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Do you want to be in the pain and misery to the point doctors order you to have bed rest for 3 months? That’s like being envious of someone for having pneumonia bc they didn’t have to work for a few weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:49 AM
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You might be in the wrong sub. They will point out things that they think or do disproportionately affect men then blame feminism and modern women for some reason. See how Aba and Preach’s descent mostly was slowly blaming feminism more and more on what they at least thought were men’s issues
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 09:21 PM
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What do you mean by double? Yes there are successful women but the top creators with the most views thus the most income are men in pretty much all gaming content twitch and YouTube
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 05:24 AM
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It’s more so a good chunk of men on this subreddit want to have lots of sex with lots of different women then want women with little to no experience that goes all in in the first couple of dates. It’s complete nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:11 AM
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How exactly are studies done on a huge sample size not accurate just because you know a group guys statistically bigger than average and can’t be chalked up to low probability/outliers?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:01 PM
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All the individual facts you are saying line up but it’s the fact that you said bred. That makes it sounds like it’s a genetic thing that was done to make women weaker/smaller and not socializing decreasing the average woman’s strength. None of what you listed would be genetic especially to only female and not male babies. Our society has made a culture which encourages men to do things that make them stronger and pushes women to things that at best don’t improve their strength and at worse decr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:53 PM
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Different women have different definitions of quality and something tells me the context of the og comment is probably more aligned to a guy who wants to get to know you as a person and not use you as a hole. Bare minimum quality not “Chad” quality. Many guys are messaging but few are ones that want to actually date and not just a casual sex partner which too often he doesn’t even care about satisfying the sex partner. Plenty of quantity but few people would want to pursue for what most of the g…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 06:10 PM
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His apology definitely didn’t deny anything. Just that he’s “new to entertainment” and “will learn from it”. Sounds like he indirectly admitted to it in that tweet. Both of these cases are fucked up and more so show examples of famous privilege and Zoe with some women privilege mixed in as well. The world isn’t black and white where men get punished for everything and women never get punished. Famous privilege plays a role in these kinds of cases as well. That doesn’t mean woman privilege doesn’…
/r/MensRights16/11/20 12:08 AM
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Why are you getting downvoted? This is also true. It’s hard to distinguish the difference from famous privilege and woman privilege and this is a perfect example. Her being a woman does help I think, but some people are acting like lots of famous men don’t get away with similar and worse stuff.
/r/MensRights15/11/20 11:00 PM
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Like half of the replies of this trying to defend her have just made me lose the little hope in humanity I had left
/r/MensRights15/11/20 10:55 PM
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The point of laws is to control people so ya know they don’t cause damage and harm to others
/r/MensRights15/11/20 10:54 PM
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You do realize this could count as grooming and though it’s not the worst thing is still not ok right?
/r/MensRights15/11/20 10:49 PM
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And where were the legal consequences? I get that is more “punishment” Zoe is probably going to get but that still really isn’t a punishment. Tony obtained child pornography for fucks sake. That’s a microscopic slap on the wrist at best.
