Lolashaulke Archive

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1	Do gay people have similar issues in the sexual marketplace as straight people? Bisexual woman here: Lesbian dating has its ups and downs, just like heterosexual dating. There are expectations related to behaviours and looks (ie butch women should be manlier, femmes should be girlier), which if you subvert aren't super easy. Aside from that, there are just way, way too many dudes waving their dicks around the lesbian dating scene, making a lot of meetups/OLD not very valuable. I wish there were more places to meet lesbian/bi women and socialize. I think lesbians care less o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/20 09:58 PM
1	[CMV] Women are fundamentally boring As someone who subscribes to the “Jill the Ripper” theory and is definitely focusing on the wrong thing, your initial quote of there being no female Mozart or Jack the Ripper seems silly. As to why, roughly, I think Jack the Ripper was female, a midwife would have had the necessary human anatomy knowledge and would have been trusted by local prostitutes. Removing the uterus or womb just doesn’t strike me as the sort of sexual mutilation men typically do - I’d much more expect them to cut off bre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/20 05:59 PM
2	Female artists generally only sing about relationships. I think this might be more of a pop music thing than a female vs male artist thing. I also think romance is just a popular topic in general for music. Nightwish, Icon for Hire, Flyleaf, Blood Stain Child, and The Birthday Massacre all come to mind as groups that have many non romance themed songs. If you want to go in the direction of pop, I'm pretty sure Tik Tok by Kesha had nothing to do with relationships, either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/20 06:23 PM
10	Is it time to turn the clock back on society by like 50 years? So, you're punishing people who are infertile because they had the shitty luck to have improperly functioning sexual organs? Why arent they allowed to adopt in your universe, especially to orphans who, perhaps, had a father die in a workplace accident and a mother die in childbirth? More than that, does this extend to mentally disabled individuals who cannot care for themselves/give consent? Also, what would the situation be if a woman became pregnant in marriage, gave birth to a stillborn baby,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/18 05:23 AM
2	So...What exactly IS Feminine Sexuality? I read a bucket ton of romance novels and am published in that field. It's a very female centric industry. I don't think women enjoy the anonymity that porn gives. There is some effort made to make the characters in romance novels real and this factors in why women tend to make more fanfiction than men. So, I think women like some degree of the familiar as opposed to warm hole number seven. Written porn doesn't have some of the misc bullshit that filmed porn does. You won't see written lesbian p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/18 04:51 PM
1	All girls are bi until proven otherwise? Women may be bi curious, but it's beyond a stereotype that you'll find "bi women" who will never sexually interact with another vagina. They're likely willing to kiss/grope another woman, but that's as far as it tends to reach. Your initial theory is fairly bogus. I disclose to my partners that I'm bi on the first date or pre first date. Don't immediately ask for a threesome. If your partner in a relationship discloses bisexuality, don't feel pressured to allow them to sexually interact with the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/18 03:22 PM
2	What percentage of women are bisexual? Actual bisexual female here. I dont think it was social/cultural, at least in my case, because I remember at a very young age being attracted to female and male celebrities and slaving over the concept of having to pick one and stick with it. I think you're less likely to publicly see bi men because there's a much larger stigma for them than there is for bisexual women, so it'd likely harm their chances. More than that, if being a bisexual man is anything like being a bisexual woman, people from…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/18 03:01 PM
11	Question to feminists: do you have any brother? I am very feminist and have two older brothers. I am very close to one of my older brothers who is very feminist critical, too. My biological mother displays a lot of AWALT/negative feminine traits, while my father displays a lot of negative masculine traits. It doesn't surprise me that either of us ending up believing what we do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/18 06:52 PM
2	[q4w] ladies why don’t you approach men first? I prefer to approach first. It allows me to get men/women above my league and I like the feeling of control. I also have some inner demons, so if people seem too into me I tend to flip out and run for the hills. I enjoy the chase.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/18 07:07 PM
8	If it is acceptable for women to leave unsuccessful men is it acceptable to for men to leave unattractive women? You can break up with someone for any reason, whether it's because "my partner beats me", "I think I can do better", "we are incompatible", or "I think they turn into a werewolf and can't tell with that". Feel free to encourage your buddies to date different people if you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/18 09:22 PM
10	Men have ALWAYS wanted anal sex from their wives, and I have a two millennium old Roman poem to prove it. When two people enter a sexual relationship, it is up to them to set boundaries and requirements and find either compromise or separate. If Alice doesn't want to do anal, but Bob does, and the two wish to be engaged in a monogamous sexual relationship, Alice may decide she can tolerate it once per month. Bob may decide he can live without anal and would rather be with Alice. They may decide collectively that this is an issue neither can compromise on and dissolve the monogamous relationship or e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/18 09:45 PM
3	Q4W: Virginity and Shaming Why is PIV or anal the benchmark? The first time I had sex it was with my girlfriend at the time, so no penis for obvious reasons. I'd still count it as when I lost my virginity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/18 07:12 PM
3	Why A Woman's Sexual Past Matters I think male sexuality is viewed as corrupting, and the reason I say this is because if I say I've slept with twenty women and one man, men care about it a lot more than if I've slept with twenty men and one woman. If it were just about promiscuity, I think they'd care about both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/18 03:50 PM
2	Women need to accept that men decide what makes a woman " high quality/value " Why did this need to be stated? The customer is always right about what the customer wants. If a man or woman can't attract the mate they want to with what they have to offer, they cant afford it with their current value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/18 10:54 PM
8	Is casual bodybuilding and steroid use a direct result of unrestricted female hypergamy? I say yes. I've dated bodybuilders before. They're honestly usually really nice people. There's a lot of women who aren't attracted to bodybuilders too. My female friends usually don't think the bodybuilders I date are all that attractive. There tends to be less agreement amongst women about what is attractive. I think the big muscles is just a trend. When heroin chic was in for women, there was a spike in the rates of anorexia and bulimia. Right now fitness is in, so we are seeing a lot more pressure in t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/18 11:10 PM
