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| 0 | CMV: Most young guys struggle in dating because of the society and time we live in, not because of themselvesThere is a folk song that probably originates from the 17th century about an Irishman who decides to go to America after discovering his love has fallen for another, richer man, called "Courting Is A Pleasure." The lyrics that stick out to me the most and which is very relevant are these, in which he tells us not to be cowards and go for it: "Just kiss her and embrace her Till you cause her heart to yield; For a faint-hearted soldier Never gained the battlefield." A lot of us men are cowards whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 08:42 AM |
| 5 | College educated women, would you ever consider settling for a man without a college degreeThis really should be no surprise to anyone who knows their history and culture well. In every western civilization I have studied, and even in my own family going back centuries, it is very rare to see a woman end up marrying someone below their own social class, and for the most part they all partnered with people at or above their own class. It was also very rare to see women end up with someone much younger than them, but much more common to see a woman end up with a man older than them, som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Q for Women: Does it bother you, not bother you, or flatter you, or just not care if men check out your ass while you walk by? I mean if they do it discreetly, and you notice it, and not overtly ogle you like a mouth breather.Ok. I can work on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Q for Women: Does it bother you, not bother you, or flatter you, or just not care if men check out your ass while you walk by? I mean if they do it discreetly, and you notice it, and not overtly ogle you like a mouth breather.How long is long? For me, 5-10 seconds is long. I also do my best not to look to long because I know it is creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 05:03 PM |
| 0 | Q for Women: Does it bother you, not bother you, or flatter you, or just not care if men check out your ass while you walk by? I mean if they do it discreetly, and you notice it, and not overtly ogle you like a mouth breather.I can understand that, but as a man, when I look, and really look for a long time, I am not really thinking about sex, and much more about evaluating the possibility of a long-term relationship, and sometimes lamenting my cowardice and inability to easily approach people I find attractive and think might make a good girlfriend. Sometimes I'll catch myself looking because I am trying to work up the courage to approach the person. For further context I am nearly 27 and have never been on a date be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Should men still cold approach women?Also do it in public around other people and it will be less threatening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 12:16 AM |
| 9 | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?As a nearly 27 year old virgin who has never been on a date one thing that helps me persevere is my vast historical knowledge and deep knowledge of what war is truly like. I am going to warn you that the following is very dark so turn back now if you don't want to know. It might suck being a single dateless man but it will never suck as much as being a poor sucker stuck in the mud at Bakhmut, or wearing your friend's brains because his head was blown off in front of you (there is a memorable acc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 10:20 PM |
| 8 | The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right?As a 5 foot 6 man I basically CAN'T use dating apps. 96% of women statistically swipe left on someone my height and I suck at making dating profiles anyways so approach in real-life it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Why are men here so opposed with being the nice guy a woman means and ends up with later in life?Because he is a coward who can't actually muster up the courage to ask someone out. I don't care how hot you are, if you can't do this your going nowhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLDTell that to the guys that marry women nearly a foot taller then they are (my mom and dad and many others). Guess who's height I inherited (my mom is 4 foot 8 and my dad 5 foot 8 almost 9, I am 5 foot 6). Does not really bother me anymore however. It used to, until I realized I can't control my height so why cry over something I can't control. I can no more control my height than I can my skin color. It is what is it is and if a gal doesn't like it then they can GTFO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Women outnumbering Men in college.I'm going back..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women?See if you can get your hands on this book: How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love by Logan Ury. I am about halfway through it but so far it seems to be legit. It's written by a behavioral scientist, who studied psychology at Harvard. The science behind how people are attracted to each other is understood to some degree, and if you know it you can put it into practice to your advantage. Keep in mind, it isn't what a PUA would try to teach you. There is also The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 03:00 AM |
| 2 | What percentage of people ever find out their partners cheated?Only costs about $100 also, and with a bit of digging it can even expose infidelity CENTURIES back. Neither of my parents did the test, but my grandparents my father's side did, so did my aunt. On my mom's side only 1st and 2nd cousins did the test but it is enough to know with certainty who I am related to. Genetic testing will be and already is a very powerful tool for exposing dirty secrets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 12:13 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of people ever find out their partners cheated?These days it kind of requires being willfully ignorant. With all the social media, and the camera, etc., etc. The thing is, people are good at being that when they don't like what they see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in America.You misunderstood me. It's not muscle getting turned into fat, it's that "...cutting your calories too much can lead to a greater loss of muscle rather than fat." Things you eat when this happens are more likely to be turned into fat. Perhaps I failed to communicate that correctly, and in hindsight, I shouldn't be debating this in the middle of the night, I am not going to be writing things entirely clearly. https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/weight-loss-vs-fat-loss#focus-on-fat-loss There is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in America.It's not impossible, I know people who have done it - I don't know how I came across as saying it was impossible. Very hard, yes, but not impossible. If it was as easy as you say it is no one would be having problems with weight. Also, there are indeed wrong ways and right ways to lose weight. For example some diets out there end up losing people fat and muscle, which isn't good, because you only want to lose the fat, and some extreme diets even deprive people of essential nutrients, which is ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 09:42 AM |
| 3 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in America.If you read my comment carefully I do say I have done it before. I know what to do to lose weight. The problem is maintaining it longer than a few months - maintaining it permanently. I usually get to a point where I think I can let my guard down and eat whatever I want again every once in awhile, which later becomes more often, which then eventually becomes everyday and we get back to square (or rather round) one. Which usually happens around the holiday season. Also, one does not simply stop e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 08:48 AM |
| 13 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in America.I someone who is overweight but not yet obese (I think) I can tell you that it is not at all easy to lose weight (but I have done it before so I know what to do). Getting through college was easier for crying out loud. But I must do it because I have to fit back into my Union American Civil War uniform before Memorial Day. I am a reenactor and there is a reenactment then so I have a solid deadline.The worst part is that the moment you let your guard down you can gain it back rapidly, at least it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 10:45 PM |
| 10 | Q4ALL: Am I supposed to assume every nice thing a guy does for me is to get in my pants? It feels wrongIt may very well be that he just wanted sex, but some of us (men) are looking for a good long-term relationship, and it can be hard for us to find the line that shows we are looking for a long-term and not just a one night stand because the strategies for doing so can be similar. It's even harder if you were an idiot (like I was) during highschool and university and never really put in a serious effort to get in a relationship. I thought any sort of romantic relationship until you graduated from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?I can definitely say I had some major missteps in highschool and in college. Being addicted to video games (and I mean it) didn't help. At all. I literally basically woke up, went to school, came home, played games, slept, and repeat. There was one time when I played Skyrim for 3 days straight while my parents were away in my senior year (I was 18), only stopping to eat and use the bathroom, and I tell you what, missing experience with social interactions in high school makes things HARD. I have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?I heartily agree with you sir. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 12:19 AM |
| 9 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?I was straight up told by a girl I had a crush on in high school (who was really hot) that she would date me if I wasn't so "socially awkward" - her words. Some of that came from the fact that I was raised as a product of 2 or more cultures so I come across as different to people who were mostly raised in one culture. So personality does matter, and so does how you learned to interact with people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 12:17 AM |
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