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| – | Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore.Lol my parents have never divorced, U guys are literally insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 01:18 AM |
| – | Why do most guys say their ideal woman is a "good girl" (sweet, loyal, low body count, not super party-oriented)? Is it genuine or just what sounds good?Yes it's changing prob because 60s/70s/80s was way more wild | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore.You didn't answer the question, I'm asking factually, how many obese tall people have you seen with models? And you didn't answer the question because you have seen NONE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 02:13 PM |
| -1 | Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore.Ur like the ultimate keyboard warrior, do U even go outside? How many obese tall ppl do U see with models? It's just cope for short guys with bad attitudes to blame everything on their own height | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore.Happy men who are married and in relationships literally aren't watching Clav etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore.You can ask ugly women to not have kids but obviously noone is gonna stop them trying just like you can ask ugly men to stop complaining about getting no sex on this forum but they will keep trying. Accountability is about someone's OWN actions. You're really dumb to think "women", half the population on the planet, as a group, can control if some ugly lady somewhere is having sex and getting pregnant because a man wanted to have sex with her???? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 01:44 PM |
| – | Why do most guys say their ideal woman is a "good girl" (sweet, loyal, low body count, not super party-oriented)? Is it genuine or just what sounds good?Noone wants to be abused, but it's a huge jump from saying "women who are very casual about sex also dont care about a guy's casual sex history" Vs "women who are looking for a stable relationship and family building want a mentally sound guy." The dudes sleeping with a different person every weekend r all gonna be messed up in the head unless they stop it early. If they are in the 100s, they are literally beyond repair, mentally. Most of them have had drug issues too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore.Ur not taking accountability for not being selectable, this is peak irony. This generation of men is so cooked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore.It's still there. If there are women with trash genetics getting pregnant, it's the very nature of man that got them there. How would they get there themselves?? A man selected them. Finally, through your very example, incels might see it's not "chads taking all the mid women" causing the issues, it's that the bar is on the floor for some men. That's the main reason women can have sex with someone if they wanted to, but men can't. There's just disproportionately more men who "would fk anyone or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 10:03 AM |
| 0 | Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore.Lol, some guy who wrote one sentence with missing punctuation complaining about my literacy level is the real joke here. You are a weak man if you think men should be able to get laid or get a wife just because they exist. It's not communism. This is survival of the fittest and a meritocracy. For the human race, as a woman who brings forth the next generation, why should a woman choose someone inferior to her own judgment/criteria? Look at all the countries with forced marriages where women can'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 04:45 AM |
| -2 | Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore.That's not "dating" Being someone's side chick is not "dating". That goes under sex. You can get sex by paying someone too. There is not constellation of many chads having many side chicks. Most guys that grow up are not doing that. Some guys do that in college or while they are in their 20s because they are just not in the mental space for a relationships. There's not even a main chick then: It's just all "side chicks" or fwb. A more normal or average chad guy is just like a normal average guy:… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Why do most guys say their ideal woman is a "good girl" (sweet, loyal, low body count, not super party-oriented)? Is it genuine or just what sounds good?Yes i mean as long as u havent said ur exclusive, college is a mindfield of sex. I dont think its about ppl dressing “sexy”, theres also the whole sam bankman caroline ellison polycule scandal. Im not saying geeky looking ppl dont have sex, i was just saying the ppl looking for sex who are extroverted go to more parties. Its pretty different for introverts I dont know if i want to have sex after 10 hrs of study thats just me personally tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 09:32 PM |
| -2 | Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore.No i meant that as besides getting more sex, its completely the same They dont have more longterm partners If u wanted random sex u could literally hire an escort Im not saying its right, im saying partner finding is hard for everyone if they tried to get someone better looking than them. Some ppl are literally paying for that with wealth. Its not natural that most ppl would date down. They date ppl similar looking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do most guys say their ideal woman is a "good girl" (sweet, loyal, low body count, not super party-oriented)? Is it genuine or just what sounds good?That's just inevitable if they are all having casual sex. It sucks if one wanted to date her, but if they are banging ppl casually in their college, do they think women don't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Is having sex similar of a good laugh for women?Deadbedroom forum is all about (mostly) dudes and also some women, who MARRIED or committed to someone with a seemingly normal or high libido that turned out to be low libido and cant get out easily from the marriage because they still love their spouse This is not the average couple or this topic would be on a daytime talk show. The whole forum is about some dudes silently suffering because they sont want a divorce but the sex frequency went DOWN after marriage It’s not about “average woman hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 06:23 PM |
