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| 6 | Society is not being entirely transparent about what attracts people. Hence you shouldn’t listen to anyone’s opinions about it.No, society actively gaslights men (more like boys while they're young) saying that "being kind" is what will attract women. Like what are you talking about. You only learn about how shallow the whole facade is later on. Of course you as a woman wouldn't know this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 07:12 PM |
| 0 | Simps have ruined the dating world.Stop abusing these men's wallets then and pay for your own stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Simps have ruined the dating world.Only entitled gold-diggers expect to be paid for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 07:06 PM |
| -1 | Simps have ruined the dating world.If everyone around keeps calling you a prostitute.... Just maybe... Idk. Just a thought. But then again, I don't care to understand the habits and thought processes of prostitutes 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Simps have ruined the dating world.And you don't get to decide what I do and don't have to pay for after you put in that effort. You chose to put in that effort. And nobody paying for you to do that hun. Go find someone else to prostitute off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 05:27 PM |
| 0 | Simps have ruined the dating world.Ah I thought we were for equality and all that. You're right - when you're privileged, why would you settle for less? Why should you ever give up your privileges? After all, that would feel like oppression innit that right? You can definitely have the "let them eat cake" attitude. It's just that historically those who have pretty much universally have always been on the wrong side of things. So keep the entitlement up honey, you're winning 💅🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 05:20 PM |
| 0 | If you want your moral character to matter in dating, you have to also care about character in others.A woman who feels entitled to what's in a man's wallet isn't a good woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 05:17 PM |
| 0 | Simps have ruined the dating world.Yeah getting "abused" because expecting equality in the "feminism" era instead of dating literal gold-diggers. Being expected to pay your own fair share is "abuse." Actual 🤡 behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 05:16 PM |
| -1 | Simps have ruined the dating world.Good cause we already don't. Who wants to date some glorified prostitute like hello 😒 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 05:15 PM |
| 0 | Simps have ruined the dating world.But I didn't ask you to put in the effort lol. It'd be different if the man told you to doll up but you did that for nobody but yourself - not a single man asked you to wear all that fakeup. Meanwhile, you're demanding that I pay. This is literal prostitute type behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Simps have ruined the dating world.Wait so as long as a person is willing to do something, that makes it moral and ethical to demand it from the whole group? That's your argument? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 05:13 PM |
| 0 | Simps have ruined the dating world.So women should keep being glorified prostitutes and expecting men to pay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 12:26 PM |
| 0 | Simps have ruined the dating world.A lot of us don't 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Simps have ruined the dating world.Maybe y'all should stop being gold-digging whores and pay for your own meals and the attitude wouldn't come with it. Just a thought | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 12:00 PM |
| -1 | Simps have ruined the dating world.Sounds like women should stop siphoning off men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 11:52 AM |
| -2 | Simps have ruined the dating world.Did I ask you to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 11:51 AM |
| 1 | If you want your moral character to matter in dating, you have to also care about character in others.Why does my specific definition of what virtuous means matter? The man is virtuous - that's all that's relevant to the conversation. Unless you're trying to argue that there's no such thing as virtue? There's no such thing as good men? Is that your claim? Is that what you're trying to assert because otherwise these word games are complete nonsense - use your definition of a good man and go from there. I do think being good should be promoted by society. I do think being a good person is what is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 01:54 AM |
| 1 | If you want your moral character to matter in dating, you have to also care about character in others.You can't think of what a good man is? You don't know what virtue is? You have to have someone explain to you what being good is? Are you actually being for real right now. Because this is actually straight up pathetic. And notice you keep trying to drag the definition down to not being a bad person. Just being a decent person. I said being a good person. Not decent, not not bad - GOOD. Yes, good people should reproduce. It's good for good people to spread their genes. This should be obvious. An… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 01:24 AM |
| 1 | If you want your moral character to matter in dating, you have to also care about character in others.It's more than not being a bad person. He's a good person. And I doubt your aunt is as moral as you think she is. But let's back up for a minute. You're saying that people should reproduce with those who are hot and fun, over those who are genuinely good people? And... You can't see the problem with this. Like you genuinely are failing to see how this possibly might be problematic? Really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 09:19 PM |
| 0 | If you want your moral character to matter in dating, you have to also care about character in others.They don't give a shit my guy. It's where the halo effect comes from. In fact there's more to it than that. The more attractive you are, the more shitty you can get away with being. Because at the end of the day what people want is a partner that looks good - morals be damned. The vast majority of people are shallow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 03:26 AM |
| 1 | If you want your moral character to matter in dating, you have to also care about character in others.Being a good man doesn't get you laid lol. Women could not give a shit less about your virtues. The average woman would choose the attractive guy over the morally good guy (not average, morally good) every single time. So no, this take ain't it. And men are right to complain that women don't actually want good men despite going on about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 02:13 AM |
| 1 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveThe message received is: you clearly feel like you need to get the last word in You are not here to debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 11:43 AM |
| 0 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveI do get the message that you aren't here to debate. It's for some other unsupported reason but it isn't here to debate - as evidenced by this very comment chain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 11:38 AM |
| 0 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveMore contentless rhetoric. I think we should end it here. This is going no where and you clearly aren't interested in talking about the actual topic at hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 11:36 AM |
| 0 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveI still have an unresponded to claim btw. A claim that was completely on topic. And you ducked dodged and avoided it with "that's projection" and more contentless rhetoric. And again, your nonsense excuse was because I challenged your understanding of the topic, you can now be completely flippant to the debate! Because that's how normal humans respond to having their understanding questioned - crashing out and flipping over the chess board entirely. Why come to a debate sub if you are not here t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 11:31 AM |
| 0 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveAnytime someone challenges my understanding about something, I don't have to respond to them! Because that's how you prove your understanding of something. You talk gibberish someone calls you out on it and your goto response is "I don't have to respond to you, because you said I spoke nonsense!" And you think you're being completely reasonable here. 20 replies of absolutely nothing down the line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 11:25 AM |
| 0 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveBut you're the one not talking about the actual debate saying you don't have to because I challenged you on your understanding of the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 11:18 AM |
| 0 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveYou engage by showing how I'm wrong and proving that you did understand. That me even daring to point that out is an error. Not "that's projection!" This is contentless rhetoric. One wonders why you come to a debate sub and you can't even debate your own positions. Respond to the points being raised instead of with gibberish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 11:11 AM |
| 0 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveYeah you'd rather type contentless rhetoric instead. You know, because you don't have any real arguments against any of my claims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 11:04 AM |
| 1 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveIt just sounds to be like you don't have an argument. This entire chain is a nothingburger of you not having an argument and you'd rather type out the gibberish than leaving it be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 10:57 AM |
| 0 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveThis is you right now. You haven't even addressed the argument that you don't understand what OP is talking about with masculine desirability and feminine desirability. You just said "thats projection" as if that comment has any substance at all whatsoever. Do you honestly think people are gonna believe you understood what was being said because you completely deflected any attempt to challenge you on it? Like what are you even doing here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 10:52 AM |
| 0 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveThen one wonders why you even bother to respond at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 10:45 AM |
| 1 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveThat sounds more like projecting. This is contentless rhetoric. You are not even engaging with the post at this point. Just responding to any and all arguments with "that's projection" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 10:27 AM |
| 1 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveIt's nice to point out lack of understanding instead of letting it fly unchallenged. If you didn't understand the post (you didn't) you could have said that or simply not commented. But here we are. You not understanding a math equation is not evidence of it being wrong. And yet when you can't understand post you feel the need to explain anyway as if you have any insight on what it means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 10:13 AM |
| 2 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveYou sound like a bigot. Just because he's bisexual doesn't mean he has diseases like wtf? You can filter for these men by using your words and asking about his sexual history. But women would still get the ick from a bisexual man regardless because, SURPRISE, it has nothing to do with cheating or diseases and everything to do with the fact that they find men attractive; from which OP's explanation makes a lot more sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 10:08 AM |
| -2 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveMore contentless rhetoric Not like I expected much else going into this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 10:04 AM |
| -1 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveThis just reads like you didn't read (more like understand) the post. There's a reason women want bigger assets and it's not to impress the ladies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 10:01 AM |