/r/MensRights15/11/20 10:47 PM
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One of the main reasons women get away with crimes is that they are seen as too weak and/or nice to do such things. How could a woman overpower a man like that? People have trouble seeing men as victims and women as perpetrators because we assume that the man is the more powerful one. Being pretty and being rich definitely does help women like Amber, but so does the fact that people have trouble accepting a man a a victim. You see this with average men trying to report average women of harassmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 03:18 PM
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Wow you mean both genders can have it better in some ways and worse in other ways and that there is more nuance to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 05:28 PM
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I’ve seen that in a couple incel forums but not so much here. Then again the incels have been infiltrating the subreddit recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 11:44 PM
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Wait how many guys are saying 16 is a woman’s prime? I’ve heard 18 a lot but 16!?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 04:40 PM
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How many times has the oxytocin thing been debunked?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 05:13 AM
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Not the person you were talking to, but I think they are talking about things like fighting in the military, having to work more dangerous jobs like mining, etc. Women were a protected second class. Treated more like children than like other second class groups like black people. They had some kind of privileges at the price of having less control of their lives and less ability to be independent. Not sure I would call it a “more balanced equality between the genders than we have today.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 03:36 PM
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Yeah touching is usually a clear sign but not so much compliments. Women compliment each other all the time. They don’t compliment men as much because men mistake it for flirting too easily. It’s usually something a woman does a few times before she realizes and then stops complimenting men casually. Some women are a bit more unaware and it takes them a bit longer to realize. Then guys don’t get many compliments and it keeps them overthinking the compliments they do get. It’s a cycle really. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 12:56 PM
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Not All Women Are Like This
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:13 PM
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Yeah blue pill defined here is anti-RP. And this week is special so any post flavored with Purge Week! probably isn’t really related to PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:56 PM
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I wouldn’t say women are incapable of taking accountability or anything. Plenty of women own up to their mistakes. It’s just easy to look for women who don’t hold themselves accountable and find them. Same for men. A lot of people don’t. Kind of a somewhat character flaw. There does seem to be this thing in society that people do hold women less accountable in a lot of areas compared to men though. Might be why people see it more in women and say it’s a woman thing even though I’ve personally se…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 02:39 AM
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Usually supposed to be a debate between blue pill and red pill ideologies. But it’s purge week and there aren’t any rules that aren’t Reddit rules so it is whatever anyone wants to be this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:02 PM
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When you say too much of a pussy to deal with the symptoms, do you mean the symptoms like permanent infertility?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 03:53 PM
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I think the biggest error is assuming women go in a strict best to worst order when it comes to sex. It’s definitely not that simple. Maybe at one time she was only able to get guys who were 6/10 and below because all the guys above that weren’t interested in her. All the previous guys she’s been with were 6/10 or below. What if she meets a 8/10 guy that was interested in her? She will probably go for him. And if they marry, does that make him a fuckold since he was technically last even though …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:15 PM
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At least for me, it is more of a safety thing. Restaurant first dates seem to be the safest option. Guaranteed for people to be around, staff checks in occasionally, and public bathrooms to hide where he can’t follow and can make an escape plan if necessary. I also am not expecting him to pay or anything on a first date bc why tf would he if he doesn’t know me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 03:54 PM
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Yeah walking dates are fine. Just not on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 03:48 PM
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I think you misread it. I did it the first time I read it too and had to reread it out of confusion. It says “They want nothing to do with non-simps” They want simps and this is how they find simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 03:35 PM
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Well, if you are being anti-slut shamed, then you aren’t going to be slut shamed because people don’t perceive you as a slut. And it’s not always to the girl’s face but as gossiping about how much she is a whore in a degrading tone and spreading rumors. They don’t say it to the girl’s face but still judge her and treat her differently because of it. Anti-slut shaming didn’t seem to have as much hatred but definitely still a thing I’ve seen though too. People just can’t mind their own damn busine…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:56 AM
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Might be because I live in the South and went to a rural hs, but there was slut shaming and virgin shaming at my hs. Most of the slut shaming was behind the person’s back while virgin shaming was done more to the person’s face, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:25 AM
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As I woman that has interacted with a good amount of other women, I can say there definitely a big enough portion of women who slut shame. It’s not every women and I’m not sure how many women slut shame vs men, but it seems a lot of other women are a contributing factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:58 AM
