Lonely-Internet-601 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	How to flirt basics I disagree, these are good ideas for creating intimacy. But since you think this is cringe maybe add some value to the conversation by suggesting what people should do instead	/r/seduction	03/07/25 01:04 PM
12	How do you have multiple girls? More and more women are up for this nowadays. Situationships are becoming very normal which require no commitment from either party. It makes sense, women have so much choice now with social media and dating apps that it must be difficult to choose just one man and commit to him.	/r/seduction	01/07/25 01:56 PM
1	Lost my spark in daygame — even after thousands of approaches. Anyone relate? Switch things up a bit. Start by doing indirect approaches to warm up, they're much easier. The easiest indirect approach is to just ask for directions. Once she gives you directions make a cold read about where she's from based on her accept than maybe memorise a few follow up questions to get you over the initial awkward bit at the start of a conversation. Regardless of how you feel about indirect it's much easier and it's better to do 5 indirect approaches than 0 direct approaches a session	/r/seduction	29/06/25 02:41 PM
1	Anybody tried “day gaming” outside of the club? I've approached women outside clubs but it was when I was on my way home from clubs myself. You actually don't have to be quick as people tend to linger, they're not rushing to be anywhere. If you find walking tiring you can actually do the same in the daytime. Just linger in a busy spot in the center of a city and wait for girls to walk by. Paul Janka does this in most of his infield videos, he just waits on a street corner https://youtu.be/3kA1-BI5V5A	/r/seduction	29/06/25 02:14 PM
0	6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10s Have you ever been on a date with a woman? Jesus, it's not a science project. Where is the rule that says rating women from 1 to 10 has to follow a bell curve? And if it did why do women at the end of the curve have to look like models? I know lots of men who don't find models attractive because they have boyish figures and no curves. Attractiveness isnt objective, its incredibly subjective.	/r/seduction	29/06/25 07:12 AM
1	6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10s Spoken like a true incel	/r/seduction	28/06/25 10:54 AM
14	6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10s Particularly since the difference between a 7 and a 9 is largely subjective. What one guy calls a 7 another calls a 9 if she's wearing makeup and a nice dress.	/r/seduction	27/06/25 12:15 PM
1	Why do women like older guys so much Maybe flip that around and ask why men don't like older women. It's mainly just biology, we're most attracted to women who are most fertile. Women don't have the same wiring in their brain because men can still have children well past middle age. There's no biological reason not to be attracted to an older man as long as he won't die before the kids grow up and can fend for themselves	/r/seduction	26/06/25 10:37 PM
6	How are most of you ok with the Abysmal success rates of cold approach? Different tho. Doesn't feel that personal It's just as personal. An employer has dozens of people applying for a job and they think they can do better than you. An attractive woman has dozens of men who want to sleep with her and she thinks she can do better than you. It feeling personal is in your head. You feel worthy of the low level job but don't feel worthy of the attractive girl.	/r/seduction	26/06/25 01:37 PM
2	How are most of you ok with the Abysmal success rates of cold approach? Which is an amazing success rate. You're just a very negative person complaining about having to talk to 5 girls to get laid. A percentage of girls have boyfriends, a percentage of girls are focused on other things in their life, a percentage of girls have a specific type that you don't meet and a percentage of girls are gay. Of course no one has a 100% success rate	/r/seduction	26/06/25 01:33 PM
2	How to overcome the frame of "I don't have sex in the first date/that early/only in a relationship" I'd also argue that people are too impatient. Just sleep with her on the second date, there's no need to be so desperate	/r/seduction	26/06/25 10:21 AM
16	How are most of you ok with the Abysmal success rates of cold approach? 1 in 5 is an exceptionally high success rate. Most men would love to go into an bar, talk to 5 women and then leave with one. I'd say that the average success rate is closer to 1 in 15 but even that's fine. Its not that much effort for someone you'll possibly know for a while and sleep with multiple times. What's your success rate for getting a job? People moan about approaching multiple girls to get laid but are fine with applying for dozens of jobs before they land a role.	/r/seduction	26/06/25 10:17 AM
1	What are some good ways of asking if she’s single besides “are you single?” Ask a question that assumes she has a boyfriend. If she talks about a recent vacation say something like, "did you go with your boyfriend". If she doesn't have a boyfriend she'll usually say so	/r/seduction	26/06/25 10:08 AM
1	Thought I had a date locked in- girl flaked without a word after showing major interest Breaking news, woman acts like a woman. This is very very common behavior in the initial stages of dating. Women can lose interest in a man at the drop of a hat initially. It's funny because as soon as they lock into the relationship and the two of you are officially a couple they're the opposite and become very possessive of you and get annoyed if you even look at another woman.	/r/seduction	08/06/25 11:20 PM
2	Does a disabled man have a chance? Yeah, I think what people fail to understand is just how different women are, not everyone thinks the same. This actually applies to everything not just disabilities, different women have different priorities. while there may be a 'norm' of what most women are looking for in a guy there are always lots of women who fall outside of that norm	/r/seduction	08/06/25 10:29 AM
