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| 1 | A attractive woman's abundance mentality^ Perfect example of scarcity mindset folks. Take note. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/17 07:58 PM |
| 1 | A attractive woman's abundance mentalityTry to do you a little better next time haha | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/17 06:10 PM |
| 2 | A attractive woman's abundance mentalityWhat are you even going on about dude? You're probably getting down voted for replying to the wrong post. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/17 02:59 PM |
| 35 | A attractive woman's abundance mentalityThis is exactly the sort of mentality that screams desperation and scarecity. That's the exact point he is making in his post. Don't be THAT guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/17 08:22 PM |
| 49 | A attractive woman's abundance mentalityHi, good read, I just wanted to chime and add a thought. Something I learned a long time ago for maintaining an abundance mentality is the ability to keep your infatuation in check. If all you ever do is put women on pedastals, you develop a real scarce mindset. Keep your infatuation in check kids. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/17 06:41 PM |
| 5 | I spent the last 10+ years imitating my friend's approach to girls, and finally realized that being me was the secret sauceThe whole philosophy behind this realization is that you don't know who you are until you go through the trials and tribulations of learning who you are or who you want to become. Once you become that person, you stop giving a fuck, who cares if SHE doesn't like (insert whatever here) it doesn't matter, because you like it and you own that shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/17 06:34 PM |
| 1 | The Best Advice for Dating You Will Ever HearTLDR; Talk to women like it's normal for you. Best advice ever. Someone get this man an award! | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/17 06:23 PM |
| 1 | I'm really depressed and don't know how to turn it around.Bad luck or lack of effort? Are you going out and making mistakes and constantly learning from them? | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 03:16 PM |
| 1 | How to get back into the scene & over self doubt?My grammatical hero, you shouldn't of! | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 10:02 PM |
| 2 | How to get back into the scene & over self doubt?That's some pretty fucked up shit, I have to wonder how trustworthy your mate is or even his girlfriend. Could he have his eye on the same girl you like? If he was really your friend, he should've had your back when listening to all that stuff from his girlfriend. You phrased it as, "was in a relationship" which led me to believe they are no longer in a relationship, your friend might have seen his breakup coming and made all that shit up to improve his chances with the girl while trying not to … | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Any advice on what to do?If you have not had sex with this girl yet, you should not be wanting a relationship with her, period. Line up a date with her first, then several follow up dates. If the lust does not fade away at that point, consider bringing up relationship status but until then, a relationship should be the last thing on your mind, especially with your age and potential. | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 09:29 PM |
| 2 | How to get back into the scene & over self doubt?Exactly how did you find out that she was bitching to her friends? People will go to great lengths to end friendships, moreso relationships, over things like jealousy. If this is something that completely ruined you, I have to wonder how much confidence you had before this girl? A girl you've never fucked should not have this much control over your emotions. My rule of thumb is this, if a girl and I are connecting pretty well and she doesn't reciprocate interest in some fashion when I ask her ou… | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 09:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you dance?When I dip, you dip, we dip? | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Any advice on what to do?What is it that you want exactly? A date? A FWB? A relationship? A pity fuck? | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 08:51 PM |
| 1 | How you guys plan to go and pickup?Absolutely. Complacency is a bad habit. Like you though, I generally have a much more genuine experience if say, I'm meeting women while I'm out snowboarding vs when I'm out doing something trivial like being at a bar. | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 08:18 PM |
| 2 | How you guys plan to go and pickup?There's going to be differences of opinion here. Yes it will feel weird, as that's part of coming out of your comfort zone. You're goal is to try and internalize the feeling of success. This is important. This might involve several smaller goals but in the big picture, you want to internalize the feeling of success. With that said, yes, just wander around and do what you want. Talk to women you find appealing. Ask them about something you're interested in buying, like a new shirt, or new pair of… | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 07:32 PM |
| 2 | What to text after a decent First Date?Give her a time and place and see whether or not she complies. Try not to phrase it as a question. | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 07:18 PM |
| 2 | How to seduce the co-worker?Have you considered risk vs reward here? Co-workers make for great wings, not so much FWB. | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 07:11 PM |
| 8 | Don't get married. That is all.You're correct. I don't think that was ever refuted? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/17 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Don't get married. That is all.Oh.. the irony. Please, stay on topic my dude. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/17 05:55 PM |
