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Read the last part of your original comment
/r/askTRP26/12/20 03:58 AM
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That last line conflicts with your general message. Did you mean you see value in friendship with men?
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:03 AM
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Stand up for your mother. If you feel as though shes being treated wrongly then explain to your dad whatever you think is transpiring. Although you dont have any obligations to anyone, your parents would be the closest exception. I'm not sure of all the small details but if you believe that the issue is your grandma speaking into your dads ears and not that they are genuinely not compatible then definitely say something. How your dad receives it is entirely dependent on how you deliver when you …
/r/askTRP25/12/20 12:40 PM
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Bro.... you need to get help. No sensible person would obsess and repeatedly make new accounts to talk about a girl he dated 2 years ago. You're obsessing and only making your attachment stronger by constantly talking about her. Move on. And get some sort of help.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 12:33 PM
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Health. Wealth. Relationships. Dont overcomplicated your goal and missions. That's what gets you demotivated cause you're looking short term. It's like if you're driving, you dont look right infront of your car. Thatd get tiring and obviously is not how you drive. You look far away at the direction you want to head. Its siimilar with your goals and ambitions.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 08:31 AM
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All girls do this. It's a shit test. Dont give it too much attention and behave in a way where you've dated chicks with 1million likes. A simple meh. Thatll get their hamsters spinning. But also who actually cares? Even before RP I wouldnt really give a care about shit like that.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 08:29 AM
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Dont stress or give it too much thought. You leaving the group chat and your absence will make them realize their mistakes and will hopefully give them a reality check. You seem like a good person and have alot going for you, appreciate all those things and realize that time is what will mend things. If you guys were as good friends as it sounds then they will let go of their ego and reach out to you eventually.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 12:19 PM
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Yeah, you have no idea what a fresh fade with a style that compliments your face structure and weight lifting will do for you. If you think you are ugly itll push you one full tier up and make you average at worst. An added bonus is that you'll have a shit ton more confidence. You simply sound like you dont want to put that effort to maximize your looks. Also if you're going to find a good barber in your area, look through IG and find someone who does a good fade even if they charge double what …
/r/askTRP24/12/20 11:59 AM
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Nono, be specific with nice clothes... this does not mean wannabe rich hype beast clothing brands like supreme, bape and other loud ass clothing. The subtle ones with small logos and good design/craftsmanship. Clothing is super overlooked, I mean in regard to what styles suits you. Depending on your build, height and skin tone certain styles work to complement where others will make you look terrible. Find your style and brands that tailor to your size.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 11:56 AM
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Right. It's basically you fucking around then just for fun. That makes more sense. Thanks.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 07:16 AM
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Makes sense. But I always see things conflicting in RP. Like here if this was your approach. Wouldnt you be entertaining her? By trying to make her laugh? And then you hear shit like "why are you trying to entertain HER? She should be entertaining you" blah blah. Only way it makes sense is as a push-pull method. Someone care to clear this up for me?
/r/askTRP24/12/20 07:06 AM
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I use it very minimally but when I do use It and see how others are using it, it sorta feels so fake for me. Like beyond showing your friends what you're doing for validation, what is the purpose? It's hard to put into words but it feels like I'm being fake? I know before I was RP I felt like I had 2 personalities, 1 at home by myself and a different with friends as a social face. If you're truly an alpha and DGAF about validation (because your value comes from within) or trying to present yours…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 05:39 AM
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Staying in the loop for me translates to knowing the latest trends and understanding memes. Both of which I dont really give a fuck about. I can speak to my friends and communicate just fine at the moment with WhatsApp/Snapchat/Messages. I'd be fine just with messaging via phone number.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 05:03 AM
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How important is it though? At the end of the day if you really make a girl feel shit and know how to game, isnt she going to want you anyways? And wouldnt having socials allow her an avenue to stalk? Whereas without it, the mystery and wonder is always there and she has to figure you out without the help of your socials (where she can get an idea of your social group, what type of dude you are and the things you do) Genuinely curious on this ^
/r/askTRP24/12/20 04:11 AM
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How come I also see dudes here preaching how no social media is actually better? Unless your life is actually awesome 24/7... what are your thoughts? Completely agree with the the really good looking girls on social media seldom looking as good as they do in real life.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 02:54 AM
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^ The sad thing is they convince themselves that they are a 9 or 10. What's also strange is that once you become RP woke, all girls seem to lose few points.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 12:57 AM
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Also from Surrey, BC.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 03:26 AM
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Sounds like someone really broke you.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:52 AM
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If you're looking for your men in a sports bar that's what you're gonna get.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 01:52 AM
