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1	Is being too handsome/jacked to be approachable a thing? It is but is minimal and easy to overcome. I think something more problematic is if you are more "evolved"? or mature or something. For example a messy girl might interpret something normal and confident as hostile. Is like telling a girl "let's go to the gym and work out" just because you think that would be a good thing to do, but someone that is at a lower developmental level might think you are trying to hurt them/insult them, while in reality that didn't even occurred to you. Is like that b…	/r/seduction	20/08/26 06:31 AM
1	Truth about cold approaches exactly haha Also the point is that you are attractive if you are relaxed, so the whole point is to practice being cool in the interaction, that is what gets you the results, it doesn't matter if you get dates, the results will come from your performance in the date or interaction. So the valuable thing is to practice being cool and relaxed and happy and outgoing in the cold approach. Women will try to trick you into being in you head and self limit yourself, they try to make it a high pressure …	/r/seduction	20/08/26 06:25 AM
2	What If the Gym, Money and All That Still Don't Get You a Relationship? Those things are like having health, they just allow you to do things, so they are important but is not what women are attracted to. People need to think of the actual interaction, imagine being in front of a very cute girl and being shy and nervous, is not going to be attractive, and the number in your bank account won't affect YOU, how you react and behave. Women are attracted to how free are you in the interaction, is a spectrum, on one hand you are in your head doing self monitoring and self…	/r/seduction	20/08/26 12:49 AM
2	Be the Value Giver Is always confusing what is value for women	/r/seduction	20/08/26 12:40 AM

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