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| 2 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itWhy do you guys lie about your sexual past? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 10:06 AM |
| 3 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itUh oh, you're saying I need to take accountability for my actions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 10:03 AM |
| – | Manosphere influencers are a plagueYou're talking about a subset of manosphere influencers, I would say the minority. Most of them aren't selling anything except the views on their content | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 08:22 PM |
| 14 | Will men be shamed in the future for bit wanting to date "soft" sex workers? (OF models, sugar babes etc.)At this point I'm totally ok with being called insecure. I do not care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Men are absolutely stupid when it comes to red flags.A lot of dudes need to get a grip, slaving to pussy. Just because she graciously lets you fuck her, doesn't entitle her to walking over you, shitting on you, taking your resources, taking your agency, taking your balls. Where's your self sufficiency? Where's your sense of self worth and respect? You're a sorry, miserable cunt You need to be able to let go of a woman at the drop of a hat. Even before that, you need to get to the point of having multiple options. I'm sorry but if you're a lazy, we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 07:42 PM |
| 5 | Do you guys even like women? Why?Most women I'm indifferent to, but every now and then I'll meet a woman that I genuinely like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 11:35 AM |
| 9 | TRP is common sense explained to autistic men - CMVNot mine, maybe yours. My family didn't teach me how to pull women, I had to figure it out on my own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 08:52 PM |
| 13 | TRP is common sense explained to autistic men - CMVWhy do they have to be autistic? Being neurotypical doesn't automatically imbue you with this knowledge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 08:16 PM |
| 1 | what do you think is the main reason for men giving commitment to one girl, but not the other?Depends how many options the guy has, typically the more options, the higher the bar for an ltr. Same thing with whether he is happy to be single or not. For me the main factors are an alignment of values, wanting to start a family at some point, being honest and loyal, making a great friend. Also, low body count. I find promiscuity off putting for relationships, regardless of whether the woman is postponing sex with me or not. Old habits die hard, and I don't need the baggage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 06:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you guy stay centered?It's fine to watch content creators so long as you can filter it with your own judgement. Don't take people's word as gospel, learn to think for and rely on yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 05:29 PM |
| 8 | Men who don’t want to date overweight women know it has nothing to do with healthStop lying, healthy people don't have multiple inches of blubber under their skin. If there's enough fat to visibly bulge out of your body, there's also enough to line your blood vessels and increase the stress on your circulatory system. You can't get around that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 04:41 PM |
| 12 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"I know a lot of guys myself included, who will try to avoid conflict and de-escalate situations where using force is unnecessary. Strong guys too, it doesn't mean they can't or won't act when they have to. You seem to conflate the type of guy who is able to handle trouble, with the type to be causing the trouble in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Virginia is going NoFap* tomorrow! Can we speculate to repercussions to the SMP/RMP?Also, Reddit's API bypasses at least some ISP blocks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Guys don’t seem to be on the same page about submissive partnersNow you're sounding a little conceited, but again that's fine. I'm of the opinion that any personal preference or opinion in dating goes. So, you ever try women? I'd be curious to hear whether you consider them to be any better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Guys don’t seem to be on the same page about submissive partnersIf you feel that way then that's what's best for you. To my ear it sounds like your trust has been broken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 08:47 PM |
| -1 | Guys don’t seem to be on the same page about submissive partnersYou only consider it a personal insult because you know it's true, that's a Freudian slip and a half, sheesh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Guys don’t seem to be on the same page about submissive partnersSome are more incompetent and ignorant than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 07:44 PM |
| 0 | Guys don’t seem to be on the same page about submissive partnersHere you go again with your voices not mattering, one sided, yada yada. You know about that, it's not my domain of expertise. I'm sorry but I highly doubt a single woman has ever held you in respect or admiration, or been deeply attracted to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 07:41 PM |
| 0 | Guys don’t seem to be on the same page about submissive partners....yeah? 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 06:40 PM |
| 3 | There’s no such thing as unconditional love in romantic relationshipsIf I quit my job and sat on my ass all day I'd expect my husband to be mad about it. I wouldn't be mad, I'd be worried, this sounds like depression. I would voice my worries and try to help you better your mental well-being. That being said I make enough to support two people comfortably, which may skew my perspective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Guys don’t seem to be on the same page about submissive partnersI don't make the link between 'submissive' and not being able to question, isn't that 'subservient' you're looking for? Either way, this is the type of word everyone will define for themselves, even if we make definitions, there will be multiple and not everyone will agree. It's a limitation inherent to human language and communication | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 06:04 PM |
