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I'm convinced this is because men marry based on social expectations instead of their true personal preference. Yeah she’s attractive, yes you get kudos from your buddies, but what good is that when you hate spending time with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:15 PM
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They have no clue that their fate was sealed before she even stepped foot into the bar with her friends. We tell our friends in advance “Do not under any circumstance let me go home with ANYONE no matter what my drunk ass tells you about him.”😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:50 PM
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You seriously won the lottery. The amount of men that flip a switch after kids scares me. I’m glad you found a man that prioritizes your well being, not just his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:49 PM
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You do realize people can reach their personal peak in looks and career and still not be “winners” or “perfection” in the way society classifies them right? The winners are the ones who know what they can get and work to keep it once they do. You do not need to be conventionally attractive, be a millionaire, or even have high status in society to know a good thing when you see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:48 PM
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Why would you pick someone that doesn't find “you” as the perfect person for them? Or do you subscribe to the notion of <insert partner here>? where looks is the only thing about a woman that matters in LTR selection? If that’s the case, then why even settle for one? Why even marry at that point? Just keep grazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:53 PM
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No. I rather he sees what his options are at his peak so he knows to appreciate the best thing he will ever get in his life when it comes his way. I’ve seen too many stories of men reaching their peak post-marriage and then running wild to see if the grass is greener, only to have regrets later. Best to avoid that newfound peak energy and instead wait till he learns the grass is green only where you water it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:53 PM
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This is why I think it’s best to only date men when they are at their peak and never build with a man. Why waste your youth and good years building with a man only for him to trade you in and give it all to the one that did absolutely nothing to get it? Odds are better he doesn’t trade you in later when he picked you at the peak of his options.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:06 PM
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These are the physical traits I find sexually pleasing: A defined jawline. I just want to run my fingers across it. A nice smile. I’m instantly drawn in to straight white teeth. Full lips. Nothing worse than making out with nonexistent lips. Signs of Strength. I don’t need gym aesthetic muscles, I just need to pick up heavy shit muscles. A man working hard, and putting those muscles to work is the sexiest thing a man can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:11 PM
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I wouldn’t date a man who is bi because it goes against what I find attractive in men. The trait I'm most attracted to is being like a leader, which includes but is not limited to making decisive decisions and being able to show restraint. By being bi you can pick one lane but you can’t ever get rid of the eyes for both sides, and that is something I will always find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:11 PM
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It only applied to a paid tier of women that felt the expense was worth the extra set of filters for height. Most women do not pay for this extra tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:17 PM
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Not necessarily doomed, but there are a lot of women like myself that will not date anyone that cold approaches them. Why? A cold approach indicates that the person asking me out is willing to waste our time on a date when their is zero indication outside of possible attraction that we have anything in common. Whereas, when you meet people who are participating in a hobby you get to learn more about them in a setting where you already have a mutual interest in common to build on. I would be much…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:43 AM
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Given enough time and effort I would say most could. The problem is that is usually too much effort when what they want is a user manual that applies to all. In my experience the key to being good is always tied to emotional connection that allows you to “melt” into someone’s body to the point you can just “feel” how to move and what to do to get them there. I can only talk someone so far without that connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:19 PM
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This is a horrible comparison due to the following: 1) The man did not provide the woman with an existing profile that she could then evaluate based on his current success/failures. 2) The woman in the example is 18, so lacking in experience to provide any optics above her own experiences. 3) Only one woman provided her POV so there isn’t enough information to even draw conclusions. My suggestion was to obtain multiple female friends' POVs on an existing profile that isn’t working out for the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:49 AM
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Problem: Men complaining they can’t get women on dating apps. Solution: Ask your personal female friends to review your profile and allow them to give you honest feedback without hostility. Women, not men are the ones that will be swiping left or right on your profile so don’t waste your effort on the opinion of what men think women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:50 AM
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Needs require sustained and continued effort to be met. You don’t go to the gym once and stay in shape, it’s a constant effort to meet those health/fitness needs for life. A relationship is no different. If both people want their needs met than the effort must come from both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:37 AM
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What exactly am I overestimating?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:21 AM
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What’s not healthy is being in a relationship where your needs are not met. I will not settle for a man that I’m not attracted to or one that can’t fulfill my emotional needs. Been there done that. A job isn’t enough and I won’t pretend it is. Either it’s an equal partnership where both partners needs are a priority or I stay single. If men think that’s too much effort , GOOD. That leaves the door open for the man that won’t. Society be damned, I don’t care, not settling for low to no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:15 AM
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What do you mean men don’t have a choice? Women are opting to stay single and focusing on their own personal fulfillment if relationships aren’t working out for them. What is preventing men from doing the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:06 AM
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So what do you suggest? Taking away women’s free will of choice? Anything outside of that means IF you desire a relationship you will need to put in the effort to secure a relationship. If it’s too much effort then you can chose to opt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:01 AM
