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Abroad in which country?
/r/seduction18/07/26 08:44 PM
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I live in Paris, never gamed in Dubai. But I understand what you say. So, we have too nany tourists, but most are scare, because Paris it's notas it is portrayed, it's full of weirdos, scammers and thieves. So when you approach, they often get scared or with shields up. Because they have their motives to be wary, if they come from damn far. Those tourists who want to bang, will talk to you. So if you are into banging it's good, they leave after that and never return, however they get free rent i…
/r/seduction18/07/26 08:25 PM
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Who says it's bad? You still alive and nothing lost. It's just a period life. What's stopping you from going to events and or dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 10:16 PM
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To wake them up .. it'll not gonna pay their rent or bills
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:59 PM
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Tell her to go to her guys
/r/seduction22/02/26 09:53 PM
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All are men to women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:59 PM
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Yes man! but with a point and not friend to friend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:57 PM
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I let her know my intent and talk - time is expensive for me. Kinda weird to shift from friends to dating (for me)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:55 PM
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Well, we don't have contract with those ones. If yoi seek anything, you'll find for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:36 PM
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Who cares? let people think whatever they want, the caravan moves on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:52 PM
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Waste of time, if no dating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:16 PM
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Neither I, this just excuse from weak people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:15 PM
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Because bad boy does not give a damn about them. He just does what he wants
/r/seduction20/02/26 08:04 PM
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In West it's a more individualistic culture, they are not that open to new people, except social circles but more focused on work and being alone. There is also a lot pf pills usage. In East, people are more open, welcoming, friendly. They are more pro living life and pro family. Yet if you betray them, you might get puncher in the face. I lived in both sides
/r/seduction19/02/26 01:21 PM
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Younger women will be attracted to you
/r/seduction14/02/26 12:58 AM
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Good, that you know what trauma is. Than explain don't say that you know
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:24 PM
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Enlighten me then. For sure I'm not gonna let people disrespect me but scold them. In your case, you can let them disrespect you as much as you want and not put limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:05 AM
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Scolding is not abuse. Or when people do stuff which affects you and you correct them to take accountability for their actions is also not abuse. Do you even understand what abuse is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 10:26 AM
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We not obligated to have sex all the time. And it's nothing bad to call out the negatives of people for their own good and to not affect others. To not hurt themselves and others in the long run. So nothing gross. But those negative women(not you) have to be called out. Like this we all discuss and change. Reality does not care about feelings, it comes no matter what for everyone eventually. I see if women call the negatives of men, it's no problem
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:40 AM
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Say what you want but it's selfish what you say. And if you are not willing to fc your man you're in relationship with and to keep him happy, but choose to cheat with ("choose whom to have sex with" from yoir statement) then wonder why that man will leave you and why your relationship will not work and why he'll loose interest in you. Nobody said that women don't have a say. When you're not in relationship do what you want, fc who you want. It's your life. But don't put people in relationship to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:05 AM
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Many men and women have no experience in choosing... you gain it with time. But fathers can tell you fast if that person is good or not for you, on the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:17 PM
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Take it as you want, maybe it's competing, maybe it's not. Who has time to think about this. The best competition is with myself. At the end of the day, other people have other strengths and weaknesses so they might be stronger or weaker at certain things than me... my take is listen to your gut, see what you want inside you and do that, so let other people do what they want, not gonna be a certain way to compete with them, it's not my direction. I don't evem know their direction and no use to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:58 PM
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I will still be masculinre, hit the gym, dress well no matter if I want to go or not to approach, because I don't want to look like garbage in the world. And when i go to approach you for example, I'm not gonna come to look like garbage. Will look good, but will be myself as I am, not putting a front. We men also want a better life for ourselves, so that's the motivator why we do this. So if it helps with women, good, that's a byproduct of it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:31 PM
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Compete for whom? Compete for a women with other men? That looks crazy, because it's not a job interview. What men only has to do it's to speak and date her, so if she choses to connect with him, then it's perfect, you both continue. And if she chooses not to, to reply only if she feels, then why bother if it's not reciprocal?(it telegraphs that she's not serious, but just testing the waters or maybe not interested). So, a man has to open the discussion and meet her IN THE MIDDLE and not to go o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:19 PM
