Londonistaa Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Escorts are Men’s Best Option (Unless You Want Kids) I don't keep spreadsheets of my friends' sexual frequency, true. And I think it's probably true that among women of my age - early 40s - generally men want sex more often that their wives/partners and are more likely to feel it's something they don't have enough of. My own probably would prefer a bit more often, but he's not exactly suffering a drought either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 07:18 AM
1	Escorts are Men’s Best Option (Unless You Want Kids) Not really - I think women do know if they're attracted to men they and in a relationship with, or marrying!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 07:05 AM
–	The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting men I'm more agreeing with you than proving your point, I think. A penis and testicles in themselves aren't particularly attractive or interesting to most women, I think. Certainly not a picture of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 02:17 AM
–	The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting men I don't know many women who find dick pics at all interesting or arousing even from a partner. The picture itself isn't sexy at all. But the reality can be, obviously. But that's part of not just the visual, but how the woman feels at the time, touch, intention, all put together. My partner knows I find him incredibly sexually attractive, but also that sending me dick pics doesn't make me feel that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 01:48 AM
1	Why do so many people have the "no 1 on 1 time with the opposite gender" rule? I don't, and never have had, such a rule, either for myself or for men. Most of my friends are women, though, and all my very close friends are. I'd be wary if either I was spending increasing amounts of time, and getting emotionally close to, a particular man, or my partner was doing the same with a woman, though. Asking for trouble.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 11:42 PM
1	Escorts are Men’s Best Option (Unless You Want Kids) I just don't meet these women. I never have, on a level where I'd know their feelings and emotions. Girls and women I've been friends with just don't have these marriages or long-term relationships with men they aren't sexually attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 11:34 PM
–	The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting men I've never got close to finding out whether I wanted to have sex with a man because he had a nice penis without already wanting to have sex with him, though. It's not exactly one of those things that you see upfront.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 11:29 PM
–	Do you think gender equality has had a positive effect on dating? I don't pick and choose. My in-laws in Israel all do national service at the age of 18. Young women as much as young men. That's been true there since the late 1940s, women were in active front-line roles in the 1950s. My mother remembers seeing a photograph in the 1960s of an Israeli woman soldier armed with a sub machine gun, it made a big impression on her as a young girl. I expect my partner to do a roughly equal share of housework and childcare - but then, I earn a roughly equal amount of m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 11:09 PM
–	Do you think gender equality has had a positive effect on dating? Not mine - but then my only experience of conscription in my extended family is in Israel, where 18 year olds are all called up for National Service, both men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 11:04 PM
–	The way this subreddit talks about compatibility focuses on the wrong aspects of relationships, and needs a new framework for talking about the concept. Sexual attraction is slightly more complicated than an initial "wow" too - there are a lot of people who don't particularly feel strong sexual attraction to a person they don't know. They might think, "s/he looks great" or "very attractive" but don't actually feel a strong sexual desire for a person unless they know him or her. Sexual attraction can also develop from knowing and liking someone. Sexual desire, interests and attraction can also change over time - some people develop interests they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 11:01 PM
1	How do women in relationships react when they meet a man significantly more attractive and more successful than their current partner? Because that's absolutely not how I think at any point, or ever have done. I don't constantly analyse myself, my partner or random people out of 10. I might sometimes think both that a man is very good looking or a woman is, but that's not relevant information. I don't judge my partner as "every conceivable metric" in that sense. If I meet a man who generates a flicker of "primal sexual desire" I acknowledge that thought and move past it, because he's not my partner who is wonderful in an entire…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 01:26 AM
1	Lack of good sex Very, but what "good sex" is varies so massively that it's up to a particular couple. "Good enough sex" might be a better metric. Some couples will have sex twice a month and both be totally happy with it. Some have sex twice a day and are totally happy too. The problem is a couple where one wants sex twice a day and the other twice a month, or the range and extent of their sex lives doesn't match what they want. Or physical desire has gone or waned. There are happily married couples who aren't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 12:36 AM