| 1 | How to get girls you work with?How come you don't talk to your friend about it? | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 05:53 PM |
| 10 | Don't get married. That is all.And you're proving my point further. You can raise children and not be married. You don't even have to live together to raise your kids. Regardless if parents "stay together" or not, they can still raise healthy minded kids. P.s. If you're going to gloat about #'s, at least, you know, post the #'s or source for your #'s. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/17 05:35 PM |
| 31 | Don't get married. That is all.He didn't say anything about raising kids in a single parent household. He simply made a point that you don't have to be married to raise kids. Trying to raise kids in an unhealthy marriage can be worse than trying to raise a kid in a single parent household. You can live together with someone, not be married, and still raise kids. I see it on the daily. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/17 04:54 PM |
| 2 | How do I handle girls who say they have boyfriends but then proceed to flirt with me?I had one incident several years ago that completely changed how I view women with boyfriends. Long story short, she had a .357 held to her head one night after returning home from my house. Her boyfriend was in the Air force as an air traffic controller. One of the most stressful jobs in the country. Needless to say, I skate more carefully and screen a little longer if I find out they have a boyfriend. Ty for bringing this up. | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl on tinder (a hookup app) say "no hookups" in her bio?Just a way to weed out fuck boys. Is it effective? Probably not. Ignore it. Most girls will fuck you on the first date if you're a fun dude. See how many you can get talking sexually before getting their #. It's a fun way to see how much BS that line actually is. | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 03:45 PM |
| 1 | The 100% best way to approach anyoneCare to elaborate? There's not much wrong with pretending like you know someone in your daygame. Indirect is more effective during the day in regards to cold approaches. | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 03:33 PM |
| 3 | What do college girls WANT?!Manipulate definition: to manage or utilize skillfully. The whole concept of attraction is based on manipulation. What do you think it means when a girl wears a short ass skirt with some cleavage showing? Have you ever been to Hooters? Women just look for an excuse to justify their poor decisions by saying they got manipulated. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 07:04 PM |
| 1 | What makes a girl wanting to talk to you after talking for the first time?It's a general question so to simplify an answer, think of interactions like a roller coaster. You go through all kinds of emotions from start to finish. At the end, you're left wanting to ride it over and over. The idea is to leave them wanting more. Cut off the interaction on a high note if possible. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Need Tinder help"My dog met her boyfriend on Tinder so I thought I would give it a shot. Future soccer moms only!" | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Is it a good idea to say to a girl outright "I want to kiss you"What matters is how attracted to you they are. Innuendo is more of a way to BUILD attraction. Neither is less effective than the other if you're calibrated properly. If you're using innuendo throughout the evening, there won't be anything wrong with saying you want to kiss her. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Is it a good idea to say to a girl outright "I want to kiss you"It's more of a, "damn you're sexy, we're having a great time, I want to kiss you" kind of thing, not any kind of question or valve release. A simple statement. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Is it a good idea to say to a girl outright "I want to kiss you"What if I told you.. telling a woman that you want to kiss her is flirting. You don't have to be beat around the bush so to speak. There's the beauty of language, it's not exactly what you say, it's how you convey it. By the end of the date, way better to just flat out say instead of playing games and worrying about whether or not you're going to get rejected. It's a kiss, not a commitment. Don't overthink it, just do it, if it's something you want to do and you display confidence when saying it… | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 11:22 AM |
| 6 | My brother called me an autist cringe lord for trying to get into seductionWomen want to be seduced. Not trying to seduce them is evil and wrong. Twist your spat into a pickup line. | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 10:08 PM |
| 45 | Is it a good idea to say to a girl outright "I want to kiss you"If you WANT to kiss her, then it's a great idea to outright TELL her you want to kiss her. Women want to be kissed, especially if they are having a good time. You don't necessarily have to do it on the spot but letting it be known and throwing it out there is not only good to test how much she's attracted to you but it allows you to escalate the sexual tension. Another way to look at it is what some old schoolers might recognize as a compliance test. Telling her, "I want to kiss you" and her all… | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 06:51 PM |
| 1 | What are some fun first date games that you can play with a girl that allow for an excuse to escalate/kino?Holding hands is a great way to escalate. Pretend you want to play a game and hold your hand out, implying that she should hold your hand. Then, change the conversation as you walk around/into whatever venue. Sooner or later she's going to ask you what the game is and your reply is, there is no game, I just wanted to hold your hand. Simple & effective. Very effective. | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 02:42 PM |
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