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I'd argue that it is harder to an extent in modern times to keep the weight off sure. it could be harder to not be an alcoholic in todays age where there's more access to alcohol then if it were prohibited. that doesn't mean it's ok to have a drinking issue just because this substance is more widely available. the example isn't perfect but it demonstrates the ultimate point at the end of the day, it's your fault if you are overweight. it's your responsibility to recognize that you need to pull b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/24 06:39 PM
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yeah and nicotine makes you want to smoke more, and drugs make you want to keep using. point is, you have a choice. eating processed foods doesn't make you fat. plenty of people grow up on processed foods and don't become fat. if you choose to eat excessive amounts of processed foods and become fat because you can't stop yourself from binge eating, then you have self control issues that should be addressed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/24 10:23 AM
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this won't change, the average american swears it's everybody else's fault they are fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/24 04:06 PM
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Ive found women are honest and transparent about their flaws, especially sexually wise, when you make them feel safe. buddy we're on reddit. what the hell are you talking about so youre saying you run background checks on random women redditors life including who they have intercourse with to confirm they are honest and transparent? thats not creepy at all dude 💀 its the internet and here, were all ugly losers. speak for yourself sir🥱 I get it man, if its a red flag then fair enough, i just thin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/24 01:31 PM
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i just think without the explicit mentioning of having slept around and lack of mentioning of previous SOs in the majority of stories posted here, i just dont know enough to judge. yeah because women are typically very honest and transparent about their flaws, especially sexual history wise, when ranting about men 😑 alright bro, you're going to have your personal opinion, no one's telling you that you have to assume anything about them. to us it's a red flag 🚩, to you it's all good. if you want …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/24 10:22 AM
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Do you not all genuinely consider that theres legitimate reasons a good woman could reach her thirties single do you not genuinely understand what an outlier is? sure it's possible. but anything's possible. that doesn't negate the general consensus. is it wrong to generally refer to prisoners as criminals because one prisoner may not actually be a criminal? the world works on generalities. this is a basic communication concept sir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/24 09:33 AM
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There is probably more to her story than she is willing to talk about. yeah if she's from the States then there are plenty of white knights who bend over backwards for women. it's likely these "savage men" are dudes who have their shit together so obviously they aren't going to be looking to take a single mom seriously. if her standards were lower, she could just pair up with a feminine progressive average guy who would take her seriously.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/24 03:59 PM
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the next target knows his history. past doesn't matter though? 🤔 ⁠Doesn't the red pill teach spinning plates? it encourages it, but "spinning plates" or having multiple women has been playing out forever. It's not like we know it usually? yeah that's why they check the website because dating the same man happens common enough to warrant its existence. also because certain traits in men are universally attractive. rich, good social skills, fit, confident, tall. yeah not literally EVERY single wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:24 PM
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while his sister dated popular guys and was invited to parties and trips. well, being a man is much more of an active role in dating so that makes sense. if you're not approaching women, or if you are shy or have bad social skills, you're interactions with the opposite sex will be minimal or nonexistent. vs a woman has a more passive role, suitors will come up to you with offers regardless of if you're shy or of your social capabilities in general. there's pros and cons to both.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:48 PM
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true crime has been exploding on you tube the past couple years.
/r/AntiFeminists08/04/23 08:06 PM
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makeup makes women look "better"(aesthetically) people who look better are going to be more positively received by society in general. going barefaced will probably make things slightly harder for a women. but it's not make or break.
/r/AntiFeminists15/02/23 02:55 PM
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it's because women get turned on by men that they like or have some sort of preexisting attraction for. therefore they think that means they are just as horny as men. and if you suggest women aren't as horny, the irrational feminists will try and shame you and imply you are just unattractive. whereas men get horny for a wide variety of women in general. however i do think women in general understand men are more "hornier" but it's the feminists that try and spin that narrative.
/r/AntiFeminists13/02/23 02:54 PM
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women use "gay" as a covert insult rather then a direct one. which is why it's common for women to suggest a man is on the "down low" or pretend to encourage a man to be "his true self" when he clearly says he is straight. you may call it a straw man, but Kevin Samuels is a good example of when women don't like men or what they say, not all women are above calling them "gay" to try and discredit them or mess with their image.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/23 02:12 PM
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lmaoo damn, it really did turn out like that
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/23 02:41 PM
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facts
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/23 02:40 PM
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well women are told to live for themselves these days and that their happiness comes before everything else. they were also steered towards the "sex in the city" lifestyle over setting up a good foundation to start a family. they also have it heavily drilled into their mind to prioritize a career and don't think about marriage until their 30s(lol). you can go with the "hope strategy" and hope for a miracle. but the reality is that most of us are not going to get a miracle. most men will have to …
/r/AntiFeminists10/01/23 03:16 PM
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the world runs on generalizations.
/r/AntiFeminists09/01/23 08:13 PM
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then she can just work those days like most women do now so she can make rent. simple (being a single mom is definitely their fault in 99% of cases)
/r/AntiFeminists08/01/23 02:03 PM
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have a little compassion = pay me to sit at home 🤡 i'm fine with giving women free days off. but make it excused, unpaid. simple
/r/AntiFeminists08/01/23 01:58 PM
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what do they do if you identify as a women?
/r/AntiFeminists08/01/23 01:54 PM
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true however i think it should still be deemed hate speech, because if men do the same it is always deemed as such. however i'm fine with free speech so i have no problem with women doing that as long as it is classified appropriately.
/r/AntiFeminists07/01/23 04:57 PM
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he’s pretty reasonable and willing to have to sit down with people who disagree with him and have discussions without accusing you of being all types of bigots, so no.
/r/AntiFeminists31/12/22 07:35 PM
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RP has respect for him doing is thing and being brave enough to challenge the world with unpopular opinions. but RP is a niche small community, most people that are “looking up” to Tate is apart of the general public or is a casual observer of the Mano sphere.
/r/AntiFeminists31/12/22 03:41 PM
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I consider myself RP aware, i don’t think Tate has ever considered himself RP even though he agrees with a lot of the concepts around relationships. but it’s not like he’s a OG or one of the credited founders for laying the groundwork of RP. he’s just someone who hovered around the space, if it’s turns out to be true then that’s on him. it may negatively impact RPs image to the general public who casually observed the Mano-sphere as all one in the same. but that can’t be helped but it’s not like…
/r/AntiFeminists31/12/22 02:24 AM
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What makes me more sad is that most of his cancerous fans thinks that human trafficking is no big deal and they think he's "innocent". we do not know if he is guilty, you acting like we need to be furious over an unproven accusation is just as asinine. if someone ever accused you of something, should you be ostracized and condemned? haven't the salem witch trials and corrupt dictatorships in general already shown why condemnation off accusations is a bad idea? If that was your mom, your sister, …
/r/AntiFeminists30/12/22 02:41 PM
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doesn't matter, body shaming language is either ok or it is not. would it be ok to tell amber herd she has "stretched vagina" energy because of what she did? honestly idc about body shaming but since society acts like it's an egregious violation of human rights if men body shame women in any way, then don't be surprised at the outcome when a women does it to a man
/r/AntiFeminists30/12/22 02:22 PM
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gg men have done less and still got taken through the wringer. modern day society does not care if you are innocent or not, and feminist somehow care even less then that. a lot of feminist and feminist advocating accounts still praise and defend amber herd. and these same people believe they are the moral compass for society 🤦🏼
/r/AntiFeminists20/12/22 07:31 PM
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women who are doing the same job as a man, with the exact same qualifications as a man, are still paid one percent less than men at the median for no attributable reason your source literally says they do not know the reason for the pay gap. hence there is no strong evidence demonstrating the pay gap exists due to gender discrimination.
/r/AntiFeminists20/12/22 05:17 PM
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Why do feminists need to make everything a gendered issue and judge all men the same instead of seeing us as humans? lmaooo 💀
/r/AntiFeminists20/12/22 05:11 PM
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exactly, now think about the type of people that think she is "based" for saying this nonsense
/r/AntiFeminists20/12/22 05:10 PM
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you have no argument. but if repeating helps you reassure yourself, then do what makes you comfortable
/r/AntiFeminists20/12/22 04:31 PM
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you're trolling at this point. just say you don't have an argument. it is fine
/r/AntiFeminists20/12/22 02:22 PM
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the result is the same. both parties can feel deceived or misled. whether or not you agree with the severity of the deception, is irrelevant it is your fault. if you sleep with a man because you think he has good assets, if he doesn't actually have that, then you have to hold the L for making a careless decision.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 11:11 PM
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that is the topic of the post. it's fucking sexual coercion That is to say, wear a mask and pretend to be someone the person in question would agree to fuck while knowing full well they'd never have agreed had they known who you actually were trick a women into believing you're someone they'd want to have sex with but if you agree with my general point then that is fine
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 11:07 PM
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why are you asking about my personal life? that is weird. the point is the same regardless, whether i sleep with women before or after marriage, im not the one who would accuse them of *ape for my choice because i thought they were rich lol i take accountability for my actions, knowing that whatever the result of my choice is will ultimately be my fault, is how i am able to avoid bad situations and inevitably deal with deceitful women without becoming resentful.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 10:32 PM
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you want me to provide you a step by step guide? what exactly would that accomplish
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 10:23 PM
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if he lies about it, and you do not do your due diligence to confirm what he says is true before sleeping with him, then that is on you.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 08:55 PM
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i'm not telling you what to do, but assuming you are a reasonable person, then you understand that you accept all the risks that are associated with choosing to disregard this precaution.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 08:53 PM
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what I didn’t want was someone who lied about what they had or didn’t have. that's reasonable Especially finance guys! Needless to say I didn’t marry one of those. lol choice words i see but if you(women in general) slept with those men then that is on you. instead of not marrying them, women should just not sleep with men who they have not confirmed is financially well or responsible if that is such a big deal to them rather then trying to cry *ape just because they got sweet talked into bed by…
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 08:35 PM
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most men with money wouldn't mind leading the relationship which includes teaching a women to be financially responsible if the women has other wife qualities.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 08:29 PM
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But men who get “finessed” out of their money and get mad bc the chick doesn’t look good without make up- well, those guys only go for looks that is a generalization which you are free to assume. but there is nothing wrong with wanting your partner to be physically attractive Maybe care about the woman’s personality and you won’t get fleeced?! that is part of the point smart one, hence why i said it is their fault if they get finessed. but also makeup in general masks natural looks so sometimes …
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 08:27 PM
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with makeup and foundation to mask their face? no, men typically do not do that. if a man gets finessed out of his money and time by a chick he thought looked good but it turns out she only looked good with makeup, that is on him. if a women gets finessed by a smooth talking man, that is on her. you are a grown women, accountable for your own choices. unless you are a prostitute, your consent to have sex should not be reliant on money lol
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 02:49 PM
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apparently, they do that for themselves
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 02:44 PM
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i mean, if you are fiscally responsible and make good money then you should be able to lead the relationship so y'all should be good right? a lot of men are able to lead relationships this way.
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 02:39 PM
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yeah women typically get cancelled for mentioning LGBTQ, but they can pretty much shit on men all day. or even drug and rob men as referenced in this post 💀 cancel culture is something else
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 02:25 PM
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lol people do not see you as a real person, like they think you are a ghost? 👻 or do they just not agree with your gender ideology?
/r/AntiFeminists18/12/22 11:38 PM
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so you are seriously suggesting that MOST men women see in day, stop what they are doing and tell those women to smile? or is it an extreme minority of men that do that and you are now accusing men in general of seeing Women as “things” due to those men? lmao, and when men make generalizations like this towards women, it is “misogyny”
/r/AntiFeminists18/12/22 11:01 PM
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Muslim countries are absolutely great to live in 🤨 ion know bout that one chief they will literally kill you for not being muslim i'm not a feminist but even i know the women get done dirty over there. here in the states, the women are promiscuous and delusional for the most part and think they are being oppressed due to indoctrination and the results of their own poor decisions. but the women over there are quite literally oppressed and even classified as being less then men. the problem they f…
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 07:43 PM
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you are right in this sense. and when you only consider it from this perspective it is easy to sympathize with them. but then when you consider what type of men they think they deserve, how little they care about what men want in general, and how quick they are to dismiss or misrepresent men's issues, the sympathy is easily lost. but all in all, those men disgust me but what does that solve? a lot of them already know their behavior is repulsive, they will do as they please no matter what anyone…
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 07:09 PM
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well, i would say it is moreso because trans-women are more vocal in their disdain towards straight men, often calling straight men bigots for differentiating them from women who were born female. that community often looks for any level scrutiny in straight men they can get away with, such as saying it's ok to not be into trans-women, then if any reason is listed for why they prefer biological females, they get labeled transphobes.
/r/AntiFeminists08/12/22 12:08 PM
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Are there any good women left? in the west? in terms of relationship prospects, virtually none. there are intelligent women out there though that are able to see through the bs and they are respectable people in general. but they still adopt a lot of feminists ideologies where it benefits them, so in terms of committing to them, they are still a bad bet.
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/22 01:24 AM
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i get your point and i am not outright denying the findings. twins can establish genetic foundations but it certainly is not absolute. there is a lot that i could use to refute the study you are referring to as a lot of people question the integrity of said conducted study for many reasons, but that would be pointless as i agree with you for the most part. i typically accept the “people are born this way” ideology, at least until it is weaponized to attack peoples character or to shut down speec…
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 02:35 PM
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it could also be argued that a gay sibling chances of being gay is significantly influenced by being raised around other gay siblings. point being, there is all sorts of theoretical correlation. we don't really know one way or the other. but i ultimately agree with you that i do not think a mother being mean to men makes their children gay, but there really is no telling how much it influences it.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 02:08 PM
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this is just not true while i do not think it is true either, i don't think your personal experience or what you personally seen is enough to dismiss the point in its entirety. we're not sure what causes people to be gay but we have good reason to believe social influence has a lot to do with it.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 12:43 PM
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promoting their body for a few dollars a month those women don’t respect their clientele yet they demand respect from the world..
/r/AntiFeminists22/11/22 05:22 PM
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i understand her frustration, i just don’t understand why she’s placing the blame on male privilege. transgender, gender identity, gender spectrum and the rest of that ideology was ushered into society by the 🏳️‍🌈 community, it has nothing to do with male privilege. she’s literally just doing that to blame men for another one of her problems because if she spoke like that to the community responsible for it, they would eat her alive.
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/22 07:37 PM
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But I don’t find men that cheat desirable in any way, shape or form. i was speaking generally as this isn’t personally about you as your personal opinion is one of many having multiple sexual partners is a desirable outcome for men. it is literally the typical male fantasy. also women arent attracted to cheating, but they are attracted to men who are “able to cheat” because in order to cheat, those men must be attractive. whether they’re tall, rich, fit, socially charismatic, confident, ambitiou…
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/22 08:47 AM
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his take on “property” is wild imo. but the entire context where he described why there’s a difference between men and women cheating was pretty logical. i don’t agree it’s ok to “cheat” in the sense of lying about your other sexual partners, but i do think it’s more practical for a man to maintain multiple sexual partners in a relationship then for a women to. i just don’t see how a women with multiple husbands could be practical, healthy, or even desirable.
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/22 01:14 AM
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i mean it could be said that half if not more of men feel like women exert pressure on them to perform and meet certain standards, especially when it comes to finances. but we don’t accuse them of a matriarchy.. i don’t think we will agree, but you’ve been civil and I respect the patience you have shown today. respectfully, i just think the standards we’ve discussed point more towards biology rather then a patriarchy. but that is just my opinion which you are free to disagree with.
/r/AntiFeminists05/11/22 09:31 PM
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so just feeling any sort of pressure coming from the opposite gender is a patriarchy.. i mean respectfully that is just wrong. it doesn’t make any logical sense. a patriarchy implies some sort of oppression, but you haven’t demonstrated any sort of oppression related to that not even once. your whole argument sums up to people treat you nicer if you take the time to put yourself together. but that literally goes for anyone, you just feel like there’s more pressure on women, but you could literal…
/r/AntiFeminists05/11/22 08:11 PM
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If a bunch of women feel pressured because of a few men, then yes it’s patriarchy. Lmao pressured to do what?
/r/AntiFeminists05/11/22 07:46 PM
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Yes, but there’s a difference between looking presentable and spending hours getting ready because you feel the need to not because you want to. ok you are basing the patriarchy off of a feeling? From what I’ve seen all the major trendsetters before social media where cooperations owned by men ei magazines, Victoria’s Secret, pinup girls. yes, and models were based on what men generally find attractive. if anything models these days are controlled by women and the feminist agenda. “Plus sized mo…
/r/AntiFeminists05/11/22 07:02 PM
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It’s not to please men it’s to be accepted and have the perks that comes when you’re attractive, people are nicer to you and other things that belong under the halo effect. people treat you better when you look nice.. you dont think men get treated better when they present themselves well.. please explain what does that have to do with a patriarchy? because of some men who set the beauty and makes women feel like they need to conform because if not there worth less. is that the truth or your per…
/r/AntiFeminists05/11/22 05:12 PM
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could you please explain further why you believe that to be the case?
/r/AntiFeminists05/11/22 10:45 AM
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the irony is that women will often say “behind every great man is a great women” and follow it by saying men took credit for all their ideas. so by their logic, we’re in this “patriarchal society” due to the “great ideas” of women that men took credit for.
/r/AntiFeminists05/11/22 03:17 AM
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the problem is that feminists tend to manipulate the truth they will say something that is true, like men committing violence against women, but they will just leave it at that and the average uninformed women who sees that will just assume that women are overwhelmingly targeted for violence.
/r/AntiFeminists04/11/22 01:48 PM
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🤨 i guess you are free to see it that way if you choose. but people are really just trying to shame everyone into being the same while promoting diversity.
/r/AntiFeminists03/11/22 01:40 PM
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No, I didn't interpret it as that you wish women be miserable it was more of a general statement not aimed at you But you very much showed exactly WHY more and more women opt out on having children and thus binding themselves to men im confused, i was very direct in what I said, so I guess showing women they have options was the intent. It's simply not worth the risk and the realityof motherhood is a very bleak one. that is your opinion, which you are free to have. you have assessed the value of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:43 PM
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Right....and that's why more and more women decide against having children. ok.. 🤨 and it is a reasonable choice for a women to make. why would i want women having children with men they would eventually leave I guarantee you that this woman wouldn't have ever imagined that her life turns out like that. naturally, that’s the downside with the “hope” strategy. it leads to unimaginable despair. i don’t wish this fate on anyone if she were told the harsh truths and she accepted them, she could have…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:32 PM
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i would give her the same advice i would give anyone. operate in reality, it is a cruel reality for men and women. don’t accept the comforting lies society will try to push on you or else you will end up relying on the “hope” strategy and ending up in a “no win” situation like this. there’s no way to sugarcoat it, men are only as faithful as their options. i think every women should understand this before committing in a relationship. if she leaves him to find another man, it’s more than likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:17 AM
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you could still end up a single mom because you could get divorced. women initiate 80% of divorces
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:58 AM
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your conclusion is wild, but before that you were speaking some facts. men are definitely less socially calibrated then women. however you speak of it as if it is a net negative or defect of some sort when it’s pretty clear that the tradeoff is their physical conditioning. men simply don’t need to be as social as women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:32 PM
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hmm i was highly skeptical of a lot of things that turned out to come true. 2014-2022 has been a wild ride. at this point it is difficult for me think something like this couldn’t become “normalized.” i just wonder where the line will be drawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:19 PM
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Lol, why should he? You say he didn’t bear any responsibility for the child existing mainly because he had no authority over the child being brought into this world, to offset that, the women will have no authority over if the biological father will be involved or not. things are equal now so it’s all good 👍 What you’re asking for is men to have privileges with no responsibility. i disagree mainly because your logic is easily reversible but if we go with it, then it’s arguably true that currentl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:30 PM
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your own responses dislodge your own argument. then it should be easy for you to demonstrate that. but you have not, therefore, i will just leave you to have your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:08 PM
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that can be your opinion, that’s fine. but as long as equal benefactors and compensation is there, it’s cool
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:41 PM
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any illness or mental damage may suffer from a women choosing to have his child he did not want with his DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:39 PM
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well as long there are no restrictions on financial abortions either and men get equal benefactors and compensation, then we’re good 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:31 PM
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alright then we can just legalize financial abortion and just have it be a heated topic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:17 PM
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You said that women alone bear full responsibility for the child. responsibility for the child being brought into this world If men have no responsibilities for any child, why should they be granted privileges? if the child has his DNA then he can have the option to opt in. he’s not responsible for the child being brought here as that is not a choice he could have made, but if the child has his DNA then he can have the option to opt in
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:15 PM
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women killing their child does not “open up a can of worms”?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:03 PM
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you’re supposed to be spreading love and positivity ma’am 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:10 PM
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You are arguing that men should not have any parental rights if that is how you interpret it, but that is not a point that i made
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:46 PM
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financial abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:44 PM
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👋🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:42 PM
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a man can not legally enter a women without her consent. So he does not have authority to put his seed wherever he pleases. Don't want to raise a kid? Don't get a woman pregnant. It's that simple. that logic is easily reversible to apply to women and abortion 🤦🏻‍♂️ You have yet to adequately explain or justify why a woman's ability to abort a fetus should have an affect on his responsibility to be a father to his seed. that is not a point that I made. my point was laid out pretty clearly that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:39 PM
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avoid admitting that both parties are responsible for having condomless sex. my initial comment quite literally said both parties can abstain from sex, I guess you can just ignore that so you can feel justified in your thinking As a result the man is responsible for the outcome since he's the reason she can even make that choice in the first place. she is also the reason Your logic falls apart with each response nothing you have said has dislodged my logic. you would have to demonstrate how it l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:48 PM
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How can a man have a justifiable right to abstain when he was irresponsible by not wearing a condom, and as a result impregnated the woman. the women let him enter her without a condom, which is irresponsible A woman not wanting to abort her fetus that you put in her if a women does not want to kill her child, then that is her choice to do so. that falls well within her authority. as a result she is responsible for the outcome of her choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:26 PM
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just because a man impregnates a women, that does not mean he will have a child. you can argue a man can abstain like a women can abstain. but you can’t argue a man can abort like a women can abort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:31 PM
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stop with these silly fkn equivalences that is your opinion and just raise their children people should raise their children, but the point still remains that the person with the authority to put them here is ultimately responsible
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:58 AM
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Well, women have the the authority to bring children into the world. just because a man impregnates a women, that does not mean he will have a child. you can argue a man can abstain like a women can abstain. but you can’t argue a man can abort like a women can abort. logically speaking if women have the authority to bring children into the world, then the one holding that authority is responsible. however in cases where abortion is not a legal option, then I agree that both men and women are equ…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:38 AM
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i guess your experience must be everyone’s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:52 AM
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you speaking facts right now. i believe men can prefer no makeup but they will always find the women with makeup the most eye pleasing if that makes sense. that’s because since we generally do not understand how it works, we often think of a women with makeup as a “face full of makeup”. unfortunately, once i had a basic understanding of how makeup works though, I realized that the whole “women just look so much better then men” thing was overblown because most women past a “certain age” with no …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:00 PM
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ok, it seems you are able to identify what you would consider “toxic traits” and that these “toxic” traits are presumably pushed onto them from men. but it seems that you either do not, or at least have not demonstrated that you understand why men move the way they do. you have not shown to be aware of what men are experiencing in their interpersonal interactions with other men and women that lead to them embracing these traits you simply chop it up to “it was pushed on to them”. its a surface l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:36 PM
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it’s coping mechanisms what in men’s lives are causing them to push said “coping mechanisms” you feel are toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:25 PM
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do you understand the average male experience in this world? do you understand what interpersonal interactions are like for men? in other words, do you understand why it is that men adopt the traits you would consider to be “toxically masculine”? or are you simply able to identify traits of what you would consider to be “toxically masculine”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:36 PM
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toxic masculinity doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:47 PM
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I see toxic masculinity as behaviour that is somewhat imposed or encouraged do you understand why those behaviors are “imposed or encouraged” as you say, or are you only really able to identify said behaviors as “toxic”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:45 PM
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there’s no such thing as toxic masculinity or toxic femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:39 PM
5

do you truly empathize with men? or do you simply feel sorry for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:35 PM
1