| -2 | Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore.Did U ever think not many "mid" women are looking for sympathy fks either? Or being seen as only a hookup? Life is not far. If Ur in the top 10% of looks in your age group etc, U can date alot of ppl and have alot of options. If Ur in the bottom 50%, the ppl U can date are pretty close to the bottom 50%. It's always asymmetrical but just like anything else. If I'm not a millionaire, there's plenty of things I cannot buy. Even if I have enough money to pay for it one time, I simply cannot buy it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 05:05 PM |
| -1 | Most people will find love if they achieve the following things:I would add self confidence too. It's not enough to have hobbies, some guys come off very antisocial | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Question for Women: How does female social hierarchy work for you?Being neurodiverse makes it harder to be in the female social pecking order, it's like being the black sheep. But that has no effect on dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do most guys say their ideal woman is a "good girl" (sweet, loyal, low body count, not super party-oriented)? Is it genuine or just what sounds good?I don't think it's ND ppl thinking "partiers are whores", I don't even think ND ppl are even majority on Reddit. That being said, if U go outside, if U know ppl there's obviously a type of person going blackout drunk and having sex with strangers. And yes that's not every "party person", but the point is, these ppl are more interested in parties in general. Ppl not interested in drinking and sex might be interested in music and be complete audioheads but many don't go to clubs regularly, club is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Is having sex similar of a good laugh for women?No... Laughing is completely different from sex, only similarity is hopefully a person is happy after sex And also no about women being able to live their entire life without sexual desire. I think Ur thinking about asexual ppl that is not the norm or the human race would have vanished. Starting from puberty onwards everyone starts to think about or have feelings about sex and that interest doesn't stop even if U have reasonable conditions to consider: does this other person love and care about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserableIf Ur friends are hating on Ur gfs and u don't agree with what they say, get new friends. It's way out of line Unless they are warning U about manipulation or have news on cheating or something suspicious, any hate on Ur gfs weight or whatever is out of line | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Why do most guys say their ideal woman is a "good girl" (sweet, loyal, low body count, not super party-oriented)? Is it genuine or just what sounds good?Wow that's very crazy tho clubbing for 3 years and not meeting one guy to date? It's not about promiscuous or not, is she really picky or very unattractive? It just seems like some ppl are a bit asexual also. It should be pretty easy to find around least one steady partner within one to a few years. I guess also ppl all have different ideas about promiscuity, dating guys inside the same program is not ideal but if u had a 3+ year degree and u dated exactly 3 ppl is that even promiscuous? Dating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 08:02 AM |
| 2 | Why do most guys say their ideal woman is a "good girl" (sweet, loyal, low body count, not super party-oriented)? Is it genuine or just what sounds good?Yes this is a type of person and a type of behaviour. There are people who go to clubs and bars to have fun with friends, and their are people to go to clubs and bars or tinder etc, wanting to get laid with a stranger they don't have any feelings for. These people are not the same. Like if U go to a dating app hoping to date continuously with someone, Vs someone looking for casual sex all the time until someone sticks, the attitude is completely different. There are cheaters in marriages constan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Why do most guys say their ideal woman is a "good girl" (sweet, loyal, low body count, not super party-oriented)? Is it genuine or just what sounds good?How many women are even on this sub? I have never seen those replies about not caring about a man's past. That's insane. Are they dating ex-cons too? I always see the tired redpill and incel stuff posted by guys, and honestly, if someone's marriage doesn't work out cos they picked some triple digit bodycount lothario guy, it's on them. Never even spoke to a guy who claimed he was in triple digits who wasn't clearly cooked in the head. Even a more normal "slutty when single" kinda dude is still j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 04:36 AM |
| 6 | Why do most guys say their ideal woman is a "good girl" (sweet, loyal, low body count, not super party-oriented)? Is it genuine or just what sounds good?It's a trope. The women U see on the tiktoks and at the parties they are sexually liberal and not very selective. The quiet women just doing their own stuff like reading garden etc aren't the ones appearing on those degen podcasts like "whatever" or done at Ur local club every week | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 12:20 AM |
