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It doesn't help. Anyone who is affected by racism and colorism during dating understands no one gives a fuck what they are called, they rightfully can exclude anyone for anything. Yet when men are affected by something be it heightism or bisexuality they think they can bully, coerce, and manipulate people into giving them sexual access due to social justice. It is an extremely delusional take that only harms the discussion because entitlement will never result in increased sexual access and so a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:01 PM

The constant nagging is not doing what you think it's doing. The self introspection results in recognizing one's own fortitude. Listen to manipulative men try to weaponize social justice concepts for sex or enforce one's own boundaries. This debate is harming bisexual men more than you think especially in this climate. But I suppose that's the point for whoever is pushing this agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:35 PM

That's why it's so wonderful that you never have to get married. You beat the evil system and all the terrible women too!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:12 PM

Why though, if they get basically all the benefits and none of the downsides?? Because women don't. How is this not obvious? You can't just stick to your preconceived notions when the feedback you're looking at clearly contradicts your beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:11 PM
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You can't be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:58 AM
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Women are not the ones who say that. Your fixation on blaming women is fine but you need to make sense. This is a Red Pill-ism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:57 AM
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Except the quiet part that a lot of women don't want to say out loud is that they're not ATTRACTED to liberal men because they don't look or act as masculine I don't understand this take. Are you of the belief that there are no liberal men who work out or present as masculine men? If so, you are laughably incorrect. I just implore women to accept the fact that what they SAY they want in a man, and what they DO want in a man are usually pretty different, and that smart men like myself are just ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:39 AM
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I saw that. It doesn't matter because to remove me makes your comment incoherent. For it to not be about me, your comment would be based on whatever generality you are comparing. You involved my literal response as if it were a valid comparison. That did not make sense because you were trying to demonstrate a contradiction where none exist Being exasperated by women because of your poor writing is illogical. If you are going to criticize anyone for their take on passport boys, it doesn't make se…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:35 PM
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I'm not going to Bali to fuck someone. I'm just going on vacation. It just never occured to me to even consider a hook up out there. I found the idea intriguing. I've been celibate over like 10 years. A few weeks ago I came on here saying I was ready to end that and won't use dating apps bc of how men act. It's not a priority nor am I interested in finding a husband so your excitement to compare in this comment is a bit confusing. No one who bashed passport bros said "I don't hate it". I did. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:17 PM
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I'm thinking of going to Bali but I had no idea about the hooking up. It actually never occurred to me but you know what.. I don't hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:51 PM
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Why would anyone need empathy for what you agree is sociopathic and disgusting behavior? If you get hurt, do you say "I must empathize with the person who hurt me"? Yeah no, their comment wasn't disgusting. It was accurate. It just so happens some men cannot tolerate valid criticism and it appears you may be one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:34 AM
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Yes, jealousy "Losers back home" is what foreign women call passport boys. What do foreign women have to be jealous of when they are the target
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:20 AM

They can with some women but they won't like the tradeoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:29 PM
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without such things as "equity", "affirmative action" and a pyramid of oppression that is a basis of western feminist theory. Something you would no doubtedly appreciate if you yourself moved to the US and got a reality check with how the hierarchy actually works here. You might then realize why so much work has to be done as a heavy recipient of the terms you're putting in scare quotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:13 PM
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They don't. They never did. That is why I never feel anything when they complain about lack of empathy. I think they get what they deserve. I reserve such feelings for men I know in person who recognize my humanity. I reserve it for objectively kind men I discover. I'm generally indifferent to the anguish of men, putting it kindly, and think it's the only thing that will fix them. They don't do reason, they don't believe in fairness, and they won't listen to us so I rather them continue guiding …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:03 PM
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Liberalism has no relation with sexual opportunity and personal time. These are the poorly formed thoughts that make men so easy to control politically and otherwise. It's unfortunate because failing to make sense will never result in the outcomes you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:54 PM
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On the other hand the reason so many women hate men, is because deep down they know men are better than women Objectively false. People having to be forced to pretend this is true or else they are at risk of animalistic violence is a valid reason to hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:51 PM
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The “blatant misogyny” you see is just your mind’s desire to present yourself as a victim. No, this is just you engaging in bad faith which is a demonstration of your own integrity or lack thereof.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:49 PM
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So you're incidental in these women's lives? What did you mean to prove here?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:47 PM
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You don't. This is why so many men hate us right now. Everyone had to make do for generations without you so I don't understand why all of a sudden, some of you are acting like it makes a difference if you are there or not. It really doesn't make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:46 PM

The men who wish death upon you for choosing not to have kids are fucking weird. What kind of creature repeatedly sees itself with dominion over other individual identities around him? Based on what? I spent my whole life listening to men shit on moms so color me surprised to see they shit on you if you choose not to become a mom either. You can't fucking win.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:44 PM