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You make it seem like it’s either your female friend tries to play match maker or she is using you for affection and wants to cock block you. I don’t feel comfortable playing match maker with any of my friends and I’ve been proven to be a horrible wing woman. And I mean a horrible wingwoman. I don’t try to help any my friends with their love or sex life because of this. I don’t discourage them from finding a SO and actually try to be somewhat supportive from the sidelines. Not actively helping d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 12:12 AM
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What kind of other benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 09:52 PM
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You are saying the reply with you talking about the 12 year old that’s getting downvoted right? People see you calling a 12 year old objectively the most beautiful human creature. People are probably assuming you mean in some kind of sexual way and don’t bother reading the rest. Lots of people as soon as they see something that offends them don’t bother finishing it and automatically downvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 10:55 PM
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Women do feel attraction to good looking men, but it’s not a “I want to fuck him right here and right now” kind of attraction most of the time. A lot of the time it’s more just pleasing and maybe slightly exciting to look at the guy at first. I have occasionally experienced the “I want to fuck him right here and now” attraction but it’s way less common than the other attraction and it seems a good amount of women haven’t experienced that kind at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:16 PM
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Do you really not see it? People read the first line and assumed pedophilia. I know later on you said not in a sexual way, but this is the Internet and that first sentence does sound sus af.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:06 PM
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You must be new here. Welcome and good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:04 PM
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Then get an actual hobby that’s more fun than stamp collecting. Being with someone is nice, but you don’t NEED someone to be happy. There is so much more to do in life that can be fulfilling and make you happy.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/20 12:20 AM
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Your mom sounds like a really bad mom and I’m so glad that your dad sounds like an amazing dad. I really hope that your dad eventually got primary custody of you and your siblings. That is the reason things like child custody shouldn’t be in things like prenups. So that the custody can change as it becomes more obvious who should have custody hopefully. Even if the prenup was renegotiated after marriage, it still has to follow the same rules. Since you don’t seem to know much about the prenup it…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 11:04 PM
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I think the issue with the prenup was that it included conditions on custody. That falls under unenforceable conditions. What’s more likely to have happened is that when your mom claimed she didn’t have an attorney, the judge saw the custody part as something an attorney that was good at their job would have pointed out. Honestly the custody part made me question how legit this prenup was in the eyes of the law before you mentioned what your mom claimed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 10:25 PM
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No I think misandry is right. It sounds like the bf thinks he is less of a man because he is not providing. Since that is sexism towards a man it would be misandry.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/20 02:29 PM
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What about those crazy ex-girlfriend stories where the girl is toxic and, a lot of the time, abusive? Guys fall for girls that they shouldn’t date all the time too. A lot of these may seem more as psych than asshole types but they are usually very controlling and manipulative and overall bad for them. These women also have red flags that go ignored just like assholes. And do guys fall for and stay with psycho girls? The same reason girls fall for and stay with assholes. A lot of people are lost …
/r/ExRedPill19/09/20 10:10 PM
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FDS refers to the subreddit r/FemaleDatingStrategy It’s basically bad and unhealthy dating advice that follows the mentality of high value and low value men and the “wait at the finish line and fuck the winners”.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 07:19 PM
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A good bit of them are just as you described . Some of them have had horrible experiences that lead to thinking women are evil, though. Some people, men and women, have terrible experiences with the other sex, whether it is parents, peers, and/or SOs. It’s not just one bad parent or bf/gf, but multiple encounters usually. Some people seem to end up in a cycle to leaving one abusive person to being with another. It could just be really unlucky or them following the same patterns because of previo…
/r/ExRedPill29/08/20 02:06 AM
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It benefits them because majority of women have to find and depend on a man in a tradcon society. Without hookup culture and women working, most women end up having to choose one man to marry. That leads to more men getting a woman. In the modern world, women are able to be independent and hookup rather than commit if they please. This leads to women being able to be single or going after the more desired guys for hookups. The more desirable guys are getting more women from it, but the less desi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 10:27 PM
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If an ugly dude approached you, would you be immediately swooned? Especially if he had no obvious redeeming qualities. I would prefer being approached by an at least decent looking guys and it’s the same for men. Both genders judge on looks and want to be pursued by someone attractive. It’s a human issue; not a man issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 10:00 PM
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Wait really? About time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 09:28 PM
