LoftyLife420 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	[deleted by user] Very hard to do as a loner but not impossible. I’ve been a loner for the last few years due to all my friends moving out of state, made it a lot harder to pull women. So I joined a car club a few weeks ago and we went to a trail ride last weekend as a group and we all wore our group vests. The women literally surrounded us. I got 4 numbers, made out with 2 gorgeous women and almost had sex in my car. I’d suggest finding a mens group to hone your social skills and give you social proof	/r/seduction	30/08/22 12:14 AM
1	Is it a bad thing for girls to see me approach other girls after closing with them ? I made this mistake when I first gained the confidence to approach women. I hadn’t studied any kind of seduction or game techniques. I didn’t even realize I was playing the numbers game, I just suddenly felt very confident approaching women after years of being an awkward mess. I would approached any woman I found attractive, didn’t matter if the last woman I approached was still standing there or not. Needless to say I had very little success, I still cringe when I think about it	/r/seduction	09/08/22 11:41 PM
4	Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for me I totally agree. I’m 26 also and I’ve had sex with 66 women, I don’t think I will ever be able to truly pair bond with one woman because I’ve experienced so many different women that I become highly critical of prospective patterns. Also I’d estimate that about 30% of the women I’ve slept were in relationships and cheating on their boyfriends with me. It has severely damaged my trust in women.	/r/seduction	30/07/22 12:25 AM
6	Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for me Ehh..I’ve approached 2 women at my gym in the last 2 years, One was literally eye fucking me and the other one was just minding her business. They both rejected me and now it’s awkward whenever we see each other at the gym. I haven’t approached any women at my gym since and would not recommend	/r/seduction	30/07/22 12:21 AM
–	[deleted by user] I wish it was the simple for me. 99% of the women who like me are unattractive	/r/seduction	24/07/22 04:19 PM
5	Straight Women will judge the ways a guy asks them out, but only because they never have to do the asking out part. That last sentence hit it right on the head. Eventually you’ll wake up from the brainwashing and realize the left has been manipulating you your whole life	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/22 05:57 AM
1	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) Great post OP, everything you said is spot on..following the rules of social norms is very crucial and something that I feel like gets overlooked by a lot of Guys. Sticking the script is also crucial. I usually start with “Hey, I know this is kinda random but you’re cute/pretty as hell, what’s your name” and just go from there..	/r/seduction	23/06/22 06:53 PM
0	Got humbled for the first time in cold approach Forming an emotional connection can help sure but you’re acting like that’s the determining factor in whether or not you’ll get a text back and that’s obviously not true, and how Much of an emotional connection could you even form in 45 minutes at a CLUB??? The fact that you’re really sitting here trying to say that men should spend at least 45 mins talking to each girl they approach is idiotic and has destroyed any shred of credibility you could of possibly had and therefore it would be a waste…	/r/seduction	21/06/22 03:22 AM
1	Got humbled for the first time in cold approach You assume I don’t close and my advice is stupid and wrong just because I disagree with you? I’m not some virgin incel homie you might want to get off you high horse when speaking to me. Your advice is way dumber than mine, you’re literally advising people who are out with their friends to spend 45 mins talking to one girl who is also out with her friends and that they should also expect the girl to ask for their number in the end of the interaction. Pure Foolishness	/r/seduction	21/06/22 03:04 AM
0	Would you take a bcp for men if it was on the market ? Hell nahh, I’m a grown ass man what do I look like taking a birth control pill..They want to feminize men as much as possible these days stop falling for the agenda	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/22 12:34 AM
0	Got humbled for the first time in cold approach I’m gonna have to disagree with this. 1. Most people don’t have time to sit around and chat with a stranger for 45 minutes. 2. Trying to build emotional investment from someone you JUST met who isn’t even sure if they like you or not sounds like a fools errand. 3. 5 numbers in one night is not a lot especially in a club atmosphere, if a women is actually interested in you it takes less than 3 minutes to introduce yourself, tell her you think she’s cute, make light small talk, and ask for the num…	/r/seduction	20/06/22 11:05 PM
