LoganBerry84 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	On the Precipice of Separation		LoganBerry84	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/25 12:25 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Divorce in-house separation and burnout Have you told your boss that your going through a Divorce currently? Would recommend you do that, as that might help with your PiP and get you some lenancy. I am managing someone on a PiP currently, who has been going through a turbulent time, so we extended it. Otherwise, lock in on your job, use it as a refuge, not a lot of point in worrying about things you don't control.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/26 10:12 PM
3	How do you guys cope with the idea of losing your hard earned assets during a divorce? In my case and although not divorced yet, the idea of getting away from my wife outweighs the negative of losing half my assets.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/05/26 10:22 PM
4	any men regret their vasectomy? Best decision I ever made.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/11/25 12:01 PM
2	Immediate life after divorce? Think you need to take a step back and examine what makes you happy etc. You have four kids already, like do you really need more? Are you doing therapy? You sound a bit like me, taking on more and more, but not giving yourself any downtime. You need to look at the Unrelenting Expectations Schema and the others, that might give you some insight on yourself. Being a great father to your kids is an awesome purpose, i am not divorced yet but already that has and is my purpose, being the most amazin…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/11/25 10:02 PM
2	AI Summary of All Advice from Divorce_Men Probably covers off the main topics but what about those of us leaving controlling or abusive relationships, where you have not been cheated on.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/11/25 11:55 PM
23	New studies indicate why women hate men and it is very telling. The funny thing is, they find that and then go all Dead bedroom and a like and wonder why the relationship doesn't last	/r/Divorce_Men	28/09/25 12:39 AM
2	Why is it so tough to leave someone who is toxic for me? It's 100% true, i am not going through divorce yet, talking to lawyers and getting my shit organised first before I pull the trigger. But basically I have stopped caring about my wife thinks, I have been going to the gym, doing heaps of stuff for the kids. Ignore her negative put downs and just being my own person. Its fucking liberating though.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/09/25 07:29 AM
3	Why is it so tough to leave someone who is toxic for me? Start putting yourself first. That is it in a nutshell, you will get through this, but it won't be easy but you need to put yourself first.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/25 09:05 PM
2	33 yo divorced man No such thing as peace, not divorced yet but life is not peaceful, it isn't meant to be. Go and listen to No More Mr Nice Guy, its a good listen and forces you to re-examine yourself. Go and work on yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/09/25 04:49 AM
3	Lol - why is every man a “narcissist” This is a nut shell, i have been accused of belittling and also selfish, that is actually her behaviour. I called it out, it's actually stopped now. It won't last, it's temporary.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/25 08:22 PM
2	Fear of regret holding me back… I think broadly speaking you need to not live life with regrets, and as has been said, if you have crossed everything off the list and literally cannot do anymore, then you can probably walk away with little regret. My situation is similar, I have been putting my happiness last for years, have been to counselling multiple times get told the same thing, your too nice, do too much for other people. So I am putting my happiness first now. I wouldn't say my marriage is absolutely shit, but there is …	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/25 12:46 AM
2	On the Precipice of Separation I have been here before, as i said, cycles wise. 6 years ago I had an initial conversation with a lawyer, we ended up going to therapy. Will chat to a few mates of mine about costs, one is going through it right now. I feel like I am pretty close, she won't go to counselling, she isn't going to change, I need to work on myself and stop being so nice but yeah.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/25 08:59 PM
2	On the Precipice of Separation What i meant was that her Father was abusive, she has never hit me, although has been verbally abusive, telling me to kill myself before.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/25 09:23 AM
3	On the Precipice of Separation Thanks - just started listening, it resonates so much.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/25 02:08 AM
3	On the Precipice of Separation How do you keep yourself focused on the reasons your separating and not falling back to old ways of just brushing shit under the carpet. I know how to initiate it, I guess once I have done that there is no going back.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/25 12:35 AM