| 4 | Why do most guys say their ideal woman is a "good girl" (sweet, loyal, low body count, not super party-oriented)? Is it genuine or just what sounds good?Which "women", did Ur mom settle down with a party guy? Literally it's not common in a more upper class setting, it's frowned upon too if the dude sleeps with hundreds of ppl. U don't wanna marry them, cos who knows if the party is ever out of their system? There are ppl who never "partied" like this. I know some ppl do reform but it's high risk low reward. I could also pick a partner who wasn't a total playboy for 2 decades etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 12:18 AM |
| 16 | Why do most guys say their ideal woman is a "good girl" (sweet, loyal, low body count, not super party-oriented)? Is it genuine or just what sounds good?Same for woman. Noone wants their partner to be a philanderer, how is this something radical? The ideal is someone with self control always, and with a strong loyalty to their partner through love and devotion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider a man who has many friends, but has never dated at 25 "socially stunted" ?I'm also a late dater. But I kissed a friend as a teenager actually, but no nudity or any kind of sex. I think the right mindset is when U do it by choice. I had ppl offer to date me and I refused because I grew up with strict parents. Sometimes I felt like I could have gotten in non-sexual dating experience like just having relationships without sex but I think teenagers are pretty hormonal. Honestly, some ppl might appreciate that u haven't dated anyone if Ur at least average looking or better… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 05:07 AM |
| – | Women as a whole are more attractive than men as a whole.There's no real debate there, it's in social and scientific research too that women of a country are rated on average more attractive than the men in their country, by both men and women. That's why generally it's always been men pursuing women and women being more passive and picky in dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 12:00 AM |
| 1 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"I think U wouldn't have included your situation if it wasn't related to the topic, right? Your/her situation perfectly illustrates that there are no women "dying alone" by lack of partnership, as seen by the fact that she can easily find some bloke to bonk her every few weeks. Her situation also shows she's not single due to her following "hypergamy" because she didn't "trade up" if she is literally a single mom, (barring she didn't cheat on her own marriage). Her situation shows that whatever "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Dating isn’t about what you deserve. It’s about what you’re attracted to.If someone has anything thought like "I'm going to change to someone else if better comes along" I would say they don't really have the same concept of "til death do us part" I think for dating it's ok to be unsure and maybe just taking time to see what happens because U didn't promise anything. But any marriage with a priest they are literally reading out the responsibilities, and the reason for matrimony is to love each other and have kids and be one solid family unit. Marriage loses that mean… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 09:04 PM |
| 2 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"Did U address it? The single mom Ur dating is temporarily dating U just like U are temporarily dating her. Are U dying alone too just because U choose to temporarily date? I'm not saying it's a good strategy for the long term, but Ur doing the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 08:55 PM |
| – | Women who prefer men without facial hair are creeps.Running metal over Ur groin is not natural, it's just a preference, come fight me if U want. Same with shaving Ur face: It's a preference, noone forces U to, and noone should force U to. You thought that was your gotcha? 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 06:09 PM |
| 2 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"How is it women with more of this problem? I rarely hear about women not being able to date it's mostly zoomer men. Secondly how old are U? How is dating a single mom casually every few weeks some kind of a brag on the dating market? All the redpill dudes always think single moms are the lowest tier choice. Aside from redpill, generally guys who want long term relationships sometimes do stay away also because they want to have their own biological kids too and then it's sometimes like 4-5 kids t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 02:27 PM |
| 6 | Dating isn’t about what you deserve. It’s about what you’re attracted to.Settling is just like anything tho, U take a job even when it's not Ur dream job. But unlike jobs, technically Ur not supposed to just leave if some better person comes along and Ur already married/dating someone . That's the issue with "settling", Ur never in love with the other person. It hurts the other person. I think if something really is temporary then people should be upfront. Not just silently waiting for a better ship to jump on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Bieng a jerk helps a lotIt really depends who U are targeting. Any disrespect and there's no point even going on dates with them again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 02:22 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemThere's a huge difference. Incel men thinking women reject them due to the women's expectations being unrealistic or finding men