| -1 | Guys don’t seem to be on the same page about submissive partnersQuestion me, and I will explain my reasoning. If there's a flaw in my reasoning do point it out, I'm only human after all In time a woman should come to trust and respect my judgement, otherwise there's a fundamental incompatibility between us. If she considers me to be ignorant or incompetent, she will have to find somebody else that can do better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 05:43 PM |
| 3 | There’s no such thing as unconditional love in romantic relationshipsThis all circles back to the same thing, man no money or job, woman unhappy or leave. I just find it funny because how many dudes will leave a woman behind because she's broke? We never cared about your financial status in the first place, which gives credence to the claim that men's love is less conditional than women's | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 05:23 PM |
| 3 | There’s no such thing as unconditional love in romantic relationshipsYeah the reason is his cash dried up and he's not getting any more, basically the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 01:02 PM |
| 4 | There’s no such thing as unconditional love in romantic relationshipsThe same love that gets her fat lazy ass off the couch to go exercise together. But if she insists on not being healthy, that's on her not me. She's the one not loving herself in that scebario | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 01:00 PM |
| 1 | If large age gap relationships with 20somethings isn't weird, would being friends with 20somethings when you're 30 or 40+ be weird?You need to understand that someone younger than you can be more mature than you are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Red pill stuff if valid for both gendersIt's possible to like a person and agree with many of their points, whilst disagreeing with others. It's called discernment As an example I can like Andrew Tate and at the same time want to have a monogamous relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 05:34 PM |
| – | CMV If you‘re a Man and the only thing that u value in a Women is sex you’re a weirdo.If all she can do is sex, what am I meant to think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 12:25 AM |
| -8 | I have a love-hate relationship with r/NotHowGirlsWork.Hahaha, throwback to when I used to troll the living daylights out of them, I must have racked up at least a couple k downvotes... but I didn't care, I never do. I must say, credit to their mods for not banning me. I think some of them must have found it funny I had so much fun with politely pointing out flaws in their ideology, and then watching them all melt down around me, the ad hominems, the insults, the 'incel's, I bathed in it. It quickly became a guilty pleasure, even if I was just a sma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 07:49 PM |
| 17 | What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ?Agency, being able to do what you want when you want. Not having to worry about anyone else. Maximising personal time, money, and energy. The world is your oyster | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 07:03 PM |
| – | The struggle between the elites and the brutes in Halo 2 is akin to the struggle between RPers and BPers in real lifeTrying to engage in discussion with blue pillers usually feels like speaking to a child, and a stubborn one at that. Talk about Dunning-Kruger, I would bet that even most women think those guys are pathetic. They don't know what they're talking about and can't be reasoned with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Red pill stuff if valid for both gendersThat's not an accurate representation of RP subscribers and you know it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 05:46 PM |
| -7 | When men say they don't want a career woman, it's not that they don't want a woman who has a career, they just don't want a "boss babe".I respect a woman having a good career, but I can't have her choosing it over raising our kids. If we don't have kids yet she can work if she wants, but she would have to contribute to our joint savings and expenditures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 05:38 PM |
| 8 | If your life is not somewhat in order as a man then you should NOT be dating or attempting toWomen are largely uninterested in growing together,, they prefer waiting at the finish line. That's the sad truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 10:18 AM |
| 1 | If your life is not somewhat in order as a man then you should NOT be dating or attempting toThat tune will be different post college if you don't get your bread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 10:17 AM |
| – | If your life is not somewhat in order as a man then you should NOT be dating or attempting toThey can get relationships but they won't have many options and their relationships will be less favourable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 10:15 AM |
| – | Femininity is not valued in our societyI'm sure some people would consider that to be bossy. I don't get into relationships with such people. If a woman really trusts and admires you, she will probably be fine with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 10:13 AM |