Women in the western world have the best access to health care No, we really fucking do not. and education (and are now more educated than men on average)… Men choose not to pursue education. They aren't being oppressed no matter how many of you try to frame the lack of male effort as proof of victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:21 PM
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Ok. And whatever that means, I'm not interested in having a worse life for it. I won't be trusting any man enough to bear his child. By doing this I eliminate an incredible amount of issues and that's good enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:35 AM
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how is it good for me or my offspring to select for a fearful male?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:55 AM
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Don't know, don't care. If I said yes, that is a tell that I am not capable of choosing a good man, then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:51 AM
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Women birthed men. Select men built the world around us and excluded all female contributions from the history books. Cool- What is it that you're taking credit for?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:16 AM
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I think you as men are projecting things onto women for your own sakes. Nothing you said here tracks. We don't even view men who need to pay for sex work and men interested in sex as the same species. The "value" of sex is a male based obsession related to hierarchy and sexual competition. This shit isn't a concern for women at all so your theory is off base.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:11 AM
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What bargaining chip? For that to work, they would have to be interested in landing you. Is that what you're saying is happening? Because I promise you, that isn't what's happening at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:08 AM
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You act like a loving supportive man is a given but it is not and that one variable is what terminated my desire to take the risk. I gave up my dream of motherhood once I understood enough about men. One of my friends almost died during childbirth while her man was sleeping around. I also see how men speak about single mothers that they create. One man said something to me about how tight his wife is and what she will never return to after having his babies. I see how men speak about women who w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:21 PM
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Are men the ones judging the opposite sex on genetic traits such as height, skin color, eye color, etc? Yes, they absolutely do. Skin and hair being their primary points.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:56 AM
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The average woman goes above and beyond. We are like this even with our friends. The only time you are not seeing this is if she is not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:49 AM
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The point of the sub is to debate red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:33 PM
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No, words mean things. The experience speaking to a confident man is very different that speaking to an insecure man. A man who is comfortable in his own skin is generally able to be more present, puts others at ease, introduces a social lubricant even. It's a pleasure and it is not to be misconstrued with a cocky man either. As a woman very attracted to confident men, this era of navigating men afraid of their shadows is killing me. I can't stand what they use to compensate or their many bids t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:29 PM
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If men allow things to become intrasexual status contests among men, women will gladly oblige. I've learned this is true for me and you're the only person online I've ever seen name it like this. This is actually far more true and relevant about how I select than the arbitrary things they say we care about as women. For example height recently became more important to me because of how many guys are now freaking out about it. That said I don't think about dick size like that but in theory, your …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:47 PM
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When you find out how to go 50/50 in pregnancy, this will matter more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:31 AM
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Haha try again. I live in the gym. Your comment has nothing to do with me or with the comment you are replying to. As for self aggrandizing, if you have problems with self esteem, working through that does not include spewing irrelevant venom at women just because you're mad and jealous of their sense of self. Develop some self worth and seek help. My answer stands. If you don't like it, tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:20 PM
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You're right. Men largely want young beautiful women to love them for who they are inside and as the woman ages, have her be comforted by his losing attraction in exchange for familiarity. Don't get sick, don't get fat, don't get into any accidents, do nothing weird. You will get a speech about how they are only human and how they can't help how they feel. It's better to accept how they are upfront and move accordingly. It's a mistake to trust men's "love."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:12 PM
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For some reason they don't care that she didn't like it. I don't care what else a man has going on. If he's like this, he won't be good for her in the long run. This is the type of guy whose cruelty flares at the worst times like pregnancy. I see this, i run for my life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:14 AM
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This is why it's not a good idea to date insecure men. They make up narratives and ignore your personhood. Never worth it. This shit just escalates to hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:11 AM
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No one is making you do anything. You're angry because you feel entitled to the time of a beautiful woman for free. Otherwise you wouldn't be angry. Is it rational to give you that time over the next guy with the better attitude and willingness to make her feel special? I'm sure you have your theories but one thing that's reliable about men is how mercenary they get about getting results. Being the contrast with the man who's got it makes that guy more sexy so... bravo for the wingman behavior t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:09 PM
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I agree with the OP and feel good about this one thing being an easy screener. I am never going to be interested in a man's reasons for this just like how they don't entertain unattractive partners. Guys who don't show they want to take care of me will never be in the running. This argument isn't really with women, it's with male thirst. They want to act like this isn't a sexual competition. Men know to never pull this with women they are actually interested in and know there is always another m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:04 PM
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This isn't a good argument because there are so many women who support jobless husband and boyfriends for years. Some of them really ungrateful. And this also isn't a rational argument because the first date is about him demonstrating provision. You need to screen for the shit you care about with your own methods, not try to rewrite women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:59 PM
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They are inferior. Lol. If misogynists didn't have this fiction to tell, they would have nothing at all and I understand how that's the truth of male rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:50 PM
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That's great for you. I hope it satisfies whatever it was meant to. None of this changes until men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:35 PM
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No one cares considering this nebulous internet meme men keep claiming exists doesn't kill any men while men keep killing women. Your tacit approval doesn't move the needle enough to accept your disingenuous take.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:07 PM
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This suggests it needs defending when in reality, you just don't like the reality of the answer you got. The answer persists for good reason. You'll have to accept it the same way women are told to accept male nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:03 PM
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The right and Steve Bannon would like to have a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:00 PM
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You assigned women a job they never agreed to take. Men generate the hateful takes, men decline to modulate them, and then you indict women for not managing the feelings men won't manage themselves. That's not feminism failing decorum. That's you outsourcing your own side's cleanup to the people it's aimed at and calling the refusal a character flaw. Is it any wonder more women are opting out of caring how men feel about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:45 PM

By refusing to date a 50/50 man, a woman would have screened out - in your case - a man who thinks dinner is a covert contract for sex and also thinks he can get that sex 50% off. By refusing you, she has already saved herself from multiple deeply undesireable characteristics. I expect men who ask me out to pay. When I agree to go out, I know I don't owe anyone sex. I'm not an escort and never agreed to that. The covert contracts bad men make are not my problem. Since I don't put myself in dange…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:55 PM

Makes sense, but there's a name for this.. Only to someone who doesn't understand paying for the opportunity to get to know someone and paying for a sexual service. One thing though. Even claiming that this is whoredom won't make the complainer more attractive. We are not in an era where this framing has any influence. The insults are a default at this point which makes refusing to date insulting brokies even more rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:24 PM