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I did a survey, and am still going through the data, on height preferences. You’d be surprised how many women’s cut off height is at or around 6ft and some put that they are pretty strict about no taller than 6ft (4 out of 5). So far, it appears that most women want a man taller than them but not wanting him towering over her. Of course there are still women of all heights whose preference is 5’10” and infinitely taller. Haven’t found the stereotypical short girl whose preference is tall and she…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 02:25 PM
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Having more child-like features when you are an adult basically. Women are more neonatonous than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 12:18 AM
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How do you earn trust this way if you never give them room to see if they are trustworthy or not? If someone wants to cheat and they know you are looking through your phone, they will just find a way to hide it better. If they aren't cheating on you or breaking your trust any other way, they are going to get the sense you don't trust them not to cheat and that hinders the ability to build trust. When do you stop looking through their phone? When do you trust them enough to give them space? If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 05:37 PM
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I think, or at least hope, this is targeting when people bring up black pill stuff when it is unnecessary and more on an attack on women in general. I’ve seen a couple of people bring up black pill points that are irrelevant and mostly just trying to call women dumb/immoral to dismiss their statement. If you are trying to leave the red pill, try r/exredpill . The people here are better at dismantling if you are wanting to leave. This sub is more about discussion from both sides and some people m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:25 PM
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Think how different society was in 1920 vs 2020 and especially gender roles. Gender roles like the rest of society changes overtime. 100 years makes a difference in how society sees things. Each generation may start where their parents left off, but they usually cause some shift whether big or small from what their parents left them in some way. And 100 years is more than one generation so that is multiple generations to cause changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 04:23 AM
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Just because you aren’t wanting to settle down doesn’t mean other men don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 02:10 AM
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Really? I heard the opposite. I heard birth control made women want more feminine men. Birth control didn’t really change my taste in men. I’ve also heard birth control makes women not like the natural hormone sent of men and a bunch of crazy stuff I’ve never experienced. I think either different women have totally different effects from birth control, different birth controls cause different effects, or a lot of false effects are being presented as true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 02:06 AM
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I think you misread the years. Alexander Hamilton and slavery was late 1700s to mid 1800s. The other person was talking about the late 1800s to early 1900s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 01:50 AM
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It’s not most RP men by far but it’s quite a loud minority on PPD in certain discussions that it could possibly relate to. There’s a lot of people on this sub that are a special kind. I don’t think OP purposely built a strawman but instead has been spending way too much time on this sub and thinking it’s a good representation. I have to constantly remind myself this to try not to get distorted views of what certain groups think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 01:40 AM
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There are people that have said that on PPD. I was part of a thread with two guys trying to argue that men can keep on loving forever because they collect things but women couldn’t because they initiated most divorces. It was sad to see and completely illogical but somehow a view some people have.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 03:57 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 08:57 PM
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If you are dropping it off at daycare to go to work then you aren’t being a stay at home parent. A stay at home parent is a parent that stays home pretty much full time with the child to raise the child. The idea behind a stay at home parent is that a parent is at home with the child and not letting strangers raise your child. There’s a huge difference between being a SAHM and what you just described.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 08:21 PM
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Didn’t say life was ideal for men then either. People overall didn’t have much free choice. Men and women were given different roles and different freedoms. Just because they weren’t in war doesn’t mean they had free choice. They didn’t even have a choice to fight in war even if they wanted to. They didn’t willingly choose the kitchen. Society told them to be in the kitchen and to never be independent and that they were mentally less capable of men. Society told men to be the breadwinner and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:46 PM
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Did you just look after the kids for your wife and children occasionally because there is a difference between that and being a stay at home parent. Looking after is temporary but being a stay at home parent is 24/7 and the stress builds over time. A newborn is the worst. Might be able to get 6 hours of sleep for a prolonged period of time (usually a few months) while having to stay with it constantly when it’s awake while also having to be the homemaker when it’s asleep. Might not be too bad if…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:27 PM
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And what 18 year old want someone in their 30s? It’s mostly gold diggers with maybe a few with a fetish for men way older than them in a way that they that goes beyond a fun night. Most women want a man a few years older not 10+ years. You can want whatever you want but don’t be mad if you can’t achieve this. It’s possible but not likely especially if you aren’t making bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:31 PM
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Nowadays in the western world most women who are low n-count are religious or just hold conservative and traditional values. These women want a man with the same values so a man who had a lot of casual sex is usually not wanted. Of course there are some low n-count women who would be ok marrying high n-count men just like there is vice versa, but the majority of people staying low n-count today usually want the same in their partner. Also, if your standard is low n-count but you aren’t low n-cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:07 PM
