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-4

That's the message they're sending, intentional or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:03 PM
-4

I live near a middle school. I see slutty 11 year olds all the time. Most of them aren't (thank God) but some are clearly developing at a rate faster than their peers and it's noticeable. Men notice this too. It's definitely not right for them to act on it, but they notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:02 PM
1

Nope. What's popular is not always right, in fact its often wrong. The red pill is like men saying people have twenty fingers because they're all drunks and seeing double, and that those who say humans have ten fingers are either conspirators or brainwashed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:59 PM
1

You don't have to be a saint, just be normal and not a sociopath. It's not that hard. Being nice shouldn't take effort. It can be as simple as leaving people alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:57 PM
0

If it's happening multiple times a day like some women here are saying, it clearly does.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:56 PM
-5

They do, just not always overtly. It can be how their bodies are showing, the way the walk, how they flip their hair, and any other myriad of little things women do that guys pick up on. The women may or may not realize that they're doing it, they might just think they're being feminine. I was a tomboy so, not feminine in looks or behavior. Now as an adult I'm pretty neutral, less masculine but definitely asexual in my looks. I think I've been hit on maybe three times in my adult life (by men an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:51 PM
0

I think you meant "consensus". A consensus is just an agreement between people who've gad the same experience. Their experiences are no more or less valid than women's. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:49 PM
1

Creepiness has nothing to do with looks, unless the guy is dressed inappropriately or unkept. Attraction has absolutely nothing to do with it either. Plenty of breath-takingly gorgeous guys are creepy. There's even a term for it, they're called "douchebags".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:35 PM
0

That's a human thing, not a woman thing. I and others have pointed this out several times now. The whole red-pill philosophy is based on solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:30 PM
1

If they met my other requirements (hygienic, not crazy, well-spoken, my preferred race) but were just generally ugly, I'd give them a chance. I can always find something cute about anyone, everyone has at least once nice feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:09 PM

No one is telling people how to feel. They're saying if you're an entitled cry-baby then you're not a good person, which is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:59 PM

No because that's being a doormat. Stoicism is different, it simply means "know when to fuck off".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:55 PM
-6

I don't give if "slut vibes" so never, not even when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:52 PM
0

And that's just as valid as men's experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:48 PM
7

That's literally what they say. How is it feminine logic when men constantly do the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:26 PM
1

Why not be a genuinely mature, honest, kind, decent person?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:20 PM
1

Creepy behavior is not subjective. It means being too forward, saying or doing inappropriate things, not following social cues and not respecting boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:16 PM
5

The men who say women do this behavior are in insufficient sample size too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:12 PM

Everyone is inferior. I don't think there has ever been a perfect person. Do you mean inferior to the ideal? To average?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:12 AM
0

All of those problems are caused by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:01 PM
23

Women don't go for these guys. These guys are like heat-seeking missiles that find the broken, low-self-esteem women that will accept them, just to have somebody in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:20 PM
1

You don't need to announce that you're not going to participate in the conversation. No one will miss your presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:05 PM
1

No one owes you understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:49 AM
1

So? Considering what's at stake, better safe than sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:31 PM
1

Or, you could think about it. That's an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:29 PM
1

Okay, well then you should know why women don't trust you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:51 PM
6

Meh...g-spot isn't that far back. You're fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:39 PM

I don't know what else you want. Ask the gay community (not on Reddit).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:25 PM
-1

Women do not expect men to give a shit about our problems. They wouldn't anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:24 PM
1

Virtually all problems women face with are directly caused by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:23 PM
0

Men are different. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:31 PM

You are assuming the women even know that they're sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:47 PM

I own some simple toys, nothing crazy. I own them because I want to, and I use them when I want to. It has nothing whatsoever to do with my partner. Human beings and sex toys are not analogous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:38 PM
3

Call it "fish sense" like how guys somehow instinctively know exactly where to cast their lure on a bass pond.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:32 PM
12

"Be friends first to build the relationship" and "Don't stay in the friend zone" are not mutually exclusive. No one here is lying or two-faced. You just don't seem to get how human relationships work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:26 PM
8

That's his problem, not hers, is what they're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:24 PM
0

It's been studied. Bi men end up with other men. Bi women usually end up with other women, though it's more even with women if they've already married a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:15 PM
0

Because it always does. Men with those tendencies always turn to other men. Worst is when they're in the closet about it. Too many horror stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:13 AM
1

Right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:10 AM
1

Yeah. If the other partner is a man it's gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:11 AM
1

Anuses are for pooping and farting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:47 AM
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It's a deal breaker to put it mildly. If he had gay tendencies they're going to win out. That's just how men work. The thought of it is horrifying to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:46 AM
1

That stuff is not the same as being gay or bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:46 AM
-1

It's a deal breaker to put it mildly. If he had gay tendencies they're going to win out. That's just how men work. The thought of it is horrifying to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 10:32 PM
-1

That's repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 10:30 PM
1

Poor baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:33 PM
1

Hush dude. I don't need advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:21 PM
2

I'm not going to explain the same thing over and over again for someone too dense to comprehend. That's not what debating is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:18 PM
2

I've spent enough time addressing point after point. You keep saying women are inferior and men need to be dominant. I can only explain why that's stupid so many times. Right now I'm doubting that you're serious because your comments are like a stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:19 AM
2

No. Deflection has nothing to do with this conversation. You're repeating red-pilled talking points and it's predictable. I don't think you're here in good faith. Prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:39 AM
2

I can't tell if you've been red-pilled trolling or are just terminally online. Take a break. Go talk to people IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:49 PM
1

I don't think either spouse NEEDS to do anything for the other. People stay together because they love each other. If love drains your energy, stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:45 PM
1