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We can't neglect the reality... wait 5 more years 😀 You don't know what men are experiencing, put yourself in our shoes... we kinda got tired of this that we watch our business
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:46 PM
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It's feminism which reframes it as empowerment and tell women to objectify themselves as sexual objects on social media. All this comes from women to put themselves in the faces of men and in male spaces: "yea see my tits or how I suck". that they don't let men chill to do their own jobs. No man asked them to do this or to come here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:59 AM
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No clue then why relationships don't work in the west. That only means that the lady wants to enjoy the marriage benefits without no longer opening the legs for her man, or controlling sex. And even the man does not want to fc or has time to fc everyday. Looks selfish and controlling in nature and every mam that's in such relationship should leave that woman. "Women is a property" is a thing of islam and it means that you can sell her and use her as an object, but I hardly believe that men in US…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:58 PM
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The man also has to provide sex to his lady. I don't know how it is where you live, but here in Eastern Europe if you don't fc your lady, she eventually gets frustrated and leaves you. And do you go in relationships to withold sex? Then you will loose your man, he will try to find sex somewhere else. And as a man, I also put effort and time to fc my women, when I could just relax instead. So, I don't understand what you mean by sex slavery, or where you got this term from? How many relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:37 PM
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"Generations of forced servitude" but the man was not forced to protect the house, provide resources and stability? When she only had to keep the house clean and cook food. I don't think it's correct to deny man's part. She seemed taking it for granted
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:58 PM
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Both men and women are the same when they are in their hoe phase at lest. Don't look only at the men. At least women hide it, yet they are for a while with you, then later they jump on another D and never respond to you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:07 PM
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You are not all the women. In my experience as a man, they want to be treated like whores and used and deatroyed. Idk, but the dating nowadays is fcked... a lot of hurt people who hurt people. The sexual desire is recuring, so no need to use it as a way to cover pain. What about building a connection, a happy family than we rely on phantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:29 AM
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Texting matters too, I do it since 20 years and I know exactly what to say and what they feel just by them shooting text. But what I see, most population of guys text is very bad. Compared to you, I tried online dating, but it's not really for me - I don't like the quality on apps... yet, I do cold approach only. There is truth in what you say, but I agree, they ghost then, which sucks ass sometimes. Which city you based in?
/r/seduction06/02/26 07:52 PM
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Misogyny and missndry is not when you belittle women and men? Red pill is about seduction and revealing the truth. Truth is not welcomed by everyone, so it can look misogynytic also if delivered with bad intention. People too fragile nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:07 PM
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Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:38 PM
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Same for women here. Get out of reddit guys, life is different and don't take advice from reddit to fc your relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:11 PM
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I leave women alone no worry, I keep the good 20% ones around who bring value. I just seen and learned the reality, and share it, so other men don't get burned by this shit too that's nowadays in women.. for them to learn too to stay away from them and go for the good ones. Men are simple, they want a family, loving wife/gf, sleep, eat, work, fc, beer from time to time, silence and that all (and if he has it, he'll move the world for you, if not, he will not give a flying shit for anything) I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:04 PM
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Yep, women judge, test and all leave at one point for no reason. No real interest from their side nowadays to build something serious, or to build a family. That's like 80% of them just to ride the D for a while and then they dissapear, then you find a new one and the script repeats again. Few ask for relationship and stay eventually. Checked out on caring or putting any emotion at all. It's not like 10-15 years ago. Don't worry was the same thing when I didn't and when I had a job. I banged mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:41 AM
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Good, that's different then. At least don't be bad with people for free, just say you have a bf and that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:01 PM
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I think I have hudreds of rejections, but we don't care., it's part of the dating game. Same shit when job hunting. At least, I had the balls to do it I remember a brutal rejection from a lady for no reason, I didn't care and just walked my way. Then after some distance she sees me again and comes to me to speak and say sorry that she was bad... I said no worry and kept walking.. she was good looking but if she chose to reject me, in my mind, I was fc it, I don't want to talk now, have better st…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:59 PM
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I assume you both take care of the kid. Why do you put him into this since you don't want to give sex anymore? That's selfish, and will push him ro cheat. If you want to keep your guy, give him sex and care for him too, or he'll dissapear with time and will no longer provide for you. You both have to think about kid, and both of you..You seem to think at yourself only..Then why might he obligated to provide for you then? People nowadays are too selfish... and think that that kid needs both a mot…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:00 PM
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I don't know, but when I talked to ladies online and dated them, were very weird dates. So I no longer want to use this online thing, feeling more heathy in person, I can vibe. On cold approach, if I am curious about a ladry, I can go and I can have a normal conversation if she wants to stop and from there we see both if we leave it there or plan to date and enjoy. Social interactions were never weird. 10-15 years ago beford when all these apps started to take over, ladies and guys were all cool…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:51 PM