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Maybe once they are teenagers it isn’t that much of a full time job but have you ever had to look after a baby, toddler, or little kid? At those ages, most kids are a handful. You have to keep up with their needs 24/7 while also managing to keep a house clean with said child always making a mess. Doing that all by yourself is definitely no cake walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 12:57 PM
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Why should you get a low n-count woman if you aren’t also low n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 12:30 PM
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I don’t agree this is evidence that most men are bad, but this is a common experience for women. I know too many that have been harassed and a few followed. Most of these women are still in high school too. The numbers probably go up later on. I know it’s not the majority, but this minority of men is too many and too active. It’s so common that it doesn’t seem that crazy for women to view most men as a threat. Men are already stronger than us for the most part then add bad experiences as being c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 12:08 PM
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There were a handful of successful black people before the civil rights movement. Fredrick Douglas was a politician writer and activist while chattel slavery was still legal. Nancy Green was a successful black American model in the late 1800s/early 1900s. That doesn’t mean that the civil rights movement was not needed. These people succeeded despite Jim Crow and how society viewed them as less. It was still good to get rid of Jim Crow laws and to fight to be seen as equals. Women technically had…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 11:52 AM
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What makes you think women leaders are more likely to declare war than men leaders?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 01:55 PM
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Yeah I’ve known a couple guys shorter than me (I’m 5’6”) that have been able to get laid. One I know has with a couple of attractive girls but I’m not sure what girls the other guy has slept with. It’s probably more of a challenge but it’s still realistically possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 11:25 PM
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I was debating the idea that women have more responsibility of not choosing an abusive partner to have a child with than men. In my first two sentences I meant in the time being abusive which would be the scenario in the abortion thing I was responding to. The rest was supposed to just be about who was responsible for the pregnancy in any scenario which I should have clarified better now reading it over. Of course no one can help if someone turns abusive after the child or it is the victim’s fau…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 04:58 PM
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I don’t completely agree with the statement. I think you should try to not have that kind of sex with abusive people. I know it’s sometimes not possible cause you don’t see the abusive yet or the person isn’t abusive now, but the exact same could be said about the abortion argument. It’s not the woman’s sole responsibility if she gets pregnant with anyone. Participating in vagina and dick sex is what makes you responsible if someone gets pregnant. This includes doing it with protection because p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 03:38 PM
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What about women who live in places where they don’t have the abortion card? Is it equal responsibility then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 02:47 PM
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That depends on what app you use on whether or not it takes one or both people to swipe right to start message that person. I think tinder you need both to swipe right. I forget what app my cousin uses but that one you can message someone when you were the only person that swiped
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 01:02 PM
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The only reason this doesn’t work is because too many other guys were swiping right on every women. This causes women’s inboxes to get too flooded to respond to most of the guys they are matching with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:07 PM
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But if less than a thousand people view one video, that’s a very tiny fraction of all people who watch porn. That makes it very unlikely that someone you personally know will find it. The only chances I can think of where it would be likely to find these videos of someone you know is if you put your name on it so people can google your name and find it or if you are famous so a huge amount of people have the chance of seeing it and recognizing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 10:36 AM
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I think you’re underestimating how many porn videos have been on the Internet for a while and still have less than 1,000
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 05:27 PM
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As long as she didn’t put her name on it or it didn’t start trending, then there’s very little chance someone she knows would see it. There is a sea of porn videos that a majority of people never see if it never blows up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 02:24 PM
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Lots of time the company pays for the flight there and promises to pay for the flight back after the photo shoot before the women know what the photo shoot is actually for. It’s not so much they are stupid and not planning ahead. It’s more they feel like they have to go through with it to go home. They should definitely go to the police instead though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 02:00 PM
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Definitely a common trend but it’s not true every women can detach easier than every man. Have you never seen a girl having trouble getting over her ex or the crazy ex girlfriend? I have a guy friend who is having trouble getting some psycho girl to leave him alone. I think it’s more that women tend to initiate the breakup just like divorces and the person who initiates has an easier time getting over it since they are the ones that wanted it to be over. That’s more of what I see than it just be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 03:06 AM