No. That's not what I said. Marriage is for family. You don't have to be married to not be single. I'm child-free personally but I think if people are going to have kids, they need to do the best for them. It affects all of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:23 PM
1

Earnings have nothing to do with anything. Just because your partner earns more money at their job doesn't make them out-rank you or whatever. These days both spouses ear equal and often the wide earns more than the husband. That's quite common, in my generation at least. Grown women also don't need men to take care of them emotionally or mentally. That's a laugh! It's more like the reverse. Women have to be all things to everyone in their lives. Men think that bringing home a paycheck is enough…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:18 PM
1

Virtually all men are like that, not 10%. I'd say 98%.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:12 PM
1

Well I'm not just talking about relationships. I'm talking about life in general. Women work harder and perform better. I have to hire (and fire) based on merit. I don't know what labor you're expecting from your SO in a relationship. Like I said, women are already working outside the home AND doing most of the child care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:48 PM
1

Unless there are kids there's no point to any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:02 PM
1

I'm talking about long-term compatibility. People don't think about whether or not they can get along when they get married. I think if quitting weren't an option, people would more carefully consider who they're marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:07 PM
1

Women show up to work, sober, doing lower-paying drudge work. Women take care of their homes and children while their husbands sit around doing nothing, assuming that they're even present. Women vote more than men. Women are holding the weight of civilization on their backs at the moment. I'm a recruiter at my job and we almost never hire American men anymore because they all have entitlement issues. We hire almost exclusively women and immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:02 PM
2

Men overestimate their worth. And that doesn't go for marriage but school and work too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:18 PM
1

I understand, I've heard it all before. It's wrong though. And again, we're talking about men right now. "But women...!" isn't an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:17 PM
0

I'm just advocating monogamy, no divorce if the couple has children, and no children outside of marriage. Then people might be inclined to think before they fuck, and to marry based on compatibility rather than infatuation. I don't think that's asking much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:15 PM
1

Women are the only ones taking things seriously. Men just do the bare minimum and expect the maximum reward, be it in relationships, school or work. You can't expect women to keep dead weight around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:13 PM
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Most men are takers, not simps. They do the bare minimum and expect the maximum reward, be it in relationships, school or work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:09 PM
1

Doesn't bother me. Some people are loners. My grandmother was and I think it runs in our family.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:38 AM
1

Like I said, you don't understand why it's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:38 AM
1

I'm alone but not lonely. And I'm not particularly afraid of death either. Most old people die alone anyway. It's rare for married couples to die together. It almost never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:35 AM
3

I'm not lashing out. You clearly don't respect people if you rate them and call them ugly. Maybe you don't understand what respect even means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:30 AM
3

Not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:29 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:28 AM
2

Nope. Just an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:54 AM
1

It's better to be realistic and face the truth. This isn't about being bitter. It's just how things are. Ugly men want attention from attractive women and they don't even look at ugly, unfeminine women. They want to fuck just like Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:54 AM
0

Incorrect. The ugly ones just want to play too. All men are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:54 AM
1

Of course there are. But this guy isn't one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:51 AM
1

No. I'm saying what women do does not matter here. Other people acting shitty isn't an excuse for you to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:05 AM
0

No men treat women with respect because they don't respect women. Never have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:15 PM
3

Women shouldn't have to do what men want them to do. Marriage is for the benefit of children, not men. And women already have a disproportionate work load in marriage as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:14 PM
2

Sure they can. They can afford their $400 video game consoles snd their weed habits. They just don't want to grow up and put others first.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:13 PM
2

That's not how life works I'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:12 PM
-5

It doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:47 PM

If you rate people like cuts of meat and go into the relationship with zero trust or respect, then you don't deserve one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:08 PM
2

Chad doesn't want to commit. Average men don't want to commit. Ugly men don't want to commit. Marriage and family is actually hard work and all the boys want to do is play. Of all the people in my generation and adjacent generations, I know a total of 2 that aren't single or divorced yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:34 PM
-11

Men don't want to commit, period. They just want their instant gratification. Doesn't matter what the woman does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:09 PM
1

We never had suitors who were serious. I didn't, at least. ALL men these days just want to be fuck-boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:08 PM
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My plan is to die an old woman in my cabin in the woods. Society can go to hell for all I care. It deserves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:06 PM

You don't need to date as a minor. In fact it's smarter if you don't. You missed out on teen pregnancy, STDs, all the drama, loss of friends, and the heart-break.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:03 PM
2

Well these guys need to get over it. It's stupid to have hang-ups like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:38 PM
1

I'm talking about the stocky guys, and to a lesser extent gals, who say that. Not body builders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:29 PM
1

Found the gen-Z'er.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:10 PM
2

It's not important it's just private. It's one of those things that's only a big deal if you make it one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:08 PM

You have no idea what my education is. And just because something is on the internet doesn't mean it's credible. You can get a doctorate in dog grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:05 PM
1

I'm talking about the working poor specifically. You're talking about poor blacks in urban America, which are a small minority with a unique set of problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:04 PM
0

Aw, rejection hurts doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:45 AM
1

Yeah, I did. It wasn't the answer you were looking for, but it was an answer. No amount of harassment will get you any other answer. Your post and all your comments are creepy and gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:28 AM
2

I already engaged it, gave you an answer and it wasn't good enough for you apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:04 AM
1

What is the point of asking this in the first place? It's like something a fourth grade boy would ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:47 AM
2

It's called emotional blackmail in the relationship world. A cardinal sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:45 AM
1

Yep. Big butts are wrecking balls of fat. One time I knocked a little kid over with mine when I turned around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:44 AM
2

I don't know if video games are the cause or the effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:37 AM
0

Poor people have the most kids and the most stable relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:35 AM
2

Last paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:03 AM
2

It seems like you want women to pick a specific option. What is even the point of making a dumb post like this? You get off on it or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:00 AM
2