If that's how you feel then I think its ok for dudes to manipulate you back. If you think its ok to decieve a dude and manipulate you then he has the right to do that too. I don't care because that's what they were already doing which is why I am smart enough to not trust men and therefore I don't have these kind of problems. It's not as if you cared they were doing this before I responded to your question. You're acting like you are taking support that you never provided, away. I suffered no lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:45 AM
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I'm not hyperconfident, I'm just used to not being protected. I understand shame for sure, I just get why this type of shame seems more powerful than most. But you make a good point here I would say we live in an extremely shaming culture, what with all the constant humiliation rituals on social media, etc... Its more that its completely fractured and thus contradictory along a thousand lines. You constantly have all the tribes flinging shit across the fence but that doesnt matter to you. If you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:58 AM
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I'm not really sure women can grow thick skin like this in straightforward manner as men do. We are talking about two different things You're talking about interpersonal thick skin- can a woman take a fat joke to her face I'm talking about structural shame losing its grip- does "spinster," "hoe," "divorcée" still coerce behavior? Not as much as it used to. Men overused these things and did not modulate fairly based on behavior so now its meaningless. This loss of leverage is being felt. You alre…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:29 AM
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That's more of rationalization so as to regulate the emotion it invokes, how you accomplish said emotional regulation doesn't really matter that much though. I don't agree. I may be irritated some guy is trying to insult me but the name calling is something we are exposed to our entire lives and is unrelated to any actual behavior and so it's just noise. I just know those type of men are not to be taken seriously because it speaks to how they move through the world and I don't need to deal with …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:02 AM
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We don't agree because you consistently do a slight of hand in all your responses and pretend that nuance doesn't exist. As for being long winded, this is a debate sub and there isn't a quota. If your dates are structured like this thread, your troubles make sense and your outcomes are well deserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:05 AM

TLDR: There is no excuse for girls to not be honest with dudes and its unfair on dudes to tell them to just accept it and put up with it. When it comes to my safety, I don't care at all what is fair to men. I don't need an excuse to keep safe in a world where men will blame me for being the victim. When you are not protected, anything goes and whoever that hurts is an acceptable casualty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:55 PM
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You just admitted the entire point. you view the man’s role as the "provider/performer," and your role as the "chooser." You are explicitly stating that if a man doesn't perform the labor of paying and providing, he is useless to you in the "mating dance." I must have misunderstood your entire post because yes, this is exactly how I feel. I don't understand what his purpose is if he isn't protecting/providing. It doesn't even matter that I don't need provision and his ability is more of me makin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:46 PM
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In other words, you have no viable argument to the points being made so you're not going to engage in good faith. That does make sense considering the OP is essentially a huge complaint of not wanting to engage in good faith the dating scene and framing the male role as unfair. At least that's consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:16 PM
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Telling men to "just find the tiny minority of women who split the bill and initiate" is a complete cop-out that ignores the systemic baseline of how courtship works. So what's your plan? Instruct us all to change dating norms so the already low effort men become even more low effort in their quest for sex and relationships? You are complaining because you want reality to bend to your will. In reality, you are in a sexual competition with other men for a woman's interest. Depending on how intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:10 PM
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Well then why arent they paying for their own on dates to get the message across as clear as possible? And if women are doing so good today, why hasnt it been a big shift in paying for first dates or dates in general? Considering what men get out of the relationship if he is successful, this is the least he can do. I find it deeply unattractive when men bitch about this. It isn't masculine which is a requirement for me so I'm pretty intolerant as an internal rule. It doesn't matter how great of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:03 PM
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Interesting. So in both cases things had to happen to women to control behavior. The reality of shame is that it has to translate into action , real shaming happens by others actually bullying you when you're seen as shameful, not just mere saying mean shameful words. Name-calling and degradation of women persists. Is this not the bullying? But as a woman I hear the insults and I don't care because men say it to women whether we behaved well or not. Much of the behaviors that were supposed to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:28 PM
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This isn't a gender based behavior. Yes it is. If humiliated, the girlies flank and help their friend. You said men treat their friends worse when emasculated. I'm asking why because I think a few guys said something similar. It's more of a behavioral custom that is unique to certain cultures and individuals Alright but why exactly? What purpose does it serve to pile on an emasculated man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:17 PM
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Really harsh but I can't deny it from the outside looking in. Competent men are everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:47 PM
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You can get treated worse in friend groups Why do men do this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:46 PM
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It's interesting that no such thing really exists on side of women anymore, that is, unlady-like behavior is instead painted as empowering I have felt in recent years that most insults against women don't land anymore because we are degraded so often it lost its bite. A lot of the insults are empowering now so usually when you see misogynists railing against women online, the words are no longer as effective. I think this change has contributed to some of the frustrations men experience with wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:45 PM
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Such a good question. I appreciate the answers here. I learned something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:41 PM
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I don't like who men are when they are sexually interested. I really like them when they aren't or are disallowed to pursue that sexual interest. I haven't been in a relationship in a long time. I don't hook up or anything. I have the desire but I'm curtailed by men's behavior and my deep distrust for them. Betrayal trauma ruins some people. I am one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:07 PM
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This is true. However when it comes to men specifically, especially where sexual access is concerned, since it is not uniform or even likely that it ends well, I am still partial to the OP's thought exercise just based on the average feedback we are seeing and hearing from men these days especially politically. I can hope for the best but I am risk averse with good reason and don't see the wisdom in generous interpretations when evidence is right there. I don't see compelling evidence that OP is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:24 PM
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No, I don't like who men become because of their sexuality. They can be wonderful people but once they are sexually interested, too much risk for harm gets injected and they behave in ways that just ruin everything. You can never understand the exhaustion of having to navigate this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:47 PM
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Logically speaking, being upset is a prerequisite to the negative action. History has repeatedly shown us male discontent leads to force. Why would it be any different here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:43 PM
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The math just doesn't make sense. Women can't split pregnancy and childbearing. Women still work. Women are still expected to do all feminine coded duties. Now men claim 50/50 financially and often times that's where the 50/50 stops. What is the result? She is doing 100% + 50% and he's doing 50% financially with no value add. And even then, people tried to make it work but I think the porn addiction/ED, endless gaming, and other behaviors that don't promote relationships long term just made this…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:19 PM
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The incentive isn't here. The men abroad play their part. They provide the environment that rewards femininity. Here in the US, between expecting women to subsidize their role as men and putting women down for everything feminine, makeup, basic effort in courtship, it doesn't make sense to perform femininity across the board. The men complaining don't inspire it. They just make demands. The manosphere made the whole thing actively unattractive on top of that and women cannot unsee that. If women…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:12 PM
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This is the best answer here but a lot of men don't value this discussion so we have to hear their accusations in perpetuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:56 PM
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and can tell you that being nice and caring rarely if ever works out in a romantic relationship These days I spend all my niceness on female friends I'm not romantically interested in So its to a woman's detriment to love you? This kind of confirms something I realized recently which was getting men's best depends on having no sexual connection with them whatsoever. They are better people then. That's how I have to keep it So tell me, what's a decent guy to do? Principles and decency are suppose…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:35 PM