| 2 | How would you feel if your sweet daughter was the one out there having sex with men old enough to be father?Depends on the age gap and moreso on the man's intentions for my daughter. If he's not looking to love and take care of her for the rest of his life then he can buzz off regardless. My daughters will know their worth and how to navigate men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Femininity is not valued in our societySingle parenthood is not and will never be good for kids. They should be being raised by their two parents that love each other. You have no idea of the extent of societal issues which are caused by kids being raised in broken homes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Women getting upset over the fact that Men like younger women is mainly irrationalImagine being this upset over older men and younger women choosing to be with each other. It's not their business, but old hags and soy cucks will try to make it their business anyway. Touch grass and get a life of your own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 08:40 AM |
| 4 | Femininity is not valued in our societyBossy just means throwing a tantrum when you can't have your way and being unreasonable or purposely difficult. Having no willingness to compromise. Being a headache If I have a standard or boundary that you would consider to be unreasonable or controlling, there shouldn't be any relationship or commitment between us in the first place. It's fine for people to think differently and be fundamentally incompatible. Problem is people tend to jump into relationships without putting any thought into i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 09:56 PM |
| 0 | Femininity is not valued in our societyFor a proper and well rounded upbringing, kids need to be exposed to both masculine and feminine energy. Butch or single mothers are not doing well for their children's wellbeing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Femininity is not valued in our societyFemininity is a requisite for a good mother. But tomboy doesn't necessarily mean a woman is masculine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Femininity is not valued in our societyTo each their own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Femininity is not valued in our societyBoth voices matter but as the man I make the ultimate choice and bear the burden of responsibility, I pave the path for her to follow. You'd be surprised how many women like a man who can lead them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 07:32 PM |
| 0 | Femininity is not valued in our societyIs what she wants, needs, or thinks not important? Women shouldn't settle for relationships where this isn't the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Femininity is not valued in our societyIf they want to have kids, someone who is pleasant to be around and would make a great mother. And yes, capable of trusting her man to make important decisions. Some women are too far gone for that, that's why it matters how many men they've been with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Femininity is not valued in our societyThink about it this way. The attractive and successful man who would take care of you and treat you well, probably isn't going to choose you if you're bossy and annoying. Most men prefer feminine women, and if you have options you will aim to satisfy your preferences. That's all there is to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Rejection is not completely consequence free.Come back after you've experienced your share of clubs young whippersnapper. Go do your homework then touch grass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 10:36 PM |
| 6 | Rejection is not completely consequence free.Of course she can be rude if she wants. But who would want someone that lacks common courtesy and respect anyway, it's just trash taking itself out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Rejection is not completely consequence free.I understand it's a slippery slope due to the danger a man can present to a woman. I would say if you don't want to talk to me, just say that you're busy or that you have to go. You can try to be cordial with it Otherwise, spare me a minute to introduce myself. After a bit of conversation you can easily say, 'It's been nice to meet you but I have to get going now' or 'You seem nice but you're not my type'. Basically just try to be courteous, there's no need to be rude The favourite way would be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Rejection is not completely consequence free.For clubs and bars it's best to move as a unit, gather the single lads and go have a good time for the boys. If someone pulls a girl it's a job well done, if they fail we brush it off and it's on to the next Then there's the 'game' patented by a friend of mine. Your group goes round taking turns to approach a girl, who is decided upon by the council. To play the game you must respect the game and do your approach no matter how attractive the girl is. A simple opener will suffice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 05:38 PM |
| 21 | Rejection is not completely consequence free.It worth mentioning that men typically reject way more nicely than women do. Most guys will at least hold a conversation and be nice to a girl they're not interested in. But women will often give you a dirty look and tell you to go away, or leave without saying anything, like you're the scum of the earth for trying to talk to her lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Women shouldn't give one man her 20sNo offense to you but you sound exceedingly immature, which I guess isn't all that surprising if you're in your early mid 20s. Your philosophy embodies the classic adage of 'one cookie now' over 'more cookies later' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Average and acceptable are not the same thing. I think men would do well to accept thisThis is a dating discussion forum, and those people are not in the dating pool. Contextually it doesn't make much sense does it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Just because a woman leaves a relationship does not mean she ended it.Then let's define 'not trying'. If you ask me it means paying next to 0 attention to your partner, or not caring for them. May come served with not caring for yourself, and having depression or a lack of mental wellbeing. Lastly, being unwilling to communicate and improve the relationship I think it's uninteresting because it's not controversial to want out of such an arrangement, and further I don't believe this to be the most common cause of break up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Just because a woman leaves a relationship does not mean she ended it.Sure, but I'm not talking about someone leaving because their partner stopped trying. That's an uninteresting circumstance for discussion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 06:20 PM |