3	Why are TERPERS supporting rape as a sexual strategy? Not really? He's describing what he's doing, not the noises or reactions she isn't having. When did I say all men were monsters? I think if you're going to do something high risk you should ask permission. I don't stick my fist into men's asses without asking for permission and I don't think it's smart to choke women without asking for permission.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/18 08:10 PM
3	Why are TERPERS supporting rape as a sexual strategy? He doesn't seem the observant sort. He couldn't tell if she'd had an orgasm and had shows of force that could've proven to her that she couldn't pull the hand away. It's also possible the "safe choking" was interspersed with unsafe choking, so oxygen was a precious commodity to her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/18 04:41 PM
9	Why are TERPERS supporting rape as a sexual strategy? He said he had trouble controlling himself. Why are you giving him the benefit of the doubt when it comes to choking her safely?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/18 04:35 PM
6	Why are TERPERS supporting rape as a sexual strategy? She was being choked. Are you sure she had the oxygen necessary to form words?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/18 04:24 PM
3	Do young women keep their hair long for themselves or for Chad? This one has so many factors it's impossible to get it down to just one. While short hair is assumed to be the lower maintenance option, this isn't really true for all women. My hair grows very quickly and is wavy, fine, and dense. When I have my hair shorter, I lose the option to throw it into a ponytail so I have to style it every day. I also need to get it re cut every 4 weeks or the style loses its shape and looks like garbage. There are more women than you're accounting for who these issues…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/18 11:02 PM
4	Why American men are getting less marriageable - Article How are the women supposed to get the ~20k per child to adopt if they can't work/get higher paying careers? Also, do men need to adopt?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/18 06:05 PM
3	Why American men are getting less marriageable - Article So, if I'm an infertile woman or gay, what should I be doing in your situation? You do know women die in childbirth, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/18 04:26 PM
2	Women want less sex in relationships because men don't put nearly as much effort into being sexually attractive. Last year I dated a guy who wore makeup. I liked it. Not at my school, because it was a small private school and the guys weren't allowed eyeliner, but at adjacent schools? Totally. Even dated one of them before the style went out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/18 04:59 PM
4	Women want less sex in relationships because men don't put nearly as much effort into being sexually attractive. I'm not so sure about that. I was a preteen during the "cute emo boy" part of the 2000s and we all went apeshit over guys with eyeliner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/18 04:28 PM
1	Do women feel unsafe walking alone at night even in nice neighborhoods? I used to live in a super ritzy, upper class retirement area. I had no qualms walking 30 minutes home drunk in a swimsuit. However, I also knew a lot of the people I lived around - I worked at a local store and had grown up there. I was also comfortable walking through a sketchier area downtown by myself when I lived around there and knew most of the people around. I'm less comfortable walking alone in my current place because I don't know the neighbours/general night walkers. I live in a fairly…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/18 10:33 PM
7	Q4Women: Would you date a man who is bi? Well, I'm bisexual myself, so given the choice I would choose a bi man over a straight one if everything else is equal - I'd also choose a bisexual woman above a lesbian. I have dated bisexual guys before and I definitely prefer it to monosexual people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/18 07:56 PM
1	Another brilliant comment on my thread that explains why feminists hate "nice guys" more than rapists, stalkers etc I don't think this is entirely it. The nice guy is the one who is deceptive with his motivation. He is someone who, in his original form, got close to women and was their friend. Women tend to be more emotionally open with their friends than men are, so this becomes a guy the woman has confided in. When the guy turns around and throws a hissy fit, it's not as harmless as you're portraying it. Most men I know are bigger than me and could overpower me if they so choose, and that's assuming it's an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/18 04:07 PM
1	How do we reconcile consideration for personal autonomy with something like this... Judging from the writing style, I highly doubt that story actually took place. That being said, I also think doing things like that at a convention is a super high risk activity. There are tons of underage girls wearing skimpy cosplay - I was mainly 15-17 when I was in the convention scene and i wasn't the youngest one in the group I hung out with. I think it's a matter of assessing venue more than anything else and analyzing your own social skills in relation to it. At a hotel party for a conve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/18 04:51 PM
6	Q4Women: Who, SPECIFICALLY, is telling you you're inferior to men, worthless, and good only for sex? When and where, specifically, are these things being said or done? In short, gender roles are dumb and people should do what they exceed in/enjoy regardless of what traditional pressures are on. In regards to sexual attraction, I think that physical sex is important in determining who people are attracted to. Hence, homosexuals are attracted to same sex, bi is attracted to both, and hetereo to the opposite. I disagree with morals being applied to it at all. It doesn't seem productive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/18 04:56 AM
9	Q4Women: Who, SPECIFICALLY, is telling you you're inferior to men, worthless, and good only for sex? When and where, specifically, are these things being said or done? For third wave feminism - I don't agree with the way certain issues are approached. I'm a gender abolitionist, so I'm opposed to the way transgender issues are intertwined into feminism. i also don't think it pays enough attention to how economic fluctuations effect how people act. Sometimes, it also just broaches topics I don't care about. I'd rather see more attention paid to getting adequate understanding of women's medical issues than whether or not women can wear hijab. For the red pill, I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/18 04:33 AM
2	Q4Women: Who, SPECIFICALLY, is telling you you're inferior to men, worthless, and good only for sex? When and where, specifically, are these things being said or done? Specific questions are easier to answer--is there anything you're particularly interested in?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/18 04:01 AM
6	Q4Women: Who, SPECIFICALLY, is telling you you're inferior to men, worthless, and good only for sex? When and where, specifically, are these things being said or done? I'm both, I'd say, though I don't always agree with 3rd wave feminist policy. I can clarify my stance on more specific issues if you're interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/18 03:16 AM
18	Q4Women: Who, SPECIFICALLY, is telling you you're inferior to men, worthless, and good only for sex? When and where, specifically, are these things being said or done? Yes, as far as my dad was concerned. I wasn't allowed to go away for university while my brothers were, despite having the highest marks of us. One of my brothers dropped out twice and wasted 2 semesters of tuition. My father is willing to pay his rent+spending money+tuition for up to a PHD. He was willing to cover a full bachelors for my other brother and I was allowed a trade certification. Meanwhile, my father also continuously nagged me, his youngest, 100% infertile adult child, about when I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/18 11:23 PM
