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| 4 | I don’t get their outrage on HypergamyI actually dated a guy who was so insecure that he said the fact I was dating him was a black mark against me. Anyway. That ended shortly afterwards. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/04/25 01:02 PM |
| 4 | Anyone here just see many of the Incel types as just horrible human beings??I think he’s a red pill guy. The Venn diagram for incels and red pillers is a circle. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/25 11:57 PM |
| 6 | A guy is brainwashing young men with the “dual-mating strategy” theory — how do I debunk it?Let me guess…you didn’t find them. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/25 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Why are men who have never had sex painted as right-wing misogynists?They aren’t. Just incels. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/25 08:42 PM |
| 8 | The term "incel" is in itself misogynisticCelibacy refers to both genders. Nuns are celibate. Priests are celibate. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/25 03:40 PM |
| 12 | I feel like women aren't interested in relationships and are just as happy as singleThis is exactly it. I am 49 and have had the exact same experience as your friend. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/25 02:39 PM |
| 13 | I feel like women aren't interested in relationships and are just as happy as singleHave you not men any actual men? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/25 02:37 PM |
| 1 | In a girl's room right now but she's doing a lot of I wanna/I don't wannawtf is wrong with you? How about having fun that’s not sex? Or is that something you’re incapable of? I sincerely hope you’re a teenager, because that’s the only excuse you could have regarding your fucked up views surrounding relationships between men and women. And even that has an expiration date on it. | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 03:36 PM |
| 3 | In a girl's room right now but she's doing a lot of I wanna/I don't wannaRead the comments. OP is sitting there frozen and not even responding to anything she’s doing. The only person wasting anyones time is OP. Btw, in no way are coercion or ultimatums “playful”. They’re manipulative. Get help, brah. | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 02:51 PM |
| 10 | In a girl's room right now but she's doing a lot of I wanna/I don't wannaSo, guilt or coerce them? Cool. | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 02:17 PM |
| 7 | How do people date people they aren’t physically attracted to?Why have you been dating someone you aren’t attracted to for months? A few dates to see if there’s a mutual attraction is fine. But months? Does that seem fair to you? Not only are you wasting her time, you’re also toying with her emotions. This kind of behavior sounds like something that red pill guys would accuse women of doing. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/24 09:47 PM |
| 19 | Red pillers are going InsaneThose poor trans women. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/05/24 08:27 PM |
| 2 | What's the point of invalidating the experiences of ugly men that post here?Nobody says student loans aren’t a burden, though. Fuck, even the Obamas struggled to pay theirs off. So this is a highly flawed false equivalency. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/05/24 03:27 PM |
| 7 | What's the point of invalidating the experiences of ugly men that post here?Go watch my 600 pound life. Most of those people have partners. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/05/24 01:21 AM |
| 26 | What's the point of invalidating the experiences of ugly men that post here?Dude. Go walk around a Walmart for a couple of hours. You’ll see a bunch of ugly and obese people there with their partners. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/24 09:40 PM |
| 10 | Extremely fearful of relationships because of views instilled in me on the internetEveryone has these fears regardless of their gender. Any woman you date will have the same fears about you, even though you’ve never acted in a way to make her feel that way. It’s just self-preservation that makes us feel this way. But it’s not fair to put them on any of your partners. You have to let people start with a clean slate. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/24 04:42 PM |
| 7 | What are characteristics of a good girlfriend? What are some red flags that I should watch out for?I can ask someone what they do for a living because I’m truly interested in how they spend their days and the things that interest them and what made them choose that career. For example, if someone is a social worker, they’re probably concerned with social issues and helping people. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/24 05:34 PM |
| 2 | "People don't date who they are attracted to. They date whoever would impress their friends and family" - Seth Stephens-DavidowitzSee: “a million little pieces” book | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/23 12:14 PM |
| 2 | "People don't date who they are attracted to. They date whoever would impress their friends and family" - Seth Stephens-DavidowitzExactly. He did say everybody lies. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/23 11:59 AM |
| 1 | I think I now have relationship anxiety because of consuming red pill contentWhy would you need to tell anyone? Do you text your friends every time you poop, too? I’m going to challenge you to reach out to your academic advisor or career counselor and ask them to refer you to counseling services. Even if they don’t offer them on-campus, they can point you to resources that will. Stop thinking of reasons to say no and just say yes. You’re not helpless; in fact, you’re doing really well making improvements on yourself where you already have recognized potential weak spots.… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 09:06 PM |
| 2 | I think I now have relationship anxiety because of consuming red pill contentTruth bombs. Remember: Someone cheated on Halle Fucking Berry. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 08:44 PM |
| 5 | I think I now have relationship anxiety because of consuming red pill contentFirst of all, fuck what you heard. Therapy is for everyone, and it’s nothing to be afraid of. You aren’t weak because you’re in therapy. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. Secondly, I’m betting your college probably offers free therapy for students. That alone should give you an idea of how effective and important it is to talk to a professional counselor. I just signed up for classes at a community college, and they offer free sessions for anyone that’s registered. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 08:39 PM |
| 1 | I think I now have relationship anxiety because of consuming red pill content…but your dad just calls me Katyaaaaa | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 08:08 PM |
| 11 | I think I now have relationship anxiety because of consuming red pill contentYou used the word anxiety like 4 times in that comment. And anxiety is the perfect reason to go to therapy. As is anything that’s going to keep you from pursuing a relationship. But you should probably also go just to talk to someone about the latent issues that you still have surrounding women. It would be unfair to you and any future partners to not nip the issue in the bud. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 03:02 PM |
| 6 | I think I now have relationship anxiety because of consuming red pill contentPeople also have car accidents, and yet we still drive or ride around in cars every day. You can’t spend your life worrying about “what ifs” when you have no reason to suspect that the particular person you’re dating is going to cheat on you. Not if you want to ever be in a relationship, anyway. The best you can do is a) ask a person if they’ve ever cheated on a partner before you’re in a committed relationship with them, b) be willing to openly and honestly communicate with your partner when it… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 02:59 PM |
| 17 | I think I now have relationship anxiety because of consuming red pill contentAt 47, I can tell you that people are mostly good, regardless of gender. You just have to find one you’re compatible with. You remember the awful stories because nobody posts about their totally average/happy relationships venting or looking for advice. I think you could really benefit from therapy. Think of it as another brick in your self improvement. Everyone deserves to have as little anxiety as possible. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 11:46 AM |
| 3 | Keeping a solid 9This is the right fucking answer. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that most women would expect a traditional date before a hook up?I wonder if this is just an insight into how much they think about food. | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that most women would expect a traditional date before a hook up?Idk how they think we’re feeding ourselves the other 364 days a year. | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 12:49 PM |