9	[deleted by user] A lot of women just enjoy sex more when they’re drunk or high..there’s not really a deep meaning behind it	/r/seduction	16/06/22 11:24 PM
0	One of the biggest reasons men will continue to struggle with women. Ehh this is true but there are a lot of other factors at play as well. Also, the term “struggling with women” depends on the perspectives of person who’s asking the the question. Some people feel like if a guys had sex with over 25 women teens he’s great with the ladies, other people would consider that to be a very low number. But I do completely agree that if you don’t learn these skills in your teens then you’ll never really be what you could have been when it comes to your dating life	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 08:31 PM
1	Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to them What? Elaborate	/r/seduction	16/06/22 08:07 PM
2	Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to them Yea I get that, But trying to explain to women that it’s the men they’re choosing who are the problem and not men overall seems to be an impossible task.	/r/seduction	16/06/22 07:13 PM
53	Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to them Spot on. Men who are unattractive don’t even exist to women. That’s why they claim all men are dogs and when you try to explain to them that most men can barely get a date they refuse to believe it. They only notice the men who get all the chicks	/r/seduction	16/06/22 06:19 PM
1	Are we as men working too hard to get women? You’re basing your entire argument off of the last 2 sentences in my comment. It wasn’t even about sex but that’s the part you chose to focus on. All I did was state that there are countries that don’t have a hook up culture (FACT) and that there are countries where most suitable men don’t have to cold approach dozens and dozens of women before they can get a date and eventually MAYBE get sex ( ANOTHER FACT) The point of my comment was never about the sex itself, but you seem to want to make it …	/r/seduction	15/06/22 11:06 PM
8	Are we as men working too hard to get women? Ehh I have plenty of friends who’ve moved to other countries working remotely and they’re doing just fine. I also spent 2 months working remotely in Colombia last year and I did just fine making friends even though I barely spoke the language. It’s not as hard to make friends in other countries as it is in America. People in America generally aren’t friendly compared to the rest of the world.	/r/seduction	15/06/22 10:37 PM
-1	Are we as men working too hard to get women? No that’s not what I said, there’s a big difference between being sexually active and being promiscuous. Promiscuous people have multiple concurrent sexual partners and aren’t very picky about who they have sex with. That’s the “hookup culture” that encouraged in the U.S. Just because a woman isn’t promiscuous it doesn’t mean she doesn’t have sex at all. In India they don’t believe in sex before marriage yet they have a higher population than the United States so they’re having way more sex than…	/r/seduction	15/06/22 10:35 PM
7	Are we as men working too hard to get women? Well when I say “ that values good men” I just mean a country where the women haven’t been taught to believe that they’re gods among men. In A place that if you’re decent looking guy who dresses nice and has a decent job, and decent socials skills you don’t have to approach 70 women just to get a date with 4 and only have sex with 1. A place where women haven’t been taught to hate men and be sexually promiscuous just because. There are many decent countries like this around the world and especia…	/r/seduction	15/06/22 09:11 PM
2	Are we as men working too hard to get women? Lmao yea any dates that are set up by a parent will always be awkward as hell. I actually love going in dates because I like doing fun and new things with a pretty girl by my side, however I rarely go on dates but I only get hit on by unattractive women and I stopped approaching attractive women because it’s just a waste of time. I woke remotely thank god and my HR dept has told me that they don’t care which country I work from as long as I clock in. I’m seriously considering moving to a country…	/r/seduction	15/06/22 09:06 PM
1	Are we as men working too hard to get women? I didn’t ask for you opinion. Go be annoying somewhere else	/r/seduction	15/06/22 08:52 PM
–	Are we as men working too hard to get women? I feel this. As a former porn addict (Addicted from age 12-22) when I finally beat the addiction I had to rebuild my confidence from zero. I somehow managed to do it and I spent an entire year cold approaching women only to be rejected by every single one. The rejections finally started to affect me after about a year and my confidence plummeted and I haven’t been able to rebuild it ever since. It’s a shame that men in the US have to be damn near perfect in every aspect just to to date and spend…	/r/seduction	15/06/22 06:38 PM
