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| -15 | In middle of silver bullet, could use support or adviceI'd just let her have the kids full time and pay the child support I owe my house and it's in a trust and I have legal protection in place for my 401K and bank account both are in a trust and nothing is being added to them there just sitting collecting dividends and re investing and the women always choose the best hours to get the kids on her days and the man gets the crap days and hours that heavily interfere with his ability to work so just cut ties because eventually she will turn the kids a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/26 12:32 PM |
| -4 | How do you navigate relationships in 2026 as a middle aged man? (3x Divorced)You are right about that I agree fully but I pay for sex when I want it and I move states when I hear about her being pregnant and keep renting out my properties and every 5 years or so I change my name so I'm good either way I have the money to do these things so my advice is for those living like me | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/26 10:02 PM |
| -3 | How do you navigate relationships in 2026 as a middle aged man? (3x Divorced)Just pay for sex it's easier just go and hit up the gas station fast food joints and grocery stores all low pay and struggling people your welcome | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/26 05:53 PM |
| 0 | Silver Bullet DivorceI don't really understand the problem he will be subjected to child support and lose possibly never get to see his kids because the woman will use them to hurt him and get the lions share of the assets in divorce and if he is luck he won't have to pat for her lawyer fees In my opinion he should just leave America and start over better that then be forced to suffer from his ex and the government stealing from him and taking his driver's license and putting him in debt and putting him in jail if h… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/26 06:38 PM |
| -5 | Silver Bullet DivorceMy advice is this get your passport and leave America while you still can and start over in a new country your a teacher so you can figure out what country would best serve your lifestyle | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/26 03:16 PM |
| 1 | On the verge of separation, I would like to hear from the folks here....Sorry didn't have time my break was almost over so I typed my reply to give that person some good advice hoping it would help | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/26 01:10 AM |
| 1 | On the verge of separation, I would like to hear from the folks here....My advice is if you are not currently getting divorced the in the house is in your name if you have one that is put it into a irrevocable trust if it still has a mortgage and the divorce is current then force the sale of the house don't let her have it because most women are terrible with money and she will most likely waste all the money she gets from the house sale and whatever else she gets from the split and put your half into Coca cola dividend stocks and don't use any of it on the lawyer j… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/26 09:11 AM |
| 5 | Any dads here fight for *less* time with their kids?If I was in your shoes I'd just bite the bullet and say I don't want any parenting rights at all your going to have to pay child support anyway so you might as well just pay a few hundred more dollars and keep advancing in your life and if possible buy a cheap home not a trailer but at least a peace of land that you can build on then it's just a wait until you have enough money to buy a house kit one of those foldable container homes and then you will have financial freedom because you are not P… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/26 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Wife is done with me, but wants to live togetherWell there is nothing else I can give you for advice it's not my place to tell you if you should stay or go I am only giving you options to protect yourself before a divorce | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/25 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Wife is done with me, but wants to live togetherThe longer you are married on paper in law the longer the alimony is going to be if you stay married then when you divorce you will be on the hook my advice is that you either put everything into a trust while you are married and get a lower paying job after you put everything into a trust house 401k and so on But keep in mind that the moment that you are served divorce papers you are no longer able to do this period | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/25 11:41 PM |
| 11 | Ex wife just living it upJust invest in the stock market and focus on it in a few years after you hit 100000 thousand dollars you will feel better and watch it go up from there focus on either qqq or the s and p 500 you will rarely regret it | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/25 02:31 AM |
| 7 | Why the fuck would anyone get married again?It's better to stay un married because then you can both move on if things change in the future just make sure that you have the other person on your will and if things change and you split apart then add the new person to the will instead its cheaper to pay the government their taxes then one or 2 divorce lawyers because if you're women doesn't work then the man gets stuck with her lawyers bill 2 and it's only a 1000 or 2 to change the will and child support is cheaper than losing your retireme… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/25 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Dyin on the insideGet your Passport and leave the country and start over Change country's every year for 3 to 6 years so you can disappear and let her chase you through international courts for child support ps in America if you are behind on child support they suspend your driver's license which makes things very hard on you But in another country they can't suspended your driver's license | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/25 04:03 AM |
