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This is all true also. It doesn’t have to be forced and I am introverted. But how will accepting that get me closer to having more friends and intimate relationships if I’m not trying to force myself out of my immediate friends group?
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:26 PM
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Sounds like something to try. Do I have to get involved? Not really up to dancing or approaching in one yet. Don’t know how much I would get out of just sitting inside of one with a drink though. Might still be worth a shot.
/r/seduction18/10/21 01:58 PM
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I will try this more. I have had friends take me out before, but I feel like I kind of just end up hiding behind them in a sense. Like I still don’t have it in me to talk to others and just focus on the ones who came with me So they kind of end up being my crutch.
/r/seduction18/10/21 01:54 PM
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I will check them out thanks
/r/seduction18/10/21 01:53 PM
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Good luck! I am the same exact way.. huge social anxiety and really getting depressed over having no intimate relationships.. looking forward to the update!
/r/seduction18/10/21 01:12 PM
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I should work on that. It would be nice to be able to judge whether or not a woman is doing enough to hold my interest but It’s hard to think like that sometimes when I feel like my options aren’t abundant. I’m glad to have even been able to do the approach and get a decent conversation rolling.
/r/seduction03/09/21 08:44 PM
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I try not to have a set location as I don’t see the point in that. Anywhere where I see a woman I am interested in. Malls, stores, cafe, busy streets, work, etc.
/r/seduction03/09/21 08:39 PM
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Haven’t see anyone talk about “kino” yet. I guess this is a term for escalation ? I guess I’m bad at leading the conversation where I want it to go because I don’t have much interesting to talk about, I usually try to pinpoint a topic that she seems interested in and go with the flow that seems to have her most engaged. I’ve read that silences can be good, but I find that it can lead to an approach or conversation dying off completely or a girl walking away. You could say she wasn’t interested, …
/r/seduction03/09/21 08:37 PM
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It’s a mix. I try to get them to invest more than me, but it doesn’t always work. I really haven’t gotten good at silence though. In my experience too much silence, wether it’s my fault or hers, ends up in the conversation ending or her walking away. She might even just be shy. I won’t force a conversation if it seems like she is just uncomfortable, but I do talk more to avoid an awkward silence and the approach failing.
/r/seduction03/09/21 07:38 PM
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I probably do come off as trying because I am trying. If it was all easy and I was good at this I wouldn’t be here. I can’t really see myself getting over that anytime soon.
/r/seduction03/09/21 07:34 PM
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Good advice, I’ll try to be more direct. I assumed that most good looking women have their guard up for these type of comments though because they probably get them repeatedly daily.
/r/seduction03/09/21 07:31 PM
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Not tall
/r/seduction03/09/21 06:10 PM
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True. So what do you do? Just go into random bars and order drinks until you feel comfortable at a bar? Seems even more intimidating to be noticeably that guy afraid of bars when you sit down and can barely chat up the bartender.
/r/seduction02/09/21 09:35 AM
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“Hello, nice to meet you. I see you enjoy drinking as well” Lol sarcasm aside though I would love to get to that part of the conversation because I feel like it’s smooth sailing, but it’s the approach, opener, and transitioning over to talking about what she likes without turning her off up to that point that’s difficult for me.
/r/seduction02/09/21 09:34 AM
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You’re right, I do know the easiest answer. Just be it. But like you also said, you don’t change who you are for women. I don’t want to change who I am or flip a switch just to get there. I wasn’t really looking for anyone to tell me what they want. What they want isn’t me answering my own question. My question is more of how to deal with a woman of this type without having to jeopardize who I am or act differently. I’m looking for people with some direct experience of this sort of situation.
/r/seduction15/05/21 06:23 AM
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Well you broke my first rule in the description. I know these women seem like trouble, but it’s probably what leads me to them. I’m not looking for “nice” girls myself. I’m just not an aggressive/toxic person, but they’re looking for it. I think it’s because I have very aggressive/dominating sexual energy and I can sense when a woman is into that stuff and I am attracted/turned on, but they expect that same type of energy outside of sex too just in conversation and I don’t have it... I’m pretty …
/r/seduction15/05/21 05:56 AM
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Eh.. I commented “the women I’m attracted to”, and used the word toxic, for a reason. You’re giving me general advice on women. I know women like nice guys, but those type of women are usually nice themselves. Women I am attracted to, are not. If I were to pull a recent example from memory, I gave a woman shit for using too much Snapchat. She messaged, “ok so what are you going to do about it?” and I instantly made a sexual comment about what I would do to her to keep her distracted from her Sna…
/r/seduction15/05/21 05:42 AM
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Being nice and being platonic really aren’t synonymous.
/r/seduction15/05/21 05:15 AM
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LMAO the only comment I actually lold to
/r/seduction15/05/21 04:48 AM
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You’re right, I should of. I just didn’t escalate things sexually at all so it felt so out of place to ask. I’ll make sure to do this though.
/r/seduction05/03/20 08:08 PM
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I have noticed that girls tend to be ready to reject approaches. Since it’s the norm for us to approach women, they are used to guys coming up to them. If they gave every guy who asked the time of day it would be crazy. If you rush it, she is likely to reject it. I’m just now starting out in this so I have realized myself from experience that asking a girl if she wants to go out sometime too quickly usually leads to her claiming she has a boyfriend. Unless you’re just some hot dude, your chances…
/r/seduction27/02/20 07:12 PM
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This is great advice except for I’ve yet to be successful trying to invite a girl over to my place for the first date. Most girls don’t seem cool with that.
/r/seduction20/02/20 07:08 PM
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First, “posting about that”? I changed the subject completely from “I can’t do this” to “okay, where should I go to start.” pretty much. Did I have to make a new post? No. But I thought that it was it’s own topic for people who don’t even know where to go when they walk out the door that are intimated by the generic recommendations that are put on here all day like bars, clubs, a damn cooking class. I never said I didn’t want to do activities, I specifically said don’t offer yoga/cooking. These …
/r/seduction06/02/20 04:23 PM
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I do like the malls, I have walked around working up the courage a couple of times. The problem for me though is most people seem to be on a mission, kind of rushing from one store to another, and are always in groups. The group aspect is what already has me intimidated by bars and clubs. I still don’t really have it in me to approach a girl by herself, I don’t think I could approach a group.
/r/seduction06/02/20 03:14 PM
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That’s an obvious point, but I’m really stuck on where to go after work to practice socializing with women. I was thinking bars and clubs, but I don’t know if I am even ready for that. I am definitely not ready to be doing that on every weeknight. Besides that, I really don’t have an idea for a low stress environment that would be acceptable to be going around stopping women in. Particularly younger women around my age, who seem to mainly go out to bars and clubs and when they aren’t doing that …
/r/seduction04/02/20 07:39 PM
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What were some of your steps starting out that got you from being nervous around your own family to where you are now ?
/r/seduction04/02/20 07:16 PM
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Was it hard for you to start out just making random interaction ?
/r/seduction31/01/20 07:17 PM
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Yeah, I keep telling myself this
/r/seduction31/01/20 07:14 PM
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What are some small goals starting out that you set?
/r/seduction31/01/20 07:14 PM
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What were some of the goals you set for yourself starting out?
/r/seduction31/01/20 07:12 PM
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What was your experience starting out?
/r/seduction31/01/20 07:11 PM
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