| 3 | I've got this feeling most of the people here don't want to grow or change. In fact, I've got this feeling that most people are here to have their world-view reinforced.I’m so glad to hear guys saying this. As a middle aged woman, I see so many young guys talking like this online nowadays. They want to talk about how awful women are, and how we only want guys with movie star looks that make 6 figures and are over 6’ tall, all while ignoring the throngs average and below average people they pass by every day of their lives who are in LTRs. I think they just want to blame things they can’t change, because then the onus is on someone else. Then they can sit at hom… | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 12:30 PM |
| 7 | What am I doing wrongMy fiancé is an inch shorter than me. I’m 5’8”. And I’ve dated other guys who were several inches shorter. It’s all about confidence and how you carry yourself. In fact, my fiancé likes it when I wear really high heels. He said “I love walking in the room and people wondering what I did to land the Amazonian goddess next to me”. Let them think what they want, but you and I know the truth. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 02:56 PM |
| 8 | What am I doing wrongHeight isn’t as important as Reddit would want you to believe. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 02:14 PM |
| 2 | I'm using my dog to hook up with girlsDid you just give a fake name for…your dog? Do a lot of people on Reddit know Chip personally? | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 05:35 PM |
| 4 | What's the difference between the guys who get the girls and the guys who don't?You’re not short, dude. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 01:00 PM |
| 1 | SLEPT WITH THE GIRL IVE ALWAYS WANTED, WHAT NOW?I don’t need you to believe me when I have proof | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 11:15 PM |
| 0 | SLEPT WITH THE GIRL IVE ALWAYS WANTED, WHAT NOW?Sorry; I should’ve been more clear. He’s in my DMs asking me for more advice. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 10:58 PM |
| 0 | SLEPT WITH THE GIRL IVE ALWAYS WANTED, WHAT NOW?…and he’s DMing me now. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 10:45 PM |
| -1 | SLEPT WITH THE GIRL IVE ALWAYS WANTED, WHAT NOW?Thank you! And you’re sprung AF and in denial. Have a great rest of your weekend! | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 09:45 PM |
| 0 | SLEPT WITH THE GIRL IVE ALWAYS WANTED, WHAT NOW?You’re asking people to speculate. And I’m speculating on my past experiences as a woman. When I cool off on talking to a guy, it’s because I’m not into him. If I know I’m going to have limited service, I’ll let him know in advance. But hey, maybe she’s being held hostage, tied up in a chair with her phone just out of reach, dying to be able to text you. Anything is possible. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 09:10 PM |
| 0 | SLEPT WITH THE GIRL IVE ALWAYS WANTED, WHAT NOW?Don’t ask for answers if you’re not ready to hear them…guy. She could be into you, but has absolutely zero intention of ripping up her life and leaving everything she knows to move to a different country. Even you said you wouldn’t want to move to another country, but wanted her to move to the states. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 08:23 PM |
| 0 | SLEPT WITH THE GIRL IVE ALWAYS WANTED, WHAT NOW?She was into you. She changed her mind. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 08:04 PM |
| -1 | SLEPT WITH THE GIRL IVE ALWAYS WANTED, WHAT NOW?Only when she’s into you. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 07:53 PM |
| 7 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?I work in the film industry. I have celebrities in my makeup chair 5 days a week. And I can confidently say I’m not sleeping with any of them just because they’re handsome. I even had a few dates with one of them. I didn’t sleep with him, and I was the one who ended it, because there was no spark. ETA: And kissing is way different than fucking someone. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 06:39 PM |
| 3 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?Oh no I don’t think expertise is impossible, or that they’re not successful. It’s just important to their image to have this huge body count when they’re doing it for a living. Nobody is gonna pay a guy who says he’s only slept with an average amount of women. Or any profession for that matter. I’m not gonna order a dish from a restaurant that people say is average. I’m not going to get a haircut from a stylist that people say does average work. Donald Trump didn’t get votes because he promised … | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 06:37 PM |
| 4 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?Murdered by math | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:17 PM |
| 18 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?As a woman, I agree with this. A guy can be a 10, but if we don’t have some kind of chemistry, I’m not even going to kiss him. Plus I’m positive that anyone who calls themselves an “expert” in this field and makes a living off of this brand is definitely inflating their numbers. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:15 PM |
| 11 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?Because we don’t love sex with everyone. Just people we’re into and then also consider our orgasms in bed. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 03:18 AM |
| 1 | 30 year old delivering pizzas on side. 40s sexy cougar seems to like meTake her a bottle of wine with her pizza, and just say you thought she might enjoy it with her dinner. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 01:48 PM |
| 5 | Easiest way to get laidJfc, it’s nonstop. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Thailand a bad idea?Look, I’m gonna give you the easiest way to start a conversation with a woman. Compliment her. Something non-sexual and genuine, like “you have a great smile”, or “your hair is beautiful”. She will thank you. And then you say “hi, my name is Kledusmain”. There you go. You’re overthinking it. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Thailand a bad idea?Why are you surprised that everyone went to sex in a sub called r/seduction? | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Girl flakes but asks to meet the next dayWhy not? Maybe she has a scatterbrained mom or aunt who was supposed to tell her and forgot. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:23 AM |
| 11 | Girl flakes but asks to meet the next dayOr she just has a close relationship with her family. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:21 AM |
| 13 | Thailand a bad idea?This is such a POS idea. Quit playing into the mentality that Asian women are submissive fuck dolls, get your shit together, and learn how to have a conversation with a woman who is from your same culture. This smacks of trying to take advantage of a whole group of women because that’s easier than dealing with your own social anxiety and shortcomings. Use that extra money to get therapy. And btw, if women in other countries are just coming at you out of nowhere, it’s probably because they’re pro… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Thailand a bad idea?Because they want submissive women who won’t say no, but they want to pretend they’re not paying for them to sleep with them. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Should I refrain from mentioning I go to therapy to a girl.Siggy! | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since WednesdaySo I haven’t been on apps for a while because I’m engaged, but I hear my girlfriends talk about Hinge and Bumble a lot. Also there are subs specifically about online dating and dating at certain ages. This sub is mostly for guys just trying to pick up chicks for casual sex, so I’d keep that in mind when you’re listening to their advice. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since WednesdayShe sounds like a thirst trap. Which is fine if that’s what you’re looking for, but it doesn’t sound like you are. Id get on a dating app that’s known for people who are looking for actual relationships and not hookups. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Help!If only there were a way for you to figure out if she wants to go out with you or not… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:54 PM |
| 13 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?I think a lot of them overthink things and like to place the blame on things outside of their control (women), because then it’s not their fault. Turns out women are just people, too. I’m 46, and have a large group of women who I’ve been friends with since I was a teenager, and I’ve never heard any of them systematically verbally destroy guys over irrelevant shit like you hear guys on here saying. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 10:09 PM |
| 31 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?This is common with dominant men, too. When you’re dominant in your everyday life, especially at work, it’s nice to be able to shut off your brain and know that someone else has things under control. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?Yes, I’m sure you’re right. OP is so foul looking they instantly inspire repulsion with a single glance. Babies cry, women scream, and animals spontaneously begin foaming at the mouth. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?But it’s fine for them to not be interested. It frequently has little to do with OP. They could be in a relationship, thinking about something unrelated, gay, thinking about their dog that just died, etc. I wouldn’t take it too hard. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 06:18 PM |