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You would think this evidence showing that they aren’t a monolith with differing views and experiences would make them realize women also aren’t a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 09:24 PM
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You need to meet better guys then. I have met them. These are the guys that want LTR and not just a hookup. Men and women are shallow af when it comes to hookups but majority of people who go for LTRs aren’t as shallow when choosing a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:28 PM
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A lot of feminists disagree with each other because women aren’t a hive mind. Some women want careers, some want to raise a family, some what to flaunt their body, and others want people to stop staring at their body. Women are individuals with their own wants and desires just like men. Nobody had lots of choices for a long time in many societies. Neither men or women could simply choose whatever they wanted. Both were given limited choices. I think people view men has having the choice but not …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:32 AM
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I didn’t mean high libido automatically mean you like casual sex. I meant more for women who have casual sex more often. I do know women who have high libido and like casual sex so they have a good bit of it. At least a good bit of women having casual sex today are doing because they like it and not for validation and don’t want relationships. I’m not the biggest fan of casual sex and prefer LTRs myself but just because I’m like it doesn’t mean no woman genuinely enjoys casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 10:20 PM
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Yeah because all women who hook up with random dudes are doing it for validation and totally think a relationship is possible. There’s definitely no such thing as a high libido woman who does this just because she is horny and doesn’t care for commitment. /s cause it’s hard to tell on this sub sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 07:53 PM
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What do you mean by narcissist? If you mean prioritizing your own happiness at times, then that is completely normal and not a real narcissist. If you mean not really caring about how the other feels in a relationship and not trying to make that person happy at all, then that is not a good person to be in a relationship with and, if you are in that relationship, I suggest you get out of it. People who falls in love in a healthy way likes how the other person makes them happy and wants that perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:40 PM
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Technically that’s three words and used to try to start conversation. Not really the same as replying “lol” and “cool” a lot in a conversation. “Wyd” is low effort but not as cold or showing lack of interest as what OP was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 03:08 PM
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For rating themselves, I think women either overly underrate or overrate themselves. From my experience, most women tend to either think they are very hot or flat out ugly. It really does depend on the woman and her self esteem rather how women overall judge beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 10:42 PM
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I would like to see that link
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 10:33 PM
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I think it has more to do with self-care like that is seen as feminine and not manly. It’s not right but society has this weird view of what being a man is supposed to be and a skin care routine is seen as anti-man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 10:23 PM
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Most people don’t want to marry someone just because they are hot (you might be an exception but that is not the general rule for most people)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 12:46 PM
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There’s a difference between sexual and romantic attraction. Yes, everyone probably has at least one person that they would do anything sexually with. But most people usually don’t marry someone for sexual attraction but romantic attraction (excluding things like gold diggers, if someone got pregnant sometimes, having a Las Vagas wedding while shit faced that is usually divorced shortly after, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 12:42 PM
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When most women find a man they think they want to marry, they make him wait until there is some kind of commitment. Idk what women you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 11:52 AM
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As long as you aren’t dehumanizing her and it’s more like cute pet names, I don’t see no problem. The issue with objectifying is seeing someone as a thing instead of another human (sex toy, wallet, etc). I wouldn’t want my partner to call me those things in the right context cause I find those more cringe than cute and not because there’s an actual issue
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:26 PM
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Did you miss the part when I said there’s no evidence that oxytocin is what creates bonds or is exclusively in women? It’s more likely to either help create the bond with other neurotransmitters (because neurotransmitters rarely work by themselves and thus bonding is way more complicated than when oxytocin is released) or it is used to increase emotions and has nothing to do with creating the bond itself. Does making friends at a younger age make it harder to make friends as you get older becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:39 PM
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Because people see a tendency and thinks it means something is a fact. Yes, people who have casual sex are statistically more likely to cheat. But that doesn’t mean everyone who has had casual sex will cheat and plenty of people that have had casual sex can be dedicated to a LTR. People who don’t have casual sex are less likely to cheat but plenty of these people have cheated. None of this is an absolute. More attractive people are more likely to cheat cause they have more options but that shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:29 PM
