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That may be why, but it's discrimination none the less. On several accounts, possibly. Sexual, privacy, and possible on the basis of disability as well.
/r/MensRights23/05/12 06:07 PM
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This is over generalization, and easily correctable. Using the word "many" or "some" for instance. Labeling an entire group, especially an entire group that is not a group one necessarily chooses to be in, is unwise. There are many reasons why a woman wouldn't take everything personally. They may have a social disability that impairs their understanding of what you intend and therefore ere on the side of caution and not take offense to anything not an obvious blatant attack, or they may have mor…
/r/MensRights22/05/12 01:05 AM
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I'm autistic so some of it is texture, trying to swallow some things is just too painful and results in me throwing up. The rest of it seems to be primarily abnormal body chemistry, although I've been looking more into the possibility that gut bacteria could be involved as well. I have to admit I've been somewhat reluctant to look into that. I was trying to look into it before, and was looking into dietary changes that might be forgiving of my limits on texture, and didn't like a lot of the comm…
/r/MensRights20/05/12 12:24 AM
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I can't drink anything non carbonated, especially milk, juice, and non-carbonated water. I cannot eat any cooked vegetable except in egg rolls, or many meats and ways of preparing meat are out as well, including all pork except bacon and occasional ham, all chicken, and all other meat besides beef, which I typically can only have ground as hamburger or taco meat. I can not eat any cooked tomato product, products with certain kinds of vinegar, or most foods involving mixed flavors and textures. I…
/r/MensRights19/05/12 11:26 PM
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I tend to think of soy as not manly because, in excess, it's like taking female hormones. In fact, that's WHY I'm planning on eating it, my hormones are off and I can't afford the supplements. Veggies though, come work on my garden and then tell me that's not a manly food. Seriously.
/r/MensRights19/05/12 01:54 PM
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It's against reddit submission rules. If OP left the name, the post would likely have been deleted.
/r/MensRights05/05/12 01:56 PM
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thanks
/r/MensRights14/04/12 04:30 PM
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farmers Just out of curiosity, is this large commercial and industrial farming, or does it include small self sufficiency and family farming?
/r/MensRights14/04/12 04:10 PM
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My understanding is that India does not have the radical feminist presence that the US or other similar countries have, and that there are still very real inequalities in India. I don't know how true this is, but I'm inclined to at least partially believe it. I think that this is one of the situations where Men's rights advocates can show that we are different from the radical feminists, by showing that we support truly equal rights. Some of the recommendations were not bad. If primary custody i…
/r/MensRights11/04/12 04:02 AM
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I don't understand racism either. I've always assumed it's one of those things I'll never get due to the way I think differently. I have no visual memory, so appearance has never held the importance for me it does for most. What I do know, is that people with blue hair can hate people with green hair, and people with green hair can just as easily hate people with blue hair. Why I don't know, but it's true. I think power plays in hugely to prejudices in general, but is not the determining factor …
/r/MensRights06/04/12 03:28 PM
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Hmm... I hadn't thought at all about conscious versus unconscious attitudes, and was only describing conscious attitudes. I kind of view those problems as related but separate. I think last night my tired brain assumed everyone would understand I was trying to say that the attitudes started by saying things such as blacks can't be racist to whites feed directly into acts. I myself have experienced the results of this sort of attitude. I went to a middle school with only about 10 other white stud…
/r/MensRights06/04/12 02:55 PM
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I've heard that viewpoint before, however I disagree. I've come to understand that some people think that way, however after what I've been through, and what I've witnessed others going through, I don't think that it is correct. Racism is prejudice based on race. Period. All adding power to the definition does is try to artificially limit who can and can't be a victim to fit a specific ideology and way of viewing the world, one I don't happen to agree with. I have a very different world view due…
/r/MensRights06/04/12 04:38 AM
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Sexism does not exist on both sides of the spectrum as women cannot be "sexist" towards men. Men will never feel the affects of sexism. That's like claiming that Black people can be racist towards white people--it's impossible. FUCK YOU ANYONE WHO THINKS THIS. Seriously. Anyone can be sexist. Anyone can be racist. Any person, of either sex, or of any race can be a victim of racism or sexism. I've had ENOUGH. They act like it's obvious, like the very idea is ridiculous, but what they fail to real…