| 8 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?Who are you, Boo Radley? | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:27 PM |
| 8 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?This dude is a human Eeyore. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:16 PM |
| 35 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?You’re projecting your own insecurities onto these women. Not interested doesn’t mean “creeped out”. It just means not interested. You sound like you could benefit from some therapy to address your social anxiety. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?You’re projecting your own insecurities onto these women. Not interested doesn’t mean “creeped out”. It just means not interested. You sound like you could benefit from some therapy to address your social anxiety. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:14 PM |
| 6 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?Why do you think you’re creeping them out? Like what proof do you have that they think you’re creepy? | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:09 PM |
| 18 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?I doubt he’s actually creeping them out. He’s probably projecting his insecurities into their reactions. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:08 PM |
| 3 | how do you talk to a girl when she's being boring?Sounds like you need to be better at engaging her in interesting conversations. Ask her to tell you about something funny that happened to her at work or about the last trip she took. Things that can’t be answered with one word. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 01:20 PM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?Anyone that thinks taking drugs to talk to people is a good idea needs more therapy. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 09:31 PM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?Very on brand for this sub | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Why are women such in the moment creatures?The next day? Have some patience, bro. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youThen it’s how you’re acting in public/social situations. Are you shy or anxious or have an inappropriate sense of humor? Ask friends and family members why they think you’re still single. But not your mom. Mom thinks you’re perfect. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 11:59 AM |
| 20 | Going on a date with a woman more than twice my age. I think she’s beautiful and I’m very excited!Add compliment her, but genuinely. And be confident, dress well, and smell nice. As a woman, I agree this is all good advice. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Is this is test from her?How has “playing it cool” been working out for you the last week? | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 02:10 PM |
| 9 | Is this is test from her?It’s not a test. She’s over you, and sick of being the one to initiate everything. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 02:06 PM |
| 2 | I am not desired sexually by womenOmg HAHAHA. This is a fucked up yet amazing comment. Too bad OP is probably too busy returning videos to read it. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:32 PM |
| 0 | I am not desired sexually by womenAre you Eeyore? | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:30 PM |
| 7 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placeTherapy | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 08:11 PM |
| 8 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placeBut then they can’t blame it on someone else | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | How do I lose my virginity to a milf or an experienced woman?You’re just using that as an excuse so you don’t have to try and the blame isn’t on yourself. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 02:58 AM |
| 25 | Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her?Why are you continually shitting where you sleep? | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 02:34 PM |
| 4 | What kind of men do highly confident women generally fall for?What an incellian take. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 04:08 AM |
| 0 | What kind of men do highly confident women generally fall for?I think that’s what they’re saying. And apparently successful is also a masculine trait now. What a douche. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 04:05 AM |
| 2 | What kind of men do highly confident women generally fall for?Go watch crazy stupid love. It’s similar to Ryan Gosling’s character. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Las Vegas is nutsAnd yet you’re the one that’s getting downvoted…bitch. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Las Vegas is nutsOhhh, so you just had to drive down the road to act like an ass. Copy that, bro. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 04:34 AM |
| 6 | Las Vegas is nutsIt certainly reads like you, a married man, went to Vegas and fucked other people. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Las Vegas is nutsSo you cheated? Cool. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 03:07 AM |
| 0 | Friend grinding on me in the clubIt’s dancing. This is how people dance. It implies nothing in the proper context, and you should assume nothing. You should absolutely be able to go to a club and DANCE and not get a hand up your shirt, man or woman. If someone can’t limit themselves to dancing without putting their hand under someone’s clothing, then don’t go dancing at a club. Most men are absolutely capable of controlling themselves and do it successfully. The whole “do women actually expect to act like/dress like this and no… | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 08:38 PM |
| 10 | Friend grinding on me in the clubI hope OP (and other guys) see this and take it to heart. I used to dance with guys I wasn’t interested in at all when I was young. I’d be feeling the alcohol, or want to feel attractive, or he was a great dancer, or I was just having meaningless fun. It rarely meant I actually wanted anything beyond dancing to happen with the guy, especially if he was someone I already knew. There’s a good chance she knows he’s “safe” to dance with because they’re friends, and that means she won’t end up with s… | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 04:15 AM |
| 0 | What does a woman mean when she say's she just doesn't feel the connection?They’re both shitty moves. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 05:37 PM |
| 0 | What does a woman mean when she say's she just doesn't feel the connection?I love that you edited your original comment. What a tool. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 05:05 PM |
| 0 | What does a woman mean when she say's she just doesn't feel the connection?He literally said make every conversation sexual. That’s what disgusted me. If it’s not there, he edited his comment. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 05:04 PM |
| -4 | What does a woman mean when she say's she just doesn't feel the connection?Sexualizing every conversation is foul. Can women just catch a break and talk about things that are important to them without you turning it into a sexual conversation? Their enjoyment of hiking or video games or traveling isn’t an invitation for you to talk about your dick. Grow up. And you meant “coincidentally”. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:05 PM |
| -4 | What does a woman mean when she say's she just doesn't feel the connection?Not only are you foul, but you don’t understand the meaning of the word “ironic”. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themYou know who we’re not attracted to and also don’t respect? Guys who sound like Incel Eeyore. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themRight? TIL I must be attracted to every friend and family member I ever had. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themYou’re absolutely right. I stumbled across this sub by accident, but I stayed for the entertainment value. I have seen so few posts that are actually based in reality. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themOh no. We know that a lot of the absolute trolls just want sex, too. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Does smoking weed get you laid?Thank you. These people out here that think we can’t find drugs are delusional. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Does smoking weed get you laid?They’re not fishing for a connect. Especially if you live in a state where medical marijuana is legal, which is most of them. Even if it’s not legal in your state, it’s incredibly easy to find. They’re letting people know in case it’s a deal breaker for them. Or to let guys who do smoke know that they don’t smoke, but don’t mind if the guy smokes. I’m 420 friendly and never smoke. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Where is the r/seduction for girls?Hallelujah, sister. I ended up here on accident too, but stayed for the delusional ones. It’s hilarious to see people talk so negatively about a group of people, yet still fall all over themselves trying to get any interaction with said group of people. It has become pretty clear to me that the guys here who are convinced women only care about height and how much money they make are actually just looking for people to blame for their dateless-ness. Which they then use as an excuse to be jerks/sl… | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 04:08 AM |
