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| 17 | Why is escalating to sex on dates so difficult?And maybe that’s your issue, your putting sex before chemistry yet your going on dates. If you’re just looking for sex hit up the bars or look at craigslist personal ads. There are other ways to get sex than dating. Or may I suggest you stop assuming that they’ll think multiple dates implies something serious. You are litterally trying to get to know another human being and see if the vibe is there before you even think of sex. Why have sex with her? What makes her so special? Think about it, sh… | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 03:48 AM |
| 3 | i left her house after she fell asleep, am i a bad person?Same with the Asian girl at the end that “he likes a lot better” lol | /r/seduction | 15/07/25 04:23 PM |
| 4 | My girlfriend disrespected me in this situation, right? what should i do?You’re in the wrong here, butthurt over her justified reaction. | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 12:10 PM |
| 25 | You stop being yourself with hot women and thus fail, because you don't see her as a regular person, but as a symbol of your worthGood post. To take it one step further, women do this too. They want the tall, rich, good-looking guy because it validates their worth too. That’s why some of these women are going so delusional with their standards, because they’re trying to protect their ego. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 07:18 AM |
| 1 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sIt’s the essence of this sub. Rizz, seduction skills etc | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 11:30 PM |
| 4 | How to bypass the "i need time to get intimate" BS?You said you don’t flirt much… you should be flirting from the get go. She needs to know you’re a sexual guy. Don’t have to overdo it but read up on cocky funny, sexual innuendos, misinterpretations etc at the end of the day it’s what we’re all after in a partner even women. If she doesn’t respond favorably move on. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 01:37 PM |
| 20 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sSo true. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 01:02 AM |
| 1 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sLook up hoe math, he has a videos and a chart that explains this but long story short, 8+ females only go for 10/10 males. However, you don’t need to be 10/10 in looks just have to have another redeeming quality to make up for it like status, money, or fame to name a few. And of course game if you want to close. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 12:59 AM |
| 1 | My Idea To Indirectly Improve One's GameWho dat | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 12:17 AM |
| 23 | Anyone ever experienced a random dude interrupt and hit on your date?There’s a whole subsection of game for this called “dealing with AMOGS”. I would suggest a google search to take you down that rabbit hole. Good luck 👍 | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 01:22 PM |
| 4 | Used go get girls easily, now I don't even get matches on tinder.Bro 26 is still young. At least in So Cal it is. I can understand if you’re in the boonies or something but just because your 26 doesn’t mean you become this different “mature” person overnight, or what you perceive that to even mean. | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 03:18 AM |
| 6 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?I’d imagine it’s harder to bang a 10 while legitimately trying to stay a 5. Just focus on getting to be a 6, bang 5’s and 6’s and repeat your level up over time. There’s no magic pill that will help you consistently bang hotties as a five except fame for the right reasons. Put it this way. If a girl you know - let’s say she’s a 2 - wanted to have sex with you but stay a 2, what would you say? Probably hell no. But if there were things she could do like lose workout, eat healthy, makeup etc to ma… | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 01:12 PM |
| 11 | Get laidThere really is no quick way unless your already attractive. In fact this mindset is probably holding you back because you’re going to come off as desperate. I know this from experience. Just go out, have fun and approach. It’s the only way and you might get lucky. | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.Everything you said after “but” is the pedestal mindset. Find things you don’t like about them to bring them back down to earth in your own mind. | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 05:11 PM |
| 67 | Have you ever seduced a coworker?If you take away anything OP, it’s this! You don’t seduce! Read all the stories. None of them involve seducing or convincing, if she don’t bring it up don’t do it. | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 08:34 PM |
| 7 | The Mindset That Attracts Women InstantlyYea, this is correct but you also need confidence to be competent in a lot of domains. So best to practice being core confidence with everything you do and learn from your mistakes. | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 06:05 PM |
| 1 | No doubt about it, tattoos are game changerI realized this in high school. I isn’t a new concept. However, unlike everyone else here I think there’s obvious validity to what you’re saying. Women generally find tattoos attractive no doubt but especially for short term partners but it’s the person that makes the tattoo and not the other way around. And as others have stated some people just get dumb tattoos. Like I know a guy with an antman tattoo and it’s nerdy as fuck. I also know guys with sleeves that get a lot of girls. Ymmv | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 01:06 PM |
| 1 | 20M, A girl got me attached with her sweet talk and fucking played me, feeling frustrated and broken. How to move on?This started off as great advice and then went full incel mode way too fast | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 10:01 PM |
| 1 | I want to approach 100 girls tomorrowThat’s why you’ll never actually get good, it’s outcome dependent on something irrelevant to your actual (dumb) goal. That’s some major cognitive dissonance. Your brain will never allow yourself to be good because deep down you know this is shameful and your not actually trying to connect with woman because you really don’t care. I’d take your nervousness as a sign, think of it as your brains way of DONT DO THIS. DO NOT APPROACH. And after hearing your reason for doing this I’d tell you the same… | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 02:07 PM |
| 2 | I want to approach 100 girls tomorrowI know, I figured it might help face the fear if he types it out (actually thinks about it) and then realizes “oh is that what I’m afraid of?” | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 06:23 PM |
| 1 | I want to approach 100 girls tomorrowWhy are you scared dude? | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 12:01 AM |
| 1 | I want to approach 100 girls tomorrowIf course it makes sense. So you’re just going to approach 100 tomorrow and then burn yourself out? You can only get good over a long period of time. Sure you can learn a little bit if you aim for 100 in one day but what is that really going to do? I’m just saying it’s better to do something (approach) over many days, weeks and months. Just read the other comments too. It’s not rocket science. Part of being good with girls is using your brain. | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 11:57 PM |
| 1 | I want to approach 100 girls tomorrowI honestly think it would be more impressive if you do 20 for the next 5 days | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Seduction is not for everybodyYou’re also 20 so there’s that. You’re right some people are naturally better at it but it takes time and just like with most things in life you never fully master it. You get better over time as you mentioned when you invest in yourself and raise your SMV. | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 03:00 PM |
| 2 | I need tips from men of the seddit about flirtingMost single straight guys will accept your initiative. In the slightest chance they don’t it’s because they’re ego tripping or just as shy. If he’s taken and loyal don’t take it personally if he “rejects” you. If you’re truly pretty he’s kicking himself inside wishing he was single. When you get the guy don’t worry about flirting. If he’s suave and comfortable he’ll flirt with you and you just play along (or not doesn’t really matter). If he doesn’t have game he won’t flirt and will appreciate b… | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Beautiful women into me, but I have low self-esteemCurious what your experience with therapy has been? I’ve done therapy twice. First time was a woman and second time was a man. It wasn’t a complete waste of time as I did learn some things about myself but all in all not too impactful. At the end of the day it was up to me to do the work outside of the sessions anyway. I found working out hard, mma, deciding to be more social and brave helped me. Just making overall better life decisions that lead to competence translates to confidence. Therapy … | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 12:01 AM |
| 1 | First night out in JapanYou’re over thinking it big time. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 03:26 PM |
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