/r/MensRights05/04/12 11:54 PM
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I'm always confused by women who do this. My husband loves me or he wouldn't have married me. He very clearly loves me, and shows it daily. I love him, and I love when he is happy. If he has a female friend or interest who makes him happy, it doesn't mean he loves me less, it means he'll be more happy, and then I'll be happy because he's happy. If my husband thinks I need to know where he's going or what's up, he'll tell me. I trust that he's capable of taking care of himself, and that I have no…
/r/MensRights04/04/12 02:31 PM
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Hospitals and doctors doing things similar to this isn't uncommon. Doctors tend think they know what's best, and if you question their care, you get all sorts of hell. For instance, I'm autistic. My husband has to be in the room with me at all times, and is my medical guardian. Every time we go to a doctors office "Oh you can't come in" "No, I'm the medical guardian, and I refuse to consent to you treating her without me present, for your safety as well as for hers" Then they get all upset, and …
/r/MensRights01/04/12 04:19 PM
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I'm white, however there is a possibility that my great-great grandmother was Iroquois, and that someone on my fathers side at least a great great great relative may have had some african american and/or mexican. Most cooked tomato products and other acidic foods will burn sores in my mouth. I also have constant stomach upset/nausea which I usually treat with ginger ale. I'm unsure if it has an affect on my immunity or not, in fact we're not entirely sure of much yet other than a) my body chemis…
/r/MensRights30/03/12 04:35 PM
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It's been confirmed that it is a pH issue, I also have other issues with high acid foods and environments. Although I do have somewhat freaky body chemistry in general, the extent of which we aren't entirely sure of yet, but normal ranges of temperature, say, something only slightly warm to my hands will actually cause minor burns on my chest, I respond to certain environments, foods, medications and other things in unique and often frightening ways... And as for your curiosity, yes, I am.
/r/MensRights30/03/12 04:05 PM
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TMI WARNING For me, not really no. When I first started having sex, I hadn't had anything inside before, not even a tampon. It took a year before I was opened up enough that I didn't bleed after, I still get sore. During that time, I had sex up to 3 times a day, and at least 3 times a week. Now I still get sore afterwords, maybe some bruising and light tearing, but I also have a pH problem where I clash with my husband's body chemistry. If I cry on him, I leave welts. If we have sex, we both usu…
/r/MensRights30/03/12 12:36 PM
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In theory. Someone once told me to think of it this way: every law will be enforced and carried out by your worst enemy and the biggest idiot you can imagine. Some judges will be good, and will use their freedom to work out the best and most fair deal for all. Some won't.
/r/MensRights19/03/12 03:01 AM
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You can't FORCE people to be friends or not be friends. Something needs to be done, but this is just kinda... stupid. We aren't game pieces you can move around at will, we're people. I'm a girl, I couldn't stand any of the other girls. They were petty and mean, and they'd decide every morning if they were friends with you that day or not, which was dumb. The boys, you knew where you stood. I was friends with one boy and his friends tolerated me. Period. I was even made an honorary boy, they all …
/r/MensRights15/03/12 06:49 PM
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Stay at home parenting may be one of the toughest things I'll ever be capable of doing, however I'd never be capable of being a soldier... I fail to see how anyone could think taking care of even an absolutely AWFUL kid could be worse than getting shot at...
/r/MensRights09/03/12 05:35 PM
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He was an unemployed, bipolar, ptsd war vet who, prior to marrying my mother, had spent the last 15 or so years living off pool bets while hitchhiking around the country. My mother had major issues herself, but she at least had a house that her sister had given her, and the aid checks for myself and my brother were in her name. More likely than not, custody would have gone to my aunt, who was technically our legal guardian anyway, although we lived with our parents. She was a registered foster p…
/r/MensRights09/03/12 12:11 AM
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As a woman, I would find that hilarious. I love this idea. Then again, I've been to Home depot more often for tools and things I need than for things my husband has needed...
/r/MensRights08/03/12 05:03 PM
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When I was little, I used to wish my father would leave my mother and take me with him. The more I read on MR, however, the more glad I am he stayed because I realize the courts would have never given him custody.
/r/MensRights08/03/12 05:01 PM
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What is lost from circumcision. Myths about circumcision, including the cleanliness myth. If you do get the chance to talk to her about this again, I'd show her this.