| 5 | Kissed my date last night mid sentence.I have a theory that there’s a group of them that share one brain cell, but they spend 99% of their life waiting for their turn with it. Kind of like orange cats. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Small talk with a milf at elevatorSo is my fiancé. You’ll be fine. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 12:01 PM |
| 5 | Small talk with a milf at elevatorSo if I were this woman, I’d be pretty stoked if you came and either asked me to go for a drink or for my number. You could even leave a note if she’s not home and put your first name and apartment number on it. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Small talk with a milf at elevatorExactly. The other commenter who said “that’s why” is clearly a shorty that’s saying she only gave OP the green light because he’s tall. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 03:53 AM |
| 6 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?Your jokes are fire | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 01:53 PM |
| 2 | 7 Things Women Secretly Desire In The Bedroom (BUT Are Afraid To Say)It said “partner”, not “man” or “all men”. Jesus. Get some learning comprehension. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Do girls and women enjoy checking out or staring at men's crotch? ( Expert Female opinions are highly welcomed if there are any ladies in here which I highly doubt 😔😄)As a woman, I can say that I don’t remember ever intentionally checking out a guy’s crotch. Now if there’s something weird going on, it’ll probably catch my attention. But I’m never looking to just scope it out. It’s not a reliable source of information. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Talking about body count???I literally just got engaged a 5’7” razor-bald guy that weighs 135 pounds soaking wet. Know why? He’s brilliant and confident and hilarious, and an exceptional in the sack. I could have easily gone out and found another ripped dude. I’ve dated ripped dudes. I promise you that most of us don’t give a crap. If there’s nothing upstairs, why bother? Btw, I challenge you to go out in public and look at all the couples you see walking around. Hell, you can even do it at a family gathering. I’d bet my … | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Talking about body count???I am a woman. Why do you guys think that we love musicians? Even scrawny-ass, broke-ass shitty divebar musicians? And why do you think the “game” you guys preach of approaching women works? It’s not because you’re ripped, or tall, or loaded. It’s confidence. Once you get your heads out of your asses, you’ll get it. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Talking about body count???It’s not that I don’t like them. It’s that after 46 years on this earth, I know that it’s bullshit. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 12:35 PM |
| 0 | Talking about body count???Then get your ass to the gym if you think being athletic, dominant, and muscular is so important. But you’ll probably be pretty bummed when you don’t get any dates because you’re lacking confidence and a sense of humor. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Talking about body count???No good will come from it, in either direction. Transparency is good, but that doesn’t mean you need to talk about everything. You also know your partner takes a shit, but you don’t need to talk about it. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Talking about body count???Who do you suppose these women are having sex with? You can’t say that straight women are getting laid all the time, yet then act like there’s some disparity in how much men get laid. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | I can’t sleep with a woman because I feel like I’m doing something wrongTreat yourself, friend! Use those sheets every night. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 09:14 AM |
| 1 | I can’t sleep with a woman because I feel like I’m doing something wrongOnce or twice is fine. Anything past that gets weird. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 12:54 AM |
| 21 | I can’t sleep with a woman because I feel like I’m doing something wrongFor real. I guarantee my sheets are softer. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Any ideas on why I got ghosted after 3 messages hereYikes. You sound like an asshole. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Taking girls on expensive dinner datesA neighborhood implies that there are a lot of homes grouped together, like a community, that surround a city. For example, city of milwaukee, which is a pretty average size American city has 30-something suburbs that make up the majority of the population, which is around 2 million people. But you certainly don’t need a population of millions to be able to date successfully. Regardless of semantics, my point was that location is the least of anyones worries if they have massive personality flaw… | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Taking girls on expensive dinner datesA “suburban neighborhood” isn’t a small village. | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Taking girls on expensive dinner datesI love that you think your problem with getting dates is the neighborhood you live in. | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 09:15 PM |
| 0 | What is a clever thing to say to a girl when she says you have a big D?Exactly. Boys. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 01:01 PM |
| 1 | What is a clever thing to say to a girl when she says you have a big D?I guess, if not getting laid is your goal. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 12:57 PM |
| 2 | What is a clever thing to say to a girl when she says you have a big D?This is hella cringey. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 12:38 PM |
| 0 | Girl with holding sex?She’s making sure you’re not there to hit it and quit it. She’s probably had a lot of guys do that to her in the past. | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 02:39 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Right next to Wauyawega. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 09:47 PM |
| 1 | What to do if i make eye contact with my crush?He’s a teenager | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 04:17 AM |
| 3 | What to do if i make eye contact with my crush?Like you’d know. | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Can I ask for casual sex?Nobody wants to see this guy’s tool. | /r/seduction | 20/11/21 02:36 AM |
| 2 | She lost interest out of nowhereNeediness will make a woman dry up faster than the Sahara desert. | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 06:07 AM |
| 4 | Can I ask for casual sex?Maybe he’s friends with OP. The only thing those guys are fucking is awkward. | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 04:54 PM |
| 6 | Can I ask for casual sex?Because of the utter lack of finesse he just displayed. It reminded me of the underpants gnomes on South Park. Phase 1: kiss her Phase 2: ? Phase 3: finger her | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 01:50 PM |
| 6 | Can I ask for casual sex?I literally guffawed loudly when I read the “kiss her then finger her” comment. I’m betting that commenter has never had his hands on an actual live woman. And if he has, it never happened twice with the same woman. | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 05:06 AM |
| 0 | Can I ask for casual sex?Fucking Jeffrey Dahmer vibes. | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 05:04 AM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]Then go to therapy for it instead of carrying it over to your partners. It’s outdated and judgmental and hypocritical AF. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 10:53 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]She wasn’t yours before you met her. Grow up, move on. There are plenty of real problems you can worry about if you’re that bored. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]This is why there’s no point in even asking this question of your partners. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 10:49 PM |
| 1 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.That point is moot (even though quite a few people who are in this sub and live there are saying he’s wrong) . This dude has been given hundred of helpful ideas in the last year or more on his countless posts, but he shoots them all down. Ok, I’m bored with this conversation. Have a good one. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 05:03 PM |
| 2 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.Yep, you got me pegged, bromato. Couldn’t just be that you’re wrong. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 04:06 PM |
| 2 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.Go read his post history and tell me that dude hasn’t gotten hundreds, if not thousands of helpful comments. He’s just making excuses at this point. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 04:05 PM |
| 3 | How do you respond when a girl you’re interested in is complimenting you?Are you really asking that question? See above post. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 05:31 AM |
| 1 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.Women don’t play football , and very few play chess. Get new hobbies that women also enjoy. (Just remembered you’re British; your football is different. But still, find more woman-friendly hobbies) | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 05:15 AM |