No one is belittling young boys but men back then are absolutely grooming them into being hateful today. And the girls are being harmed by those boys and reacting today. And the women across generations are fed up today. You're not going to tell me in the age of Epstein and the openly anti-woman rhetoric that women and girls are unjustified for how they are feeling. If you care about young boys so much, you understand how the manosphere is poison that is hurting them and hurting everyone. You ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:22 PM
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This is why it feels really important that a guy finds us super pretty because all I hear when I read this is the man just wants a fuckable sex doll. Even if that's true and I am proud of my body, it makes me feel bad like he can never be capable of real feelings and is to be avoided forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:48 PM
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It's about how he compares to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:43 PM
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Women talk about how they are so afraid of men, but they try to date the biggest and tallest men who can inflict the most physical damage on them If the biggest and tallest man is on your side, he can dissuade other men and even protect you. How is this not obvious? You don't want the guy the other men don't respect because men don't give af and will come after you even if you have a man if they take him as a joke. They do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:41 PM
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Comments made after men kept rights and opportunity away from women and girls while belittling and sexually violating them? It doesn't matter how many times you try to change history to try to make men the victim. The violent party with the greater physical strength will never play as legitimate. It just reads as manipulative and it hurts upcoming boys to lie because women aren't ever playing along with your version. Everyone can see the stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:15 PM
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Giving legal advantages to women owned businesses is a privilege. A "privilege" created to try and insert some balance due to the absolute and inflexible domination of men choosing men only for economic opportunity and even then, this "privilege" is easily exploited and channeled at the say so of men. If you didn't have an inherent leg up, society wouldn't try to balance the scales for fairness and thanks to how men have chosen to vote we can see such "privilege" removed without regard to merit …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:05 AM
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What is cruel about the comment? It isn't an insult, it's true men take more unnecessary risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:00 AM
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so mothers, grandmothers, aunts, family friends, women in the community are all in a grand conspiracy because misery loves company? The women who can't be lonely, mind you. I don't think that really makes sense. Why wouldn't those women want their own family to have something so beneficial? If men are so great for the lives of women, why would women choose not to prioritize being with them? All these different demographics of women are behaving counter to your assertion, advised by women who wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:58 AM
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, but most available women would rather ruin men's live than improve it and make him happier. What would motivate "most available women" to ruin mens lives? Since you say most, I have to ask is this nature or provocation or what? I would also like to know why would any woman inherently seek to improve a man's life? What is in it for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:10 AM
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Yeah you all like to say that but in reality it's miserable. Aging. The face looking back at you in the mirror gets uglier by the day. You become invisible to men and women. This isn't bliss. It's a nightmare and many women live it while at the same time pretending it's what they want. Women can't be lonely yet these are the threats? Which is it because it can't be both. They would have been much happier settling down with a man who genuinely cares about them. I wonder why so many older women di…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:45 AM
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Women make all of the rules for dating and have 100% the advantages of that superiority. Like I said. Lack of integrity is unacceptable. This isn't an honest exchange of ideas. Things can't get better when certain people aren't capable of honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:33 PM
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No, women don't. Many of us are traumatized by betrayal. For every one who keeps abusing herself by staying, there are women like me so fucked up by that happening I can't trust men in any serious capacity and it limits my ability to engage with them. I cut him off and stayed celibate for years and distrust men so much I prefer hiring a Chad sex worker for dinner and a nice time than let some man who will just lie and create fake futures anywhere in my vicinity. That some men find this funny and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:06 PM
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The content created by and for women for the sole purpose of expressing hatred for men, while less popular than Tate and co., is definitely spreading across many social media platforms. Reactions are to be expected. The oppression isn't ending so why would this content not rise? Both suck, both are hurting everyone. Both should shut the fuck up. This is so fake and stupid. One party is raping, killing, and abusing the other and you're acting like organizing against it is the same thing. Give me …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:09 PM
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It's as much the fault of radfems as any man. Its the fault of the people trying to break free from the imposition and demands from a separate group? No. That will never be true. Sexual terrorists acting like trying to get away from them is equivalent will never be correct. The people who produced the Epstein class, incels, Tate, and other repugnant actors don't have a leg to stand on, idc. Rad fems wouldn't need to exist without men being the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:07 PM
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if those complaints had anything to do with your sexual interest, your comment would make sense but they don't so your being turned off isn't important. Women fighting for their rights never consider if it makes them attractive to you. Why would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:38 PM
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The amount of excuses you are making for this abhorrent rhetoric is extremely suspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:32 PM
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I am not supportive of casual sex but I really hate when you men say things as if we aren't the same species. You don't understand women get horny too? The better question is why so many men are the low quality of human that seperates kindness from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:38 PM
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My favorite part is how men at large love to dictate "morality" especially in female sexual behavior, historically appoint women as the morality police that keep men in line, and now demonize us all while playing victim on PPD. I love all the accusations about what women do as if we ever get to go a day without some man freaking out over too much honesty from women screaming misandry. From the gender that prizes youth and beauty: you penalize female honesty, then play victim when women handle yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:48 AM
0