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Nah, I understand why she did the things she did. Lack of insight and understanding on my part. But you live and learn so it is what it is. Personality matters nowadays more than anything. Naturally I will be driven towards woman with similar goals as I. #1 will always be health, both mentally and physically. Although I've noticed that most girls will play the "I'm different" card until you're literally balls deep. My spidey senses are usually pretty quick to pick up things though.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 01:44 AM
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She's 5'2 100 lbs. What did those chubby woman ever do to you? You sound quite upset.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 01:37 AM
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For me personally it feels like I'm being someone else if I do it. Doesnt feel natural or like "me". I can see how some dudes can pull it off, but I imagine it as a jock type that are usually out of touch with reality.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:08 AM
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No.... dont text her shit. She wants you to be phased and hates to see that you've moved on. I dont know how you handled it when your girl told you but I'm sure she observed very closely how you reacted both verbally and physically. In the future, laugh it off and say something like "yeah I bet she said that" with a big smile. Dont ask what she said or make it a topic of discussion, that's negative energy and if you're truly in tune with yourself it shouldnt matter what she says.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 03:29 AM
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Yeah, it feels like the real life equivalent of shouting "mine".
/r/askTRP19/12/20 12:31 PM
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I am tripping, I think it may been another post I read before yours and lost track mid comment. Its weird I looked at my history and nothing like that was mentioned in other posts, I'm assuming someone edited their post. Its 4 am so I'm sure that has something to do with it. In any case, best of luck bro. Do you for you, girls are always secondary at most.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 12:28 PM
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What did I just read.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 12:19 PM
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No, it's about your frame and how you view yourself because you will project it outwards. If you know you're the shit and walk around like it (not being obnoxious and loud but poised and stoic), you'll capture their curiosity. Obviously it goes without saying that if you look like absolute shit they will be repulsed but I can guarantee you that you view yourself much worse than you actually are. You are your biggest critic. Get out of your head and stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to fu…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 12:05 PM
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Same thing I realized. My ex is a solid 7 HB, but I swear when we were dating she felt like a 9. One thing I admire about her even now is her drive, she is literally one of the hardest working people I've ever met and shes super ambitious. Helps her family with bills, works fulltime 40+ hours while 3-4 classes and is always well groomed. Nowadays when I do see her, I realize I liked her more for her drive and personality than her looks. We often like others based on the qualities they have which…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 11:45 PM
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I guess it could have been worse for her. I mean atleast you didnt run her over amiright?
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:49 PM
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I think you know that that's a delusional way of thinking. During the initial phases of being RP, theres alot of overanalyzing that goes on and despite the sidebar and all the other resources available to answer all the questions they may have, personal experiences are usually what make the knowledge stick. You can have the knowledge but for you to really understand why everything is the way it is (in regards to female nature and RP) you have to basically eat shit and fail alot of times (and som…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:46 PM
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Nah, if YOU know you are waiting then you are just limiting yourself and Its safe to say that the girls will sense this indirectly and will see you as emotional support more than anything else. When shit hits the fan girls want someone to vent to, if you're the one they come to, I can guarantee you that it will do far more harm than if you were to just focus on your shit and not be their emotional tampon. And come on man, you really want to be the dude that "waits"? You have better things to do …
/r/askTRP18/12/20 11:23 AM
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Yeah, if he wasnt doing that shit she would be thinking hes talking to other girls and forgetting about her. But literally hes telling her "hey, you're my only option and I think about you every second". Comes off needy and desperate. He should be the one taking a day to respond cause hes having so much fun.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 09:39 AM
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You are still in that initial anger phase. It fades but realize that woman arent bad. In the same way that you could expect a wild tiger to charge at you if it sees you in sight, a woman also by nature act as they have been programmed. It doesnt take away from the fact that the tiger is a beautiful beast despite you knowing full well that it would probably want to kill you, it's just natural instincts for them. Similarly woman arent despicable creatures made to torment you, rather they are their…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 04:11 AM
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It would be an improvement because rather than resorting to a cheap simple pleasure that's easily accessible at the press of a button, he would have to go out and put the effort to actually make it happen. If he manages to find someone and has the game to convince them to do that shit, I'm sure he would have no hassle finding a regular chick to fuck anytime he wants.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 12:58 PM
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Stop feeding your addiction. That's how. Find more meaningful things to do than jerk it anytime you feel low, did you ever consider that perhaps you are feeling low because you're jerking it? That you're damaging yourself on a psychological level so much that you're stripping away your ability to find joy in the simple joys of life? I know this will probably not influence you to change anything but it sort of makes me feel like I'm cautioning my old self. Sadly, only when we fall flat on our fac…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 12:21 PM
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Bruh. Imagine someone brings it up, they will instantly lose any credibility of being RPed in my eyes. One thing I've learned is that you can never teach someone of the path, you can merely direct them but they are the ones who must walk it. Both in a spiritual and RP sense I've come to the same conclusion and it's safe to say this is the case for anything else as well.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:28 AM