| 1 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.Listen, go look at dudes post history. He’s gotten thousands of helpful comments, but he’s still making excuses. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 05:14 AM |
| 1 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.Actually, just make sure your life doesn’t revolve around Reddit. Seems like you’re turning it into a full time job. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 05:13 AM |
| 3 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.Actually sounds like maybe he’s focusing all of his time on Reddit. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 05:10 AM |
| 0 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.Ok, Eeyore. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 05:09 AM |
| 1 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.You know OP? I have a feeling you’re hitting the nail on the head. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 05:09 AM |
| 1 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.Or it’s easy to make excuses. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 05:08 AM |
| 1 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.You can’t see when someone is making excuses? If people don’t talk to strangers there line he says, and only in social situations, then he can put himself in a social situation. Like go to a pub. It’s not that hard to think past the first tiny “obstacle”. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 05:06 AM |
| 1 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.His title is very misleading for someone in their early 20’s. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 05:03 AM |
| 2 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.He’s only like 23. The title is misleading. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 05:02 AM |
| 1 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.So go to a pub or make friends and invite them over. Tell them to bring their friends of whichever sex you’re into. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Most Effective & Creative Quick Openers?Do you know what time it is? | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Most Effective & Creative Quick Openers?*aisle | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 06:33 AM |
| 1 | How do I avoid boyfriend vibes?Then you’re just not meeting the right girl, yet. Mutual attraction is unfortunately hard to find, but worth waiting for. Just continue to be outgoing, interesting , and non-clingy. It’ll happen. | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I avoid boyfriend vibes?EXACTLY! I’m not saying he’s a good guy! I’m saying that how you present yourself is KEY. (And I don’t like him, I’m not interested. But he’s clearly doing something right) | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 03:17 PM |
| 1 | How do I avoid boyfriend vibes?Yes, there is a difference, because you’re not properly understanding the actual situation, so you’re describing something that’s completely off base. And you need to either get the idea of a “high value man” out of your head, or start turning yourself into one. The disdain you have for women and men you deem living a “better” life than yours is palpable. | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | How do I avoid boyfriend vibes?But that doesn’t mean he’s not nice to their face. | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 01:03 PM |
| 8 | How do I avoid boyfriend vibes?Because there’s nothing hot about clingy, needy people. People like to think “oh women don’t like nice guys”. That’s nit true. OP sounds very nice. But he also sounds like an independent person that won’t be a needy energy suck. | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 05:35 AM |
| 16 | How to reply to this shit testIt’s definitely spam. | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 05:44 PM |
| 3 | When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her?This is the right answer, guys. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 11:19 AM |
| 3 | 31 male no girlfriend. Hardly any friends. Lonely AFGet off Reddit, join a gym, and get some hobbies that allow you to socialize with other humans. In person. Not video games. | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 10:10 PM |
| 5 | How to not be a nice guy online?As a woman, I agree. This came off as totally self-deprecating, and made him seem kind of spineless. Not lust-inducing behavior at all. | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.Butthurt? Mary, I am CACKLING at you. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.Are you high? Go back and read his initial comment that I responded to. And read the whole thing. I know it’s like 2 whole paragraphs. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 05:00 PM |
| -2 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.Just because you’ve never been picked up, doesn’t mean we don’t do it. Not only have I picked up men, but I’ve picked up women to be with me and my then-boyfriend. Which is probably one of the most difficult pickup scenarios to pull off successfully. Again, just because it doesn’t happen to a large percentage of men doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. It just means it’s not happening to you. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 04:35 PM |
| 5 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.I think it’s hilarious that you think we don’t know how to hit on men and other women. One of these days (maybe), a girl will smile at you, bat her eyelashes, and tell you she likes your shirt/hair/eyes etc, and you’ll realize that we’re actually pickup masters. We’re just very selective. :) | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 04:04 PM |
| -2 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.I don’t even know how they manage to keep themselves alive. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 03:03 PM |
| 3 | The single most effective way to improve your overall confidence is to take on a leadership role, no matter how small. Stepping outside of your comfort zone and leading others will yield results in other areas of your lifeThis is great advice. Not to mention it’ll put you in situations where you’ll meet new people. | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 07:36 PM |
| 21 | Update to the "25 year old virgin. Have a date and then Netflix and chill" post I made. For some reason the mods removed it.Don’t listen to him. If I got locked out, then had a guy put the moves on me, I’d definitely think he was an ass for taking advantage of the situation. You did the right thing, and you’ll know when the time is right. It’s not when a damsel is in distress (unless she explicitly says it is). | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 01:23 PM |
| 1 | if a girl DM u out of the blue without u even knowing who she is and said that i look like one of her favorite celebrities? what is that supposed to mean?Dan Quayle, you’re on Reddit?!? | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 10:51 PM |
| 5 | if a girl DM u out of the blue without u even knowing who she is and said that i look like one of her favorite celebrities? what is that supposed to mean?Came here to say this. Also, she will make air fresheners out of OP’s testicles. New car scent, obviously. | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.Is Michael McDonald playing in the background? | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.Translation? Where do you live? You said hillbillies in another comment, which is a pretty American term. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.And in 9 months he’ll be paying child support on a kid he didn’t even father. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 01:50 PM |
| 5 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.I mean it’s a pretty iconic piece of American filmmaking. It’s not like you were busted listening to the Backstreet Boys. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.It’s not the approach that sounds like BS. It’s the other comments, like him “making her coochie wet”. This dude sounds like the 40 year old virgin. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 05:36 AM |
| 17 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.He probably impregnated them both with his puffed up chesticles from all the way across the room. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 04:24 AM |
| 18 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.Even if this was a true story, you gave them exactly zero points that might be helpful. But nice try, little buddy. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 01:56 AM |
| 143 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.Getting her coochie wet? Did her breasts also feel like big bags of sand? | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 01:54 AM |
| 12 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.And then the plumber showed up and the funky porn music started. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 01:53 AM |
| 1 | How to attract a specific type...There you go. That’s a criminal offense. It’s so easy. | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 01:26 AM |