| 0 | A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they haveDid you actually read the post? It's funny he has a point. I never thought about it but given the sheer intensity of the disgust women have, it seems entirely plausible. It also goes hand in hand with how the majority of people act too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s riskyFascinating indeed. And a canonical example of why women will never be capable of real equality. Why society keeps pretending otherwise is a conversation for another day. It does seem like, at this rate at least, we will return to our roots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s risky"I cook and I clean therefore that's 50/50! Equal contribution!" Again, your reading comprehension is low. You not only are unable to understand what has already been said, you can't even build new meaning from what people are currently telling you. It's no wonder you've defaulted to the traditional bangmaid model where the man is pampering and taking care of you. You are literally incapable of thinking up of, much less actually enacting, anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s riskyI don't think wanting to be a bangmaid entitles you to equality, no. Women seem to think otherwise though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s riskyRight. If you are the party that insist on cleaning, you should be the one to do it. Going into a relationship with a man and then expecting him to be a clean freak because you are is one of the most insane pathological things a woman does. You wanting a completely sanitized house at all times does not entitle you to his wallet. And likewise if a man is the clean freak in question then he should be doing the bulk of the cleaning. That's where the disagreement lies. The simple fact of the matter … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s riskyYou said you didn't agree with cleaning. 🤷 I'm only going off what you write, sweetheart. I did? It's not that you can't read minds. It's that you can't read at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s riskyThen what's this supposed stingyness, Misses 🙄🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s riskyGreat. So according to your 50/50 mandate, you'd be eating off dirty dishes and wearing dirty clothes. Because she's only going to do her 50%, not yours. This is what you wanted. Women taking their equal share Honey, I already clean my own dishes and wash my own clothes. This is not the dunk you think it is. I don't need her to do that for me. This contradicts with your earliest statement where you said, you wish you could go back to telling women what to do. Is this what I said? How about you g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s riskySo if it's 50/50, does this mean that you as the man will cook and clean 50 percent of the time? I don't mind cooking when necessary. Cleaning is something that women insist on and as such since they are the ones that want it done they can do it. I don't subscribe to traditional gender norms. I don't subscribe to the nonsense of "the man provides and the women stays at home and cooks and cleans." I subscribe to genuine equality, not outdated dinosaur norms for behavior. A relationship where the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 05:11 PM |
| 0 | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s riskyBeing equal. Contributing equally to the relationship. Doing your fair share. Notice how in every split you offered, the man is doing more. You and multiple other women are constantly looking to be pampered and taken care of. I can look at you as nothing more than some entitled child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 04:46 PM |
| -4 | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s riskyYour right 50/50 isn't sustainable. That's why we need to drop this feminism nonsense and go back to when men were the head of the household and could tell women what to do. If women cannot be accountable (y'all hate this word) and do what actual 50/50 entails, then they do not deserve to be equal in legal standing and that's the facts of the matter no matter how much you would like to whine like a child otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s riskyThe reality being that men are the patriarch and the female is his servant? Because we can always go back to that "reality of relationships." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s riskyStingyness as in him not blowing all his money on you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 04:27 PM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Responsibility is literally the scariest word in the dictionary to the modern woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Many women have been socially programmed to be self-centered and narcissistic.If a woman doesn't want to fuck me for whatever reason she conjures up, that's a her problem. That's why I'm not sure why it was brought up to begin with. I personally don't care much either these are completely random women 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 02:32 PM |
| 1 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?I mean.... That's not entirely inaccurate 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 07:21 AM |
| 2 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?Yes lol. What do you think the state is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 12:05 AM |
| 0 | Many women have been socially programmed to be self-centered and narcissistic.And if they can’t find one they’re fine on their own. Correct. If a woman can't find a man she's on her own. We agree, that's a them problem. And the rest follows as well considering all the entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 12:02 AM |
| -2 | Many women have been socially programmed to be self-centered and narcissistic.Which gender is it again going off about how they deserve a good man? Funny how when men do that they're being misogynistic patriarchal control freaks but with women it's empowerment and "knowing your worth." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 09:59 PM |
| 4 | We pathologize male passivity in dating but reward female passivity and nobody can explain why without circular logicAfrican cultures and some other southern cultures like brazil, the women are not particularly shy about going after men. They generally do not sit around like damsels waiting for men to do everything. They are much more active in going after partners they desire. And, as expected, western cultures main insult to women like this is to call them men for being more openly bold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 09:58 PM |
| -3 | Many women have been socially programmed to be self-centered and narcissistic.That sounds like a them problem especially considering how narcissistic and vain most of them are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 08:01 PM |
| 23 | We pathologize male passivity in dating but reward female passivity and nobody can explain why without circular logicOf course it only applies to men. That's what this entire thing is all about. It's discrimination and double standards in its most pure form and they literally don't have a reply to it. They go mute when the "it is what it is" line is no longer being accepted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 07:54 PM |
| 2 | We pathologize male passivity in dating but reward female passivity and nobody can explain why without circular logicWhat's funny is that a lot of this is cultural. It's not merely a "biological eggs are expensive" type argument that loves to get thrown around by the just worlders. Other cultures where women are more proactive get them called as sexually aggressive and "acting like men." So clearly there's something in Western culture where it's expected for all the women to be passive princesses and the men to do all the action and approaching; not merely a biological argument of who's more desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 07:52 PM |
| 1 | We pathologize male passivity in dating but reward female passivity and nobody can explain why without circular logicWrong. There are many factors that can make an average person attractive and a physically attractive person ugly. Thinking all men are shallow and hot woman = monkey brain want fuck and cum is just such an obvious vain and low-brow thinking of dating dynamics. Personality and charm is extremely attractive in women and will make quite a few men raise their eyebrow and become curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 07:40 PM |
| 3 | We pathologize male passivity in dating but reward female passivity and nobody can explain why without circular logicAnd as a man it's the opposite. A woman who isn't afraid to go out and get what she wants is inherently attractive. Part of what makes it so attractive is that it shows she isn't beholden to current social norms which I've never been a fan of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 07:36 PM |
| 13 | Verifying and boosting your dating profile would actually help.It's the whole reason the term incel caught on and became popular. It's because just telling men they were misogynist and hated women wasn't enough. Society had to emphasize "and you don't get sex because of it!" to add that extra punch because the ability to get laid is the only real standard people care about for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?Now apply this same line of thinking to race and see how bigoted you sound. You are demonizing an entire group of people for the actions of a select few and can't see how you're being a misandrist. Most men aren't out here being predators . The people, by and large, who will save you from these men are also, conveniently, men. But speaking to reality and just how small percentage the men who will actually actively look to harm you are doesn't fit in with your bigoted misandrist narrative. Men wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 04:04 PM |
| 0 | why don't men in western countries just open men's only gym ?They had to be outlawed out of existence for them to stop existing. They have always been economically feasible and women didn't like that. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/26 02:07 AM |
| 1 | why don't men in western countries just open men's only gym ?I will answer from a pure economic perspective. I think women only gyms do have a pull, there is certain number of women who prefer those gyms. While a male only gym doesn't really have any advantage over a regular gym. Male only gyms do have a pull. Not everyone wants to be distracted when they workout. They literally had to be outlawed out of existence. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/26 02:03 AM |
| 2 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymOutlawing male only gyms but allowing for women only gyms is what passes for "equality" these days. Real "all people are equal, but some are more equal than others" energy. I'm glad I now have a concrete example of where this sick ideology has been applied in practice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 01:34 AM |
| 2 | On Double Standards and the Problem of Male Sluts at the GymIt really is strange. I imagine men would flock to these places to "focus up" and be on the grindset. Why women would go out of their way to ruin this is beyond me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 01:21 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?Women saying all men are worse than bears is misandry, yes. And minorities can be racist. You think racism is exclusive to the privileged class? Hating someone for what they were born as and not who they are as a person is the root of all prejudice. But I wouldn't expect the brainwashed lib type to understand that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?No woman ever ventured out to the woods by herself to live amongst the bears either. Or maybe a select few did, never really looked into it. Can't imagine they stayed for very long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 02:35 PM |
| 8 | Men nowadays want babies to grow up in paid careYeah no, you don't get authoritarian reign in this regard. And any man with a woman who thinks she does should run the hell away before it becomes a problem. What ultimately should be done is what's best for the child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?Tantrum? Who said I'm having a tantrum? Look I understand you feel the need to assert that I'm angry or throwing a tantrum to feel about your stupid answer to the stupid tiktok video but I assure you, no one is upset here. I'm just reminding you when women pick dumb answers and constantly antagonize men don't be surprised when they aren't willing to be your allies in your "fight against patriarchy" or whatever. But go off Queen. Clearly you think I'm so angry at something 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?The president is still one person. You do realize that right? I didn't say who has power. I said the percentage of men who engage in such disgusting behavior. You're treating the president as if he's multiple men... Because he's the president. Like I legitimately do not get what's so hard to understand here. You're failing at basic reasoning. The women who gave stupid answers to that survey are still in the room with us right now. Hell, you yourself probably said bear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?A thought experiment that women gave stupid answers to. Again if you really prefer the bear, go live with bears. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?"I choose the bear" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 04:10 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?Well yes the president is one man and just so happens to be one of the most powerful men in the US. Meanwhile every girl in the west was basically parroting "I'd choose the bear." Like that's about as proportionate as you can get... Like hello? You act like the president represents half the population the way women do 😂😂 Most of the problems men talk about center around dating. I don't know if you've been living under a rock but the loneliness epidemic is everywhere in mainstream media. And it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?Words change meaning. Meanwhile you are literally pointing and making fun at everyone who rides a short bus. How disgusting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?You seem to think I care enough about you to take note of your name when you're effectively making the same argument 😂 Like y'all really be thinking your that important. And nice abelism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?I mean your tags are similar and you were basically saying the same thing. It would help if you would have mentioned not all women like she claimed while trying to defend her argument for her to avoid all of this. I'm not going to read each and every username under the same threads when the names all look the same and the tags are similar. Anyway as I said before not all women experience sexual harassment. The only thing I really gathered from that paper is that most people do and everyone shoul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 02:45 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?95% =|= does not equal each and every human girl alive. Look, I know mathematics and logical deductions are hard for some people but please do us all a favor and stop talking when you don't know what you're talking about. Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?What % of men are we talking about again? We are going to use the worst men alive and paint all men as being evil and out to get you? Funny how in other context when we do this, we rightfully demonize it with words like racist. The hypothetical is stupid, just like the women who were parroting it. And these women haven't changed very much at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 02:34 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?I'm talking to a bot right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 02:32 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?And the research doesn't support what you just said. Like... Lol? Are we being serious here? Like... Hello? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?Please find one woman, just one, who has never been sexually assaulted, sexually harassed, or subjected to inappropriate sexual behavior from a grown man when she was a child . Go ahead. Just one. Seems like I can find a great deal of women who haven't experienced sexual harassment. And, as I already affirmed, I know quite a few myself. So we can both agree that your previous claim was stupid right? Regardless of your intent with the claim, nothing supports whatever the hell it was you were sayi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?I'm still not seeing any evidence for this claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?Where's your research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 02:12 AM |
| 9 | why aren’t men happier about the fact that they can improve themselves to be more likeable to women?No one asked you to do any of that though. You chose to do it based off whatever pathology lead you there. It's like a woman caking themselves up in makeup like any man asked them to. No one ever did and it's not a requirement to get a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:55 AM |
| -2 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?It most certainly has set feminism back considering that gender relations have gotten worse, not better since then. And continue to get worse. Most men that I know talking about it were mentioning how delusional y'all sounded for bringing it up. Maybe in your more liberal spaces that's not what you heard but the majority of men I talked to either felt offended or laughed at the idea and wondered why don't y'all just go camping amongst bears. Some even offered to drive you if you'd take them up o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?What are you talking about? I know more than one woman like this. Are you seriously trying to sit there and make the claim that every woman alive has been sexually assaulted as a child? Are you being serious? Where's your evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?I mean whatever it is you were trying to get me "to get" has completely fallen on death ears. What I don't understand is if you like bears so much, why not go live with them 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?But it isn't women merely being untrusting of men that's making gender dynamics getting worse and worse. You trying to assert that and change up the language is what's muddying the waters, not anything else I said. Women are literally acting like all men are rapist. Imagine if someone posed the question would you rather be in the woods with a bear or a white person and a minority in question chose the mauling bear. You see how that's going to breed nothing but antagonism right? Especially if it'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:39 AM |
| -2 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?It actually isn't accepted for black people to hate all white people lol. You can not as a black person scream about how much you hate white people and not get some looks/be marginalized. That isn't acceptable behavior in "polite society." But as a woman they will put you front and center on magazines and give you your own talk show. That is because women have privilege and power in society whereas black people, as a group, largely do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?Yeah there's no hope for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?Do I get that you hate men and would rather go live amongst bears? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?Assuming every male is going to assault you has to be the most pathological nonsense I've heard. And then you dig the hole further and act like every man is as horrible as Diddy. Treating every male as if he is a potential rapist is why feminism got set back so much. You literally make every man to be the villain and then wonder why they won't support your causes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:14 AM |
| -3 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?Black people are called out for not trusting white people all the time wym. You will most certainly get looks trying to demonize all white people in society. But when it's with men it's completely fine. I can say that men are scarier than a bear who will maul me to death and feminist will applaud me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?Me: If you continue to emit fossil fuels into the atmosphere, you'll get anthropogenic climate change that can potentially wipe all life out on earth. You: Are you threatening me? yOu tHreateninG mE?!? If you can not understand basic cause and effect them there is no helping you. No wonder you can't understand the modern dynamics surrounding gender relations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?My guy it's not a threat. I'm telling you what's going to happen when you continue to antagonize men. What's already happening Use your brain and piece two and two together instead of treating everything as some potential deadly attack against you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?For all the restrictions placed on female behavior before, it sure seems like the women back then cared more for men than they do now. It may have been a facade but the point remains that none of the "progress" made by women in society lead to improved gender relations between men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 11:51 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?It came from your own lips. Misogyny was at least frowned upon publicly 10 years ago, and now we have the same kind of misogyny be fully mainstream so I mean…. It’s a mixed bag I have a feeling you already know what comes next. Not only did you mention it but it's already occuring in the political mainstream with certain bills being passed and people being elected. You just have to sit there and pretend like it isn't happening or none of that matters to "dunk on the incel" replying to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?It's misandry. Just because you don't clarify anything hating on men as misandry but do clarify anything hating on women as misogyny, doesn't mean the former isn't misandry. No one cares what your biased female perspective is on the matter. This continued hatred of men is only going to radicalize males further. Y'all really haven't seen anything yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?Way to completely miss the point. What he said was women have gotten nearly everything they wanted and yet hatred of men seems higher than ever before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 11:40 PM |
| -3 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?The whole bear nonsense. Sky high standards after the popularization of dating apps. Treating height like it's a personality trait and constantly dunking on short guys. That bear stuff single-handedly set feminism back a good 10 years if not more. A lot of men woke up after realizing just how much the average woman antagonized him. That commenter is completely right - this did not happen in a vacuum whatsoever and it'll continue to get worse for the same reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 11:27 PM |
| 11 | Women who struggle to find a long-term partner aren't "too good" for the men who are also singleif you were a woman, would you want to date most of the men you have seen/know? I mean I don't want to date most women so that answers that question. I do not complain about modern dating because I'm unable to attract a woman. I complain about modern dating because the goods are odd and the expectations (hyper-materialistic) are all screwed up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 06:10 PM |
| – | Modern Dating Is a Humiliation Ritual for Most MenWhat exactly is a progressive if not someone who's trying to push pass tradition and change the current norms in society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 10:01 AM |
| 2 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Yep. And then look at who the mods defend when she's literally saying male abuse victims don't matter. It really is sad but that's the state society is in these days. And then people wonder where the male radicalization energy is coming from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 02:49 AM |
| 2 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Understood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 10:55 PM |
| 2 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.You also don't care about men and whether they're abused | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man.That was men giving their lives for the freedoms of women, not the other way around. You've got it backwards. You've got men being drafted to die in Ukraine while the women run abroad to party. When it comes to actually protecting people and society, it is always men who are front and center and always will be. Women are basically just here for the ride by comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 10:20 PM |
| 3 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Imagine actually laughing at male victims of domestic violence and saying you could not care less what's wrong with them. You are literally everything wrong with this society. You are the problem Your response: "🤷🏽♀️" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man.Those men dying for the women in theaters weren't concerned about how "underpaid" they were. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 10:00 PM |
| 1 | It’s not that women having inflated egos. It’s just a lot of guys underestimate a woman’s worth in the dating market.Chad takes who he can get for casual sex. There's a lot of women interested in casual sex with Chad lol like this isn't debatable. Were these my friends in high school? No. Did I know quite a number of women like this? Absolutely. The "cool kids" or ones who didn't care much for school and were doing whatever/into popular culture etc were absolutely into this sort of stuff. And there was a ton of people like that. What's weird is you acting like this culture doesn't exist and do the women compla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 07:14 PM |
| 1 | It’s not that women having inflated egos. It’s just a lot of guys underestimate a woman’s worth in the dating market.Again, most women don't. That's why Chad has to lower his looks standards. ???? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 06:55 PM |
| – | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.What a disgusting person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 06:54 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that women having inflated egos. It’s just a lot of guys underestimate a woman’s worth in the dating market.The women in question valuing themselves for their pussy are common. It's how the meme of women attacking a man based on their sexual success because that's the only terms they're able to think in became popular. Most women think them getting sex with Chad is the same as being able to lock him down, and that's why there's this big uproar of "WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD MEN" as if the women are any better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 06:50 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that women having inflated egos. It’s just a lot of guys underestimate a woman’s worth in the dating market.They're common in common culture. You do realize you don't have to directly experience something to know it exist right? I don't interact with racist on the daily and yet I know they're out there and have a negative effect on culture. This is no different If you had a shred of empathy for the issues other people faced (especially men), you'd have realized this by now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man.It's not just sexual choice. Men at large are seen as dangerous and discriminated in work related to child care. False accusations are also routinely brought up against men, completely ruining their lives with zero evidence brought up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 06:21 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that women having inflated egos. It’s just a lot of guys underestimate a woman’s worth in the dating market.I don't speak to women like this. The women I speak to don't think they're high value merely for existing and realize they have to actually do stuff and be somebody to lock down a quality man. Perhaps you don't keep in these circles, but that says more about you than anything else. The fact of the matter is these shallow women I spoke of who only value what's between their legs do exist and do complain like anybody worth a second glance would ever entertain them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:45 PM |