So you acknowledge attracting a man and attracting a woman are two completely different beasts. naturally But can’t acknowledge our need to go out of our way to attract a man or woman differ. women like looking attractive primarily because it gets them attention All to soothe egos. Fascinating. may be an unpopular opinion but the average women has a bigger ego then the average man.. Look I’m sorry facts are facts If I’m trying to attract a man one day and trying to look good in an all female lun…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:21 PM
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men do the same to be attractive to women. naturally Why is it worth discussing? men are pretty straight forward about this, however women insist they look attractive for “themselves” and nothing else. yes i believe them when they say they do it for themselves, but we know 2 things can be true at once. so when they deny it’s for attention, especially from men, and pretend it doesn’t factor in at all we get into the modern female delusion that currently plagued society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:16 PM
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in general, most women wear makeup or get plastic surgery to make them more attractive. women like being attractive because it gets them attention. there are other reasons sure, but this sums it up sufficiently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:09 PM
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No one wants to be the worst looking in the room, has nothing to do with men. the worst looking one gets the least attention in general. women compete on looks because the best looking women get the most attention. what does attention lead to? opportunities. from who? men for the most part Here’s the thing to attract a man I can just open my legs in the middle of the street it’s not challenge and it’s in abundance true but RP already acknowledges this. opening your legs in the street gets you an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:46 PM
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because for some women makeup/plastic surgery makes them feel/look pretty why do women need to look pretty? if someone is insecure about something and they have the money to change something about themselves.. they do it what would cause someone to be insecure about the way they look?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:28 PM
0