| 7 | Just because a woman leaves a relationship does not mean she ended it.Insert Toy Story 'I don't wanna play with you anymore'. Happens on both sides but women get bored and leave for a better option far more often than men do. Inherently, women have more options which they could deem to be a higher 'quality'. This is the reason I would advise a fellow man to be careful in divulging commitment to a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 05:55 PM |
| 5 | Average and acceptable are not the same thing. I think men would do well to accept thisI don't think people in committed relationships should be factored in here. The average single man certainly isn't getting much sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Why do low quality guys just not lower your standards comparable to where you actually are?My philosophy is your must skew your mindset towards attracting women instead of chasing them. Dating isn't fair and you're not entitled to anything. So an unattractive man must work on self improvement, otherwise you're shit out of luck and concede to seeking out scraps of sffection like a starving stray dog | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Men are disingenuous in the dating marketThe reason you think that is you are choosing to spend your time with men who are more likely to act that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousBeing able to easily attract the opposite sex makes being single a whole lot more comfortable. I'm lucky enough to have it almost as good as the average woman and let me tell you, having options is like sweet honey. I used to have it as bad as the average guy too, now I can taste the difference. Women are eating good right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousThe person who consistently stays in bad relationships is a loser no matter the gender. It's a no go and a red flag if it's a pattern of behaviour. Confidence is lacking if you just let yourself get shit on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Rating system: 1-10 vs 1-3, It's time for a change!The ultimate system is truerateme. Normal distribution centred at 5 - dead average. 9's and 10's basically don't exist, and a 6 is pretty attractive. 4 is a little below average, but not necessarily ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Men overly fixated on women's sex lives have other issuesThe obvious conclusion is that they do both depending on the circumstance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:26 PM |
| 10 | Men overly fixated on women's sex lives have other issuesTotally agree, emotions are largely uncontrollable. But being able to think and reason about their cause (or lack thereof), is an important asset for anyone to have. To act on impulse is to act on emotion. One should hope to be a little more calculated about how they live their life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:24 PM |
| 0 | Q4RP: How many women do you know actually "dual mate"?Oh don't worry about me, I can hold my own. But I'm still not committing to a woman who has been around the block | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 01:29 PM |
| 1 | How powerful do you think is status in attracting woman?Right? I'm already drippin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 09:28 PM |
| 0 | How powerful do you think is status in attracting woman?Right? I'm already drippin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Men don't like "blank"Oh yes mate I love my disturbing of peace. Meaningless arguments and headaches are the cherry on the cake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 08:46 PM |
| 12 | Q4RP: How many women do you know actually "dual mate"?It makes total sense if you think about it. It's not a majority of marriages which are like this, but if you're the dude in that scenario you're probably fucked. Either divorce or a miserable life is on the cards, you can't be putting yourself in that situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 08:34 PM |
| 7 | Q4RP: How many women do you know actually "dual mate"?And the sad part is he won't turn her on like some of the hot guys did. It could never be me, putting myself in that situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Is anybody here good at hookup culture, but hates it?Yeah, I refuse to fuck women casually. Was never about that life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 07:36 PM |
| 7 | How powerful do you think is status in attracting woman?It always circles back to materialism and hedonism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 07:24 PM |
| 1 | What female PPD users pretend they look VS what they actually look like.I'm just pulling your leg. It is purge week after all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Men don’t see unattractive women as humanIt's not impossible. I have plenty of good female acquaintances that I don't really find sexually attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Men don’t see unattractive women as humanWe're not high school bullies lmao. The average dude at least tries to uphold some level of decorum and respectfulness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 09:33 AM |
| 1 | why should women date you?I stopped dating 2 years ago because too many women only wanted sex or had many red flags (I was 23 at the time). I got annoyed and stopped approaching women altogether, in favour of focussing on my own life. So I'm not on dating apps, and when I'm out, women won't come up to me, and I won't come up to them. Single it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 09:25 AM |