BMI absolutely works for women, unless they're pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:41 PM
1

Bum and boobs are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:40 PM
2

You probably did look fat, you just didn't realize it. BMI is accurate for everyone except body builders and pregnant women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:40 PM
2

Men who say they're over their BMI because of muscles are lying to themselves. They just fat, LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:39 PM
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It sounds like your behavior is the real problem, not theirs. Don't fucking blackmail your girlfriends, sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:31 PM
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I've never been asked about it, ever. I don't think it's a real issue for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:29 PM
2

Well yeah, we are going to say "neither", because we are straight. If someone were to put a gun to my head and force me to make out with either of those choices then it wouldn't really matter either way would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:26 PM
2

You treated one group completely different from the other from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:24 PM
2

That stereotype is so odd. Whenever I've had conversations with Aussies IRL, they've gotten quite triggered. I actually had two guys run away from me after calling me a Nazi for saying that the Geneva Convention needs to be changed in regards to what refugees we let in. IDK, maybe Australians aren't partial to politics. Us Americans are obsessed with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:20 PM

They use all sorts of manipulation tactics though. They also go after weak women who they know won't say know, and leave them broken in the end. If the topic was women doing this to low self-esteem guys you all would be raging in these comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:15 PM

We've gone over this in another post. People can consent to being used. Doesn't make it okay. You're just making excuses for the users.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:13 PM
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It is not, because men and women have different feelings about sex and the intimacy affects them differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:06 PM
2

You can't even get a consensus about this among two people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:05 PM
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There are no objective leagues. Period. Attraction varies from culture to culture, country to country, race to race, year to year and person to person. There's a million other factors by which it varies too. People like you in this sub just like to try and simplify things and put them into categories by rank. Maybe that's autism speaking, IDK. It's not how real things work in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:29 PM
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Among who?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:49 AM
2

Wrong according to what? Studies? It's common sense that attraction varies by the individual. Believe it or not lots of people hate chocolate and love fermented fish as a dessert. There is no objective scale for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:15 AM
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Beyond looking somewhat human and either male or female, standards of attractive are totally subjective. If they weren't then we'd all be identical, like animals generally are. Those studies are for entertainment value. Before the internet we read them in Playboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:48 AM
1

As a woman who has worked an array of dangerous, dirty, blue-collar jobs I can say your statement is nonsense. It's mostly immigrants and women doing the worst jobs. Men are virtually the only ones doing the higher paying more technical jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:20 PM
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Polygamous societies are not stable or prosperous. People are happiest being mostly monogamous. Children benefit most from having a mommy and daddy who are married. Conservativism really is progressive if you think about it. Conservative monogamous cultures are the only ones to ever put men on the moon, split the atom, map the oceans, or invent computing technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:13 PM
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People consent to being used, exploited, and abused all the time. Consent isn't and excuse to do something unkind to someone. I mean, just look up the story of the German man who consented to having his penis cut off, cooked and eaten by his lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:51 PM
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Nah, there's no such thing as "leagues". Attractiveness is subjective. Just don't get with people who don't value and respect you, and who you don't share a mutual attraction with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:50 PM
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LOL what has he accomplished?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:53 PM
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LOL I don't have $17,000. It would take half my life to save that. And I don't want fucking government housing dude. Are you not listening? Okay. You're not listening. Nowhere have I stated that my life specifically is unfair, nor am I asking for advice. Nor do I need your attitude and insults. This conversation is now over.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:08 PM
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Nah, that's backwards. Men love things, women love people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:17 PM
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Okay, now I can tell you've never bought anything in your life. You can't buy land, a house, even a car without credit. Unless you're a millionaire and pay in cash. Once you have gotten permission from the credit agency to get your land, you have to pay property taxes to the government in order to have permission to stay there. If you don't they can come and kill you. We're all slaves and prisoners no matter what we do. You may be fine with it but not everyone else is. My ancestors fought a whol…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:07 PM
1

Exactly. You have to figure out how to make-do without and carry on with life much of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:59 PM
1

I think it's better to not expect anything from other people and to not feel entitled to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:41 PM
1

Ah I see. That's more like the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:40 PM
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I'm not sure off hand but bushcraft people have calculated it. All your waking hours are spent procuring food and doing chores. It's not a lifestyle for someone who plays video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:39 PM
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I'm not trying to take anything of yours. Where did you get that idea? I said I want to be independent. That means I eat what I kill/grow and it has nothing to do with you or other humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:37 PM
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If you don't pay your property taxes, mortage, or whatever, they take your land. You need permission to "own" it. I shouldn't need to get a job to exist. I should be able to live in the wilderness and be self-sufficient. But that's illegal/expensive. You're missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:00 PM
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It also requires a lot of money, licensing, land-use rights, etc. That requires permission from other people. It shouldn't be that way. I shouldn't need permission from others in order to simply live.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:05 AM
1

We want those things but we don't deserve them, except perhaps from our parents. Beyond that we deserve nothing from other people. No one has inherent worth either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:03 AM
2

Nope, we're not even deserving of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:49 AM
1

We used to have this. It was called Boy Scouts. It went gay and ruined the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:45 AM
2

Women can get along fine without intimacy from a sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:32 AM
2

Is that a thing? It definitely wasn't my college experience. I hardly had time to sleep and eat let alone have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:22 AM
1

I for one will be single and not sleeping around. Western men are not worth it. Foreign men are not worth it. Women don't have to lower their standards or settle for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:11 AM
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We should be allowed to grow our own food and hunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:04 AM
1

He's conservative how? He's a pimp and brags about being a criminal. I don't think politics are his thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:36 AM
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His followers are wannabe playboys. Right-wing means traditional, chaste, family-focused, usually Christian, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:07 PM
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Oh hell no. People like Tate are degenerates, not trad. He's the opposite of trad actually. I've never heard a single right-wing person say anything good about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:03 PM
1