| 1 | How to attract a specific type...What does her weight have to do with a pregnancy scare? Nothing. She was just an asshole. They come in all sizes. Wear a condom and pull out, find a girl that’s not into kids (ever or yet) and you’ll be in charge of that. | /r/seduction | 29/06/21 11:45 PM |
| 0 | As a man are low body counts attractive to you?Ha, this is the right answer. | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 03:28 AM |
| 1 | As a man are low body counts attractive to you?So don’t ask! | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 03:26 AM |
| 1 | As a man are low body counts attractive to you?Why are you even asking? | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Is It Normal For Some Women To Be Mean When You Approach?Yes. | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 10:02 PM |
| 28 | Is It Normal For Some Women To Be Mean When You Approach?This is absolutely true. It’s exhausting. | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 08:19 PM |
| 3 | If you’re hung up on one person who is not invested in you, think of the regret you will eventually have over the precious time, opportunities, and emotional energy you wastedI agree. | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 12:01 AM |
| 3 | If you’re hung up on one person who is not invested in you, think of the regret you will eventually have over the precious time, opportunities, and emotional energy you wastedYou’d be wrong if you think guys do this more than girls. Girls totally do this, and do it hard. Hell, some of them even turn into stalkers. Have you never seen a girl sitting there and doodling her name with her crush’s last name on her binder? | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone share their experience from the 90s?Sure, Jan. | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 08:45 PM |
| 3 | Can anyone share their experience from the 90s?Yet you’re ok with wearing us down until we consent to sex. Get off your high horse, neckbeard. | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 07:12 PM |
| -2 | Can anyone share their experience from the 90s?See you on r/relationshipadvice in a couple of years when you’re crying that your girlfriend gave you genital warts and cheated on you, but you just can’t figure out why. | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 03:15 PM |
| -3 | Can anyone share their experience from the 90s?Have fun with your scraps, dude. | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 03:00 PM |
| 6 | Can anyone share their experience from the 90s?I’m glad you’re not from the USA. They’re feeding you some pretty egregious BS wherever you’re from. | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 02:44 PM |
| -9 | Can anyone share their experience from the 90s?Based on the title of the second one, you don’t even have to read those to point out it’s a highly flawed tactic. It’s also immature AF. Quality women don’t play those kinds of games. | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 02:43 PM |
| -1 | Can anyone share their experience from the 90s?I can’t tell if you’re being serious or not. Regardless, that’s coercion at best. | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 01:47 PM |
| -11 | Can anyone share their experience from the 90s?If they’re telling him they’re not interested or they’re already in a relationship. and he’s still bugging them to go out with him, it’s gross. | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 01:33 PM |
| -16 | Can anyone share their experience from the 90s?You could sexually assault someone and not lose your livelihood. What a great time! /s | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 01:05 PM |
| -14 | Can anyone share their experience from the 90s?Gross, dude. Take a hint and leave them alone. | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 01:01 PM |
| 2 | “Do women like muscles?”That guy is a moron. But I cracked up at: third world? No, New Jersey. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 12:54 PM |
| 1 | “Do women like muscles?”I’ve lost 80 pounds since quarantine started, without leaving the house. Stop making excuses and look into calisthenics and a pair of free weights (if you actually want to become ripped, if not, just order a pizza). | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 12:53 PM |
| 2 | “Do women like muscles?”FINISH HIM! Love your username, btw. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 12:50 PM |
| 1 | “Do women like muscles?”This is the right answer. And actually, I’ve dated ripped guys, and it’s kind of creepy how much time they spend thinking about themselves, looking in the mirror, making protein shakes, and at the gym. I’ll pass. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Knees touching when sitting side by sideBoth. | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 12:17 PM |
| 3 | I Never Thought I'd Get Laid After Going Bald.Your loss. Have fun wallowing in your own misery and playing a victim of genetics! | /r/seduction | 03/06/21 01:30 AM |
| 4 | I Never Thought I'd Get Laid After Going Bald.Maybe look into microdosing psilocybin, sad dude. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 10:39 PM |
| 2 | I Never Thought I'd Get Laid After Going Bald.I’ve dated four men who were bald and sexy. Only one of them was a celebrity. Bald is hot. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 02:31 PM |
| 22 | I Never Thought I'd Get Laid After Going Bald.Or we can just normalize balding and dude can lose his hair without losing his confidence. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 02:29 PM |
| 8 | To me, it feels like I can only approach a girl if we meet in a place where that's "socially acceptable", be it at a bar, work or school. How do you approach a girl who's just trying to mind her own business that you met at some random coffee shop?My 6-year old nephew (my sister in law’s son from a marriage before she married my brother) was always highly precocious, and always kind of had a crush on me. He came up to me once and said “Lola, I know how to get a girl to like you. You walk up to her and say, ‘hi, I like your shirt’ and then walk away “. He said “walk away” with this funny, smooth kind of flourish. I cracked up, and thought “this kid is smart as hell, and he’s going to be just fine with the ladies”. Then 5 minutes later, he … | /r/seduction | 01/06/21 09:04 PM |
| 3 | I paid for sex again, and it's making things worseSame thing the other poster said- like too fast, not trying to make me get off, and just not skilled if they do try. I don’t mind giving a guy some pointers on my body here and there, but stating from scratch would take all of the excitement out of it. Plus you can just tell when guys don’t give a shit if you get off or not, and that’s the worst. | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 07:58 PM |
| 2 | I paid for sex again, and it's making things worseWhat country are you from? | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 05:03 AM |
| 22 | I paid for sex again, and it's making things worseTry actually taking them out, and not just expecting them to fall onto your dick. | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 05:01 AM |
| 30 | I paid for sex again, and it's making things worseYou’re not engaging in a relationship because you want to have fun. Doesn’t sound like you’re having fun to me. Also, if you’re not having sex on a regular basis with anyone other than someone who’s paid to fake it, chances are you’re not actually learning anything about how to be good in bed. This may be problematic when you’re actually ready to start a relationship. I’ve dated guys who were crap in bed, and honestly, it can be a dealbreaker. Something to think about. | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Want Her to Come Over? Have More to Offer Than just SexThis dude pulls tail. | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 01:42 AM |
| 7 | My best week so farEverything. Mostly your personality, and whether or not they’re actually attracted to you. Compatibility is based on so many things that have nothing to do with looks; your sense of humor (this is usually huge for me), intelligence, hygiene clothing and grooming, your manners, your attentiveness, conversational skills, and of course to figure out if you’re actually interested in her. Just be yourself, but your best version of yourself, that you wouldn’t be embarrassed if your mom saw how you act… | /r/seduction | 30/05/21 08:05 PM |
| 2 | My best week so farUh, really? You think there might be a lot of Asian girls IN ASIA? Wow, dude. That’s an astute observation. | /r/seduction | 30/05/21 07:42 PM |
| 6 | My best week so farHaha, they’re rolling back to your place on a Jazzy scooter. | /r/seduction | 30/05/21 07:41 PM |
| 7 | My best week so farTake them out for an activity like a museum or the zoo, so they can spend time sussing you out and getting comfortable with you. Doesn’t have to be expensive, but should be something where you can talk and interact a lot, vs something like going to a movie. | /r/seduction | 30/05/21 07:40 PM |
| 5 | Stop thinking , just viber/thanksimcured | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 07:58 PM |
| 3 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightHave you not seen porn? | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 02:22 AM |
| 2 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightWow. Who hurt you? | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 02:18 AM |
| -3 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightI literally just stated what the fuck I’m talking about, and the responses I’ve received. | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 02:09 AM |