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Lol super bad advice. Cold apprach is healthy and you get to see fast if you match, or leave. Dating apps or reddit is weird to meet people to date and damage the self esteem. You speak to thel onlinez but when you meet face to face, you see you don't like them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:37 PM
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As a guy who dated a lot, I understand you. It's hard even for me to be seen with many women during the year, people get very curious, of my shoe number or if I have balls inside the D, and it annoys me when they start giving damns about my life. In secret is the best, but sometimes you just wish to grab a coffe or do a bbq than just staying in the room together. They also expect to move already with her, so this is also a lot if pressure lol not cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:23 AM
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Oh, ok, so what the acronyms stand for?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:24 AM
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What is AA?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:10 AM
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Friends with benefits works, if you both cool. Just normal friend does not work, unless the guy is gay or gives up to parts of himself. If the guy is straight, men don't really need anything from women. So while the guy looks for dating/sex(even considering it in secret), is the only real reason why he becomes friends with women. And the women looks for free male support, energy and attention, instead of dating partner. Conclusuion: - men-women friendship: women wins free support, men waits and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:00 AM
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This is the best decision to get back in game, considering the instability of women nowadays
/r/seduction06/01/26 12:22 PM
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Ignore slowly
/r/seduction05/01/26 10:43 PM
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She brings value, she should be kept.
/r/seduction05/01/26 06:39 PM
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Keep doing, it will go well then
/r/seduction04/01/26 09:27 PM
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Do you go out, or even speak with ladies?
/r/seduction04/01/26 08:46 PM
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But look at the quality they have... that must be depressing and frustrating for them. And if a guy they want does not want to talk to they, they can't fo anything at all with all their b00bies and kitty
/r/seduction01/01/26 05:42 PM
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You can have more in terms of quality and preference than any women if you actively seek. Women have lot of qantity... most who want to fc only
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:22 AM
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Yes, fix your life and the reat will fall in place. Fixing can give you good energy
/r/seduction31/12/25 05:30 PM
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Puts stupid stuff amd fears in the head. They are more insecure than normal people, but put a much bettee façade
/r/seduction30/12/25 08:15 AM
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They can call you whatever, not your job to care. I've been called cute, handsome, hot by all the girls I slept with... these seem either validation, either manipulation to me... not sure, but it has no use to get my value validated
/r/seduction28/12/25 01:14 PM
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We can't give you specific advice if we don't see you or know you. Therfore, can't see where you lack
/r/seduction22/12/25 10:48 PM
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Not every, but just women who I would date.. I don't like them all
/r/seduction22/12/25 10:32 PM
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I not hate or judging, just analysing realitically what an open relationship means. People can do whatver they want. However good reseach.. I'm pretty advanced too at social dynamics and was curious about wgat you write. Anyway, our ideas don't count, at the end of the day you do what you want
/r/seduction22/12/25 01:10 PM
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A lot of me marry women because they want to build a family and that they like the personality of the women they take. Sex can be found anywhere, but not the connection
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:21 PM
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That's not setious relationship if you are open. That's like close friendship
/r/seduction22/12/25 12:18 PM
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Dating apps are like this generally... another match pops up while you do those messages
/r/seduction19/12/25 11:42 PM
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It's normal for both men and women to become lonely as they both age. There's no rocket science, but just the life. People have jobs, mortgages, families, kids or some pursue a romantic relationship to build a future. Some people relocate to other cities/countries for better opportunities so you can't keep the contact as much like you used to. People also have different priorities to pursue, different responsabilities which consume their energy and time. Even when you have a relationship, you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:04 AM
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That's the best decision that you can do on dating
/r/seduction18/12/25 10:42 AM
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Have you ever heard about the block button? You don't need to interact with every person who comes your way. Even friends are to be chosen
/r/seduction17/12/25 09:29 PM
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Sorry, I was not literal about buying coffee to her... I didn't expressed well my idea
/r/seduction16/12/25 12:50 PM
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That's a straight recipe for failure. In my case, I had girls who payed for trips and they were the most attracted doing this, but when I payed for their coffe, they started to loose attraction slowly. Women have changed niwadays, they have their own money, so not worth to fall into this trap to pay for them. Everyone pays their own shit, period. You are their object of bragging nowadays. You're not buying a woman, you date her! You're not a boomer to buy women, you fc them and watch your own li…
/r/seduction16/12/25 07:35 AM
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What about habbits, connection and personality? Money won't help, unless she's on interest. But when they finish? Relationships are how you make them to be!
