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| 24 | What happened to the Tinder algorithm? A few years ago I used to get tons of matches, but now I hardly get any. | Discussion | Longjumping-Goat-348 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 11:58 PM |
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| 6 | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.No dude. This is just basic common sense. Why would a woman be attracted to a man with any of these qualities? The fact that you're so unwilling to accept something so patently obvious mean you're probably a beta male yourself and are just trying to find ways to cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 03:49 PM |
| 7 | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.Beta men are easy to spot. Weak, short, effeminate, unattractive men who are severely lacking in confidence. No woman wants to be with a man like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 03:42 PM |
| 1 | According to one study most of what a woman finds attractive in a man is beyond his looks - ladies do you agree?I say this as a man, I haven’t noticed a major increase in anxiety in women nearly as much as men over the past several years. Obviously everyone is suffering more from social anxiety lately, but from my experience talking to people, men seem to be much worse. The decline in testosterone and masculinity in men is very apparent and reflected in most men these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 07:34 AM |
| 1 | According to one study most of what a woman finds attractive in a man is beyond his looks - ladies do you agree?It's really sad interacting with most men these days. Most of them turn visibly anxious from a casual social interaction with a stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 04:40 AM |
| 17 | Basics on How Not to be UnattractiveRight, cause all dudes who enjoy masculine and adventurous hobbies do them just to impress girls. Stupid take. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/25 12:08 PM |
| -2 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themYou can thank birth control for that buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 02:10 PM |
| 34 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themThey're definitely not conscious of what they're doing. Women are driven by emotions and conformist by nature. They'll claim they want a softer, more liberal man, yet when he shows up they'll feel disgusted and be left completely clueless as to why they feel that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 01:10 PM |
| 8 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themIt's called a generalization. And it applies to nearly all women. Meanwhile your example is distasteful and not at all comparable to what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 01:08 PM |
| – | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themDeep down, all women are disgusted by men who show any type of weakness or go against traditional gender roles. They'll claim publicly to want men who are softer, emotionally available, and refuse to adhere to traditional gender roles, however what they're really doing is vetting out all men who are too weak to stand up against society's backwards programming. It's just a big test and most men fail it miserably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 11:37 AM |
| 3 | What do you assume to be the normal rate of matches the average guy on a dating app receives?About 2 bots and one accidental right swipe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:10 PM |
| 49 | Field report of female response after posting physique on socialsPhysical appearance has been, and always will be, by far the most important factor in attracting woman. Nothing else comes even close. The problem I have with the redpill is most dudes think they can compensate for subpar physical appearance by attaining a high level of status or money. Women will never genuinely be attracted to a man who doesn't meet theirphysical attractiveness threshold. They'll date and have sex with these established, yet unattractive men to extract resources from them, but… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/25 11:40 PM |
| 4 | I need a trad husbandThis may sound great in your head, but i promise that you’d find this man disgusting and unrespectable. Women are repulsed by subservient beta male type. You can’t be attracted to a man you don’t respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 02:08 PM |
| 5 | You Can Do Everything Right And Still LoseThe key is to be extremely attractive. Women don’t waste time or play games with men they find ridiculously handsome. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/24 03:47 PM |
| – | There is a lack of empathy and understanding that generally comes from attractive men and women when it comes to men’s frustration with dating.Unattractive men who vocalize their gripes and complaints they have with women are almost universally labeled as “incels” by women. It’s ironic because attractive men who do get women often share similarly unfavorable views towards women, yet women turn a blind eye whenever these men say something derogatory about their gender. The dudes I know who get the most chicks are blatant misogynists. If these men were unattractive or unsuccessful with women, yet still maintained the exact same unfavorab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 09:16 PM |
| 40 | You should absolutely never acknowledge any inherent disadvantages you have when it comes to dating.I agree. Openly discussing your weaknesses as a man is not only emasculating, but almost guaranteed to make women lose respect for you. I’ve never felt more disgusted with myself than the few times I’ve expressed a personal insecurity to a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 03:27 AM |