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Just listen to the first part. You've abused your dick for God knows how long, let your little guy heal and he will work like never before lol
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:27 AM
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Ask yourself why she might be worried that you are not sharing details like you used to. It most likely is something to due with her hamster spinning wondering why you were more open before and now you seem more closed off, maybe you have someone else? Maybe you're over her? Maybe you dont think shes the one for you? Either way. When you show your emotions and open up, girls feel secure. Cause men dont usually open up unless they feel close enough to someone to show their vulnerabilities. It's j…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:16 AM
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Dude this is facts. I've been on it since 2019 August 17th and even the most average girl looks much better when you on that SR journey. Its annoying but the confidence boost, mind clarity and lift boost definitely make it worth it. After around August of this year, it became so much easier because I almost didnt give a fuck about woman. This would mean that even if I'm talking to extremely good looking woman at work or out and about, I can maintain strong eye contact and not have my mind wander…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 04:19 AM
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Yeah. What I would do is if she suggests a different day. Message back more specifically about the time. So her "I think Saturday would work better for me", you "That'll work, we'll do 7 PM at x place". Rather then the whole date being on her term you show that your time is important by giving a much more specific time and all the while maintaining your frame. You could even say something like "You know what that's a much better idea, 7PM Saturday would work better for me". Kinda long but you ge…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 01:08 AM
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Dont be driven by your motivation. What you feel right now is that initial motivational drive for taking charge. But it fades quickly. Discipline is more important than motivation. Knowing the things you should do and doing them versus doing something because you feel a strong sense of purpose in that given moment. Something I've been doing my best to tackle recently.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 01:00 AM
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Yeah. Once you get a few heartbreaks this mindset sticks and you realize that's just how woman are and you get better at playing the game. I've also noticed that the more exposure I have with woman more that I can predict them based on previous similar interactions with other females. This is how you start to see AWALT. You'll see the same patterns and that's why exposure is so good, even if it's bad. You'll eventually clue it in.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 12:50 AM
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It is what it is man. Dont take anything she said to heart, she was acting in defense and everything she said was to protect her image and for her to believe that she isnt a whore. You know she's not worth a second of thought. Despite it hurting, itll come as a reality shock for you regarding woman. I know it sucks and we have all been there. Now focus all that time, effort and everything on you. A girl is a compliment to your life not a focus. None of what anyone says here will take away the pa…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 06:30 AM
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Exactly what I was thinking. That ultimatum was straight out disrespectful, if your girl has the audacity to pull something like that then shes already made her mind that you're temporary. The fact that she would flat out say something like that shows that shes gotten away with alot of other shit before this particular situation.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 06:18 AM
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Jesus christ. I know I fuck up but this is just flat out disrespectful. How can she say 'fuck you' so many times indirectly and this guy still doesnt get it. As soon as she tells you that this random "friend" is so important that it's either both of you or him, you should have literally gotten up and laughed your way to the door. Wtf is he providing that makes him so important???
/r/askTRP15/12/20 06:13 AM
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Bro she works in a sex shop, I'm pretty sure that's the least weird place to open. Especially when she mentions intimate extra detail that she didnt need to. I work at a place where fair share of good looking girls come by and it always sucks when you seemingly have great connection but cant escalate because its work. If I was the customer though, I'd have no issue at all. It's safe to say that id probably never see them again so realistically, I'd much rather face rejection than be in doubt aft…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:46 AM
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Probably cause you lack game. Rather than go straight for a kiss, throw some light kino and create dread. Also being in High School you probably give her way too much attention for her to really see value in. If she values your attention and wants it bad enough she will do whatever she can to please you and get that attention. But if you give it easily, why does she need to give you anything else beyond what shes giving right now. Remember, attention for woman is like sex for men.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:05 AM
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Stop masturbating. Cut out caffeine and alcohol. Learn to sit still and listen to your thoughts and feelings from a non judgemental space. Meditate and learn to become the awareness BEHIND your thoughts and emotions rather than being influenced by them. Suffering is a choice. Your anxiety and depression are feelings and the more you identify and feed it, the stronger it becomes. Your emotions arent you, stop obsessing over them. Do what you need to do and focus on your shit, slowly things will f…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 12:14 AM
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You're leading the convo and literally carrying it. When she texted "Go die" that's a super basic and light response, a simple light statement or even an "Ok" would have been perfect to see if shes interested and sparks the convo back up. But you tried so hard man, especially with 2 questions "had a rough day? Wanna talk about it?" Its YOU begging her for attention and why the fuck do you care about her day? Are you trying to get in her head or her pants? Stop carrying the convos. And dont ask d…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 11:44 PM