uglier than they are. That is not the case. If someone is better looking, generally they look for someone else similar or better looking. This is for both genders. So the feeling of rejection is more with themselves: they are experiencing a normal level of sexual/attractiveness rejection that other people with similar looks experience (not even accounting for personali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 04:20 AM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemI think you're online too much if you think that. It creates bias because online there's more ppl complaining about things in general. Offline, if U obvious outside there's alot of looksmatched ppl happy with their lot. People with healthy amount of self esteem don't usually consider themselves "ugly" or other ppl being "ugly", more over, healthy people generally look ok to good, and then as people become more unhealthy (ie being overweight or over normal BMI), that is decreasing their attractiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 02:25 AM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemWhere is this statistic even coming from or did U make it up? Did U poll married women and ask them if their husband was handsome when they got married or how do U guys believe things like this? I talked to plenty of old ladies in my life and they were always attracted to their husbands. All that changes is both people getting old. Unless you are in a country with arranged marriages, on average MOST women and men marry someone they are attracted to or at least on the same looks level as them. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 10:09 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemHow many of these "only attracted to 5% of people" exist? When U address "ladies", U sound alot like regular incels who think "chad" is sleeping with every woman and that's why they fail at dating. This whole 5% thing is a joke for anyone who goes outside or knows people who are married or dating with guys who are definitely not in the top 5% of males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 05:07 PM |
| – | Women are not attracted to men and all major sides of the gender wars already lend support to the notionU guys gotta get offline. Majority of women are straight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Feminists will do all sorts of mental gymnastics to avoid admitting that women objectify themselves whenever it's convenient, and would rather demonize male sexuality instead.Is dressing sexy as an adult by choice, objectification? To me, it seems like Ur conflating different things: Male gaze - in classic feminism, some feminists saw dressing to impress or attract the male gaze as a form of submission or oppression. In "modern" feminism, this isn't really the case due to pro-sex work, pro-choice in what to wear etc. What I find to be clear cut cases of objectification are always done by the other person: If someone said "all woman should be in the kitchen", that's a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Why do heterosexual women often have problems with not wanting to have sex?I think it's natural for most women not to want it all the time. I think I became more horny only when I wanted to have kids. I didn't really feel that horny in my 20s even tho I liked sex. But didn't have as much drive. Men have less biological cost to pregnancy because they are not the one carrying the child, and technically could leave, even if theres legal repercussions to that. But biologically, it was always the women who had to be more careful with sex than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 11:08 PM |
| 1 | If you want kids, why?There's nothing wrong with that, I think biological we are geared to bond with our children and to want to have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 09:31 PM |
| 2 | If you want kids, why?Yes, U can decide against your biology. But why would it be "something wrong with them" if they procreated? Literally our entire existence as a collective is dependent on some people who want to raise lil babies to adulthood or you wouldn't be here at all. The thing that's crazier is the minority of people who think it's normal to not feel any kind of drive towards nurturing for a child. It is not normal for everyone to feel that way or we wouldn't exist at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 09:30 PM |
| 2 | If you want kids, why?OP is asking if the biological nature of women and men is "something wrong with them" 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 07:38 PM |
| 1 | If you want kids, why????? "Why do people want children" is this even a question? Would U exist today without a woman who wanted a child? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 10:11 AM |
| -1 | Men, why are you surprised that attractive women are attracted to attractive men af/bb? And should women feel the same?Good looking men aren't any more likely to kill U, if anything, people with good looking symmetrical faces are less likely to be psychos Look at every mugshot of the latest killers. When is there a good looking guy like? Very seldomly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:43 AM |
| 8 | Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it?I haven't seen anything but mostly redpill dudes posting incel theories | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Are you really break up/stop dating at time X or start to have sex?I think it's only some women using some kind of dating strategy or manual doing that. Maybe they worked out that works for them I guess? I imagine most people want things to happen organically but for women it's slower | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 02:34 AM |