| 2 | What are some reasons for still being a virgin that would be a red flag?The only exception are those who are devoutly religious and are saving themselves for marriage. Probably something like 95% of virgins are not that way by choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 05:51 PM |
| 0 | What are some reasons for still being a virgin that would be a red flag?Probably around 22 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 03:42 AM |
| 18 | What are some reasons for still being a virgin that would be a red flag?There are hardly any men who are virgins by choice. Past a certain age, it's almost always a red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 02:20 AM |
| 0 | Do you think men should ever show emotion in front of a woman?I’m still disgusted with myself for the few times I’ve let myself show emotions around women. It’s emasculating. No woman, no matter what she says out loud, finds vulnerability in men remotely attractive or endearing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many dudes whipped?Declining testosterone levels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:57 PM |
| 12 | Case study: A top 10% man who has it all. Why aren’t women interested in him?True, but you still have to be somewhat socially calibrated to pick up on the cues, and also not a complete coward to act on them if you have the ability to read them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 01:12 AM |
| 25 | Case study: A top 10% man who has it all. Why aren’t women interested in him?Probably has extremely terrible social skills and is too afraid of taking the initiative with women. If he’s actually as attractive as you think he is, then he’s probably getting flirted with constantly, yet is too socially inept to pick up on any of the hints, or if does pick them up, he’s too cowardly to act on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Women: what's the most irrational thing that gives you the ick when it comes to men?Only on Reddit do the women pretend they’re attracted to weak, effeminate men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:59 PM |
| 11 | "Behaviorally attractive people and physically attractive people are more desired" is not "just world fallacy" it's just the realityWomen like to think that any man who criticizes, demeans or views women in an unfavorable light is automatically an incel. They’re completely oblivious to the fact that attractive men who have success with women often view women just as negatively as incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 01:38 AM |
| 6 | Money plays a minor role for genuine dating as a manI’m just speaking from my own personal experience where i was able to successfully attract many women who completely disregarded my financial status in favor of my looks and aura. Financial status is much more important in forging long-term, stable relationships where the woman desires a partner who can provide resources and protection, but as far as short-term flings, it really doesn’t matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 05:04 PM |
| 30 | Money plays a minor role for genuine dating as a manDefinitely agree. I had no issue attracting good-looking women when I had little money in my early 20s. They never cared about what job I had at the time or the fact that I couldn’t support them in any way financially. They thought I was attractive and had a good aura, and that’s all the mattered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Most of what gives women the "Ick" is just what got you called "Gay" by dude brosYou're right on the money here. Once again we have woke Reddit weirdos getting offended over our evolutionary hardwired behaviors and preferences. Women are attracted to men who exhibit masculinity and strength, while any sign of weakness or femininity in men is understandably be met with distaste. Even as a man I have no problem admitting I find effeminate men disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 03:19 AM |
| – | Money and status and career are not that significant for men (including being rich)It's sad but true. Money and status will never be able to viscerally excite and arouse a women like physical appearance does. If you don't meet a certain threshold for looks, then no amount of money or status is enough to compensate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think Western Birth Rates are so low?Another factor that often gets overlooked here is the skyrocketing infertility rate. The sad truth is that many people today aren't physically capable of having kids because of poor health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Men need to be less emotional and touch their masculine side.This is obviously true. Overly emotional men are understandingly viewed as disgusting and weak to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 03:38 AM |
| 6 | Are there more lonely men or lonely women?This is hilarious. Using the excuse of the patriarchy to explain how it benefits women and hurts men. Almost like it doesn’t exist in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 07:00 PM |
| 23 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?Women gravitate towards men with money because they offer stability and resources. They don’t find these men anymore physically attractive just because they’re rich. If you’re ugly, then no amount of status or wealth is going to make women lust after you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Case Study: Pillsbury DoughboyAs if the rest of the world won’t collapse alongside the US. It’s true that western countries are deteriorating far faster than non-western countries, however it’s misguided to think that certain countries will be spared from the wrath of the new world order. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 05:50 AM |