1	Y’all Overcomplicate Talking to Women Like It’s Rocket Science, It’s Not. OP isn't just talking about the opener, his advice is "just have a conversartion" thats not easy for a lot of people, they literally have no idea what to talk about. I would expand on what the OP is saying by saying that your conversation doesnt have to be super interesting. Just be inquisitive, ask basic stuff about her that you want to know like where shes from, what she's up to today etc and tell her a few basic things about you like what you do and where you grew up etc. Theres so many posts…	/r/seduction	08/06/25 10:05 AM
3	Y’all Overcomplicate Talking to Women Like It’s Rocket Science, It’s Not. For people who never approach women this advice is both helpful and frustrating. Agree you dont need cheesy pickup lines and can open with pretty much anything but the advice about just be human and start a conversation isn't helpful for a lot of guys. I've been there as a beginner and it's hard to understand what you can talk about with a stranger. My personal advice is to actually have a list of things to say until you get to the point where the conversation starts to flow. For me this usually…	/r/seduction	08/06/25 09:52 AM
1	Instant dates changed everything for me Instant dates are both a positive and a negative. An instant date doesn't guarantee a girl will see you again, I've been on plenty where the girl ghosts you after, the negative as they take up quite a lot of time. They're positive as it can give girls who were unsure a bit more connection with you.	/r/seduction	13/04/25 12:00 AM
1	Most guys don’t have “approach anxiety.” They have pre-rejection panic. Give yourself permission to approach an attractive girl and then walk away after a friendly chat. Its just as nerve wrecking. Its not just the fear of rejection thats the problem	/r/seduction	12/04/25 11:48 PM
3	Do girls always give you tell tale signs of when they want to kiss you What I usually do is just part her hair from her face a bit with your finger while making eye contact. Thats usually a signal someone is about to kiss you so it gives her the opportunity to pull away if she's not ready yet, its much less embarrassing than leaning in for the kiss if she does pull away, it makes the whole thing less awkward for both of you.	/r/seduction	12/04/25 11:45 PM
2	I've read models but I don't have the balls/scared as fuck to approach. I tell myself she's out of my league or that im not her type. im a minority so I know that certain ethnicities are not attracted to me At the end of the day people are individuals, even if 8/10 women arent into you look for the 2 that are. Ultimately everyone has to deal with rejection anyway, no man gets every woman he goes after. In terms of "approaching" I'd start by just talking to women with no particular motive. It takes a while to build up your social muscle, a hobby where there are lots of women can help like social dancing or yoga. Once you get us…	/r/seduction	17/02/25 03:52 PM
1	Methods to deal with approach anxiety. The best thing to do is not put so much pressure on yourself. What you did was actually good, start indirect conversations with strangers. Just keep doing this and slowly extend the conversations as you feel comfortable. Dont feel that you have to do anything special, just talk to girls and at the end say something like "are you on instagram" once you get her contacts follow it up by saying something like "so you live locally? we'll have to grab a coffee one afternoon". It doesnt have to be a bi…	/r/seduction	17/02/25 03:18 PM
1	Can approach like crazy at salsa but not on my campus Because asking someone to dance at a social dancing event isn't "approaching" the same way daygame is. People dance with people of all levels of attractiveness and age, I've danced with 60 year old women and a couple of trans women none of whom I'd date, its just dancing. Social dancing events can be a good way to ease yourself into approaching though. If you see a girl you havent met before at a social talk to her rather than asking her to dance. Say something like "are you new to Salsa, I have…	/r/seduction	25/11/24 11:32 PM
1	Whats your approach? There is a 3rd option that is between A and B. Start a conversation with her because you think she's interesting but don't explicitly say this or say that she's attractive etc. Women aren't stupid they know what your intentions are but you don't have to explicitly state them and put too much pressure on the situation. An example of this is "Excuse me are you originally from (whatever city you're currently in)" "OK, it's just that you remind me of someone I know and I wondered where you're from, …	/r/seduction	08/11/24 06:58 PM
2	if hypergemy going stronger and redical every year, does the role of seduction even have an affect anymore? People throw around the word hypergemy with the idea that women universally like the same men. There are massive differences in what women find attractive. Every woman has a rage of attractiveness that they find acceptable for dating and while there is some overlap that range is vastly different for each woman. Women constantly disagree with their girl friends about which guys in their social circles are attractive. This is why IRL approaching works, with online dating women will mainly select a…	/r/seduction	09/09/24 08:10 AM
2	How to stop getting hung up on openers I have one generic opener which I use regardless of the situation, the advantage of this is that its one less thing to worry about if you dont have to think of something on the spot. The words of you're opener arent that important anyway so one opener is as good as the next. If you're interested my opener is. Excuse me are you originally from (name of current city). Then when she replies I say, Ok I just noticed you standing here and I was curious where you were from. You can use this almost any…	/r/seduction	06/09/24 01:51 PM
3	Getting rejected by 200+ women in a row... now what? OP you havent really given much detail about what you're actually doing so it's impossible for anyone to give you much feedback. Despite what the black pill will tell you it's not all about looks, I'm 6'3" which for many women will automatically make me an 8 or a 9 yet I struggled with women for most of my life and was in my late 20s before I got my first girlfriend. Being "into game" isn't really enough, I can be really "into Tennis" but I'm not going to win Wimbledon. Its not just about approa…	/r/seduction	06/09/24 01:26 PM