2	Is cold approaching genuinely controversial or taboo? That is a very astute observation. This is what I love about Reddit, the occasionally poignant insight amongst the midst of arguments and bickering. Up-voted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 11:34 AM
-1	Is cold approaching genuinely controversial or taboo? It can be alarming for a woman to be approached by a stranger who is a man It's alarming if done incorrectly. Yes, I have seen PUAs in my city tap women on the shoulder, or walk in-front of them to block their path, and behave in ways that's completely socially-inept. But cold-approach done correctly, comes off as no more than a casual conversation, because that's exactly what it is, a guy being social with a woman. there is general distrust/dissatisfaction of the stranger’s motives because the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 11:32 AM
–	"Women like all types of men" apparently the majority of women tend to be attracted to the same type of man Jesus Christ that's depressing! Doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out why I'm single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 10:38 AM
1	Approach Anxiety and how to stop coping with Dating Apps WTF? You're getting results from dating apps? Yet want to cold-approach? I call BS. If you're slaying on dating apps, you wouldn't feel the need to cold approach!	/r/seduction	07/08/24 11:32 PM
2	Dealing with jealous or hostile men This post reminds me of what happened to me last week. Cold-approached a girl at the traffic lights. Tried to make conversation and small talk, but she wasn't too receptive, so I ejected. After I crossed the road, I realised her 6'2 large ogre looking boyfriend was eye-balling me. He was on the verge of wanting to beat the crap out of me. After I was about 200 meters away, he was still eye-balling me.	/r/seduction	07/08/24 01:00 AM
–	Women have always found most men unattractive they just don't have to tolarate male sexuality anymore and it enrages men. A misandrist hell bent on demonizing men. Or maybe you make bad choices in men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 12:50 PM
–	Women have always found most men unattractive they just don't have to tolarate male sexuality anymore and it enrages men. They feel comfortable enough to be vulnerable and tell me about their struggles to even get a date, so why wouldn't they? Contrary to what you might think, most men would not feel comfortable with forcing a girl to have sex with them, for moral and legal reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 12:25 PM
–	Women have always found most men unattractive they just don't have to tolarate male sexuality anymore and it enrages men. I have never dated a man, but I speak with other men about dating all the time, and none of them, feel or expressed being entitled to sex with women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 12:05 PM
–	Women have always found most men unattractive they just don't have to tolarate male sexuality anymore and it enrages men. I don't think the vast majority of men (other than incels) feel entitled to sex or a woman's body. "Yes," women need to find a man attractive in order for them to want to sleep with them, and "Yes," unfortunately a lot of men fail to look in the mirror and see they aren't all that attractive. This reminds of how some women say "I won't settle," but fail to ask "Is it that I am refusing to settle, or the men I want, won't settle for me?" There is too too much divisiveness in these subreddits, whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 11:45 AM
1	Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man? Sometimes, there is a Redditor that just takes the words out of my mouth and explains my thoughts in a much better way than I ever can. Up-voted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 01:29 AM
1	The cold reality is that men "settle" for women who they aren't madly in love with too I know you're probably being sarcastic, but she's been on it and lost about 4 kilos, and it stopped after that. She's at least 20 kgs overweight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 11:52 AM
6	The cold reality is that men "settle" for women who they aren't madly in love with too Correct. The problem is she conflates sex with relationships, and believes sex is merely another stepping stone she needs to take, towards locking a guy down, failing to acknowledge male and female biology is completely different. In many ways I understand the cope. They have been told "You are beautiful" time and time again, when objectively, not every girl living in the Western World can be above average in looks. The ability to look in the mirror, and assess where you stand in-term of physica…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 12:23 AM
14	The cold reality is that men "settle" for women who they aren't madly in love with too Yeah, that's how I always felt as well too. My sister complains about not wanting to 'settle,' but fails to see she is overweight and not attractive. The complete lack of insight she has about her own level of physical attractiveness is mind boggling. Hence, whenever I hear women complain about 'settling,' I realise it's just them failing to look in the mirror and see that if they can't attract the guy they want, it's because they aren't attractive enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 03:31 PM
2	At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you. "He's criticizing your behavior and views, not you. You keep telling others that they don't know what an ad hominem is yet you're the one showing that you don't know. Learn not to take criticism personally. " Engaging in word play to minimize things. "I simply follow various different subreddits to call out inconsistencies in comments like yours." If this is why you are on Reddit, you need to get a life, and improve your comprehension skills.	/r/seduction	01/08/24 12:29 AM
0	At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you. "but people like you who blame them failures on looks always have so much other shit to fix other than looks." You have no idea what an ad hominem is. Not triggered at all. You just have a PUA dating coach worship/guru mentality where you feel the need to come in and defend your sacred PUA coach. Stop hero worshiping and start thinking for yourself.	/r/seduction	01/08/24 12:08 AM