/r/MensRights07/03/12 02:34 PM
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... How can she think there are UNITS of PAIN?!? Pain is subjective, like all senses. I'm hyper sensitive to pain due to sensory things related to my autism. Pain that my husband deals with every day can make me want to die, but I can be sitting right over a pile of fresh dog shit and not even smell it because I'm hypo sensitive to smells. There can't be a pain scale, there is no way to measure it from person to person...
/r/MensRights04/03/12 12:33 PM
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records. We've had people come on, post something, get support and then change their post to make people here look like douchebags. It's not meant to accuse you, if you look at other "personal story" posts posted in the past few days, you'll see we've been doing the same thing to everyone.
/r/MensRights29/02/12 02:22 PM
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You know as well as I do that you've never actually said that to anyone. Yes I have. Bullshit. If I ask you to give me some examples of new terms regaining the negative connotation of their predecessor, you probably won't be able to come up with a single one. Of course! That's totally why my brother got detention for saying "Blacks" instead of African Americans. Fortunately, no one is demanding anyone to do anything; I have no clue why people like yourself seem to think that "PC Crusaders" are t…
/r/MensRights26/02/12 12:37 PM
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This comment is much better. Non-confronting personal statements, facts, and patience are best. :) Thank you for your input.
/r/MensRights25/02/12 07:46 PM
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I'm sorry, but this comment adds nothing positive to the discussion. She's probably feeling a lot of conflicting emotions right now, and is processing a lot of new information. Changing deep set cultural ideas is not easy, especially when it involves a situation where if you are wrong, you feel responsible for something harmful done to someone you love. Negative comments and accusing her of not adjusting and accepting fast are not helpful, and giving up when someone doesn't change their mind on …
/r/MensRights25/02/12 07:44 PM
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A list of articles showing that the foreskin may help to improve hygiene or that circumcision may increase the risk of infections. A page linking to lists of other articles and studies related to male circumcision myths. I've done some research on circumcision related to religious requirements in regards to the Jewish faith, and from what I found, it was traditionally simply a nick to tip of the foreskin, and recently some have been returning to that or holding a ceremony without circumcision in…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 06:36 PM
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As far as the random boner, I can't argue, however, is that really a good justification to remove a vital and healthy tissue? To eliminate what exactly, other people around him feeling slightly uncomfortable? Mild to moderate embarrassment? In the worst case scenario, I could see someone getting bullied for a few months, in which case, the teacher ought to explain to the class that that is a natural, uncontrollable physical response, not have the child have a part of their body chopped off to pr…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 06:27 PM
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I don't know what to say other than hugs. Please don't commit suicide, there are places you can get help. I've lost several friends to suicide. Being depressed, scared, hurt, wanting to cry, needing help, etc. are not shameful, and I hope you get the help you need.
/r/MensRights25/02/12 05:57 PM
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It may not remove the ability to orgasm, but it does severely desensitize and causes sexual difficulties, including erectile dysfunction, and difficulty reaching orgasm. I knew a guy who it took several hours of heavy stimulation for him to reach orgasm because of his circumcision. It is still a very real and legitimate problem for some men. Yes, women face a very real and legitimate problem, and I'm not trying to undermine that. It's not a "this horrible one is way worse than this other one, so…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 05:45 PM
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Sometimes nerves are left from several of the places where they cut, especially under the head. Men who have heard things like it's easier to keep clean (not entirely true) and that boys will question why they don't look like daddy, and who haven't experienced obvious complications often don't know what they lost or what they're taking from their son. Think of it like this, girls have gspots from which many of them can receive plenty of pleasure, what do they need a clitoris for? If they have th…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 03:11 PM
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It's not just "extra skin" it's the most sensitive part of the penis, see here for a list of all that is lost but I think what is most relevent to what you said is this The Frenar Ridged Band, the primary erogenous zone of the male body. Loss of this delicate belt of densely innervated, sexually responsive tissue reduces the fullness and intensity of sexual response. To a guy, losing this sensitive region is comparable to you or I losing clitoris. Some guys have sensation and response reduced by…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 02:14 PM
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I hate Political Correctness. When someone tries to tell me about PC, I respond as so: Telling me to I have to be politically correct is clearly ablest, as it makes it harder or even keeps me from speaking. You do not limit ideas by limiting speech, obviously there is a need for such a word, and eliminating the word doesn't eliminate the need for a word, as you simple create new words that haven't been around long enough to develop negative connotations instead. That means that on top of trying …