| 1 | How much do looks matter?So true. So many act is if picking up a hobby you find passion in will help improve your personality, and thus help you get more chicks, but this only applies if the hobby is relatable and interesting to the lay person. No women (or man) gives a fuck about how captivating you find video games to be. Most people just see you as a loser who sits in front of screen while twiddling his thumbs for hours each day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Should ugly men feel guilty for being attracted to women? When is it objectification?You’re a dude and wondering why you’re attracted to women? You can’t be serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menSure, but men still need to meet a threshold for looks before personality even becomes a factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 04:03 PM |
| 6 | How come TRP doesn't teach betas in how to become alphas?The ability to generate income and ascend the status hierarchy is only part of becoming an “alpha.” Genetics play a huge factor as well. There are plenty broke dudes who exhibit “alpha” characteristics because they were born tall and good looking and have natural confidence. And there are plenty of rich, successful dudes who wreak of beta because of their poor stature, low confidence and unmasculine characteristics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 03:39 AM |
| 1 | The unavoidable corruption of dating apps. I worked in the dating industry for a dozen years and it is an probably the most intrinsically fake legal industry in existence. The entire thing is built on misconceptions, half-truths, and flat out lies, mostly about men and their chances of success.There was a period of time where dating apps were actually useful and functional. I used to get tons of matches and had no difficulties setting up dates with good looking women. However, things began change for the worse right around 2018/2019. Without even changing my pictures or editing my bio, I began to receive significantly less matches, and the women I was matching with were less attractive. I’m still young and pretty good-looking, but now fast forward to 2023 and I barely receive any matc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 03:45 AM |
| 8 | If you cant get casual sex easily then you are unattractiveYea pretty much. Women don’t have casual sex with ugly men. And if you’re not attractive, she’s only going to have sex with you if you have something tangible to offer like security or money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 01:14 AM |
| 25 | Don’t Be Average – Don’t Accept Society’s Blueprint For Your LifeAn average man’s life wasn’t all that terrible 50 or so years ago when you could support a whole family on a single payer income, be healthy and in shape with ease, and not have to worry about women spoiled by feminist ideals. Fast forward to current day and the average man is broke, lonely, fat and miserable. You absolutely cannot afford to be average in today’s age. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/23 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner?Sure, there's a correlation between some favorable attributes and having a degree, but it's not significant enough to completely shun a huge demographic from the pool of potential partners. It's also extremely ignorant and shallow to have this of all things be a dealbreaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner?What is this mindset that I have indicated? The belief that one can be successful in life without having a college degree? Merely possessing a degree does not elevate you above those who do not have one. There are plenty of people who mindlessly enroll in college, waste tons of money and time, and barely graduate with worthless liberal arts degrees that hold next to no value. Meanwhile, there are others who choose to skip college, engage in rigorous self-education, or decide to dedicate themselv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner?That's funny because I actually have a degree. Just proves how close-minded you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 09:16 PM |
| 0 | Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner?What does having a college degree even matter? In many cases, college is an enormous waste of time and a total scam that doesn't remotely contribute to your success in life. You can make it very far in life without having to waste four years of your time and rack up tens of thousands of dollars of debt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 08:16 PM |
| 2 | I often hear women say "I have attractive male friends with awesome personalities, but I don't like them that way." If they're attractive, why aren't they attracted to them?While they may have good personalities, they’re probably not appealing in a sexual way. If you’re overly-available, clingy, agreeable and anxious then that’s enough to turn off any woman, no matter how physically attractive you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story?Yea, he’s hideous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:42 PM |
| 13 | Let's discuss strategies and tricks to fake preselection.Lying to your friends to get chicks is so slimy. You’re exactly the type of person I dont to want to associate with. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/23 07:28 PM |
| 0 | Men shouldn't show their emotions to womenYou can't tell me with a straight face that men not being emotional and vulnerable enough is what's causing them to have less ex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Do men really struggle with dating? Every guy I know has a girlfriend or wife.Eastern Europe is far different than America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Beyond Alpha and BetaHow exactly did you go about furthering your understanding of power? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/23 03:57 AM |