Yeah. Money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:54 AM
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I've never been into the "bad boy" either. I never know what these men are talking about with as much certainty as they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:42 AM
1

I don't see that hurting any woman since you prioritize your sexual pleasure over what's good for the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:06 PM

I don't think either side should have unchecked power but I have to be honest. It's completely unserious to hear this assertion made by a man. Especially with a post like this. Giving women unchecked power and trust by default is extremely dangerous because women are known to make shit up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:37 PM
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Not men that I am in personal relationships with, no. And by your logic, you only breathe because a woman birthed you so your life, let alone quality of life depends on a woman allowing it. Why don't you men ever consider that part of the math?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:55 PM
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but it is also important to recognize that not all of that harm comes solely from male behavior. Sure. But that wasn't the question. If the man created the harm, how he got there doesn't change the fact that he created harm. This logic sounds good on its face until you recognize just how many men use it to blame women about things from rape to cheating to assault. It requires a level of clairvoyance and experience from women far earlier than is ever expected from men. This is seperate from your …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:01 AM
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I haven't touched another man for over 10 years after I was cheated on. I'm trying to break that celibacy now and I'm so distrustful that I decided to hire someone instead. The harm was considerable because it damaged my ability to see myself trusting someone enough to make him my family. I knew I didn't take it well but I hadn't realized until recently how deeply traumatizing that was. Meds and therapy did not fix this for me beyond helping me accept that it happened and that it's not uncommon.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:56 AM

I doubt you notice the women who don't like it to begin with and that's usual the issue. From your other comment Basically it wasn’t what I was saying but rather my attitude was just plain dismissive as well as playing hot and cold. This would really turn me off and I would disengage. But you have no reason to notice that because I don't make a show of getting away from men like this. I'm sure most women who dislike this don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:24 AM
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Your hostility isn't helping you make coherent arguments. Men who act like they settled with you often treat you badly or with cold indifference in a way they don't treat anyone else. This isn't difficult to observe. Your suicide point is weird as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:48 AM
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I find it hard to agree with you when our quality of lives have improved without men and therefore not dependent on men. I don't hate men and hope maybe one day to meet a great guy but this "empowerment industry" is why I can afford to seek a male sugar baby to give me what the average man won't. Now if I weren't empowered, I would be another broken mess hoping on the goodness of a random man's heart to rescue me and more likely get hurt repeatedly with nothing to show for it over the years. I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:34 PM

No, I don't. Our biological design isn't indiscriminant for good reason. Sperm is cheap, plentiful, and the male takes very low risk. I want you guys to stop demonizing female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:51 PM

If I'm attracted to a man, I love a man's body. Wdym. His face, his scent, his veins, his voice, his muscles, his cock, I wanna be in his skin and I act like it. I am easily triggered and rely on years of conditioning to keep it to myself. It is very much a physical attraction. You want to strip very important elements from our sexual attraction to match how men function but we are not men. For example, behavior, voice, these things have terminated attraction for me before. but when women descri…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:48 PM

God yes, the voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:41 PM

Was this supposed to make me want to engage and have respectful dialogue in good faith? Try not to drown in your drool while you rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:23 AM

Why would this piss women off?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:23 PM

Lol but I love books
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:04 PM

Celibate women aren't that rare. I am one and looking to change that with someone competent. A good number of my friends are. The way, the you speak about women is disgusting and I'm not sure why anyone disgusting should get anyone who isn't "clapped out".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:02 PM
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Who asked you? I like what I like. The only thing childish here is those of you who can't sufficiently express masculine signaling and so you demonize female sexuality. I don't want to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:55 PM
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How are both dumb considering one side takes on all the risk of pregnancy and harm? You know, what often happens after sex? It makes sense to wait until the other side is invested. I hate false equivalencies so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:53 PM
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I'm glad you found what works for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:07 PM

This just makes you unsafe for girls if your opinion was paired with any voting power because what would your personal view of being with grown men as a teenager have to do with all the documented and proven trauma other girls experienced when they were with grown men before they were psychologically ready? This comment gave me chills. It's giving Ghislaine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:11 AM