3	Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why? Dude I don’t care about your opinion enough to read that garbage you just wrote…get a life	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/22 03:50 AM
2	Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why? Yea most bisexual women are hyper sexual aka promiscuous. This makes for a fun time but I would never enter a serious relationship with one of them. I glad you enjoyed yourself tho bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/22 09:02 PM
3	Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why? Dude, YOU DON’T HAVE AN ARGUMENT FOR ME TO ATTACK!! That woman said she’s not attracted to gay men and you erroneously called her homophobic and started rambling about what’s considered masculine in the culture. I’m done responding to you though i refuse to converse with someone who’s intentionally unintelligent	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/22 09:00 PM
0	Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why? You’re an idiot for this comment, you know that right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/22 08:16 PM
2	Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why? This is a very idiotic comment to make, I’m so sick of people like you throwing around words like “ tOxIc mAsCuLiNiTy” and “hOmOpHoBia” just because some has preferences and doesn’t want to date an man who fucks other men. How dare you tell this woman that she’s homophobic and has toxic masculinity because she wants to date straight men (just like most women). Do you realize how utterly ridiculous you sound???? Grow a brain cell dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/22 08:13 PM
1	Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why? And you allowed the bs? Should’ve at least gotten a 3sum outta the deal	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/22 08:04 PM
1	What makes men gravitate towards Redpill? What got you interested (if you are interested) in redpill? This was hilarious. Now please have a seat the grown ups are talking	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 12:08 AM
8	The abundance of options women have has gotten so out of control that even genuine mutual attraction and chemistry aren’t enough to keep their attention Yea I feel you bro, idk why everybody on here is acting like you’re crazy or bitter. What you’re saying is 100% true and any dude that is out approaching enough attractive women should understand exactly what you’re saying. Women never used to be this flaky when there was no social media and their dating market wasn’t world wide. Unfortunately most of Reddit is so anti men that they’ll blame everything on your ego instead of just acknowledging that you actually got the short end of the stick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/22 07:45 PM
5	Girl with holding sex? It’s cool for you to respect her but you need to respect yourself more. I have a 3 date maximum, if we don’t have sex by the 3rd date I completely withdraw my attention and start looking for other prospects. Tell her she needs to get on board with the sex or you will move on because you’re a grown man you don’t have to deal with that. If you haven’t started to resent her already then You’re probably gonna start resenting pretty her soon because you’re constantly investing in her and your not get…	/r/seduction	04/01/22 04:16 PM
2	She lost interest out of nowhere She was never that interested in you in the first place, which is why she made you chase her for a year. She probably started showing your more interested lately because she had nothing better to do. She intentionally wasted your time bro. Move on	/r/seduction	09/11/21 04:12 AM
1	Is 25 too late to start game? I used to be like that too, social skills are like a muscle, the more you use them the stronger they will get. It’s easy to talk to women after you make a habit of doing it. Maybe try making light conversation with women you see out and about (think grocery store lines, gas station lines, or break rooms at work) with the sole intention of increasing your confidence in talking to women. Don’t let getting their number or a date be your end goal. You’re just there to work your convo muscles and the…	/r/seduction	08/11/21 09:52 AM
–	Is 25 too late to start game? Bro how does this happen? I’m 25 and I’ve been with about 60 women despite me having 0 game for most of my life..	/r/seduction	08/11/21 01:35 AM
1	[deleted by user] You’re in a flatline. Try light exercise and meditation and you should be good to go next time if she’s still into it.	/r/seduction	14/03/21 04:12 AM