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My ex was concerned I'd get injured again and asked me to not go to the gym so often. I saw right through it. They want to always be seen as higher value, that's the whole point of shit tests and all their games. So by you working on yourself and increasing your SMV she sees it as a threat to her own value. The craziest part is they are not even aware of this, so dont think of them as bad people, instead accept their nature and focus on you.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 11:31 PM
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It really depends on the problems. From a spiritual stand point, often the problems we assume we have are actually just internal conflict with our expectation vs reality. As humans we naturally have an urge to reject things if it doesnt fit our narrative, learning to accept things as they come and to see them at face value will actually bring so much more peace and calmness to your life. It's the distinction between YOU and your emotions. You are not your emotions and your thoughts have no power…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 11:26 PM
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Nope, just about to finish The Book of Pook.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 09:52 PM
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This. I am perfectly fine. She lived a long amazing life and strange enough the last few months I spent with her I took alot of pictures and videos so I have all that for memory. And I spoke to her an hour before she passed so I am genuinely not upset.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 09:50 PM
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1 reason why you get their # instead of snap. She knows what you're up to and you've shown you're eager on multiple occasions. First, you shouldnt have asked her what shes up to and even worst have responded with "same". It shows your life is not interesting and she was the first person to cross your mind... she saw through you. Instead try to schedule it a day or two before worst case, last minute girls dont like the idea of getting ready at a moments notice and will brush it off even if shes i…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:08 AM
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Haha I dont know if I should take you serious or not, but in any case that's great to hear. My numbers aren't nearly as great but plate + 35lbs for bench and squat is AWFUL at a plate + 25. I have been trying so hard to grow my legs recently. As far as dick goes, I'm a solid 6.2 so I cant complain considering I'm 6ft and South Asian.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:21 PM
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Occupy yourself with hobbies... the main reason a girl hits you with the LJBF shit is because your attention no longer has much value for them. So in your circumstances I imagine rather than using that lockdown time to focus on yourself and other shit, you must have entertained her and gave way too much free attention. If you werent exclusive and she saw that you got butthurt over her texting exes, she already sees a weak point. On the other hand, if you dont give a shit even when she knows that…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 10:58 AM
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No, ranting helps because you feel as though you are unloading those thoughts that are causing you to suffer. Forget it. Thoughts are meaningless and have no power over you. Yes they suck, especially when they bring along strong feelings that are overwhelming but youve got to stop feeding them. Let them be. As you learn what I'm mentioning you'll see how long you have been made a fool by your own mind. Take control man, your thoughts have no power and your feelings are annoying at worst. Learn t…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 10:36 AM
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That's a neat way to look at it but I'm not sure I see it the same way. Maybe for high school type girls but it's more so about how you make them feel. The more they are in their heads about you, the more they fall for you. This is why covert language is so great, because they will think about it and try to figure things out until they go nuts. You are an emotional investment. And woman are all about their emotions/feelings so the more they invest in you, the harder they fall.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 10:30 AM
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Nah man. It's in your head. I'm 28 and I work with alot of 18-24 yr olds. No issue at all vibing with them. I dated 2 chicks at work both that were 18 (I was 27/28). Its literally in your head, you dont need to talk about school that shits boring as fuck anyways and I'm sure that's the last thing they'd want to talk about. One thing that changed alot for me with conversing is I once I realized that I needed to stop trying to entertain or carry the convo and instead entertain myself in those conv…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 07:51 AM
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Yes, when we expend our energy chasing things we drive them away and miss the things that would have came to us if we were just to focus that energy inwards rather than on the chase. What it means is that when we are constantly chasing, we miss the opportunities that would have presented themselves if we were to stay still. Now it may be confusing but basically what it means is that our focus and energy should always go towards ourselves. For me I have seen first hand how when you are in tune wi…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 07:43 AM
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Post a pic of u holdin ur reddit tag written. Let's see who's talking. Genuinely curious. Go ahead my guy. I'll follow with my own and we can have a homo fest Haha.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 06:34 AM
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Who cares? If your self worth is so dependent on the validation of others whether it be sexually or not, it only shows weakness and lack of confidence which will be emulated when you speak to others. Work on yourself bro, not only physically but mentally aswell. Find that peace within and you will see how woman and any worldly thing has no comparison to the calm and peace you feel inside once you find yourself. You will not be able to game woman with a mentality like this. Find yourself, find yo…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 02:41 AM
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Well, you get compliments all the time. You dont dramatize and show that you're super flattered or shocked. Just say thanks and carry on. This can be said about everything, recently for me, I noticed that girls help me without even asking. As soon as I said thanks once, I realized that realistically if I had abundance mindset and had girls ALWAYS helping me with things, itd get pretty lame and tiring to say thanks each time. So unless it's something that shows they went extremely out of the way …
/r/askTRP13/12/20 02:35 AM
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I'm 140 at 5'11. But my shoulders and back are really developed so usually people guess me around the 160 range when I'm wearing clothes that fit well. One coworker literally every other shift walks up to me and tells me how I have the physique he dreams of while asking my weight. I'm also at about 7-10% body fat year round. So, I wouldn't say it's bad depending on where the weight is being held. If you're 150 with an athletic build it's obviously going to show and be more attractive than if it …
