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| 1 | Do women expect men to present more "manly" as they age?tight jeans, boots, tucked-in shirt. That doesn't seem old to me at all, just normal. Maybe the tucked in part, but wtf, boots lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Reasons for men to decenter relationshipsIn what sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Reasons for men to decenter relationshipsYeah I wouldn't. I just see them as different entities that wouldn't add to my existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 07:41 PM |
| – | Exploring the Impact of Fatherlessness on Boys’ DevelopmentI was lucky in that aspect I guess, the place, the time, and the parent. Really the only time I remember thinking of someone as a role model was Clint Eastwood the first time I saw the dollar trilogy as a kid. I took note, like this is how I want to come across socially. It's not like I looked at my mom and tried to emulate her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Reasons for men to decenter relationshipsI never got the importance. Would just drain my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 07:37 PM |
| – | Exploring the Impact of Fatherlessness on Boys’ DevelopmentIn terms of socialization, I didn't look at my mother for a role model but to older kids or random adults who did well socially, fictional characters... I think the potential issues were offset by lack of sheltering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Reasons for men to decenter relationshipsMGTOW, Isn't OPs post their whole thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Reasons for men to decenter relationshipsI don't really care about community. I think having some friends is normal and it can suck not to have that, but the need for a relationship and a simple need to socialize with someone who's a friend are two totally different things and needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 06:26 PM |
| – | Exploring the Impact of Fatherlessness on Boys’ DevelopmentAnecdotal, but I grew up without a father. However when I was growing up it was normal for parents not to be hyper involved so I spent a lot of time unsupervised with other kids from an early age. I'm not saying I didn't have some issues about not having a dad, but we really learned most things from practice and older kids, my mom never talked to me about shit like how to get girls or how to act with women, or how to be anything in particular. You learn in the wild. I'm ok with that. I don't wis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 06:12 PM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menI understand that. It's weird but it seems that once a woman is in a bad relationship, her life is really fucked and she's a doormat. Or these are just fake online stories that circulate around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 07:11 AM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menIt’s not dudes getting no pussy. It really is though. Shifting the topic to social relationships is an attempt to distract from the issue that many men are very clear about. I agree that not really caring about social relationships or having any is a big factor, but you can't ignore the fact that majority of guys who suffer from being lonely will tell you it's about relationships, not a need for a male friend (let alone a need to communicate with friends in a certain way women in particular like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 07:09 AM |
| 7 | Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman?Not at all, except to the old ladies (obviously not romantically, or financially, but I have an instinct to be a gentleman with them ) I don't really do that shit with girls. I can only approach people on an equal level, even if I wanted to I don't have it in me. I wouldn't want to date anyone who expects me to pay or treat her like a princess or what not, though mutual treating is totally fine when you build that kind of a dynamic. I don't do expensive dates either, just some drinks and a walk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 07:03 AM |
| 5 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?Do women have choices after conception? Yes Do men? No Did they both do the same thing and aren't they both equal individuals with their own lives that having a kid could ruin? Yes Is that fair? I don't see how your answer can be yes without making up all kinds of fictional scenarios where in female case every choice is responsible and in male only one (and that one isn't even a choice) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?women have choices after conception. Man doesn't. Everything else is mental gymnastics to justify injustice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?I didn't have a biological father in my life, so don't assume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?Never strayed from it. I don't know what's confusing about not wanting involvement with the child you never wanted because of another person's choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?It's not a decision for a guy though..women have choices. All of them are considered valid. The guy doesn't, and yet the act is the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?Men have a choice in their actions when they engage in sex. So do women yet we agree they should have choices after too. That's really all there is to it. You don't need a creative writing exercise on how these choices are actually am equivalent to this responsibility you expect of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:31 PM |
| 1 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personalityI experienced that too but I don't really know how I would react if she was unattractive. I also met a girl online and we talked a lot, and I never really asked to see her because I knew things wouldn't work out for several reasons, but I was in love with her. We kind of never went there but the topic was present I guess which is why I fucked things up by being too impersonal at times. I had a mental image of her and I'm pretty sure she was pretty. She could not be my type and her appearance wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:30 PM |
| 4 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?but once the child is born, it's no longer about choice It was never a choice for the man. And both adoption and abortion happen after conception. You're basically arbitrarily deciding what is a valid choice and what is responsibility without a choice. Well, your criteria is gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:07 PM |
| 3 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?To sum up, abortion is ok, adoption is ok, a man leaving a child is "equal responsibility". I can't follow this lack of logic. . Avoiding responsibility after conception is unjust to the child And yet there's abortion and adoption... This is just going in circles now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 11:51 AM |
| 9 | Women’s reliance on passive dating is self-sabotage and they know itThey aren't as interested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?Yes, women have the right to choose before birth, but that doesn't mean men should be free from responsibility after the child is born. How do you miss the point about how fucked up this reasoning is. Let me make a choice for you, and once my choice is made, you have to take responsibility cause now it's a totally different situation? I get the point very well, i heard it many times - I simply completely disagree with the premise. It's not a different thing. From the point of view of the man and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 11:13 AM |
| 11 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?You’re confusing the right to choose with the right to abandon responsibility. Abortion is about giving women control over their bodies, and I’m fully on board with that. But that’s a choice—a decision that happens before the child is born. After birth, the situation is different. The child exists, and the responsibilities of parenthood are now shared. That’s what your argument is missing: when you make the decision to bring a child into the world, whether you wanted it or not, you’re responsibl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 10:35 AM |
| 8 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?It's funny to call abortion an act of responsibility. I respect abortion, I am 100% for it, I think it should be legal, I have no negative thought of anyone who did it. But the fact is that any woman who has access to abortion can decide not to have a kid, thereby not suffering the horrible unwanted consequences of sex. And that's fine, sex is not some crime people should be punished for if things go wrong. Since as you pointed out, only woman can choose whether or not the child will even exist,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 10:04 AM |
| 9 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?Abandonment is ok if you're not killing the kid. A man who doesn't want a child abandons it with the mother who wanted a child and chose not to abort it. A mother who doesn't want a child (but didn't abort, at least she had an option) can abandon it with her parents, or have someone adopt it. Neither has to pay. You’ve got to stop framing this as a way out for men and see it for what it is: an excuse to avoid the consequences of your actions. Don't you see how this same exact logic can be used t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 09:44 AM |
| 6 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?They’d be all for abortion if it was them who were the ones who got pregnant. I'm all for abortion, and wherever it's legal, I'm also all for no financial responsibility for men if they didn't want a child but the woman didn't want to abort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 09:37 AM |
| 15 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?A woman can give her child up for adoption and not have financial responsibility. Which is fair, people should be able to decide from the start they don't want any parental rights and not have to pay either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Women that are 25+ who are looking for long term commitment from men but do not want children. For what purpose or goal are you looking for a LTR? Why not just hook up forever?I doubt most people who have kids feel fulfilled. It's someone else's life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Women that are 25+ who are looking for long term commitment from men but do not want children. For what purpose or goal are you looking for a LTR? Why not just hook up forever?I think if you view a life without children as automatically hedonistic As in, enjoyable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Women that are 25+ who are looking for long term commitment from men but do not want children. For what purpose or goal are you looking for a LTR? Why not just hook up forever?You're really obsessed with kids, it's weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 08:44 AM |
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