28	Q4Women: Who, SPECIFICALLY, is telling you you're inferior to men, worthless, and good only for sex? When and where, specifically, are these things being said or done? My mother told me my father would pay less money towards my education than my brothers' because I was female and my success was worth less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/18 09:51 PM
6	Q4W: Do girls/women understand the damage of calling a guy a 'creep' in public? Do men understand the damage they do to women by calling them crazy or a liar? The truth is, in those situations we can never be sure about what actually happened. To the woman, the guy may have been staring at her for several minutes with a creepy look and continuing to engage after she was giving him a cold shoulder. And maybe she's right, but maybe she is being paranoid and the guy simply looked at her a few times and tried to approach. Maybe she wasn't giving clear signals. We can't know unl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/18 10:15 PM
1	Dave Chappelle accurately describes the experience of being a woman in new Netflix special. When I was downtown once, sitting on a ledge and waiting for a ride, I had a guy stare at me for about 5-10 minutes. When I left, he walked over and sniffed where I was sitting... would you count that as harassment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/18 06:30 PM
3	Discussion: If men want their wives to look incredibly sexy for them, they can’t complain about the cost or spending money on it. What if they have naturally large amounts of breast tissue? What about if they breast fed children?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/17 09:38 PM
8	The disconnect, why would a girl that loves you give you subpar sex compared to FWB and ons? Does love have zero sexual value? This one can have so many sources it's honestly impossible to find a singular one to ascribe it to... For some women, it can come down to figuring out what you like and what you don't like. A woman can try anal, decide she isn't into it, and then not want to do it thereafter. Maybe when she was younger she felt more pressure, but as she aged developed a much more DGAF attitude towards social pressures and decided to go for what she wanted. It can also be that the sex, for whatever reason, is dis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/17 09:01 AM
7	CMV: proponents of "rape culture" not grok that the problem isn't emotional stuff like unfairness, but simple lack of logic. Huh? I thought at PPD we were all sort of in agreement that men's prisons had a rape culture attached to them, which would be a western issue. From what I've read, slimmer and more feminine appearing men are often forced into "wife" roles for more aggressive men and frequently sexually assaulted with no recourse put on the perpetrator because it's seen as just something that will happen cause they're criminals. More than that, because the general populace jokes about prison rape, it isn't being …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/17 04:51 PM
5	What's this sub's opinion on stay at home dads I'm disinterested in being a parent, but if I were to decide to pursue marriage and babies with a man it would be with the understanding that he would be the primary parent. I personally admire pride and competence, so I would be extremely put off by a man who stayed at home with kids and did the on Facebook all day complaining about how you need a glass of wine sort of thing entirely unbearable, particularly if coupled with bratty kids. However, a guy who enjoyed being a parent, planned engagin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/17 08:26 AM
3	A question on hypergamy Perhaps women seek out people above them in SMV as women perceive SMV, while men pursue higher SMV as men perceive the SMV. Men often pursue women who are in their prime reproductive years while they are outside of it, which would grant the woman an increase to her SMV, while this is not something women traditionally do, which indicates it's not a trait women are putting value into. Similarly, women may give a SMV boon to a man who is taller than them while men aren't doing the same for women. G…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/17 07:07 PM
3	[Q4Women] How often have you flirted with men? What % of them was good at flirting? oh man, I'm delightfully terrible at flirting, so these are fun: Guy I ended up dating for a year: I decided in my 19 years of wisdom that to attract a guy I should talk to him more. We played DnD together, and he was being a passive aggressive baby during it, so I called him a passive aggressive baby. I later got drunk and asked him out bluntly, to which he accepted. Guy I'm good friends with/FWB: I asked if he wanted to hook up. He did. Good times. Girl I dated for six months: we uh... kept sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/17 04:36 PM
1	The fact /r/Incels was banned demonstrates that 80% of women and 20% of men is not enough to sustain civilization So, what should we be doing about this, exactly..? I'm looking for a solution that doesn't involve people having to date and marry people they don't want to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/17 02:30 AM
1	Is there some credence to women thinking men are "immature"? Overall, I don't agree with it. If men truly and inescapably don't mature until later, why don't they have a higher age of majority? This isn't the route I think is appropriate for men. They are just as capable of maturity as women. I think this one comes down to expectations given to people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/17 04:16 AM
6	Confidence doesn't make a man more attractive. Masculinity does. To me, confidence implies ownership over who you are and what you do. The person who admits to being not at all book smart gets way more credit than the ones who bluff ineffectively about it. Confidence is about being okay and knowing who you are and, most importantly, being in charge and proactive in what you can change and learning to work with what you can't. Its a touch nebulous, but I know it's tough to get a proper definition of what people see as confidence. This is mine. I don't think I'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/17 05:34 AM
4	"Rape by Deception" There was one case I heard about locally that I would definitely bracket under "raps by deception". The woman's alleged she was on birth control when she and the man had sex. She then admitted she had been purposefully off birth control, which resulted in her pregnancy. In this case the woman admitted it publicly, too. I think, more often than not, this sort of thing is impossible to prove, though the spiteful part of me wants to slap this charge on people who knowingly transfer an STD because t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/17 06:21 AM
2	Inability to pair-bond I think you're underestiminating the sheer amount of bullshit women hear growing up regarding how chaste they should be. I was a teenager when I heard about "no hymen no diamond" as a movement, I've heard all the bullshit about how it'll make your labia "roast beef flaps". I've heard that no man will want you the moment you spread your legs and I grew up in a liberal place. This is common enough and loud enough that it's white noise to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/17 02:30 PM
6	Females, are you concerned about the state of gender relations, and why? Sort of? Ideally, I hope people who want to be in relationships can achieve that with an enthusiastic partner, but it's honestly something so low on my list of goals that it's hard for me, personally, to muster up a lot of energy towards caring about this issue overall. Regarding solutions to the problem of men being unhappy with their options. It'll make me sound like an old man trying to get younglings off my lawn, but I think technology has a big part to blame in the changes to the dating sys…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/17 01:51 AM