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If the neurotransmitter you are referring to is oxytocin, then you need to do more research. Saying having too many orgasms causes women to not be able to bond with future sexual partners is like saying a women that has too many children can’t bond with her later children or having deep conversations with different people doesn’t create a connection with the more people you have deep conversations with. All these activities create a surge of oxytocin in women and the last one men as well. Oxytoc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:09 PM
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Sadly you’re right. The tough thing about this that this isn’t just a society issue, which would already be hard enough to solve, but it does stem from part of our instincts. It’s an unfair view we instinctively have but instead of being raised to be higher more moral beings society extremely tries to reinforce our animal brain which just makes it worse. I originally had this in my response but I must have deleted it and forgot to put it back in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:35 PM
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I was more trying to explain why women tend to complain about beauty standards more. It’s not so much that their standards are harder but they feel more important to them. Men can make up for looks easier by being a provider cause more value is placed on that for men but women don’t have a similar back up except for maybe being nice and agreeable if even that. I do think we do need to have some social change. We need to try to stop spreading the message to girls that you must doll yourself up an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:16 PM
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I think it has more to do with women are raised to think their beauty is more part of their value than men are raised to. Boys are taught that their value comes more from how strong tough and ability to provide. You can see this with things like superheroes being more targeted to boys. Barbie dolls and princesses that highlight the importance of beauty more than anything are targeted towards girls. The only pressure men usually have to meet beauty standards is to get a women. Women are pressured…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:36 PM
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The difference between your cocktail analogy and women who have casual sex is that when women get enjoyment from the sex then that’s the value she put on it, having a fun night with an attractive guy. And plus the men having casual sex with a women are usually not valuing her virginity. That makes her virginity valueless. Men are more likely to emphasize value on her looks and how much fun she is in bed above anything making that her value in this scenario which is the same value women would put…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 12:03 AM
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Yeah I did say it was only a couple of guys. I was just trying to give some examples of some men I’ve met that had standards that reflected some commonly complained standards some women can have. I think women do tend to have higher standards than men, but the dude I was replying to said men don’t have any standards above not being cheated/dumped and a woman they can fuck. Lots of men have standards like your three year one, a reasonable and realistic standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:34 PM
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Tits aren’t that annoying as long as they aren’t huge or you purposely where uncomfortable bras to look sexier. Periods and birth are kind of shit though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:17 PM
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Tits aren’t that annoying as long as they aren’t huge or you purposely where uncomfortable bras to look sexier. Periods and birth are kind of shit though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:17 PM
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As a born female, I can confirm that we do sacrifice gender benders to the incels once a month to keep them at bay
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:13 PM
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Why would a billionaire take an average woman when there are above average gold diggers trying to get him too? Average may be able to get financially stable based on looks but a rich man is going to have more options thus higher standards if only basing off of looks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:09 PM
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What women and men have you been hanging around lately because I think I’ve experienced the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:36 PM
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Objectifying doesn’t always lead to violence. You telling me you never heard of gold diggers? These women objectify men as wallets. Many of them don’t see the man as a human but just as a resource. If that isn’t objectifying, then idk what is. Of course you’re going to see more examples of men being violent to women because men do tend to be more aggressive, they are stronger so the damage they do is often (not always) seen as worst, and,more importantly, our culture doesn’t care nearly as much …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:57 PM
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Yeah you see this kind of thinking a lot on this subreddit and similar ones. They see it more as a business deal than a human relationship. There was an article posted recently talking about how more people are using business language for relationships and quite a few of their examples came from subreddits like r/femaledatingstragety
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 11:29 AM
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Well by that logic, men’s value is their money, which women can easily get nowadays and only lazy women need a man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:31 AM
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I do know a couple guys that say they wouldn’t date women older, taller, or ones that makes more money than them. It does seem to be less guys that think like this than women but we also live in a society that lets women talk about their standards more so it makes it harder to tell. It’s not uncommon for men to have standards above anything they can fuck that won’t leave them. Men are heavily discouraged from saying they have certain standards (ei not wanting to date a fat girl) but from the guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:21 AM
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This is a very interesting observation. What luxury are you referring to that men have and women don’t have?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:11 AM