That actually happens. We're not as flexible as when we were young.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:00 PM
1

No one is lying. Lying involves conscious deceit. People are not conscious of what regions of their brains are lighting up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:59 PM
5

These women are suckers, settling for used and spoiled goods. I'd rather stay single that marry one of those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:22 AM
2

Most eventually do when they hit that midlife crisis. Entually they miss their mommies, tire if how hard single life is, realize that they're losing their youth and can't compete with other men, and so they settle down with some insecure woman who they treat like a goddess (by comparison to how they treat their quick fucks).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:13 PM
2

Women looking for a hookup don't care if the guy is a decent person. They don't respect these dudes nor care if they respect them. You're never going to see a PUA use these tactics on a girl that they're looking to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:34 PM
2

They probably got burned out on that activity or don't want to be reminded of their past relationship. Exes can be so horrible that they ruin certain things for you. Also our bodies change and we can't easily do some things like when we were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:27 PM
2

Physically it's meaningless, is what I meant. There's no way to physically verify virginity. You can always just lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:25 PM
1

Virginity is meaningless in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:15 PM
-1

Maybe if men would keep it i their pants, instead of complaining about whores and loose women, this problem wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:24 PM
1

Are people conscious of what areas of their brains are lighting up? You guys are saying that women are lying. That's simply not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:22 PM
1

I didn't. That was the other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:19 PM
-1

Not all. That's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:20 AM
0

Nope. Fat lazy men are not good boyfriends. They're not good for anything. Neither are weak shrimpy men. You don't have to be a body-builder. Just be fit, otherwise you won't have a good quality of life in terms of health.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:18 AM
1

Typical foid response to what? You just said you liked twinks. Do what makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:10 AM
0

That saying is not fitting in this context. Do you even know what it means?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:09 AM
8

We're not talking about obesity. You just said fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:58 AM

Hey you do you. Or him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:57 AM
1

Men need to hit the gym to get ANY woman. The sexes are physically different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:53 AM
1

Women need fat in order to be fertile. Men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:51 AM
-4

Men are naturally strong, unless they are lazy gluttons. Nobody is naturally a chaste house maid and nanny. That's an actual job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:50 AM
-3

Demanding a virgin is a lot less reasonable than demanding a partner who's not a lazy fat-ass. To start with, one has real physical health consequences and the other does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:47 AM
0

Blood flow to genitalia doesn't equal arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:35 PM
0

If you actually think you can hook a woman up to a computer and measure how aroused she is, you're a fool. And dating subs wouldn't be necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:35 PM
-1

You can't really detect when someone is lying about feelings, nor is there a device that measures arousal. These studies were made up for TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:15 PM
-1

There is no such thing as a device that measures arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:14 PM
-1

I don't see a lot of dumb men with high value partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:10 PM
3

This may come as a surprise to some of you, but attractive people can be intelligent too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:09 PM
1

Why? You like being miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:07 PM
1

You've never been around traditional cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:07 PM
4

Neither of them are trad at all. Not remotely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:31 PM

Traditional women are nagging bitches. Traditional men are cheating dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:30 PM
1

Are you a bot or something? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:24 AM
1

It hasn't before 2023
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:17 AM
1

Fuck yeah! 🤜
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:41 AM
1

I'm saying it isn't real because it's a staged situation like that TV show. She doesn't really think these men are creeps ad it's all to get a reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:41 AM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:46 AM
1

I like my life. I don't remember what the original point of this conversation was but I just wanted to make it clear that women can be invisible too. I would like to add that that doesn't make a person a victim nor does it mean their life will automatically suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:16 AM
1

That's a video on the internet, therefore it's real s/ Yo it's already April. Why are they still here? Fly away please!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:13 AM
1

I think it's because I have an unfeminine body shape and an assertive personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:49 AM
1

Have you ever seen a show called "Candid Camera"? They stage situations in public and film people's reactions. They're fake scenarios. That's the entertainment of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:23 AM
1

Those got taken down. They were nothing but roleplay. It was obvious by the language they used and copies of posts by male incels. Women who aren't dating or can't date, don't take to the internet to whine about it. They deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:37 AM
1

No. 🤦‍♀️ Fuck's sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:35 AM
1

No one us entitled to be welcome anywhere necessarily,.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:02 AM
0

Or an unwitting bystander.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:01 AM
1

What you're saying is clueless and inaccurate. It has nothing to do with standards. Men show no interest in me. I can't force them to. What's so difficult to understand about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:00 AM
1

The ones I don't find cute don't approach me either. Like I said, no one ever does. And it's not my job to approach every man I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:21 AM
1

This conversation was about getting attention from women just for existing. You're not entitled to that. Nor are you entitled to walk into any neighborhood and be welcome there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:19 AM
2

All sorts of men. Oddly it was the nerdy fat ones (who I find cute) who have been the most hostile. The male sex doesn't like my looks. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:04 AM
1

No, it's just realistic. None of us are entitled to attention, let alone sex and love from other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:02 AM
3

I'm fine with being celibate. Relationships and sex are completely pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:59 PM
2

TikTok is scripted/staged.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:57 PM
3

I've put in effort to glow up, to make friends in the music scene, I've tried approaching dudes, I've even tried OLD. Squat! It's not a problem for me anymore because I've given up. I go to work, I take care of my home and I do my hobbies. Anyone can live like me and be happy, it just takes practice and most people are too scared of being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:56 PM
4

I couldn't care less about never having kids because it's never been on the able for me. I am invisible to men. Boys never liked me. And my life is quiet, peaceful, and enjoyable. Know why? Because I made it that way. Why focus on something you can't have and isn't worth the trouble and stress anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:12 PM
2