/r/seduction16/12/25 05:29 AM
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Because men don't want women fced by all the city and when you go out with her, some random dude that fcked her to recognize her. Better stay away, because it comes with drama, games at it will hurt you eventually. And real talk, you can't turn a h0e into a hoise wive... since she been with many men she knows how to take you, but she'll also come with baggage. My advice, enjoy your turn with her until she goes to other men. When she pulls away, don't care, because there's nothing to know! Peace!…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 12:48 PM
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I relate to what you say. It is completely true! At first I don't care about them and I'm just being myself, so they come like crazy... but then I let them get too close, too faster, so I start to care and loose them eventually... And back again to finding a new ones. In my case I think it's about setting closeness boundaries... but true what you say
/r/seduction15/12/25 12:13 PM
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If it envilves emotions after, it's fcd up! And people can't keep their mouth shut
/r/seduction15/12/25 07:25 AM
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Muslims make like 5-6 kids, you make like 0 because men or life it's not whatever, but permanent ego conflict.... so when we all die what remains to take over the system included, are those muslim kids... who'll take over you. edit: come France or West Europe and see the reality. No hard feelings, no ego, no outsmart, just hard talk but you'll be replaced for sure. This internet thing has created many reality avoidant people, but when this will fall, where we you go? no hate, but we all can't li…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:35 AM
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2 out of 7 it's huge. But did you go friendly or men to women?
/r/seduction14/12/25 02:25 AM
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Good if the white western society destroys itself from fighting women vs. men... let the Muslim replace them then Inshallah! Dumb western people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:39 AM
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Exactly! It's fcked up... and then they cry at the end why no man for them to fc them... because she pushed them all away with time: she hurt them with backing off, so they said fc this bitch with her games, better I stay alone. A man invests time, energy, hope and for a wrong word she backs away and appears after months when it's too late, when you were already hurt... can't go back! Gonna be hurt again! A lady I fcd deleted me from insta (exactly me) so I tought ok! she not interested so I sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 10:03 PM
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You seem to have huge ego, what you replied now does not look normal, let the men alone. Maybe you attract low quality men... we still bang a lot anyways lol, but this does not stay in standards. Edit: You seem to have satisfaction when men suffer, you are very bad! Better to not deserve them until you solve your issue. What are your standards? BTW... what I noticed, that the more used they are the more standards they demand, so we not into these games. Less used ladies always are more cool, les…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 09:37 PM
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He updated him with all the conversations
/r/seduction13/12/25 09:32 PM
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Eventually he's the one who did all the talking. So the girl started to be attracted to him (his personality than yours). And since you were, relaxed, letting others do the job for you, than getting the number right away from him, it's normal for her to date him. I had an 8 years wing, we were the same shit. I was more the texting guy and him more like live cold approach guy. He didn't wanted to open an insta, so I was updating the conversation advancing to him... but I was doing the texting to …
/r/seduction13/12/25 09:31 PM
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Yes, these things are not gender based, it happens to anyone, friendships and business included. The difference is since women have way more options, they seek to desqualify and since men less, they seek to qualify if she's good or not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 09:15 PM
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You don't know what you speak about... after a breakup in 1 week you find options... for a man it's months
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:23 PM
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As a man you have to seek a lot, waste time in many dates, groom well, careful on words, get rejected, ghosted, pull backs, drama to find at least one. If you don't do all this, no women comes to you. This means to take from your time, that you can use to improve on your business etc. And relationship don't always stick... because she tries to play games or see other options... that's why you have to play too with the attention as a man. There's a lot of disappointment and wasted time from women…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:19 PM
