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Ok you guys were right. I kick her out of my band and the rest of my life.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 12:15 AM
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I frankly don't take advice from others about relationships. It is kinda of odd to think that one would try to take advice from someone who is foreign and outside of the relationship. My relationship with her is nothing I share with my brother so I would not give a fuck what he says just like I wouldn't listen to a stranger on the internet. What purpose does it severe trying to convince me of anything? Why do you care so much that I am not like you?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 01:19 AM
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No she is training for her Shamanism cert with her aunt. I am not concerned about my spirituality at all, it gives me profound peace and joy. I'm glad you had fun trying shake me up. You know nothing of life but how to treat other like shit. I hope you writing this to me makes you feel better because it severed no point. You can't even write the word shit without censoring yourself. I find that odd.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 01:13 AM
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I am firm in myself and don't really care for your opinions. We are not together nor will we be till the time is right. The way you think of others and how quick you are to judge will not help you in life.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 08:57 PM
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My gf/ex has a high number and I have a low one. Basically just her. I do not know her exact number but recently she has been willing to come forth and be honest about certain events and time periods. She sat me down and wanted to come clean and tell me certain things about the relationship where she has not been honest. I told her that I appreciated it and was not mad and it made us closer as a couple. Recently I took on too much stress and had a break down and used this as ammo to hurt her nee…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 06:42 PM
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Might I make a suggestion that you may not find on this thread or subreddit at all because most here try to look at women as a completely different species. Write down a list of of all the traits and characteristics of your ideal woman. All of them as many as you can think of. Fit, sexy, smart, this hobby, that hobby, this moral, that moral all of that which you think is the utmost important for a woman to have that you would love to date, fuck and just have fun with. Then look at all those trai…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 06:21 PM
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Laugh it off, cease hanging out with them
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 01:55 AM
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Love it. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 08:08 PM
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Great post. I think this stuff is crucial to keeping and utilizing the alpha frame of mind. I just have began to get down TRP and man it is a tough pill to swallow. While it was easy for me to agree with everything I saw and began learning here, I found it takes a lot more skill to actually re-program yourself out of all the beta "norms" and break out of the cycle. Maintaining your frame and then recognizing and dealing with shit test are probably two of the most important aspects i'd say to mak…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 06:04 PM
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Being "right" and getting our way won't make us happy in the end if we've leveled our rock. Similar for guys, sometimes you really have to say to yourself is this worth fighting/being right over.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/14 05:26 PM
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Guy here, my last relationship ended this way. It started as me as the rock and I was very alpha and clear cut, gave her lots of solid advice and no bs but I was always very careful to put it in terms that she could understand. As the relationship progressed she thought she could do the same but she couldn't really help in the resolve in my problems and subconsciously put me back into the beta social programing, thinking that this is what she wanted. She was happy but the I think her sexual desi…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/14 03:09 AM
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I see. This makes a lot of sense, gonna have to practice.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 11:39 PM
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I understand now. A little to late but hell I learned a lot.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 02:54 AM
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Hey it's not bad to keep your options open. We just need to not put all of our eggs in one basket.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 04:31 AM
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Yeah I put myself out of focus. I'm working on myself right now because she is still interested in me but is kinda of put a little bit. She is liking a lot of my fb posts and status' but I'm having a hard time trying to communicate with her. I got put in the wrong mindset where I'm to emotional and girls like it when you can connect to their emotions but not if you are expressing more emotions or bad emotions in a way she can't understand. It's time to be a man and take my problems for my own bu…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 02:39 AM
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Yeah I know right? But it is nice we are talking again after a break. I'm just not sure how to put the cards in my favor.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 02:48 PM
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Like seriously I had her eating out of the palm of my hand she loved everything about me until I went into to beta mode once from not loving myself and done she didn't want to talk to me again. Maybe later down the road I'll get a chance with her again but for now lesson learned. Time to be alpha as fuck and keep up with the self improvement.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 05:42 PM
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One thing I did was date a woman too far away and I did too much for her while receiving too little. I ended up kinda of melting down from a lack of not taking good care of myself and tried to ask for her attention instead of just taking it or putting the situation in my favor. Lack of sleep, excess stress and getting to caught up in her made me act like a beta and she lost all interest in me. It's a shame but there is a huge double standard on this where men must always provide themselves with …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 05:27 PM
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I guess what happened was I need to ask for more space but I was overtired and I think I broke up with her. Not what I meant to do and i think I broke her heart because she won't talk to me and left for a different state unexpectedly. I just haven't been so close with someone and then lose it all in a beautifully tragic turn of events. I'm a little pissed because she dated a bunch of guys who were way worse than me and gave all of them 2nd chances. And I ended up helping move through the break u…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 11:58 AM
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Truth.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 10:17 PM
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Any tips on ways to maintain frame? I lost it one night, was worn thin chasing this girl around and ruin what would have been a beautiful night and well the relationship. But I'm starting to think she wasn't quite a good match for me.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 09:49 PM
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That is me now. Can ask get some advice? I just want to be friends with her, I still care about her a lot. It really pains me to see all the damage I can't clean up because she is ignoring me. I don't think she is going to talk to me for a while.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 09:44 PM
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Word. Learning about shit tests and this kind of mindset really helped me last night. Good to know that I should just maintain that. I feel like this helped me transition from a beta to an alpha. I had all the alpha traits building up but I still had some beta mind tricks to get out of my head and I feel like a real man right now. I do feel as though she is a "special snowflake" (not that i would put it in those words) but in a way that is how I view myself as well. And just because I love her d…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 09:01 PM
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Thanks man, I think my band is a little different and I certainly just changed up it's dynamics a bit. I don't think my band would ever kick me out, I probably sooner leave for us being sell outs than anything else. But we not and they are really coming together and forming around the ideas I'd hope for. It is really awesome, feels like a family. So if you don't mind me asking for a bit of advice how should I continue? We ended up spending several more hours together than I thought we would and …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:28 PM
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Truth, didn't realize it until last night. Then picked up on how much I could get her to change what she was doing by feeding some of my opinions/actions and I think the most important part was keeping it cool, remembering that she unsure of what she wants.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 05:33 PM
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Amen, less than 24 hours of learning about this sub I got the girl I was chasing after. Normally I'd psych myself out and make some excuse but after reading a few things here and trying my own take on it and just a little bit of obvious hints from her gay friends. I did it :), I made myself happy by giving her what she really wanted. Win-win. I'm going to have to keep coming back here for more tips.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 05:30 PM
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Well 1st of all, I formed the band and invited her in, 2nd I stop fretting about it and ended up having quite the experience ;)
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 05:25 PM
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I think that 1st guy is right, I wouldn't really say it is 90% to 10%. But that and some other tactics already got me the girl. Just wow, I'm so happy right.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 05:22 PM
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This is the best sub ever.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 11:14 PM
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Thanks your right, I should stop fretting over how she'll react and just get it over with. I like her a lot we have been friends for a while and I felt like I had a shot to change that but now I feel like I kind of blew it. She singer of my band and I've been thinking it over a lot because I don't want to fuck up the band. I need to make a good move so I can just know.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 11:06 PM
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Fuck, after reading that I feel like a sap. No wonder I always seem to warm them up for someone else to come in. How can I change this. I suck at business and am the hardest worker with the lowest paycheck at my work and I don't mind to serve others but shit I'm lonely man. I always seem to hit them in the right spots but then it feels like they become uninterested. Am I missing a clue or a cue that I should have acted on? I am a great learner just found this sub but I always have trouble becaus…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 09:30 PM
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