I'm talking about their sex work. People compartmentalize things in life. I'm still not sure what is meant by "they need to pull their heads out if their butts". Like, why? What they're doing is working for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:26 PM
0

He's not going to win any friends there. They don't owe him that, or even the time of day. That's more the point I'm making.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:23 PM
3

Explain Napoleon then. Hitler was 5'6". Almost nobody gets to be an alpha. Most don't have the will or charisma. But you don't have to be a beta either. You can just be a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:00 PM
2

Anyone can start or stop being a beta at any moment. All it takes is an attitude adjustment. I'm not saying either sluts or betas NEED to change. I'm just saying they can. Anyone can change if they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:48 PM
3

You could try apologizing. I've found that actually throws a lot of people off guard and they might be willing to talk to you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:47 PM
1

It's the male equivalent. It's a shameful individual with no self-respect who will just take any sort of treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:46 PM
3

Those women are there to make money dude. You think they care about anything else? Half of 'em are married. I'm telling all guys who can't control themselves to stay celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:44 PM
2

Because betas get treated like betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:38 PM
2

It's not misandry kiddo, it's called socializing. If you offend someone, you did something wrong. You can't expect people to react they way you want them to all the time. Take it as a learning experience or just leave that individual alone from then on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:37 PM
-1

It's predicable because it's accurate. "Misandrist" means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:33 PM
1

I think they should. And then child support from the biological father should not be optional under any circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:47 PM
-1

I think single parenthood speaks of poor decision-making. Unless the other parent died.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:45 PM
1

I'm not particularly skinny. Right now I'm 155 at 5'4". I have been skinny and also more overweight in the past and am roughly the same rectangular shape no matter what weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:08 PM
2

Asking isn't complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:06 PM
-11

No woman has ever said "Why don't men ask me out?" Why do women need to "pull their heads out of their asses"? We want you to leave is alone, online and in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:01 PM
0

Yeah, that's bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:57 PM
2

Why not be celibate instead of going through all this? Such men are nothing but dead weight to any woman, regardless of where she's from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:57 PM
2

Easy access to sex is not enriching to women. It's exactly the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:38 PM
1

How do you know she's not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:33 PM
6

Why do you have to give these bull shitters attention? Are you that dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:32 PM
9

Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:29 PM
18

Men are no different. They'll treat Becky like a disposable cum rag and Stacy like queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:28 PM
1

Hopping from one failed relationship to the next is not a good thing. Attractive intelligent women never have that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:24 PM
0

No woman in history has ever complained about NOT being approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:17 PM
2

I've never met a dating partner through a hobby. It's always been at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:08 PM
-1

If he's making her uncomfortable, he's doing something wrong, regardless of whether he means to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:03 PM
1

We can tell as soon as they attempt to make eye contact or say something idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:00 PM
-16

Good looking guys are creepy too. Women don't like men coming at them out if nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:53 PM
-4

Some staged TikTok rage bait thing that gullible idiots think is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:51 PM
0

That was staged.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:50 PM
1

I've spent most of my life being invisible to men. Even those beasts you speak of have hips and boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:40 PM
8

Boobs are breast tissue and fat. Hips are bone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:00 AM
1

What if you don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:36 AM
0

What about hip : waist ratio? It seems like girls with no hips are invisible to men and there was a thing on the Discovery channel about it long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:36 AM
11

Nothing short of surgery gives someone a figure if they don't have one. Contrary to what fitness influencers say you can't get rid of hip dips either (which is a stupid notion anyway because almost everyone has them)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:30 AM
12

So a child that's born either has to starve or go in welfare, so that the man who made it gets to keep his money. Wonderful. I'm sure taxpayers will be on board.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:26 AM
1

Life on Earth is constant judgement and danger for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:14 PM
1

Incorrect. You live online.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:51 PM
1

Women get judged for how many kids they have, for not having kids, for the make up they wear, for not wearing make up, for being too fat, for being too fit, for being ugly, for being plain, for being too pretty, for having careers, for being homemakers, etc. etc. it never ends. You obviously don't pay attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:17 PM
1

Men who ask permission from women to do, say or think are not men. Correct. Quit being such a victim. And that's not even what I'm talking about. I'm talking about how women are judged for everything in life no matter what. Female subs discuss this a lot. The generally agreed upon consensus is to just do what you want and fuck the haters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:34 PM
1

The physical means absolutely nothing and neither does money. These guys are not faithful, not loving, immature...and rejected by actual decent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:31 PM
1

If you're living together and raising a child you're virtually married anyway. In some places you'd be common-law married. Might as well get those tax benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:29 PM
0

Women are held to impossible standards. With just about every life choice you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. And women get judged for men's behavior too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:41 PM
-1

Decent men don't get with single mothers. Those guys are bottom-feeding bums, predators at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:36 PM
2

Decent men are not getting with women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:31 PM
1

Children need the stability of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:10 PM
1

You youngsters are funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:48 PM
2

It's the 21st century. We can get our own resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:40 PM
4

It's funny how men have concern for the abuse and exploitation of sex workers but not enough concern to stop supporting the industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:15 PM
0

That behavior is hedonistic and juvenile. I have never respected the types of people who go wild on spring break for example. I think it's unintelligent and trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:14 PM
3

You must be French LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:34 PM
2

I think 30 and older aren't doing it as much. They've either gotten married or are single and not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:10 PM
4

They live in a culture where promiscuity is the norm. They do it to fit in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:03 PM
4

Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:53 PM
-4

Your type thinks women are stupid or something. Women know full well when men want to be with them. Most likely these dudes were lousy at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:38 PM
3

That's a front they put on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:32 PM
1

She sounds like a piece of shit. Probably a psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:29 PM
5

Men have casual sex with women they know have feelings for them. Lotta these guys have harems of such women at the beckoned call. They see absolutely nothing wrong with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:26 PM
3

