LollipopVodka Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-3	Seduction For Women. Yup. Basically- if you have got a good personality, and are a decent human being, (and can display these awesome traits) you will be appreciated. The men in here translate that to: "Be as loud as possible. Label people as HBs, PUAs, AFCs, Blame others/put them down, Be fake." In reality, those labels mean nothing.. You can be the most insecure, average looking guy in the room, but if you know how to flaunt your GOOD traits, you will be attractive. If you can attract subtle but good attention, an…	/r/seduction	05/02/13 02:28 AM
1	Keeping it simple There is no "simple" way to do this. There is not a formula to seduce someone, and this isn't really too simple either. I take great offense at the posts that talk about manipulating a person into sex.. Seriously, being manipulative and deceitful is A LOT more desperate and pathetic than just being honest. If you are interpreting her signals, and she's trying to interpret your signals, (that you are faking, in response to her signals,) you might end up with a bit of a translation issue. The quic…	/r/seduction	24/12/12 08:29 AM
0	On the "dark side" of seduction. It's not just you, I've definitely noticed it as well.. It is almost painful to read Seddit sometimes. Our culture encourages men to be competitive (play to win!), whether it be in video games, sports, or friendships. Apparently this approach has combined with the immaturity, misogyny, and individualism of the common population. Instead of seducers competing to be their very best self, and challenging themselves to be the person that they never thought they were good enough to be, they have deci…	/r/seduction	11/12/12 09:57 PM
2	This is my dating technique to get laid as a man.(Works well for me), what are yours gentlemen? I don't like this post, so I'm going to organize my thoughts in a way that helps me identify the elements that I don't like about it. OP, Your only goal seems to be getting laid.. Yeah, that's a good goal for anyone. But someone who has a decent sense of their abilities is not going to plan out an extensive, generic, and devious technique for their third date.. The reasoning behind the choices is as follows, women don't want to look bad or unfit in front of their prospective mates, so a heavy wo…	/r/seduction	11/12/12 04:36 AM
2	Be honest, be shameless, and take full responsibility for everything. Thank you!! Honest motivations is fantastic for these situations.. Honesty makes it so you aren't trying to put her at a lower level than you, and you aren't trying to put her on a pedestal.. Honesty lets you approach her, as an equal, say what you are looking for, show who you are, and let it go from there. No insults or kiss-assery required. The awesome thing about this type of honesty, is that when you are successful (which you will be,) you did it in a way that's really not harmful for eithe…	/r/seduction	05/12/12 01:47 AM
2	I've come to a realization about the "nice guy syndrome" I understand that a lot of the guys in here just want to get laid, and so, they pull out all the stops to get what they want. A guy can be a good/nice guy, and still communicate what he wants and needs. I find that a whole lot of men are NOT nice, as is demonstrated in this forum...Heck, you guys are changing your personality just to hopefully maybe get laid (this does not apply to all the people in this forum) The thing about truly nice guys is that they don't need to "finish," because they are…	/r/seduction	04/12/12 01:23 AM
-1	Usually I don't let this stuff bother me but this time it did. Negging IS passive-aggressive, and useless if you want a girl to ever come into your personal space.	/r/seduction	08/11/12 07:53 PM
1	Usually I don't let this stuff bother me but this time it did. I agree with you... Texting on the same day= awesome. It lets her know that you are interested, and makes sure that she doesn't forget about you. I absolutely despise the little insults/ comments that seem to be so popular.. I'm a girl, and the second a guy does this, he's friendzoned or ignored. It's a clear mindgame, or the signs of a guy who can't think of anything to say. Ick. And as far as the FB message goes.. You screwed up.	/r/seduction	08/11/12 07:52 PM
2	Slap reaction guide please :D A great way to avoid being slapped is to not be a dick. Be a decent human being, and you'd be surprised... Mannerisms that work as a SlapShield: Be honest/sincere. Fake compliments, backhanded comments, and mindgames are a quick way to get yourself slapped and/or clawed. When flirting, keep things sensual, not overly sexual/gross. If you like her, act like it. Don't try to play Mr. Better-than-her.. You want to be the one who makes her light up, not the one who destroys her night. Jokes and laug…	/r/seduction	08/11/12 07:40 PM