/r/MensRights25/02/12 02:03 PM
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What if the woman is unaware of, or hides the pregnancy until after the abortion date? Or if the father is unknown, or there are several possible fathers? I heard about a case where the home test, and initial doctors test were incorrect due to fluctuating hormones, and where, when she was still in doubt, the lab messed up on the blood test. By the time they straightened it out, she was three days from the abortion limit. What if this happens in a state where they have a mandatory 24 hour waiting…
/r/MensRights22/02/12 05:20 PM
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I was willing to consider this, even with the whole "ownership" thing (which bugged me, no one OWNS another person. They can be responsible for another person, but not OWN them) right up to the institution thing. Institutions have been proven to be very bad for children, with worse outcomes than foster care, adoption, single parent care, and pretty much any other way a child can be disadvantaged. Not only that, but if any time a parent who temporarily become too poor to care for a child without …
/r/MensRights12/02/12 09:33 PM
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You would never see one of these guys support a room mate who cooks and clean, because its so great to come home to that. Sure, it's called a house mouse, and I've been one a couple times. I can't work, and I've had significant difficulties in getting government assistance because of the different rules they have. Some states won't help you until you are 21, or unless you have a kid, some won't help you unless you already have documentation of disability, which you can't get unless you already h…
/r/MensRights10/02/12 08:39 PM
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I cook my meals from scratch, and I don't use fancy tools. If I'm making say, pasta, I spend an hour making the dough, an hour rolling it out with a rolling pin, and an a half hour cutting it and shaping it and then dry it while I spend the next several hours making sauce. If I'm making pizza, I have to spend several hours kneading the dough to the correct consistency before I even get to the sauce and cutting/making toppings. Same with all our meals. Hamburgers? I need to shape the patties, pre…
/r/MensRights10/02/12 01:53 PM
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Completely understandable. I'd feel very uncomfortable having a roommate of either sex I didn't know, but I'd be more likely to choose a male roommate because I find it easier to communicate with men than women when I'm having communication difficulties. It's all personal preference.
/r/MensRights01/02/12 02:16 PM
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Alright, sure, all good advice, all advice the men I know follow. Guess what? Didn't work out so great. I know a man who was married to a woman who he was certain he could trust. They decided together to have children, children that he thought they would raise together. After the last child was born, she informed him she'd wanted the children for her relationship with her girlfriend, and that she had married him so as to get financial and child support for those children. She left him, and he is…
/r/MensRights09/01/12 07:36 PM
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I am confused by the logic here. Just because there are subreddits for something, means that most of reddit supports it? There is /r/christianity and /r/atheism. There are racist reddits and anti racist reddits... All else aside, that alone is confusing enough to discredit it...
/r/MensRights13/12/11 07:57 PM
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All subsidized housing is is having the government pay part of your rent in a qualified apartment. Any qualified landlord can accept subsidized housing. The less money you make, the less you have to pay, and the more people you have, the more space you qualify for. I knew a family of 8 people who rented an entire house for less than $800 a month, and there was nothing remotely "ghetto" about where they lived. I've seen project type places too, there was one in my hometown. This was because all t…
/r/MensRights05/12/11 03:22 PM
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I don't know, as I've only ever known one person who was raised by their father, and he was an adult by the time I knew him and it never came up... I never really looked into it... It's a good question though...
/r/MensRights30/11/11 08:34 PM
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You can't pay, you go to jail. Period. It sucks.
/r/MensRights30/11/11 05:41 PM
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Educate. I correct misconceptions I hear among my friends, family, and in public.
/r/MensRights20/10/11 05:05 PM
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In my opinion, all words exist because at one time or another, people wanted to convey the meaning of the word often enough to require a word for that meaning. Overtime, as attitudes and opinions and usage change, words become unnecessary, or refer to attitudes and opinions no longer commonly accepted, examples being thou, the "N" word, etc. However, some people use "political correctness" as a way of preventing people from expressing certain uncomfortable notions, one example being disliking my…
/r/MensRights20/10/11 04:55 PM
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Thank you. First time I've ever had someone think that my "thought-experiment-solutions" was decent. :) Let them say what they will, it's not like I am or ever will be important or influential enough to have my opinion suddenly be law, I just like to think up solutions to things and think about people because most people are fairly bewildering.