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Yes, it is healthy. No one should have to accept a relationship that is lacking in attraction, romance, or emotional affection if that’s not what makes them happy. Men don’t have to rise to meet any of the expectations of what modern women want if that doesn’t make them happy. They can choose to stay single as many women are choosing to do. Chose to adapt or don't, the choice is yours. That is the beauty of having a system where the freedom of choice reins supreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:47 PM
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The topic at issue is men with “potential” not being successful in dating. I pointed out one example and instead of debating that point you choose to shift it to “women do that too.” What is your point? If women continue to have men wanting to match with them despite those preferences is that a problem? No. If men do it and get zero matches is that a problem? No, because no one has to accept anything. If no wants what you are putting out then you can adapt or stay content in upholding your stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:28 PM
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Right? If a man doesn’t even care about making himself look good what does he expect I will see? I will see exactly what he is showing me, that he doesn’t care and I will swipe left because a lack of effort is unattractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:50 PM
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Exactly! Men arguing that women have all the choices are failing to see that the only reason they think that way is because they are coming from a mindset where women had little to no choice in the matter. It’s a shock to them to see women no longer accepting a man having a job as the bare minimum. It’s a shock to them that they now have to put in the effort to meet the emotional needs that they were previously able to neglect. It’s a shock to them that you now need to be a whole package to prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:44 PM
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Salesmanship doesn’t guarantee you won’t be traded in as soon as the deceit of false marketing is discovered. This is why women always tell men to be themselves because as soon as the mask falls off the women are gone. If a man has zero matches he should ask his female friends to look at his profile as men will not be able to give him the female perspective on why he is getting no matches. Placing blame and energy on women’s freedom of choice does nothing at the end of the day to help a man attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:28 PM
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Have you seen mens dating profiles? If not please go check out TikTok for some examples. It is no surprise why some men while decent looking are having zero luck in the dating market. The way some of them market themselves is VERY UNATTRACTIVE. An example of this would be a man putting under his about me section all the qualities he doesn’t want in a woman rather than what is interesting about him that makes him dateable. Hate is not a good way of attracting anyone yet it seems very common to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:49 PM
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I think it’s a very fair system now since both men and women are now free to pursue whomever they want. Women who in the past would be forced to marry out of necessity for survival now earn their own money and therefore can now choose based on personal preference. Women who would have been relegated to 24/7 housework/childcare are now free to choose a partner that will not just go 50/50 on finances but will also fulfill her romantic/emotional needs. If those needs are not met she can choose to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:40 PM
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Men may be better at teaching you how to obtain women, but women are the ones that can teach you how to keep a woman once you have her. In the same way, women can’t see dating through a man’s eyes, a man can’t see what women require to stay happy long-term in a relationship. You need a balanced view from both sides so that YOU can self-reflect and figure out how that fits in with your unique circumstances. Looking to the internet will only garner generic advice and therefore results that are med…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:36 PM
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I'm sorry you had such an unsupportive partner, you didn’t deserve that. It’s one thing to grieve alone, it’s entirely different when you feel the person who should care the most about you isn’t supportive. I’m glad that despite your grief, you were able to see you deserved more than what you were receiving. May you find the happiness you deserve.❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:24 AM
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It’s sad when they rather end the relationship than put any effort into keeping the one they have together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:02 PM
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I'm currently going through a divorce and this is exactly it. You stop putting your energy into making them change or putting in all the effort to keep the relationship together. You begin focusing that energy inwards and start the healing process through self care. At some point you realize they are just a hinderance to that process and realize you don’t need them and they are just draining your energy the longer you stay. So instead you just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:45 PM
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I give 100% to a relationship and will repeatedly state before a relationship ends the things I need to see change or I will leave. The person will continue to be lazy and I will slowly detach from the relationship until one day when I feel nothing. It is on that day I will finally break up with the person and they will try to pretend to care, at which point it’s too late because I’m over it. I will appear to the person as uncaring and moving on quickly, but the reality is they choose not to car…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:49 PM
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Simply put, outside of a life and death situation I would rather be single than share a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:46 PM
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Beauty-7.7, I would say I’m a 6-7 Age-24, Actual-32 Gender-Woman, correct BMI-18.4, Actual~23-25 I did this with zero makeup and noted that before I smile it gives me a 6 and as soon as I smile it jumps up into the 7’s increasing as I move the camera around to get all angles. I did the test twice and got 7.7 both times with the only difference being the BMI being down 1 point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:55 PM
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Men need to realize there is a difference between someone being conventionally attractive to society at large, and someone being sexually attractive to us on a personal level. There are plenty of men I think are attractive that I would never date because the attraction vibe needs to be there, and it either is there, or it isn’t. Anytime I’ve allowed a man to develop my sexual attraction to him that wasn’t there initially, over time it has to lead to diminishing returns in the sex department. I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:38 PM
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I use video chat. This way you can see if they lied about their looks/age and you can see if they know how to hold a conversation before you decide if you want to dedicate any time to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 06:18 PM
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