| – | I’ve grown accustomed and don’t fucking care anymoreDo the right thing and that is the moment you hear divorce leave America and disappear and start over let her chase you through international courts | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/25 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Just got "divorced" two hours ago. Anything I can do?Don't bother with mediation and don't bother fighting you will end up paying either way even If you have a child after the divorce is settled put your house if you have one into a non revocable trust And during the trial do what you can to get signed papers to protect your driver's license incase you lose your job and can't afford child support because they love to force men into debt for not paying child support by making it impossible to get to work by suspending your driver's license And if y… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/25 02:39 AM |
| 1 | How can they live with themselves?It's simple you need to fight for yourself and your needs don't take less than 50 50 and don't sign anything unless you're lawyer reads it and okays it remove all personal information from the house into a safety deposit box like ssn birth certificates yours and your kids and if you want to be a part of the kids life the fight for 50 50 custody that will ruin her chances of moving into another state and do not get angry in the court room it will be weapon used against you do not answer yes or no… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/25 06:06 AM |
| -1 | If you got Divorced today, what would you tell yourself?Well this is what I would do if I dot divorced but I'm not married either so it all good lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/25 12:45 AM |
| 0 | If you got Divorced today, what would you tell yourself?I'm glad I donated the 401K burned down the house poisoned the earth on my property and poured concrete in the sewage lines and left this plain of existence through self termination | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/25 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Wife set to say "I don't feel safe"If you do go through a divorce make sure that the house is sold this is important because she will try to keep the house and its value will go up and even if it doesn't go up the fact that she won't be paying rent will make her life a hell of a lot easier so make sure that the house is sold and don't take any deals its better for your health if she has to pay rent as well as you just force the sale of the house and watch her live fall apart quickly and take your half of the sales if you disagree… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/25 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Why am I fighting for it?If you do go through a divorce make sure that the house is sold this is important because she will try to keep the house and its value will go up and even if it doesn't go up the fact that she won't be paying rent will make her life a hell of a lot easier so make sure that the house is sold and don't take any deals its better for your health if she has to pay rent as well as you just force the sale of the house and watch her live fall apart quickly and take your half of the sales if you disagree… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/25 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Getting over the ex....If you do go through a divorce make sure that the house is sold this is important because she will try to keep the house and its value will go up and even if it doesn't go up the fact that she won't be paying rent will make her life a hell of a lot easier so make sure that the house is sold and don't take any deals its better for your health if she has to pay rent as well as you just force the sale of the house and watch her live fall apart quickly and take your half of the sales if you disagree… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/25 05:06 AM |
| 1 | I don't know how a divorce is possible.If you do go through a divorce make sure that the house is sold this is important because she will try to keep the house and its value will go up and even if it doesn't go up the fact that she won't be paying rent will make her life a hell of a lot easier so make sure that the house is sold and don't take any deals its better for your health if she has to pay rent as well as you just force the sale of the house and watch her live fall apart quickly and take your half of the sales if you disagree… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | How to protect from future divorce? Financial perspective onlySome advice pay 50000 to a lawyer and have them hold onto it as a retainer at best you don't have to worry about a lawyer in 7 years at very best you gave up 50000 for services that will never be needed | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/12/24 09:33 AM |
| 4 | Hit with Papers and DrowningRack up about 200000 in debt before the divorce and enjoy splitting it with her | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/24 09:31 AM |
| 4 | Farewell BrothersI'm glad you got thru that many do not | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/24 03:41 AM |
| 1 | I am convinced that not even once for a second has she considered that what she is doing is wrongDo not under any circumstances take on her lawyer debt it will be a bigger debt than you think on average the bill is 20000 dollars to 50000 dollars 20000 for people without kids 50000 with kids and that is per person | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/24 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Considering Divorce After 3yrs - Have some questionsThe family court is going to love you till you are broke and in so much debt that you are going to regret divorce Lawyers are going to bill you and the judge will make sure you pay them | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/11/24 11:00 AM |
| 2 | WTFBest advice right here | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/24 10:52 AM |
| 1 | She has 2 dating profiles and we are still living under the same roof.You have 2 options work it out with her or get a eviction notice for her and fight it out in court | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/10/24 01:30 AM |
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