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Getting StartedLongjumping_Bid_63/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 11:17 PM
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My wife was hanging out with her married friend a lot the year before she left, and she would casually mention a few times how her friend was cheating on her husband. I blamed that woman to some degree for my wife's choices and I 100% think she had an influence on my wife in that regard but at the end of the day my wife made her own choices.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 11:31 PM
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I used to think she was a very reasonable person, but her behavior this past year has said otherwise. I do think she doesn't like dealing with conflict so maybe she would just agree to it to be done with me once and for all. I cannot afford an attorney and if she did I imagine it would end up costing more than I'm asking for. But I have no knowledge of legal things so not sure.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 11:27 PM
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I've probably read hundreds of posts online of people's separation/divorce stories the past few months and a lot of them are so similar it's like there's a script for all this out there people are following. In one way it made me feel better realize I'm not unique in my situation, but in another way it's sad because I don't feel a lot of hope for humanity reading all this.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 09:58 PM
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The biggest item on her list was me "not being serious about getting treatment for PTSD". I think that was the hardest blow. I sort of get it people who don't deal with this shit have absolutely no way of understanding what we go through. I spent a huge chunk of my income on therapy, doctors, medication over the past few years. They all say it's a life long condition. And I've been to a lot of shitty doctors, therapists, and been on shitty medications the past 10 years that have made it even mor…
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 09:51 PM
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My wife suddenly had an ever changing checklist that she didn't have before we got married. And now 11 months after she left and got with another man I am realizing that the checklist was never about improving our marriage as I thought it was but to create a standard I could not meet in her required timeframe so she would feel better about abandoning me. She made me believe me our marriage "not working out" was all my fault for 4 months after she left until I found out she was with another man, …
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 09:40 PM
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