/r/askTRP13/12/20 02:30 AM
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It doesnt mean you be a cuck and dont give her responses. Aslong as the convo ended after all of those texts it's not really an issue. He didnt carry the convo or drag it. Aslong as she gets that she will not get his undivided attention without meeting up.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:19 AM
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Lol the flipping things is just a side thing for him right now. That by no means will guarantee him anywhere close to 6 figures. I should have been more clear. I was talking more in terms of social media marketing, ecommerce and other similar avenues.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 10:52 AM
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That's awesome. You are lucky to have found the pill at such an age, so long as you live by the values and seek to continue learning. With that being said, it's good to be mindful of others and hope that they reach the same enlightenment we have. Looking at others and viewing them as less than simply on the premise that they live differently is going to only cause unwanted burden. The way we view the world will affect how we carry yourself and come across to others so it's best to see all as jus…
/r/askTRP12/12/20 06:58 AM
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"What should I do to get my life back on track". Kid learned how to walk yesterday and is already having what seems like a mid life crisis. I still dont know if OP is legitimately 9th grader or if someone posted for entertainment. Either way, it's nice to see a kid so young being aware of all those things. Although I agree that flood of information is bad, the fact that he even knows it exists and sees its value is pretty amazing considering his age. I would take his shoes any day of the week if…
/r/askTRP12/12/20 06:48 AM
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Nah man. Think outside the box. You can do whatever you want at the end of the day. Start flipping things. Go to Walmart, BestBuy and other retailers and find good clearance shit. And resell on Ebay or FB Marketplace. I know it's not going to make you rich but itll help you think outside the box. You dont have to go to school or work factory. Theres so many ways to make money nowadays, what I would recommend is if you have time right now, even if you are only JUST getting by. Accept that it will…
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:27 AM
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Dude... how tf did this kid find RP when hes in grade 9?? Lmao... imagine if you were RP woke in grade 9. Jesus Christ.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 03:53 AM
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Bro... I was also dumbfounded at how these females react when you arent acting in a predictable manner. Also I've always heard things about how "a woman is stubborn and will chase after whatever she wants, and wont stop till she gets it", the more I try to distance myself from my ex and other woman in my life, the more I see they become invested in chasing. They will do some WILD unpredictable shit that's just downright cringe and obvious (intentions). They are absolutely horrible at the game. M…
/r/askTRP12/12/20 12:18 AM
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It's good but what I've noticed is girls tend to respect guys alot more who dont use slangs "address" instead of "addy" sounds so much less enthusiastic and calm even just to read. I guess its cause most of those common words and trending phrases we see and hear on social media spreads like wildfire and you easily picking it up and using it shows that you're easily influenced. All the dudes I know IRL with great game and frame dont bother trying to seem "cool" by using those dumb phrases and sla…
/r/askTRP11/12/20 11:49 PM
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That's good. I've responded after 3 days cause I genuinely missed a text. And the text was "can we talk next week?". If anything, her hamster wheels probably spinning like wild. Give her a little something, where shes finally gets a response but it is less than what she would have wanted. So like other dudes mentioned something like "No worries, take care".
/r/askTRP10/12/20 05:38 AM
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No doubt. Could you elaborate on plausible deniability?
/r/askTRP09/12/20 04:11 AM
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I guess the title was a bit confusing. What I meant was that, a girl who is an LTR with another dude. I'm seeking to plate them after I see some IOI.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 11:52 PM
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Damn this is facts. I always knew this looking at those unusual couples where the girl is much more attractive than the dude. But never really knew how to put into words. Have to remember this.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 11:47 PM
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Idk man once you understand female nature you become desensitized to shit like that. The reality is that if the girl cheats itll somehow open the dudes eyes. I do agree it's a dick move, I wouldnt do it if it's a dude I've spoken to or know of.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 11:39 PM
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I have her number lol.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 11:17 PM
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Bro, what is your girth? How do you measure and what is considered pencil? Genuine question, I'm not sure where I am.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 11:44 PM
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Yeah, that'd be funny. But Its too try hard, or worse yet if she picks up. Nah, take the easy DGAF route.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 11:31 PM
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Lol its 2 PM. Also she is at work so I'd be concerned if shes lost her shit that badly. But seeing how shes been acting it wouldnt be surprising.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:09 PM
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Ayy, she did this last week too but atleast she left a message like "X needs to talk to you about your schedule", didnt reply since it was just a statement. Dont understand why shes trying so hard, we been broken for almost a year now.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 09:51 PM
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Work together bro, could be a client but she could text me it if she expects a response. Obviously still dont call right?
/r/askTRP04/12/20 09:50 PM
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Bro to be fair we work together so it could be about a client of mine but still... she could have asked someone else to call me. She had a talk with me recently about not making it awkward at work her way of saying "give me attention cause you're not giving me any right now". I obviously dont call back, right? Haha
/r/askTRP04/12/20 09:49 PM
1