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Word! And they also have a lot of gay friends to validate them and cry on their shoulders. A chick I banged and went cold, was thinking why she has a lot of gay friends... and no straight men, me being the only who she left for the moment I guess. Not my job to chase, gonna find new women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:10 PM
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The difference it's that women have a safety net
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:06 PM
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Yes, I live in tourist city and I smash them... the downside is to not do long distance relationship(with singles)... it will end up in hate because it'll not work and when back home they get to normality... (you need also some skills to smash them!!). But don't worry, it's just a smash and forget, no serious stuff. You'll smash too when in trip, if there is chance, so no hard feelings, no hurting Edit: And if you're not in a relationship it's not your damn problem what she does and vice-versa, …
/r/seduction13/12/25 09:00 AM
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Do you want the truth? Years of experience make the difference. A lot of trial and error, patience and emotional control, work on yourself, your attitides ans habbits, your feeling and empathy, your energy. It's just the experience behind, no a simple tricks and a shortcut. It's just a collection of things which became subconscious. Go to meet women and get hurt, you learn with each one and you do better next. Build up yout value also!
/r/seduction12/12/25 10:17 AM
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Those pick up lines are just examples... not something to really use
/r/seduction07/12/25 08:18 AM
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Means sexy friends: you destroy her in bed and somemies go out as friends to coffe, events if you feel. No repationship discussions or expectations. Enjoy!
/r/seduction04/12/25 02:40 PM
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Never been flaked yet, but this comes when you invite them to date prematurely... or those who are not in. Been flaked by fake friends, but for this I deleted their contact (different story). If they flake and want the date, then they come on my rules
/r/seduction29/11/25 09:30 PM
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It's a man's job to lead! otherwise you're either a child or you name it...
/r/seduction18/11/25 07:24 PM
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Yeah, they compain a lot that the first text it's not special. Like I was: I'm not here to entertain you, but to talk and meet you. Tinder it's garbage, I don't recommend it at all. It's a waste of time on dates. Women irl are way better and not frustrated For me if something does not work, I bail out and do something else, because it will not gonna work if it doesn't. A woman if she likes you she will make tine for you and reschedule, no need to push any buttons. So no BS: but everyone can make…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:40 AM
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Or better social or texting slills. As a man, I always has to do everything. If you let on them, they don't have a direction at all to go somewhere. Or when they like a man, they don't show it for that men to come over and talk, but most actually don't know to show any sign, so chance gets missed 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:36 AM
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To me, very very very few make it obvious and the most who are into you, hide it. Edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:47 AM
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Or for (better) wife
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:02 PM
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Nobody knows what they do there and nobody can speak them there, that's why they go I guess. Girls' trip
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:00 PM
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Who gives a damn about what women think, do your stuff and that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:07 PM
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There are types of women who are in differen periods of life and these periods repeat. So some want casual(small percentage) some others no. But if they don't like you, they won't open their legs eventually. The point is to know how to ask!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:37 PM
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Nope, if you don't shave it. It's just a style of being. You can addopt a bit of a bad guy with it
/r/seduction26/01/25 11:13 PM
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Why women don't want a relationship? Having fun and dating is working, but when I tell them I want to be something more, they think I'm dumb or they just dissapear
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:03 PM
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Usually they should provide help and support to their men in the field, I guess. Unofficially, there is an invasion of Ukrainean women here in the west (who are run on by the guys) if they are marrier or not, we don't know. Just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:40 PM
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Very few yes! But most of them are raised to have some healthy core values, which many in the 1st world countries lack. So they will not eat the western BS
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:06 PM
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