/r/MensRights19/10/11 10:54 PM
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I was thinking of cases where paternity might not be known until after birth, however, it's a fair point. What about: If a known father was not notified until after the period where abortion is a choice, he may not be asked for support. If the father is not known until after birth, he is under no obligation to provide support, however he may opt to provide support, and be given first choice for adoption/placement if the mother chooses to give up the child or can not care for the child.
/r/MensRights19/10/11 10:37 PM
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I've wondered about this question for some time. I understand that pregnancy can totally upturn a woman's life, but I firmly believe that fathers deserve a say as well. After a great deal of thought, I came to the conclusion that a 40-30-30 split might be best, with clarifications and conditions. The woman has 40 percent of the decision, her doctor 30 percent, and the Father 30 percent. If the father wants to take full custody, unless the Doctor insists that carrying to term would result in irre…
/r/MensRights19/10/11 02:37 PM
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I'm sorry. As a Mormon, I find this shameful. Love is a Godly trait, and I personally can not see how a pure and true love can be considered bad. Too many Mormons forget that is important is not judging, loving, and forgiving others unconditionally, and never forgetting that God made and loves each of us for how we are. And for those Mormons who insist that it is a sin, I only have one thing to say: Even if it is a sin, the Lord chose the plan of salvation because the most important thing is not…
/r/MensRights14/10/11 03:45 AM
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Same. :) Glad someone agrees.
/r/MensRights08/10/11 02:46 PM
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upvote for the non-BDSM qualifier :)
/r/MensRights08/10/11 11:50 AM
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If a woman does things like claim she's on the pill, or poke a hole in a condom, or impregnate herself with sperm from non-penetration sexual, or is guilty of statutory rape of the father, then forcing the father to pay child support can be compared to rape. They both affect a persons entire life. They effect a persons over all wellness. They degrade trust of the opposite sex. It can continue to affect you when you least expect it for the rest of your life.
/r/MensRights19/09/11 05:01 PM
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That may very well be the point. That doesn't make it any easier to deal with if you are a female men's rights supporter who realizes that in your state, if you were in that situation, you'd have no choice, unless you wanted to give it away.
/r/MensRights22/07/11 12:09 AM
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The law is just messed up, and it's messed up on both sides. In many states, if the woman doesn't declare the father (because he doesn't want the kid) they will take away any help whatsoever the woman and any family or people in her home are receiving, and take the child. Even if they take precautions, mistakes happen. If the woman has a disability, or is facing hard times, or any number of other reasons why a single woman wouldn't be able to fully support herself, let alone a child, she either …
/r/MensRights21/07/11 02:22 PM
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Great idea. Until you remember that not all people identify as one gender, or even gendered at all.
/r/MensRights21/07/11 01:02 PM
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In core classes? sixth grade, 2, seventh I don't remember really, I wasn't paying much attention to anything but completing my work and avoiding spending time around any classmates... 8th 1. In other classes, Gym, shop and computers all had male teacehrs, languages and gym had female. In my honest opinion, this is more an equality-for-all issue. Education in and of itself is set up for one kind of kid, one kind of learning, and one view point. Everyone suffers from this standpoint. If we address…
/r/MensRights29/06/11 02:19 PM
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Sometimes students are uncontrollable, ESPECIALLY at washington. I had wonderful teachers, teachers that tried so hard to teach, who really really tried, and who tried again with each new class they were given. But there is only so much you can do to a student who JUST DOESN'T CARE. These kids, they have things in their life that are far more pressing than school. They don't respect the teachers, they don't trust the teachers, and they don't care what punishment the teacher gives. Teachers obvio…
/r/MensRights28/06/11 05:18 AM
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I went to this school the year after this boy killed himself. A little background about this school: It is a school who's district includes meriden's version of the projects... most kids not living in the projects attempt to get out, to one of the two other middle schools in town. The teachers DO NOT CARE. Not Before scruggs, not about scruggs, not after scruggs. Sure, they were disturbed that this happened, but that didn't change the fact that they don't care. Only a few actually bothered to TR…
/r/MensRights28/06/11 05:08 AM
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Get a lawyer and find out your options, seriously. My parents were mentally and sometimes physically abusive throughout my childhood. I reached out to teachers, extended family, and even directly to CPS on numerous occasions, and while a few family members gave words of encouragement, no one helped end what I was going through. I left home less than a week after I turned 18. I've forgiven my parents, they had severe mental issues. I mostly feel sorry for them now. I don't forgive the rest of my …
/r/MensRights17/05/11 12:24 PM
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