Treat others with respect regardless of how society treats you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:06 PM
1

No, I said pertinent information that affects the now. Can't you tell the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:12 PM
1

Previous cheating is none of my business. Criminal status is pertinent information which I already addressed. Anything that affects the relationship directly (having a child, STD's, being in the middle of a divorce, etc.) is my business. Ancient history is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:04 PM
1

Third parties are full of shit. And obviously if your partner tells you something that's fine. But if they don't, you have no business snooping to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:57 PM
1

Just because you want to know something really badly doesn't make it your business. The only past you should know about your partner is what they tell you, and if you snoop, they're well within their rights to dump you. It's called respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:56 PM
1

I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:52 PM
1

If they said no and you keep trying then you are doing something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:27 PM
1

How would you know if they did?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:23 PM
1

That's the point of the saying. You're acting like women are doing something wrong by putting out for man "A" instead of man "B".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:20 PM
1

If he hadn't earned it prior then I wouldn't have gone on the first date. I'm saying it's sleazy to snoop in his phone, ask friends for juicy gossip about them, talk to his ex's etc. That sort of stuff. I'm not saying I'm cool with liars. Most people are honest if you just ask reasonable questions. I don't need or want details from past relationships. I only need to know things that will affect the relationship directly, such as if he has children or is in the middle of a divorce. The rest is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:14 PM
1

All is fair in love and war. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:02 PM
1

I don't know what the laws are where you live but all of that is illegal where I do. Only thing anyone can check is credit history and felonies and they have to get signed consent for that. Yes, I do expect my partner to trust me blindly unless I give them a reason not to. Why would you get with someone who thinks you're a crappy person? Invading your partner's privacy is controlling and abusive, and unfortunately common these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:59 PM
1

I disagree. I think it's invasive. It's also really shitty to assume your partner is lying by default. I wouldn't want a partner like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:44 PM
0

How would I know about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:34 PM
1

Past behavior is not a predictor of anything because you seldom have all the information or accurate information.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:56 PM
-1

If he doesn't listen to my words and is that insecure, then he can go away. I encourage all women to stand up for themselves and not be pushed around or have their privacy violated. Also respect dude's privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:35 PM
-1

It's really not reasonable. What your partner did before you is none of your business. It's their life and you don't own them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:28 PM
1

Are you sure about that? Men's T starts dropping in their 30's and penises stop working on their own about age 50. By that time the couple has already had their children and now get to relax and enjoy each other's company. That's how normal healthy people do marriage, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:27 PM
1

What's the third option?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:09 PM
6

Nobody wants to get used as a practice girlfriend. I've watched men that I "helped" find their true loves ride off into the sunset and it's absolutely the cruellest most shittiest thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:06 PM
5

I think people are happiest single. Relationships are only happy in the honeymoon phase. The rest is constant self-sacrifice and drudgery. If you can learn to be content alone much of the time, foster a few friendships, keep busy with something that you enjoy, and have the simple companionship of a dog or a cat, then you're already doing better than most partnered people. Personally, I am not like the three examples you listed. Those women still have men in their lives. I'm actually happier with…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:59 PM
7

If you want to procreate then you'd better get married. Marriage is for children, not your dick. Just have girlfriends is all you care about is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:50 PM
2

Because men get old and fat too. Ideally couples age together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:47 PM
4

This old thing again. No one expects you to be six feet with a chiseled face. And LOTS of men love chubby women. There's no such thing as beauty standards. Just trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:44 PM
4

Red-pillers are obsessed with the idea because they feel cheated, oppressed, snd entitled to sex. This way they can shift their entitlement onto the woman. "If she did that one thing with the other guy she has to do it with me". This sort of thing is why everyone should mind their own business and not disclose details of past relationships, in my opinion. The reality is that every sexual encounter is different. Every relationship is different. And people change over time. No woman has a scale of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:35 PM
0

Not all adults are young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:21 PM
6

Oh yeah. It's threatening in the extreme. Men are dangerous. Not all men. Very few men in fact. But we have no way of knowing which ones are and which ones aren't, or what they're capable of. I couldn't care less about what they think about my flaws honestly. And I do appreciate it when they are discreet. I still notice them looking even if it's outside my field of vision, even if it's only for a split second. But at least those guys are showing respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:04 AM
1

I follow a couple female relationship gurus and I don't even date. It's helpful to gain perspective when you're moving on from a heartbreak.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:33 AM
6

I don't like it. It's creepy and feels threatening. I'd rather men in public or in the workplace not even notice that I'm female. Too many crazies in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:28 AM
6

Good on you for recognizing that and growing from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:39 PM
3

The outside world isn't kind to anyone, never has been, and never will be. My family doesn't value that superficial crap. We don't need validation from the world. Our mental health is better than average for it. That's the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:33 PM
-1

You think your exes would take back a cheater, user, and a liar? Don't kid yourself. I have an ex just like you (in the "genetics" department) and I wouldn't even piss on him is he was on fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:26 PM
4

Oh honey, we have NUMEROUS terms for girls who partake in that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:22 PM
5

I've had dates tell me how lonely they are, then proceed to invite me home for a hook-up. Like, dude, you just blew it. Let him be lonely forever for all I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:19 PM
4

I honestly lack respect for me who are just trying to "get laid", whether they find success or not I don't think it's an improvement. I think it's disrespectful of women, love, relationships, and themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:18 PM
7

It's not worth the pain and sacrifice. I regret every relationship I've had and am making up for lost time now. My female friends who are divorced echo this sentiment, especially the older ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:56 PM
3

Sounds like you had a toxic mother. That's absolutely not the norm though. Mothers care about their sons and want to see them successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:46 PM
3

