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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	wife responded with nukes		Longwaytogo11111	/r/askMRP	13/04/17 07:28 AM

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1	wife responded with nukes And the first time a wife ever pulls that shit, you tell her immediately that that's her one. If she ever says the D word again, it had better fucking be with papers in her hand for you to sign, or you'll go get a set of papers for her. I used this last month, when she started again the next night. Thanks. It shut her up then and since. Really called her on that shit.	/r/askMRP	19/05/17 01:27 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - May 16, 2017 In short, she's trying to convince me that the sky will fall on my head if i don't get in her frame, but when I was in her frame the sky did fall on my head so that's why I'm not there any more. Meanwhile my relationship has improved due to me not being in her frame.	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/05/17 01:24 AM
1	wife responded with nukes Well i done fucked up all round. She baited a conversation by wearing fuck me clothes to bed then rejecting me. I half assed some alpha fuck but in a house full of kids who may or may not be asleep i fucking failed to just force myself on her although she was joking about calling rape and laughing at me while on top of her. so yeah i said we have to talk. oh you've finally realised. So i sat her down today and told her i'm improving myself and not looking to anyone else for validation. She focus…	/r/askMRP	14/04/17 02:51 PM
1	wife responded with nukes Thanks - will do. Yes she wants me afraid, i wasn't, she's presumably rattled. I did tell her she was over-reacting and to calm down. Not sure ever suggesting that a wife calm down is ever sensible. Mine did not calm down. "Do not tell me what to feel" i got.. which was ironic because she seemed to want me to make her feel better by telling her i was sorry and get her back up on the pedestal. I just went to sleep. Yes i'm being manipulated, that's why it rankles when i'm asked to do shitty unece…	/r/askMRP	13/04/17 09:02 PM
2	wife responded with nukes If she ever says the D word again, it had better fucking be with papers in her hand for you to sign, or you'll go get a set of papers for her. I chose not to respond, she was just trying to provoke me after all. It was late, i long ago learned never to argue late at night. But i was shocked. I'll make it clear she's not to do it again once i learn whether or not she's going to push the button while i go about my business.	/r/askMRP	13/04/17 08:53 PM
1	wife responded with nukes Thanks - will see how it goes. Taking control of my own happiness, judging myself harshly and not being defined by validation, taking less responsiblity for the emotional wellbeing of my wife - it's all quite new to me. I've been both manipulated and a manipulator, i've lived by devious hidden contracts. enough... time i grew up. It is up to OP to be valuable and have a frame worth living in. well things moved from 0 to 100mph a bit fast for me to have a frame fully built! I'm on like 6 weeks of…	/r/askMRP	13/04/17 08:38 PM
2	wife responded with nukes Yes, can confirm :)	/r/askMRP	13/04/17 08:30 PM
3	wife responded with nukes Thanks - yes i was an ass i sounded like one of the kids. Bleating is not becoming. I half bleated then stfu. i don't think i quite red pill rambo'd but sure it was not good. either do it while planning how to handle next time or don't do it next time. but still, the divorce papers was a bit of a surprise - they've come up before over the years so i just rolled with it, while thinking wtf all this from the slipper incident, last week you were saying you love me.	/r/askMRP	13/04/17 08:26 PM
1	wife responded with nukes it's more about trying to be fair to her - if she suddenly started lifting every day, bought new clothes, good haircut, went out with friends "i'm just going out" i'd be scared and angry. but me not knowing what i'm doing other than lifting and some assertiveness and presentation related improvements while having some new insight into 'shit tests' i'm not yet able to sit her down and tell her. Especially with the anger she's showing. once things settle down i'll say i'm basically just stopped im…	/r/askMRP	13/04/17 08:22 PM
1	wife responded with nukes not too much tbh. keep lifting every day. i went to hold her hand on a walk earlier, she moved away i asked if she was going to deny us hand holding too in a jokey way. then later i held her hand again she made a fist but i held on and she relaxed for a normal hand hold. wanted to give her some comfort. then i went and got an expensive haircut which i haven't had in 10 years and didn't ask her what she thought of it because i'm the judge of me. the kids all loved it. oh and i cooked for the whol…	/r/askMRP	13/04/17 08:13 PM
1	wife responded with nukes i'm ignoring it.. don't need to get sucked into whatever her problem is. i'd taken wedding ring off due to lifting, maybe that rattled her along with me not fixing her feelz by begging forgiveness. she detected she off the pedestal amazingly fast, if that's true for most beginners please think about giving a warning in the total noob guides, i'd read a bit from the sidebar but nothing that prepared me for shit test extremes. i'm doing ok, i think, so far. just staying confident	/r/askMRP	13/04/17 08:09 PM
1	wife responded with nukes thanks	/r/askMRP	13/04/17 08:05 PM
1	wife responded with nukes well it was only slippers and only over the back, but i have had worse tbh :/ it was the anger that was the big deal i'd have had no issue if she was just joking around. so i told her not acceptable and left the house. One of the kids was around.	/r/askMRP	13/04/17 08:05 PM