1	How come no woman is able to have pity sex but some women are able to have sex for money? It's high risk low reward. That being said, I have had pity sex with a guy before and it was lacklustre for both of us. Sex without attraction and enthusiasm really just isn't as fun. I'd probably still do it for friends provided I didn't find them repulsive, but with the random guy on the street it's too high risk. Regarding why prostution is done, money can be exchanged for goods and services, feeling like a good person cannot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/17 07:29 AM
8	Women Will Never Care About Men's Problems in the Sexual and Relationship Marketplaces. The Best Way For Men To Address This is to Stop Caring About Women's Problems in Society. Not always. Sometimes they get into a relationship, it turns abusive, and they are stuck. They could be stuck due to having kids in the situation or pets who they feel protective over. Sometimes, lack of finances makes escape very difficult, as living on the street isn't safe for anyone. More than that, the most dangerous time for someone in an abusive relationship is when they leave. http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/domestic-violence-victims-1.3885381 - to read more on that. My point being…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/17 12:03 AM
3	Sex and quality of life Disney princes, romantic comedies, teen shows... this stuff is everywhere. Women can find men learning it distasteful all they like, but at the end of the day I have no idea if a man sat down in front of his television and watched rom coms all night trying to figure out what women like unless he tells me. I am trying to say look at what women show women they find attractive because you're going to see a lot more of an honest showing from it. If men aren't choosing to do that, my sympathy goes wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/17 08:48 PM
3	Sex and quality of life So why not analyze both things to come up with a better strategy? Why does all of this need to be spelled out for everyone's convenience? We have a space currently for women talking about things they don't like - great, men can look at that and learn things to avoid - as well as numerous examples of women displaying attraction for fictional and real men, so guys can look at that and attempt to emulate it. I'm not really understanding that this information is hidden, is all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/17 08:20 PM
6	Sex and quality of life I think there's a lot of information on what women find attractive already, some men just aren't willing to extract information from it. Why do boys and men think boy bands are popular? Do they really think it's just because the music is catchy? It's the same thing as romance novels. Hell, let's look at Twilight. Girls and women were fawning over Edward and Jacob and I don't think it's entirely because of their personalities. What sort of expression of women's attraction are you looking for to h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/17 07:32 PM
10	Sex and quality of life I feel sorry for the guys, but there's not a heck of a lot I'm personally willing to do to change it. I'm not going to start having sex with men I don't want to. The risks personally to me - tearing if I'm not sufficiently lubricated, pregnancy, the guy turning out to be a raging psycho - are too high for me to want to do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/17 03:50 PM
2	Men are struggling to deal with the fact they don’t control what women find attractive any more But they're still single mothers, yes? What about a woman/man who has a partner beating them? What about if said partner only began beating them after a traumatic brain injury caused a dramatic change in personality? Is them being a divorcee then justified? i think it's tough to put in a blanket sort of 10k tax because we don't want to harm people already down on their luck, particularly when there's children involved. I don't think the 10k tax will cause the irresponsible single parents to cut …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/17 03:34 AM
1	Men are struggling to deal with the fact they don’t control what women find attractive any more See, the issue I see with auto penalizing single mothers is that we can't see what let to them becoming single mothers. Yes, you'll find the heroin junkie doing it because she can't be bothered to use a condom. However, you'll also find the widow who had a husband die of disease or at war. Is it really fair to lump the latter in with the former?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/17 03:26 PM
2	Many of us are learning that decency and good have no bearing on our ability to attract a mate and in some cases may be detrimental - should this be a concern to individuals and society? I think it can have a positive effect, but you need a base level of attractiveness to really see the effect. Look at a guy like Evan Antin - the hot veterinarian. I'd argue the fact that he cares for cute animals gives him at least 1-2 points in the scale out of 10, but he did also look great to begin with. I think it's the same appeal we see with people like soldiers, police, and firefighters. The uniform signifies someone willing to put themselves in danger to help others. It's a subtle portra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/17 02:25 PM
1	Q4 Women: Why Do Women Have One Night Stands? Yes. I've had a one night stand and casual sex before. Generally, it's because I'm horny. There's not that much complicated about it. I have been with strangers and friends. It's honestly a means to an end more often than not, so they're attractive enough, enthusiastic, and willing and I'll usually go for it. Sometimes it's been good, and sometimes it's been bad. I didn't cheat on anyone and I would do it again. There are times I'm just not interested in being in a relationship and this fills a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/17 07:13 PM
1	Q4W: Why is it not OK for men to judge you by your sexual history, yet it is OK for you to ridicule and humiliate virgin men? I don't care if you judge my sexual history. I make my own decisions and I'm willing to stand by them. Look, you're going to find douchebags everywhere. There are always going to be people who will take every little thing as an opening to make fun of someone. Those people aren't behaving well, plain and simple. You'll find that sort everywhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/17 02:58 PM
3	Do you think that birth control is health care and insured by employers? I don't think it's such a small percentage of women taking it for non pregnancy reasons, but that being said, I guess I wonder where you'd draw the line. Technically, I got strep throat this past year because I made out with a guy it turned out had strep throat (he displayed minor symptoms, I had very severe ones). Should the antibiotics not be covered because it was a part of my sex life? What about Viagra for men? What about the women who take birth control to prevent pregnancy and also to con…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/17 05:45 AM
3	Women are Good at Everything Dr James Barry, who was actually Miranda Ann Bulkly, performed one of the first known c sections. Ada Lovelace was the first computer programmer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/17 02:20 PM
2	Women and Rape 6/10 trolling. You need to fluff it up a little more next time, expand it to a few more paragraphs and give a rambling into paragraph. You go a bit too quickly into the meat of your point. I'd also recommend overly personalizing it next time and hiding a few barely obscured personal attacks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/17 04:50 PM
7	Do most guys really prefer 18 year old women over mid 20s women? I think some part of it comes from misrepresentation in media. A lot of the time, the people playing girls fourteen to eighteen are closer to twenty to thirty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/17 11:54 PM