I would raise my kids to not be superficial, to respect people but to not respect superficiality and materialism. There are plenty of people out there who aren't like that. For us the dating market is fine, from my observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:45 PM
2

Politics aren't a deal-breaker for me, but it has been for men I've dated. They've all tried to browbeat me over it and when I stood fast, they hated me for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:16 AM
1

Speaking as someone who roughly fits this description, I'm active, child-free, and have some conservative beliefs. Most conservative men want kids and it's a deal-breaker. Most child-free men are liberal and it's a deal-breaker. And most men in my age group don't want monogamy, and that's a deal-breaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:30 AM
1

Who thinks women get over relationships faster? That's absolutely the opposite of the truth. Men are already looking before the break up is even final.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:53 PM
1

That's not what I said at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:23 AM
1

I know you think you can have your cake and eat it too. You're never going to give up casual sex .
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:39 AM
1

Cool. Treat women the same as children, as in don't have sex with us. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:10 AM
1

Women are not responsible for what men do. How many times do I need to repeat this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:09 AM
2

Men are responsible for their part in it. Women are not "gate keepers". Women don't get into these situations by themselves. Men put them there, therefore it's hypothetical for men to judge them. That's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:49 AM
0

And if men don't want sex, women can't gave it. Women do not control access to sex and it's not up to women to put condoms on men. What are we, your mommies?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:18 PM
1

Each Roman who stabbed Caesar is as guilty as the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:13 PM
1

That's not what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:43 PM
1

He's just as responsible as she is for having casual sex. The number is irrelevant. It's always a risk, every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:43 PM
0

Men are the ones who choose to nut. 🤷‍♀️ It's not up to women to control men's behavior. Sex is 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:41 PM
1

The simple solution is that if men don't respect women who do those things, they should stop doing those things with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:39 PM
6

Nope. That's not what I said at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:25 AM
0

Irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:19 AM
2

I have no idea what you just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:10 AM
5

I'm saying men have an equal share in it, if not more, because they're usually the ones to initiate it. It's a little hypocritical to have standards when you're the one doing the ruining.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:09 AM
4

Nobody is talking about rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:07 AM
0

It goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:05 AM
9

Men make women hos, baby mommas, non-virgins, etc. women don't become these things by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:27 AM
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Generally speaking, "who they are" sucks and all they have to offer is money and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:07 AM
6

Men cause all of these issues except the fat one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:03 AM
1

All that shows is you generally suck at forming and keeping relationships. Has nothing to do with "the modern world" or anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:58 AM
1

You may be replying to the wrong comment, I have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:53 AM
1

The fact that you OLD and you think a 2 year relationship is a long one kind of proves what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:15 AM
1

They're not even talking the study in context.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:10 AM
2

Why are there so many 6ft+ guys who can't get women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:14 AM
1

There is no objective scale of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:13 AM
4

I used to have an app that constantly sent job offers, all day and all night. I had thousands of offers in my mailbox over the course of a week. I applied for 80 jobs, then stopped and deleted the app. I wasn't getting any call-backs. I was wasting my time. Tinder sounds like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:12 AM
0

Whining and lamenting doesn't help it get easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:07 AM
1

You're 100% entitled to be negative and judgemental of people. I'm just saying nobody finds that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:36 AM
1

You look at others and think "dog shit". I guarantee they can see the expression on your face, and it's an unattractive one. Nobody likes a judgemental ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:23 PM
17

Estrogen does not create a flat stomach with zero fat. Quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:16 PM
0

You can't even understand a simple question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:31 PM
1

The point is, he will never have kids with them. He will never have a meaningful relationship or build a life with anything. They're just wasting time. He is losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:30 PM
1

You seem very coherent, thoughtful and able to express yourself. I've definitely seen worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:28 PM
0

They're heavy but they've got great legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:26 PM
1

I'm sure women feel that way looking at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:22 PM
9

That's not possible without surgery. Fat naturally goes everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:20 PM
2

Anyone can do it. Just like anything in life socializing is trial and error.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:04 PM
1

"Least desirable". How many children is Tate having with these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:58 PM
1

"Educated groups" change what they say constantly with new data. That's how academia works. You're misrepresenting the study also.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:54 PM
0

That's only a small part of the population. What about the rest?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:52 PM
1

Other age groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:49 PM
1

I don't care what Stanford says. Or OkCupid. They're only studying OLD so of course the results are going to be from that. That's not real life though. That's like studying human behavior based off a video game. The study only counts the people who use it. Your studying people's use of a product. Make sense now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:49 PM
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Plenty of posts have been made showing it's not. Almost no women are using it and most marriages are made the traditional way. The internet is not real life. The fact that you think it is, is weird. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:40 PM
-1

What about the rest?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:38 PM
1

Not on fucking Tinder. That's a hook-up site. I'm sorry you can't separate real life from the internet but most people can, and do. OLD is bullshit and everyone finds that out eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:07 AM
0

It is not the same in real life. Or even normal social media. This sub wouldn't know real life it it fell on their heads!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:36 AM
-1

Those are also trashy hook-up sites designed for swiping on people based on a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:32 AM
1

You mean gen Z? Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:32 AM
1

They don't marry them though. They marry women their own age and have affairs with young girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:29 AM
2

"Make the cut" in what way? Think I'd want to marry an old man when I was in my teens? I was young, stupid, and didn't know what I wanted, like most girls that age. These men prey on that. They were married to women their own age and it's not like they were going to leave them for me. They just want a young little mistress. Why is that so hard to fathom?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:28 AM
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They're not my peers or my equals. I am not a casual-sex haver. Like I said, it's just people-watching for me. I have no ill will or judgment towards them as human beings, just some of the batshit things they do, say, and put in their bios. I'm sure someone would look at mine and think I'm the freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:19 AM
2