attention from men plays a significant part
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:23 PM
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then take it off once your done looking in the mirror lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:22 PM
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Like who wouldn’t want to look good and finally be able to feel good about themselves? why do women need to put on makeup to feel good about themselves? Honestly loving yourself is the first step. why is makeup and plastic surgery so closely tied to loving oneself to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:20 PM
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women wear makeup for a multitude of reasons but one of the primary reasons is to look more attractive to men. if women didn’t care then how do women feel pressured by a “beauty standard”?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:06 PM
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lol you are free to think that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:42 AM
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lmao, who said it wasn’t difficult? you can choose whatever, but we all know most people would rather raise a child themselves then to be bamboozled
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:47 AM
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No babies are involved in abortion. you can choose to see it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:45 AM
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if you choose to see it that way, then that is you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:43 AM
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so the answer is the baby has to die so she can continue to live her best life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:15 AM
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well a significant amount of women say they don’t need men and leave it at that. the other portion of women(which i believe is most women) were indoctrinated by feminism and they believe men and women are completely interchangeable. and pretty much all of the 🏳️‍🌈 believe in gender fluidity, they most definitely believe men and women are interchangeable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:23 PM
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it’s simple. men are territorial with their women. a women that goes from territory to territory is a major red flag 🚩. men don’t take those women seriously because a woman who crosses territories frequently is shameless, in men’s eyes they do not respect themselves. they will likely continue to keep roaming territories so why commit? it’s foolish imo, but there are men who commit to those women. i will also mention marriage rates are the decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:16 PM
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remember, women claim to have a lot of empathy but that is not the case. look at the women’s response here and in every “virgin” question thread. they mock and shame men for what they want then claim to understand men’s problems and be full of empathy. laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:07 PM
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i’m willing to bet, most people would rather be a single parent then raise a child with someone else who told them it is theirs only to find out later in the life the child was never theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:58 PM
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That's not to say you don't create value, because you do in your own way. As do women. i agree with your assertion that most people in general, men and women aren’t really creating or maintaining infrastructure. 🤝 however i think men in general acknowledge the critical need for the men who do those jobs whereas women often don’t care or are ignorant of the differences between men and women. most women think all the men maintaining the infrastructure could just be easily replaced by women and eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:29 PM
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i do sympathize with women who are unable to find love, but then they tell me their “standards” and i’m just like 😐 women will tell you their standards are low and that the “bar is in hell” but then when you get into the tangibles of what they are asking for, they usually describe a man in the top 5-10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:52 PM
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i think this is true of most women in general. though choosing not to exercise an option vs not having an option at all is clearly 2 different feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:44 PM
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i agree with you 🤝 however it is “less difficult” to find love as a women simply through the numbers game alone. that is not me saying it is easy overall
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:37 PM
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ALL responsibility and agency of what exactly? lol, the decline was in full force before people even realized RP was a thing. RP is accountable for less then a fraction of 1% of the way things are today. RP can’t make people traditional, if RP tries, they get cancelled 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:51 PM
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marriage rates are declining. -women are initiating most divorces -more and more women don’t want children or marriage -more women are valuing a career over starting a family
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:44 PM
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lol projection much?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:41 PM
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It's based on old ideas about purity, and inherently the idea that sex is bad, and women that have it are somehow tainted. you’re trying to force your opinions on other people through shaming. just because someone wants a virgin/low body count doesn’t mean they view people who don’t have that as bad people. it’s their personal preference. they are only speaking in terms of a partner that is compatible for them, it sounds like you are projecting and trying to force whatever your dating practices …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:09 PM
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therapy is a paid profession for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:25 PM
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we don’t believe in unconditional love*
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:49 PM
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you need a little more info outside of “this persons called out a bad behavior” lmao he didn’t call out bad any bad behavior. men having preferences is bad behavior? if that is your opinion, then that is you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:56 AM
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sounds like projection
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:08 AM
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lol it just sounds like you are insecure man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:04 AM
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You don't have to date anyone you don't want to.... but this reaction to a woman who's had more sex than you is unusual and worth examining. What makes her disgusting? men are territorial with their women. knowing a women has been hopping from territory to territory is a repulsive concept to men. it comes off as disloyalty or a lack of discipline. therefore men are hesitant to commit to women who have “experience” going from men to men. also men are competitive, it is embarrassing to be seen wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:44 AM
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Basically insecurity you don’t think you’re projecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:30 AM
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cuck logic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:27 AM
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Framing what you want as an expectation tends to come off very forceful from a parent. lmao, yeah bro. just don’t expect anything from your children, you don’t want to force them to do anything Oh nice sound byte. what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:01 AM
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who said anything about forcing? It is not reasonable to expect your daughter to do something lmao, ok bro. if that is your opinion, then i’ll leave that to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:57 AM
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one should make sure that children have role models who don't fail to meet reasonable standards. the reasonable standards are different for his wife then for his child which is logical. sure your daughter can have some of the same qualities as your wife but to hold her to the exact same standards is ridiculous. if your wife has a High School Diploma but you are putting your daughter in position to get a college degree then that is wrong? you have to cap your daughter at a high school diploma too…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:20 PM
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yes lmao, that is the logic i expect of PPD. many people have higher standards for their children and expect much more for them. they prioritize their children even over themselves. a man may wife a women who was a stripper but not want his daughter to become a stripper, shit even those mothers don’t want their daughter to go through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:57 PM
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if your standards are higher for your daughter, does that mean the standards for your wife are not high?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:50 PM
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that’s a good thing though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:35 PM
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😎
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:04 PM
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Ok? And i said that i think it’s perfectly fine to generalize an internet subculture. alright, we both already acknowledged that generalizing a group of people is no big deal to you, that’s just what you do. so what is the problem? It is just not comparable to an entire gender. that is your opinion ma’am. i’m fine with women having opinions. You’re slow.. geez, that was rude..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:46 PM
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the logical answer is yes, a subculture consist of a group of people. if you generalize a subculture then you are generalizing a group of people, which is exactly what you did. no offense ma’am
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:35 PM
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does a sub culture consist of a group of people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:25 PM
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Women, are a group consisting of billions of individuals with completely different lives, cultures, views, habits, etc…. do women as a group share any similarities? So yes, a specific internet sub-culture/movement can be generalized. this is the logic you use to justify you generalizing a group of people? It would be valid criticism if i was doing that, but i only mentioned RPers and made it clear not all men are like this. you criticized RP with your opinion on it. and i told you that it is ok …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:10 PM
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lol you didn’t have a point, you had an opinion that RP grossly generalizes, and then you proceeded that by grossly generalizing RP. am i supposed to be upset with women having opinions? we’re different in our thinking, and it is ok for people to see things differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:45 PM
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part of rp is women generalize men as well, especially in their occupation. the problem relies in the gross generalization they grossly generalize? i guess that is your opinion, i don’t have a problem with you having opinions. but i find the generalizations pretty accurate. women will be viewed negatively is everyone not viewed negatively in some aspect? maybe you should try be more specific because you are generalizing right now and it doesn’t really make any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:30 PM
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and men aren’t viewed negatively at all due to generalizations?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:58 AM
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she’ll be fine. “men” doing “hoe shit”. lmao men and women are different, but that’s not something we have to agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:54 PM
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i mean i could just always open the relationship up on my end. there are positives and negatives of every situation. in this case, if her only flaw is her sex drive is abnormally low, then that means the chances of my wife doing some hoe shit and embarrassing me is extremely low compared to most women. but if she’s a dutiful wife, willing to have children, and pleasant to be around, then i don’t mind. my kids get to have a good mom who’s not a hoe. that combo is uncommon these days 👌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:47 PM
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they will find something wrong with what the women are doing. women are doing everything right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:36 PM
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you have the audacity to call these children "the children of degenerates" while you literally support men having a degenerate lifestyle. At least be consistent. because it is high risk, high reward. you slip up, that is on you. if a player don’t play smart then we clown him. if a player play and win then he gets his props. simple it is very difficult to do, which is why it is respected. women play the game too, and women take the L in this situation for not being a good judge of character and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:18 AM
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preference probably for wife material. but no one is arguing virginity/body count is a direct indicator of trauma. however the correlation is seemingly high in many peoples experience. however correlation does not equal causation so you are free to consider all these peoples experience of “trauma” with higher body count women a coincidence. from what i hear, most people tend to have a more pleasant relationship experience with women who have not slept around. but you may have heard differently, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:13 PM
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they are simply much less of a headache in general. it’s your experience against mine so if that hasn’t been your experience, then that is you🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:02 PM
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not directly, but low body count women tend to have less trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:30 PM
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evidently
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:22 AM
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then why do you want to give your attention to someone who is on onlyfans? by “you”, i assume you mean men in general.. i am not sure the exact reason as to why those men do what they do. i also don’t think they “want” to do that, i think they are moreso unable to resist the temptation. if it's a valuable resource? you should be more selective about where you invest/use it. obviously.. however that assumes the person is in a healthy mind state to be able to process rational solutions as such. i …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:05 AM
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male attention is undeniably valuable, ie onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:09 PM
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Competence?! you should question what you hear in general for reasons of competence.. 🤦🏻‍♂️ And it’s my right remember? So move along. i mean you originally replied to me, if you didn’t want to talk then you can go on about your day ma’am
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:52 PM
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What would be my motivation to not take what’s being said without challenge as fact? competence? lmaooo wow If it’s not fact why do y’all allow it to be said? lol people have freedom of speech i guess? also i don’t see what you claim to have seen from them You’re challenging me more than the guys making red pill look bad you realize that right? what makes you think your approval is necessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:18 PM
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If we went by this logic lmaoo what exact “logic” did i assert?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:57 PM
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that is anecdotal, if you claim that to be your experience then fine. i’m sure there are people who believe you however you pretty much admitted that you just go off what people tell you rather then doing your own research, hence how fake info is spread lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:56 PM
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it’s information, idk why you are stuck on some sort of promise. if you disagree with it then that is fine, but no need to misrepresent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:47 PM
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and this is how fake info is spread
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:28 PM
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lol is that what it says?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:50 AM
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you are free to that opinion. i think the answer is plainly simple
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:20 PM
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surely, but the answer to my question is not complex at all. who files for divorce more?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:33 PM
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hm, im not sure that is exactly what the statistics say. perhaps that is your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:56 PM
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who files for divorce more?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:34 PM
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it’s probably difficult to guess someones weight exactly but it’s generally not difficult to tell if they are overweight unless they are 5-10lbs overweight. but 5’4 170 is legit overweight. you can pretty much tell they are overweight even in winter clothes. the women who look “normal” or “carry it well” are certainly a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:38 PM
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5’4 170lb, we can’t guess that? 😭 are you talking just online pictures or irl? but you are right in the sense that the average women is not what most men think of when they say the “average women”. i think it’s due to how simple it is to be considered attractive as a women vs a man. by attractive i don’t mean a model, just a viable sexual option. as a women for the most part if you are not overweight, you’re good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:41 PM
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such a petty “you don’t know what we go through” question. that would be like me expecting my wife to go through stress and pain i endure before asking me to buy her anything. it’s a mutual understanding. if you think your man doesn’t do shit for you then don’t have that man’s baby. simple to answer your question the only way i would do such a thing is if it guaranteed significant pain relief for my wife but if she demanded i do it on some petty bs then there is no way, that is disrespectful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:45 PM
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very well I’ll take their word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:55 PM
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i would assume the biologically born males or (M to F?) who don’t do the surgery(keep their penis) would have the highest sex drive. but idk, i have never asked a trans person about their sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:30 PM
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the men that showed up and competed are desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:09 PM
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looks, perceived promiscuity, or feminine/ cooperative. ✅ assuming the men you are referring to are attractive men, not simps or losers, any women who finds their self in your situation is likely lacking in 1 or more of these categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:36 PM
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I realize this is the claimed “official RP stance” (if there can be one). But it’s not what I see in reality. then you are assuming RP characterizes women as “bad” based on what you see? there’s nothing wrong with making an assumption if that is what you are trying to say. they always speak of female nature (or what they believe about female nature) in a negative way. perhaps that’s is just the way you are interpreting it. Of course this isn’t surprising, but the claim of being “morally neutral”…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:25 PM
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feminist want more rights then men, that is not equality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:47 PM
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But it generally fails by characterizing women as bad for prioritizing their own wants and needs. i’m fine with your overall opinion of RP being negative. however this is still an inaccurate representation. RP doesn’t say women are bad people for prioritizing their wants and needs, it acknowledges that that is within female nature and men should accept that. like RP says men desire sex from a variety of women, RP is not making a moral judgement when it states that, it is simply acknowledging mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:40 PM
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And every woman who posts sexy photos of themselves online doesn't just get male attention/interaction, especially if they're plus sized. i didn’t say they ONLY get male attention or opportunities. You may not be aware, but there are other people on the internet besides straight men that enjoy viewing women in skimpy outfits online men are the majority, that is the point. Everyone who posts online doesn't have a majority male audience or heterosexual male audience. i didn’t say everyone, irrelev…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:18 PM
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But people do the same thing for different reasons. but like men, women are more the same then they are different. Sure some people like the attention and opportunities. of course exceptions exist. i’m not denying that. but if i had to ballpark it, i would guess that probably 95 out of 100 women who post revealing pictures on the internet do it for attention and opportunities from men. which is enough for me to generalize it. this is just my opinion though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:33 PM
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well he got women around him, so at least he got some payoff for that RP thought
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:07 PM
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imo, not to invalidate your view at all, they show their bodies off online because they like the attention and opportunities they get from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:05 PM
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so you are making assumptions about him because you don’t really know what he has done?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:58 PM
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almost anything can count as abuse or deception these days. i don’t think your solution would actually stop people from getting divorced for “no reason”. they would just frame it as something else
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:51 PM
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i have taught you well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:48 PM
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my presentation of the facts i guess i should mention that you did not present any facts. you made a lot of assumptions based on your personal experience. but definitely no facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:35 PM
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very well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:49 PM
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if that is how you choose to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:37 PM
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if that is what you choose to think, then that is you. everyone has an opinion, it’s fine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:42 PM
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fills their head with toxic beliefs this seems to be just your opinion though, no? it’s fine to have an opinion It robs you of your time, energy and even in some cases your money and actual relationships maybe this was just true in your own personal experience. I just don't see it working for myself or anyone else. but just like you are saying it doesn’t work for you, there are people saying it worked for them. maybe it is just a difference in execution? None of those red pill guys give a shit a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:26 PM
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🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:43 PM
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it obviously was a mistake choosing you. you’re acting weird man. hope everything is alright
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:35 PM
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🤨 ook. i’ll just ask someone more credible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:27 PM
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this is a debate sub, if you are just making assumptions it’s fine bro. no need to act weird about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:09 PM
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nothing, are you unable to answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:56 PM
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nothing, are you unable to answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:56 PM
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i asked a simple question. No, it works for dudes that need a plan but don’t have a plan. well, you made a bold claim. if it has any merit, it shouldn’t be any problem for you to substantiate it. otherwise you can just admit that you made an assumption and you don’t actually know it to be true. there’s no shame in that, everyone makes assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:54 PM
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But the skinny pretty boy artistic dude isn’t going to “alpha” anyone, but still can slay in his corner. just because you are a pretty boy doesn’t mean you can’t have your life ruined by a women. RP isn’t solely about attracting women It’s still better for dudes to develop their own style than just “copy pasta” some shit they read on the internet. 😪 what does copypasta messages on internet have to with RP?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:45 PM
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your personal experience means that it is misery for anyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:37 PM
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how do you know who it works for? it seems like you are just assuming 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:34 PM
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That’s where some of the problems come in. A dude who is doing “ok” thinks he’s gonna be a “Chad slayer” by adopting this “system” isnt this a generalization? “you aren’t the problem: women are just programmed to desire alpha!” LOL RP literally tells you that you are the problem and you need to self improve. So then they start either hating of women due to their “shallow standards/hypergamy/women’s nature. Or they start hating themselves. this is another generalization. people tend to lash out a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:32 PM
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men having standards is insecure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:58 PM
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men in general are just more willing to speak about potentially offensive material. men’s reality is harsh thus harsh topics tend to be how we relate. a risky joke with a man vs a risky joke with a women present 2 vastly different potential consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:25 PM
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so we should hide our pasts from people?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:10 PM
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you don’t think men should be open in their support of sex work?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:42 PM
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one of the few places that doesn’t ban you for not going with the mainstream BP or feminist narrative. naturally, i think most people here are delusional but not in the karen type of way, but in a hopeful kind of way that i find entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:38 PM
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it’s quite common for women to shame men for seeing escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:14 PM
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but a minus nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:34 PM
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Gay men doing their own thing is fine because they aren't competition for the other men over women this is probably true on some level By contrast, lesbians and bisexual women are now perceived as a threat regarding the "supply of females" i’m not sure about this, i’ve never really seen lesbians frowned upon by anyone except by their religious parents or religious groups. but in general, i have never seen men particularly upset by lesbians because of lack of supply. and i think it is moreso due …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:52 PM
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You are part of the problem and you are not even aware of it. you believe it is a problem, i believe the alternative to be problematic. it’s simply a difference in perspective that we do not have to agree on. This is your normal it’s a cold world, what is your solution? A lot of men's lives could be saved if you let yourself show emotions or "be a crybaby" like you mention. who said you couldn’t show your emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:56 PM
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So, you don't see a relationship with men not being able to express their emotions with the amount of male suicide? being a crybaby is not the only way to express your emotions. if your girl is the only person available for you to cry to, then you have bigger problems You think it's coincidence? i don’t directly attribute it to men not crying to their girl, that is a ridiculous conclusion imo You don't see anything wrong in shaming men for talking about their feelings a certain amount of shame i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:40 PM
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How would you call the "it's not manly to cry" idea which is strongly related to the amount of men's suicide over women's? you can disagree with the concept, but that doesn’t mean toxic masculinity is a thing. it is simply a toxic concept in your opinion It's an idea that applies only to men and it's even encouraged by the red pill. in terms of practicality it is useful, but obviously difficult. as the life of being a man is difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:17 PM
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toxic masculinity doesn’t exist. there is just masculinity and femininity. that’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:27 PM
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I think that when a movement has a message that it itself crafts, it is responsible for making the message understandable. who’s to say it is not understandable? it’s fine if that is your opinion but something can be understandable and still misconstrued by anyone If too many people take the message and run with it another way and nobody speaks up i guess this is just your opinion as well. who determines if to many people went another way with it? who says no one in the community spoke up about …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:38 PM
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it is fine to theorize, however the fact of the matter is still that marriage is declining.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:35 PM
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But you're being disingenuous if you don't recognize that plenty of men get stuck in the anger phase i agree 🤝 you are correct that many men are upset by these unflattering truths but however people receive a message is not to be equalized to the messages intention. almost all groups have overzealous individuals that may take the message past its moral intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:30 PM
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Standart TRP shoots itself in the foot holding women to a different standards than men in that regard. i guess that is your opinion but men and women are different and RP acknowledges that. simple
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:10 PM
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RP doesn’t advise men to form resentment against women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:08 PM
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lmao 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:59 PM
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you were passed around in your 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:57 PM
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that is because they settle also marriage rates are declining 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:55 PM
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if that is how you choose to see him, then that is you
/r/AntiFeminists15/08/22 02:26 PM
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i don’t agree with everything this sub posts, however, i agree with most of it. i don’t care about feminists saying dumb shit when it comes to their preferences in relationships. but when feminists try to cancel men for their difference of opinion so they can force their narrative on the population, that’s the shit that i don’t let slide. Tate isn’t calling for women to be cancelled, stripped of their platform, or their rights taken away if women disagree with him.
/r/AntiFeminists15/08/22 02:18 PM
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whose to say that you aren’t a piece of shit? we don’t know you. point being, Tate has unorthodox views but i highly doubt he hates women or wants to take away their rights. i don’t give a damn if a feminists thinks women can cheat or men must pay for dates and meet their “standards”. those are dating topics that don’t need to be agreed upon.
/r/AntiFeminists15/08/22 01:45 PM
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as always, income is not the problem with career women. it’s the traits that come with being a career women, it takes a lot of masculine traits to be successful. most men who find masculine traits attractive are already bi or gay. it is really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:08 PM
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good options?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:26 PM
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When a relationship fails, regardless of who ended it, somehow the woman is always blamed. in the case of single mothers yeah, but that’s mostly because women are choosing to have the children of men who have not fully committed to them. most children are born out of wedlock. I see people bitching that single moms deserted by their partners should have chosen better. are most single mothers even “deserted” by their partners or are they just in a coparenting/child support situation due to a break…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:35 PM
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But when a woman leaves a man, it's also her fault? it is also her fault? i’m not sure what you mean, her fault that she did what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:48 AM
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what i like about this definition is that it leaves room for interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:02 PM
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i guess what a “shitty” person is could be considered subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:53 PM
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It’s not that hard to tell your sex partner up front if your expectations are casual. it is fine for you to have that opinion. It might lose you a few opportunities but it’s more ethical than leading someone on. hmm.. probably a lot more then a few.. ehh men and women both do unethical things to each other, so i guess it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:50 PM
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Relationships break up all the time so clearly inserting your penis into a woman’s vagina is not the equivalent of a lifetime vow. dope, as long men don’t have to commit after sex then thats cool 🤝 It would be nice if men thought as much about the feelings of the person they are trying to fuck totally, it would also be nice if we didn’t have to work long hours for a living. but i guess it is what it is. its always nice to dream 💭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:40 PM
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oh ok, then as long you had some intention of a relationship before smashing, then it is ok to lose interest in women after smashing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:27 PM
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so if men lose interest in women, it must be before sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:43 PM
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Don't be disingenuous. 😇 Most guys aren't "losing interest." They are feigning interest to get the sex, then bailing. perhaps you are right, but i guess at the end of the day we can both agree that it is a possibility for men to lose interest the next day after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:36 PM
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Sure. Many women only want to have sex within a committed relationship. do you think those women should wait till marriage if that is the case? That is their right. i guess that would also mean it is a man’s right to be able to lose interest in a women after sex, or would you disagree with this? If you don’t want to be in a committed relationship, don’t have sex with people who do. what if you were interested in a committed relationship but the next day after sex, you loss interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:30 PM
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Why do you feel that women are obligated to give sex to men who don't want to commit? hmm? i don’t think that it is her body, her choice. respectfully, can you answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:23 PM
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because she found the man attractive and she liked his vibe i would assume. the women who gave you sex it is 2022 so in the name of equality, we can just say they had sex with each other why do you feel men are obligated to commit to women they have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:20 PM
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so as long as it’s just a simple loss of interest, it is ok to leave women after you smash?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:12 PM
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is there something wrong with losing interest in a women after sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:10 PM
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what if you tell her you are interested in a relationship then after you smash, you lose interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:02 PM
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lmao, fine. as always, you are free to think whatever you’d like
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:58 PM
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all i’m saying is that it is ok for you to have your opinion. i’m not sure why you are coming at me personally 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:53 PM
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alright then in this case, if you choose to see it as right, then that is you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:47 PM
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i see, so the law is always right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:41 PM
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Legally you're on the hook just like you should be. if that is how you choose to see it, then that is you It's how you wish it worked because your jealous of women having a little more power over one decision because it involves her body. projection much? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:30 PM
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i agree, just because a women was unfortunate to get pregnant does not mean if she chooses to birth a child, the child is not her responsibility. her body, her choice —> her responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:55 PM
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so if the man said no to the abortion, the women would not be able to abort? the person who chose to birth children are responsible for their choice that is not a fact, neither do you have a way to confirm this. but it is fine for you to rationalize it that way if you choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:30 PM
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So because she's the unfortunate person who gets knocked up its all on her. it is unfortunate for a man’s baby to be killed against his wish or likewise for man to be forced to pay child support for a child he did not wish to be birthed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:28 PM
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I'm just curious, do you prefer it when the woman doesn't get a choice? i prefer if either both get a choice or both do not. for example, i have no problem with forced child support if a women has no choice to an abortion in her state. Is it better if you both have to suffer for sure with unwanted pregnancy than it is when the woman has the option to choose not to terminate? in the sense that if there is no option for abortion then yes i’m fine with both suffering as in this case only, are both …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:30 PM
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The two people who made it. who is the other person? as far as i’m aware, legal abortions only required the choice of a single person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:54 PM
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in cases where a women is able to choose to kill her child, if she chooses to birth them, who should be responsible for her choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:24 PM
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So you don’t know who decided to have the child. are women required to have the consent of the father in order to abort? Also, idk if you kept up with the news, women don’t exactly all have choices to abort anymore. so no more children have to die? I don’t think we shoukd get rid of it, hell, i think it should be increased. It should be at least half of the cost of day care, which is 12-14k per year. is child support required to be spent on the child?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:36 PM
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Yes actually. I’ve been advocating for that. Men need to take some responsibility too. what responsibilities would you like to see? You guys can’t go and ejaculate inside a woman then be upset that she gets pregnant and puts you on child support for being a deadbeat. Where’s the accountability? i have no problem with men being put on child support if women don’t have a choice. but if the choice lies 100% in a women to birth children then the women is 100% responsible for the choice only she coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:29 PM
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Per year….? That’s 300$/month. that is significant Meanwhile the other parent is probably paying 1.5-2k in daycare PER MONTH. the other parent was the one chose to birth a child That’s literally nothing in comparison alright then get rid of it if it is nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:23 PM
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It’s not my opinion. Financially, it takes two incomes unless the one parent is wealthy. lol then it does not take two people to raise a child therefore what you said is an opinion and not a fact. you proved your own point wrong 😭 Life isn’t fair. agreed 🤝 Single moms have to be responsible for the choices of fathers who leave all the time. they chose to birth those men’s children, people are responsible for their choices, no? this is about what is fair for the child. you said life isn’t fair
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:19 PM
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does that mean women should start being mindful of who they open their legs for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:12 PM
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Where in my post did I disagree with your point? No children are dying. Why are you arguing with me? idk if i was really arguing with you, i was mainly just asking questions The only thing I said is no one is "killed". the child is killed Cant kill something that doesn't exist. like i said, that is a fine rationalization for you to have Idgaf what the pro-lifers think. you don’t care what people who prioritize life think?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:08 PM
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the people who choose to birth children are unable to raise them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:00 PM
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4k is a significant amount of money
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:58 PM
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What is your point women decide if children are birthed or killed. There is no child formed at under 20 weeks that is not a fact as you claimed, please do not claim something as a fact unless what is observable is irrefutable please
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:40 PM
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there is no child, or do they choose not to see it as a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:01 PM
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so that means that women decide if a child is born?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:56 PM
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This is my factual belief. it may be in fact what you believe, but what you believe is not a fact. just because you choose to not see them as children does not mean a child is not being destroyed. Men will never be given the choice to have autonomy over a pregnant woman’s body. that was never a point i made
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:52 PM
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what state can a man choose to birth a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:43 AM
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It takes two people to raise a child. that is your opinion. it is not uncommon for women to say they can raise a child themselves. so you would say other people should be responsible for the choices others make?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:43 AM
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No children are dying. Cells are being removed. if that is how you choose to see it, then that is you. it is not uncommon for us to rationalize a tragedy in a way that makes it comfortable for us to accept. Abortion is only legal in 20 states. how many states can men choose to kill children?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:39 AM
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It’s not a “rationalization” at all it’s just that you seemed zealous in your defense of women getting a monthly check but you seemed indifferent when it came to the lives of children. i just was not sure what type of person i was talking to if their priorities are arranged in this way. Secondly, I DID ask you i answered how dare I not give you the “decency to ask”. Like I did. Twice. Three times now if you count this comment. you did not ask if a i cared about dobbs, you asked if my position wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:49 AM
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the one who chose to birth the child can support them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:40 AM
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putting aside that either you don’t mind that children die in this operation or you choose to turn a blind eye to it, it seems you do agree then that it is and SHOULD be a womens choice on who gets born? is that correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:37 AM
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I’m not hiding anything, I’m just not ready to let you steer the conversation in a completely different direction that is a fine rationalization 🙂 but.. it is just kind of shady that this time you did not jump as quickly to defend the lives of children as you did when it came to women receiving a monthly paycheck. you understand that right? So you don’t care about Dobbs and the fact that many men AND WOMEN are now on equal footing when it comes to who chooses to birth a child. Got it. 🤨 i though…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:30 AM
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then who gets to decide if a child is born or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:03 AM
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would you consider abortion to be a procedure within the scope of women’s autonomy, or would you consider it to be separate and unrelated?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:01 AM
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hmm, i guess if we are responsible for our choices then the person who chose to birth her should take care of her. your thoughts? 💭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:58 AM
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my view is no different, men do not get to choose to birth a child. is there a reason you choose to not be transparent with your views on the death of children? i did not think this would be something you wanted secrecy over considering you were just vouching for support of children via child support it is quite strange honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:56 AM
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And there’s now legislation being enacted intended to criminalize and/or hold liable abortions out of state where its legal. Like it’s a fucking cluster of laws aimed at this shit. 😮 you bring up some good points 🤔hmm, so you see criminalization of women killing their child as a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:43 AM
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If you think it's all on women it is her body, her choice right? or are you saying men should get to choose what women do with their bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:34 AM
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do you believe women should be able to kill the child that is being formed “day by day”?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:32 AM
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0 legal abortions happened post-dobbs?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:30 AM
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a pregnant women has no choice but to create a human?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:18 AM
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men can not choose to birth a new child, that is women’s choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:06 AM
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It’s not a child but a clump of cells. if that is what you choose to see it as, then that is you It’s her decision because it’s her body i agree Can you carry a child? men can not choose to birth a child You need sperm in order for procreation to work. Women don’t produce sperm. you need a women’s choice for a child to be birthed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:30 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:13 PM
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You can’t just opt out of your responsibility. women opt out of their responsibility when they kill the child You still created a child at the end of the day. that is actually a women’s choice if a child is born, so she created a child Take some accountability. the irony
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:48 PM
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so it is not her body, her choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:31 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:32 PM
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that baby being born was not his choice though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:21 PM
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Child support, abortion, and no fault divorce should be abolished? Hell no why can’t he be against child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:16 PM
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lol you think DV can’t involve a weapon?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:12 PM
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exactly, there are plenty of people who say bullshit on the internet and i think it is fine to criticize them but these people cannot just disagree and move on, they have to insult and berate them and then go back to their irl lives to put on a facade about how they are all about positivity and uplifting people. it is weird and unhealthy to feel that much hatred for people you do not know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:20 PM
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lmao i guess it is fine for you to interpret it that way but RP doesn’t tell you to hate women who swindle men or use their privilege to their advantage. simply put, males should be aware of female nature. what you choose to do with the information is your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:43 PM
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i mean that is companies in general. onlyfans models and e-girls in general speak down on their consumers all the time. swindling horny men is just socially acceptable these days because “they deserve it because being horny while simultaneously being a man is evil”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:17 PM
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lol was this even criticism or just pure hatred?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:11 PM
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young, slim, gorgeous face. that is it i don’t think most “instagram model” women even have that pretty of faces. you don’t have to be gorgeous to be an instagram model. the whole “instagram model” scene is saturated with a bunch of “not so subtle” plastic surgery women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:07 PM
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they can be a 5-8 with an attractive face and slim body to be a 9 or 10 they would have to more then likely be young with a gorgeous face along with being slim
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:33 PM
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objectively attractive faces be rated a 5-7 makes me think I’m like a 3 well average faces are attractive to most men in general, so the 5-7 ratings make sense when you think about it. being considered below a 5 by men as a women is serious bad news. usually it means the lady is overweight, but that is a simple fix. but in some cases the women could just have a busted face
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:04 PM
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infront of your girl she is not the girl for you. that is your opinion, imo, a women should leave a crybaby life is long and hard and if you don’t cry to her you will take it out on her in another way accidentally this is also your opinion, which is fine for you to have. but why not cry to your bros, why does it need to be to her? women do not understand male problems and how women in general react to men, hence why we have thread of women assuming it will turn out well for men to be crybabies 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:50 AM
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Is there a rule against societal concepts? i don’t have a problem with you having an opinion about toxic masculinity, but it doesn’t exist. all the men in this thread upset about society not allowing them to openly be themselves you are free to feel that way about those men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 11:23 PM
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toxic masculinity is a societal concept. it’s all subjective opinion. there is no data. that link just told what they thought on the topic. it is also not peer reviewed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:49 PM
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Dude red pill is the epitome of toxic masculinity. if you choose to think that, then that is you. In fact google it and plenty of research will come up on the subject. plenty of biased research, perhaps is there a such thing as toxic femininity?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:29 PM
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i don’t have a problem with you giving them the benefit of doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:49 PM
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Most of the women here are married, in relationships or actively date. statistically speaking, half the married women here will eventually get divorced. so i don’t think them being married means their advice is worth any more The irony is that narrative is based on toxic masculinity and the chad trope. toxic masculinity doesn’t exist. but chads gets results for a reason. Y’all are such victims of social training and refuse to see it. you use terms like toxic masculinity and then you say this? th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:42 PM
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A reasonable emotionally mature woman will not think badly of their partner for crying in reasonable circumstances. the problem is that what’s is seen as a “reasonable emotionally mature” women is subjective and pretty ambiguous. what’s a “reasonable circumstance” to cry in is also subjective. how much is “too much” is also ambiguous. you can try to gauge but the ultimate problem is you never know. that is why i say it is in men’s best interest to not cry in front of their girl. hold it, then cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:33 PM
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what does “how men see it” have to do with how a crime is reported? statutory rape is rape, i don’t see what random internet men have to do with how the crime is not reported as rape everything in society does not conform to “how men see it” 😂😂
/r/AntiFeminists04/08/22 06:25 PM
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lmaooo 💀 i guess everyone can have their opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:11 PM
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you just can’t make a coherent point 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:37 PM
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so wanting to reproduce with a woman is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:11 PM
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so we should have no expectations of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:06 PM
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so women having babies is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:53 PM
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And making a baby Is insanely hard. Any man who wants a woman to do that should see it as a major sacrifice. alright so being a baby maker is a good thing then. so what is the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:47 PM
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Yeah? Oh sorry, I forgot baby makers and child care. Wow, such an honor. if being a baby maker isn’t a big deal then why do women become so braggadocios about it whenever they are criticized or challenged on anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:46 AM
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most men are simps these days so i don’t doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:41 AM
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🤦🏻‍♂️ yes it makes sense. because men choose who they commit to, exactly as i said. your example does not prove anything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:40 PM
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Whether you want to commit or cheat has nothing to do with your status. i mean if you choose to think that, then that is you. but hollywood actors being married doesn’t prove that point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:25 PM
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hollywood actors are committing? ok.. how does this even go against anything i have said? i said men choose who to commit to. so please explain how hollywood actors marrying proves that what i said is “bullshit”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:04 PM
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you basing this on hollywood actors? 😭😭💀 you think they married the first women the slept with? you think they are the epitome of “faithful relationships”? 🤦🏻‍♂️ very well. you are free you think as you please
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:12 PM
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lmaooo 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:47 PM
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if you choose to think it is bullshit, then that is you. Top tier men“ are just as much capable of committing as below average men. the “capability” was never in question. quite a low iq argument. the willingness to concede, top tier men are more willing pass up on a relationship simply because they have more options. that is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:45 PM
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lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:37 PM
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i was simplifying it for the sake of conversation. i did not need to spell it out for her to understand what i meant but i guess i have to for you. baldness and fatness are often seen as unattractive in general. my point was that bald and fat men are unattractive to women but women would probably prefer fat when it comes to young men. based on the women i spoke to. you think that fat dudes are attractive and most bald dudes are too i don’t even know how you are coming to these ridiculous conclus…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:30 PM
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You claimed that you think bald men are preferable to fat men when it comes to ages over 35 i did not claim this, i said it is what i think may be true but i also acknowledged that it may be other way around which the women i replied to suggested but you weren't so sure that this also applies to men in their twenties, implying that with those men, bald men might be even less attractive or (depending on how you interpret it) just as unattractive as fat men. true but i don’t see how that would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:57 PM
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Woman absolutely can “sportfuck” for the entirety of their lives. they can, but they don’t want to. women in general do not desire quantity and sexual abundance in the same way men do. if you do then that is you. but if we took 100 women, i’d guess maybe 95+ would not want to get sportfucked by a multitude of men for the rest of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:46 PM
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i don’t really like the phrase to much but the main point is that while women choose who they sex with, not everyone they have sex with will choose to commit to them. it’s ultimately up to the man to choose to give her the commitment she wants because the vast majority of women prefer to be sexual with a single man if he has all the attributes she wants. i guess you could say he wants her commitment too, but realistically we are talking about top tier men. even if they want to get married they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:41 PM
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bruh 🤦🏻‍♂️ did you even look at the context of the conversation at all? i really don’t understand how you could come to the conclusion that i’m saying fat 20 y/o men are attractive the implied scenario was if women had to pick either bald or fat they would probably pick fat at younger ages. but obviously both are unattractive. geez dude, idk how this is going over your head
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:23 PM
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who even suggested that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:50 PM
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they will just expect men to protect them
/r/AntiFeminists01/08/22 01:34 PM
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i don’t think it’s just that people think hot women can make bank. it is moreso the job itself isn’t necessarily impressive which is why it gets belittled so much. the outcomes are impressive but at the end of the day it is just women taking pictures of their chest and bottom. it’s not really something inspirational or difficult besides all the backend stuff like you mentioned, marketing, editing and whatnot. it is also not respected because the consumers of the product are belittled as well, of…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:58 PM
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defending him 🤨 can you read? lmaoo bro i didn’t defend anything he did, all i said is that you can have your opinion. idk why you’re so triggered and emotional. you got problems dude
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:46 PM
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what you said was clearly an opinion and you that mad 😭😭 bro you sound like a clown
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:37 PM
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you know your opinion? i would hope so lmao 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:35 PM
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i half agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:34 PM
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so a women’s body count matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:19 PM
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if that is what you choose to think, then that is you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:14 PM
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how is it concerning body count does not matter 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:12 PM
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That still does not change the fact
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:05 PM
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i barely know the guy but if you say so dude keep psychoanalyzing and talking down on other men on reddit if that’s what give you self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:04 PM
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you seem to have a hate boner for “manly men”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:54 PM
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you watch h3?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:52 PM
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that is not a fact, he comes off as odious to you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:48 PM
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you think he should be more like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:46 PM
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tough guy persona? he is a kickboxing champ 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:48 AM
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ehh he gives pretty solid advice to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:46 AM
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hmm i don’t really care to defend him as i don’t really know that much about him besides the clips i seen, i’m just saying from everything i heard him say on his most viral clips and what not has been pretty solid. and i recently seen the human trafficking thing everyone kept saying he did was bs and the charges were dropped. i don’t really know about his courses though so 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:39 AM
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lol what? i get its cool to diss him but this is ridiculous. he doesn’t claim it will be easy and he moreso tells young men that they will have to work hard for what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:00 AM
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very well then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:12 PM
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i was joking btw but it does not seem like you took it personally which is good. Definitely gives me a confidence booster, more so than being told I'm beautiful cause I looked like a basic pretty white gal why does looking like a pretty white girl bother you so much? do you not like white girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:14 PM
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so i look like the joker i feel like the way i look now is more representative of who i am as a person you feel like a clown? 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:59 PM
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99% of cases i already acknowledged this possibility
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:04 PM
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if that is what you choose to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:11 AM
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you can choose to think that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:31 AM
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Name a relationship where a man doesn't require what you are trying to reframe as "resources" (lol at time and some help around the house when they're getting financially supported btw) why would i need to do that if i said all relationships are transactional? you are asking me to prove my point wrong lol how silly someone giving you their time and help around the house is still transactional. it’s why people get upset when you “waste” their time when they could have been using it for something …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:44 PM
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lmao so you want what you would call a “symbiotic” relationship? mutually beneficial aka some sort of transaction is taking place. why are you continuing on with this? even if you consider yourself an exception(which i don’t see you as) most women will require money or some sort of resource from men in order to maintain a relationship. 99% of women are not going to continue to fuck a guy who brings no money to the table ever. you still haven’t even told me your main point.. 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:15 PM
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Or he works and support himself and stays out of my business Or we both farm and kinda help eachothers business besides so it is required he puts in his money or time in order for you to be with him? this sounds like somethings most women would agree with. this is also still transactional. relationships are transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:50 PM
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thank you for sharing your personal story. as i said, most women would not deal with your situation. all he had to do in return was behave himself but he also used his time to help you around the house and farm or are you saying this was not required? was your anecdotal story meant to have a main point that you are asserting?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:03 PM
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trading
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:41 PM
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where is the exploitation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:24 PM
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then show me the facts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:41 PM
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if that what you see, then that is you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:32 PM
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if that is what you choose to think, then that is you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:19 PM
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by being respectful and honest, because this was about being respectful and honest, not being wholesome lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:04 PM
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so it is ok for a temporary stoppage, as long as he eventually starts bringing more money in so that transactions can continue to be made? or if he found no other job and brought no money for as long as you are with him, you would still have “relations” with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:02 PM
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you do not have to believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:56 PM
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if that is what you think is true, then you can be the one to think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:54 PM
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Relationships are conditional. a condition is transactional. provided you abide by said conditions, then you will provide your end of the agreement. I agree people usually don’t stick around if they are not getting what they want from the relationship. then it is transactional to an extent When I say transactional I mean it’s an openly agreed upon arrangement, like you fuck me and I will buy you expensive stuff and a luxury condo. as a man in 99% of cases, money is involved in the relationship, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:52 PM
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then that is you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:18 PM
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he’s not respectful and honest for being rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:08 PM
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I have never heard them say they want to share a rich man. that is your experience It’s a transactional win win for all. all relationships are transactional. if you don’t get what you want out of a relationship, are you going to stay? People who do care, however, don’t go for this. that is your opinion, so it is fine if you are the one to think this Most people prefer a genuine connection with someone and are not interested in sharing a man if you think that then, that is you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:06 PM
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he’s not respectful and honest for being broke?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:00 PM
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link
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:34 PM
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Men in power kidnapped women, bought women, stole, women, raped, women and enslaved women. but not all men in power did that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:33 PM
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Some guys here have got to get over this delusion that women actually want to share men. i don’t think the concept is that women want to share a man. it’s that in general, they are more willing to. imo from what i’ve seen and how i’ve heard women speak about broke and average guys, women would much prefer to be the main girl of a respectful and honest rich dude rather then the only girl for a respectful and honest broke dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:29 PM
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ehh, i’d say in 99% of cases, any man ok with this either isn’t really capable of fucking other women so he reluctantly agrees, or he just doesn’t care that much for his girl, thus he is indifferent to the thought of her being railed by other dudes while he goes to get some more P
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:22 PM
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In the fact that the majority of the reasons given are clearly originating in misconceptions so they are not true at all? I won't force anyone to do anything they don't want are you are trying to shame people who disagree with you? but I still think saying these things is morally wrong. It's harmful. so it is ok to think this, as long as you don’t say it to those people? Clearly I don't, but I'm excluding a diverse group of people based on a characteristic that doesn't even really tell me much a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:14 AM
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they are giving that statistic based off a group of college students? doesn’t even list the sample size.. nor if their were even multiple colleges involved.. I’m not even sure what point you are trying to prove with this? this study is highly controlled and lacks any integrity or transparency. however, if you accept it, then that is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:12 AM
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you’re either trying to drive a narrative what narrative? you’re unable to understand or sympathize with other’s experiences. often times sympathy gets conflated with exoneration. getting out of it is way more complicated than you’re making it out to be are women able to handle complex issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:53 PM
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⁠everyone is capable so women are choosing to not do the work and stay within the cycle of abuse? won’t recognize the patterns until they’re already in said situation. women are not smart enough to recognize these patterns?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:12 PM
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stopping the cycle of abuse takes a lot of work are women capable of doing the work? women don’t ‘choose’ abusive partners it is their body their choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:44 PM
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yeah but all women are not above slandering men out of spite
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:25 PM
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nah if they are a 5 or 6 with makeup, ain’t much can be done besides just losing weight or face surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:10 PM
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i am inquiring, are you unable to answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:24 PM
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Often abusers will choose victims who have experienced trauma have abusers often experienced trauma themselves? Many smart women have been abused so even smart women are not able to overcome these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:21 PM
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Didn't say all men were abusive. then women should pick men who are not abusive People who are abusers are master.manipulators are women not smart enough to overcome these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:12 PM
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men could stop abusing women. all men aren’t abusive It really shows your ignorance about abusive relationships that you think women are somehow actively choosing to reproduce with abusive men are women not good judges of character?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:08 PM
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coercion and rape then what percentage of children in the US are born as a result of rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:46 PM
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why are women choosing men who are abusive alcoholics?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:19 PM
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Stop blaming women but it is their body, their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:14 PM
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are women strong enough to overcome this and stop reproducing with abusive partners so the single motherhood rate drops?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:12 PM
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maybe i am confused, i should have asked someone more competent who would be better able to provide clarity. thank you for your time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:15 AM
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No, nobody does then where is the engrained bigotry? This thread is exploring whether they shouldn't be questioning their views if people have no moral obligation, then why would they need to question their views? if a hetero women would not date a trans-man, then everything’s cool right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:10 AM
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so because they are tired of being questioned then we have to let it slide? 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:49 AM
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That does not automatically mean that sexual and romantic preferences can't also have roots in engrained bigotries.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:34 AM
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ahh i see 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:03 AM
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It depends on what it is. so then you would say Yes, there are times where it is acceptable to discriminate against people outside of sexual relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:53 PM
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Okay, so as far as we can tell, there’s no way for humans to change their sexual/dating preferences. as far as I can tell, there is no telling if it is possible to control or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:47 PM
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do you know if this is a direct cause of women considering men who sleep with other men as less masculine or is this just what you believe to be cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:36 PM
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that is how you interpret it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:27 PM
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Normal, well adjusted women do not. can you define what a normal women is for us ma’am?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:14 PM
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does that include trans-men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:10 PM
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Ultimately TRP is a giant cope to avoid dealing the realities of relationships and attracting mates. Pointless rationalization that will never actually satisfy anyone. trp main purpose tells you to improve to get what you want, how is that avoiding dealing reality? The sooner people let go of thinking about the unfairness of reality the sooner they can actually get the things they want. lmao imagine telling this to feminist or lgbtq. 😭😭💀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:49 PM
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you are free to make those assumptions about me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:31 PM
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i am not sure if people are capable of controlling what they are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:26 PM
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alright then, as far as you can tell, people have no control over what they are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:22 PM
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it is ok to rationalize like this, but i simply pointed out that it is not proven that humans have no control over what they are attracted to. but i acknowledge it is a socially accepted answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:05 PM
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that is a fine theory
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:48 PM
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you did not give me a yes or no answer to my question but i noticed you used a specific scenario. does that mean it is ok for people to be mildly homophobic, given the correct circumstances?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:46 PM
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is being a mildly homophobic person immoral?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:38 PM
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is it immoral for women to not allow men who have sex with other men, to have sex with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:36 PM
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why is it wrong for a women to consider a man who sleep with other men as “less masculine”?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:32 PM
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is it ever acceptable to discriminate outside of a sexual relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:22 PM
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what you choose to believe is of little significance to me. i just wanted to confirm if what you say is worth any serious consideration
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:18 PM
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Yes, I'm speaking for what I believe are the experiences of most men alright, so this is simply what you believe to be the case, but you do not actually know it to be certain? Of course, but it's nowhere near as frequent as it happens to women. is this also just something you believe to be true?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:57 PM
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and if i don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:11 PM
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I mean like discriminating in other areas like employment or being polite to customers so you believe it is wrong discriminate outside of sexual relationships but it is ok to discriminate within them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:03 PM
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I’m sure a fat person has no interest in dating you. is that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:59 PM
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bigotry.. 🤨 mmhmm do we have a moral obligation to being open to a sexual relationship with any given group of people?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:52 PM
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Everyone is allowed a preference in that level of intimacy. But if they are disrespectful or discriminate then they cross the line. having a preference is discriminatory by nature. maybe you mean there is morally acceptable forms of discrimination, such as having a preference for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:50 PM
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that actually has never been proven, but it is generally a socially accepted response to anything dealing with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:46 PM
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but they are trying to force us to pretend that they are as beautiful as any other women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:41 PM
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No. I haven't been harassed since being bullied as a kid. i didn’t ask about your personal life Grown men are largely left alone by women and other men so you are speaking for men when you say this? Women can just be minding their own daily business and get harassed by men. is it possible for harassment to happen to men who are minding their business?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:21 PM
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jane is overweight tho 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:52 PM
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do men experience a lot of harassment?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:50 PM
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men are stronger then women bruh 🤨 if men are not “stronger” then women then how come feminist and leftist complain about being oppressed by people who are “weaker” then them? 😭😭💀 men are actually “weaker” then women 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:44 PM
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the problem is the current condition of relationships 😭😭 i’m not sure if you are seeing my point i’m not passing judgement on people doing what they want. i am saying that people doing what they want will inevitably lead to horrible outcomes i believe that to be the natural consequence
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:56 PM
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most woman don’t want the demonized “tradcon” trope that feminism came up with. if we had 2 men with similar faces: 1) was feminine, weaker then the average woman but not overweight, avg income, did not believe gender roles and wanted a 50/50, submissive, shy, avg height, does not feel obligated to be the one dealing with immediate threats 2) was masculine, tall, strong with toned physique, dominant, charismatic, confident, courageous, ambitious, above average income., believed gender roles opti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:49 PM
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We can’t control the actions of others, only how we react to them. hence why i said a “solution” is irrelevant. no one actually wants an objective solution to deterioration of relationships. Waiting for some force like a law from the government to pass to force someone to act a certain ways is unrealistic. i agree 🤝 We aren’t always going to get exactly what we want and if there isn’t anything reasonably close to your standards then don’t settle. focus on personal desires, it is encouraged much …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:28 PM
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your response assumes the answer will always be as practical and black and white as presented. what if the objective answer to salvaging relationships was for women to “cover up” and wait until marriage for sex. you think all women of this modern age would just accept that, or would they have their reasons to “not put up with that” just because it was true? the point is not for you to agree with this “hypothetical solution” it’s to demonstrate how people of this age will simply continue to do wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:15 PM
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Also just because something is true doesn’t mean I have to put up with it. this is why a “solution” is irrelevant. everyone would reason their decisions to continue what they are doing using this same exact logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:38 PM
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the person your original comment replied to was solid advice for getting a partner. it was less ambiguous, more actionable, and inserted a reasonable amount of accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:12 PM
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even if you knew the solution, how realistic could you be if it was something you did not agree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:57 PM
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this is the generic advice most women have been getting for decades now. hence why relationships are in the gutter. this “feel good” very “safe and inoffensive” advice is arguably the worst thing that has happened for women. women flock to this sort of advice because there is virtually 0 accountability and it can be interpreted an endless amount of ways effectively allowing women to justify any choice they make, which opens the door for them to blame men for all their problems. people can’t even…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:53 PM
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do you think the “solution” is some PC concept that everyone would be on board with?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:35 PM
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relationships don’t last for 2 simple points. modern relationships lack order hedonism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:11 PM
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his free time is retirement
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:46 PM
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If a guy is also a virgin /inexperienced I can see wanting someone with similar levels. But if they aren’t it’s about control is this true in all cases?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:51 AM
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if someone prefers a virgin, that is a fetish?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:37 PM
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no because women get pregnant and paternity isn’t in question for women. she’s also raising her body count 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:04 AM
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lol i don’t even know what you are talking about at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:42 PM
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i think it is a double standard based on female nature. in general women don’t want to have sex with multiple guys. most females prefer monogamy. therefore when they do cheat it’s usually out of a loss of respect for their partner whereas with men, they want to have sex with other women regardless of the respect they have for their wife. exceptions exist the difference maker is that the probability of a man vs a women to sleep with someone else when they respect their partner is heavily swayed t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:40 PM
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but you argued that what she did was worse than what he did. you must’ve misread what i said. Hence he didn’t “deserve” what she did. i guess that is your interpretation? if that is what you got out of that, then that is you. Tell me, if the genders were reversed, would you still feel the same way? i would say it would be worse if a women sleeps with other dudes. this is where you are correct, and it is consistent with my first comment. Let’s say you had a girlfriend you loved and were faithful …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:25 PM
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So he cheated, she broke up, then she fucked his friend while not in a relationship. so she sucked his friends pp? probably out of spite. i guess that is better to you, it’s fine for you to see it that way. I don’t see them as the same, because he cheated and she didn’t. Fundamentally different choices. ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:17 PM
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alright bro 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:14 PM
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What I believe and find through research doesn't have to be significant to you. It's significant to the argument. I, of course, believe in my opinion. I just am open to others' as well and wanted more clarification as to why you think your claim is true. then keep arguing for what you believe in. i simply said what i thought on the matter. i never said you were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:13 PM
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I think you are saying that she is property instead of an autonomous, independent human being. lol if that is what you think, then that is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:05 PM
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lifting is a part of looking good
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:02 PM
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How is she a cheater? The post says she had sex with the dude’s friend AFTER they were broken up (due to finding out about the BF’s multiple infidelities.) she sucked his friends pp because he sleep another women. lmao that’s trashy. L They were broken up. alright so she didn’t cheat, she was just getting railed by his friends.. i guess that is better to you. Why does she owe him anything? what did i say that she owes him? Dude got exactly what he deserved and I can’t believe anyone is arguing o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:00 PM
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I don’t think anything you’ve said has proven that men as a group have gone against the idea that masculinity goes hand in hand with financial success. lol, i wasn’t trying to prove anything to you. i really just wanted to find out if you have dated women as a man. im not sure what would lead you to believe that what you think or choose to believe is of any significance to me. think what you would like, everyone is free to an opinion 🙂👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:45 PM
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good luck getting a “top tier” physique without lifting any sort of weight
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:14 PM
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You’re the man holding men and women to different standards of conduct. Are men somehow “more human” than women? Give me a break. i acknowledge a difference in behavior, decision making, and attraction. Men see women as a means to an end, not ends in themselves. They care about what services attractive women can provide, not who they are, what they believe and have zero interest in working with women so both people can achieve goals. if that is how you choose to interpret it, then that is you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:11 PM
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Why WOULDNT a man feel emasculated based on what they’re taught and told to feel? we can assume that men are “taught” this but feelings are more complex then a single reaction to a single scenario There are plenty of feminine women in high paying jobs and some of them need those due to the cost of living of where they live. i never denied that exceptions exist. So if you’re agreeing that making more money is associated with masculine traits and masculinity, why wouldn’t making less make men feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:07 PM
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In my opinion, a guy cheating is way worse than a woman fucking someone else when they’re already broken up. see, we all have our opinions 🙂 while the consequences of her fucking his trashy friend after they broke up is merely that he feels emasculated. you are breaking down this situation as if i co-signed the guy. i never said i thought what he did in this example was ok And I’m unsympathetic to him entirely, since he cheated first: he earned being hurt in the ego by being such a hurtful, crue…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:44 PM
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No, I have not alright, just confirming. while i don’t think men are emasculated by the fact of a women having more money then them, it is generally how women who make a lot of money behave. i would argue it takes more masculine traits to make a large income. therefore women who make a large income are either older, because it takes a lot of time to make a lot of money. or they are making “fast money” through promiscuous behavior. lastly, they are more than likely to conduct themselves in a more…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:25 PM
1