Wtf..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:03 AM
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In theory, yes, the thought and effort put into this would read really well to me. I love to feel cared for and looked after.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:42 AM
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Are you seriously taking the individual response of one random woman on Reddit to make a hot take on how women at large feel? That is deeply unintelligent. Don't do that. It doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:53 AM
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What about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:44 AM
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Yeah that's really attractive to me, I can't lie. He comes across competent and capable and can keep you safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:16 PM
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Probably because it's so easy for women to get sex and relationships, so they appreciate it much less than men do. You were so close.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:13 PM
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Because men like for you to make the gesture or else they think you're entitled and ungrateful. I always have money to pay for my dinner I just don't want to date a man who won't take care of it and I never will tell a man what he has to do for me to be interested. I always leave a generous tip though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:08 PM
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I don't agree with any of this but I won't argue with your experiences either. I'm sorry you feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:06 PM
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If I understand this right, if the man offers to pay, then you offer to split and he accepts the split, then you wouldn't want to see him again? Yes. That is correct. Yes, you need to do what's right for you. I'm after a specific dynamic that I find most attractive. Do what you're comfortable with. Everyone doesn't have to be a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:00 PM
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We do see men as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:53 PM
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Yeah I was really hoping there was a way around that. But I have to pay for the experience because regular guys are usually selfish and unreliable. I don't want any of the risks involved with that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:51 PM
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I learned that if you are looking for a daddy type of man to either be your sugar baby or your boyfriend, you can get absolutely obliterated because apparently seeking safety from men is dangerous behavior. I also learned the gays have amazing options.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:26 PM
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For me, yes. I would pay without issue but my attraction would dissipate and I wouldn't see him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:50 PM
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I care deeply about feeling protected and provided for. I'm a generous person and I don't hurt for money so it's not about that. I find the masculine dynamic irresistible and desirable and my reciprocity shows it tenfold. That is why if a man asks me to split the check, no matter how well the date went, he is going into the platonic friend column with no way back. Men don't feel apologetic for their attraction to femininity and I don't feel apologetic for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:49 PM
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Yes, I am comparing outcomes. I'm sorry that I think dead bodies outweighs mean texts but I had to say that because you guys keep saying this like we should care while we simultaneously watch you be unfeeling about rape and murder. It's like you want me to care about a papercut with the same urgency as gunshot wounds but you make that demand not even showing you care about the gunshot wounds. I'm sorry, no, this isn't "both are bad" for me. I have to prioritize because you're not going to help. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:28 PM
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I'm not. I haven't asked for sympathy at all. I wouldn't ask that because I wouldn't expect it. Men are pretty clear on how they feel. What women get isn't "far harsher" unless you live in Afghanistan, stop coping lmao. You should maybe consider it isn't wise to speak so confidently about things you don't know about. Women don't fall into your very narrow, sex motivated definition which is why you are incorrect on all counts. I understand that's not important to you but that's typically true wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:22 PM
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None of this impresses me, I'm really sorry. What women get is far worse, far harsher, with actual victims every day. I know it makes me a bad person but I don't feel any sympathy for this specific point. But of course I care if my male friends believe this though so far, none of them seem to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:03 PM
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I understand male issues just fine. They just aren't more important than mine. Men don't even pretend to care what happens to us. How could we ever put them first? It doesn't make sense. However, men have to take a risk that women don't. And women have to deal with risks men don't. So we have to decide which to prioritize. I can't prioritize men's much smaller risk especially when they clearly don't care what happens to me. That's not my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:58 PM
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It's not propoganda because saying that makes it sound like these are not genuine reactions. The reactions are real. Women really feel this way. I think it makes you uncomfortable to become aware of it now that the medium shows you the other side of the coin but only someone kind of stupid would believe women hear all the stuff the manopshere says and feels nothing. That's not propaganda. You're coping, love, and I'm not trying to patronize you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:01 PM
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Nowhere in the world, if a man and a woman are to be shamed, do they choose the man. I see.. you are very dependent on misogyny so it feels threatening when you see the world cares less and less about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:57 PM
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They don't need money to fall in love. No one needs money to fall in love. Because they can't afford the expensive women in their own countries, they look for cheap women like you. By trying to be degrading, you show a telling sensitivity. The insults don't land the way you think they do. Why try to insult anyway. Why are you so protective of passport boys as if they are being noble. What is your relation to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:57 PM
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That's not propaganda though. That's how lots of women actually feel based on how men are acting lately. This will never get fixed if you guys can't understand feedback. How are men going to flood the internet with hate speech against women and all this content degrading women, trying to get sex then play victim when the content is challenged? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:44 PM
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It's kind of easier to take men who take pride in being manly. They act in a way that acknowledges and protects femininity. These are men who are not arguing with you about submission and 50/50 or too scared to approach you. It's not like I disrespect anybody but I naturally behave a certain way around genuine masculine presence. It's easy and even a pleasure a lot of the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:41 PM

I've never had a problem with this. I love to see men glow up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:32 AM

Probably not since women are so ungrateful So it's not just straight men huh. Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:57 PM
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Your line of thinking is deeply unattractive. I am sad I read this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:42 PM
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I'm not defending this guy's language. But women don't give a damn about men regardless of how the point is made. It's up to women to incentivize men to speak respectfully. There really is no negotiating with conditional humanity. Even when we want to hear you out, that was never going to start after the dehumanization. Men always expect individualized consideration yet continue to lob (or excuse, like you just did) this abusive language against us all then get upset with how women adapt and see…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:15 PM

That is exactly what I have in mind too as far as Plan A is concerned. Maybe you will get lucky finding a casual hookup scenario. Try to vet really well and avoid a "me, me, me" type of guy. There is bound to be someone decent in the mix, I just don't have it in me to work through these jaded or selfish ones to find him. If you are great with boundaries and patience I'm sure it can work out. I'm wishing you good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:20 AM

I get what you mean. I guess I don't feel that way because I'm never going to order a guy to just do me 😅 if the vibe's not there, I won't want to move forward anyway. To be fair, there is dining out or whatever before hand. If it works that will be my go-to guy. I can't get past how so many women get treated by "fwb" situations. This is a true "pick your poison" situation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:44 AM