| 2 | What do men truly desire from women?A lot of women do that but it can be insidious at times. Just be yourself, because that version of you will come out eventually anyway. It's cool if you're just trying to better yourself, because that's admirable and I'd be trying to do the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:11 PM |
| 0 | What female PPD users pretend they look VS what they actually look like.Nah I bet you and your partners are built like Tyson Fury | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:28 PM |
| 3 | 30 yo man with 20 yo woman creepy?You wouldn't feel the need to judge or care about other people's business, if there wasn't some salt in there somewhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:17 PM |
| 1 | why should women date you?Tall enough, dark, handsome, good sense of style and fashion, good career, got my own place, intelligent, loyal, caring, and pretty funny. Ready to fall in love with one woman, settle down, and work on building a life together. No games and no bullshit coming from me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 02:53 PM |
| 4 | 30 yo man with 20 yo woman creepy?One word: saltiness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Sperm banks are the worst thing that has ever happened to the dating marketMan I would never give my sperm to a bank, that's so weird. I will have kids one day unless I die first, but will do so organically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 07:04 PM |
| – | Her friend wasn’t cockblocking, you just missed a signal or there was an agreement before they even leftAs if it's never happened before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 11:08 PM |
| – | Her friend wasn’t cockblocking, you just missed a signal or there was an agreement before they even leftYou underestimate my ability to read social queues. Besides, if a woman doesn't want to talk to me, 90% of the time she will make it painfully obvious lol. Cope harder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 10:57 PM |
| 4 | Her friend wasn’t cockblocking, you just missed a signal or there was an agreement before they even leftIf me and a woman are having a good time chatting and her fat friend suddenly drags her off, there is only one conclusion. Different if the convo was dead or woman obviously wasn't feeling it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 09:37 PM |
| 5 | What are guys supposed to do to improve their situation realistically?This lmao. So many of the young women I've dated only wanted to fuck and nothing serious. So I grew tired and stopped approaching / seeking women out altogether | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 09:25 PM |
| 8 | What are guys supposed to do to improve their situation realistically?You've nicely summarised the dating struggles of young men who want a wife and kids - shit is looking very bleak in these streets. The last card in my sleeve that I think might give me a chance, is moving to eastern europe before I turn 30. Luckily it's my place of origin so I know my way around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 09:07 PM |
| – | Since when did requiring physical attraction for a romantic relationship make you superficial?Not really. I could partake if I wanted to but that life is not for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 08:12 PM |
| – | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketWho's coping here when you're trying to insult a faceless stranger's appearance lmao. Seethe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketYou can't have everything lol, money makes me happy too but that's not helping me become rich. You should know by now that as men, we're not entitled to shit and no one gives a fuck about our wants. The only person you should rely on is yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketNah nah nah keep that head up brother, there's so much more to life than women. Wishing you luck in finding happiness within. Fuck em, trust me you don't need women to be happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketThis is why dating as a young man in the current day is a nightmare. The notion of love and monogamy is dead in the water. Women have this exact attitude of wanting to get as much dick in them as they can, commitment is seen as undesirable and old-fashioned, something to maybe do down the line. Then there's me, who never cared for pumping random box and just wanted to find one love... red pill rage consumes me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 12:17 AM |
| -1 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketUnfortunately you're an exception to the rule. Most women are trying to partake of all their options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 12:01 AM |
| 4 | Being Emotionally Available and a Good Communicator is Reduces the Chance for Sustained Attraction for Men Seeking a Relationship.Juice < squeeze. Maybe I'm antisocial, but I think I've come to realise I don't like most women. I'll be happily single unless one day I find my neurodivergent queen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 11:28 AM |
| 3 | Being Emotionally Available and a Good Communicator is Reduces the Chance for Sustained Attraction for Men Seeking a Relationship.With this kind of woman, there is no guarantee. The game is what's keeping her interested, once she figures out you're just a normal, loyal dude looking to settle down and live life, her head will probably turn to the next mysterious dude who can provide a better thrill. This is the state of modern dating... any notion of love has been replaced by hedonism and the short-term dopamine rush | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 10:40 AM |
| 6 | Selective dating for only higher-status men may result in perceived commodification from those same menPff let's be honest most of the time the woman knows what's happening but she'll go along with it anyway since she's getting something out of it. Whether it's finances from a rich guy or sex from a hot guy Fool me once, twice, thrice... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 10:28 AM |