| 21 | The average man is fine, it’s the below average men who are genuinely struggling.Yes, it’s shockingly low. The average American man is 5’9 and nearly 200 lbs of pure fat, broke and in debt, lonely, and is addicted to some form of hedonistic activity like gaming or social media. People here mistake the average man as a normal weight, plain faced, $50k - 60k income, but that’s just not the case. Being “normal” in todays era is just flat-out unacceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 06:19 PM |
| 21 | The average man is fine, it’s the below average men who are genuinely struggling.People haven't yet become accustomed to the new, pathetic reality of average. The actual average man today would've been a bottom 10% man 40 - 50 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 05:51 PM |
| 11 | straight men uglify themselves a lot on the dating market, and should stopThis is painfully out of touch. Ugly men aren’t ugly because they have bad haircuts and wear weird sucks, they’re ugly because they have fucked up faces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 03:59 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think the amount of money a man makes actually mattersSo what's the alternative then? Just throw in the towel and not even bother trying to help yourself? There's no harm in at least trying. You have such a defeatist and negative attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 03:38 AM |
| 2 | I don’t think the amount of money a man makes actually mattersYou may not look the best, but with your income, you should still be having relative success in dating. It's clear that you're majorly lacking in other important departments besides looks, like confidence, and status. Work on improving what's readily within your control and you should have better luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 03:29 AM |
| 0 | on a scale from 0-5 How important is your partners education in a relationship?It’s actually a great plus is she doesn’t have a college education. I’m not looking for some woke chick indoctrinated by the college system. And this is coming from someone with a degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Seen repeated claims “there are more attractive women then men.”It’s a true statement. And I think a lot of it has to do with our plummeting testosterone levels. Testosterone is a vitally important for maintaining muscle mass and an appealing appearance. The laughably low collective test numbers leave most men looking flabby and emasculated. Women obviously don’t need heaps of testosterone to look good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:51 AM |
| 1 | What happened to the Tinder algorithm? A few years ago I used to get tons of matches, but now I hardly get any.I haven’t been on for 7 years consecutively. It’s on and off for 7 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 04:24 AM |
| 1 | What happened to the Tinder algorithm? A few years ago I used to get tons of matches, but now I hardly get any.Then what do you suggest as an alternative? Match Group, the parent company of Tinder, owns nearly all worthy dating apps in existence. By now, they've surely implemented their corporatist, money-grabbing policies across the board to all their dating apps - rendering them all as unviable as Tinder. You're a bit delusional to assume one can easily jump ship to a more democratized and leveled dating app. The sad reality is that this is just the way dating apps work nowadays. It'd be more productiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 07:47 PM |
| 2 | The Floor matters more than the ceiling when it comes to your attractiveness to womenRejection. You can’t overcome ugliness just by having high T. Testosterone is an important element in attracting women, but it’s far from the end all be all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 07:24 AM |
| 1 | What happened to the Tinder algorithm? A few years ago I used to get tons of matches, but now I hardly get any.Is that right? I’m pretty sure is still the most popular dating app by a good margin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 07:22 AM |
| 1 | What happened to the Tinder algorithm? A few years ago I used to get tons of matches, but now I hardly get any.I think it’s a combination of an uncharitable algorithm and women’s standards rising | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 07:19 AM |
| 2 | What happened to the Tinder algorithm? A few years ago I used to get tons of matches, but now I hardly get any.Is it really that much better? I’ve tried Bumble as well but had no luck there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 07:14 AM |
| 1 | What happened to the Tinder algorithm? A few years ago I used to get tons of matches, but now I hardly get any.What pic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 01:36 AM |
| 2 | What happened to the Tinder algorithm? A few years ago I used to get tons of matches, but now I hardly get any.I’m probably not as good looking I was when I was 19, but I still consider myself good looking. My hair is still thick with no signs of balding and I’m still in good shape (not muscular but lean). I have developed some acne that just won’t go away but I don’t think it’s that bad, who knows though, I could be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 01:09 AM |
| 4 | What happened to the Tinder algorithm? A few years ago I used to get tons of matches, but now I hardly get any.That would only make sense if there were less men and more women. I suspect the ratio of men to women has become far more lopsided than it already was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 01:03 AM |
| 7 | What happened to the Tinder algorithm? A few years ago I used to get tons of matches, but now I hardly get any.You’re making a lot of sense. The app’s lack of business savvy and sophistication was what made it good, oddly enough. It’s a depressing realization knowing the less successful men are the more they profit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 01:01 AM |