incompetence, men valuing looks moreso then women does not confirm men see women as literal objects nor does it confirm men see no difference between women and objects
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:13 PM
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but any emotional talk of a pregnant woman getting cheated on while having an ab*rtion is just "hurdurdur women SO sensitive" what are you even talking about? no one said anything like that ❌😭😭 this is the problem with being an overly emotional person. if you read my first comment, it’s pretty clear i didn’t co-sign the man’s actions in this example. but your emotions don’t let you listen to reason. the stuff you are saying doesn’t even correspond with anything i’ve said thus, you are clearly mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:11 PM
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have you ever dated a women as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:59 PM
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Of course that's your opinion lol, because you want a double-standard that's to your advantage 🙃 i generally accept that double standards will exist as men and women are different The ridiculousness of PPD dudes justifying a guy fucking multiple women (probs raw) as his girlfriend is at home, drugged up from bleeding out what would've been his child... What is wrong with the men here? chill out and stop trying to force your narrative of what you “think” people are saying. i never justified it, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:56 PM
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men wants attractive partner it’s because men see women as objects women wants attractive partner she’s just a queen that knows what she wants 😭😭 it has nothing to do with objects, most women don’t like overweight dudes either men value looks more then women so what? we’re different. people act like just because men want to have sex with women it’s means women are inhuman. men in general don’t want to have sex with cars or trucks, how come you didn’t make that comparison? oh right, you only comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:43 PM
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eh i guess it is a matter of opinion, but a women sleeping with other dudes is way worse than then a man sleeping with other women. but i do agree that a man should let a women know if he does not plan on being monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:31 PM
4

