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RantLongjumping-Boot2330/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 03:00 PM
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Longjumping-Boot2330/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 03:21 PM
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Dude you are 26 take those photos press charges and start the paper work. You have your entire life ahead of you. You will be fine.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/25 03:08 PM
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I was in a similar situation, ex got very scared during covid and used that as an excuse to pull me further and further from friends and family. And if I’m being honest it was something that happened in the past too when friends didn’t agree with her. I just ignored it until now. You don’t need permission from your wife to go to the store. And you don’t need permission from her to enjoy time with your son. I think you know what needs to be done and it is hard I won’t tell you it’s not. But I’m p…
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/25 05:01 AM
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I will say I am speaking from zero experience in regards to an ex like this. But my advice would be to document everything. Every false report every crazy thing she tries to do with your dog the expenses, Document Document Document. It might not be used but it also could be the key to a better life for you. Also documenting might help lessen the sting of when things happen.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 03:30 PM
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Mine will be coming soon as well, and I agree fully. People have said congratulations to me about it and all that. I used to say half heartedly thanks but now I tend not to say anything. It’s not what I wanted and it’s not how I ever planned my life going. But it’s something that I will learn heal and grow from. I don’t think it will ever be fully healed ever, but I will at the very least be able to live a life.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/25 03:34 AM
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Stuff is wrapping up with the divorce but I would say atm yes. I think it depends on the day but we are at least civil. Sometimes we joke a little but nothing much. But that’s about it. We also only talk about once a month if that.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/25 03:00 AM
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I’m sorry for your loss truly. Your last sentence thought speaks volumes to me. It might not have seemed drastic to you, but to him maybe it was. People change that is 100% true but you cannot force someone to change. That is extremely unhealthy in a relationship and leads to resentment. I can say from personal experience how it made me feel worthless and terrible about myself, that I as I am cannot be accepted or that I’m not enough faults and all. Again I’m am really sorry for your loss.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/24 03:59 PM
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Oh perfect then! Enjoy yourself!
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/24 10:45 PM
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This is great dude I would go for it. Couple things though. 1.have them not use your real name in anyway 2.ask if you can be cropped out of the shot (not sure their shooting style) 3.ask them to release it possibly after the divorce is final (not sure how long that will be) My only concern and why I mentioned the above is because you are technically still married and some states could view it as cheating (I for sure as fuck don’t so 0 judgement here) but just take those precautions. Other than t…
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/24 05:29 PM
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just an FYI that some people don't think of. Dating while separated could be argued as cheating and could affect stuff in a future divorce. I would start divorce proceedings and at least file before dating or sleeping with anyone. I will say I went through a similar thing, my STBX and I agreed to a trial separation of 6 months and I realized 3 months in that I was done. I realized then when we agreed to it but I took sometime to fully make sure I was. I then broke off the separation and filed fo…
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/24 03:48 AM
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For me it was realizing how much I lost and sacrificed to be told that I was a bad husband. My STBXW isolated me for years from my family in the name of “safety from covid”. Birthdays, family vacations, holidays, family/friend parties, impromptu weekend hangs. All of them missed and lost to time. Having a good therapist too really helped. Mine let me figure stuff out on my own but then also validated and told me that I was right for thinking my STBXW was extremely controlling. It still hasn’t be…
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 04:49 AM
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I get the whole family looking out for you thing, I have a sister and a large family so for boyfriends we definitely look to make sure they pass certain things and will be good for my sister….however that is not what was done here and this is WAY over stepping. Calling her place of work to ask what kind of person she is as well as using company (I know you work for a school but “school time” didn’t seem right) time to email someone and introduce yourself is hella weird. Relationships involve the…
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 04:23 AM
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Wow dude, I was not expecting someone to describe my stbx in a more perfect sentence.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 03:55 AM
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Based on what my Lawyer says since we make similar there shouldn’t be alimony (at least I hope) and no kids. But I really really appreciate your reply. It’s been a weird time.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 03:46 AM
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