| 1 | It’s not that women having inflated egos. It’s just a lot of guys underestimate a woman’s worth in the dating market.Most women know that. You're only talking about a very few dumb women with mental health issues. Most women don't know this actually. Otherwise they wouldn't constantly be screeching about "where are all the good men?" Have you ever thought that the good men simply don't want you because you aren't a good woman? Having sex with fuckboys does not make you a good woman. But good luck explaining that to the modern woman who thinks she's high shit because Chad stringed her along | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man.Nah. It's safe to say the majority of women like getting paid $$$ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:39 PM |
| – | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.You said "oh no the horror!" To someone saying that domestic violence should be committed against a man you freak. Actual insanity, and then people will wonder why make victims don't speak up. They don't because insane people like you exist in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:38 PM |
| 5 | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man.You mean women have jobs that earn them money? Sure they do But doing the actual protection of society? Always men. Always has been. It is completely nonsensical that you have women in here saying men "don't protect" when that is the role many perform day in and day out. And they get 0 respect for it and only flack from people like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Women are not masculine enough.Nah I'd fully welcome it. It'd be a compliment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Women are not masculine enough.That's already happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 11:06 AM |
| 3 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.You thought this was a joke to laugh at? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 10:55 AM |
| 4 | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man.And I'm assuming when someone is being racist you'd make this same argument right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 10:40 AM |
| 4 | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man.Because women protect on a daily basis Sure they do 😒😒 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 10:39 AM |
| 0 | Male Attraction is Treated as Normal and Women's Attraction is Seen as Shallow or BadI mean sure. But the main complaint from men is that they are not getting anyone at all. It's women complaining about the people who they choose, hence the pushback on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsPhysical attraction playing a large role in who you date is completely normal. In this culture* Not historically. You forgot that part. Historically it was more important that the guy was A) stable and B) fit well into the family. High physical attraction is necessary for a quick fuck. Physical attraction is not necessary for a meaningful long-term relationship. And no, these are not "disaster relationships waiting to happen" Men even know this instinctively. Who you bang and who you bring home … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsAnd the point is that needs to change. Like that's literally what this discussion is about my guy lol 😂😂 Who you date should be based on who a person is, not whether the dude is 6'4 like it's a damn personality trait or something. Young and dumb women will date like this and then wonder why the dude in question doesn't really care about her and then cheats. It's almost comical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsYou do realize that you can be attracted to more than someone's looks? Are you genuinely this shallow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 02:38 PM |
| 4 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsDid I ever say physical attraction should be disregarded or is that you putting words in my mouth to make for a weaker argument? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 09:23 AM |
| 5 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsI don't think physical attraction should have the emphasis it does, no. A lot of attraction is culturally imbued btw. A lot of people don't think along these lines (there is a strong individualist brainwashing in society) but no, your attraction is very much conditioned in a lot of ways via your environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 08:52 AM |
| -1 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsWe get it, you hate evolutionary biology because you’re short. that most women don’t prefer a man of your minute stature. Right, your a troll. I will not entertain this foolishness any longer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsand idk why you're bringing up money being a social construct when 99.9% of people don't view money that introspectively when dating. making money helps you in the dating market, it has nothing to do with colonialism This is beside the point. It doesn't change the fact that selecting for money is shallow. Selecting only for looks*, which is what you wanted to say, is also shallow. You are not making the point you think you are with that. This is not some big grand gotcha. I never stated male pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsSociety historically did not let female hypergamy run rampant, and for good reason. Mate decision was not merely her own because they recognized that traits that kept the tribe stable and functional were important above all else (not height). We get it your shallow. You support shallow draconian dating standards that say nothing about the virtues of the people in question. Thing is, some of us like to have a decent functioning society. Some of us like when pro-social traits are encouraged and se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 04:40 AM |
| 5 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsIt doesn't matter. Selecting someone for money has very loose ties to their personality. It can even be an indicator of vice. But selecting for body size is not. If you only date for body that's one thing and it is shallow. But rejecting someone for being obese is not because it's very often an indicator that something else is wrong with that person in a way that money isn't; which is a social construct, I should remind you, with very direct ties to colonialism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsI’m sorry your height starts with a 5, but natural selection doesn’t care about your feelings. Society does care about my feelings though. Or it should - we would not be here other wise. Society not caring about 85% of the male dating population is precisely why we are where we are with gender dynamics. To the point where men aren't even caring if women maintain their rights because it's clear women care neither about equality nor (most) men. Like you seem like a complete and utter troll if you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 04:21 AM |
| 6 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsthat makes a certain amount of money? because you can change how much money you make Everyone can decide to be healthy. But not everyone can decide to be a millionaire. Society is literally set up for there to be haves and have nots. So no, failing to choose someone for being a "have not" which has historical and racial implications is near peak shallowness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 04:17 AM |
| 8 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsTaller than you is a preference and is one that the majority of men fulfill. 6'X isn't. It's a modern obsession and one the majority of men do not fill (hypergamy). Like what are you talking about my guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 04:11 AM |
| 5 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsI answered the question already - no. And I also explained why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 04:10 AM |
| 4 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsAnd some to conclude that they would like a relationship and just can't get one with who they want. But we can go with the all women are secretly lesbians angle. That's perfectly fine too and is very much in line with the modern discourse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsGeeking out over 6 feet isn't "evolutionary and biological." It's a modern obsession intensified by social media and dating apps and it needs to go. You do not build a society off these values. Stop with the lunatic degeneracy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsNot really. Being big isn't something you are born with and you can actively work on yourself to change it. Height isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 03:19 AM |
| 10 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsLol. If you can't figure out why geeking over superficial traits has degeneracy labeled all over it, you are the degenerate in question and there is no helping you. You cannot build a society off these values. The fact that there is even a debate to be had about it in modern culture is proof of its breaking down. In any event I won't entertain this for very long, I'm not interested in debates with people who think height is a personality trait or that it's fine for it to be the top deciding fact… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 03:04 AM |
| -2 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsYes, obsessing about a man's height over other features is being a degenerate. Like hello | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards"He's so taaaaaaaallll" Starts giggling uncontrollably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsYou men the 6'9 giga Chad with the super chiseled jawline? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 02:46 AM |
| 13 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsOf course. The taller the man the better. Height is a personality trait after all. The higher the number after the 6', the more giggle worthy it is. These men are just oozing chemistry after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 02:11 AM |
| 5 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsIt's the truth. How else can you explain it? Unless your argument is women are all secretly lesbians/asexual and don't want any men at all. Is that your claim? Because a quick trip to one of the more loser femcel reddits will prove that not every women who is single wants to be there and would absolutely pine for the chance to be with who they desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 02:07 AM |
| 4 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsHow much makeup do men wear again? Women do that for themselves. No one is asking you to wear makeup my guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 02:04 AM |
| 16 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsSounds like a way to address cultural problems. Having hyper-materialistic hyper-unrealistic standards is never a good thing and men are absolutely right to stamp their foot down on that nonsense. We used to be better than this but modernity has gaslighted women and society at large to be accepting of these degenerate standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 01:53 AM |
| 1 | we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently.It always comes back to power. Same reason why the rules don't apply to the rich and powerful and they can get away with murder. Same reason why low status men are constantly thrown under the bus. They are the least powerful in society and so they get mocked and blamed for all of its ills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesThis is what the original guy you were replying to posted, speaking about the average man and his attraction to women: What you are describing are rationalised standards. It would be different if you said you weren't aroused by the majority of women. I think the average man is aroused by the majority of women, so long as they are not too fat, too old or too skinny. Defnitely more than 10%. And this is what you replied with: I’m not aroused by the majority of women. The majority of women are eith… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesBrother, this whole comment section was about average men and their like of women. And then you, who is clearly and definitively not the average man, comes in and comments about what you like as if your opinion means anything whatever. That is not an ad hominem. You are literally not even apart of this discussion. Why you feel like you have a place to comment here is beyond me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesGirls most definitely giggle and geek out to each other when they hear a man is especially tall. It's a massive turn on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesYou still aren't the average male. I don't know why you would try to present yourself as one when you can't speak for them considering your sexual orientation. It's just weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 08:42 PM |