lifting definitely makes you stand out if your body fat is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:32 PM
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i think if your bald your best bet is to bulk up and get ripped. bald and skinny is a creepy kind of look. because i’m a straight man that dates women lmaoo. i’m not saying i’m 100% correct or that you are incorrect about baldness. but you were 100% incorrect about the wig part bruh 😂😂 i still can’t believe you said that 😭😭😭💀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:58 PM
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i think bald men are preferable over fat dudes when it comes to men 35+. idk about in the 20s though. also wear a wig lmfaooo 💀 fellas this is why you don’t take dating advice from women 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:48 PM
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dude was probably infuriated, emotionally shocked, traumatized, and depressed all at once. it’s best he was nowhere around the kid at that time. he left him under supervision rather then on the street. asking for anything more is unreasonable. everything that happens to this child is completely the mothers fault.
/r/AntiFeminists14/07/22 04:28 PM
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that is you. but we aren’t required to hold ourselves to your standards.
/r/AntiFeminists13/07/22 01:52 PM
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it’s fine to have sympathy but you are incorrect in that it would be wrong for someone to cut off anyone who doesn’t respect their boundaries.
/r/AntiFeminists13/07/22 01:49 PM
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what if a man is short? point being, it’s unfortunate but people in those groups are gonna have it tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:46 PM
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he cut her off after she crossed his boundaries. nothing harsh or wrong about that. if a woman cuts a man off because he crosses her boundaries, is she being wrong and harsh?
/r/AntiFeminists13/07/22 01:43 PM
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we all have our opinions
/r/AntiFeminists13/07/22 12:18 PM
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most abortions are from rape?
/r/AntiFeminists13/07/22 10:29 AM
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it’s a meme, it shouldn’t be taken as a guide to life. the meme is meant to point out how ridiculous it sounds when women tell the exact same thing to men who don’t want children. but as soon as you tell women the same thing they flip out and insist abortion is the only way.
/r/AntiFeminists13/07/22 10:27 AM
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i don’t think we disagree on much. i just think friend group game puts men in a weird position.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:21 PM
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it’s no secret. but it’s pretty wild to just sit there with a women who knows you but chooses to keep screwing other guys and then at the end she comes to you when they’re finished with her. most women have been racking up bodies, we can agree on that 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:16 PM
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i agree with you that friend group game works 🤝 however i think its nonsense that every or even most guys that can get in a mixed friend group is going to end up with one of the girls. they don’t necessarily have to be losers to fail. also most women find most men unattractive it’s a high risk/low reward type of game to run imo. high risk in that your risking embarrassment among your peers by rejection or if you aren’t just going to ask her out, you’re risking a lot of your time hoping she just …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:08 PM
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just because that is the way “it should be” does not mean that is the way it will go. it’s important men understand that just because women “should not screw you over” does not mean that all or even most women are above doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:27 PM
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the problem is that you aren’t saying much of anything. you haven’t demonstrated your point, not even once. in fact, the point you tried to make directly contradicted what you previously said 😭😭🤦🏻‍♂️ i’ve clearly demonstrated how men show respect and treat women with general respect because last time i checked men don’t go around greeting and shaking hands with hairbrushes. they don’t talk to and serve parking cones. you know men don’t typically do these things with objects, what a ridiculous ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:42 PM
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I beg to differ. Especially when were are in a sub that often refers to redpillers. If anything, they are the men that fall most into the category of men i speak of. i’m honestly not sure what you are trying to say here or what your point was. is it that men here or red pillers respect each other? idk 🤷🏻‍♂️ That’s unrealistic it is realistic, we are talking about general respect because as i said, men’s respect for each other doesn’t really go beyond a handshake or letting each other speak for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:50 PM
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it’s that their view of women doesn’t go past sex & chores that may be what they primarily value in a wife along with a brief list of other things, but that doesn’t mean they see their wives as object. that’s just what you take from it. whereas men are seen as more complex beings i’m pretty sure most men would agree that women are definitely more complex and that men consider themselves and other men as simple and won’t be reduced to these roles choice words i see. you must be one of those peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:38 PM
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normally they don’t respect them which is why don’t like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:03 PM
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this isn’t a all or nothing situation. but i’d bet men with money have easier time securing LTRs then broke dudes even if they have “personality”. that’s just my opinion though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:26 AM
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guys don’t even like women like women in what sense? because guys don’t even like other men a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:48 PM
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the husband was 50 y/o in this story?
/r/AntiFeminists04/07/22 11:28 AM
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they can choose what to care about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:51 AM
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it is their choice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:45 AM
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depends on how confident he is. most girls be saying most guys are bad at sex even if they aren’t virgins so 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:35 PM
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depends on the lie
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:27 PM
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W 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:26 PM
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looks matter more for women. it’s really as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:24 PM
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“evil” 🤨 i don’t know about that but i see the most frustration coming from women being disingenuous about what is attractive in men. women having standards is fine but when they lie about their standards.. for example i hear women say they do not care about a man’s money, money isn’t important, it does not matter, etc.. only in the next breath to say he must be making bare minimum equivalent if not more then them 🤦🏻‍♂️ “Height doesn’t matter.” “Would you date a man that is 5’0?” “Oh no, that is…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:01 PM
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L 😭 you kind of proved OPs point too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:47 AM
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very well. i hope things continue to work out for you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:19 PM
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If RP can’t fit lil ol me, something tells me it doesn’t work for the greater majority of people. is this even an argument? this is borderline narcissistic thinking the irony, don’t call people close minded then say stuff like this 🤦🏻‍♂️ It does work, quite well actually, for predators. what? lmao listen, it’s clear you have no argument to what I have said. i never thought we disagreed from the beginning. you just felt as though i was challenging your lifestyle when that was never the intention.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:02 PM
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a little humility would go a long way for you. if you read over this interaction, it would be quite obvious that nothing you have stated has discredited anything i have said. you keep bringing up your personal life and using that as a basis to attempt to invalidate RP.. the problem is while you are thinking about yourself, i am thinking about the big picture. while i acknowledge that there are women whose outcome was favorable despite ill advised and unorthodox decisions, i understand that for w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:02 PM
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again, you tell me your personal experience. you seem a bit overzealous in your in desire to bring up this singular experience. tell me, what is it about your personal experience you believe dislodges anything that i have said?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:40 PM
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again you may not find RP beneficial if your goal isn’t a traditionally masculine man. because that’s what it primarily focuses on. RP is focused on the self improvement of men so to ask what benefit to women it has is a loaded question. but women can take the knowledge of how men operate and do what they please with it. if your intention as a women is to be married to a masculine man maybe, Tall, masculine, money, socialite. then it can certainly help you stand out against other women. because …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:33 PM
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the irony. you believe your personal experience invalidated other people’s experience. and you call them closed minded 😭😭 listen, to be rational, you should consider your personal experience to be 1 of many outcomes. to think otherwise is pure delusion. RP is not designed to give you a single outcome. it’s to be used to accomplish your goal in the most probable and reasonable fashion and avoiding getting blindsided. RP has its pros and cons the worst aspect of blue pill is being blindsided by de…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:20 PM
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🤨 at this point i’m going to assume you are a troll. if you think men prefer chubby and fat women, then i will let you think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:33 PM
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Why would it make me feel better that men don’t like fat women? ? Americans don’t even call Halle Berry hourglass and want some BBW with some nice meat. bruh.. Berry is 50 yrs old. BBW is still considered a fetish. most models and hollywood stars men consider hot are skinny to slim. “plus sized” models are mostly a meme and even they doctor their photos to make them look slimmer. they also hide behind body positivity to avoid getting roasted by public.. because the roast sessions would be relent…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:26 PM
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men don’t like fat women. they deal with them, if that’s what’s available to them. it’s as simple as that. i also think men shouldn’t be fat if that makes you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:58 PM
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lmao the standard for what men like or the standard for what women think men should like?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:15 PM
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yes the average American women is fat but that doesn’t mean men prefer fat women 😭😭🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:49 PM
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men in general prefer healthy weight women, fat women were getting roasted for their poor discipline which is why we have this whole body positivity going to protect women from reality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:35 PM
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Men don’t like overweight women well we don’t like overweight men either. agreed 🤝 i feel like weight is only discussed when it comes to women nah men get dissed for being fat probably 100% of the time. it’s just more tragic for a women to be fat since a women’s appearance is her primary value when it comes to SMV. it’s like how it’s more embarrassing to be broke as a man then as a woman as finances matter more to man’s SMV then a women’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:04 PM
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while i don’t think it should be taken to heart by women, i think the problem can be that women think if there are men who would bang them, then that means they are desirable.. that’s how we get 50 y/o women complaining about beauty standards when the type of men that would bang them shifts to pretty much the weirdest and creepiest of men. yeah they get confidence from those weirdos but they are ultimately miserable because the men they find attractive don’t find old women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:26 PM
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I believe men should have the right to decline all responsibility for the future child, if they so choose to, I also believe you cannot force anyone to give their body to incubate this future child then you believe men should also be able to choose to not be a parent post-conception? this would mean you think the double standard should be changed, which would be logically consistent with what you stated earlier
/r/AntiFeminists28/06/22 07:11 PM
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I suspect it is, at least in part, propaganda created by men to make women feel like their worth will go down with age and thereby elevate their own worth. i think it was men trying to be honest with women and at least provide some tangible metric for women to roughly gauge their appeal. The truth is obviously that this is very variable, there are 50 year old women and men who could look better than their 20 year old counterparts. the amount of 50 y/o that look better then 20 y/o are certainly a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:07 PM
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Men here are trying to punish women for having easier time to have sex with randoms so came up with the idea that at 30th bday woman becomes broken, old, infertile etc idk if that is true but i mean, they are entering high risk pregnancy around that age. but you are right about the attractiveness part. the problem is women eventually get to a point where she is no longer “pretty”. but she is “pretty for her age”. how dreadful. the problem also is that if every women took care of themselves then …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:50 PM
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both men and women have a choice pre-conception. “keep it in your pants, keep your legs closed” the double standard of women getting to decide if they want to be a parent post conception. it seems as though you are ok with this double standard since women carry the child. therefore you are ok with men having no choice post conception. you believe women should be the only ones afforded this privilege? is that correct
/r/AntiFeminists28/06/22 06:39 PM
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then you believe it should be changed since it is a double standard that benefits women?
/r/AntiFeminists28/06/22 04:28 PM
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the person probably identified as a woman
/r/TheRedPill28/06/22 04:27 PM
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so you are ok with this double standard since it benefits women?
/r/AntiFeminists28/06/22 04:25 PM
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NO,woman now has the freedom which man already had for thousand years not ALL men had freedom for thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:16 PM
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bruh calm down 😪 you said it’s worse for that reason, i said that’s your opinion. i didn’t say it was anything wrong with having that opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:58 PM
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Porn depicts intimacy, not a combat/warzone situation. It's way worse just for that reason i guess that is just your opinion then. The fact that it's been normalised as you prove with your surprise is the most disturbing part of all. my surprise came from the particular reasons you called out porn. it doesn’t make sense and is often contradictory when you compare it to other forms of media. but again, i don’t condone porn so i’m not going to sit here and defend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:40 PM
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they are both forms of entertainment, i’m just surprised you’re calling out porn in particular. i don’t condone watching porn, but it’s not for the same reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:08 PM
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what that’s absurd? depiction of violence against women is ok unless you are jacking off to it 😭😭💀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:51 PM
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ok and entertaining yourself with simulated murder is fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:45 PM
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the most popular video games nowadays feature simulated murder. they often have emotes and quips taunting the person they just mercilessly slaughtered. so what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:15 PM
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you spitting facts right now. love to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:06 PM
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Do you have data to back that up? i asked a question. and then I said “I’m willing to bet”. i never claimed it as a fact I’d imagine that married women are having more regular, unprotected sex than single women. lmao do you have data to back that up? /s There is NOT an abortion crisis. i never claimed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:01 PM
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the zealots that support this level of cancel culture and censorship is probably one the most cancerous social movements to happen in america to be fair, that is just my opinion 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:29 AM
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do you have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:10 AM
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progressives ushered in an aggressive cancel culture and arguably overzealous censorship. so y’all can add that to y’all’s score count 🙂👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:09 AM
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why would your teen daughter be getting banged out by dudes who can’t take care of her? mothers should have instilled the discipline into their children to not make such careless mistakes. it’s this negligence and lack of accountability from mothers that leads children from single mother households to be such degenerates. while i acknowledge the girl should be able to abort in this specific situation, i would also argue that mother shouldn’t be able to continue looking after that child as her pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:04 AM
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you can still get abortions 😭😭🤦🏻‍♂️ for women who brag about being the “creators of life” they are so ready to destroy the life they create. the irony
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:55 AM
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Just because you perceive women to be “sluts” and “thots” doesn’t mean they’re having abortions left and right. how often do married women get abortions? i would bet it’s much less then unmarried women i’m pro choice because i acknowledge that women are “hoeing” around more these days and it’s best women who make poor decisions like that don’t reproduce. if women weren’t hoeing around then the need for abortions would be minimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:51 AM
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now, i’m pro choice. but i don’t understand what exactly you mean by “men hating women”. are you saying any men who doesn’t like killing babies automatically makes them hateful of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:42 AM
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The level of glee this realization will bring will easily best the day Kevin Samuels dropped dead for me. And that was a hilarious and wonderful few weeks. Jesus Christ.. talk about pure hatred. i get disliking someone who disagrees with you but to celebrate their death? this is pure evil, it’s not like Kevin was a psychotic murderer. you should delete this demonic comment. also women can still get an abortion, the states just have more say so in what time frame it is legal 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:38 AM
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you can still get an abortion..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:31 AM
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what? this didn’t outlaw abortions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:30 AM
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Right, but these things are only worth thinking about in terms of dating. what? 😭💀 we’re literally on a sub focused on discussing dating. that’s why i’m bringing up points related to dating.. bruh😵‍💫 If I wouldn't choose that kind of guy to date anyway this isn’t about the type of guy YOU would choose to date💀💀 you can’t be serious… do you know what the term “general” means?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:48 PM
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Not every man is cool with taking on a financial dependent that is your counterpoint? 😭😭🤦🏻‍♂️ i literally said “in general”. in what context does “in general” means that it applies to every single person? this is a middle school English lesson at best. 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:12 PM
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the answer lies in why we seek to make money. in general: -men make money so they can take care of a family, thus a lot of men do not mind taking care of a women who isn’t successful. because again, men don’t look for security in women. -women make money so they can be independent of men. hence why you commonly hear women say they want a career just in case things go left in a relationship. women always have security in mind. women often use not needing men as bragging rights to belittle men and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:42 PM
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Why would a woman want to be with an unsuccessful partner*
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:21 PM
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It’s weird that men prefer vulnerable women maybe more cooperative or agreeable women. idk about vulnerable Yet men say women doing the same thing is a turnoff. i haven’t heard this notion at all but i have heard that most men are moreso indifferent to it rather then turned off. the reason it turns on women is because women look for survival/security traits in men. men do not look for security in women. they look for replication traits. this is a huge summarization but it’s basically hard writte…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:17 PM
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lol i never even said older guys need money to get even a single woman. you are greatly misrepresenting me to the point that i am no longer sure what your intention is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:09 PM
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that is a great story! it is good that you seek to help people. but i’m not confident in your ability to think rationally what perplexes me is that you told me im wrong, and told me your personal story to apparently dislodge what i have said. 🤨 are you saying that your single account is a representation of all possible outcomes? the problem is that literally nothing you have said really discounted anything i have said. the story you told me is not really relevant or even contradictory to anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:36 PM
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i never said you have to be rich to get a women. i can’t take your comment seriously if you’re telling me i’m wrong based off points i never made
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:18 PM
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money puts you in position to get what you want. you’re much better off with it then without it would she have stayed with you if she met you when you were impoverished and remained there?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:16 PM
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looks can help for sure, just like money can. there are lots of variables at play, some variables being more impactful then others. but young men in general aren’t getting a lot of sex, just like old men in general aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:13 PM
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i never said anything about being rich. women don’t like broke older men. if you want a good selection of women when you are older, one of the most effective ways to increase your options is to make sure you make good income. women mostly date up and sometimes equal, but rarely do they date down. it’s simply a logical conclusion. i don’t understand your contention with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:37 PM
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not sure what that has to do with this and i don’t know what “revenge fantasy” you are thinking about 🤦🏻‍♂️ but i mean, broke young or old men aren’t desirable. it is what it is not all men “peak”, but if men do the work and acquire resources, then when they get older they will be fine. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:22 PM
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ehh, if those men have money in their “peak” they’ll be fine 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:07 PM
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blank slate gender equality only works in an idealistic utopian society where nothing bad ever happens. as soon as you look at reality, it starts to look ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:37 PM
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i worded it in a confusing way, my mistake. i meant it as myself knowing it is not the case. therefore i see it as a reasonable expectation. blank slate gender equality is a delusional expectation imo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:06 PM
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hypocritical preference to have if you believe in blank slate gender equality, then i could see where you are coming from. however, knowing that is not the case, i see it as a reasonable expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:45 PM
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when it comes to sexual/relationship value, would you agree that for women in general, their looks and youth are their primary attractive traits from this perspective? that’s not to say everything else is completely irrelevant, but that they are not as significant in terms of desirability
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:10 PM
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but when it comes to looks, stuff like makeup and surgery, even if women are aware that society tells them one thing, women tell us they do it for themselves not for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:27 PM
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i am confused on your point.. 😵‍💫 so you don’t think look and youth determine women’s value but you think women are “hyperaware” that their looks and youth determine their value? or are you saying you think looks and youth shouldn’t determine women’s value but women are “hyperaware” that it does?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:35 PM
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your response was not clear, that’s why i asked if you agree or no
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:06 PM
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so you agree with that then, that looks and youth determine a women’s value?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:46 PM
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dating anyone not fat and not a single mum i mean a women who is not fat and not a single mom is objectively above average. so those men actually have high standards 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:24 PM
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women spend thousands of $ on botox i’m pretty sure women who do surgery say they do it for themselves, not to look good for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:15 PM
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What I'm asking is, would the age difference be a red flag to you? upon first glance, possibly. but I don’t consider a red flag as someone immoral. i say single mothers are a red flag, but I don’t consider them immoral You literally said you have no issue with legal adults having sex. indifference is not of equivalence to the declaration of something being good or bad Is there any way an 18-21 year old (for example) is anywhere near same level of maturity as a man who's well into his 30s? maturi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:49 AM
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Damn so you would zero issue with your 19 year old daughter bringing home a 47 year old man? i wouldn’t have “zero” issue with any man I first see my daughter with To discuss with topic, one must be capable of nuance, instead of just "legal = good, illegal = bad." i did not say it was good or bad. I simply said what it is. But what's the actual difference in terms of maturity? maturity is subjective, and thus ambiguous. If it helps you, it has been determined that 18 is the age where “maturity” …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:45 PM
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Age gaps become less important as people age. eh, as long as adults are dating other adults, i’m fine with that. Same way 17 and 19 isn't morally questionable, but 16 and 13 is. we are talking about adults here. Let me ask you this, what's the difference between someone who's a day away from turning 18, and someone on their 18th birthday? one is an adult, the other isn’t. same way a lot people post nudes or start p*rn the day they turn 18. Why do you keep falling back on the "legal adults" justi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 09:45 PM
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well how old does an adult have to be to be “morally questionable” to be open to sex with other legal adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 09:17 PM
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I'm pointing out that it's (at the very least) morally questionable when older adults pursue 18 year olds “pursue” in what sense? someone who only has sex with 18 y/o or someone who is open to having sex with legal adults in general, including 18 y/o?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 09:04 PM
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i’m just saying that someone should be a legal adult to consent to sex, but hey man if you see differently then that is you 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:54 PM
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i don’t see anything wrong with consensual sex with a legal adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:17 PM
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If you followed people you didn't like "just to support them", you'd follow everyone. incorrect. not liking someone, and simply following someone for support is 2 different things. there are so many people on youtube with way more subscribers then views they get. people will knowingly stay subbed to people they don’t watch anymore simply for support. (also laziness)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:14 PM
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👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:10 PM
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don’t know how to just be friends with someone they’re attracted to. they actually just know that it is a waste of time, it’s also a liability from the male’s perspective. i can certainly see how it’s beneficial from a women’s perspective though. having women you are cool with is fine, but close friends as in someone you discuss your life issues with and is welcome in your home(platonically) at anytime.. isn’t worth the energy for men. naturally, there are exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:44 PM
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brooo wtf 💀💀 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:34 PM
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it’s simple really. you can still have sexual relationships with women with high n counts, just don’t commit to them. if you happen to come across a women with a impressively low N count, you can consider commitment. that’s it this post makes it way more complicated then how men really see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:57 AM
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if that’s what you think, then that is you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:21 AM
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i said what men want, not that they don’t ever settle. just because a man settles for a fat single mom doesn’t mean that is what he wanted. the world is filled with misfortune, even your experiences reflect that i acknowledge what is apparent. if you see it as nihilistic, then that is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:47 PM
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In what way will it help the current crisis of so many men being lonely to tell them to reject women for having any "undesirable traits"? i said they can have casual sex with those women, their simply isn’t many marriageable women these days. if that’s what they want there’s nothing i can do for them. Sorry but you are actively encouraging people's unhappiness. if that’s how you see it, then that is just how you are going to see it 🤷🏻‍♂️ Luckily most men don't think like you or we'd be in even d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:37 PM
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If all men only considered having relationships with young, attractive, thin, non mums and prudes there'd be a lot of very lonely men. that isn’t the case now and there are still a lot of lonely men, but if this is what you think then i will leave that way of thinking to you It's not a solution to the problems we face for all men to reject these groups of women except for sex. its a pretty good solution I also have two best friends who were briefly single mums after each one split up with their …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:26 PM
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Yes, I do think men should alter their standards if they are struggling to date. Is that really that unconventional? you can think what you want about those men I just don't think it makes sense to automatically reject huge groups of people if you're not getting dates. it doesn’t have to make sense to you, men generally understand why they wouldn’t take overweight single mothers seriously you get super hot single mums and older women etc so I don't get why any guy would be that dismissive about …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:05 PM
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you can think what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:39 PM
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I don't care if you don't want to hear my personal life i don’t need to know that you are a bisexual woman that dates single mothers 🤨 and you want to let MEN know what you THINK they should like..🤨 men do not like those traits previously mentioned. old, promiscuous, overweight, single mothers are not desirable in general however if you want to share what you have observed that generally seems to be true then that is acceptable. my point is that I'm successfully and happily dating and I think if…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:37 PM
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yes, that is different from your original comment. i made it clear it is an assumption. the average man would be ok waiting for an model-esq women who is a virgin. they would not be ok with waiting for non virgin women, even if she was attractive, because that would be idiotic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:06 PM
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what a tragedy agreed 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:02 PM
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you are 1 woman 👩🏻 we are discussing the general dating market, not your personal life. respectfully, we don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:43 PM
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Why does it matter particularly if a woman is a slut, older, fat or a single mum? those are undesirable traits I'm bisexual and none of those are disqualifiers for me. this ain’t about you Unless by older you mean over 40 but I'm only 30 so that's reasonable. this ain’t about you I'd only date people I'm attracted to this ain’t about you I think dad bods and curvy women are sexy. this ain’t about you I would have no issue dating a single mum cause I love children. you can be the one to do that M…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:39 PM
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The average man is cool with WAITING FOR MARRIAGE to have sex? that is not an accurate representation of what i said
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:35 PM
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If men want low n count women for serious relationships, they must pay the price of: -Pursuing women only for serious relationships and never casual sex -Waiting until marriage before having sex with 6/10 and less virgins and celibate non-virgins women stopped being chaste not because men wanted casual sex, but because of feminism sexual liberation of women from shame, thus causing women to not require sex before marriage men want sex first, low n count women is who men are willing to commit to.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:32 PM
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When men don’t want women past a certain age and women younger than that don’t want them because they’re old af do they just stay single when men have resources, they tend to don’t struggle to find younger women, this is not really a concern for them. however broke older men, they probably just settle for a old woman. it’s simply unfortunate 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:24 PM
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What has that got to do with this conversation, we are discussing MEN a big reason for men complaining is the lack of quality women as well Maybe if you stopped the 12 hour gaming sessions and wanking yourselves into oblivion, you wouldn't feel so hopeless and depressed all the time. take a breather, you sound triggered that’s them men doing that. i’m chilling. nothing i can do about them. i just acknowledge the selection of women men have to pick from is poor due to the reasons i listed above
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:16 PM
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So you're admitting that many men are struggling to get dates because they don't date women with a high body count they do try, they just don’t take them seriously or older women, or fat women? just add single mothers and you’ve just described majority of the dating pool men have to pick from. as you can see it’s slim pickings out here 🤷🏻‍♂️ i ain’t complaining, i just acknowledge what is apparent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:10 PM
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That's fine, but most men are not living the single life, eating healthy, working on self improvement, and being a great benefit to their communities. lol you speaking facts but keep it real, i think damn near half or more of women are overweight or a single mother. the options aint peachy over here either 😂😂 They're becoming addicted to everything, dropping out of education/work and killing themselves. well evidently, life is tough as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:51 PM
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that’s because women rely way more on their looks and get far more attention on social media then males. it’s simply more worthwhile for women to take it more seriously. that’s not a complaint, most men just accept it for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:44 PM
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i agree, being a decent person can land you a overweight🐳 single mother at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:40 PM
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⁠Men pursue women for casual sex rather than dating. true ⁠Men don't want to wait until marriage if they are dating a virgin/celibate female. that’s generally the case for ugly and some average looking virgins. but 7/10+ i’d assume the average man would be cool with that why would you wait for a celibate female? that’s idiotic imo ⁠Men have an aversion to high n count women for serious relationships. rightfully so ⁠Men don't want women past a certain age. of course not ⁠Fat or unattractive women…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:34 PM
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According to Red Pill, the answer should be obvious: because he is a male and wants to fuck other women than just his wife. yes but that answer is surface level. since men are capable of restraint, i know just wanting to fuck other women is not only reason they cheat. but i also know that men capable of cheating are the men most women find desirable. basically what i’m saying is there is a variety of factors that cause men to cheat and if men are abandoning their restraints to cheat, then unmarr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:38 PM
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So is the generalization of men based on “many” experiences? a lot of the times yes. a lot of women take safety measures such as leaving their location for friend. that’s is fine based off a generalization that men seek to cause harm to women. and it’s based off the real world examples of that happening. but that doesn’t mean that all men are seeking to harm women. Generalizations based on singular experiences are not the practice of smart people. hence why i literally said generalizations, espe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:38 PM
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And so all men are also capable of ruining your life and you shouldn’t blindly trust them. hence why i first said that men and women are generally untrustworthy This is not the same as saying “I had one bad experience with men and now I assume all of them are bad”. men can be untrustworthy, thus anyone who has that bad experience with men reinforce the generalization. it is not possible for 1 person to experience every scenario, so people compare. commonalities and the similar experiences tend t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:27 PM
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from a relationship standpoint you should generalize the men and women you don’t know as untrustworthy until proven otherwise. not that they are bad people in general. its not that all women will ruin your life, but that all women are capable of ruining your life. thus be aware of this, move accordingly, and most importantly do not blindly trust women to do what is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:17 PM
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If you’re actually a red pill man, then you would believe that the core male desire is for variety. i am RP aware, what about what i said implies that i lack this knowledge? it is true, men desire variety. however i don’t believe men are incapable of making a conscious choice to restrain themselves to monogamy. but at the same time i acknowledge the unflattering reality that most men are going to act out their desires of variety if they have the value to do so. but certainly not all According to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:46 PM
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NAWALT(Not All Women Are Like That) it was a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:27 PM
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but not all married men are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:58 AM
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women mostly initiating divorce is definitely a concern that men should have… even if the reason is cheating, men should still be worried because the next logical question would be why are all these men resorting to the same exact path of sleeping with other women? why aren’t they all just having sex with their wives? are they all just scum and their wives did nothing wrong? i find that hard to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:56 AM
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divorce rates are dropping in the US last time i checked, but marriage rates are also dropping. not sure about germany
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:45 AM
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You mean women complaining that men see them as old and useless uglies when the start passing the the age 25. now i truly sympathize with women because of this unflattering reality. the same way i sympathize with men who are short because they are viewed negatively as well. First I meant to say 30.. Men literally saying a woman above 25 is old.. i mean we can all find random people who say wild shit. it’s not that over 25 is old, it’s that after 25 you are pretty much past your peak potential of…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:41 PM
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both men and women complain about unreasonable shit. like women complaining about men finding younger women the most attractive. a 39 year old women is high risk pregnancy and i think lost over 90% if not all of her eggs? she practically a senior a citizen. lol i’m joking, but she is definitely on the older side and not apart of the “younger women” crowd. ain’t nothing young about her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:14 PM
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you can’t be serious 🤦🏻‍♂️ there’s is a distinction between young women and women in general. if young women are dumb, that wouldn’t mean women in general are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:41 PM
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men like young women, it is what it is. just like women like taller men. do some men like older women, sure in the same way some people may like cold pizza, but just because cold pizza can be good, compared to freshly baked pizza, it just don’t hit the same. older women can be attractive, but compared to younger women they just don’t hit the same. Y’all act like women live age turn into boogeywomen die and men are born lookin like Hercules mfs muscular big dicks desirable have women swooning ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:30 AM
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I disagree. When men develop erectile dysfunction the whole world stops and cries you know there’s a whole market for women who get older and can’t have babies normally? egg freezing… it’s disingenuous to pretend nothing is being done for women bodily functions What happens when a woman gets saggy boobs, low libido, wrinkles, osteoporosis, etc.? She's told to walk it off. just blatant lies lmao. Body positivity was established for those exact reasons. those women get told she’s a queen and forev…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:14 AM
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My point is that women do want attention from the right kind of man, not just any random dude who winks or catcalls. women post many provocative and revealing pics publicly online meaning they do want attention from random men to some degree By comparing women to cold pizza, you just proved yourself to be the type most would rather avoid. human? i mean if most people avoid humans then that’s their choice i guess. women also find younger men attractive not nearly to the same degree. most men from…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:57 AM
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Exactly. By this logic, even if an older man did score a younger "perfect 10" (which is unlikely unless they are rich or famous) they would lose attraction by the time that woman hits 30. So, no chance of having a good relationship or sex life for more than a few years? 🤦🏻‍♂️ the point is that men care about having her prime years especially men who want to have children. they would find women attractive for more than “a few years,” 🧢 men always found younger women the the most physically attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:59 AM
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so you base a rape culture on comments random people make? 🤨 i guess that’s you but that is absurd logic and i believe it’s a disservice to people who actually live in a culture where rape is literally not taken seriously or punished even with evidence. Anyway, most people aren’t asking rape victims if it felt good.. maybe trolls on 4chan and reddit but in an investigation room, officers aren’t normally asking victims “Hey we’re just trying to find out what happened that evening, when they raped…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:40 PM
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i agree with most of what you said except the This is what rape culture means what you described was not a rape culture, you described the most common ways that rape can occur. just because rape happens doesn’t mean you live in a rape culture. yes marital rape and familial rape happens but a rape culture means you live in a culture where rape is rampant AND normalized. rape is punished to the fullest extent in the US when it is proven beyond a reasonable doubt just like any other crime. i mean, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:33 PM
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it’s true men get hurt but that usually isn’t why men ghost women nor is it the driving factor that makes men desire to have casual sex with multiple women. i was raised to have manners that’s nice and all but we’re you raised to be a wife? were you raised to know what men want from a wife? or were you raised to be a strong and independent woman? both is the typical response.. but you’re curious about why men do what they do which is good. but imo your reasoning insecurity on their part They get…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:16 PM
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I have noticed that many men leave after sex. It feels like we (women) are getting punished by them for doing it. And rather then tell us what dissatisfied them so we can address it and fix it, they disappear. i’ll be honest with you chief.. men love having women around them. most times men dip or is distant after sex, it’s because they viewed the women as either obnoxious or unpleasant to be around. it could have been for a variety reasons, but most commonly it’ll be because she’s masculine(not…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:28 PM
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it’s not that they don’t want relationships with young women, it’s that they cannot attract young women. a man really has to have his shit together in order to be attractive to young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 11:16 PM
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You missed the point, women in their early 20's go after men in their 30s. i said most older men cannot attract young women, that means 30+ which includes 40, 50, 60. in general, most older men cannot attract young women, early 20s. 18-24 to be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:45 PM
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yes, that’s why i’m saying i don’t know why women specifically hate when men use generalities when women use them all the time. they should just accept that people speak that way like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:25 PM
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It doesn't really go away, women in their 30s, go after guys in their 40's. Women in their 40's, will go after men in their 50s. when i say most older man can’t attract younger women, i mean women in there early 20s. i don’t include women 30+ in the “younger women” category. anything past 30 i just consider that an older couple. for example, if a 50 y/o man is dating a 31 y/o women, i wouldn’t say he likes young women, because she is younger then him, yes, but she ain’t young. keep in mind this …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:22 PM
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In my original comment, I did not specify a gender in my comment, i didn’t not specify that you did that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:02 PM
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Please examplify “men speaking in generalities” 1 of many examples is: “older women are less attractive” Gender is not a generality, by the way not sure what this is in reference to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:56 PM