1	At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you. "I’m proud to have helped men both with my free practical straight forward advice that can be seen in my profile and the (optional) paid practical coaching." Spin. You are just pathetic, low IQ, and cannot come up with a proper retort. Peace.	/r/seduction	31/07/24 11:56 PM
0	At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you. You are a PUA coach, you are stupid by default. How's that for an ad hominem. "DM me to teach you how to get at least a 1 night stand per month." Oh geez, you are one pathetic liar and BS artist. So triggered that you decided to down-vote me. LOL. Don't lose sleep.	/r/seduction	31/07/24 11:39 PM
-3	At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you. I approach and meet women routinely. I just know my looks played a major part in my success, not "game". The PUA coach got triggered and resorted to ad hominems.	/r/seduction	31/07/24 11:09 PM
2	I am 40 years old but concerned about daygame... This is good stuff right here, I dare say though, your advice is more geared towards men who have some experience under their belt cold-approaching. For a self-conscious newbie like him, he won't be able to apply it.	/r/seduction	31/07/24 11:03 PM
-4	At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you. None of what you say is applicable if the guy is a sub-5 or below. I find it funny how self proclaimed "PUA coaches" like to spin stuff to downplay the importance of looks. It is like asking a politician a question, and then they give an answer to something else. When an ideology affects their bottom line, you better believe they will try to BS their way out of it.	/r/seduction	31/07/24 10:58 PM
0	At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you. Yes, this pretty much confirms my experience as well too. Game has helped me though, convert a couple of girls who were initially "sort of into me" into long-term girlfriends. Basic principles like not acting needy, flooding her with messages, and showing sexual intent early on have been beneficial. With that being said, most PUAs will concede the importance of looks, but down play it and try to make "game" sound much more popular than what it is because they've got something to sell you.	/r/seduction	31/07/24 10:53 PM
21	Why do men feel so entitled to women here Your examples are cherry picked to specifically portray men in a bad light. Meaning you are probably a misandrist. Yes, men are not entitled to women or their bodies, no one here is claiming that or advocating for such ideologies. But men can complain about dating being hard and women's expectations being ridiculous, because for the average man, these things are true. A small group of socially inept men just happen to be the most vocal, then you go about stating categorically all men behave in s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 04:53 AM
5	Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these days Not true. Women in general will be okay with a decent looking socially savvy guy hitting on her. The problem is, most men who cold-approach are ugly and socially inept, and keep persisting to the point where it becomes sexual harassment. I've seen these idiotic pick up artists literally walk in-front women to block their path, forcing them to have a conversation with a complete stranger, whilst being completely oblivious that they are making the girl uncomfortable, or just refuse to accept their…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 06:31 PM
1	Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these days You mean single women don't want to be hit on by randos they find unattractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 06:14 PM
0	I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough? You ain't bad looking, but there is nothing outstanding about your appearance. Might be because you look like you might possibly be Arab?	/r/seduction	29/07/24 03:38 AM
–	The reason why society shuns age gap dating is because the younger a girl is, the more shes coveted PPD women who say things like that are usually upset some men have a superior hand in the dating market, despite being much older. Usually, they are decent looking, still in shape, and doing well off financially. They want to shame the men into dating women like them. The truth is, when a woman is in her early 20s to mid 30s, she still has a decent chance of finding someone if her expectations match reality. There is a large portion of men in their 20s and early 30s who are single and lonely, ye…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 03:37 AM
–	The reason why society shuns age gap dating is because the younger a girl is, the more shes coveted I don't think all age gap relationships are necessarily frowned upon, it just the potential for there to be some form of exploitation is more likely and feminist jump all over this. When my sister was 23, she started dating a guy who was 41. I freaked out when I first heard about it, and shunned the guy as a pervert. But after I met him, I just realised he wasn't that bad and was the type of guy she usually went for, despite being 18 years older. She was mature for her age and wanted to settle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 12:21 AM
2	Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized? A very small percentage of men will cold-approach. Meaning men who are willing to approach a woman they have no connection to either in the club, street, grocery store etc. I would hazard a guess that it is no more than 1%. If you take out the club environment where there is no alcohol, it is probably something like 0.5% of a percent. Some men will warm-approach e.g., asking someone out within their social circle or work environment. Rejection hurts, and having the social skills and grace to app…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/24 12:07 AM
0	Is dating just depressing in the 30s or what? True and depressing post. 36 year old single male here, dating is hard...lots of single mum's, and as someone who's into health and fitness, I get a lot of attention from morbidly obese women... It's just how it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 05:16 AM