That I will always prioritize my mental/physical health above all else. My motivation to succeed financially is driven by my desire to have the freedom to focus on my mental/physical wellbeing. That my inner peace is of utmost importance so I have no problem letting people go no matter how close they are/have been in my life.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 10:08 PM
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Texting other girls while you guys are out together. So if you already know when you will see her, during the day dont respond to your texts from other girls so that when you're out with her you can respond and create some light dread and get the wheel spinning. If you really want to fuck with her, light smile when responding to the texts. Especially during points where you both have each others undivided attention. PS: Doesnt even have to be a girl, even if it's a bro your messaging aslong as s…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 09:44 PM
2

That makes sense. But arent there also other indirect ways that someone can show interest? Like if I'm talking to a girl and she starts playing/flipping her hair, puppy eyes, being shy/submissive or licking her lips lightly. I'm talking like randomly you are stopping to ask for directions or something and get this sort of response.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 11:08 PM
1

Thank you. I've been trying to find out for some time now. What are some common IOI that BP men do?
/r/askTRP02/12/20 10:55 PM
1

What the shit does lOl mean?
/r/askTRP02/12/20 09:41 PM
2

Yeah, started playing the guitar. Learned 3 songs so far. It's actually very enjoyable and definitely helps with your confidence.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 09:36 PM
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They are jealous and you're asking if you should let them phase you? Bro, obviously you're winning if they feel the need to shit talk you. Real men don't do that, not seriously atleast. Laugh it off and dont take it personally.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 11:04 AM
2

Well, that's the thing bro. You think you need it because you feel like that is the reason you feel the way you do. It could definitely be a part of it but what I'm saying is you definitely do not need it. It's not suddenly going to make you happy and fix all your problems, if it does it will be temporary from the high you get from the dopamine. Do what you want to do but definitely prioritize yourself and find solace within yourself. Itll open your eyes in ways you cant imagine.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 09:00 AM
1

Whyd you guys break up? Just wondering where it went south. Maybe recollecting will help with the healing/moving on Haha.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 08:49 AM
1

Yeah, totally off topic but dont jackoff. It will fuck you up mentally and you will wonder why you feel so miserable.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 08:42 AM
2

Okay bro, listen. No question she was probably stunner but your amplifying it in your head by being so stricken by her. When you fall for an average looking girl, she looks 10x more beautiful to you. Similarly, when you fall for a hottish looking girl she will look 10x hotter through your eyes and in your head. I dont doubt that shes good looking but it definitely seems like shes had this affect on you. If it helps, just imagine her taking a fat dump... if that's not some weird fetish you're int…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:24 AM
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This. She wants you but does she want you for your money or your company? From the sound of it, seems like you know the answer but want to believe otherwise. Trust your gut man.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:12 AM
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Why do u want to ask her what you are? Dont label things, cause theres no fun once you place a label and for the girl the chase is over. If you've got to cuddling it shouldnt be much harder to escalate as long as you dont come off needy and desperate.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:05 AM
1