| 0 | Do you feel any empathy for men?I mean U get shut out of dating so it's not that easy. Unless U date someone else unpopular | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 02:24 AM |
| 11 | Do you feel any empathy for men?Yes. I mean I see them as people. U know, it's hard to be unpopular. Many people feel lonely for different reasons: from trauma, from being unpopular, from being weird/different/geeky, whatever. Just because some of us do well in dating, doesn't mean we don't understand loneliness or rejection in other situations or in the past | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 01:30 AM |
| 2 | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.Dude the more i see these posts in “purple pill” the more i think posters here just swallowed the bitter/black pill Normal men and women like consistency and clarity, as much as they can get out of dating, besides very early on when people can be meeting different people. Even then, a man or woman who really likes u will be interested in talking to u everyday, seeing u more etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 10:51 PM |
| 0 | The real dating issues, from the Redpill POV, is basically “We want women who ignore red flags, but sadly, those women still have standards when it comes to sex”.His gf is an abuse victim and yeah, theres more psychopathy in successful men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 05:53 AM |
| 1 | The real dating issues, from the Redpill POV, is basically “We want women who ignore red flags, but sadly, those women still have standards when it comes to sex”.How is his gf ok with this? Hes just a cheater | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 05:01 AM |
| 0 | What do women & feminists mean when they say "Men need to do years of extensive inner work & therapy, heal their trauma's and sort themselves out before they can begin dating and relationships with women"?I don't think that's the case unless they are very bitter from previous relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Abused women are trash teir?Even adults. Some people are just vulnerable. They have been in some kind of previous abuse. If they fall for someone's manipulation it doesn't make them "bad" people. These are people who need therapy. I don't know who u mean by "ppd women", which purple pill women where??? It's not from me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 11:42 PM |
| 6 | Abused women are trash teir?Do U know how psychotic U sound? So Ur going to tell for example, child victims of Epstein they were bad ppl cos they fell into trafficking? People who are abused usually do not choose this. U can call them vulnerable and even traumatised, but usually not "bad people " This sub itself is turning into trash tier because of all the redpill and incel dudes using it as a soapbox for their ideas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 09:18 PM |
| 1 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsWell by that token the "best" option is to just steal, and U see how that turned out in America. Turned some cities into shit holes. Instead of thinking what is best FOR YOU, for society to function, U need some degree of belief in justice, fairness and caring for others. It's the lack of morality that turns places into shit holes. Even U get the "casual sex" U wanted, by the time Ur looking for a relationship, U realise Ur part of fking the ecosystem and now ppl are using YOU and screwing u ove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 10:35 PM |
| 1 | If you were single could you really resist the interest of a high value man?There's like prob 100 pro hockey players on Tinder in my city just from browsing. If "high value man" just means someone who earns decently, how does that really affect me in any lasting way if it LIKELY leads nowhere? I mean it's very easy to "resist" if you boil it down to it pretty much all being the same. The people who want casual sex (both men and women), mostly look for attraction. Because what would someone else's money do for U? At most a free dinner if Ur just having casual sex or ONS.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 09:10 PM |
| – | Modern dating is an androphobic gynocracy and it will only keep getting worse"androphobic" Am I afraid of androids or androgenous ppl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 04:18 AM |
| – | Are men more likely to accept a woman’s more promiscuous past if he’s had less experience?You claimed the "norm" from 500-1950 was for a man to lose their virginity to a prostitute. This is not the norm ANYWHERE in the world. A minority of men do this. U cannot find a scrap of evidence to support this claim and U dare accuse me of poor English? You are literally being a dummy intentionally or unintentionally... Im just blocking you because U can't understand the difference between "availability of prostitutes" and "everyone was using one". Just literally too dumb to not conflate this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 10:12 AM |
| – | Are men more likely to accept a woman’s more promiscuous past if he’s had less experience?I think Ur underestimating how poor peasants were. One ChatGPT query debunks U entirely, just check: "did all men frequent prostitutes in year 500" "Most people lived in rural, agrarian communities where commercial prostitution was rare or nonexistent. Prostitution required cities, trade hubs, or military camps—none of which most men regularly accessed." "Many men simply could not afford to pay for sex" It's year 500 for god's sake. Anyone using logic could answer that, but U continue to rant of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 09:23 AM |
| – | Are men more likely to accept a woman’s more promiscuous past if he’s had less experience?Peasants are too poor this sounds totally made up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 06:26 AM |