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I found it gross when 40+ men came after me at 18. ehh women reject most men in general, even when single Good luck that is very kind of you ☺️ Sugar baby sites would not exist if young women liked old men. there is definitely a strong correlation. though young broke men aren’t necessarily getting laid easier in comparison simply because of their age. there was some study showing men below 29 are reporting higher levels of virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:15 PM
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incorrect most older men cannot attract younger women. combined with the public shaming that comes from a blue pill society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:03 PM
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to add to that, older women are more likely to have a higher body count 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:58 PM
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⁠Because I didn’t specify a gender i never said you did. i asked in general why do women get upset about men speaking generalities when they do the same thing. ⁠Younger people by definition are inexperienced and ignorant not all young people are easy to manipulate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:54 PM
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So saying that older men prefer younger as a blanket statement, is incorrect it’s true as a general statement though. men find younger women more attractive then older women. i would say most older men cannot attract younger women though, not that they prefer older women. it’s like when men say they like bbws when in reality they just can’t attract a slim baddie. this is not in all cases though. where i kind of agree with you is that older women are more relatable and that may factor into the at…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:50 PM
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i don't really care, however, sometimes they go for young girls who look ''older'' instead of older women with youthful well older women in general don’t look as good as younger women. they can look better, but it will not happen often on a balance of probabilities on a large scale. another reason is even if they “look good for their age”, they are still older so it is probable their “good looks” will fade sooner then someone in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:22 PM
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Younger people are easier to manipulate why do women speak in generalities like this then get upset at men when they do the same. 🤦🏻‍♂️ they would we be quick to say “Not all women are..” then they proceed to virtue signaling about how it’s wrong to generalize 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:04 PM
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get out your feelings I don't care about the women who choose then that is you they can go find a different line of work. you don’t respect women’s choices I'm not obligated to tolerate men raping a sex slave you’re being disingenuous and literally making up your own narrative, no point in continuing when you’re going to argue in bad faith 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:41 AM
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it’s highly probable it was her own choice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:24 AM
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personal insults aside..(get out your feelings) women choose to do sex work. they say it makes them empowered. if you’re calling those women liars and you don’t believe women are strong enough to make their own choices, then that is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:22 AM
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Yeah you did, you had a bunch of opinions about how bad relationships were and how good a vagina felt. i didn’t say relations were that bad, i simply brought on the negatives to go alongside the positives you mentioned Those are obviously your personal feelings on the matter, not universal truths. telling you men prefer vagina over plastic toys in general isn’t the same as you telling me about the stash of personal silicone dicks you keep locked away somewhere that keeps you satisfied. 🤨 that’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 07:12 PM
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Why is that a problem?? well it is the problem from your original point being of why you didn’t see what i brought up as relevant as to why men would choose a sex worker over a relationship or beating off, since you are looking at it from a female lens you are not able to see why men choose sex workers. I’m a woman that’s fine, but you could still approach the topic more rationally I was literally just answering OP’s question about why I would or would not see a sex worker! that’s was fine the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 06:11 PM
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Ok, but then they only get sex. naturally, that’s what men want That doesn’t seem worth money and all the risks to me you can see it that way as a women why would I pay for a real one that might have diseases or get me pregnant, and that is attached to a stranger that might rape or rob me? you’re looking at this through a female lens, that’s the problem The downsides of being with sex worker are not remotely worth an orgasm to you, and most women give myself risk free and cost free. (Plus my toy…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:26 PM
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How would downsides of a relationship be relevant at all to whether a sex worker is better or worse than masturbating?? it explains why people would go to a sex worker for sex rather then trying to establish a relationship. why sex worker over beating off? because vagina feels better lol? A relationship could be hell on earth, and I would still rather masturbate than pay for sex. i agree 🤝 Well I disagree, I think my sex toys would feel 100% better than someone’s vagina. that’s your personal opi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:03 PM
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What I said was, downsides of relationships don’t make going to a sex worker preferable over masturbating 🤨 i literally mentioned the downsides of a relationship that makes it less preferable than going a sex worker or beating off beating off doesn’t feel as good as vagina, obviously 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 04:48 PM
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it’s a pretty reliable metric
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 04:20 PM
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I don’t really think any downsides of a relationship somehow make it better to go to a sex worker divorce grape, family court, dead bedroom, weight gain than have an FWB or something that’s is not easy for the average man to establish or maintain I’d rather masturbate than pay a stranger to have sex with me. i agree 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 12:21 PM
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naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 11:02 AM
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you do not attribute any mental strength to the choices that people make for themselves? that is an odd worldview, certainly you would have a good explanation for this hot take
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:17 AM
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are women in general strong enough to overcome these obstacles?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:00 AM
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potentially, but i mean.. people often get addicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:54 AM
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why don’t you mention the potential negatives of a relationship? there certainly is not all upside.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:51 AM
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are you saying women are not strong enough to make decisions of their own volition?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:48 AM
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you can never be sure about pretty much anything in life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:46 AM
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your responses ignore that women in general highly prefer career driven ambitious men AND they PREFER men to handle the larger financial load of bills, you are being highly disingenuous for the sake of optimism(or feminism) to try and paint this as an “equal on both sides” issue when we both know that is not case. 😑 men are usually the breadwinner so it makes the most sense for them to remain the primary income in most cases woman would not even support a man let alone a SAHD so they do not even…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:01 PM
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that’s a cool what if bro.. but my question presumed the man was the financial provider if it wasn’t obvious.. you can ask why don’t men do it but it is highly improbable for a man to even be in a situation to make such a decision.. therefore the question is directed at women due to it being the realistic scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:32 PM
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do you consider onlyfans prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:17 PM
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which leads to more SAHMs and also more of them who don’t really want to do it and aren’t suited, but they feel like it’s their job well it is. presuming they have the viable option of staying home and raising their child. why would they pick a career over their child.. hedonism is at an all time high
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:50 PM
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why not look for a high earning woman so you can stay at home? it’s simply impractical by the math alone. it’s very rare for a woman to agree to financially support a man, let alone make enough to do so efficiently. it’s virtually counterproductive to the reason they made the money in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:43 PM
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I absolutely disagree. Dudes that I would develop hardcore crushes on i was speaking in general, not you personally. the problem with personal anecdotes is that we all have them. what if i told you the old cliche that by being a “dick” i was more successful with women then by being “nice”. would that discount everything you’ve said? of course not I would intentionally seek out the "bOtToM tIeR" frats just because you sought out and had sex with losers doesn’t mean that is most women’s mindset Ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:22 PM
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i’d argue assuming you had other desirable traits, women would be more sexually aroused by you if you were a dick then if you were nice. but we don’t have to agree on that. idk who lied to these men often times women in general are not straightforward about what arouses them sexually or what makes a man attractive. often times you’ll hear women say contradictory stuff or they simply don’t know. the most common saying is when a women says “money doesn’t matter, i don’t care about money” but then …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:08 PM
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Women do like men who are kind are women aroused by nice guys? are women attracted to men who are nice? does being nice to a women make her desire you sexually? everyone likes people being nice to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:26 PM
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sheesh, from your original comment, i just thought you were a sweet dude. i’m sure many women would consider you a good friend 👍🏻 i’m not sure where you’re getting all the that negativity from, i didn’t mention anything about anyone’s pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:10 PM
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sheesh, from your original comment, i just thought you were a sweet dude. i’m sure many women would consider you a good friend 👍🏻 i’m not sure where you’re getting all the that negativity from, i didn’t mention anything about anyone’s pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:09 PM
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It’s not a preference ffs- it’s outright prejudice lol. lol cope? It’s just this shitty whore mentality yall guys have thinking that the nature of a woman is represented by her past partners. insecure, you just can’t handle a KINGS standards. if you intimidated by a strong mans standards then just say that sis 💅 You silly boys too scared to date a woman bc she’s fucked more people than you and it huwts your pathetic lil ego and you feel less alpha 🥺 projection A real gigachad king ain’t afraid o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 02:18 PM
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But alas, insecure ahh the ol men having preferences are insecure. trope let me use your logic back on you 😪 why do you want a man that doesnt care care about body count? 🤔 you know, maybe because it is you who are insecure? 🤨 you just can’t handle a strong man setting boundaries. a mans standards intimidates you, that why you shame them. if a man doesn’t want a women whose slept around then that’s that KINGS standards. either live up to them or keep it moving sis. It is so many insecure women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 01:49 PM
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they brought women on with phds and Master degrees, these are the smart women y’all say don’t think like this, and they pretty much have same views on dating as the “dumb bimbos”. they all want economically attractive, preferably taller, masculine, ambitious men. 🤷🏻‍♂️ but is your point that a body count estimate of 25 is to high? personally i think it’s fine for them to think that, it is just an estimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 01:38 PM
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pay women to come on and say whatever the dorks want stop spreading fake news 🤦🏻‍♂️ it’s ok to not like the pod but that’s no good excuse to lie. 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 01:31 PM
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there’s no practical way to know for sure everyone’s body count, you can survey but that doesn’t guarantee everyone will be 100% honest. but you would say that you think the average body count of women would be below 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 01:26 PM
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both hosts are pretty much exclusively attracted to hoes what? you must think good guy greg at the office would never let a young baddie give him a blowjob because he is a “real man”. he doesn’t like blowjobs 🤦🏻‍♂️ after you have seen all these politicians, teachers, high profile men, and married men in general getting caught getting their di** sucked by young attractive sex workers you chop this up to myron and fresh being a gross exception to the average male? also theyre view isn’t that women…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 01:19 PM
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you are just.. very nice. that’s all i’m saying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 12:39 AM
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omg you are such a nice guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:27 PM
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there are bad women that intentionally use good men facts, however i do not fault women for using men. i acknowledge it happens but i do not demonize women for it. i place the blame on men for letting it happen and hold them accountable. however, the way you framed your comment placed the blame on men for using women as if they were helpless victims and did not demonstrate female accountability at all. Now, does the fact that all those men consented mean that a woman can go around using men for …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:52 PM
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you say men use women for sex.. They never planned to have serious relationships with them the point is self-defeating. sex is consensual. meaning women aren’t requiring serious relationships for sex 🤨 if you believe men and women are equals, then you should hold women equally accountable for their decisions. one of their victims we’re talking about consensual sex here. if women are equal to men then consenting to sex is not victim hood, otherwise you would be saying women are mentally beneath m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 09:53 AM
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oh that was you. yeah i said you were capping, it wasn’t a dead serious comment you can’t believe i exist i never questioned your existence, if anything i questioned your honesty.. but it was more of a joke then a serious inquiry, i don’t know you so obviously i can’t say for sure if it’s true or not 🤨 there are many women like me 🤔 i’ll just say that there are women out there with low body counts and we can agree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 08:04 PM
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lol wtf, i guess i’ll disagree with you next time? 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:46 PM
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i agree, it’s best your husband doesn’t know what you have been doing in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:49 PM
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🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:48 PM
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so a past matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:47 PM
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wtf 😭😭 if a man barfed after a women told him her body count he’d be instantly labeled insecure and a misogynist. clown world we living in man 😂🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:41 PM
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women complain that men kill and grape people so they are scared to do literally anything. why would women want inclusion from people like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 09:56 PM
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look, whatever you’re doing in people’s asshole is your business. i actually would not be surprised at the number of masculine men that like that because i know it is a low number.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 09:00 PM
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if you go around digging in peoples ass then that is you 🤨 that’s still a ridiculously small number of masculine men who even like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:10 PM
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well when you said they want to put women in their place, i was assuming you meant it in an immoral or disrespectful manner. that’s weird. just being a masculine leader of the household is to be expected. there’s nothing wrong with wanting a submissive women. no one should tolerate disrespect or physical abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:00 PM
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oh well maybe in that regard. but they are weird if they get off on that. i still think that’s a small number of men that actually fantasize about crap like that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:39 PM
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i just called out the cap, it’s a lot of nonsense said around here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:28 PM
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masculine men like to be sexually dominated stop the 🧢 that is an a ridiculously small number of men to the point that it’s insignificant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:47 PM
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🤦🏻‍♂️ this has to be a joke who fantasizes about being with a “boss” dominating women? lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:43 PM
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i’d smash em but i mean, if you date single mothers, then i’ll leave that to you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:37 AM
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not sure what your point is? could you expand also we’re talking about single people ma’am. i don’t advise men to try and sleep with other men’s wives 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:15 PM
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Not all women are looking for a deal. true, but most most of those women that are like that fall into 1 of these 3 categories: ugly overweight single mother often times all 3 i’ll be blunt with you, most men don’t care what those women are looking for. we all want the best deal. it’s best for men to self improve to get what they want. it is what is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:39 PM
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disingenuous. broke dudes gettin pussy is certainly a minority. broke dudes that’s gettin pussy regularly is even rarer. also most of the women broke dudes smash are ugly or whales 🐳. they ain’t smashing slim baddies or women above their “league”, at all. it’s possible, but impractical for the vast majority of men. men should self improve before expecting results on “game”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:29 PM
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of course.. as everyone should 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:13 PM
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naturally, no ones saftey is guaranteed in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:36 PM
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i agree, but mostly because everything in life is unpredictable, so it doesn’t really take away from OPs point that it’s overblown.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:27 PM
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male sex rate is going down, especially young men, while women’s are staying the same. along with most women reporting that they find most men as “economically unattractive” point being, a logical conclusion considering that women are fucking “up” but yet marriage rates are going down, is that a significant as well as rising portion of women are living that type of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 10:53 AM
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i think what’s being skipped over is that many women who have sex with higher value men then believes that she is of marriage value to men at that caliber.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:48 PM
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lmao what? what do you want then, arrangements?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:40 PM
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who wins then, men? men who wife up women who’ve been getting piped out by multiple dudes? probably a child to tag along.. be an adult, we all deal with bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 06:51 PM
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A woman who has a handful of long term relationships from 18-27 that don't pan out hasn't lost their value. to you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 06:40 PM
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Why do you think YOU know everything about what a woman wants then gets upset when a woman knows plenty about men? i’m not upset, i asked you a question. I have an active social life. I have a lot of male friends both straight & gay. I’ve dated often. Like… NO ONE cares about “body count” the people in your friend group don’t care so no one else should? lol what type of logic is that. you surround yourself with likeminded people so of course they think like you because NONE of them are so insecu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:20 PM
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but seriously, grown men don’t want this. lmao so you know what men want? No, I’m an adult. Maybe young inexperienced men who are insecure & have low self esteem This is exclusively the domain of incels, alphas (who are incels) & weird religious men, who again are giving off nasty small willy energy. lool what type of energy you think you’re giving off right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:42 PM
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No it's not. Men just want to learn how to use women for sex better. That's it. Don't commit, dread game them, whatever. the concern is mutual. women use men everyday, and men should be very careful. however you want to rationalize to cope with that is your prerogative. Yes, I don't think that's very common. i guess that can be your personal thought, but ideally women in general would prefer to be in a sexually committed relationship with 1 person. i mean it’s literally women pushing hard for mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:08 PM
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that’s fine for you to see it that way. i’m not sure what you disagree with me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:58 PM
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i mean you still ideally want the same thing. but you lower your standards to cope with reality. that is natural
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:54 PM
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It is too full of men who just want to use women? that’s a mutual concern, women using men is one of the main causes of the explosion of RP. pushback on what exactly? Hoping to be with just one partner. like women in general want to be with just 1 partner? i mean, i would agree with that if that’s what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:51 PM
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Most bounced which is fine and so far I'm still with the one who liked me for me. i mean if you’re already in a relationship then you shouldn’t be worried about what random redditors think if you should make other men wait? 🤨 It's not fool proof in any way and I don't think women or even most women want that at all. what are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:28 PM
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hmm, i agree with logic but.. idk if bro code is even a thing nowadays. most dudes are simps and are definitely willing to lose their dignity to appease a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:57 PM
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in general
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:53 PM
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“some ladies” lmao that’s very conservative of you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:52 PM
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Neither is good or bad one is certainly worse then the other
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:51 PM
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facts i’m just mentioning it to put into perspective that while most men are having sex it’s not like they are really “scoring” per say. this is just speculation i believe there was something that showed 1/3rd of young men age 18-29 are reporting to be virgins or not having had sex in years while women are still reporting the same levels of sex. a logical conclusion would be that even lower tier women are fucking up the ladder more most likely due to social media. but like i said this is just sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:49 PM
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majority of men out there are getting in relationships/having sex. true but id argue most men are having sex with unattractive and/or overweight women. also divorce rates rose up and then fell because marriage rates are declining so it’s not like “oh everything is fine outside of reddit. Go outside!”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:50 PM
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lmao facts 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:43 AM
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you’re right, i’m sure it’s nothing to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:34 AM
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hmm? i’m not saying being single is a horror show at all. i’m just saying most women are going to be single. it’s moreso bad for the country as a whole as a bunch of elderly single people aren’t going to have a family to take care them eventually. leading to more people needing govt assistance then is available. there is a country struggling from this problem now but i can’t remember which.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:23 AM
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it’s loosely based on the concept of women having male orbiters and the amount of men that women constantly reject, ignored DM’s, etc. i understand your point, though the amount of single women is raising drastically. combine that with women reporting most men as “economically unattractive” on top of women being projected to outearn men in the near future.. women are going to be single as fuck, it’s not even funny. i predict women are just going to have multiple men or they’re just going to cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 11:26 PM
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well what did you find to be incorrect?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 11:06 PM
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as a man, i wouldn’t be delusional enough to deny that their are general truths about male nature. regardless of whether they apply to me or not. the world operates in generalities, if that upsets you then that is your personal grievance to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:55 PM
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and you think i see the truth in men? if that is your judgement, then i will let you think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:17 PM
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“either they're lying or you're wrong.” the former is correct, but you’re free to agree with the latter. “If most women think they don't conform to who you think most women are, chances are you wrong.” “The fact what I said isn't unique” if you compare what you said to my claim, you would see the irony. “That means the rule is garbage.” that’s how you see it. most women see it the same as you. i would say it just means the rule is consistent. you’re speaking as if when i see women, i mostly see …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:48 PM
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that’s disingenuous naturally, if you’re an average earning man then alimony is not something to be worried about. most people are average so they aren’t going to have to worry about it but if you make good money, then you’ll definitely end up having to pay alimony. and men still end up paying women the vast majority of the time. the concept of marriage is fine but marriage in the US is a scam. and you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:29 PM
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i believe the stat was like 90% of alimony is paid from men to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:22 AM
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your arguments, while valid, are not unique. i already acknowledged that i understand where you’re coming from. in fact, i acknowledged that it is a normal response for you to feel the way you do about RP. most women think the same way about RP as you do. telling me you are an exception isn’t evidence against what i believe. RP acknowledges that there are exceptions out there, but exceptions do not make the rule, that’s more common sense then arrogance. but i get it, you believe you are an excep…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:04 AM
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Cons: you believe in "truths of female nature". yeah like in general women naturally prefer taller men. there are traits about men and women that are generally true when it comes to intersexual dynamics. you don’t have to accept that, and i don’t expect you or anyone else too. reality is not very flattering, so that is a normal response. women in general feel the same way you do about RP… Most RP "truths" either don't apply to me, or they also apply to most men. the RP ideology was not made to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:14 AM
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“..red pill is a trauma response..” good observation. it’s true, a lot of men turn red pill after they experience the detrimental consequences of being blue pill, ie getting divorce graped or trusting women to be loyal to them and being betrayed. “..often cling to beliefs that self sabotage..” “..fear and scarcity..” great point, it’s why RP tells you to have an abundance mindset. women are a plenty. unlike those self-sabotaging tendencies RP tells you to be aware of the unflattering truths of f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:52 PM
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lmao no 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:31 PM
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vast majority of people are BP and thus PC, especially outside of this sub. it’s not socially acceptable to be critical of women in general. datingadvice sub is such a waste of time and pretty much just teaches men to be emotional and feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:41 PM
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the enhancement is definitely more then slight. moderate at the least, dramatic at the most. otherwise it wouldn’t be a realistic fear for women to take off their makeup. not saying this is every women but to use pokimane as an example since everyone knows about her controversy, the difference between her without makeup and with makeup to a lot of male eyes was… shocking… but for the sake of being genuine, another example that better illustrates your point is even though i don’t like Cardi B, sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:39 AM
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sure man, if you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:31 PM
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“Naw man, TRP "goal" (if an ever changing amorphous blob of people can have a goal) is to tell men it's women's fault, as a gender..” lmao the irony is, you can’t see how bitter you come across as. this is so far off that you’re goal here is clear. it’s not to have any sort of reasonable discussion. i’ll just say that if that is how you see it, than that is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:27 PM
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“Like, how can you know you’d like to date multiple women..” most men want multiple women, even if they plan to marry 1, they generally still desire to sleep with other women. most people don’t accept this so i don’t expect you to either so i’ll get to the point the people who are RP and have or seek to have multiple women in a relationship, not spinning plates, generally have a realistic outlook on how to establish those relationships. assuming we’re talking about attractive women… generally th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:17 PM
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“..sees how painfully untrue these ideas are..” “..it’s silly and childish..” not necessarily accurate criticism, but i guess that’s your opinion, which you are free to have. “..both people are the same gender..” RPs goal as a psychological theory, is to explain the intersexual dynamic between men and women, not the sexual relationship between any and every possible sexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:03 PM
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TRP is literally a psychological ideology(theory) that observes the intersexual dynamics between men and women. for obvious reasons it can’t be applied to LGTBQ+. the goal of the RP theory is to explain the sexual relationships specifically between men and women, not the sexual relationships between any and every relationship possible… For people who are interested in the sexual dynamics between LGTBQ; whoever wants to study LGTBQ relationships and publish their findings and create whatever “ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:58 PM
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i don’t get it or are being willfully ignorant? you seriously think i can’t tell? you know that i am right. you still haven’t said anything that contradicts what i’ve said. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:11 PM
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you are simply incorrect or not competent enough for this conversation. “and can choose not to conceive.” i already acknowledged this point, both men and women have authority to conceive. “you have complete authority over whether you put anyone here” that is factually and observably incorrect. if a man conceives a child with a women, if the women decides she does not want to birth the child. that child will be killed. therefore proving what you said to be false. he has the authority to not conce…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:28 PM
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it’s convenient. it is what it is. you don’t have to accept that. “..conception totally doesn’t determine who’s born..” ? no one said that. please read carefully both parties are responsible for conception. only 1 party has the authority of making the decision on who is put here. whoever has the authority to make that decision is fully responsible for who they choose to put here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:22 PM
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“..i don’t see a fetus as a child..” that’s very convenient. both people are responsible for conception.. but both parties are not responsible for who is born. as only 1 party has that decision. whoever makes that decision is fully responsible for whoever they choose to put here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:06 PM
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women have complete authority over who they let ejaculate inside them. so by your logic children don’t need to die, so get rid of abortion. hypocritical logic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:01 PM
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it is disingenuous phrasing in an attempt to remove accountability of a women making a choice to kill a child. it’s not a simple withdrawal of consent.. however we don’t disagree on women being able to have an abortion. in fact you literally just agreed with me, your OWN example literally demonstrates that women have the ultimate authority over who is put here. but you did not address the main point, which is child support. i’m fine with women having 100% authority over who is put here but men s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:11 PM
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you expect people to not act irrationally.. well i hope you never work in customer service. /s women regulate births in the US. that’s just a fact. men cannot have children without the stamp of approval by women. however women can have children without the stamp of approval from men. ✅ you don’t have to accept that but your whole argument revolves around abstinence. hypocritical logic. ❌ your logic literally aligns with people who want to get rid of abortions. you don’t have to kill children if …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:43 PM
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it’s fair for you to assume the best in people, but i have already demonstrated why it is observably ludicrous in application. 😴 a women has full authority, i’m simply saying that with “great power, comes great responsibility.” if women have this authority to regulate 100% of births, they should also be fully responsible for who they CHOOSE to put here. however you seem to believe that men should have no practical choice other then “no sex” if they do not want children. and if they do want child…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:51 PM
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the logic you present is irrational and lacking any critical thought i’ll demonstrate why with ease you say if a man does not want children you should make sure the partner would abort? that is what we call a “hope strategy” because it is impractical due to the fact that a women still having the child thus breaching your trust would still result in you being forced to pay child support if she changes her mind. all she has to do is say the pregnancy got her emotional and she had a change of heart…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:15 PM
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women have 100% authority over who gets born in the US. therefore they have full responsibility over who they CHOOSE to put here. any logic claiming men should not have sex if they do not want children, is hypocritical logic, because that same logic is used to point out why women should not be able to abort and why contraceptives should not be used. “no abortions, if a women doesn’t want children, don’t have sex.” 😴
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:52 PM
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impossible. it would depend on so many unlikely factors to go right, such as the man winning primary custody.. your solution is not only impractical, but irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:31 PM
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settling for other women ends their lineage
/r/AntiFeminists04/03/22 02:50 AM
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true but women date up for the most part. women are going to start making more then the average man soon so they’ll either start protesting to get that law rewritten in a way that benefits them as a breadwinner or they’ll just keep doing what they are doing now and dating up which effectively ends their lineage if they don’t settle.
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/22 05:16 PM
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no cap my guy but you took a big L here. i really don’t understand why women get so much in divorce. the logic of the women “needing the same standard of living” is the biggest load of crap i ever heard. it’s literally designed to benefit women who date up and incentivizes breaking up the family.
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/22 05:14 PM
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so in other words that is just what you and your people think? cool, we’ll leave it to your people to think that women are almost never straightforward with what they like, women don’t like assholes but they sure as hell date them, they even have their children. so you can say women “don’t like” community penis, but we all know that reality will show the opposite. you think more women will date the virgin man, then would date leonardo dicaprio? i mean dicaprio is “community penis” and women don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:43 PM
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stop being so disingenuous, it comes off as some sort of weird resentment RP acknowledges that “high value men” sleep around, and that WOMEN should be aware of this IF they want a “HVM”. a “high value man” is GENERALLY a higher earner, physically in shape and healthy weight, socially and financially adept man. thats not most men. if women want a man like this, they should be aware that most other women want men like this too therefore those men are not at all probable to be monogamous. so basica…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:16 AM
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lol do you not find it attractive? or are you speaking for all women? we all know women ideally picture some broke out of shape guy when they are talking about “community penis”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:02 AM
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quite the misrepresentation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:52 AM
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Red pill is a philosophy or ideology at the end of the day. RP women simply just agree with RP views and believes in gender roles moreso then the average “modernized” women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:51 AM
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lol if you think that’s how it is, then that is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:01 AM
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“No does not mean no for all men who operate under red pill ideology.” what a low iq argument and not every muslim is a virgin till marriage.. are we just going to play the “not every person” game all day? 🤦🏻‍♂️ i told you where redpill stands on it. if you don’t want to accept it due to a nonsensical argument like the one you presented, then that is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:06 AM
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that may be a contributing factor to single parent households but to stick to the point of men becoming less attractive and/or less manly(effeminate) it’s mostly men being raised in a society that pretty much demonizes masculinity disproportionately more then it praises it. combine that with boys not even being raised by men to see how men should carry themselves along with a more gender conforming society that seeks to blur the lines between gender… boys are getting so many mixed signals growin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:28 AM
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alpha fucks/beta bucks mating strategy basically a women who bear children for a man(AF) who they say “ain’t shit” and he typically has not fully committed to them through marriage, then you commonly see them talking about how they need a “real man” (BB) to step up. “my hobbies are traveling and eating. also, me and my child are a package deal 💋” “i’ve had my fun in the past now i’m looking for something serious.” -2 kids in profile 👶🏻 “me and the father broke up so im taking boyfriend applicati…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:12 AM
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i said “it’s moreso” meaning i acknowledged that what the other person posted was valid. so yes i saw her side and presented a different perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:28 PM
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don’t be ignorant. accountability goes both ways. women could have also chosen to marry before they carry, or simply chosen better men to let come in them. EVERYONE could’ve, would’ve, should’ve, but they didn’t. and now we’re here. don’t deflect with such immature logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:09 PM
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it’s in reference to finances. it takes awhile to make money therefore your 30’s 40 would ideally be your peak as a man. however if you broke then it means nothing. but if you got money then you could pull more baddies then 20 y/o men. but it should be noted that males in their 30s and 40s that are making “a lot” of money are in the minority hence why most women do not identify with the saying. there are a lot of other factors as well but i’m explaining the primary factor regarding the saying of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:01 PM
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its moreso mainstream feminism forcing a gynocentric society combined with a breakdown in the family causing the increase of men being raised by single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:52 PM
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mainstream feminism told boys to get in touch with their feminine side. men should cry and be emotionally vulnerable. lol, now we have a bunch of effeminate men. look how that backfired
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:44 PM
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“..mentally and financially..” lmao women are going to start making more then men on average soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:35 PM
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lmao big facts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:29 PM
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if you think that, then that’s you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:17 PM
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wow what a reach LMR is a GENERAL concept, not an RP concept, that is nothing more then a phrase that describes a situation where a women reject advances hinting at sex presumably at the first time they have sex with someone new so she doesn’t seem like a slut. it doesn’t necessarily apply to regular relationships but no trp doesn’t advise men spoon their wives while pleading for sex.. if she doesn’t want to have sex with you, she obviously don’t like you like that so trp suggests you should kic…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:11 AM
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lol what are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:14 AM
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where red pill stands on consent is that No means No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:28 PM
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they are, but you say you are simply more disciplined. that is believable to most people, so it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:01 PM
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most women are religious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:54 PM
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an older women who is still a virgin is fine, though questionable. if you are like other women, you’ll say it’s your choice, and it’s fine for people to believe that. but i know there is some detail about women who say that, that they aren’t telling us. that’s all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:48 PM
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26 and virgin? 🚩🚩🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:02 AM
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not being overweight literally makes you a minority in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:13 AM
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females do not like average earning and below older guys. i agree most older men or even men in general are not what most people would consider high earning(over 6 figures) thus naturally the marriage stats will show most women marrying within their age and economic status. as we mentioned before, within the same economic class women will choose closer in age. combine this with the low availability of high earning men in general and this is the most probable explanation for this. high earning me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:09 AM
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naturally but I would argue money is prioritized over age, in the sense that high earning older man still have more options then average and below earning younger men. It works almost backwards for women. that’s what rp means when it says women want older men. older men are more likely to have money, hence the generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:45 AM
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and they don’t gag when they date young broke dudes? lmao if you think that then that’s you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:33 AM
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i mean we live in a gynocentric society. most colleges are left leaning the last time i checked. the stuff most boys are seeing in media is feminist/progressive perspectives, as well as cancel culture pretty much punishing anyone who disagrees. with that combo you pretty much have a bunch of little boys seeing men/masculinity painted as villains almost anywhere they look. they’re now being told to be emotional, play with “girl” toys, wearing makeup or dresses is “progressive” and makes you “stro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:31 AM
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RP tells you to self improve and while it does tell you how to be attractive to women, i would argue it’s moreso a guide to not getting fucked over by women. You can literally be RP and not date women, like MGTOW’s. They aren’t being Chad. Or you can be a RP women who is just looking for a traditional man that RP typically tells men to be. Not necessarily roleplaying as Chad, but i guess it’s a funny surface level observation at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:13 AM
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how disingenuous you know that’s not the groundbreaking information rp is popular for. everyone had PE classes and knew fitness and hygiene were important from a self preservation standpoint. we both know rp exploded in popularity due to its ideologies around female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:04 AM
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because men for the longest have been told it’s “all about personality” and money and looks do not matter. If women are big and beautiful then the same applies to men right? it’s on the inside that counts.. men and women are equal correct? No it’s a facade that unfortunately a lot of men fell for that was pushed by feminism. most men being indoctrinated under this facade, which effectively emasculated them, have their eyes opened by rp knowledge which is not only to self improve both physically,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:58 AM
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majority of women aren’t into broke older men men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:44 AM
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“The only older men who will have options are either very rich or very attractive.” 😪 obviously. the reason they say men age like wine is due to experience, not necessarily looks. men make more as they get older thus becoming more attractive to women. an average somewhat fit 23 y/o dude has less options then a 40 y/o guy making $100k+, even within the 23 y/o’s age range of women. to add the clarity your comment lacked, most men are middle class or lower and high earning men are statistically rar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:30 AM
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“Men who PREY on younger women give all men a bad name”. Lmao what else was in your findings, water is wet? Captain O. anyone preying on anyone else is bad news. 🤦🏻‍♂️ unless your saying that men who ask young women on dates are automatically predators? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:14 AM
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“75% of marriages involve couples separated by no more than 2-3 years.” 75% of men don’t make a lot of money though. Most women are married to middle class and lower men. And it’s not because they prefer it. The point you’re missing is you’re assuming women prioritize age over finances. Correlation doesn’t equal causation however i think your conclusion is fair, but is still as surface level an observation as if i said women prefer middle/ lower class men because more women are married to them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:59 AM