| 6 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightThank you, thank you. I’ll be here all week, don’t forget to tip your servers. | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 10:46 PM |
| 8 | 18 M first kiss and first time same night...It’s lower than I thought | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 10:38 PM |
| 5 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightI’ll be sitting next to you in downvote hell. Pass the champagne, would you? | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 10:34 PM |
| 32 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightWomen always get downvoted here. It’s pretty hilarious. The guys here say things like “I don’t listen to women when they say what they want, because they don’t know”. I just hang out, laugh at them, rarely comment, and wonder how many of them will die virgins. | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 10:15 PM |
| 2 | The number one trait you need to get laid.What?! I’m taking about all the guys who seem to think they’re doing a girl a favor by taking them to dinner. They’re always so convinced we’re thinking “oh WOW, a free meal!”, like we can’t buy out own dinner. They need to know we can go to college and have jobs too, without our father’s permission and everything. | /r/seduction | 22/05/21 04:17 AM |
| -2 | The number one trait you need to get laid.It didn’t seem like a question, it seemed like you were trying to be clever. There are a lot of guys who seem to think women are really struggling to feed themselves and desperate for a meal. That’s not the case. A date is to figure out if it’s going to the next level, whether that’s sex, or into a relationship, the friend zone, or never speak to them again. A first date can rewrite the future of your entire relationship. | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 09:54 PM |
| 2 | The number one trait you need to get laid.I like how you thought you needed to tell me that. | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 08:33 PM |
| 2 | The number one trait you need to get laid.My bad, did I need to cite that I’m actually a girl? I guess so, because you don’t seem like you’ve ever actually talked to any of us. | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 08:24 PM |
| 11 | The number one trait you need to get laid.Dating isn’t transactional. Call a prostitute if that’s what you automatically expect from a date. | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 07:53 PM |
| 21 | The number one trait you need to get laid.This isn’t true. A lot of people say yes to dates because they want to find out if they’re actually attracted to someone. Assuming a girl wants to have sex with you because she said yes to dinner is a good way to crash and burn. | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 07:40 PM |
| 6 | That chick with the vacuum [field report]LOL. Leave her on read. You’re funny. She’d actually have to text you for that to happen. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Pro tip I learned from a naturalIt would depend how he delivered it. If he said it in a teasing or facetious manner, or like he’s knows he’s using an obviously awful pickup line, I’d laugh. Unfortunately, most of the time guys who use this are complete strangers that I’ve had zero interesting interaction with. I’d just steer clear of it, since there are multiple women in this post saying they’re tired of this ploy. It’s not that hard to say “are you single?”. | /r/seduction | 21/04/21 06:39 PM |
| 59 | Pro tip I learned from a naturalYeah, this line is SUPER creepy, tired AF, and always a dead giveaway that you’re fishing. I’d rather have to tell a guy “sorry, but I’m taken”, or “Im single” after some mild flirting than hear this old clunker. | /r/seduction | 21/04/21 01:56 AM |
| 3 | The Main Reasons of Why You're still single or NOT good with the ladies - 3 Brutally Honest Truths.But the security comes from taking care of your responsibilities, not how much money you make. | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 12:16 AM |
| 4 | The Main Reasons of Why You're still single or NOT good with the ladies - 3 Brutally Honest Truths.A woman that’s financially supported by a man. | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 10:59 PM |
| 8 | The Main Reasons of Why You're still single or NOT good with the ladies - 3 Brutally Honest Truths.It also varies by age and the type of relationship you’re having. When I was in my 20’s, I really didn’t care if a guy I was sleeping with had a good job, because I didn’t want to settle down with anyone yet. But now that I’m older, it’s more about the idea of security than his actual money. I own my own business, so I do pretty well, but what happens if I have an accident and suddenly can’t work? Or what if I’m just tired of working 20 hours a day, 5 days a week and want to pull back on the rei… | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny.You’re right. I’m going to call all of my girlfriends right now and tell them about how some neckbeards on Reddit got me sooooo upset! | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 02:15 AM |
| 0 | Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny.No, you’re not. Let me get a woman in here to tell you what turns you on. | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 02:10 AM |
| -3 | Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny.Imagine thinking a stranger was triggered because they responded to a comment. Imagine having to sit in a sub and have to be told how to talk to women. | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 01:54 AM |
| -8 | Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny.Mansplain me harder, daddy. | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 01:03 AM |
| -8 | Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny.Just because it might be different than our own behavior doesn’t mean we don’t know what we like. That’s like saying “don’t listen to a boxer on how to throw a punch, because they’ve been hit”. This is the most asinine thought process I’ve ever heard of. I guess we should just sit around and wait for you to tell us what we want? | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 12:35 AM |
| -15 | Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny.Are you for real? You’re ignoring the women, who are literally giving you a road map, and listening to the losers who have never left their mom’s couch? Jesus. You need more help than you’re going to get on a Reddit sub. Have fun with your right hand. | /r/seduction | 12/04/21 11:51 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, when visiting a man's home for the first time what impresses the most?A well-stocked kitchen, with a full set of pots, pans, and cooking utensils. | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 07:10 PM |
| 5 | Stop trying to win women over by being "Nice." Be HONEST instead.Replace the word “nice” with “pushover”. | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | About to go possibly lose my virginity need advice!Maybe OP will come back and fill us in. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 07:23 AM |
| 3 | About to go possibly lose my virginity need advice!Yeah right. A virgin? He’ll beat it up for 15 seconds,30 max. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 04:56 AM |
| 3 | About to go possibly lose my virginity need advice!Wtf? A sedan? What’s small about that? | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditI agree. And THAT would actually be something OP should look into. That’s a much more realistic expectation of sex for the general population. It’s not called vanilla because it’s boring. It’s called vanilla because everyone likes it. | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditOf course I’ve seen it. It’s literally produced and marketed FOR me and people like me. | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditI watch porn almost daily. Maybe you’re so used to seeing it, it doesn’t even register to you. | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 08:28 AM |
| 3 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditRight...Because what would an actual woman know about what women like in bed? | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 04:02 AM |
| 7 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditReally? Porn is so unrealistic. Please don’t tell these guys to emulate porn, and send them out to slap, choke, and spit on every girl they sleep with. | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 02:55 AM |
| 4 | Is it possible to be dominant without conflict?You’re right. Having your shit together isn’t dominance. Not in the context of this post, anyway. | /r/seduction | 02/04/21 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to be dominant without conflict?You don’t have to be fighting to be dominant. Take control of little things, like where you’re going for dinner, and what you’re doing on a date. You have no idea how nice it is to hear a guy say something like, “hey, I made us a reservation at XRestaurant, does 8 work for you?”. When you’re there, ask her what she wants to order, and then order for her. Get off the couch and plan stuff that you want to do with her. Dominance has nothing to do with violence or yelling. It’s quite the contrary. T… | /r/seduction | 02/04/21 09:49 PM |