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Some women do objectify just like some men. They can see a man as a walking wallet or a cute accessory Ken doll. You could argue that men may tend to objectify more (idk how true it would be) but saying every woman doesn’t objectify is obviously not true. Women are still humans and can still be selfish and self centered just like any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:08 AM
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Is this sarcasm making fun of the post or is that your serious opinion? I can never tell with statements like that on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:02 AM
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I think your view on the world has been greatly skewed by what you see on the Internet. Women don’t follow men on Insta the same as men following women because women aren’t as visually stimulated by just pictures and that’s nothing new. Women tend to need something more physical and/or emotional for satisfaction. Women not posting their boyfriends doesn’t mean they don’t find men attractive. They will lose followers because the people who follow her because they are attracted will unfollow if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:38 AM
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But if you have sex on the first date in every relationship, that definitely increases your n-count unless you are lucky for most of these relationships to last pretty long or don’t go on dates that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:36 AM
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But if you have sex on the first date in every relationship, that definitely increases your n-count unless you are lucky for most of these relationships to last pretty long or don’t go on dates that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:36 AM
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If the guy found it dissatisfying when in relationships where he spent more money cause the spending of that much money led to negative outcomes and he believes it will create a more healthy relationship to not spend as much, then yeah. The woman you are replying to specifically said she doesn’t do ONS anymore cause she found them dissatisfying so why would she continue having early sex if it’s only enjoyable for her to wait and making her experience with you enjoyable vs a bad experience cause …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:30 AM
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I think the main reason women like to wait in LTR vs ONS is that they want to make sure the man in the LTR isn’t just looking for sex and wanting something more serious too. I don’t have much dating experience so my view on this could easily be wrong. From what I have noticed from some online is some men giving other men advice on how to get sex seems to be to trick the women into thinking you are romantically into her but really just wanting sex (seen this more frequently in some spaces for so …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:20 AM
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What do you mean by her best sex? Are you talking about her first time and it is better because she is a virgin? And if so do you think this is a personal preference certain men have including you or do you think this counts for almost every man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:06 AM
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If this is how you try to find happiness, you will never find happiness because there is always something to be jealous of. Jealously is a horrible thing and you should not let it control your potential to be happy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 11:55 PM
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I can kind of get that logic and you can have whatever standards you please but the issue is when the men want more casual sex and have high n-counts but want women with low n-counts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 11:41 PM
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Yeah that’s probably because most of the people that talk about n-counts are the ones who care about the n-count. It seems like it’s a loud minority who are taking issue in high n-counts. In reality, lots of people regardless of gender don’t seem to care about it a lot so they don’t really voice their opinions on n-count on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:32 PM
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So you’re saying your word apparently based on personal experiences override scientifically proven facts of how a vagina works?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:17 PM
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The view men have of the opposite gender varies from man to man. There are still a good amount who think like this sadly but there has been lots of social change to counter this view that has led many men to stop viewing women has children and more as equal adults. Not saying there couldn’t be more improvement but at least there was change for the better. The issue is that for men here is that society as a whole (not individual people) still has this view that men are only men if they act a cert…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:59 PM
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Yeah most men don’t do this kind of active uplifting and empowerment but most people don’t discredit a woman as not a real woman like you see them doing to men. Feminism has done great at fighting against stereotypes of what a real woman is but feminism nor has anything else been really successful at doing this for men. Thus men are still stuck with being told to be real men until real social change is made here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 06:49 PM
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Wow I think you just hit the nail on the head with this one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:08 AM
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It can be rape if you are very drunk and the other person is sober and the sober person is purposely taking advantage of your poor judgement. But I have seen people claiming to have had sex with another drunk person that might have been less drunk than them and made the move on them and calling that rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:21 AM
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I don’t think it’s so much that women are better at socializing but are better at picking things up in social settings and mimicking them. I had a friend with autism that told me she learned at a young age how to act more normal to help get along with others. Any guy I’ve met with autism doesn’t really fake being normal like she does. This is just from personal experience though so idk how much it holds up but it makes sense to me. Women tend to be better with seeing the slightest signals while …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:25 PM
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