| 5 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesTaller than her mainly. Most women can't tell the difference between 5'10 and 6ft it just registers as "tall" compared to her. Social media/online dating made women attach a specific number to it being as shallow as can be when she couldn't even tell which was which out in the real world. A concrete example of how current tech has brainrotted a generation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesMen don't have a choice in what they can have. They take whatever they can get. Women are held to a higher standard because women actually have a say in what their partners can be like. Women have more power in dating. And given that, the onus is by and large on women to make better choices. No one cares if the man only chooses virtuous women. No one is dating that man to begin with unless he's rich or tall so who cares what his preferences are. But for women to make that choice fundamentally al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 06:29 PM |
| -1 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesYeah just fantasize about having sex with bulls on farms or something 🤭🤭 Yeah modern dating is completely cooked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesThis is a complete aside. If you are interested in men, you are not the average man. The average man is not thinking about hooking up with other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 04:19 PM |
| -1 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesAh yes all the memes about short dick energy and dating profiles saying "don't rmessage if not above 6ft" are definitely fake. Short men are just imagining that they get made fun of and excluded on a daily basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 04:18 PM |
| -1 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesAnd yet the modern women talks about height so much on their dating profiles and the like that they've turned it into a personality trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesNo man will think your a creep for asking them out. They fully welcome it as they are starved for attention otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesA lot of attraction is culturally induced. Case in point: women didn't start making a big deal about height and turning it into a personality trait until after social media | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 03:06 PM |
| -2 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesThat much is certainly obvious. You can tell the degeneracy inherent in modern women's desires by what they read | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 03:05 PM |
| -2 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesAnd you've never thought to... Gee idk... Get off your high horse and approach the men yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesNah the standards are the problem too. The biggest issue with said standards are how superficial they are. Height looks money. It says nothing about the actual person in question. A society who lets their women roam around like that with these hedonistic standards is not one that's long for the world. It is case in point of how materialistic and degenerate everything's become which women's only response to is "so what 🤷🏻♀️?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:53 PM |
| -1 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesRealistic standards like being 6 feet tall? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:50 PM |
| – | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesThis particular commenter is gay, just throwing that out there. That is why he is not aroused by the average woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:47 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do?Well of course. They know who their target audience is. Porn companies would sooner cater to gay men than the female gaze. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itIt actually isn't obvious that people choose cruelty. Most people do not think of themselves as bad people The common narrative is that most people are good and it's really the only especially evil or super rich that are bad. Most people are not aware/have not internalized that they choose cruelty every single day. When made aware, they don't care either. And one of the ways you know this is true besides the example you posited is the theme of this very sub. Lonely men throughout society get no … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itYou are not grasping what I'm trying to say because you are trying to reach more into it and apply things to what I said which I never mentioned. You've done this in other context. I said people choose cruelty. That is a fact. What you make from that is your projection, not anything else that I said. No idea why your extending this any further when it's extremely evident what I meant on the face of it without you inserting all your nonsense into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itWell, read the screenshot that you took. What did I say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itNo where did I ever say it did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 09:05 PM |
| 5 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itAnd where exactly did I say I had this mentality? It sounds like you're projecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 08:56 PM |
| 7 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itWhat mentality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 08:53 PM |
| 5 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itPeople always choose cruelty. Welcome to the plight of the modern man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Women who choose to remain single are viewed as empowered, men are notAre women natural disasters? Like wth is this retort? 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 01:24 PM |
| 3 | After a lot of self-reflection, I realised that men create their own problems and blaming women is counterproductive and harmfulI would not sleep around. I've had multiple options throughout my life - still didn't decide to sleep around. My endgame is not to punch some ticket for how many women I've managed sleep with. You are projecting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 10:18 PM |
| 9 | Question for women: When you genuinely like a guy and feel like the interest might be mutual, what do you actually expect him to do?Yeah, a lot of women don't think like you. They're the prize so the man should be chasing after them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemAnd women. And raped by women. And made false accusations of by women. I can go on. And again, many of these crimes are underreported because they know the police won't wake it seriously. You can find quite a number of men talking about this on reddit and how the police got angry with them for "wasting their time" when they tried. So since you are going to fail to acknowledge the suffering men also go through in society, many of which being at the hands of women, I'm going to treat your little p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemNo, it's the context of this thread. That is the top post of this very thread. Try again hun. Literally no reading comprehension and yet typing boldy that you know what you're talking about when a quick scroll up the chain would prove you wrong 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemAnd so are women. They're even sparred any moral judgement because "he probably wanted it anyway." I'm not sure what your complaint here is. Men also get abused and are murdered at much higher rates than women. Many of the social ills in society effect men more than women as they are seen as the disposable gender. But again, you don't care about any of that. You just want to bring up women and dismiss men as some sort of gotcha as if that justifies women treating men like tools in relationships.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemAnd a lot of it is done by women. Everyday And it isn't even reported because the police don't take it seriously. You get laughed at if you say you were sexually assaulted by a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemThere's sexual violence committed against men everyday too. But I bet you wouldn't care anything about that would you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemNah many of them genuinely like women. More than women like men at any rate. They care about their happiness. Besides at the end of it even to the extent that it isn't true for some men, it's just two shallow people looking out for their own. Our individualistic culture in a nutshell. Men for their sexual interest, women for their financial wellbeing. No one can really blame the other. So men are gonna do what's good for them and there's and women likewise. Welcome to the gender wars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemBecause men still like women lol 😂😂 Meanwhile if you aren't a top 10%er, women couldn't even care if you existed or not. Well they don't care that you exist outside of what's in your wallet. But most have governments and corporations to take care of that these days. Hence, as already stated, they leave men behind until the social fabric that sustains them breaks down. Then, almost as if by magic, suddenly you'll see more women looking to pairbond with men again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problem😒 Again, No. This is the context for this entire thread: The average man is below the average women in terms of behavior. That is a general statement. Men act worse than women behaviorally. It is not about them not doing chores when they're boyfriends. She means, generally speaking, men act worse than women. It has nothing to do with post habilitation and children. When I hear reading comprehension is at an all time low and I see retorts like yours, I understand why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 12:23 PM |
| – | Media couldn’t have lied to you if you can’t name the media that you consumed.I honestly don't know myself. This is a constant theme stretching for months and yet she's still allowed to post here as normal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 12:07 PM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemMen are not going to kiss up to a society that treats them like dirt no matter what some woman says to them 😂😂 I don't know when y'all realize this. And what comes after isn't "sucks to suck." What comes after is a toppling of the social order. Anyone who's studied history knows what a dissatisfied male population is going to do for social stability, but learning from history may as well be the boogieman for the just world blue piller. And before you say "haha incel thinks revolution haha" Just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemI mean if we are going that route we can say the same about women. The majority of women are looking for a glorified atm machine. Now that they no longer need atms, they've stopped dating. It's not that men suddenly stopped being good enough. It's that shallow women don't need their money anymore since the government/society takes care of them, so they've opted for those forces to play the role of men in their lives and left the person behind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 11:55 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemThere's nothing to argue about because the conversation is centered around men and women as a whole and as it relates to dating, not after they are cohabitating and have a whole child together 😂😂 Like you are completely off the mark. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 11:52 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemCleanliness isn't only ever an issue with women when kids are around. Like what are you talking about. Everything else you say after that is nonsense. No one was talking about kids stop being such a weirdo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 11:02 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemOkay but the context of the post you are replying in is that most men aren't average. For one, average is not defined by women. I know women like to believe that it is and put access to their v* on a pedastool but it is not. Average is defined by social standing within society as a whole. Secondly most men do care about their partners. They would not make a song and dance to date and be a relationship otherwise. That's not the same thing as being a clean freak. Again, a male failing to be a clea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 11:00 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemWrong. This was the point of the post: men are below average. Many men as live in boyfriends don't do 50% chores. You twisted it to be about how men don't deserve to be your partner... Or whatever... because they don't want to do household chores as much as you. But what this post was actually about was men still being average despite not caring about being a clean freak as much as women do. See how quick you get sidetracked and start talking nonsense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 07:50 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemWhy are you bringing kids into this when no one mentioned kids? You do realize that's an extra dynamic that you decided to insert into this, right? You actually do have an option on how messy or clean you want the house. And it's women by and large that want it clean so yes, they take on the bulk of the cleaning. That's the way it goes and that's why they do what they do, not because men force it upon them You can be an adult and not care about having a squeaky clean house. It just so happens th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 07:22 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemYou do realize that this is beside the point right? Like it's blatantly obvious that you are completely missing the mark. Men don't care about cleaning as much as women do. Period. So if women are picking up most of the household chores, that's because she wants them done. Yes men will do them when asked/if he knows it makes his woman happy, but this has nothing to do with why women take on way more household chores compared to men. This is also the origin of nagging btw. Men just don't care abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 07:15 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemThey don't do 50% of chores because they don't care as much if the house is clean. It's not that they're waiting for you to do the chores. It's that they simply wouldn't get done at all or be significantly delayed if you weren't there. Women do the bulk of the chores because it's women that actually care about incessantly getting stuff around the house done. They get "bored" otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 04:02 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemLol. Lmao even. If you mean the average man doesn't kiss up to society as much as the average women, you'd definitely be spot on there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.I don't care about what your perspective is. You don't speak for all men when you say porn is bad. You speak for yourself and your own addiction. That's great, you don't watch it anymore and (I presume) have had a better time in your relationships as a result. Leave the rest of us out of it. I have zero issues with my relationships to porn and I'm not going to let some puritanical post-addict tell me about how oh so much better things would be if I stopped looking at the pretty ladies 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.And I think your perspective is dumb. There is nothing wrong with porn. You've also done that thing so typical of people arguing the way you have where you completely ignore the impact it has on people who aren't heterosexual males. It's like you guys brains are locked into that being the only demographic who consumes porn and thus you have absolutely nothing to say about the huge numbers of others who do and have no problems with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.I think we are on this planet to have fun and if one of the ways people do this is by looking at naked images of members of the opposite sex, then we should let them. Puritanical controlling behaviors aside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.My claim is that porn is bad for men, even used once a week Okay and why is it bad for men. What about women? Not bad for them, magically? Couples? Okay for them to watch too? Like this tired narrative of it's only men and it's poisoning their brains and that's why they're abusive/struggling is stupid. You believe the same with video games too or what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.Your anecdotal experiences are worth nothing here. You were addicted to porn. Yes, people who are addicted to things are going to have a hard time functioning. That's how addiction works. You can watch porn like a normal human being. Couples do this all the time and there's nothing disfunctional about them. This whole puritan nonsense reminds me about the video game debate and how the addiction will claim your soul and DnD is the spawn of the devil. Complete and utter ultra-conservative goobly g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 04:38 PM |
| 9 | The idea that most men who struggle in the modern sexual marketplace are socially inept is a blue pill caricatureAnything that disagrees with you and contains scary links isn't worth your time I suppose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.it absolutely hinders your ability to attract and keep women Men's inability to get women has everything to do with porn. It has absolutely nothing to do with online dating and social media. Grow up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 04:32 PM |
| 4 | Why do women keep getting into situationships?Which men? There are a select few men capable of doing this. Don't date those men But when you mention that to women suddenly it's "well I can't control who I'm attracted to!" And all this other nonsense so round and round it goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 03:49 PM |
| 6 | You shouldn't be angry at womenThey are choosing to not have children that could be drafted Lol. Lmao even Like what even is this take. I guess I did my part to end the draft too by having a daughter 🤡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 03:42 PM |
| 4 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.Ah yes because as we all know men who watch porn never get women. Women also don't watch porn (this always gets conveniently ignored in the narrative). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 03:35 PM |
| 5 | The idea that most men who struggle in the modern sexual marketplace are socially inept is a blue pill caricatureTiktok generation brain strikes again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 01:54 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.Indeed. I think we should be extremely draconian in our standards of women. We need to go back to demanding beauty and perfection as a society. I'm not sure why we ever let the feminist gaslight us out of it into the "all women are beautiful" nonsense 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 06:30 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.Maybe but it's certainly not creating a dating crisis. Hell, what the rest of the world thinks about Africa is that there's too much fucking going on 😂 Like clearly there's something socially wrong in the west to be causing this loneliness epidemic and you can't just pin it on all men being bad/mediocre. Because if that was the case we'd be seeing it everywhere and yet it's mostly the rich countries with very superficial/materialistic standards (Korea probably being the most extreme example of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 06:28 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.Women don't adhere to beauty standards for men. They do it for themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 06:16 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.Thing is though when you look in the west, women have very high and very material standards compared to the rest of the world. Think about a place like Africa. What's the common stereotype about women with darker skin? "They're hypersexual." "They act like men" "They're bold - aggressive." This that and the third. So if it was really all about biology then you'd think it would apply to women everywhere, but it is especially in the west and other materially rich countries where you have women par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 06:10 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.It's extremely relevant to your statement. Men should be able to have whatever beauty standards they want about women. Why does society feel entitled to get on a high horse and berate them about what they find attractive in a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 05:53 PM |
| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easierAh yes. All the men are bad and all the women are good. I, a good woman, just so happen to keep choosing these bad men. Why are men so bad (and me good of course, because I'm a woman). 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 10:34 PM |
| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easierThe bar of requirements for men isn't ridiculously low. Modern woman's standards for a partner are as high as the moon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Debate: women are allowed to distrust men, men are not allowed to distrust women (repost as I dodn't partipate within three hours)I don’t believe in equality. I believe in equity. I keep hearing this line and yet it doesn't make any sense. Women are outperforming men both in school and the workplace. So then why are men still expected to make all the moves and pay for everything? It doesn't make any sense at all when you think about it. And yet it sticks. If you were really for "equity" or whatever, this would be norm #1 to challenge since men should not be paying for and subsidizing everything for their statistically rich… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:48 PM |
| 0 | Debate: women are allowed to distrust men, men are not allowed to distrust women (repost as I dodn't partipate within three hours)Yesyes you pick and choose. You get to be the career mom or traditional stay at home parent. Right, we all got that. You see men don't really get that choice. Feminism didn't provide an out for that. We have to provide or we are seen as useless. And you alluded to this much yourself about how impossible it would be for OP to find a partner if he wanted to take on more housecare duties instead of the traditional masculine role. If feminism was really about equality, why don't men also get this ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:33 PM |
| -2 | Debate: women are allowed to distrust men, men are not allowed to distrust women (repost as I dodn't partipate within three hours)I don’t understand your argument. If a man and a woman get together and they both want traditional gender roles in their relationship then who cares. If they get together and want to be egalitarian in their roles. Who cares. If they want swapped gender roles. Who cares. These are not the same people in these relationships. In the absolute sense no this doesn't matter much. I'd push back against this a little but it's irrelevant and beside the point of what I was arguing. My point is that feminis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:19 PM |
| -1 | Debate: women are allowed to distrust men, men are not allowed to distrust women (repost as I dodn't partipate within three hours)The double standard is expecting equality while being the most traditional of traditional conservatives when it comes to dating. You can't have it both ways - you have to pick a lane. And modern women are going to realize that sooner or later (the men will make sure of it). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:13 PM |
| -1 | Debate: women are allowed to distrust men, men are not allowed to distrust women (repost as I dodn't partipate within three hours)Well of course. Double standards and traditional gender norms are still very much alive and well in the big 2026. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Life as a woman in west is so much easierThese women have all the choice in the world for who to choose as partners. It isn't societies fault that they consistently choose bad men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Life as a woman in west is so much easierWho's fault is this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 06:33 PM |
| – | Do women feel entitled to men's bodies?Do I think people should stop hitting each other? Sure. Do I also live in reality where I know that's not possible for various reasons? Also, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 02:19 AM |
| – | Do women feel entitled to men's bodies?Yeah that would be great. Lovely. Now when you're ready to come back to reality where the rest of us men live then we can go from there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 02:08 AM |
| – | Do women feel entitled to men's bodies?Entitled women are never grateful so they just take this all for granted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 02:06 AM |
| – | Do women feel entitled to men's bodies?Ah yes wouldn't the world be lovely if there was no fighting and no wars and we all sang kumbaya. That would be nice wouldn't it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillIf you weren't aware, society is a tit for tat. You do this and I'll do that. Nearly all relationships are built on this foundation. You really expect men to give and give and give and receive nothing in return 😂😂 Actual sociopathic behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillWomen’s empathy isn’t going to get you a relationship or laid. I do not personally struggle to acquire relationships or sex. I've noticed throughout this discussion you've repeatedly tried to larp me into the men who struggle with the opposite sex. I have no problems with acquiring attention. I do however have an issue with the premises/foundations modern relationships are built upon. Stop making assumptions about me. If you can't understand why it's important to have empathy then we are done ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hill[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillAs a modern woman, you are privileged. You have your cake in the social sphere and eat it too in the social sphere. Something has to give. Something will give because this entitled attitude women have developed over the past few years is not sustainable. And the people who are going to knock you down off your self imagined and grandized pedastool are men. When you start having empathy for male struggles, for male loneliness, and start to see it from our perspective about how society is not worki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillYour example is irrelevant because you are a privileged woman. No one cares about your relationship, least of all men. We already know you don't care that men shouldn't be happy. That's the entire point. We know women don't give a fuck 😂 why do you think this gender war stuff is being fueled and men increasingly go on about how they don't care (just like you don't) about female rights. You are the meme lol, we already know most women think and act like you and that's our basis for perpetuating t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillI don't care about your boyfriend lol. I could not care less how you feel in your relationship. I don't know why you keep bringing it up like it's relevant to anything at all. Men, by and large, are not happy with the way modern dating is playing out with privileged women saying "let them eat cake." They will not continue to support it and you can already see it manifesting in things like overturning reproductive rights. This is only the beginning and it will continue until gender relations impr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillI have a full time job and still get pampered. I fail to see the problem I bet you don't. Of course you don't see the problem when you are actively privileged. Privileged people rarely see the problem with their position in life and views attacks to take away said privileges as being a threat. In a world where women are not coddled, they have to approach more and split 50/50. That's real equality. Not that Disneyland fake equality feminist are seeking where all the white collar air condition job… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 05:39 PM |
| – | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillEqual rights are linked to dating though. The treatment women have received in dating was due to the fact that they haven't been seen as equal. Are you so clueless as to not be able to see that? This is why women are called wanting to have their cake and eat it too when they advance in society and yet still expect the same pampering in the dating sphere 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 05:14 PM |
| – | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillThey aren’t packaged together…who is shuddering and hiding? 😂 Power is not linked with responsibility? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 05:12 PM |
| – | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillLegal right have everything to do with dating what are you talking about? Do you think chivalry came down from the sky? It was because women were disadvantaged in other ways socially and so men made up for it by being gentlemen. When women are now equal to men in everything socially, there's no need for that sort of hand kissing behavior. Like the fact that you don't understand how equality relates back to the dating sphere is baffling. Then again, not really because women want all the power and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 03:47 PM |
| – | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillRight? They'll be talking in the last hot post about how incels are all deserving to die alone and their misogyny, which all women can smell through the screen, is why no one wants him and then in the very next post be like: "wHerE dId aNyOne sAy dAt?!?" 😂😂😂. It be the same names too so you can't even call it goomba fallacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 01:33 PM |
| – | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillThey most certainly do. It is completely delusional to act like equality has no bearing on gender roles whatsoever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 01:28 PM |
| 0 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?Shallow is expected exclusive feminine treatment in a society that is supposed to be equal. Women are now only trying to move a bit to 50/50 after being called out on it and you still have the lion's share insisting that it's the man's job to pay for everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyDo you believe those with more power have more accountability? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 04:13 AM |
| 0 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?I don't know very many men listing economics as their first criteria for finding a partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 03:38 AM |
| -1 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?No, the opposite of hypergamy is not caring about the wealth of the person you are trying to date. What you're doing is saying "meet half way" which still has a strong element of materialism in it. I don't care if you go 50/50. I care if your main criteria for dating is what's in your partners wallet. That's shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 02:55 AM |
| 1 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?Materialism is problematic on its own regardless of who is endorsing it or deciding to date whom. It is a cultural issue Thing is we used to know this before our society became obsessed with money and greed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 02:53 AM |
| 1 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?The question then shifts to that of materialism. Why do you desire so much someone who spends as much money as you? Notice that men don't do this. They aren't constantly on the lookout for someone who earns exactly as much as they do (or more) to "split their lives with." They like women for who they are, even if it's primarily based around appearances. When you say stuff like this you are proving all the people who call women hypergamous correct. It doesn't even dawn on you to date a man who ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:41 AM |
| 2 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?Your partner does not have to be loaded to enjoy those activities with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:39 AM |
| 1 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?Nah I'm reading it as it easily reads to someone with sense. You don't have a genuine counter here so I think it's just best to end it while we are ahead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:37 AM |
| 1 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?Again this all just circles back to how all the "fun stuff" you do in your life is all about spending egregious amounts of money. You live an extremely consumerist lifestyle and you can't see a problem with it. And you expect all the people you date to consume it all up the same way you do and don't blink when someone mentions to you why that may be problematic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:27 AM |
| 2 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?Question: If you really liked him, like genuinely loved him, why would paying for him give you the ick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:20 AM |
| 1 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?Seems like the last one that would be the most expensive and, ultimately, unnecessary. I don't know if I liked hiking or paddle boarding or other nature based activities money wouldn't be the primary checkbox I had for a partner. I also would not mind supporting them assuming, you know, I actually liked them for who they were as a person. I don't look at my potential partners as just being walking ATMs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:29 AM |
| 1 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?That's not how I'm interpreting this thread. If the women aren't going on about how the guy needs to be loaded to afford her lifestyle, they are supporting her in her ambitions for such a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:23 AM |
| 1 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?Does everything you want to do involve money and materialism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:21 AM |
| 0 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?This sounds sensible and logical until you realize that in this very thread, multiple women are going on about wanting a guy who has money because "otherwise he can't afford the lifestyle I want." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:20 AM |
| 1 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?Why does he have to be able to afford your privileged lifestyle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:18 AM |
| 1 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?Yes. The statement reads like this: "I wouldn't date a guy who makes significantly less than me because I want a partner who can enjoy the same lifestyle as me because I don't want to be financially supported." Again, she's the one talking about supporting. She's the one inserting it. But it would be her supporting, not the other way around. If you actually give the statement an honest reading you'll see exactly what I'm talking about, regardless of what her intent was with what she was saying (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:16 AM |
| -1 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?Idk, ask women why would it not be 50/50. Y'all are the ones still demanding men pay for dates and financially support you like children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:11 AM |
| 1 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?Saying that you don't want to date someone who makes a lot less than you isn't equivalent to saying that you want to be supported Correct. But she's saying that it is. Go back and actually read her statement and take the gender war glasses off when you do. There's zero logical continuity between her statements | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:08 AM |
| 0 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?And then there are loads that are glorified gold diggers and only date men for what's in their pockets. Not only is this extremely common, it's accepted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:54 PM |
| 0 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?I'm replying to her comment which if you actually read, doesn't make any sense. She said she doesn't want to date a guy who makes less than her because she doesn't want to be financially supported... How would a guy that makes less than her financially support her? Make it make sense without using women logic 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:52 PM |
| -1 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?Why does it have to be 50/50 lol. Do men expect you to contribute 50/50 when they date women lower in the economic bracket than them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:51 PM |
| 1 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?What?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:50 PM |
| 0 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?The man in question will survive the same way he's been surving before he met you. The fact that he needs money for you to love him is disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:50 PM |
| 3 | There are plenty of single and childless men who are just as happy as single and childless women, we just don’t see it advertised as muchI’m happy single, but it seems that way more men struggle with singleness than women do. Because women always have the option to opt out. Men do not. I'm also content (I wouldn't say happy) being single as a man. But I'd be lying if saying that knowing I had options throughout my lifetime didn't help with feeling like I wasn't missing out on something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 07:49 PM |
| -3 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?I mean you have a woman right here saying she won't date broke boys cause she wants a particular lifestyle he can't provide. And this is a very common sentiment, I've heard this said many times. If that's not shallow and materialistic IDK what is. You are literally saying "money is a prerequisite before I even consider loving someone." Yikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 07:45 PM |
| -1 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?"On your level" only has to do with income? Do you see why, with a sentiment so common such as this, women are called hypergamous, shallow, and materialistic on the daily? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 07:39 PM |
| -5 | how do redpillers explain what you see outside in the dating world vs. what they say ?If you don't want to be financially supported that means you wouldn't mind dating a guy who makes less money than you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyWomen do it in a specific manner, mostly because they're socially allowed to get away with it. Modern times still haven't caught up to the fact that women having more agency in society also equates to more accountability. And they will dodge responsibility for things like the plague if attention is ever brought to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyThis sounds like you're dodging accountability to me. Why do modern women hate doing that so much? Any time that word or responsibility is brought up your can hear the shifting in the room from all the women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyI like how you repeatedly keep dodging the question 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 03:44 PM |
| – | I would be happy if hypergamy was realI mean... Yah. Notice how in that sentence you never mentioned the bottom tier men who you'll conveniently ignore until the sun burns out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 12:20 AM |
| – | I would be happy if hypergamy was realBecause women are the choosier sex and have more power to determine relationships. That's why. With more power comes responsibility. You cannot have one and not the other (despite how many vehemently wish that wasn't the case). This is why we focus on women, the sex with endless options, and not men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:47 PM |