| – | Are men more likely to accept a woman’s more promiscuous past if he’s had less experience?It's not her "final form" for many it's a grift | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 05:25 PM |
| – | "The bar is in hell"... yeah for attractive menI only date attractive men and never met one with skidmarks in their pants or didn't shower. I only had one stealth-alcoholic bf on a mental health decline who started not brushing his teeth everyday which was gross. Did not kiss him anymore and broke up. But the point is, when U point out bad hygiene it's obviously not the most social dudes, it's gonna be the LEAST social dudes who meet the LEAST women because they are inside alot. It's gonna be the guys with mental health issues also, who have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 05:13 PM |
| – | Are men more likely to accept a woman’s more promiscuous past if he’s had less experience?"better people" in Ur example was literally U saying "gorgeous" or "sluts. Your example is ridiculous because real trad people have values. Obviously there is a certain amount of forgiveness, but U are choosing someone to be the mother of your children, if they haven't changed their behaviour then how are the acceptable? For example, majority of men would not wish to have a child with Bonnie Blue despite that shes better than average looking because she's a psychopath. No in Asia, a " single cas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 04:35 PM |
| – | Are men more likely to accept a woman’s more promiscuous past if he’s had less experience?"the norm" in year 500 without latex condoms, like did U want to catch syphilis??? It was absent in Europe till late 15c but in the Americas it was there for 9000 yrs or more.💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 Obviously it was not "the norm" for the average bloke but there has always been SOME men frequenting prostitutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Are men more likely to accept a woman’s more promiscuous past if he’s had less experience?What's up with "trad" guys accepting promiscuous wives? Oh wait, it's cos they are not trad 💀💀💀💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Are men more likely to accept a woman’s more promiscuous past if he’s had less experience?Yeah this is the general point of view. Sometimes some stories pop up where a virgin man wants to "hire an escort" to "learn how" and we're all like noo that sounds pretty terrible 😭. Loveless loss of virginity is not exactly recommended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 07:05 AM |
| 5 | To many women, male attention is low value.Why is there so much of this incel/blackpill stuff on this subreddits nowadays? If it was a problem, it would be a problem since the dawn of time: Dudes are horny, dudes look at attractive women. So what? Ofcourse the attention is cheap and plentiful when you are attractive. This has been happening since the dawn of time, what are U going to do, lead a movement for men to stop looking at women? Everyday U guys sound like U want Sharia law and women fully tested up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Who deserves love and chad treatment? Are they mutually exclusive?No I understand why U think a certain way if U experience rejection after a date. What I'm trying to say, is most women would not go on the date with a guy they are already not attracted to by pictures, video chat etc. So the looks factor is moot if Ur already ON a date with them, is what I mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:56 PM |
| 0 | Who deserves love and chad treatment? Are they mutually exclusive?Ur assuming alot of stuff like the incel theory dudes do. Looks are different from personality. Good looking people can go on a date or several and end up hating each other or getting pissed off by behaviours also. It has nothing to do with looks. U have low self esteem if you think women were bored of Ur hobbies and interests due to Ur looks. They were prob not interested in Ur hobbies if U got far enough to be on a date with them and it had nothing to do with your looks. I would not go out wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Who deserves love and chad treatment? Are they mutually exclusive?No because then I have to be the one providing something more to compensate for being "kinda mid". They have to like me for something special, or else why wouldnt they date someone as attractive as them? My personality has to suit them more or why would they knowingly go for someone less physically attractive? I mean this as in, physical attractiveness doesn't determine personality or sexual chemistry. Some good looking women might have zero libido or have grating personalities. Some physically … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Who deserves love and chad treatment? Are they mutually exclusive?That's obvious. More attractive men and more attractive women get treated better by the PUBLIC in general, not particularly in relationships. When U come into relationships, U should more or less be equal in overall "package". U might be better in some things or aspects than the other person, but any relationship where one person "carries" and other person doesn't contribute enough emotional or physical support, is just going to cause resentment. Yes, if Ur gal doesn't even like U as much as a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 11:06 PM |
| 0 | Who deserves love and chad treatment? Are they mutually exclusive?No I don't know about it. Most men I date are considered above-average looking. I expect average-looking men to date average looking women, unless they are rich, talented, funny, charming, or have some special skill or personality that appeals to a woman who is better looking than him. If you want someone to think you're special, it shouldn't be hard if that person actually appreciates you??? If they don't appreciate you, why are you dating them??? Guys are not "a dime a dozen" unless they have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 10:51 PM |