This isn't just a feeling but since you've decided you don't need me in this exchange, feel free to continue making up points to argue with. Farbeit for me to interrupt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:51 AM
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Good point. I assume there would be some of them working on their English because of the tourist attraction nature of it. If not, just a nice dinner is fine and my search continues in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:47 AM

Men who put creative effort in up front will always be superior in my book. It doesn't have to be expensive to be delightful. Men who love to pretend their low effort is pragmatism never get better and you end up feeling like the neglected girlfriend who never has a reason to be excited for anything. They are the ones who don't believe in Valentine's Day, birthdays, anniversaries, real flowers, date nights, or anything. It's not for me. Bring on the chalant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:42 AM
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That's pretty silly to me but you are allowed whatever standards you set for yourself. Would I fly out for a date? Probably, yes. Would I have sex on the date? If I did it wouldn't be because he flew me out. It would be because I thought we would be together since I would probably only fly out if I thought this had real romantic potential even long distance. But I am not helpful here because I am looking for a male sugar baby and have half the mind to go to Japan like the girlies are recommendin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:38 AM
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Cute kid
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:34 AM

More women are making money and avoiding hookups and dating because men, generally speaking, are pretty selfish and don't make the risk worth it. Yes, I do think of there was a service offering a full experience centering her it would be lucrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:34 AM

These are really good points. I wonder why these men do so well with sex work in Japan as opposed to America then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:45 PM
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So all the men complaining that the top 10% of men are sleeping with all the women are lying because attractive men are too rare, according to you? Being Chad is not enough. You are denying dynamics to justify your cope narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:45 PM
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That's stupid. There is no reason to pay for what is freely available already so the variable that is worth the money is what is being paid for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:28 PM
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How is paying someone for this experience hypergamy when you can just get dick for free online?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:08 PM

That's an interesting point. How come that isn't true for women? Men just have far more opportunities if they are good at making others like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:05 PM

I don't feel safe around dangerous men and have never found that attractive. Now you have me concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:40 PM
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Instead of just owning it and saying, "I want a man who makes more money than me and has higher status, and taller" it gets wrapped up in this untouchable, moralistic language of "self-love." This doesn't explain the whole of what women are looking for. I can't even find a male sugar baby to hire for this. It's not enough to look good and have status, he has to treat you really well and make you feel good. He has to be willing to do what 50/50 guys with the rude podcasts won't. Women are not men…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:38 PM

This is about a Boyfriend Experience, not just sex. If it was just sex anyone can go on dating apps for a substandard experience. That's the business opportunity, the guarantee she is treated well, pleasured, and given aftercare. It's the same reason why so many women including me don't have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:35 PM

But it looks like every sordid kink alive has people willing to service them yet a straight woman just wants to be wine, dined, and centered and it's unavailable? Wtf America? 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:34 PM

Aren't there many men already serving the gay community? They could expand their services and make a killing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:31 PM

I don't believe that. And why would he need to be low inhibition? Isn't that a dangerous guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:31 PM

How come American men aren't offering fan service Boyfriend Experience style offerings to women like the men in Japan are? Do you know how profitable such a service would be these days? Where are the entrepreneurs?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:23 PM

They don't. Hot men aren't a catch just because they are hot. To be a catch multiple things need to align. Some men are hot and perfect just for sex because something about them makes it impossible to catch feelings for them so emotionally it's pretty safe. I've met guys who would complain about girls willing to hook up with them but never take them seriously for more and they are hurt about it. Girls know which guys can't be held on to and just see them as hook ups. Doesn't everyone know this? …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:17 PM

No, you don't want to look like a slut to a catch. If men weren't so loud about their disdain for sluts, no one would have to perform so they wouldn't miss an opportunity. No one really thinks about what unattractive men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:06 PM

But isn't this already what some men do? The dutiful modest wife who has lots of babies is kept seperate from all the hot younger sugar babies and escorts he uses? I'm exploring that world looking for my own and most of the men there are doing exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:04 PM

Girls just wanna have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:43 PM

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:40 PM

I think you're right although I think what's happening in the dating pool is just as bad if not worse. Everyone seems so burnt out. Nothing wrong with wanting a little gentle care. I'm hoping it gives me the energy to start dating again eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:36 PM

What I have seen from men in the aggregate has now outweighed my risk tolerance and hope for meeting such a person. That carrot is no longer enough. At least this way I am guaranteed to have certain needs met for once. That's a lot more than this useless Good Girl package has ever given me. I would think most men would be supportive of this because there is no gold digging, no beta buxxing, no crimes imposing on anyone. Its a win win
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:32 PM

Even if I wanted to agree here, I can't think of a worse idea than a sensitive woman starting dating again extremely touch starved. Can you? These men would dog walk me. I can't do it. I think after certain experiences not every body comes back the same as they were. I'm not willing to take such risks right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:27 PM

If someone I hire wants to put that level of effort in what he would call simp behavior, he is doing his job. He is selling me the dream I purchased and understand isn't real. That doesn't hurt me. Trusting some future faker who turns out to degrade me does because I bet and invest heavily in that person. There is a difference. That can't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:22 PM

Someone in this thread mentioned it. I don't hate the idea but I also really hoping to find someone local for an ongoing thing. So unfair we don't have that here. I would happily partake. I hope some entrepreneurial person eventually does something about this. I see a few adult virgin women searching for the same reason in my searches
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:13 PM

I feel substantially more threatened by the risk of falling for a cheater or trying to make it work with infinite low effort men for the sake of finding someone. I stayed celibate for a very long time but I'm generally fairly engaging with people. If it feels like a farce it won't work. I'll go with whoever's personality meshes with mine and stick with him. That's good enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:53 PM

I won't get attached. No idea how I would know what his trauma with women is but whatever the case, I can't have that around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:47 PM