1	Girls change their mind or lose interest later on Maybe you should just be honest... If you are looking for a casual thing, and not just sex, tell them that before you sleep with them.. But if you decide to see them after you've slept with each other, well, she doesn't know what you want, she knows what she wants, and she will do what she wants. If you don't define the terms of what you want, and what you can give, then why should she stay? By not defining the terms beforehand, you've made it clear that it's a quick lay, and she will treat it a…	/r/seduction	08/11/12 07:30 PM
9	How do you guys deal with last minute resistance? Go slower. If you are slowly building up to it, then she will know what is coming- and is able to back out sooner, if she wants to. The more sudden it is, the more alarming, and much less fun it is. You need to make your intentions clear: that way there will be no surprises.. If she says/acts that she doesn't want to do it.. Then be understanding.. It's not infuriating.. If you get mad/frustrated, it shows that you are so desperate for sex that when you can't have it, you get upset in some way. …	/r/seduction	07/11/12 05:15 PM
1	How much can I make her feel insecure? .People LIKE security. If you can't naturally keep her interest, it is not meant to be, plain and simple. You can challenge her without making her feel insecure. You can talk about intellectual debates or hot topics. If you have different opinions, then you will challenge and debate with each other. If you are on the same side, you can challenge yourselves by playing devil's advocate. DO NOT use backhanded compliments.. this is not challenging, and is not interesting, it is just being an asshole…	/r/seduction	07/11/12 05:09 AM
3	Negs only work if you're funny. Teasing is lighthearted, fun, and can be done back and forth. Teasing is about laughter and comfort, resulting from something that is mutually funny. Negging, is about manipulation and self-esteem. Negging is usually an insult, disguised as a joke or backhanded comment, used to find out what a person is sensitive about, and use it against a person, until that person feels that they are LOWER than the "seducer." This makes it easier for the "seducer" to take advantage of them. ---- Negging was de…	/r/seduction	06/11/12 10:19 PM
1	Is this a shit test? Well that's what I'm saying: You are seeming more douche-y than anything else.. If a guy was 'playfully' insulting me, in the aggressive way, as you described.. Sure, maybe I would laugh, brush it off, or even use the laughing time to think of a comeback/get away from awkward touchy time. Not sure I would crack up.. But if she doesn't know how to respond to a situation, or how funny the insult is supposed to be, it would make sense that she could over-laugh. Feel free to post some examples of th…	/r/seduction	06/11/12 09:46 PM
1	Is this a shit test? Really don't see why the idea of insulting/being negative towards someone you want to get with is so popular. Those playful insults that she is responding to... Well, it's possible that she is just laughing or joking back because she is uncomfortable.. Then when she gets on Facebook, she feels safer, and she can say what she really feels. Or that she is giving you the benefit of the doubt, thinking that you were rude to her because you were nervous, and now, on Facebook, you have the chance to b…	/r/seduction	06/11/12 05:55 PM
1	Is the idea that everyone deserves great life/great life partner/beautiful women a self-delusion? Deserving something is not something I would focus on. Earning something is what I would think about. Doing something that makes it more likely that you will get what you want, and that you can be proud of. I suggest finding a balance. A balance between the pompous delusion"I deserve everything, all the time, look how hot I am." And the depressing, "I will never have anything, I don't deserve it." I have found that a good middle-ground is, "I will have what I work for." =) ((As far as relationsh…	/r/seduction	06/11/12 05:28 PM
1	How do I f-close multiple girls without seeming like a douche to them? Well. You need to tell ALL of the people that you sleep with, what it means to you (or doesn't mean to you,) BEFORE you sleep with them.. If you let them know ahead of time that you just want a meaningless sexy romp, they can take it or leave it. If they choose to have sex with you, while informed, then they probably won't be as upset when they see you with the other girls... Otherwise, you will not only come off as a dick, but be one.	/r/seduction	06/11/12 04:34 PM
1	Help! This girl makes no sense AND she's withholding sex Why don't you talk to her about it? 3rd/4th/5th date-- can still be seen as too early to have sex. Sorry, but it's true. A lot of people tend to only have sex with people they are in some sort of semi-stable relationship with. Not sure if this has yet been defined or established in your situation. If all you are looking for is sex, you might want to look elsewhere. You know she is looking for a relationship, and you know that you do not want this.. Why are you still trying to get into her pants?…	/r/seduction	06/11/12 05:50 AM