4	Is “my body, my choice” an honest defense of abortion? Considering artificial wombs which wouldn’t impact a woman’s body. Currently, I think a lot of abortion is at least partially, if not mostly, motivated by not wanting the myriad of issues that can arise from being pregnant for 9 months and giving birth. If it was easy, I think more women would opt for adoption which is opting out of parenthood instead of an abortion, which is more opting out of pregnancy. Im not sure if women would chant for a ban of abortions if an artificial womb was created. Some women also opt for abortion because the child would be subject…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/17 11:14 PM
1	Recipe Thread For chocolate chip cookies that are gooey and flavourful, add about two tablespoons of corn syrup. If you want to create a maple chocolate chip cookie, substitute maple syrup for corn syrup and maple sugar for brown sugar. It makes amazing cookies and I can post a full recipe for the ratios if people would like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/17 02:03 PM
1	Who on PPD is genuinely egalitarian and who is willing to admit to being sexist? I try to be egalitarian, but I'm pretty sure I favour women. I'm working on it, though, and do try to put time and effort towards men's issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/17 11:16 PM
0	If you could chose would you live your life as a man or a woman and what's your reason why? I'd choose to be a man, though I'm a woman. Part of it stems from where I came from - my parents were and are insanely sexist, so my brothers had more opportunities than me. I prefer initiating dating to being asked out and I don't want to deal with boobs. I also would prefer the veil of invisibility men can have walking in public	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/17 07:37 PM
7	Cmv Estrogen (trans or cis) will destroy your brains ability to rationally think and or self reflect if you let it. When you're not used to it, sure, but honestly, most people have a pretty good grasp of how to handle their slew of hormones by the time they reach adulthood. If I don't take my hormones at all, I go through a period where I'm a bit of a robot while they crash, then I'm honestly pretty much back to my default self. Think of it a bit like drinking - I don't drink very often, so by a glass of wine I'll feel tipsy. Someone who drinks a lot won't have the same experience because they're used to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/17 06:31 PM
14	Cmv Estrogen (trans or cis) will destroy your brains ability to rationally think and or self reflect if you let it. I'm biologically female, but my body produces too much testosterone and not enough estrogen. I have to take estrogen on a daily basis because my default state doesn't have very much. When I originally start on any new, higher dose of estrogen things go wonky. It is like going through puberty again, so it's really not comparable to an adult woman - think of it closer to how a 13 year old is feeling things. Of course things are going to be a little weird and off while your body adjusts to the new …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/17 06:16 PM
3	Q4women: do male sex toys intimidate you? Not at all. Let your freak flag fly! Some may not be my cup of tea, but I'm not their mother or the sex police. So, I'd be game for some stuff used during intimacy, but not everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/17 04:08 PM
1	Don't complain about NiceGuysTM if you're a TimeHoeTM I can't figure out what people want. If I notice a guy trying to get closer to me and I tell him "not interested" or "sorry, not looking to date" I'm called a bitch who gets yelled at because "he wasn't trying to hit on me". If I try to nicely turn him down, I'm called a bitch who led him on or told "I didn't mean it" and I have an extra fifty hours of work ahead getting him to leave me alone. If I don't turn him down at all overtly and try passively to do it, I'm apparently TimeHoeTM. There's n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/17 07:34 PM
6	Women Initiate Divorce Much More Than Men, Here's Why A theory I have heard regarding why women are more likely to divorce involves emotional labour. If you look at the happiness cited from widowed women versus widowed men, the women tend to fare much better. The theory I saw some articles site (I'll grab the links later if requested), was that women tend to do more emotional labour - particularly regarding maintaining social circles for both parties. That makes the mans social life tied into her efforts more, while hers remains the same. As such, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/17 02:27 PM
3	A Quick Debunking (if one were needed) of the "Nice Guy" Construct The NiceGuy(TM) is indistinguishable from the alternative from the woman's perspective. The situation from the woman's perspective is this: You were friends with a guy. He asked you out and you declined. He vented inappropriately. There are certain actions you can take to make people perceive you as being not nice and inappropriate venting is one of those. As such, the woman in this scenario is going to perceive him as not being nice, which makes him seem deceptive. The deception leads to questi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/17 06:28 PM
4	A Quick Debunking (if one were needed) of the "Nice Guy" Construct I don't like people yelling at me - this is what it boils down to. Someone yelling at me for not dating them is something that will make me unhappy, as I'm sure is the case with most people. A good comparison is if a woman calls a guy a creep and says/yells that all men are creeps for approaching her and makes a scene. The guy is probably not going to be happy with that arrangement, even if she's just frustrated at being approached in public while she's busy. Neither is right. Vent in a place it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/17 03:37 PM
8	A Quick Debunking (if one were needed) of the "Nice Guy" Construct Because it's directed at me. Of course I'm going to perceive it as not right if someone starts yelling at me over how woman have lied to him. He's not channeling is disappointment and frustration into an appropriate venue. Instead, he's taking it out on me. Just because I won't see him again doesn't give him the right to take things out on mw	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/17 03:16 PM
6	A Quick Debunking (if one were needed) of the "Nice Guy" Construct I disagree. People are allowed to be disappointed all they like, but when they yell at the girl over it and start doing a woe is me speech, they tend to slip into the NiceGuy(TM) category. The frustrated explosion, when it happens, is part of the complaint. Know your audience before you vent about it - I won't know what a guy says to his dad in private unless he tells me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/17 02:28 PM
5	Why are men still expected to step in to save a woman in trouble? I don't think men should be obligated to throw a punch at someone for a woman. However, I think a more reasonable expectation is, if you see a predatory person harassing someone, to go find security, particularly in a bar, or alert the bartender/staff. Alternatively, if she came with a group, possibly notifying one of them. If I saw two men gearing up for a fight that's what I'd do, depending on the stage of fight and participants, so this seems like a reasonable counterpart. You're still under …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/17 02:49 PM
1	The Father's position regarding if a woman should abort their child or not has at the least equal if not more weight than the woman's. The current trend of denying the man a say wrt to abortion based on the woman's whims is both absurd, and wholly tragic. Creating a way for men to carry a fetus? 100%. I think it would be a great idea and help create more reproductive rights for both sides.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/17 08:31 PM