If I found out I would replace him and he would lose a pretty sweet deal. I would feel ok because I wouldn't have invested in him like I would have a real boyfriend. It's different when you're betting on someone and adjusting plans to include and benefit them just to find out they are a hater. No risk of that here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:31 PM

One of the reason I want to pay for companionship instead of trying to date is not wanting to emotionally invest into any undercover woman haters. Those will turn on you. Some of the stuff men say online really gets into my head and has since I was a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:19 PM
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I hate how you people speak about women. It is so dehumanizing. Why should women feel for your concerns when you speak so nastily about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:15 PM

I would like a simp. Where can I find one?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:39 PM

You act like you're not competing with tons of men. Even if they don't mean to do it, it's an out of sight, out of mind thing. It's a "why invest time getting nothing with you when this guy here is making an effort to show he likes me". Why be indignant about it? Thats the medium you're using
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:37 PM

Yeah no kidding. Almost every guy responding to me on here is fixated on the hookup and not the emotional aspect which is what I'm willing to pay top dollar for. Isn't that funny I do want to find someone local but I have half the mind to switch my vacation later this year to Japan 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:17 AM

That's a smart idea in theory but that is just a perfect setup or invitation for low effort pump and dumps. I wanna get dressed to the nines, go out and dine, flirt my ass off, have company that appreciates it and all that jazz. What you run into is a bunch of low effort men you don't even know want to cut everything and just go straight to your home, gratify themselves, and leave abruptly or some variation of this. Absolutely not, my friend. Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:00 AM

Interesting idea but that's just for sex and if I just wanted sex, I'd download an app. Whenever I think of sex in isolation I'm turned off. I want a whole experience, not just that..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:50 AM

Date nights and aftercare. The flirty romantic attention without any of the issues plaguing the current dating scene. I want him reliable, warm, and masculine. That’s all really. I saw one too many 50/50 dates arguments and all the complaints about the bad sex. I can't do it girl, I just can't do it. I want to break years of celibacy and not be disappointed or mistreated by a selfish partner. So I need a professional 😩 Curious if a western straight guy could even pull that off This is what I'm t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:48 AM

Haha what a flex. I'm glad you had a great night!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:16 AM

Oh. I'm not looking for a sugar daddy. I'm looking to find a male sugar baby. We wouldn't cross paths. My question is more about what it might feel like to return to regular dating after being treated so well by a professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:12 AM

See, you can't guarantee an attentive person or a good experience going on dating apps. A selfish pump and dump would be a bad experience for me. Haggling underwhelming 50/50 guys and whatever else is out there would decimate a search for a relationship. Date nights and aftercare and all that matters to me. Seems like a professional is the best answer here but then how do you go back to low effort regular dating after that Men may have been onto something all along
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:09 AM

I'm a bit unclear as to how this applies to my question. What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:33 AM

You're concerned about the least important most available part. I want to pay for the parts that matter to me that I can't reliably expect from the average guy on dating apps. Can you explain the alpha widow part more please
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:31 AM

? Lol I'm here for advice! What you got 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:29 AM

Do you think having a successful situation with a male sugar baby ruins the chance of a satisfying relationship with a normal guy later?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:31 AM
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😂!! I'm trying to pick up the lingo because apparently you get filtered everywhere for being too direct!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:26 PM
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I don't know where the strippers are either though, lol. I'm in a major city so I assume this has to exist somewhere. I can't do a brothel situation. I just want an attentive date night boyfriend experience sort of situation. I would be in distress at a brothel 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:47 PM
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I didn't know that. Interesting. I'm not sure how the stripper dynamic would work because its not something that draws me in but its not a terrible idea. Transferable skills and all right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:38 PM
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I just tried posting my questions on their sub but the post was filtered. Same thing on some sugar sub I found. I feel like a fish out of water 😅 They have a site with profiles there and I think you’ll find a couple of men’s profiles in there I’m sure but not many I guess I can take a peek. This sounds like its going to be tricky lol No idea how to vet properly. That is the kind of advice I am trying to ask about
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:36 PM
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It's hard finding information about male sw for straight women. Like how to find them and how to ensure a good experience. Why is that? Everything is a joke about how easily women can just get on dating apps but if you don't want to be treated horribly and guarantee a positive experience, paying seems it should be a perfect solution, right? Anyone have any idea where these discussions are held?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:02 PM
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I'm glad you replied, thank you. Here especially but you're probably right. My account is new so I'm basically invisible for a while. I don't even know how you saw this comment but I guess that means progress!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:55 AM
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Are you saying you would have given her a second date if she didn't fly out on some date? Why talk about her in such a nasty way?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:42 PM
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How come my comments aren't being seen when I post them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:10 PM
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Relationship isn't just a box to check. Appearance often affects how well you get treated which is in part why I avoided trying to date for so long. Just saying you're in a relationship isn't sufficient enough to meet the actual objective of companionship. The quality matters so your links don't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:58 PM
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Shook me to the core..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:19 PM
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That's actually hilarious 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:17 PM

I'm sure you're right but it is very difficult to see certain messaging and video proof before your eyes day in, day out yet decide to believe that the opposite is true. It is cognitively very difficult, at least for me. I'm a woman whose been very negatively influenced by what men say online over the years and it resulted in me heavily avoiding them. I'm trying to get past that now but it's just very difficult and scary to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:08 PM

You are being overly influenced by men talking shit You are basically saying just ignore what thousands and and thousands of men are saying right before our very eyes. That's not realistic..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:32 AM
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I hope to find someone like this one day. Lucky girl 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:29 AM
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What a weird comment..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:28 AM
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