| -2 | What happened to the Tinder algorithm? A few years ago I used to get tons of matches, but now I hardly get any.Yes, I swipe right on everyone for efficiency's sake. I figure I can just unmatch whoever I'm not attracted to after swiping. didn't figure the algorithm was that complex. I'll have to be selective from now on and see how that works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 12:37 AM |
| 2 | The Floor matters more than the ceiling when it comes to your attractiveness to womenWow, you are clueless. first of all, no healthy woman wants a shy and timid man. Those are highly undesirable traits. They want a man who is strong, assertive, dominant and stoic - traits commonly found in high-T men. Testosterone is also a vital component of male fertility. Those with low testosterone are more likely to be impotent. You don't know what you're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 10:21 PM |
| 7 | The Floor matters more than the ceiling when it comes to your attractiveness to womenOf course they can. Testosterone dramatically influences your personality and confidence. High testosterone men carry themselves with pride and assertiveness, while low T men are often timid and shy. The effects of testosterone are not merely limited to libido and muscle mass, it greatly affects your personality and cognition as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Do men really get better with age?You can build a respectable physique in just a few short years, plus it's easier in your twenties as you have more free time and higher testosterone levels. Most men in their 30s look worse than they did in their 20s. Aging starts to creep in and most let their physiques degenerate as they become bogged down in responsibilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Do men really get better with age?Physically speaking, both genders peak in their early twenties. The reason why people say men get better with age is because as men accumulate status and wealth they become more attractive. It doesn’t have anything to do with physical appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 10:17 PM |
| 21 | Hot guy summerYea, we weren’t designed to run on pavement. This is why I only run on grass or dirt trails. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/23 07:15 PM |
| 0 | Most men focus too kuch on looks in dating and that impacts them negatively.Because most men are desperate and have far higher sex-drives than women. It's not rocket science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Most men focus too kuch on looks in dating and that impacts them negatively.This post is painfully out of touch with mens' dating preferences and desires. You can just all of a sudden expect men to find attractive the traits that we didn't evolve to find attractive. Men are visually-oriented in what we find attractive, that's just the way it is and you shouldn't expect any different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Most men would have sex with women they find physically attractive regardless of their personality. But women don't always want to have sex with men they find physically attractiveWell obviously you first need to meet a physical threshold for a woman to be attracted to you. After that though that’s when things like personality start to become a factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 09:49 PM |
| 0 | Most men would have sex with women they find physically attractive regardless of their personality. But women don't always want to have sex with men they find physically attractiveWhat I said holds true for the vast majority of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Most men would have sex with women they find physically attractive regardless of their personality. But women don't always want to have sex with men they find physically attractiveWomen are attracted to a certain type of bad personality. As much as they say they dislike toxic and narcissistic men, they still gravitate towards them. The type of bad personality they don’t like is awkward, timid, shy, unassertive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 06:19 PM |
| 10 | Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girlsThis shouldn't be a shocking revelation or anything. Men tend to date down and women tend to date up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Sure women want the top 20% of men but is it really that hard to be in that 20 percent of men? ~70% are obese/ overweighthttps://www.washingtonpost.com/health/most-american-adults-are-overweight/2020/12/18/faefa834-408d-11eb-9453-fc36ba051781_story.html Maybe do a quick google search before behaving like an uneducated know-it-all over the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 06:01 PM |
| – | Sure women want the top 20% of men but is it really that hard to be in that 20 percent of men? ~70% are obese/ overweightClearly you’re not an American, idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 05:50 PM |
| – | Sure women want the top 20% of men but is it really that hard to be in that 20 percent of men? ~70% are obese/ overweightModern women are pathetic too. The problem is that most women are so utterly delusional that they think they deserve only someone in the upper echelon of the dating pool. A man at the 20th percentile still really isn’t all that good looking considering over 70% of men are overweight, which immediately disqualifies them from romantic consideration. I really believe that only about 5% of the population can actually be deemed attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 05:43 PM |