| 13 | Being Emotionally Available and a Good Communicator is Reduces the Chance for Sustained Attraction for Men Seeking a Relationship.This shit is why I stopped dating. If I'm looking for a serious relationship I don't think I should have to play games to get it. I know women love playing games and drama, but I really don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 10:07 AM |
| 6 | CMV: “Men and women are different” is just an excuse to rationalize hypocrisy.No we'll blame our fellow men for shitty decisions any day. In fact, we're always blaming ourselves for shit, that's how we are. Anytime something goes wrong, you could have done something differently leading to a different outcome There you go, that's yet another difference between men and women. Y'all love dodging accountability | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Since when did requiring physical attraction for a romantic relationship make you superficial?Women could get marriage minded men if they themselves were marriage minded. But most of them would rather jump cock to cock, while they're still young at least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:30 PM |
| -1 | What are the most effecient ways to improve SMV for both men and women?Quite the opposite, half the time they look like makeshift scarecrows. Which works if you're into the bimbo look I guess but it's not for everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Apple VR + AI porn will probably make porn even a more realistic alternative to sexThen live your own experiences and form your own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Apple VR + AI porn will probably make porn even a more realistic alternative to sexI'm jealous but not gonna apologise for it. It's by no means an inherently bad trait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Apple VR + AI porn will probably make porn even a more realistic alternative to sexIt's an interesting read but I'm not buying it man, they're not being scientific and I'm doubting the first study quoted. Yeah a lot of women are wifed up already, that's obvious. Often it's the best ones. But a lot of the single ones are addicted to sex, drama, or crazy in some way. It's so much easier to find sex than it is to find a good relationship partner in the 18-25 range | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 10:07 PM |
| 4 | Apple VR + AI porn will probably make porn even a more realistic alternative to sexYou're talking about sex I'm talking about marriage and life-long commitment. If you take decent care of yourself and meet a baseline level of attractiveness, it's probably one of the easiest times to get laid ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Women have stricter body standards than men do in datingThis much is blatantly obvious - you don't see fat guys get the same amount of love fat chicks are getting. That's just the way the world works, men are more horny and women have more options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 05:01 PM |
| – | Women have stricter body standards than men do in datingThis much is blatantly obvious - you don't see fat guys get the same amount of love fat chicks are getting. That's just the way the world works, men are more horny and women have more options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 04:57 PM |
| 6 | Apple VR + AI porn will probably make porn even a more realistic alternative to sexYou don't think I want a wife and kids? Dating apps and social media royally fucked it for the current generation of young men. I don't want anything to do with most of the current 18-25 y/o women who are in my age range, and most of them don't want serious commitment either. They're paralysed with choice and don't know what to do with themselves Ok. Maybe they'll change their tune when they're 30, but sorry I'm petty and don't like sloppy seconds. I enjoy living in peace and solitude. I have a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 04:55 PM |
| 7 | When women have bad relationships they are told to “pick better” but when men are, we assign blame to womenI will absolutely blame the man if need be. So many of y'all are wifing up what are essentially walking red flags, just because she's not ugly and showed you a bit of interest. Everyone could do with a bit more scrutiny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Apple VR + AI porn will probably make porn even a more realistic alternative to sexBruh, come on. All cutting edge tech is expensive, then drops in price over the coming years. How have you not caught on to this already? For some guesswork I imagine we'll be seeing 1-2k for a similarly specced headset within 5-6 years. Sub 1k within 10 years. It's still pricey, but at least it won't make up an excuse to run off and fuck someone else Personally I'm more excited for the sexy android maids. But that's closer to 15-20 years before they'll be ubiquitous and sufficiently advanced | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 03:15 PM |
| 1 | The idea that we live in a “hookup culture” and that a significant number of women are having an abundance of casual sex is a myth. Most women have zero interest in casual sex and have a limited number of sexual partners in their lifetime.Buddy if you want to learn what dating is like for other people and not yourself, then go for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 01:11 PM |
| 0 | The idea that we live in a “hookup culture” and that a significant number of women are having an abundance of casual sex is a myth. Most women have zero interest in casual sex and have a limited number of sexual partners in their lifetime.To me? Absolutely, yes. To you? Probably not. Go see how things are for yourself, because that's as close to truth as you're going to get. There's only so much you can learn about dating dynamics from research, and it may not even be applicable to your circumstance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 11:52 AM |