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Thank you for being reasonable. Why does no one mention men making a lot of money(6 figures) in the US makes them a minority? Thus naturally most women will marry within their age range rather then older if those men are in the same economic class..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:46 AM
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Don’t be fooled. You should have added that men making a lot of money(6 figures) are a minority in of itself so it’s not practically possible for a significant portion of marriages to be to men with money(aka older men). Most women marry within their age because it’s practical to date a middle class man your age then an old middle class man. It’s not necessarily because they prioritize age over financial security. It could be due to younger men naturally have more potential to make something of …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:39 AM
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you can feel that way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:35 AM
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I’ll try to answer it as best as i can then because i can understand your confusion. When it’s comes to spinning plates or marrying, RP doesn’t tell you that you HAVE to get married, or that you HAVE to be a player and spin plates. The core concepts of RP is to simply be aware of female nature, and self improve. It doesn’t necessarily tell you what your relationships MUST ultimately result in with women. Me personally, i wouldn’t call a married man non-RP, neither a guy that spins plates. But it…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:58 AM
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“If someone has accepted the red pill to be true they are red pilled” Yeah and if i have accepted that i’m a king then i’m a king. That’s a simpleton’s logic. That’s you trying to generalize red pill. You can do that if you so choose. But thats like saying if some Muslim says something out of pocket then i just chop it all up to Islam, they’re all the same. or all women are the same as soon as a bad representation of their group arises. I’ve already told you what TRP is which is philosophical. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:08 PM
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So a strawman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:10 PM
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Their standards are fine but completely unrealistic. They’re standards are so rare they may all end up in a relationship with the same dude lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:08 PM
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TRP is moreso the psychology of women and their mate selection strategy and for men to understand and be aware of female nature. Then move accordingly. The existence of RP women demonstrates how RP is moreso philosophical then pure disdain for women. However the general public conflates it to be hatred mainly due to extremists, or a lot of times due to their own personal ignorance. When you say TRP thinks women are evil, then maybe you are conflating red pill with MGTOW. Which is men who want ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:03 PM
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It’s really not in the example we are discussing. The degree in which men like young women or in which women like tall men is not necessarily abnormal if it falls within what most men or women find attractive. You are conflating someone’s sexual gratification with someone’s ability to successfully enact on their mating strategy or what people find generally attractive. That may be confusing so here is an example: a) a man who fucks a bunch of young women is not a fetish. That’s what most men wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:54 PM
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That is a weird way of looking at fetishism. To say because his relationship history is abnormal then he has a fetish is a reach. He dates young women, most men are not able to do this simply because they are not attractive enough to women to do so, and i don’t just mean physical as we all know what females find attractive in males gets quite complex. While his history is abnormal in the sense that most men are not able to be attractive to the degree that DiCaprio is to women, what he is finding…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:11 PM
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Most of the point you’re making is it’s not in a women’s best interest to age gap date, which i don’t really see as a valid counterpoint as i never really made that a point of mine in the first place. My point was asking how do you consistently and accurately distinguish someone who likes young women for their “immaturity” from someone who likes young women for their beauty. To call what DiCaprio likes a fetish is your opinion, it’s not abnormal to be sexually attracted to young women. A women’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:47 PM
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Great answer. I want to make it clear that i’m not saying you are wrong but instead that you are free to see it that way. I agree with a lot that you said, especially the power balance for the most part. “If it’s about looks, age will generally have less variability in their dating then if it’s about control.” Here i completely disagree, if someone dates multiple young women of different nationalities i would say it’s reasonable to conclude it is due to the physical appeal of younger women. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:08 AM
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Ok you said “If they’re deliberately seeking out people who are inexperienced, yes that’s a red flag.” The motive you mentioned was inexperience. So ultimately the question in the example i provided you was simply this: How would you consistently and accurately determine the motive to be inexperience and effectively distinguish it from someone who dates young women because they are typically more physically appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:23 AM
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🤦🏻‍♂️ I guess i have to spell it out for you. What would that “experience” in dating consist of? a) Like if a man doesn’t want a women that has “dated” a lot of other men to gather “experience” then that’s “concerning” as you would say? b) Or are you saying inexperience in the sense of a women without a long term relationship with a single partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:13 AM
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“..deliberately seeking out people who are inexperienced..” What does this even mean? It is purposely ambiguous to be used as a sort of catch all term that can be conveniently applied to virtually any man’s preference that involves younger women. Inexperienced, what would that consist of exactly so this label can be consistently and correctly applied to women it accurately describes? Age? IQ? Jobs held? Dating partners? Average relationship length? The scapegoat answer most women will give is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:28 AM
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Facts. Personality matters but what society doesn’t admit is that it’s a tertiary priority at best. Attractive women with their finances together are not going to mess with a cute(pause) dude whose a waiter or cart pusher because his personality is amazing. Does it happen sure, is it probable? It’s damn near nonexistent. Would a attractive women with her finances together mess with a guy with money and status, but a “bad” personality? Of course, and it happens more then the other example. This p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:04 AM
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True. But i think this applies moreso to guys. I’ve met busted chicks and landwhales with awesome personalities but i’ve never been sexually attracted to them. I can’t say the same about hot chicks with horrible personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:54 AM
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Well rich men are a minority so i don’t doubt that’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:00 PM
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They definitely aren’t screwing broke old men lol. However, rich men in their 40’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:47 PM
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The point is you still have the option. That’s an advantage whether you choose to acknowledge it or not. Most 18 y/o boys don’t realistically have even close to the amount options that an 18 y/o women has, and that is in quality and quantity. But women like to downplay that or frame it as purely negative. Male youth is not valued in regards to the dating market. Female youth is and women often leverage it as they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:00 AM
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That isn’t true. A lot of feminist complain about a wage gap even in areas such as athletics or entertainment. The people complaining about WNBA players making less even though they have equal access to pro sports competitions, equal opportunity to participate in sports at their physical level, they are still upset about the difference in outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:23 AM
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Not factual, but i’ll let you think what you’d like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:07 AM
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lol, you’re free to make those assumptions. Whatever you feel is right to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:50 PM
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That’s how you feel. It’s fine for you think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:35 PM
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That’s how you feel. It’s within your rights for you to think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:04 PM
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Well i guess i’ll wait for you to present the facts to counter my claim. They never said they were alpha was my primary claim. It’s kind of mute at this point as you acknowledged that what i said was facts. Unless now you have some other facts to bring to the table the proves they said they were alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:02 PM
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“Yeah, they don’t call themselves alpha..” Thank you for admitting that what i said was factual. “They just use themselves as examples for every case of “what would a superior male do”” That’s how you feel, that’s not factual. But you are definitely free to be in your feelings about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:13 PM
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“..I provided the definition of how I see an alpha male in human world.” Meaning that’s what YOU think. Like i said, you can be the one to think like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:07 PM
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That’s not factual, but you are free to believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:51 PM
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Whoever has to prove anything to you is already a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:48 PM
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“..no you aren’t or you wouldn’t spend all your time on reddit” That’s not a fact, although you are definitely within your rights to think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:47 PM
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“..that was co-opted by insecure men to feel better about themselves.” That’s not a fact. but you are definitely free to think that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:44 PM
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“Alpha males don’t even know what TRP communities are..” You’re free to think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:42 PM
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The more notable manosphere channels don’t call themselves alpha. Fnf, Kevin Samuels, Rollo. Media spread false narratives about fnf calling themselves alpha but that was debunked awhile ago but people still hold onto it out of resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:41 PM
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That’s more of a philosophy then a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:38 PM
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The problem is you’re assuming i’m saying women manipulation is worse, when my point was they manipulate more and through multiple forms. You want me to present an arguement in me saying why FDS manipulation is “worse” when that was never my point. I simply gave you 2 examples of the forms of manipulation that FDS uses. You don’t have to like them, but they are manipulation nonetheless. “But commonly the predatory men are the ones that commonly go after the younger women.” I mean you’re free to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:24 PM
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As it stands unproven by you, like i said earlier, if you think that about RP, then that’s you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:10 PM
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“.. TRP doesn’t shame at all.” I literally said earlier that FDS manipulates more then TRP, implying that TRP does manipulate to some extent. Whether women THINK they were manipulated by an older man is irrelevant, an unverified poll is not necessarily proof. But it’s a start. However i’m sure a poll asking men if they were manipulated by a women, it would show similar results. That’s the problem with polls. Ive already seen those type of polls that were crowdsourced, that’s why i don’t site the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:07 PM
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“Red pill is just Edgelord crap + things everyone else people already knew. The thing that differentiates itself from self help books is open misogyny and sexist bad science” “No. That’s is objectively true.” I’ve never made any claims of objective truth, i said it is an ideology and purely theoretical. But since you said that what you have spoken is objective truth, go ahead and prove your claim 100% true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:52 PM
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I literally used quotes, if you don’t understand then that’s you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:40 PM
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“Nobody owes anyone sex” I co-signed that in my comment. However that does not mean it’s not a form of manipulation. “Older men do tend to manipulate and groom younger women.” There is no practical way to statistically reflect this. Therefore it’s an ideology based on relative experiences. So if you see it this way, then that’s you. It’s equally acceptable to say younger women manipulate older men with sex. Also, shame keeps people from doing immoral things, but dating younger being immoral is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:39 PM
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If that’s how you see it, then that’s you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:28 PM
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“Men swapping out their girlfriends” There’s no practical way to keep track of this other then marriage. The marriage statistics shows that women leave men FAR more often the men leaving women. (around 75-80% last time i checked) So the notion that men will leave women for a major upgrade is a biased opinion as well. “Men are magical” I never said that, i live in reality. Enough in fact that i often say men of higher value will have sex with other women but the probability that they will leave y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:25 PM
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Withholding sex is manipulation when it’s in expectation of something in return. You are literally withholding it for some form of compliance, multiple dates, money, take out the trash, etc. That’s textbook manipulation. I’m a rationale person so i understand that all manipulation is not of the same magnitude. Therefore i accept reality that women will do it. Shaming, FDS women often shame men who want variety sexually or they shame men who liking LEAGL AGE younger women. FDS literally had a pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:13 PM
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Again the comparison is not as close you present it. “The only differences you see are ones that are unverified and created by an ideology.” This holds some truth and what i believe is the origin that caused the “pills” to branch off into different directions because those differences are impractical to record into a study therefore theories had to be made. It’s why if someone else believes differently such as blue pill people, i allow them to think whatever they want. It is simply impractical t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:43 PM
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There is plenty of manipulation in multiple forms on FDS, i would argue there’s more then in TRP. But that’s a different discussion. I don’t agree that TRP and FDS hate the opposite gender, that’s only if you consider the extremists in each group. FDS was pretty much fine until they allowed radical feminists to come in and take the lead. It’s been all downhill since then. TRP at least tries to produce results and often sites statistics and tells men to move accordingly. TRP does try to mitigate …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:26 PM
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The problem with FDS is that they are openly hateful towards men. Their ideologies are fine, get the highest value man as possible. It’s gets pretty crazy there in the sense that it’s often said there that a HVM has money and will essentially be subservient to the women. It’s weird and i don’t agree with concepts like that but it’s still fine to say. But a lot of wild shit goes on there, where if we flipped the script and we’re speaking that way towards women, it would be considered hate speech …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:57 PM
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It’a not as comparable as you are implying. Yes men want the best option, but men are significantly more grounded in reality with what the best option would be and are more then willing to settle without feeling contempt or keeping their options open. Women in general, not you personally (so please don’t tell me about what you did) are much more cutthroat in their hypergamous nature in the sense that they want the best option that is either statistically rare or simply unrealistic and are way le…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:49 PM
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fly away
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:41 PM
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Are you a clinical psychologist? This isn’t a case of narcissism. You simply failed to comprehend a basic argument and you want to fall back on such ludicrous insults to save face. I literally said in a very brief comment that you replied to, “There is no reason to force alimony for anyone but SAHW..” You did not understand, Then i asked “What non-hedonistic reason should an employed women get alimony?” Both very direct about the point yet you failed to comprehend that. This is a case of you bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:56 PM
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At this point i’m convinced that you are not competent. I’ve told you my point in plain english and was very direct with my intention yet you still misinterpret it. You say you’re an engineer but i now doubt that you’re even educated as you have not even demonstrated the competency to understand a basic argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:16 PM
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I would not ask her nor expect her to walk around with said documents. I would take her word for it as i understand it is a traumatic experience. I would not ask her to prove it or anything like that. However i would also not make a ridiculous claim that it 100% happened unless it was proven with evidence.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:40 AM
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In other words you have no evidence other then a single testimony from the accuser? No court documents, no police report, not even an account from the perpetrator. Nothing but her word.. And you call that 100% proof? I have no problem with you believing her but that is not enough evidence to prove that an event 100% happened. If you studied any sort of law in your life, this should be common sense to you. Just say that you believe her, but don’t make such ridiculous claims that it 100% happened.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:33 AM
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This article showed no evidence other then a one sided account of the accuser. Is this the only evidence you have? Do you believe testimony is 100% proof? Did you graduate high school or study any sort of criminal justice or law in your life?
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:23 AM
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It’s up to you prove your claim genius. You’re educated aren’t you? You should know how this works. Provide the proof
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:19 AM
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I’ll wait for you to provide the proof of your claim as any credible person would when it comes to a federal crime.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:16 AM
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So you’re saying they had 100% proof but let the man go because he had a career? Do you have anything to back up your claim?
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:06 AM
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Definitely red pill, they don’t suggest guys to give up on dating. They focus on self improvement and not blindly believing women have your best interests in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:24 AM
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You obviously don’t watch fnf, that’s fine, but if you did you would see how ignorant your comment sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:23 AM
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Wtf can you read? I literally said stay at home wives should get alimony. I have no problem with that. What non-hedonistic reason should an employed women get alimony? Thinking alimony should be gotten rid of means i hate women? What poor logic. Have you married a man that makes less then you? Just because you make a lot of money and date down doesn’t mean that’s the norm. If you pay attention and take yourself out of your own damn shoes for just a second and look at the facts, around 90% of ali…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:25 PM
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Of course not, you’re a women. It mainly benefits women. Women date up. 🤦🏻‍♂️ There is no practical reason to force alimony for anyone but SAHW.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:47 PM
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there’s a difference between lying and being wrong you’re wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:14 AM
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you can be the one to think that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:07 AM
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90% of alimoney paid from men to women. “personality..” lol look if you think that you’re right, then you can go thinking that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:38 AM
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just take the L and go away man lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:13 AM
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“Seriously you're never going to make enough money let alone be married. Chill.” lool ight
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:00 AM
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“women bad, women lie” 🤨 never said any of that nonsense. stop making up shit was only speaking on alimoney, needs to go away. at this point, you should just go away. your input isn’t worth any serious consideration
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:26 AM
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That was one portion of what i previously said, i’m not going to go all over it again if you lack the iq to read. If that’s what you took then that’s you. and please no more of your family tales you special little snowflake lmao no one cares
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:01 AM
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“My point is to get rid of alimony” pay attention and please no more stories, no one knows you or really cares
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:54 AM
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Thank you for giving me 1 example. That 1 example discredits my entire argument and i am sure that alimony happens like this in majority of cases /s Please bring a logical and rationale argument or counterpoint, not an unverifiable anecdotal story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:48 AM
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Because unlike what the women and bp men in this sub is trying to push, women desire men with with money, it’s not the only thing but it is one of the primary attraction traits in women, evidently. But personality.. blah blah Get rid of alimony, it’s literally designed to benefit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:17 PM
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Women are not a minority in the US lol. What they literally outlined victim blaming to be in this article is literally an all encompassing term so that you can call anything anyone says on the topic ,victim blaming. At this point if you even talk about rap*, you’re victim blaming.. “Be careful out a night alone” victim blaming.. Bruh… And y’all wonder why no one takes that shit seriously That’s the biggest load of crap i’ve ever seen and it’s really what’s holding women back. The reason it’s eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:27 PM
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The point is to get rid of alimony genius
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:18 PM
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Last time i checked the ratio was like 90% of all alimony is paid from men to women. With that said, my point is to get rid of alimony period, not just that alimony shouldn’t be paid to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:18 PM
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Are you dense? When did i ever say sexual assault never happens? This is about VICTIM BLAMING. Do i have to spell it out for you? This assumes the incident ALREADY fucking happened so that is me LITERALLY acknowledging that sexual assault happens?!! pay attention You didn’t tell me a fact you told me an anecdotal story from way back when, ultimately irrelevant to my previous comment because i have clearly pointed out that true victim blaming used to happen but it very rarely happens at all NOWAD…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:16 AM
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“are you close with many women..” This has to a joke. Why are you asking me personal questions if this affects society at large according to you? You don’t know me, i could lie, what a braindead fucking question. can you back up your argument with actual logic and reasoning and not waste people’s time with dumb ass shaming language. There is no rampant victim blaming here in the US. No one is saying “If a women gets rap*d it’s her fault.” That’s made up victim mindset feminist propaganda support…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:44 AM
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🧢 You just believe this nonsense persists when it really doesn’t. My point is no one is blaming women for getting rap*d NOWADAYS. Maybe back then but that’s has been left in the past. That’s why the only thing you hear nowadays are anecdotal stories that can’t be verified. No one is saying “Oh if a women gets raped it’s her fault”. 🤦🏻‍♂️ Everyone condemns proven rapists, so stop perpetuating this garbage feminist nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:33 AM
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Child support Why should someone who you chose to leave have to pay for your disability? Even employed women with no children or disability can still get alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:29 AM
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If you have employment, why would you need alimony at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:17 AM
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What? They’re literally advising you how to decrease the probability of yourself from being targeted. “Be more aware of your surroundings when alone, stick to well lit areas.” Bruh that is not blaming you for getting rap*d. Also if something happens “very often” as you say then why are you linking me an article from 4 years ago.. Dude come back down to reality. Fucked up shit happens, there are mentally deranged people here. You can take actions to decrease the probability of being a victim. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:45 AM
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“To the point women are often blamed when they are the victim of sexual assault.” By who, anonymous internet trolls? Get that bs feminist propaganda out of here and get off the internet. Even more often the violator is condemned by society at large if the crime is proven. 😴 That war rap* stuff was facts though. That shit is wild and quite frankly idk how to possibly stop that, that’s a global issue so just “communication” isn’t enough since the threat of war is usually from other countries. War …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:13 AM
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Your speaking nonsense. Even women with jobs still get paid alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:44 AM
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🧢 Stop making stuff up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:42 AM
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Bruh.. Men don’t care much for women’s attention so they ain’t gon be dating like females do now for free meals and shit. Assuming men always have beautiful women down to fuck.. They would just fuck all the beautiful girls that are down to fuck, probably marry one to raise the children, then probably fuck the other beautiful women that are down. Monogamy is cope, its simple, but i see you think it’s more complicated, you can be the one to think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:00 PM
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that’s you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:23 PM
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“You’re saying the red piller..” I’m speaking for myself ma’am. It’s really only 2 scenarios. It’s already been 1-2 dates and i smashed and sometime after that she found out i was rp and left. don’t care, smashed. W It’s hasn’t been 1-2 dates yet when she somehow found out like she’s been stalking me or something and she leaves. At that point i haven’t even known her enough to care about her leaving. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:18 PM
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“You’re saying the red piller..” I’m speaking for myself ma’am. It’s really only 2 scenarios. It’s already been 1-2 dates and i smashed and sometime after that she found out i was rp and left. don’t care, smashed. W It’s hasn’t been 1-2 dates yet when she somehow found out like she’s been stalking me or something and she leaves. At that point i haven’t even known her enough to care about her leaving. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:18 PM
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If you think that men wouldn’t fuck multiple beautiful women if they had easy access to them and they would just become monogamous, then i’ll let you think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:22 PM
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Your options are trash. That’s why your single. You literally complaining about it your previous comments. Objectively speaking you could be the problem, but i gave you the benefit of doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:26 PM
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A myth? lol, i literally said it’s fine for you to feel how you feel. Just don’t be that girl who makes that post. Also if women had good options, they would be married. Truth is the options most of you women have are piss poor, hence why you all complain so much and led to the creation of FDS. Where women literally complain about how poor their options are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:17 PM
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That’s fine, just don’t make a post in future asking where all the “good men” are at.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:10 PM
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Most men are average so they don’t really have a choice but to prefer monogamy. It’s called cope. I find it hard to believe that if most men had sexual access to the most beautiful women they would immediately become monogamous to just 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:02 PM
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That’s because men understand your education or employment does not define you as a person. If you think without that you are not human then that’s a personal problem and you need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:00 PM
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All guys get girls that are into whatever type of man they are. Most guys that get girls have money, not that they are nice or any of that bs. But nice guys can get girls too, but are likely getting finessed in some form
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:54 PM
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If i already smashed then that’s a W to me. You wouldn’t find out soon enough. That’s most likely within 1-2 dates otherwise i would have already cut you off in some form.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:53 PM
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Big facts. So stay with him and don’t end up a statistic. Also if he plans on making you a home mom then i’m assuming he got cheese, so be prepared for what inevitably comes with that. Also when you say you dress how you want, if you mean modest then that’s still traditional. Otherwise you’re not traditional, but you don’t have to be. Also if your “past” is wild then it is what it is, i would say don’t let him find out but it’s your decision. You got your man though so essentially don’t fuck it …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:58 PM
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What? “Attractive” guys, pause , don’t have a hard time finding male friends lol. Where did you even come up with that? If you can’t get friends it’s because you’re an asshole or anti-social. I can definitely see it being a problem for females but i just don’t see why another guy wouldn’t be friends with some other dude because he’s “attractive”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:41 AM
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Most of what you said was nonsense but i’ll focus on the most important part. That poll you brought is VERY interesting. 😈 That is how you get a man’s attention. Unfortunate we couldn’t get the weight but this is just fine. I’ll concede you for now as our difference in thinking is frivolous. Now you have some points worth consideration and i am thankful for your civility as well as your time and research.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:10 PM
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“FDS’s idea of “high value” is loyal, marriage-minded men who are not abusive or manipulative and can provide for a family.” A man that makes enough to provide for a family is already above average, which proves my earlier point that women don’t want average men. The rest of these standards are pretty ambiguous as women often due in order to be given the benefit of doubt. There’s no practical way to substantiate how many men are realistically abusive or manipulative. Especially since abusive and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:01 AM
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Women have a surplus of options, that’s true. But if everything was as well for women as you imply with your OLD statistics, why do women still complain so much about the dating market? Why are divorces still through the roof and only getting worse? “she’d have no problem getting new male matches to replace you.” Anyone who’s done basic research on RP understands this. It’s essentially one of the core concepts. Women have more “SMV” then men by default. “She just needs 1 match out of the 100 or …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:13 AM
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LOL 📚👩🏻‍🎓 -—> 💪🏻🧍🏻‍♀️—-> 💍❌ --> 👩🏻‍🦳 —-> 🪦
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:44 AM
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“If only they could internalize their hurt feelings like women do. Then we’d have a lot less shootings and killings.” Actually in most cases, women aka single mothers raise the men that do most of the shootings and killings. Children raised under men whether single fathers or 2 parent households are much less likely to become degenerates or a threat to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:00 PM
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The same thing that’s wrong with calling a stripper with an onlyfans while having a sugar daddy and dressing in the tightest and most revealing clothes.. a whore. “Just because i’m dressed like a police officer, does not make me a police officer.” - David
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:42 PM
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A lot of those children are going to go on to be criminals. Being a single mom itself usually is a pretty good sign you’re not the best decision maker. Have you seen the amount of single parents who say their children are “good kids” and don’t need to be “disciplined”. It’s all idealistic in their mind and they are trying to raise their boy to be a responsible adult without the nuances of how to be a man. That could explain why a common complaint in women is that they have to be more masculine d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:02 PM
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Yes RP is a theory, a evolutionary psychological theory. Aka a social science theory. Just like in psychology they may tell you if someone’s voice is shaky it’s because they are nervous. If someone is looking down, it’s because they are unsure of themselves. If someone crosses their arms it’s because they are defensive. That is generally true but it’s not at all times factual. It’s a disingenuous argument to say, if something is not true in 100% of cases then it’s not worthy of social acknowledg…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:13 PM
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It’s fine for that to be your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:47 PM
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lol i’ll let you think that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:21 PM
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We don’t care what type of women YOU want nor the type of men you hang around want. We DO NOT know YOU. We ALL know DIFFERENT types of men. If those are the type of men YOU be with, then that’s YOU. If you and your men are the type to wife up “sexually liberated” women then we’ll leave that to y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:29 PM
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“Lesbians, believe it or not, are women.” lol literally no one said anything about her not being a women. 🤦🏻‍♂️ “..then dismiss a big chunk of society because they don't fit your narrative.” Dismiss? She’s literally questioning how come a theory explaining the sexual interactions between straight people doesn’t apply to her? She’s literally not straight. I know they say there’s no dumb questions, but that was a dumb question.. that deserves to be dismissed. If her question made sense to you, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:25 PM
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You said not true, but then said nothing that disputes what i have said. I kept it brief for a reason, so don’t act dumb. The fact that you added characteristics to the claim i made shows you’re capable of critical thought. At no point nor physical beauty standard is male virginity valuable aka held in high regard by women in the sexual market on a large scale. This is not true the other way around. You don’t have to be formally educated to comprehend such a simple concept as Supply and Demand, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:12 PM
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Yeah i’m starting to see the difference as well. My friends aren’t a bunch of virtue signaling dickheads and they actually value beautiful virgin women as i said before. According to literally everyone else, no one cares what you or your group of “men” think and how they move with the women they supposedly get. Like i said, if that’s how you and your guys move, then that’s y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:41 AM
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“Sexually liberal” men as you call them would still take a beautiful virgin over a “sexually liberated” women. 🤦🏻‍♂️ Idk why you keep bringing up your personal situation, which we don’t even know to be true, but we don’t know you and we don’t care what the men you know do. We all know different types of men. There’s still a general truth. Listen, if you believe men want “sexually liberated” women( usually referred to by a different terminology in men’s circle) then i’ll let you believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:24 AM
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This has to be a joke..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:11 AM
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Harry also has money, status and fame. An average man copying his swagger is in for a reality check.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:09 AM
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Men and women are different. Making direct comparisons as you have is pointless Female virginity is valuable. Male virginity is worthless. If you think men and women are blank slate equals then that is a logical fallacy you’ve allowed yourself to be fooled by. There’s no point in explaining further to someone who could believe such nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:04 AM
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Men don’t value ugly overweight virgins. Let’s not be disingenuous here and pretend men don’t hold beautiful virgin women as valuable. 🤦🏻‍♂️ This sub is just full of 🧢 today
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:53 AM
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Why are you making this so personal? We don’t know you and we don’t care about who you’re getting fucked by. It come across as you just wanting to feel so special❄️, it’s cringe. Here’s your theory, the explanation as to why RP doesn’t apply to you and you don’t look for those things in men is because you’re gay.. quite literally. There, that’s how RP explains you. Listen, you’re an outlier. There doesn’t have to be a super theory for every single outlier, why do you want one specifically dedica…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:46 AM
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lmao cringe ok bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:47 AM
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Chads definitely get approached and exist lol. Chads are extremely rare, it’s not something you’d see everyday which is why you probably don’t believe it. It’s understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:40 AM
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you mad bro lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:31 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 10:01 AM
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Dude it’s like people can’t read. 🤦🏻‍♂️ I literally said in my original comment that it is possible for a women to make money and still be feminine. Are you triggered or something? You are literally arguing with yourself against points nobody made.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:23 PM
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In my comment i literally said it’s possible for a woman to be successful and still be feminine.. Also, that’s your personal situation which i don’t even know to be true. The point is that if you disagree, and believe otherwise then what i said, then that’s you. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:20 PM
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🤨 I don’t know you. Neither am i going to write out a whole hypothetical conversation of a women emasculating you based on your personal life. I don’t care about what you say you would personally do. Real masculine men don’t have this issue with women because they just don’t deal with masculine women for a serious relationship at all. They don’t give them opportunity to emasculate them. That’s the point. If you disagree and you deal with masculine women then that’s you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:59 PM
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Well, if you’re making more money then a man the man is going to feel anxiety. Not necessarily due to you making more money, but due to what comes with a women who is making more money. More then likely she is going to try to call the shots now, challenge his decisions, and take leadership and effectively emasculate her man. She’ll likely remind him of his place whenever they argue. She will become more masculine which is not attractive so most self respecting men would just remove themselves fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:36 PM
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TL:DR at bottom. Exceptions occur, outstanding discovery! Since your point is women are different, i’ll point out that means that women aren’t like you. The more things change, the more they’re the same. If you look at women on a large scale, there is a general standard of what women find attractive. In other words a foundation on what you can have to be considered attractive by a large pool of women. I don’t consider women goldiggers for wanting men with money. But the point is that if we took …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:32 AM
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Most comments here are idealistic or pretty vague. I’ll provide a more pragmatic list. 🤔 A LVW speaking from a “sexual market value” perspective would have a combination of these traits: -35+ y/o -overweight -masculine / combative / argumentative -aligns with modern day feminist -sex work and/or promiscuous past -single mom -dresses immodestly -usually tries to mask their insufferable personality by labeling/shaming other people or saying that men are “intimidated” by them -complains about doubl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:35 AM
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It’s fine for you to see it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:17 AM
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Yeah, as i said if she finds it disrespectful then she can leave. If she accepts it, then it’s not disrespectful. It’s her choice, she can always leave and you can find a women more open to it if your funded. I believe it’s a double standard, men being able to have sex with other women. It is what it is. If you want to get piped down by multiple dudes in a relationship then that’s you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:37 AM
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If you’re funded she’ll come around to you having sex with other women, otherwise she can leave. Just make sure you’re not getting other women pregnant and keep it out of her face, don’t bring other girls home, etc. Its fine. If you’re a broke or a average guy though, then definitely don’t have sex with other women. They gone leave your for sure, mainly because you can’t even provide for her and you’re out there having sex when they feel you should be working.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:23 AM
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Thats debatable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:46 AM
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Bang young woman on the side but make sure to provide for and treat your wife respectfully. ( This is assuming your rich )
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:15 PM
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If i may be honest, Women are pretty plain looking as well without makeup. Imo make-up is the primary difference maker in regards to appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:24 AM
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HVW?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:13 AM
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I wasn’t speaking specifically about men doing what they are supposed to but in regards to your points.. A. whether people are financially motivated or heroically motivated seems silly to distinguish because there’s isn’t a practical way to prove it. Considering if all the people who aren’t “heroically” motivated just up and quit to not be “fake” then where would that leave us… B. I’m not sure i’ve ever heard anyone argue this. It may be a dissenting opinion but it certainly isn’t popular. That …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:31 AM
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This is just going to be an argument i will never understand. If everyone did what they were supposed to do, (ethically, morally, dutifully, etc) then the world would literally be a better place. The whole not being thankful, appreciative, nor showing any sort gratitude for people who carry out their responsibilities simply because it’s what they are “supposed” to do is ridiculous imo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:53 AM
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Alright then you agree that it’s respectful for a guy to not sit around and wait for it if he doesn’t want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:19 AM
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Lol we’re gonna miss you champ
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:57 AM
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Men and Women are different. Sorry but any self-respecting man is going to have a problem with his girl going out like that, especially if you dress a certain way or if your friends are single. It’s a double standard, i’ll give you that but you choose how to react to it. You can keep doing it and blame men for everything if it continues to not work out like most modern women, i really don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:52 AM
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Ahh this makes more sense now. I see why he would be upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:40 AM
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Big facts 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:24 PM
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“Women can want to go to expensive places and not have sex afterwards” 🤦🏻‍♂️ Thank you for making false assumptions about me. Never at any point did i say that women are morally obligated to put out after an expensive date and the point went flying over your head. Thats precisely why i said it is not in men’s best interests to cave to these demands of women because they will not give you what you want nor are they obligated to do it. There are better ways of getting what you want and one of thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 04:44 PM
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Women love attention. Yes women will say stupid rules like “take me on 3 dates before xyz…” knowing damn well that is not a consistent standard they follow. There are also those women that say, “my love language is gifts..” 😐 Seriously? Or women who have “expensive tastes” and demand to be taken to expensive restaurants with no intention of putting out like the viral clip of the girl who clowned a guy who thought he was going to get laid after taking her to some expensive place and talked about …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 02:15 PM
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Lool “find some eventually” There’s no respect for men’s time in todays society. Just be nice and you might get some one day.. These women ain’t virgins, waiting is foolish, and women will absolutely leverage sex against you for their personal gain. “Fuck bois” understand this and thus don’t play these silly chivalry games and it’s why women despise them, yet confusingly reward them with sex(?)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:45 PM
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I read, i saw 40, i stopped then.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/21 11:06 AM
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Where is the disrespect in leaving if your not “compatible” as you say?? It’s disrespectful to not be compatible with someone?? Lol If it’s their body and they don’t want to give it up so you leave how is that not respecting their autonomy? That literally makes 0 sense. You are literally respecting their autonomy by not forcing them to give it up by just removing yourself from the situation. You are doing a very poor job at rationalizing your stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:55 AM
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Now your just purposely being impractical. You could literally swap out any of the genders in the example and the point would remain the same, not waiting is not disrespectful. You just have no argument against the main point of the example.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:41 AM
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Well “fuck bois” are getting laid and nice guys are getting friendzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:04 AM
0