| – | Sure women want the top 20% of men but is it really that hard to be in that 20 percent of men? ~70% are obese/ overweightThe 80/20 rule doesn't really exist in today's age of dating. It's more like the 95/5 rule at this point. The sad reality is that most men are so pathetic and unattractive that even those at the 20th percentile aren't all that appealing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | "Skill-based matchmaking"-like algorithms in online datingIt sounds like a good idea until you take into account the fact that women have obscenely unrealistic expectations of what they want in men to the point where most feel wholly unsatisfied with someone on par with their looks - they feel they deserve only the upper echelon of men. Average women don't date average men and vice versa. Women will continue to strive for the cream of the crop while men will take what they can get. This dreary fact voids this entire idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Unpopular opinion: Obesity is not the insane problem that it is made out be here and the average person is not obeseThe obesity rate still hovers at an astounding 40%. You do a lot of mental gymnastic here to make it seem like it's not a glaring and growing issue that affects all health conscious and non-fat people who desire to find a suitable romantic partner. And even then, ignoring the obesity rates for a second, consider that average person today is exceedingly more unattractive, fat, and visually unflattering than a person in say 1960, a time where rates of obesity and high body fat were negligible. You… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 10:27 PM |
| 4 | I think we need to relook at what the “ average man” actually isAlthough modern society does make it incredibly easy to be obese, individuals still need to hold themselves accountable and take ownership over their diets and exercise routines. There are no excuses for being fat. Period. All it takes is a little bit of conscientiousness and effort to not be fat. Simply prepare your own food, don't overeat, and exercise just enough to not be a fat pig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Fit shaming is becoming more acceptable as the average American gets fatterAnother way the media and jealous overweight people have been demonizing those who pride themselves in health and fitness is by categorizing them as right wing extremists. I've been seeing a lot more articles as of late linking passions for fitness and health with extremism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 10:12 PM |
| 0 | How to stop flakersYou continue to talk to chicks after two consecutive flakes? That’s pretty desperate bro. First time she flakes 90% of the time it’s because she just wasn’t that interested in you to begin with. Two times in a row there’s no doubt she’s just using you for attention or validation. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 01:04 AM |
| 6 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?At your income you sure can be successful with dating chicks who are good looking and more physically attractive than you. The problem is that you’ll have to live with the fact that no women will ever be physically attracted to you and that your money and the security/lifestyle you provide will be the primary, if not the only reason, for them wanting to be with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 07:13 PM |
| 5 | Guys who do not have a stable life (income, social circle); should they even bother finding a long term romantic relationship?A women will only give a chance to a man going through rough times if he has legitimate potential to become great at some point in the near future. Women don’t want to invest in projects with only low to moderate chances of ever maturing to something of substance. Your boyfriend probably already had unrealized potential before meeting him. You wouldn’t have given him a chance if you didn’t honestly think he had the capability to amount to something at some point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 03:20 PM |
| 18 | Guys who do not have a stable life (income, social circle); should they even bother finding a long term romantic relationship?That’s not how dating works. An attractive women can live a life in disarray and still attract multiple, high quality suitors. Men hardly care about a women’s life circumstances given that she’s attractive, and to a far lesser degree has a decent personality. Women don’t want to build together, they want a man that’s already pre-assembled and has his life in order. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 11:52 AM |
| 13 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?How can you honestly there’s a gym obsession amongst men when about 75% of the male population is overweight? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Are women of today showing greater preference for physically less masculine men ?Anyone with half a brain is aware of the radical cultural transformation over the past decade or so that has promoted feminine qualities in men while demonizing traditionally masculine ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 05:56 AM |
| 0 | Are women of today showing greater preference for physically less masculine men ?Of course a blue pilled woman would deny the existence of woke culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 03:27 AM |
| 6 | Are women of today showing greater preference for physically less masculine men ?No. Most of these women pretend to like these types of guys so they can fit in with trendy, woke culture. The women who genuinely claim to be attracted to effeminate men are almost always repulsed by them in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Despite what is popularly touted here, looks most certainly ARE objective to an extent and if average women are told they are “kweens” and deserve top tier men then ABOVE average men at LEAST deserve their equivalencySubjectivity in looks only applies to trivial aesthetic features like hairstyle and facial hair. However, these preferences mean nothing if you first don’t meet the objective and universally agreed upon baseline for physical attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Theory why people are so messed up mentally - Vegetable oilsToo bad most people are so utterly brainwashed and deluded to even give a second of thought to the dangers of plant defense chemicals. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/22 08:32 PM |