| 9 | We should shut this sub and focus on our own livesDisparaging lonely men Definitely peak heroic action. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 04:48 PM |
| 0 | The mockery of "unselected" men is a proxy victory. Women celebrate their loneliness because they are powerless against the elite men who actually exploit them. The target at low hanging fruit to make themselves feel better.I don't necessarily hold women to a higher standard than men. But let's face it, women have more choosing power than men. Far, far more choosing power than the average man. So yes, with that comes to the responsibility to choose better. Women don't like that responsibility part. They hate that word - it's their least favorite. And yet that's what more power entails so yes, you are going to be judged more critically for your shitty choices when you could, literally, have chosen someone else. Some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:16 AM |
| -3 | The mockery of "unselected" men is a proxy victory. Women celebrate their loneliness because they are powerless against the elite men who actually exploit them. The target at low hanging fruit to make themselves feel better.And yet these men still slay. They still have women flocking to them constantly so much so that they'd literally drown in pussy given the choice. You'd think for being such misogynistic assholes they would, as the purplepilldebate reddit women as well as the various other bluepilled people told me, struggle and be searching in the desert for partnership. And yet these men literally can't get enough female attention & validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family)Are people falling into organically mutually happy relationships right now? Is that how you would describe modern society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 05:15 PM |
| -1 | Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family)This is either a bot response or you don't think too deeply about the kind of society you're living in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 08:27 PM |
| -1 | Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family)The values are definitely being pushed by our system. It's telling them they don't need a relationship men are trash and instead to just buy this thing and that'll take care of whatever problems they are having. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 04:55 PM |
| -3 | Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family)1) Majority of women here are not in a long-term relationship. 2) We don't believe for 2 seconds that you're happy. If you were genuinely happy, you wouldn't even be posting here. We think y'all are all extremely miserable but have to appear like and scream from the rooftops about how happy you are to prevent it all from crashing down. That is the genuine reaction from men to most women here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementIt's a good thing we are humans and not dogs right. I'm not entertaining this further you're going off the deep end with this one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 09:35 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementI'm not even going to pretend attempting to understand what you're trying to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 02:43 AM |
| 1 | A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimumIndeed. Let's agree to disagree and move on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 10:45 AM |
| 1 | A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimumIs it really a win-win when everyone is losing in modern society due to these insane hypergamous standards? And don't give me the nonsense about how joyous women are being single now, everyone can see that a good majority of y'all are downright miserable. Spoiled by materialism, the modern woman is too entitled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 10:44 AM |
| 1 | A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimumThat's how you date? 😬😬 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 10:42 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is Entitlementthere aren’t any animals where the gender with the lower reproductive potential and larger parental investment competes for the one with the higher potential and lower investment This is an incorrect statement. Stop spewing pseudoscientific nonsense. There absolutely are species where the female does mating rituals for the male despite carrying the burden of pregnancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementCompletely dodges the question. We also can't force women to be as strong as men. I suppose that would entitle men to be the dominant leader in relationships right? You know since biology is king and therefore the woman should be submissive to the man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 07:35 AM |
| 1 | A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimumOf course that's exactly what they can do. Do you see now why modern men call women entitled with ridiculous standards? "Do and clean the dishes exactly the way I want or I'm divorcing you!" I know I'm not putting up with a woman with an attitude like that. Seriously, way better single than inviting that chaos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 07:13 AM |
| 1 | A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimumChoosing better is not the same thing as repeatedly swapping partners in and out, no. It's crazy that you are not aware enough to realize that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Effort Asymmetry. The Courtship System Women Perpetuate. Double standard in Being Transactional in a Transactional Amoral Market.That concrete example of course always being money. Shallow and materialistic; what's new. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementI thought the whole point was that humans were trying to be above their basic biology and treat people equally regardless of their race or gender etc. Do you want to now be seen as a bird or penguin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 07:08 AM |
| 5 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementIt is the definition of entitlement. I was honestly shocked when I heard that gender roles like this were still a norm in the so called egalitarian age of feminism & progressivism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 02:51 AM |
| 0 | A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimumI copy and pasted my entire conversation to explain to you where you went wrong in your reasoning. You didn't get the hint. This entire conversation has been about dropping men for trivial reasons, not with glaring relationship ending flags. You strawman the argument and then try to switch it up midway. No one anywhere has ever said to not drop a man for being dangerous or completely neglecting the other partner. You have to twist it to that to give what you said any semblance of reasoning, even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 02:47 AM |
| 1 | A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimumLet's try to follow along: Me: Treat partners as disposable and swap them out like you do car parts? Keeping in mind that this is entirely different from the conversation of choosing better. You: No. It's the same conversation. That "same conversation" being that swapping partners and choosing better are the same thing. Me: Choosing better =|= swapping people out like pairs of shoes. You: No one said that Except you just literally said that when you declared that they are the same conversation i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 10:33 PM |
| 1 | A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimumIt was mentioned elsewhere in this thread that this particularly was the problem with a relationship that discussion has been based around. You should choose men better. Of course you should. That does not mean that you go bolting for the door at the first sign of disagreement. That's why these two conversations are distinct. Henceforth no they aren't the same thing - it is something different entirely. I don't think you're capable of actually following this conversation though. Immediately afte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 10:22 PM |
| 5 | Effort Asymmetry. The Courtship System Women Perpetuate. Double standard in Being Transactional in a Transactional Amoral Market.Okay that's cute and all. Where is me having to spend money on her in all of this? When did that become part of the "romantic equation." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 10:16 PM |
| 1 | A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimumThat giant red flag being... Not cleaning the pots as well as he should??? Is this the kind of stuff y'all get divorced over these days? Jesus Christ. It used to be that if there was problems in the marriage you worked through it together and you fixed it. Now y'all are willing to divorce and go through men quicker than your underwear. Not only are modern women's standards out of whack, the level of tolerance for perceived flaws within a relationship is comically inhuman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Dont ask for incentives to be a decent person,And your response makes no sense because there are other interest than punishing criminal behavior. Interest like keeping robust slave production going even if it was supposed to be outlawed on the surface. Your response is bad. You are right to end the conversation because you don't have an actual argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 05:52 PM |
| 2 | A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimumKeeping in mind that this is entirely different from the conversation of choosing better. Choosing better =|= swapping people out like pairs of shoes. You literally just said that. If you aren't able to follow basic conversations it's best to stop while we are both ahead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 04:50 PM |
| -1 | A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimumChoosing better =|= swapping people out like pairs of shoes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Dont ask for incentives to be a decent person,You brought up the prison population of the United States as if that somehow proves the point that criminal behavior is not rewarded in society. Given the history of slavery in the US and the 13th amendments connection to it, you can't establish "being hard on crime" and wanting to punish people as why the US bothers to lock so many people up. Your comment is what's irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Dont ask for incentives to be a decent person,You are arguing past the point. Why would a country with a history of slavery and that sees slavery as punishment have the largest prison population in the world? What could possibly be their motive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Dont ask for incentives to be a decent person,...yes? The same country where slavery is illegal except as punishment for a crime, correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 04:02 PM |
| -5 | A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimumTreat partners as disposable and swap them out like you do car parts? Keeping in mind that this is entirely different from the conversation of choosing better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 01:57 PM |
| 5 | Dont ask for incentives to be a decent person,Just look at our society dude... Look at who leads it 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 10:11 AM |
| -6 | A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimumI mean you do have to choose better. And there are tons of men to choose from. There's an ocean of men out there and you somehow always end up with the wrong ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 07:52 AM |
| 1 | The rise of semi-segregated online spaces and their consequences have been a disaster for gender relations.The issues are with what content is displayed. I also don't think we should all be in the dark about each other, but framing all of this in that context doesn't quite do it justice. What's closer to the truth is that it's like watching reality TV and then forming your entire opinion about people based on that. These shows attract some of the most narcissistic and vapid among us, so saying that generalizing your views of the human race solely from this is problematic would be an understatement. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 08:08 AM |
| 2 | The rise of semi-segregated online spaces and their consequences have been a disaster for gender relations.There is definitely something to be said about the more recent waves of tech. I mean AI is now the most canonical example but it's been happening since before that. You could also see it in social media where this tech clearly isn't here to benefit everyday people; at least not post-algorithms. So who is it there to benefit? Well, considering that we recently got our first trillionare I don't think it's too hard to figure that one out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 07:46 AM |
| 1 | The rise of semi-segregated online spaces and their consequences have been a disaster for gender relations.I mean as tongue and cheek as it is there is actually a point to putting it like that. To the extent that you believe they exist, it's not like the issues of the Industrial Revolution alongside the various social changes that it brought with it stops at just biosphere destruction & pollution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 07:41 AM |
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