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“I've had Feminists claim to me, with a straight face, that murder by a woman's husband is the leading cause of death of women.” Pretty sure that stat is about pregnant women not women in general. Either you’re strawmanning or they (unintentionally) took it out of context.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/08/26 01:07 AM
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Why are you stalking my account creep? Also plenty of men here also post on incel suns yet I don’t see the likes of you bitching about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:18 AM
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Alright then I hope you get a woman who is just as shallow as you, but idk what you expect to get out of a long term relationship if the only thing you want is a hot sex toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:15 AM
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You are arguing about something that isn’t even a problem. Men are lucky that confidence is all they need. For women no amount of confidence will make up for looks. Caring about confidence is still way less shallow than caring about looks because at least confidence can say something about your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:10 AM
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at least it’s something controllable. nothing men want in women is controllable, neither is being fit because you can still be fit and have shitty bone structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:00 AM
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How is a preference for confidence shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:47 AM
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Is saying that 99% of men would marry a woman just because she is beautiful not indicative of their shallowness?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:06 AM
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There are a million other reasons women can choose to be single, why assume it’s only because they find men unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:45 PM
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“99 percent of men would marry Margo Robbie in two seconds“ and I’m supposed to believe men are not insanely shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:40 PM
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Yeah no I won’t believe that only 4.5% of men are in serious relationships that’s complete bullshit. This study is on a single dating app from what I can see so it’s not representative of most people let alone real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:33 PM
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If most women are in relationships then the implication is that the men they are with are dating multiple women at a time. Yeah I don’t believe this for a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:26 PM
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“Plus, men want what they want because they want it. A hot girl is hot regardless of context.” Completely false. Plenty of men talk about how they feel sad about their relationship when they see a girl hotter than the one they’re dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:25 PM
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You are choosing one study out of many that has extreme statistics like this? Talk about cherry picking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:02 PM
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If you’re in a relationship it absolutely is your responsibility to be respectful of your partner‘s desires. If women are to blame for men choosing porn over us then men are to blame for our low libidos. You don’t get to pick and choose who the rules apply to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:59 PM
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I’m not the one here saying that men choosing to be single is proof of their shallowness. YOU made that claim about women. Can’t do a “no you” when it doesn’t apply 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:57 PM
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So men preferring 8’s makes them not that shallow now? I guess it’s over for us 5 and under women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:51 PM
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What evidence do you have that women are choosing to be single for shallow reasons? Have you ever thought that we are just sick of men’s bs?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:50 PM
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If you think women aren’t held to high standards then I want you to prove me wrong instead of telling me others will prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:47 PM
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So because women are choosing to be single you’re going to assume the reason is because they don’t find men attractive? Do you hear yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:46 PM
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So after all that you’re gonna pretend everything I said is irrelevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:44 PM
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I never said that, I just said that they’re more willing to forgive physical flaws than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:42 PM
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Don’t be dense, you know what men mean when they call themselves visual creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:42 PM
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“Dating someone for the financial security is indeed superficial, because you're not dating them because of who they are as a person but because of what they can provide.” Or maybe you just don’t want someone to be a burden on you. Not the same as only dating for looks which has no affect on your life. Someone being ugly won’t drain your resources, someone being broke does. Sorry for prioritizing stability over something as trivial as looks. I define security simply as someone not being a financ…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:40 PM
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If you think only 6’0+ men are getting relationships then idk what to tell you. Plenty of women talk about their experience dating down because they were charmed by a man‘s character, very rarely the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:36 PM
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Women don’t find average men disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:34 PM
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How is it better that men only care about looks and not personality or character?? At least a career is achievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:31 PM
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She still has smooth skin and a pretty face and is also petite. Narrow hips and small boobs are not the only dealbreakers. If they’re watching flat women then the problems they are having with their partners is that they are more than just flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:30 PM
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Unless it’s something like bad hygiene or eating with your mouth open, no woman past high school will get the ”ick”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:26 PM