| 5 | If a guy says, “What more do women bring to the table than looks and pussy?” he means he loves worthless women.To be fair, most women's personalities these days have been reduced to astrology, dogs and Instagram. Not saying I agree with this sentiment, there are still women out there with deep and great personalities, however, it's understandable how one could think this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 07:41 PM |
| 39 | FDS Users Are Mostly Low Social StatusDuhhh. Think of what type of girl actually needs a fucking dating strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 03:12 AM |
| 8 | Would you ever participate in a polyamorous relationship? If yeas or no explain down below.Most men don’t have the power or desirability to command multiple suitors. These relationships generally end up with an involuntarily loyal man and a woman fucking a bunch of other dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Is it possible for a woman to truly love a man for who he is or will it always be attached to his money, looks, or social status?No. Just having a good personality is not enough to outweigh looks, money and status. Attraction is a complex equation involving many variables. You can't score a 0 on things that matter like money and looks and hope to fully compensate through personality. This notion that people love each other for who they are was born out of Hollywood and fiction. It's not real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Can a decreased interest in sex attributed to other things as lack of attraction ?“Normal” does not equal optimal. The reference ranges for most lab tests are so incredibly broad that they hardly mean anything. For instance, the reference range for testosterone is generally between 280 - 850 ng/dl. I can promise you that no man is going have a ravenous sex drive with a 280 ng/dl testosterone level, despite it being technically “normal.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Can a decreased interest in sex attributed to other things as lack of attraction ?Okay, well maybe I shouldn’t have spoke on behalf of women, because I don’t have an answer for that. Healthy men on the other hand will definitely retain a strong sex drive as they age into their 40s and 50s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Can a decreased interest in sex attributed to other things as lack of attraction ?While sex drive does begin to gradually decline starting in your 30s, it’s never supposed to shut off entirely. Men and women in their 40s and 50s, assuming they’re healthy and haven’t done anything to screw with their hormones, should still have frequent desire for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 02:09 AM |
| 4 | Can a decreased interest in sex attributed to other things as lack of attraction ?Your sex drive should still be very strong at your age. And yes, sex hormones like testosterone and estrogen are what dictates sex drive. You should get your hormones tested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in America.Cause that’s fucking fat for most women, who are also on average only 5’5 tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Why are you interested in a relationship/sex?I’m guessing you probably have extremely low testosterone. You’re not gonna have a sex drive if your T is super low. I’d recommend getting that checked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in America.The average woman weighs around 170 lb I think. Which is crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 11:56 PM |
| 4 | Alpha Mindset of a WinnerI believe I’ve captured the essence of meditation, and when I meditate I definitely go into a different mode where I become much more present and aware of my own thoughts and sensations, yet I still have difficulties becoming present in the moment. It’s like my meditation practices don’t transfer over to my day to day activity. After the brief afterglow I get from a mediation session, it’s back into regular, unconscious, automatic programming for me. Any one got any tips on how to become more pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/22 09:54 PM |
| 16 | Q4W: Do you believe that men are becoming more attractive or less attractive?If we’re talking about the average person than it’s less, and it’s not even debatable. Rates of obesity, depression and financial inequality have been soaring over the past few decades. The average person is broker, fatter and more socially inept than ever before. Sadly, most men are making themselves unappealing by succumbing to the temptations and vices of the modern world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 07:55 PM |
| – | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestIt's a surprising how barely mentioned of a reason it is for decline in overall sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestThere's still a considerable amount of men who are interested in having sex, yet for various reasons have been shunned by women and displaced from the modern dating scene. You underestimate just how many men want sex but can't get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 06:28 PM |
| – | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestMales are becoming increasiongly disinteretsed too. I think this is for two main reasons. 1) Men are placating and quieting their sexual desires by engaging in readily avaiable, highly addictive hedonistic activities like gaming and porn. These types of activies are addicting and pleasurful to the point where many men simply don't see the benefits of putting in the effort required to make themselves sexually desireable. 2) The rapid and steep decline in testosterone over the past few decades has… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 04:40 AM |
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