2	The Father's position regarding if a woman should abort their child or not has at the least equal if not more weight than the woman's. The current trend of denying the man a say wrt to abortion based on the woman's whims is both absurd, and wholly tragic. But I still exist, and we have to take into account that people like me will exist. How do you feel about the proposal to make synthetic wombs they can implant in men should the situation of man wants baby, woman does not, arises?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/17 06:48 PM
2	The Father's position regarding if a woman should abort their child or not has at the least equal if not more weight than the woman's. The current trend of denying the man a say wrt to abortion based on the woman's whims is both absurd, and wholly tragic. I'll fully admit to being biased on this one, as carrying a pregnancy to term would basically 100% kill me. My body physically cannot handle it and, in the very low chance that it didn't outright kill me, the mental issues caused from being forced to carry a parasite to term I have no say in likely would cause suicide. I'm also not the only woman who has this sort of concern. I think a better solution would be to create a way for men to carry fetuses to term in their own bodies--perhaps a synthe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/17 05:34 PM
1	Would the world be better if it was ruled by women instead of men? The world would be best with a nice mix of both in positions of power. Some issues men are not going to be aware of because it's simply not on their radar (menstral products being subjected to a luxury tax), while some issues women are not going to be aware of because it's not on their radar (I don't know any of the top of my head, but I am certain they exist). Work together and sing kumbaya folks. Us vs them doesn't help anyone	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/17 02:09 PM
1	Q4BP: why is it okay to make negative subjective generalisations about men's past sexual/relationships history, but not about women's? There are crazies everywhere and hypocrites everywhere. Women and radfems are no exception. I honestly think most of it comes down to the attitude the people in question have towards their situation. So, if I meet a man who walks around with a massive chip on his shoulder due to lack of experience, that's going to be off putting. Some women and radfems are going to generalize due to vocal minorities, think of things like how incels speak about women and some more of the radical MRAs. Does this m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/17 04:24 AM
1	[DEBATE][SERIOUS] - Incel and Non-Incel politely debate /r/Incels I'll look it up, thanks! I don't think they call out their bullshit, or we disagree over what bullshit is constituted as. I've seen posts fetishizing children that don't seem to get any public flack. Posts speaking about rape also come to mind. Calling women "FHO" and femoids isn't doing anyone any good. Language has power, and using dehumanizizing language allows people to create an us vs them mentality because they don't view the other side as people. More than that, if advice works for most o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/17 02:12 PM
3	[DEBATE][SERIOUS] - Incel and Non-Incel politely debate /r/Incels Thank you for engaging in a polite and open way - I really appreciate it! How long would you say this stage typically goes on for most incels, if you have an idea? Also, how old are typical posters? I'm not entirely convinced it would be more damaging if they didn't have a place to talk. My reason for this is I believe it can encourage a bit of an echo chamber mentality, particularly given some of the harsher criticisms incels have of women, which I think some people may use as a reason to deny …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/17 05:50 AM
3	[DEBATE][SERIOUS] - Incel and Non-Incel politely debate /r/Incels Regarding the use of the incel subreddit as a venting sub, I have a few thoughts I am hoping you'll engage with me on. So, venting and feeling bad about stuff you can't change - although I /do/ personally believe that a lot of incel posters could, with the right self improvement be able to have very fulfilling relationships - is entirely normal. I spent a solid two months sulking after I discovered my wrist injury would never fully recover, thus removing me from a career path I had been passiona…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/17 05:13 AM
2	Why Are So Many Women Searching for Ultra-Violent Porn? - Article NFSW We all have fantasies, but honestly, some of them are not meant to see the light of day for whatever practical reason. Maybe you fantasize about pushing your boss off the roof, or owning a thousand cats, or having a gorgeous man so overcome with desire for you that he throws you down and ravishes you. But it's just that. It's a fantasy, not something that's practical in reality without a lot of work. Pushing your boss off the roof? Well, you'd probably go to prison for that, and you may leave an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/17 04:32 PM
2	Why do certain groups ignore hard science and research on hormone effects? Woman here. Have a disorder that produces too much testosterone, while my brother doesn't produce enough. I have a higher level than him. I'm not saying it's common, but it can happen,	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/17 05:36 PM
8	Q4BP: Do you consider women to be oppressed? If they are, under what conditions would you claim they would no longer be oppressed? This is a tough one to fully address, but I'll do my best. Societally speaking, I don't believe so. There are not any institutional barriers in place that prevented me from getting my current jobs, I'm allowed to own my own property, and have access to contraception so I'm not forced to die in pregnancy. However, there are still a lot of people around with backwards views about what women should and shouldn't be, which can cause some problems daily. I'm sure men have equivalents to these, but th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/17 02:27 PM
4	CMV: If "freezing up" is real, women shouldn't be able to legally consent unless a psychologist will certify that she won't freeze up and lose the ability to say "no" when appropriate. I used to freeze up in the face of fear - I don't anymore, thanks mainly to years of therapy - so maybe I can give some level of insight into how it comes to that? i think some people have the impression that people are coming from healthy home environments when they enter the adult world, or at least they don't have any lasting trauma from their growing up, but this isn't always true. For me, my freezing up happened because of my parents. When they were abusing me, my brain decided the best way…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/17 04:23 PM
2	Q4W - How many of you have had unwanted sexual encounters that you call rape and what were the circumstances. I've never been raped, but I have been sexually assaulted. I'll still answer for the sake of contributing to the overall dialogue, though I don't consider this incident to be rape. I was fifteen years old and sitting downtown in the morning with two friends waiting to go to a cosplay event. I was dressed from neck to toes, almost no skin showing. A drunk man approximately thirty five to fifty five came up reeking of alcohol and told me I looked nice as me and my friends were standing up to go. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/17 03:59 PM
4	Serious question for discussion: Please explain to me why women cannot simply say "NO, STOP DOING THAT, I DON'T WANT TO DO THIS" and then remove themselves from the area, when faced with unwanted sexual behavior Okay, so, you say no a lot, until you learn saying no isn't an effective strategy because you're not going to be listened to anyways - maybe you had a guy get violent as well - so to do so is useless. That's your answer then: women aren't giving a clear no because it has historically proven not to work and can potentially put them in danger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/17 06:29 PM