| 0 | Who deserves love and chad treatment? Are they mutually exclusive?It sprouted out of angry latent closeted women hating dudes like Andrew Tate to demoralise you. The majority of marriages isn't even like "oh I can't marry chad, guess ill marry some chud" Most people mate ASSORTATIVELY. It doesn't take long to work out how "attractive" U are in general, and people tend to date others of similar attractiveness. They are not really fking/marrying up or down, apart from some old billionaires/multimillionaires buying younger wives. You can argue some "chad" would r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Who deserves love and chad treatment? Are they mutually exclusive?What is "chad treatment", does that mean women are flirting or nicer to a good looking guy? Isn't that exactly the same as what men are like with women? Your post reads like a normal incel thread "women fk alphas, marry betas" If U are "the beta" here, why are U agreeing to marry a woman if U think they are "dreaming about the chad they fked in the past"? Like Ur literally sadomasochistic if U thought that and married someone. Not everyone out there is dreaming about ppl they fked in the past. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 09:10 PM |
| 2 | As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better.Agree, this is much better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you genuinely expect your partner to lay down their life for you if push came to shove?Because that's relevant. I expect the physically strongest member in the family to defend the weaker ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 08:42 AM |
| 4 | Women date men like they buy fixer upper houses and then act shocked when the walls do not rearrange themselvesIs this purple pill page just full of angry men who don't want to post on redpill cos it's too tacky or what? Who are U even referring to? Yeah some ppl strongly want to change other ppl and it's not good but this is not a woman/man thing per se. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Do you genuinely expect your partner to lay down their life for you if push came to shove?Yeah the kid is not a shield 😭😭😭😭 what kind of parent does that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you genuinely expect your partner to lay down their life for you if push came to shove?I don't have one at the moment, but yes I want to expect them to save me and their children. I actually prefer if they have to choose, to save our children first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Do you genuinely expect your partner to lay down their life for you if push came to shove?It's not bad to want that. Everyone wants someone who would save their children and wife even if they were risking their own life. Noone wants the guy protecting only himself in face of danger (huge meme went round of a baseball game where the guy didn't protect his kids from the projectile and just cowered and covers his own head, not a good look) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:45 PM |
| 0 | Do you believe women have higher income standards now?Inflation. I don't think anyone is seriously asking for 150k flat out for just hanging out/having fun, but to have a family, I think ppl earning 60k each parent with 2 kids are already are in a crunch. 150k expectations sounds like a woman who wants to be a stay at home mom. So the total income is similar to the 60k each couple who still need to scrimp and save too to make it work. Depends if Ur living in a major city or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 01:19 AM |
| 1 | If women were not into men, there wouldn't be so many women being side chicks and humiliating themselves for a man"so many" And it's like what %? Do U know anyone who's someone's mistress? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyWith Eminem he's talking about murdering his wife too. Which pretty much went too far but I'm sure a lot of is both satire and reality, when the rappers say they are misogynistic and a d*ck because they are. In blind items, it said he used to have a underaged groupie he had sex with and one time his manager had to stop him inviting her over cos she was underaged in Sweden. Another story, the dude from 30 seconds to Mars was also sleeping with underaged groupies, whole bunch of them talk on a for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 01:41 PM |
| – | What romantic gestures would you like to receive from a person you're dating?Yeah I don't think relationships last if one person needs to feign interest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 01:18 PM |
| 8 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.Yeah Bonnie is hated cos she is a groomer and doesn't promote safe sex, like doesn't use condoms for oral sex and doesn't know STDs can pass thru the mouth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 06:48 AM |
| 5 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.OF has nothing to do with feminism. Prostitution is the oldest trade. The fact zoomers cannot tell the difference between "women's rights" and OG feminism (anti sexualization and suppression of women) makes me SMH. Some guy like u comes up everyday online. Owning the means of production is from MARXISM aka communism, like wtf mate. Not every ISM is the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 06:45 AM |
| – | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societyNah men are literally more radical now than in the past have u talked to a zoomer male? That Nick Fuentes Andrew Tate stuff is infecting their heads Tik tok is psywarfare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 12:50 PM |