My ex did the same. I met her around the time I started going back to the gym after a traps injury that fked me over mentally/physically for 2 years. In a convo it came up and I showed her how I used to look, she was like "that's not even you". I was in good shape then too but while we were together she noticed I started looking more muscular and told me to not gym so often cause I'll get injured. I definitely sensed that any remarks about me getting injured or her preference of "non buff" guys …
/r/askTRP02/12/20 03:08 AM
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Dude... sometimes you get random spammers on Viber that you block without even thinking about.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:12 AM
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If the Ferrari gets totaled or you find out it's a Toyota Corolla engine on a Ferrari body, you might take the Camry. If you get what I'm trying to say
/r/askTRP01/12/20 11:35 PM
2

Who cares man. If you're really on your purpose you shouldnt even be thinking about this. From what I gather, in your teens maybe the girls had a harder time getting validation as IG and what not werent there. So they had to resort to other methods for the validation and attention.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 09:37 AM
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I swear this is the funniest shit I have ever read. Thank you. I was literally laughing my ass off. Okay so first, regarding accepting her friendship. Yeah the call was made before I was RP, but I dont regret it at all. I firmly believe that we couldnt be friends so I set that straight. I hate pretending or saying shit I genuinely dont believe. So when she offered friendship again, theres no fucking way I'd say yes because I dont want to say something I dont mean. Regarding the bro fist, we work…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 06:48 AM
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Only if you're willing to quit your job if shit hits the fan. Trust me on this haha....
/r/askTRP01/12/20 01:41 AM
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This had me in tears. Haha. But for real dude, theres a difference between flat out avoiding eye contact and focusing on whatever you're doing. It seems like you're avoiding, just look her dead in the eye and show her you're not a pussy. When she looks away, then maybe approach her and say something.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 01:36 AM
2

My guy you waited until SHE was done getting your attention? Her calling uber was her way of saying "okay, thanks for the attention. I'm good now". Like other dudes mentioned, if she was expecting her flat mate to not be there and put that effort... she was 100% DTF. All you had to do was throw in a bit of kino to set the mood. Since you didnt lead or display any sort of interest she probably thought you're some BP pussy. It is what it is.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:53 PM
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You're looking to fill the emptiness inside you externally and its coming across in how you carry yourself. You cannot expect woman to like you when you are unsure of yourself. You probably dont notice it but the way you walk and carry yourself gives vibes off to girls, they look towards you and can judge in an instance what sort of dude you might be like. Yeah sure, you can have all the RP knowledge but it's useless if you arent 100% with yourself. This may be hard to understand but your frustr…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:31 PM
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You're overwhelmed by your feelings. You do not control your feelings. Stop identifying with your feelings and thinking because you FEEL a certain way, that that is what you are. No man, listen forget about the shit you feel and keep doing you. Your feelings are not you, they dont mean shit. That's what becoming mentally strong means, to not identify with feelings and seeing them as nothing more than annoying things that come and go like a rainy day. I say annoying so you understand but the real…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:39 PM
1

This. Stop masturbating and you will see through woman without even knowing about RP. When your thirst and desperation for sex isnt there, you wont be a fucking simp. So nice to see that someone had already mentioned it before I did. I honestly am not even phased by woman anymore. I can eye rape them all day long.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:13 PM
1

And a few escorts maybe.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:44 PM
1