3	Serious question for discussion: Please explain to me why women cannot simply say "NO, STOP DOING THAT, I DON'T WANT TO DO THIS" and then remove themselves from the area, when faced with unwanted sexual behavior Because women are saying no and men are ignoring it. That's why this is coming up--don't you think most women try saying no? No doesnt always work!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/17 06:05 PM
4	Serious question for discussion: Please explain to me why women cannot simply say "NO, STOP DOING THAT, I DON'T WANT TO DO THIS" and then remove themselves from the area, when faced with unwanted sexual behavior Why is all the burden being applied onto women not getting themselves raped? Why do you think it's unfair for men to be expected not to rape women? I mean, if you're getting down to sex and the woman is lying there like a dead fish, that has to be a sign and not very enjoyable. Are most guys having such terrible sex that they honestly can't tell the difference and either check in or remove themselves from it? What about when the guy pins the woman in place? How should she remove herself then? I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/17 03:59 PM
8	Serious question for discussion: Please explain to me why women cannot simply say "NO, STOP DOING THAT, I DON'T WANT TO DO THIS" and then remove themselves from the area, when faced with unwanted sexual behavior A lot of women say no and have men interpret that as "convince me". Why can't men take a no without getting violent or asking sixty more times? (Obviously hyperbolic, not all men and that jazz) I don't think there is ever a level of directness that will ever reach some men. I've had to call security to remove a man who was harassing me and my friend despite saying "leave us alone". How many hours are you expecting women to spend saying no until the man in question respects it? When my ex boyfrie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/17 03:35 PM
1	If men were to create a perfect male, then woman created their perfect male. How would they differ? Very yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/17 12:21 AM
3	If men were to create a perfect male, then woman created their perfect male. How would they differ? Im not sure. A lot of women seem to have really different taste, from what I've experienced. I know one woman who likes them androgynous, another who goes after heavier set fellows, and then myself, who likes guys with long hair who look like they could rip phonebooks in half without sweating. However, speaking personally, I want the guy to look like Nyle Dimarco. Given that he's a male model, I think there's probably a sizeable chunk of the female population that agrees with me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/17 03:57 PM
8	Q4W: Has a Husband/Boyfriend/Date/Hookup Ever Physically Or Emotionally Abused You? Nope. I was in a really bad mental state. I was twenty and just starting to work through the problems that come with being severely abused as a child. It's a big regret of mine, not calling the police, but I honestly wouldn't have survived the trial, emotionally speaking, should it have gotten that far. I've largely moved on by now, though I still can't let people touch my throat without me freaking out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/17 06:35 PM
9	Q4W: Has a Husband/Boyfriend/Date/Hookup Ever Physically Or Emotionally Abused You? I dated a man who tried to kill me. I was saying something he didn't like--think like, dorky puns? Anyways, I'm not very large and he was taller and bigger than me. He covered my nose and mouth until I began suffocating and had an asthma attack. I broke free and got my inhaler, which meant I didn't die. No, it wasn't punching or yelling, but he knew I had asthma and he had been doing this for a while, just never pushing quite as far. His argument was that it wasn't fair to expect him to remember…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/17 05:37 PM
1	I posted a question in /r/mensrights I would love those of you who support financial abortion to answer. I think if we could trust people to be ethical, the opt out period taking place before sex would be ideal. However, in the case of things like stealthing, which is very difficult to prove in court, I don't think it would work. We have to assume making these policies that some percentage of the population will behave badly. I agree--I don't think my suggestion is fantastic, but i actually think practicality reasons are what's holding the financial abortion issues back. There's a very limited amou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/17 02:57 PM
9	I posted a question in /r/mensrights I would love those of you who support financial abortion to answer. In an absolutely ideal world, I would say that in order for baby to exist, both parties should have to consent to baby going into existence. However, given how fertility works and birth control isn't always effective, I don't think this is realistic for right now. How I would manage financial abortions in present time, if it came up: men would be granted the same period women are in order to achieve a financial abortion. Meaning, the woman needs to be able to have an abortion should the man choo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/17 05:34 AM
1	Why so little empathy for men who visit sex workers? Perhaps I live in a liberal city, but I haven't really seen much shaming of people using sex workers. If anyone i know does, they haven't mentioned it to me at least. There are issues of human trafficking to consider, but provided the woman is 18 and fully all right with what's she's doing, why would I care? I'm not the genital police. To avoid allegations of financial coercion, I'd structure it similar to how surrogates are regulated. Mind you, I don't really understand why people would feel co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/17 04:23 PM
1	Do women wear makeup to attract male attention? I'm not sure. Being entirely honest, as a bisexual woman, I attract significantly more men without any makeup than with any. On the flip side, I don't attract many woman sans makeup, but with makeup I have no troubles. I think makeup is a bit of a right of passage thing for younger girls - sort of a way to show you're an adult?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/17 10:16 PM
62	What real and fixable gender issues do you think exist today? I think a male birth control option that is not a vasectomy or a condom will definitely be a great step towards giving men more reproductive rights, which is super important! I also think male circumcision should be banned except in cases of medical necessity at birth. Once a guy turns 18, he should be allowed to undergo the procedure if he chooses	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/17 01:27 AM
3	Do men have greater potential enjoyment of marriage/family while women have a greater potential enjoyment of sex? I am only going to address the sex aspect of this, but I believe it can be equally enjoyable for both parties. Men have prostrates, which can cause some very intense, shaky orgasms that seem about as intense as female orgasms from an outsider perspective. We can't magically switch to an always biologically male or female body from our own, so I doubt any kind of consensus is possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/17 01:25 AM
6	BP; Do you notice the gender imbalance in shaming those you consider unattractive and if so, how does that not lead you to RP or MGTOW? It's more about getting unity and support from a group of people than it is humiliating the guy. The goal is get rid of the unwanted suitor and not so many people will try to assault someone if they think they're taking on three people to get to the one. Again - I ask what the alternate solution a woman should take if a guy won't leave her alone? I've had to call security to remove a man from a location when he stalked me and my friend at 15--was that a better move? Out of the 10 examples you li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/17 05:45 PM