What kind of source would there be? It's a common thing parents warn their daughters about. It's happened to me. I've seen it happen to plenty of other girls. And the men who do it are not exactly secretive about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:02 AM
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No, I just don't like people being hurt. Does it not register with you that adults can be manipulated and used? I think you just want to excuse this despicable behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:01 AM
-1

There are always going to be cheaters. You realize that they are a small minority right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:26 AM
2

That's a Reddit post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:25 AM
1

I never claimed to be a feminist. Young people have less agency than old people, point blank, period. Imagine if it was drugs and not sexual abuse. Anyone can say "no" rather than buy drugs and become addicted, but does that make the dealer any less evil? What about the collateral damage? After the girl is all used up and he moves on to his next prey, she may be broken hearted and that affects her loved ones too. She may have even missed her chance to be a mother. Not to mention some young guy m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:20 AM
2

What else do you call manipulating a naive person into an affair with someone who doesn't even love them? Young people don't always make sound choices. It's up to older people to not intentionally lead them astray. These men are selfishly, willfully ruining these young women's lives. They're sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:58 PM
2

The issue is their mental maturity. 18-22 year olds are not on the same level as some old guy. He's taking advantage of their naivety and wasting their time. He just wants sex and ownership over their youth and beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:35 PM
0

Tell that to the guy I was replying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:19 PM
3

How they look is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:03 PM
-2

These old men are NOT marrying the young girls. Most of them have wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:01 PM
7

Women are telling you what they want and don't want. You're refusing to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:38 PM
-5

Because that doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:30 PM
1

The point is most women get AT LEAST that sort of attention, while others get none at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:17 PM
0

Sounds like the company is wasting a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:04 PM
1

Oh I'm aware of my surroundings. Mostly I get those looks from lesbians for some reason. From men it's mostly dirty looks, or they look right through me. And men are anything but shy, if the attention other women and girls get (whether they want it or not) is anything to go by.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:02 PM
-2

Not from ANY men. Actually I take that back. A crazy drug head tried to chase me in my car the other day. He kept shouting some woman's name. Apparently not even tweakers are interested in me unless they think I'm somebody else LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:19 PM
1

You really think that successful people didn't have it rough growing up? You're choosing to hold onto it and that's no one's fault but your's.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:15 PM
-5

That's not happening with OP. Speaking for myself it's not happening with me either. Outside my door is a cold empty void. Some people simply don't get attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:12 PM
0

What happened in our teens is irrelevant to today. We're grown-ups now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:10 PM
-1

Well they're wrong. This is Reddit, land of opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:09 PM
-1

Ever think that maybe those girls don't match with anybody and they're just on there for entertainment? I have Tinder just to look at the freak show.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:01 PM
-2

"Then when they settle into a relationship with a guy who is actually their equal, they resent him, treat him like shit, and make him jump through hoops" No they don't. Where are you getting all this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:58 PM
-1

Most adults are in relationships, and most adults are average. I don't see any veins bursting here. You're math is incorrect that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:57 PM
5

No one has ever said the OK Cupid thing was promoting violence. They're saying it's junk science, because it is, and that's why it's never been replicated. The whole thing can be thrown out because so few women even use online dating which means it's an insufficient sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:55 PM
1

Well damn. I'll have to get me some Tesla stock.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:13 PM
-6

Being ignored is a privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:11 PM
1

You just described my life at your age. Average girls don't stand out, so they get overlooked a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:10 PM
7

I'm mid 30's and 18 year olds look like babies to me. Maybe part of it is that I joined the military way too old, and had to train with these kids. I can't stand them LOL! Like, this guy wants an immature brat who can't be reasoned with on an adult level and will constantly play games and make his life hell. Maybe that's what he means by "fun".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:04 PM
1

And that's a good thing. Naive young relationships are disasters waiting to happen. Being with someone who has experience and truly knows what they want may be less exciting but that's the love that lasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:00 PM
0

Women are more forgiving of that than you think. Just be honest and say you haven't had a lot of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:46 PM
6

I'm in the same boat. Rejection sucks. Being with someone who does not, and can not ever respect you is worse. I'm enjoying being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:46 PM
0

Nobody making six figures has time to be on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:39 PM
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The real reason: Because they can. These men are sexual opportunists, and young women are naive. These men don't marry these young women, they just use them and waste their precious young years. Then they discard them when they're done.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:40 PM
1

Men are acting more and more like women these days
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:11 PM
1

We're not talking about men not doing diapers, we're talking about: "That man was a bully, frequently an alcoholic who neglected his home and his family in favor of working 40 hours and fucking off for the duration of his evenings and weekends while his wife waited on him hand and foot and raised the children alone." To say that all men, or even most men in the past were like that is absurd and insulting to our ancestors.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:25 PM
1

I don't know anyone with a father like that. Sounds like your family has issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:14 PM
0

I'm not talking about boomers. "Golden Age" as you put it is before them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:12 PM
-3

You're describing Rooster Cogburn, a loner archetype. Real men in the past were super broody, protective and loving of women and children that were not their own. Think Lois and Clark. That's how males were raised back then, partly as a result of bigger and more close-knit families. Yeah, men are not like that now!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:50 AM
2

Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:17 AM
-1

If men existed in the same variety back then we couldn't be so advanced now. Men are getting weaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:16 AM
1

Not all public spaces are appropriate for chatting people up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:37 AM
3

I've observed that with guys too. And with cats LOL! Same-sex roomies end up competing for territory rather than complimenting each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:32 AM
9

For me personally? Specific traits don't matter as long as he's clean and not a serial killer. The rest depends on how depressed I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:27 AM
3

Men in the past didn't have to "self improve" because their fathers, family, society, the tribe, church, military, male-only spaces, etc. formed them into proper men. Modern men almost completely lack that guidance. Women's requirements haven't changed much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:21 AM
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