Definitely guilty of measuring interactions and over analyzing but didnt you also do this when you started RP? How did you stop? And if you dont analyze how will you get better with those interactions?
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:43 PM
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You're an awesome dude. This sort of understanding and humility goes along way in creating a community that is not superficial. It's rare here and although I do love the raw "get your shit together" responses, the occasional ones like these are a nice change. Its alot easier to absorb when it doesnt come at you like flying daggers. You live and learn. But the general idea is dont let woman phase you (dont take them serious), and dont make them question yourself (enter their frame). And in regard…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:06 AM
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Haha.... I see where the confusion is. I've edited the posts with a Easter egg that will make the title more appropriate.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:54 AM
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And I actually find this a little amusing. Not going to lie the validation when she exploded with that question was pretty dope. Still wish she woulda left me alone but shes a solid 7/10 on a really tough scale and shes still not over me after almost a year. Shes got like 3 pretty boys chasing her and somehow I'm still the one shes bothered by. Great feeling but definitely not something that I'm dependent on.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:52 AM
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Yeah, I definitely was measuring our whole interaction. Mainly because it's a situation which I havent really been in before and I genuinely am confused as to what her intention is, I mean yeah it's a bit awkward but it's an ex that's expected. I am actually close with most of my coworkers and do enjoy talking to them, but I am speaking in regards to how I was before my stoic/spiritual/RP wakeup. I definitely feel like the thing she wants is the frame control and validation. Her sense of curiosi…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:41 AM
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It was more of her being scared that I basically turned toward her and literally gave her my attention. She got nervous and did random shit on the computer to get her shit together lol. But bro, shes asked to talk for almost a month. Everytime I was busy and or told her I had to go (usually when she comes to me after work). Theres been 5 instances where shes asked to talk, I genuinely just wanted to hear her out so she stops asking. But why does she want friendship? The only thing I can understa…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:24 AM
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Yeah, shes asking if I'm good. I'm saying I'm great and asking for a bro fist and shes refusing. I guess I should've been the one asking her what's wrong. She wasnt asking me what's wrong, shes asking me "tell me you missed me and want me back or how awful your life has been with my absence", sike, no thank you with a bye on top.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:07 AM
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Yeah, in my eyes it was just another opportunity to find someone cause everyone else dates coworkers right? This was 2018 summerish time, I discovered TRP December of 2019. As far as saying Hi and bye, we did that for a while but after I came back from lock down I just sorta chilled out and just did my shit.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:04 AM
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Sounds like a great story. Let it be a lesson we can all learn from. Go on now, tell us.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 10:06 PM
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Okay, well let's put you to the test. Hows the weather like up there?
/r/askTRP27/11/20 10:29 AM
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Tbh man seems like you're on the path to discover yourself. Dont go searching for woman to fill that void inside you. It feels like you are discovering that no matter who's in or isnt in your life, they will never be able to give you the happiness and security you find within yourself. It doesnt even seem like you're jacking off for the pleasure anymore, seems more of an escape as it is for most. I would honestly say that you should stop indefinitely and see how you feel, the daily fapping can f…
/r/askTRP26/11/20 12:29 PM
1

Ironically, the post is a circle jerk but the fact that he would want to post about something like this for nothing more than clout is actually something only a narc would do. Lmao
/r/askTRP21/11/20 12:52 AM
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Bro. You never really recover from oneitis in the way that you think. You learn how woman are and understand their nature which helps you to cope with that loss. For most men it usually becomes a scar that's a reminder of what happens when you get too close to fire. But in this same way it becomes a part of you, a pivotal moment that will help you become a better person/man. After all, if we cannot be 100% transparent with a person that society (in marriage) tells us will be our other half, then…
/r/askTRP20/11/20 08:10 AM
2

Honestly, it sounds like you could have agreed that you were the hottest. It's a stretch but shes the one that suggested it. "What? No?" Sounds like you were caught off guard or something. Maybe a simple "Nah" and saying the rest would have been better. Either way, if it was something you had to come up with on the spot, that's really good. You didnt take her shit seriously at all
/r/askTRP20/11/20 06:31 AM
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"Free birds dont go into cages, only wounded, needy birds go into cages" that man is a poet.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 04:03 AM
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I don't really think that's the case. In its extreme, yeah forsure if you never engage with other colleagues, avoid eye contact and shrugged like you're afraid of the world, yeah you may be seen as a weirdo/creep. I do speak to colleagues and I have no need to be extra and walk over and talk to colleagues all the time when theres not much work to do. I am fine doing my own shit. I dislike giving girls too much attention regardless of how I view them sexually. I guess I may be a little confused. …
/r/askTRP19/11/20 06:25 AM
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Definitely in person. You will see how she reacts to it, if she avoids eye contact looks away and says shes busy or smth, bruh she ain't interested. On the other hand, if shes shy and anxious then you know theres something there. Ask her few days in advance imo
/r/askTRP18/11/20 11:35 PM
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My ex was 18 when I was 27, no constant texting at the start but funny enough I didnt think I'd like someone 9 years younger than me so I naturally was just cool, calm and collected around her without being desperate or needy. Worked out well cause she fell fucking hard, know if I was only RP while I was with her.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:43 PM
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Nah, I got a crush on u bro
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:15 PM
1

Right man? Idw feed into that even if I dont wanna fuck them. It feels degrading to me lol
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:14 PM
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