1	Best dating apps? Have you tried dating websites specifically targeting women who are overseas? If you don't mind Asian girls, the Philippines and Thailand is good. Or conversely, Latin-America or Eastern-Europe is another possibility. I've got an Indian mate from Australia, who despite his racial/ethnic background, does well everytime he goes to the Philippines and is currently engaged to a hot Filipino girl. I've also heard of guys doing well in Eastern-Europe and those from former Soviet Union countries, (don'…	/r/seduction	25/10/21 12:48 AM
3	Best dating apps? I agree with said statement. Online dating is hard, and if you're an average to ugly looking guy, it is next to impossible. At least with cold-approaching, you can make yourself stand out and increase the odds slightly in your favour.	/r/seduction	25/10/21 12:40 AM
18	10 rules that i've learned from around 50 lays Nope! My Indian-Australian friend, who's short and has severe ezcema, gets laid all the time in the Philippines. Admittedly, I've seen white and East-Asian men do better because of assumed higher social/financial status, but to think you can't get bangs unless your white in the Philippines is a misconception.	/r/seduction	19/10/21 09:37 PM
19	10 rules that i've learned from around 50 lays I'm an ugly mofo and even I got several lays in the Philippines. Really, the Philippines has got to be the sex tourist capital of the world.	/r/seduction	19/10/21 09:34 PM
–	In last two years, I spent more than $25000 on hookers. I really want to elaborate on what r/mwa92i said in an earlier post. The best thing for you to do is travel overeas. I live in Australia, but it wouldn't be incorrect for me to say our dating market is very similar to North-America. I was pretty much dateless for most my teenage and adult life. The only thing I had going for me was my education and I had a decent paying job. Girls in Australia just wouldn't give me the time of day, and I had accepted the fact that more than likely, I'd probably …	/r/seduction	06/10/21 02:24 PM
6	The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market The sad thing is insight and articles like this is something Reddit is banning and eliminate. Alternative points of view about dating and marriage market is no longer tolerated. Political correctness has become the only 'truth you are allowed to speak, anything that contravenes this will be name called as being 'misogynistic', 'sexist, etc. How dare men have an alternative point of view and do something that guards their wealth from single mother predators.	/r/TheRedPill	05/12/18 02:21 PM
-1	Women have the right to reject you and not find your attractive Thanks but no thanks. If I wanted mainstream pop-culture advice I'd go watch Dr Phil.	/r/seduction	30/12/17 12:59 AM
2	She WILL cheat, no matter the circumstances Yeah I have noticed this too. A lot of good-looking guy's with high SMV, don't know what they are worth in the sexual market place. I suspect a lot of them don't know or understand the psychology of women, have low self-esteem, or just going for the low hanging fruit. If they spent a couple of months reading trp, they'd wise up and change. That's what I hope at least. The sad thing is when a fat ugly women dates one attractive guy out of their league, they think that is what they deserve through…	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/16 08:11 PM
34	Once again, AskWomen accidentally confirms TRP. "When I see a tall guy, like over 6'3, my vagina automatically flexes and gets wet. I'm not even exaggerating." I have seen a lot of ugly, tall guys pick up girls with no effort whatsoever. It seems to be one of those things a lot of girls are either hardwired or socialized to go for. I can't complain about height, or lack thereof, as I'm 5'10, but I have a mate who's 5'5 who's good looking, well-spoken and charming as fuck. But even on his best day he ain't nothing compared to the 6'3 meat head at the club. Being tall is one way to get girls, the other is to be rich. That's why a lot of guys go to the Ph…	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/16 08:00 PM
7	What tactics have you seen women use to try to lock down high SMV men Slight tangent. A mate of mine had a fling with one of his co-workers, and she got pregnant. Anyway, she was obviously a gold-digger, and he has a lot of money. He is also a Hungarian citizen and the last thing I heard was that 7 months into her pregnancy, all his assets got transferred over to his father and he started life in a new country.	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/16 05:53 AM
8	What tactics have you seen women use to try to lock down high SMV men Man, that is the stuff nightmares are made of. Good to hear you're doing alright though.	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/16 05:53 AM
13	"Man contests support for child he says he didn't father" It goes to show that there are some single, crazy mother's out there hell bent on ruining a man's life. My policy is to stay away from single mother's.	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/16 05:44 AM
18	"My husband [33M] is depressed and I'm [33F] fucking over it" Insightful! I work as a mental health nurse, and the amount BS I see surrounding mental health diagnoses makes me sad. The language and terminology used to diagnose "depression" is so tenuous and open for interpretation, that the majority of people reading it could label themselves as "depressed." To even suggest some mental illnesses are BS, results in ridicule. The dangerous thing is modern day psychiatry is medicalizing what is in fact a normal part of the human condition i.e., being depresse…	/r/TheRedPill	26/03/16 05:09 AM
2	Why is "men work more dangerous jobs" an example of female privilege, but "women work jobs that earn less" not male privilege? That is such a cop out. The whole "I've been socialized" into such roles is often used as an excuse. This falls back on the whole "nature vs nurture" debate. What came first, the chicken or the egg? Do men gravitate towards maths and the hard science, and women towards language and literature because they were socialized into it, or because it's a genetic gender predisposition? If you look into I.Q. tests (I.Q. test scores are largely determined by genetics - less than 10% is determined by socia…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/16 12:07 PM