| 3 | 21M - What am I doing wrong?Stop focusing on the girls you already know. They’ve already categorized you in their mind as friend/not their type/etc. But you CAN let them know that you’re looking for a relationship, and ask them to set you up with their friends. A lot of women love a project like this. And then you should also ask these same female friends to look over your dating app and ask for input on your pics and profile, wardrobe, hair, etc. | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Went downtown by myself!!! Had a blastBut you’re definitely throwing out generalizations. Like “girls don’t like bald guys”. But, believe what you want. More pussy for the confident bald guys | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Went downtown by myself!!! Had a blastOh wait, so you want us to discriminate against men WITH hair on top of liking bald guys? You’re starting to give off very nice guy vibes. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Went downtown by myself!!! Had a blastOh boy, you unearthed one post where you found the comment you wanted. Way to go, Indiana Jones. Fine. Wallow in your self-pity, and then blame it on “shallow women”. Because feeling sorry for yourself is SOOOOO SEXY. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Went downtown by myself!!! Had a blastGo to r/ladyboners and search “bald”. I’m guessing you’re going to be surprised. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Went downtown by myself!!! Had a blastDude. My boyfriend is bald. Went bald as a teenager. We met when we were 21/25 respectively. And I’ve dated 2 other bald guys. We. Dont. Care. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Went downtown by myself!!! Had a blastAbsolutely to the adequacy. That’s why I mentioned bathing and looking put together. All of these other things you mentioned are things that can be learned or acquired, which should give some hope to the average dude who’s bummed because he doesn’t look like Jason Momoa. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Went downtown by myself!!! Had a blastIt shouldn’t come from looks, beyond looking like you bathe and actually care that you look put together. It should come from the things you actually have to offer to a partner. Are you smart, talented, funny, hard-working, well-read, great in bed, loyal? Then BE CONFIDENT. These are the qualities women actually care about. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Went downtown by myself!!! Had a blastYeah, it’s interesting that some guys seem so often to think women only care about looks. But then when they see a hot chick with an average looking dude, they always ask what she’s “doing with that loser”. I promise you that we’re way less into looks than you think, which is why I was encouraging OP to embrace his baldness, and just cut/shave his hair. It’s all about perceived confidence. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Went downtown by myself!!! Had a blastThat’s an interesting way to say it. It’s like the women have no say in it, and are just in relationships because the men want them to be. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 01:08 PM |
| 0 | Went downtown by myself!!! Had a blastAbsolutely. And if you must wear a hat, at least make it a cool beanie or something, and not a ball cap. They don’t inspire lust, and we know exactly why they’re there. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 03:31 AM |
| 8 | Went downtown by myself!!! Had a blastJust an aside, I wouldn’t be too preoccupied with hiding your lack of hair. Most women don’t care. Two of my favorite guys I ever dated were razor-shaved bald, and they totally owned it. Shave the rest of that shit off and go with it. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 03:27 AM |
| 5 | Went downtown by myself!!! Had a blastDo you think that might also be the case for some of these women that you’re not interested in when you’re thumbing through their profiles? | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 03:22 AM |
| 14 | Went downtown by myself!!! Had a blastIt’s interesting that you said you don’t get too many matches with women of the “caliber that you’d actually consider dating”. Where do you think the disconnect is? | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 03:05 AM |
| 2 | I didn’t get her number, but I’m still glad I askedNo, that was an observation. I mean something like “you have pretty eyes” or “I really like your shirt”. I’m not saying you did anything wrong. I’m just giving you a heads up. I have talked to countless people like this, none who I wanted to have any kind of relationship beyond that interaction, and I’m not an “exotic dancer” or whatever it was you referenced in your other comments. Oh, and to answer your question, yes, you have to be that good at lying in a world where guys freak out if you’re … | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 04:18 PM |
| 1 | I didn’t get her number, but I’m still glad I askedListen, these are all things I would do/say/talk to a sibling about. Until she compliments your physical , asks you out, gives you her number, bats her eyelashes, touches your arm, or some other physical manifestation of flirting, you can’t be sure she’s flirting. | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 03:32 PM |
| 2 | I didn’t get her number, but I’m still glad I askedBut hey, now I understand why guys I dare get jealous when I display a modicum of friendliness to strangers. Apparently I was flirting the whole time . | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 03:26 PM |
| 12 | I didn’t get her number, but I’m still glad I askedIt’s not a language thing, and you’re not missing anything. She wasn’t flirting. She sounds like a confident extrovert that likes to joke around. OP is misinterpreting someone of the opposite sex just being a friendly human that wants to make her workday more bearable. | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 06:13 AM |
| 5 | I didn’t get her number, but I’m still glad I askedI really wouldn’t care. If some guy actually came back to my place of employment and made a big deal out of getting shut down, I’d just remind him that I can date/give my number to whomever I choose, and he was just solidified my decision. | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 06:08 AM |
| 23 | I didn’t get her number, but I’m still glad I askedI’ve absolutely used this same excuse on guys (it’s one of the pretty common ones we keep on file), but you tried, and that’s what matters. | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Advice needed: Do women notice your insecurities?We don’t care if you’re skinny. And it’s always the lanky guys that are hung, and we know it. | /r/seduction | 27/03/21 11:13 PM |
| 5 | A tip for an Online World.I stood up and cheered when I read this response. Instagram is totally ruining everyone’s perceptions of what reality should look like. | /r/seduction | 27/03/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationship PART 2 :Not at all. I LOVE line-drying my linens. It smells amazing. The leaving them in the washing machine happens when you’re being lazy/forgetful. Then mold starts to grow, and the only way to get the smell out is by rewashing several times. | /r/seduction | 25/03/21 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationship PART 2 :And a Dyson | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationship PART 2 :The sexual part was a joke. Idk why, but I suddenly had flashbacks to Scary Movie, where Doofy comes out of his room in his underwear and says “I told you not to bother me when I’m vacuuming!”. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationship PART 2 :Was he a hoarder? I only ask because that’s a pretty large item to collect. How many did this guy have? I’m so intrigued. I wonder why vacuum cleaners? I wonder if there was something funny going on with all that sucking after hours. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationship PART 2 :No body spray. They’re always overpowering. Use soap and deodorant in your pits, and you’re good to go. We like how your skin smells. If you want to add cologne, go for it, but spend a little more and buy a cologne that doesn’t smell like a pubescent teen is trying to cover his funk without batting. It doesn’t have to be crazy expensive, just not a body spray (they use chemicals to get their scent). And just dab it on your pulse points, not spray it everywhere. Less is more. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationship PART 2 :There’s a huge difference between air drying and leaving your wet clothes in the washing machine for days. I can’t believe I have to say that. Sounds like some touched a nerve with this post. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 01:46 PM |
| 11 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationship PART 2 :Also: Tell them about how if they don’t put their clothes into the dryer right after they wash them, they’re going to smell like mold. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 05:13 AM |
| 12 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationship PART 2 :Thanks for posting this stuff. The ladies of the world owe you big time. If I ever catch another whiff of Axe, I’ll puke. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 04:22 AM |
| 19 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationship PART 2 :OP, what time are you picking me up on Saturday? | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 04:18 AM |
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