| 33 | Its hypocritical of men to criticize promiscious women, when those men want to engage in casual sex.It may be hypocritical but it's a valid preference nonetheless. Women have just as much of a right to reject men for having a high body count as well You could also argue that it's hypocritical for women to prefer tall men when they themselves are short. But no one bats an eye there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 04:51 PM |
| 22 | The idea that we live in a “hookup culture” and that a significant number of women are having an abundance of casual sex is a myth. Most women have zero interest in casual sex and have a limited number of sexual partners in their lifetime.Yes they would, because most men aren't attractive to most women. A non-majority of men get the lion's share of casual sex. That much is blatantly obvious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 03:48 PM |
| 22 | The idea that we live in a “hookup culture” and that a significant number of women are having an abundance of casual sex is a myth. Most women have zero interest in casual sex and have a limited number of sexual partners in their lifetime.I can confirm that young women by and large want to 'have fun' as opposed to committing to any serious relationships (unless you're the perfect man of their dreams maybe? I don't know) They want to fuck first and maybe ask questions later. I think it's choice paralysis, they're really wanting to sample every interesting dude like it's an all you can eat buffet 🤮. I'm 25 now and stopped trying to date about 2 years ago. Fuck that shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 03:29 PM |
| 43 | The idea that we live in a “hookup culture” and that a significant number of women are having an abundance of casual sex is a myth. Most women have zero interest in casual sex and have a limited number of sexual partners in their lifetime.Spoken like someone who well and truly doesn't have any dating experience in the current 18-25 age range. Stay in your lane lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Question for everyone : How can you sleep at night knowing you “plugged into” somebody else’s money via marriage or a partnershipToo bad those don't exist anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4M - How would you advise your daughters to navigate the dating scene?And this ladies and gents, is the state of dating for men in their early 20s - romance is dead and women killed it. Fuck growing through young adulthood together, lol. Lemme ride the carousel first, and maybe I'll get back to you once I'm 30 and have racked up a bunch of debt, bad decisions, bodies, STI's, and maybe a kid or two | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 11:40 AM |
| – | Everyone should respect other people’s lived experiencesWithout a concrete example or two this post is just conjecture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 10:18 PM |
| 9 | CMV: RP strategies have become a pre-requisite for male success in datingAt this point if a woman is on dating apps it's a big red flag to me. And yeah I think I'm ready to be forever alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 05:29 PM |
| – | The main reason why men like young girls is NOT fertility/beauty.most women who look good at 20 also look good at 30, it's really not that big of a difference imo Mhmm tell me more 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 01:42 PM |
| 2 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversRight up until the point where she makes your life miserable or drops you for a shiny new toy. Enjoy, lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 01:07 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion of incels?That's one way to look at it. I see it as a waste of time, money, and energy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 07:32 PM |
| 0 | What is your opinion of incels?And how do the majority of those relationships turn out? Short lived and shit. Before we consider the increased difficulty of getting into one in the first place. Infinitely better to focus on yourself until you are happier, more confident, and have more dating options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 07:30 PM |
| -1 | What is your opinion of incels?Sweet summer child. Sounds nice but irl dating is not a disney movie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 07:22 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion of incels?There really is no point getting a girlfriend I you're a stereotypical incel. Loving others before loving yourself? Not how that works. It might be fun for a couple days but the relationship inevitably implodes and your ass is kicked back to square one. No self respecting woman will want to be around a man who doesn't respect himself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 07:21 PM |
| 2 | is what germaine greer actaully says true?Well try learning and teaching while society is crumbling down before you. The ones who would be capable of pulling this off are the masculine survivors I was speaking off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 07:17 PM |
| 1 | What is your standards for a long term relationship?Strong level of mutual attraction Doesn't engage and hasn't engaged in hookup culture Good communicator Kind hearted Bonus points for intelligence I know it's asking a lot, that's why I'm single. But I enjoy being single and much prefer it to pointless relationships which are obviously not going to last anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 07:14 PM |
| 6 | is what germaine greer actaully says true?Funny thing is, only a small amount of the most masculine women would survive this hypothetical scenario. There would be no order, no society, and everything would fall apart within days. Most would die from disease and starvation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 06:56 PM |
| 0 | What is your opinion of incels?They're not ready for a girlfriend in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 06:48 PM |
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