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Wanting security is not shallow. No one wants to be with someone who can’t keep a job it just adds stress to the relationship. I’m not claiming men have to make 6 figures to be desirable otherwise most of them would be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:21 PM
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This argument was very convincing, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:10 PM
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If you *only* watch porn with blondes then it’s reasonable to say you’re not attracted to brunettes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:10 PM
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Well since men are selfish lovers then they should stop complaining that their wives don’t want to fuck them. This is such a lousy excuse for watching porn. And even if they are to watch porn for a “valid”reason, usually the women in porn look absolutely nothing like the woman they are in a relationship with, which clearly shows it is an attraction issue on their side.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:04 PM
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Libido mismatches are due to women being less sexually driven than men in general, it says nothing about an individual man’s attractiveness. And maybe women’s libidos would be higher if men actually bothered to try making us feel good 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:58 PM
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Sure if sex is the only thing that matters here, but it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:58 PM
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Men having sex with women they find unattractive is not the same as being in relationships with them. They will use unattractive women for a quick release but it is the attractive women that get the ring. Nothing contradictory in that at all. There is no value in being used like a fleshlight especially when most men don’t even care to please a hookup partner, let alone an ugly one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:55 PM
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If you only care about looks then just date casually? Someone who only cares about looks has no business in serious relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:54 PM
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I’d agree if porn addiction in relationships wasn’t disproportionately a male problem. If men truly found their flat, narrow-hipped partners attractive they would be content with them. Yet they will use porn to cope with the fact that they find their parents unattractive. Unattractive women are used as placeholders for more attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:53 PM
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Exactly. They themselves say that less attractive women are for pumping and dumping and attractive women are for serious relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:44 PM
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My question is for men to explain this claim
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:43 PM
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I swear the men on here are so retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:06 AM
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Idiotic comparison. You don't know a guy is a deadbeat until he has children. Dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:02 AM
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Not dating =/= shaming. Anyone who shames someone for their work and still consumes the product of their work is a hypocrite, whether it's fast food or sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:58 AM
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You know the west isn’t the only place that exist right? Why are we not allowed to talk about countries outside the west? Men who believe in purity culture are the same men who want to marry young virgin women to control them. That is about power, and they do exist in the west. Maybe not to the same extent as non-western countries but they still exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:06 PM
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If it is misandry then it’s accidental. I don’t think men actually hate themselves when they say sex makes a woman dirty. It’s just a convenient way to maintain their power and subjugate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:44 PM
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It's both because patriarchy is contradictory. Men expect women to wear makeup and also shame women who wear makeup at the same time. If men were superior to women, if purity culture were misogynistic, surely sex with men would enrich women, not soil her.< This is such a shit argument. Something having bad implications in theory doesn't mean anything when it brings real harm. Do you really think "men are dirty" is worse than women actually being murdered as a consequence of that belief? Do you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:04 AM
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Women are also shamed nowadays in the west for not being sexually active not just men. Also nothing you said proves that purity culture is misandrist. All you’re doing is saying that purity culture doesn’t even exist anymore. Can you make a coherent argument? Just because the west is more progressive how does that mean that purity culture is misandrist now? I really don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:15 AM
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Do you think contemporary western society is completely detached from the past? Purity culture still exists today in the west because a lot of the values we had in the past were carried into the present. It didn’t come from nowhere. Also women getting killed is just the extreme, women in the west still face stigma for promiscuity while men don‘t. My point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:58 PM
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Also the idea that an ideology that gets women killed for having extramarital sex is misandrist 🥴 do you not see how utterly stupid that sounds? If purity culture is as misandrist as you say then why do women get punished for being “impure” and not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:46 PM
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My argument was literally based on common knowledge. Like I want to know since when was it women who started the idea that men are dirty which makes sex degrading? Like your argument is literally a revision of history. How about you actually provide evidence that it was women who started it all instead of just expecting everyone to take your word for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:41 PM
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How about you address my actual argument smartass
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:32 PM
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Men are the ones saying it’s degrading, women never wanted that. Stupid fucking take lmao. Purity culture was created by men not women. It’s men calling women used holes and referring to sex with disgusting words like banging, slamming, cracking, etc. Misandry my ass. If misandry is real then it’s 100% self-inflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:18 PM
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