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| 65 | Can we talk about how hard it is not to internalize the message that it’s a woman’s responsibility to “keep her man interested”?Yeah, that's code for "I'm looking for a girl who will behave like a silicone sex doll, fulfill all my porno fantasies, and not bore me with her personality, humanity, and need for human connection." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 11:26 PM |
| 26 | Can we talk about how hard it is not to internalize the message that it’s a woman’s responsibility to “keep her man interested”?You're young - trust me, once you realize that it's his job to keep YOU interested (and hopefully you've now realized this) - it's super easy to change your mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 11:24 PM |
| 39 | The “empowerment” propaganda has to stop.Such a great comment - my god, being a minority in so many arguments on this topic I feel like I'm in the freaking promised land reading these comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 05:51 PM |
| 53 | The “empowerment” propaganda has to stop.I'm so fucking glad women are starting to push back on this. In grad school I was fed this "pro sex" bullshit 24/7 and was definitely in the minority in speaking back - despite the FACTS that back up every thing you're saying here. I'm grateful for this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 05:48 PM |
| 20 | The “empowerment” propaganda has to stop.It's an absolutely degrading multi-billion dollar industry that feeds on human vulnerability, pain, and in so many cases - literal enslavement. It's a social evil, it's a simple as that. And anyone who participates on the level of consumption is complicit with the crimes, in my opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 05:46 PM |
| 9 | The “empowerment” propaganda has to stop.It's an absolutely degrading multi-billion dollar industry that feeds on human vulnerability, pain, and in so many cases - literal enslavement. If you're a feminist or a human being who claims to have any social conscience whatsoever you can't support this horror show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 05:43 PM |
| 32 | The "Happily Ever After" marriage fairytale sold to women is a lie. The truth is most marriages are miserable FOR WOMEN because most men are NV/LV. Society gaslights and (in some parts of the world) even forces women into settling.Yup, as my grandma said - marriage hasn't changed, women just do more work now. That was the observation of a 96 year old woman who raised ten kids on a farm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 05:53 PM |
| 13 | The "Happily Ever After" marriage fairytale sold to women is a lie. The truth is most marriages are miserable FOR WOMEN because most men are NV/LV. Society gaslights and (in some parts of the world) even forces women into settling.Live for me, and other people - but never include themselves in that equation, which is absolut bull$hit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 05:52 PM |
| 22 | The "Happily Ever After" marriage fairytale sold to women is a lie. The truth is most marriages are miserable FOR WOMEN because most men are NV/LV. Society gaslights and (in some parts of the world) even forces women into settling.Joint finances is a such a mistake. I was always encouraged to keep bank accounts separate, and so, so glad I headed that advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 05:51 PM |
| 26 | The "Happily Ever After" marriage fairytale sold to women is a lie. The truth is most marriages are miserable FOR WOMEN because most men are NV/LV. Society gaslights and (in some parts of the world) even forces women into settling.Men just aren't interesting, their brains are totally linear. They have their function and place, but I can't honestly say they're very good company - and when I think about it, I"m including all men I know. This hit me when I was listening to some podcasts over the holiday hoping for inspiration for my next career move - all these guys just peeing up each other's legs - and having nothing interesting to say - maybe their brains just don't function on a deeper level. Anyway, I find it really rew… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 05:50 PM |
| 21 | The "Happily Ever After" marriage fairytale sold to women is a lie. The truth is most marriages are miserable FOR WOMEN because most men are NV/LV. Society gaslights and (in some parts of the world) even forces women into settling.I seriously have never seen it either - and I'll you, I've looked hard for an inspiring example. I thought one of profs was so happy and had it together in her marriage, but found out there the grapevine that her husband is a cheating dog. I feel so bad for her, but the shinier the exterior, you can bet there's something else going on behind closed doors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 05:43 PM |
| 27 | The "Happily Ever After" marriage fairytale sold to women is a lie. The truth is most marriages are miserable FOR WOMEN because most men are NV/LV. Society gaslights and (in some parts of the world) even forces women into settling.Interesting contrast over here. I grew up in a culture where the men handle everything - extremely patriarchal - they provide for everything, which may sound great - but women are essentially imprisoned and can't make any decisions while being weirdly catered to. My brother for instance would be sent out to chores for me - once my father sent him out of town to do yard work for my sister! But are you allowed any POWER??? When I left the fold, I was essentially ex-communicated (with the exception… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 05:34 PM |
| 13 | It took him 41 years to finally make her a priorityOh, he's got sleezy self-regarding cheater stamped all over him - just gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 09:43 AM |
| 11 | Ignore the “Happy New Years!” texts tonight from low value peopleExcellent reminder - but it's not just going to be today. They'll be crawling out of the woodwork for the next 2 weeks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 09:28 AM |
| 71 | Dating During This Omicron PhaseAbsolutely a legit reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 09:15 AM |
| 68 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerAnd yet they absolutely feel entitled to a *hot* girlfriend - the cognitive dissonance is staggering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 09:09 AM |
| 22 | Early warning signs to spot "avoidants" and... avoid them?I guess I look at it like this: you have every social privilege at your feet. And if you're still too fucking hobbled to take advantage of it and feel too scared and timid to CONNECT - just go away. That's what relationships are for, ffs. It's just one more manifestation of entitlement and privilege - and I'm not nursemading a grown man's insecurity. We have to challenge ourselves ALL THE TIME - it's how you build courage and confidence. But these misfits have been far too enabled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 08:13 PM |
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