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| 3 | Beware of the man with a female friend/female friendsI had a beautiful high school girlfriend (I’ll call her Lena) who got involved with a guy she met through mutual friends. One day she invites me to a birthday party and her boyfriend (Andy) walks in with this lovely woman on his arm (Ada). I gave her a pointed glance and asked if Andy and Ada had ever been in a relationship. No, she says, Ada is Andy’s “best friend.” I eventually pried it out of her that Andy and Ada used to “hook up” but there was never anything “serious” between them. Now this… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 11:47 PM |
| 7 | Stick to your boundariesI also have trust issues with men. It doesn’t help that every man I’ve dated in recent years has turned out to be a player. Dating too often feels like navigating a mine field: we’ve got to be cognizant of porn addiction, kinks, and men who want sex without commitment. Thank you for sharing this because it is confirmation that anything that feels “off” when exploring a relationship must-not-be-ignored. (I had an experience similar to yours and am still angry because the “still small voice” was d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 11:46 PM |
| 21 | What would happen if dating coaches/ relationship gurus were honest about how desirable women vastly outnumber desirable men?Thank you for this post: it is something that needs to be shouted from the roof tops. For too many years, I’ve thought the problem was me...But then I carefully dissected the relationships around me. And I couldn’t lie to myself: most of them were terrible. Women doing the majority of the “heavy lifting” to keep the relationship afloat. Men who stayed in relationships less because they loved their partners and more because of convenience. I have known very few men who see, value and respect thei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 11:45 PM |
| 18 | What Is FDS position on Matchmakers?I used a matchmaking service when I moved to a new city and, to be honest, it was not substantially different from OLD. The men in the matching making service tended to have better paying jobs than the basement dwellers on OLD but...it was the same odd assortment of socially challenged men. Men who didn’t brush their teeth (eww!). Men who talked about themselves an entire date, barely acknowledging my presence. Men who became grossly possessive after *one* date. Just a small sampling of some of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 02:08 AM |
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