Where were you going with your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:46 AM
10

You are missing the big picture. For example, If a man leaves a women who is trying to make them wait months to have sex like OP mentioned, then that’s not being disrespectful. That is RESPECT. You are respecting their time by leaving them so they can continue their search for some sucker.. erm.. cough.. some person who will wait. You’re saying to respect someone who wants to wait, but where is the respect for someone who doesn’t want to wait? Where is the equality? You would have to explain to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:43 AM
1

It’s also irrational to expect men to wait for a women who clearly isn’t a virgin. Waiting is a traditional procedure for marrying virgin women. She doesn’t have to fuck you, just like the man doesn’t have to stick around and wait. Men can choose, unfortunately with all of the finessing women have been doing with men’s time and resources, and taking advantage of men, it’s encouraged that men do not wait for sex because women certainly will leverage it against you for their personal gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:32 AM
1

Disagree, a man’s sexual chastity isn’t necessarily valuable. Supply and demand. Very few people would find a man’s chastity as valuable. If anything it could be a small plus but certainly not a deal breaker or a requirement in most situations where a man is high value enough. A women’s sexual chastity is incredibly valuable on a wide scale globally. Men and women are different. It may not be fair but denying this is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:25 AM
2

No ones said anything about oweing sex.. If a promiscuous women expects men to wait, a man should just move on. That has nothing to do “oweing” or any sort of debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:21 AM
13

Considering that “fuck bois” are fucking most of the women and “nice guys” are down bad right now, it’s should be clear why men who know their worth aren’t playing the waiting game.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:14 AM
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Ok if that’s true then what is the problem? Men who leave women who make them wait should be a non issue. Notice how you’re highlighting what the women wants and saying to be considerate but you did not mention any consideration for what the man wants? Where is the equality? Men should protect their own interests just as you are saying women should protect theirs. There’s is absolutely nothing wrong with men who protect their time by not playing the waiting game with women who aren’t virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:08 AM
1

so there’s nothing wrong with seeing something as weird? Is that seriously what you’re trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:17 AM
1

But are they uncomfortable? If not, they are grown adults. Stop being judgmental, soon as someone calls you a weirdo for something then you’d be quick to tell people to mind their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:51 PM
1

There’s nothing wrong with it, worry about your own preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:48 PM
1

Yes the same way a mother should want to protect their son from women, especially in situations where their son has money. Male sexuality has the potential to be dangerous. Female social calibration has the potential to be dangerous. Age gap dating is fine. It’s people who naturally have the potential to be dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:08 AM
7

It’s fine, you’re overreacting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:32 AM
0

“Those who have their needs covered.” Who would you say generally has their needs covered more often, people with money or broke people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:08 PM
1

That’s was just a fantastic monologue. I now know what your “ideal” amount of money would be. But unfortunately i still did not get an answer to my question. Who would you say is generally more happy, people with money or broke people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:19 AM
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Ehh, i’d say men generally give better dating advice overall. Men are more general and not afraid of admitting we’re more the same then different. So men are more likely to give you advice that would work on any man whereas women tend to give you advice too specific or quite simply useless advice. Also women have more of a need to appease societal expectations which is why women tend to be very PC in their responses. But SINGLE women give the worst dating advice of all. They quite literally sabo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:54 AM
7

Are people with more money generally more or less happy then broke people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:39 AM
3

Women are sexually liberated, just because people will make fun of you for sucking ludicrous amounts of cock doesn’t mean you aren’t free to do as you please. Freedom doesn’t mean free from judgement. People do not have to approve of your behavior nor do they have to co-sign it. Abortion is legal in damn near 99% of US. To say that since some places don’t have it then women are just soooo far away from sexual liberation is absurd. If i can be honest, it’s really just screams victim mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:18 AM
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Triggered? Don’t do that. My response was reasonable, it’s not like i lashed out at you. You also didn’t really bring up a right or privilege that men have that women don’t nor vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:07 AM
1

“Women your age prefer men your age” This isn’t even an RP point but it’s commonly argued against by this community as if it is. What RP says is that they acknowledge that women prefer to date someone older then them but not necessarily old men, however if you work on yourself then typically by age of 30-40 if you have the money and resources, you’ll have a shit ton of options to where age gap dating isn’t really a problem. Yes a average 35 y/o guy trying to bag a 22 y/o college chick is improba…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:00 AM
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You’re delusional, your basis of equality is based on insults? We literally have a phrase “small dick energy” going around which is sexist and body shaming towards men but society considers it completely acceptable. That’s not me complaining but saying men and women aren’t equal from a human rights standpoint because some lady was insulted is ridiculous. There has to be better points you can bring up then that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:51 AM
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The point is, 30-40 year old men that are wealthy or rich definitely have more options then some random 20 y/o college dude. So yes women don’t like like random 30-40 year old bums and average dudes. RP never said women just like those guys for no reason other then them being older. It’s if you’ve been working on yourself then by the age of 30 or 40 you’ll have the money and status to have a shit ton of options. But if you’re just some average 30-40 y/o then no your not going to have more option…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:40 AM
21

They want to return to old school? So these women are virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:16 AM
1

Ok now you’re just reaching, there’s a potential for anything to happen. You don’t even have a real argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:24 PM
2

The young attractive 20 y/o man would still get cheated on as well, especially if he’s broke because women don’t even respect broke men. Women aren’t loyal to young attractive guys either. Women cheat period, there is nothing you can do to stop it. Just like there’s nothing you can do to stop men. You think the rich 40 year old won’t be fucking other young women on the side? 🤦🏻‍♂️ The ultimate point is that a rich older guy definitely has more options on who he is able to fuck or commit to then …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:46 PM
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40 y/o rich guys are RARE PERIOD, let alone seeing a 20 y/o with a 40 y/o rich man. What you’re saying suggests that a 20 y/o broke college guy has more options then a 40 y/o rich dude simply because he looks better? Laughable. Pure delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:57 AM
2

BB is for men with money who are not RP’d hence why they get finessed into that role trying to “do the right thing” For example if you’re RP and dating a single mother seriously, or dating a known slut seriously, i’d doubt you’re actually RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:31 AM
1

There isn’t even enough wealthy men to go around for younger women so of course the stats will show most couples are within their same socioeconomic group. Plus this topic is considering marriage because that’s the traceable stat for “couples”, you would be quite naive to think all or even most higher caliber men are for one monogamous, 2 thinking they are fucking other women besides their wife that are they’re same age. Older men are ugly and undesirable to younger women, what you said is true.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:26 AM
1

It’s contradictory, what’s she’s saying is basically implying that if you make a stupid mistake then you deserve the natural consequence of your actions with no other choice. If she believed that then she wouldn’t be for abortion. It’s delusional logic. And my counterexample clearly delplayed how delusional she sounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 11:18 AM
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I’m not arguing for the banning of abortion..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:37 PM
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“Ban abortion..” is they key part here. Shes a feminist. Which means she’s pro choice. So i simply showed her how braindead her logic is because it isn’t even consistent with her own beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:19 PM
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“You don’t want to pay child support? Get a vasectomy” Ban abortion, You don’t want to have a baby? Get your tubes tied or stop spreading your legs. That’s how ridiculous you sound. This is quite literally the perfect example of what they mean by the modern women is delusional. 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:04 AM
5

🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:47 AM
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Your best point was probably the obesity part, just being a healthy bmi makes you about the top 30% of the population in the US. But i’d argue it’s mostly female standards that have risen while males have remained mostly the same. There was some article about it some time ago showing there are more women then men in college and women are starting to make more money then men, and soon it’s likely the average women will make more then the average man. With that said they found that women found mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 07:27 PM
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you’re free to think that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:38 AM
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I’m not saying nobody loved her because she’s fat. 🤦🏻‍♂️ The point is that of course no one is going to comment on you’re girls weight because it is considered “rude” and everyone will start to use shaming language towards you for even suggesting that. If you believe no one is making comments behind your back and that they really have a neutral view of obesity because they are “grown up”, then i’ve got some bad news for you..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 06:44 PM
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That’s because they don’t want to get cancelled and shamed. That’s the problem with living in a cancel/PC culture. No one is going to be honest with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:50 PM
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Could be true, but since we’re bringing up possibilities, i guess it’s could also be true that there is a shortage of high quality women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 07:49 PM
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It’s not like that for most women i know. It’s like perspective is a thing, crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:24 PM
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ehh what your saying is idealistic, it feels nice and warm to conceptually think about, but unrealistic in regards to a lifelong relationship. Realistically your going to have to do “duty blowjobs, duty eating out, duty cleaning, duty listening to her emotions” etc. Life is about doing things you don’t always want to necessarily do. If everyone just didn’t do whatever they don’t want to do, then society would be fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:48 AM
1

I’ll toast to that 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:37 AM
2

societal constructs does say trans women are women.. id still consider you gay af tho, I guess it doesn’t matter either way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:32 AM
1

absolutely not..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:24 AM
2

Most of what you said was bs but that part about no one wanting to date people whose “mental make-up is fucked up” is Big Facts 😪 Main reason I don’t take women with high body counts seriously, they’re usually jaded and come with so much baggage from being ran through that it ain’t worth it. Kudos to you for that part, I felt that 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:21 AM
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would smash, won’t wife
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:58 AM
10

Well doctors are usually who women “ideally” marry in the their 30s. Doctors could definitely do better if they understand their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:52 AM
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No caps detected here. Have a nice day!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:48 AM
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True, if you impregnate her then it’s GG’s for you. But thats also a contributing reason to why marriage rates are going down. Men aren’t committing, which is why the dating world is in the frustration it is now. Women want the best men, and the best men are not committing, and average men are getting the scraps of even that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:41 PM
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The point you guys were discussing was a higher value man. If a woman stops giving him sex he can just go to one of his other options. In the same way that a women, who doesn’t want a man can just go to one of her other options. The point is that yes most men cant do it, TRP is simply to become the man most women want commitment from, then do as you please, whether that means sportfucking women or committing to a women. It’s also just self improvement in general, it shouldn’t be for the sole pur…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:55 PM
3

A women can “walk away” from pregnancy by just aborting the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:50 PM
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Yeah when you say date, it really means “fucked”. Yeah she probably fucked those dudes, but those men usually don’t commit. Which is why it’s common to see women complaining about men not being seriously into them and only wanting them for their body. It’s why you question, “what men are they talking about? There’s plenty of guys that would commit to this hot chick” But the reality is that those guys who would commit are average for the most part and she more than likely doesn’t consider them as…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 11:00 PM
5

Go find you a 3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 10:54 PM
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That’s right, because this isn’t really a debate. You disagree, and i’m fine with you thinking the way that you do. I’m just not finna let that be me. No ones worried or scared over anything you said, there’s nothing to own. You’re clearly just projecting, probably worried about your own losses you take with your mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:56 AM
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Things may not always be as they seem. But i guess your free to assume. You can call it scary, but it’s nonsense to view it that way. It’s common sense to take steps to reach a desired outcome. It doesn’t necessarily mean your “scared” in an intimidating sense of not getting that outcome. A ridiculous claims, but if that’s the logic you view the world through then that’s you. Again, idc what would be enough to “convince” you, it was never my intention to sway you because your conclusion is not r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 01:03 AM
1

lol you think i care about changing your mind? i kept telling you to think what you want, that’s you. No one said anything about being scared of women. I don’t think being a crybaby is manly but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 09:58 PM
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I’m not trying to paint crying as weak, i clearly stated my point which is that crying is unattractive to women. You believe it’s acceptable to most women and nothing will change after the fact and it will all work out being an emotional man that crys to his women. Very PC answer, but if it’s what you believe then i’ll let you think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:13 PM
0

You can see it that way, but ultimately it comes down to choices and preferences. You can choose to express yourself by crying all the time, but women don’t have to accept you for that and most won’t. I think it’s an unhealthy attitude to paint women who don’t want their man crying as “bad” or “shallow” people, or it’s not a “healthy” relationship. My point is simply that you have a choice in whether your going to be the type of man that’s crying to your girl or the type of man that doesn’t. I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:36 PM
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What? You already have the right to express yourself how you want. You can cry to your girl if you please, it’s your choice. If you just be crying, then that’s you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:31 PM
1

I mean if that’s how you see it and you cry to your girl, then thats you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:58 PM
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Yes of course. Realistically, crying to a woman, as a man, is unattractive. In most cases, it will fuck you over. It’s advisable to avoid it entirely if possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:06 PM
0

You still with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:52 PM
2

Are they your friends or just some randoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:50 PM
2

I’m not counting on it reversing. I’m just pointing out the double standard, and just showing privilege that women enjoy. I accept it for what it is, but i’ll still call it out if people pretend it’s fair the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:29 PM
2

As i said, it should not have to come to that withholding information, lying, being secretive, etc. It should be standard. “Her body, her choice” it’s also her responsibility as the man has no choice as the phrase implies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:53 PM
3

Did you even read what i wrote before? This conversation is purely post-conception. Both women and men have methods pre-conception, abstinence. With that logic you could ban abortions for anything non-health related by saying if you didn’t want to have a child then you should have been abstinent. Regardless, no matter how you see it, the fact remains, Women ultimately have the choice of who gets born or not. With that Power comes responsibility, “Her body, her choice” is a phrase that literally …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:49 PM
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Men create children. That’s true. With that said, it is not required for women to obtain consent to destroy what men have created. That is not moral either. That’s why my main point was not an argument of pure morality, it’s an argument of responsibility. Men have no say or rights in who gets born, therefore a women can kill the child, i don’t have a problem with that, i simply say to that, that with the power to control who is brought into life unique to women that no one else bears, then they …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:21 PM
2

i’m still waiting for you to get to the point
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:04 PM
2

Alright
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 06:45 PM
3

I respect your dissenting opinion, but dont be disingenuous. It should not have to come to men having to hide their relationship and move in secrecy when dealing with women in order avoid women “baby trapping” them. It should just be standard, if it’s a women’s body and it’s “her choice” then a man should not be responsible for “her choice”. You bear the responsibility for your own choices, therefore with the power women have delegated themselves, they should also inherit the responsibility of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 06:25 PM
2

Child support is required here in the US. Unless you are literally bankrupt. There is no way for men to opt out of child support if they did not want to have the child. Forcing a man to pay child support for a child he did not want to have, simply because the mother decided she did want to have the child is literally making a man responsible for a choice he had 0 power in making. That is not women bearing all the responsibility. That is just women giving birth in order to forcefully drain funds …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:55 PM
1

I’m fine with women being the ultimate deciders of who gets to come into this world. But i just think that that with all the power, they should bear all the responsibility. Keep in mind we are talking post-conception, because we all understand we have preventative measures pre-conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:34 PM
1

Umm that’s your personal experience. That’s not the norm. So don’t try to pass it off as that. Women commonly report that condomless sex is preferable so it’s not just men being “tyrannical” and wanting “more pleasure”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:34 PM
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The point is that both men and women have options to avoid raising a child pre-conception. Only women have the option to avoid raising a child post-conception. Then the main argument is that if men don’t want to be fathers then they should not be out here having sex. I say that’s a fair statement, but i’d also say, if women don’t want to be a mother, don’t be out here having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:30 PM
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You have statistics that undoubtedly prove that men have more rights and privileges then women in the US? The floor is yours
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/21 09:22 PM
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That’s not true at all but your free to think that i guess.
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/21 09:16 PM
7

Women in the US are certainly privileged. But speaking on a global level then yes, women in general are less privileged.
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/21 08:33 PM
1

Not at a place i intend to stay at long term
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 07:07 PM
2

lol Women shame men here all the time, but yeah ok i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:32 PM
3

People are free to express their opinions on your outlook if you put it out there. You don’t have to like it, but it’s true nonetheless. If you don’t like that, get off social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:07 PM
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My take isn’t that women are manipulative bitches. That’s just how women speak, if you consider women “manipulative bitches” for speaking that way then that’s you. I just see it as reality, and accept it for what it is and move accordingly. Women have a social advantage over men and they use it, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:40 PM
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The point is that men communicate directly. While saying “Hey i know she’s saying she isn’t looking for a baby daddy, you should just know that you will have to be that eventually.” When men communicate, they speak directly and are often shamed for it. If i say i don’t expect a women to my bills. I literally mean that, and throughout the relationship i pay the bills. But when women say the same, “they don’t expect a man to pay their bills”, they usually only mean at the start. Women are socially…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:45 PM
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She’s free to write that and everyone else is free to write their opinions on what she CHOSE to put out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:19 PM
1

Men and women communicate differently is the point. Yes a single women may say i’m not looking for someone to pay my bills and she just means that at the start but eventually expects you to pay them. Men communicate directly and are often shamed for it. As a man, i say what i mean, if tell a women i don’t expect her to pay my bills, she literally does not pay the bills, and that remains true throughout the relationship. When women tell men they aren’t looking for a stepfather to their children, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:04 PM
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As the saying goes, “Women do not understand the plight of men.” For this reason you do not confide in women. Since women do not understand masculine problems, they have no empathy for those problems, therefore they tend to dismiss it all as ego and insecurity. In general, after dealing with men and women, men learn that there is just much less confidentiality when being “open” with women. For this reason it became advisable to not be vulnerable with women, because women know on a surface level …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:13 PM
1

You can see it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:33 PM
1

Look at you. Emotional 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:57 PM
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Alright then if you don’t give af about misrepresentation, then don’t have a problem when it’s done to you. I’ve seen fresh and fit show, if your takeaway is that they cry and are begging for those women to change, then i implore you to pay closer attention to the bigger picture, because that is a surface level observation. A brief summarization of their show is that they simply tell women what men find attractive and get their reactions. The point of the show is to show men how the average “mod…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:53 PM
1

“Dudes put so much pressure on women to be everything for them” Women literally have more requirements then men. Women will literally list off a whole excel sheet of what expect from a man lmaooo But hey if that’s what you believe, then that’s you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:27 PM
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Well you imply stay at home trad mom doesn’t work, since they could divorce rape you. Considering that most modern day relationships in the US are not like that anyway, and they are mostly 50/50 marriages where both work and the divorce and marriages rates are atrocious.. What is your suggestion about marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:18 PM
0

Fair enough for that to be your personal viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:13 PM
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