| 0 | A Swedish NGO released a dating manual aimed at lonely menAre they physically sick? I haven't found any "sexually ambivalent" men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 01:27 PM |
| 1 | A Swedish NGO released a dating manual aimed at lonely menFind me a non-horny man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 07:18 AM |
| 2 | A Swedish NGO released a dating manual aimed at lonely menFind me a "sexually burnt out" man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 06:19 AM |
| 2 | A Swedish NGO released a dating manual aimed at lonely menWomen are less lonely because they don't want sex as much as men do on average. Guys are overall less social, so gfs and wives are providing emotional, sexual and even physical support like cooking and creating parties and get goetjers that men are less likely to initiate. So the men without partners feel lonelier the older they get | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Women who wear makeup have no trouble finding dates. Men who are bulky have no trouble finding dates??? Does bulky mean muscular men? Have u been on twitter? Of course some body builders have trouble too cos it's not about their body it's their own attitude and personality and who they are looking for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?Personal example of every "older man" run in: 10 : old shopkeeper touching my face, unwanted touching/harassment. 13-15 in chatrooms: dudes in mid 20s or in their 30s tried to flirt/groom 16: sexual harassment in job interview from an older guy. Sexual harassment in job from some guy similar age 18 similar thing: Men in late 20s or even 30s trying to build a virtual relationship. 20s: some 60+ businessman saying he had a job offer but was just a trick to get me to meet him in a bar 30s: random s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 04:41 AM |
| 0 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?I mean if you're a normal, non-abusive guy, obviously it's normal to think that people are freely associating. But any abuser and also any parent would know, that teens and young women are targeted more (also teen boys and young men by gay men). The perpetrator is usually male, and they look for youth for looks and youth for naivety about the world and relationships (what's healthy vs what's abusive) so they can manipulate the younger person. Anyone older can do this, but just factually and stat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?Biologically and culturally more orientated towards violence and sexual and physical abuse. It's just more common. Look at rape and murder gender distribution statistics for perpetrators and victims. Also testosterone at too high levels, and/or genetic predispoton can cause more violent tendencies. The rest, I think it's the fact that having physical power imbalance always makes it more dangerous. In a "younger man older woman" relationship, the younger man might be mentally less mature but phys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?Because less women are sex pests and abusers? What's the fear for a young man dating an older lady? I guess maybe only financial abuse or more psychological kinda abuse, but u can see stats where men are the biggest perpetrator of abuse. So if I had to choose between being a younger man dating an older woman or a younger woman dating an older man, women are statistically less rapey. 100% feel safer as a younger man dating an older woman overall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.I barely hear anything about women complaining they are not approached until they are old or not very attractive because these "old dudes" didn't get the memo on not aporoaching women and they still do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 12:50 PM |
| 3 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menWho is gaslitting them into believing that? It's true some ladies sleep with uglier people even casually but it's hard to get a count of who does that. It seems fairer uncommon. U can assume it's tipped more to the other side: More attractive guys are getting more offers or acceptance of casual sex from women than less attractive guys. Guys on average are looking for casual sex more than women do, which means there's a demographic imbalance. So if U assume on average there's all degrees of attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:24 PM |
| 10 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menI'm not swiping on men any differently during ovulation, and even when I'm more horny, my standard doesn't drop, I can talk to someone i like. There's always someone I like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:02 PM |
| 22 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menNot wanting to have sex with someone they don't have any interest in, doesn't make them "demisexual". Demisexual is a pretty new term for something that is very common in women: Not wanting to have sex with someone U don't have any emotional interest in. Vs yeah not wanting a one night stand with an average looking bloke, what is there to understand here? Women could get that any time if they wanted it, they do not have the same testosterone levels as men, they can also get pregnant when biologi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:52 PM |
| – | Truth is, lnceIs are probably the last hopeless romanticsThat's a zoomer thing, the "having sex before holding hands". They watch too much TikTok and OF. Incels aren't "the last true romantics" like some Kevin Costner movies. There are plenty of romantics I think the zoomer gen just got messed up by social media | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 05:21 PM |
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