3	BP; Do you notice the gender imbalance in shaming those you consider unattractive and if so, how does that not lead you to RP or MGTOW? Only one example I gave was dangerous - dick pics and insults are annoying as opposed to dangerous. However, that's more talking on the online sphere as opposed to the in person sphere, which are two different subjects and I'll address the latter now. First - again, there are psychotic Sallys and Steves. They are not who I'm talking about when I'm explaining what I think the logic is. However, with that I also think we need to realize that people have had experiences with psychotic Sally's and s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/17 04:39 PM
20	BP; Do you notice the gender imbalance in shaming those you consider unattractive and if so, how does that not lead you to RP or MGTOW? The anecdotal evidence on women's side shows a polite rejection, or a lack of response (sometimes with very little time left to send a response), can lead to death threats, unsolicited dick pics, and insults - think of byefelipe on instagram I don't think it's possible for outsiders to get an accurate picture about what always goes on in those encounters. Sometimes the man is going to encounter a psychotic sally who will publicly humiliate him for approaching her, but I think it's equally likely…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/17 03:42 PM
4	Is disliking women ever acceptable or justifiable? Hate whoever you want to hate, but don't be surprised when it holds you back in life. Have you ever had any positive interactions with women? Or any negative interactions with men? I would look at those and ask why some impacted you more than others. Additionally, I would analyze if the experiences you're having with women ignoring you are different than daily interactions with men (do you get acknowledged by the same sex? How does it differ?). I could be 100% off base with these, but it's at le…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/17 06:43 AM
1	Q4ALL Have you ever been in an abusive relationship or observed one of a close friend of yours? I was abused by my ex boyfriend for a year. He sexually assaulted me and tried to murder me via suffocation. He isolated me from my friends as the decision eventually became "my friends won't go near him, so if I want to see him I need to avoid them". I was 19-20 when I dated him and was vulnerable, I think, due to a severely abusive childhood (I expected to be treated the way I was treated, I didn't know anything else). I'll answer questions if you have any specifics, but guilt was definitely u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/17 07:47 PM
2	CMV: Genuinely sexy/attractive/beautiful males are WAY rarer than genuinely sexy/attractive/beautiful females. I think there is a small portion of it that actually comes down to behaviour and women putting in more effort. Women do a lot of little things men may not be aware of to improve their physical appearance in not so obvious ways. For example, you hear the joke of a man and woman going to the salon, the man spends $10 and looks like a whole new person in five minutes while the woman spends five hours and looks the exact same. Speaking from experience, if I'm going five hours in a salon I'm getting …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/17 03:18 PM
6	What's the worst thing a man has done to you while you were with them? I'm not sure. I don't honestly know what his intentions were--he'd been doing that to me for about... a month I want to say when the asthma attack triggered? It was to shut me up when I said things he didn't like. I had been diagnosed with mild asthma about 8 months before after catching pneumonia like, 4 times in a row. I told him he needed to stop because I was at risk of having an asthma attack, but that's where the excuses of "what might seem important to you isnt always important to everyon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/17 10:15 PM
14	What's the worst thing a man has done to you while you were with them? Try to murder me. Ex boyfriend pinned me and covered my mouth and nose until I had an asthma attack. I managed to break free and get my inhaler, but it was very scary. I dumped him shortly after that. He didn't get what he had done wrong and claimed it wasn't his responsibility to remember not to try to constrict my breathing cause I didn't like it	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/17 08:47 PM
1	Q4ALL: What was something that you didn't realize was sexist until the internet pointed it out to you? Regarding #2 on your list, I think it has much more to do with venue than anything else. On a date? Calling a woman beautiful is a positive. In a professional environment, it's much less so. A lot of women want less focus brought to their appearances in professional environments when their skills should be the focus. By refocusing it on her appearance, particularly when the speaker would not do the same to a man (though really, cultural history makes this funky), redirects attention to her appea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/17 03:34 PM
1	What are some examples of toxic femininity? See, I disagree on that one. Mothers can be awesome, but some women are unsuited to motherhood, which is why the insistence is toxic femininity. My own mother was a drug addicted narcissist. She should not have reproduced. I know another friend who's mother tried to kill him. She should not have been a mother. More than that, pregnancy can be extremely damaging on a woman's body and some female bodies are not going to take to pregnancy well. If I got pregnant and attempted to carry to term - on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/17 03:29 AM
1	Q4 All: Problems men face and what to do about them. So, a big problem I see is the lack of male mentors for youths growing up. I think, due to the "all men are pedophiles" scare that occurred, a lot of men have become reluctant to pursue careers working with kids. As a result, boys - and girls, for that matter - are not seeing as many male role models growing up. I think there should be an affirmative action movement to encourage more men to take on careers working with kids (teachers, day care workers, camp counsellors, etc). Im of the opinion t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/17 02:35 AM
65	What are some examples of toxic femininity? I think mommy-worship culture is toxic femininity. The idea that kids need their mothers, but not fathers, the insistence that all women must become mothers, the hyper competition between mothers over who is best. The notion that men cannot ever be as good at raising their kids as women can... helicopter parenting taking the the eleventh degree and the tendency for identity as "mother" to be required to trump their prior identity as person. I think a lot of modern "mommy culture" would fall unde…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/17 03:23 PM
1	Q4All: How much of a dealbreaker is height? I'm female, 5'4" and bisexual. Honestly, height isn't a huge deal for me. I'm a bit unusual in the sense that I'm not a big fan of people being too much taller than me. My ideal range of height for men and women would be 4'8-6'3, but if I have a connection I can't honestly see myself turning someone down just because of their height.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/17 02:54 PM
2	Should it become socially acceptable to be braless? I'm in the camp of do what you want with your own boobs, but you can pry bras away from me kicking and screaming. Is it really taboo to go braless? I'm in a fairly liberal city and on occasion women will go casually topless. I wear a compression sports bra most times I leave the house. If I don't, running poses a real risk of tearing the ligaments in the side of my chest (I'm a 32I). Yeah, it's uncomfortable, but I prefer that discomfort to the alternative. As for 3, I want my compression bras b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/17 03:31 PM